Marrying in Japan vs Singapore
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- čas přidán 9. 11. 2020
- I had weddings both in Singapore and Japan so I made this comparison video. Marriage traditions and customs can be quite different in both countries. Watch till the end to find out some of the differences!
00:12 How to Report Engagement to In-laws
01:10 How to do "cheers" at wedding
01:34 Timing to get married
02:11 Ceremony before the wedding
04:33 Cost of Ang Bao
05:17 Wedding Style
06:45 Wedding Guests
07:13 Final Thoughts
My most memorable experience was preparing for Guo Da Li (As shown on 03:19). It's a Chinese tradition where the groom gives gifts such as pig trotters, alcohol, cash and mandarins to show respect and seek approval of marriage. In return, my parent in laws returned back some of the gifts, and also gave my wife and I golden rings. This is called Hui Li（回礼） and it's meant to share good fortune.
Having a Shinto-style wedding (called the Shinzen-shiki 神前式) in Japan was also memorable. It's the most traditional style of wedding in Japan but ironically, most Japanese couples prefer chapel-style weddings.
There are a lot of things I missed (like the Chinese tea-ceremony) so hopefully I can make a sequel someday! Thank you for watching. Please leave a like if you enjoyed!
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Omg the skit-like welcome from your in-laws were hilarious 😂😂 very interesting to learn the difference in marriage between Singapore and Japan..I guess it’s one of the topics that you can’t really see unless you or someone close to you gets married. Great content Ghib Ojisan!
"Skit like welcome" is because most Singaporeans don't even know what their cultural traditions are. It's all copied from various movies or tv shows they've seen. Gatecrashing is another example. Was first popularized by HK dramas, now Singaporeans call it a 'wedding tradition'.
I have been waiting for this topic 😃😃😃😃😃😃
Haha same here but ojisan is very funny
@@hikari443 haha yeah.. 😂
Hahaha 🤣 🤣
I still can't get used to a botak Ghib ossan....
日本とシンガポールの結婚式は、全然違って面白いですね！
ジブおじさんの演技、上達してますねぇ😄
We're getting married.
Wa! Congratulations, let's eat some Durain.
LOLOLOLOLOL!!!
You're genius.
I laugh when he gave the guo da li when he even lived with his inlaws :))
And I like how his in law willing to join in the fun. So spontaneous!
@@peace-Humanity_123. it's not a skit...it is his actual guo da li. but it was definitely enjoyable to watch
Haha every foreign youtuber in a foreign land do the same kind of videos like sharing food and culture. Yet yours is fun to watch coz of the skit and the singlish accent 🤣
I once read Japanese are born Shinto, grow up in Buddhism, and married like Christian 🤣
Shinto is a joke lmao you would think it has a problem after realising only one country practises it
没错
Long time no see skit. This is a pleasant surprise, n a funny one. The wig🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. N ang bao money $$$$, $400 bucks in Japan 😲😲🙈🙈!!
1:33 Ghib-san, you have to do 2 more yamsengs 😂
Haha and usually the syllybus is dragged waaaay longer than that
ナイス コント！
シンガポールのお父さんとお母さんの仲の良さが
伝わってきました。
比較することなんて、なかなか無いから興味深かったです。
ジブさん、芸達者ですね。
This is so funny. I have witnessed a Japanese wedding ceremony at a shrine when I was in Japan on holiday and it was so solemn and serious.
Yeah, considering it is a serious issue after all.
Very interesting and fun to learn. Funny skit dress ups too. Love them!
Wow nice video keep up the good work👍👍 ! I like the way you communicating to both Japanese and Singapore viewer like we are both connected via your channel 😃😉 . Nice work Ghib Ojisan 加油!looking forward for your next video ! From your "Yishun" supporter. 😁😁
I’ve missed your skits! They’re hilarious
Congrats Ghib san and love your videos so much!!!!!!
Why does the "Japanese" version of you look like you belong in Ace Attorney LOL was that intentional cosplay
OBJECTION!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@retrorider7521 HOLD IT!!!
Omg I thought I was the only one who thought that lol!
Also, OBJECTION!
TAKE THAT!!
Igiari/いぎあり
Interesting! Can you, show how a formal Japanese wedding is? Saw a wedding in a Japanese temple once, looked so cool and the traditional costumes are beautiful!
Thanks for sharing the really hilarious video! For the Singaporean chinese wedding part, it is pretty accurate to my personal knowledge. ;)
Thank you for making this video. Really like your videos.
