Hey Brendan,. Saw this video years ago and thanks for sharing and inspiring others. So how are you, did you go to college, working, surviving COVID Ok? A life update would be cool. You were doing theater I believe and hope that paned out for you! Hope you are well, happy, and still have your family connections! Take care!
your very figity. Sit still, lol. I"m glad you have the support, your best friend sounds wonderful and I'm happy your father showed you his love. Congrats and love life.
I'm happy for you that your family is so accepting. Many parents do take awhile to reach full acceptance for a variety of reasons. One of them being the loss of their expectations for your future. It can really help if they know you have positive role models like Ricky Martin, Neil Patrick Harris, and the many others who have succeeded in life. Even if you don't like their music or career consider the way they conducted their private life. Now that we can point to other gay people who have had a measure of success in life I think that makes it easier. Many of the parents to object and refuse to accept do so for religious reasons. Those seem to be the hardest to live with. Were there any indicators before you came out that your parents would be accepting? What church if any do they go to? One of the things I'd like to do is figure out a way for kids to assess when it is safe for them to come out. If you've watched many coming out videos you'll see that it does not go well in some families. Some kids are even thrown out of the family and face life threatening situations living on the streets. I want to find a way to avoid these destructive family reactions and help kids who are cast out. Thank your parents for accepting you for who you are because that allows you to be honest with them. I delayed coming out to my parents because they are religious conservatives. In fact my dad is a preacher. So I waited until I was out of their house and living independently. I hope you have enough of all the things you need for a happy life.
Wow, I really do hope that you kept that extraordinary ease in your life! Amazing, you are charming, open and friendly. It’s contagious! Best wishes from Germany Martin
Hi Brendan, you're clearly a wise and strong guy (though a better taste for music might be a 'growing point'... sorry hahaha). I trust you're in a good place these days, and I thank you for your couragous and sincere contribution of some years ago to a more tolerant and less ignorant and judgemental world. I think your honesty is really strong, and your story very authentic and recognisable, a breath of fresh air in a sometimes really sick and insensitive and unsincere macho world. You just go, my younger gay brother, you will surely find the love you deserve. I don't care what you believe, but never let them make you forget to believe in yourself first! Cause you know what and who you are, and yóu know better! Yés you do !!! With thanks, respect and love, Robert, Netherlands
I want you to know that I don’t like music in the background when you are trying to make a video and I want you to know that because nothing against you don’t get me wrong I just want you to understand that but if you do make an order coming out video time the full story maybe I’ll give you another try I want you to know that I want you to make another video about this note with music with this one here I couldn’t understand you I am saying this for you to make a new coming out story to tell you the full story without a six minute version of it I want to know you as a person growing up and where you are now with it so I hope that you can forgive me for saying all this to you
This was a great coming out story I'm glad everything turned out good for you I wish you all the best
Great coming out story! And yes I have to watch it 2 times cause I got distracted by Lady Gaga's music! Yass to Gaga! x
Hey Brendan,. Saw this video years ago and thanks for sharing and inspiring others. So how are you, did you go to college, working, surviving COVID Ok? A life update would be cool. You were doing theater I believe and hope that paned out for you! Hope you are well, happy, and still have your family connections! Take care!
Interisting fact all the coming out histories took about 7 min to be recorded. Thank you Brendan for sharing!
your very figity. Sit still, lol. I"m glad you have the support, your best friend sounds wonderful and I'm happy your father showed you his love. Congrats and love life.
Im so glad this game up on my CZcams, I remember the first time I watched this how cool. I hope you are doing well in life
I'm happy for you that your family is so accepting. Many parents do take awhile to reach full acceptance for a variety of reasons. One of them being the loss of their expectations for your future. It can really help if they know you have positive role models like Ricky Martin, Neil Patrick Harris, and the many others who have succeeded in life. Even if you don't like their music or career consider the way they conducted their private life. Now that we can point to other gay people who have had a measure of success in life I think that makes it easier.
Many of the parents to object and refuse to accept do so for religious reasons. Those seem to be the hardest to live with. Were there any indicators before you came out that your parents would be accepting? What church if any do they go to? One of the things I'd like to do is figure out a way for kids to assess when it is safe for them to come out. If you've watched many coming out videos you'll see that it does not go well in some families. Some kids are even thrown out of the family and face life threatening situations living on the streets. I want to find a way to avoid these destructive family reactions and help kids who are cast out.
Thank your parents for accepting you for who you are because that allows you to be honest with them. I delayed coming out to my parents because they are religious conservatives. In fact my dad is a preacher. So I waited until I was out of their house and living independently. I hope you have enough of all the things you need for a happy life.
Love your story, please tho the music is too loud..... it is now May 2021 hope you are healthy and happy. Thanks for posting.
you should revive your CZcams channel. I remember watching you back in the day ☺️
Wow, I really do hope that you kept that extraordinary ease in your life! Amazing, you are charming, open and friendly. It’s contagious! Best wishes from Germany Martin
Big hug. You're adorable.
Congrat bro!... It need guts for coming out!... Bravo!... Ah .. you are cute!.. 🙊✌💕
Thanxs for your story, you are brave.
Hi Brendan, you're clearly a wise and strong guy (though a better taste for music might be a 'growing point'... sorry hahaha). I trust you're in a good place these days, and I thank you for your couragous and sincere contribution of some years ago to a more tolerant and less ignorant and judgemental world. I think your honesty is really strong, and your story very authentic and recognisable, a breath of fresh air in a sometimes really sick and insensitive and unsincere macho world. You just go, my younger gay brother, you will surely find the love you deserve. I don't care what you believe, but never let them make you forget to believe in yourself first! Cause you know what and who you are, and yóu know better! Yés you do !!! With thanks, respect and love, Robert, Netherlands
Would love if you posted an update...how you've grown into the man you are now.
Well done and wonderfully articulate! You were channeling Elon Musk, in a good way. Update?
ttsss amazing dude!!!
your Beautiful I'm sure you will have a happy life.
Back ground noise is killing me,, had to leave
I want you to know that I don’t like music in the background when you are trying to make a video and I want you to know that because nothing against you don’t get me wrong I just want you to understand that but if you do make an order coming out video time the full story maybe I’ll give you another try I want you to know that
I want you to make another video about this note with music with this one here I couldn’t understand you I am saying this for you to make a new coming out story to tell you the full story without a six minute version of it I want to know you as a person growing up and where you are now with it so I hope that you can forgive me for saying all this to you
Ur cute
OMG. Why the damn music.? I can't hear what the hell you saying. It's not clever, just very distracting.
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