Great video ! :) It brought a smile to my day !
This is hilarious and insightful at the same time! And that little blooper at 4:12 with the towel is priceless HAHAHA
0:27 that look is so One Punch Man 😂
Thanks for sharing your weddings with us 👍
Lol
This red packet is for you and you answered no no no
I immediately burst out the laughter
You are rejecting your in law blessings
Me too 😂😂🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
need to act humble first, then take.
That's so fun to watch! You made me laugh 😂 👍🏻
Very interesting comparisons. Thank you for sharing!
I thought wedding angbaos in Singapore were expensive...
and now I feel like ours feel too cheap...$400? really jeez
10/10 best vid yet forehead zoom
This is really funny but also interesting - thanks for making this video! 🤣
The gigs were great!!!!
Man the GuoDaLi part was the best HAHAHHA
hi! my partner is also from Osaka, residing here n these things that u brought up, they’re spot on 😂 not sure if you have done one - can u do any content on the cultural differences between jp-sgp couples? Curious if they might be similar lol
Wow. Thanks for sharing your precious wedding moments. Nice 👍
Thank you for sharing our Singaporean wedding practices to the world 👍
great content! Didn't expect to hear abroadinjapan video in the background haha
i think you shldn't have said generally in singapore, you pay for the cost of the seat. i think this only applies for chinese weddings because indian and malay weddings might be different!
He mentioned difference between Japan and singaporean chinese already, not singaporean weddings in general.
Loved this! I’ve learnt new things about Japanese wedding, nice. Haha.
Great video! It’s hilarious! 😂❤️
HAHAHA I had a good laugh GOOD ONE!
すごい面白かった！こういうの作るの上手いですね。一人芝居的な演技力でてる笑
My heart tells me he is Japanese but my eyes sees him as Singaporean...
or is it the other way round😂😍
Yes, we scout the cost of the tables at the venue before deciding how much to give in the red packet!
3:20 I can recognise that Crisp Rod voice from a mile away.
You mean christ broad
Gosh Ghib, i miss your short script videos. damn, nice shot!
Some Malaysian Chinese still follow the tradition of the tea ceremony for the engagement. In Japan it’s different ceremony but called Yuino.
Today many steps of these traditional ceremony are simplified in many cultures.
I love his CZcams because it’s fun, informative and educational.
なんだか凄い笑っちゃいました😚 両方の国で式を挙げられるなんて行動力が凄い！
きっと30年後も素敵な思い出として夫婦で話題に出来きますね。
私の両親(母:シンガポーリアン)もウン十年前に東京で神前式やったそうですが、本人含め母の家族はかなり気にいった上に貴重な経験が出来たみたいです。未だによく家族の話題になります。
Thank you for sharing with us your wedding clips and photos! It's indeed funny, the way you described the differences between 2 cultures. I feel that you suit Singapore culture and lifestyle. Perhaps you may like to do a video on how you met your wife, in a comical way if you like.
Erm, you look better with hair. Botak doesn't compliment your look. Haha!
Not ghib San at like 3:25 prepping wedding gifts with abroad in Japan in the back 😂😂
最初の日本のお父さんで大爆笑🤣
Yessss I don’t get inviting parents’ friends when the couple don’t even know them!
Very interesting comparison! otsukare!
結婚に関する比較動画は、後々貴重なものになるかもしれませんね。おふざけが結構入っていますが（笑）
他国の文化を知ることは、逆に日本の文化も知ることにつながり、色々勉強になりました。
ありがとうございます。
I was overwhelmed when I saw YamSeng style first time, but now I really like it!
そういえばコロナの影響で集まって飲む機会が無くなり、ヤムセン叫んでないことを思い出しました。あれは全員でやるとスカッとするので久しぶりに叫びたいです！
I think it's a good comparison for Sg Chinese weddings, but for Indian and Malay it's much more differently
So much formalities in Japan. I feel so tired having to listen to and watch how I conduct myself everytime, I can't imagine living like this.
Very nice 👍 thanks for sharing 😉
At a chinese wedding, people are unlikely to give cash that has any number to do with '4'. It 's considered inauspicious as it puns with 'si' in chinese meaning death or die.
It's like going through customs at a country while my entire family asked when will u get married 😂
Your video is really funny. 🤣
wow so ghib is an actor now
おめでとうございます！！
shouldn't have drank water while watching this
Congratulations ! Best wishes to both of u ! ❤️👍🎉
1:06 "wah! congratulation! let's eat some durian!" 🤣
Very funny content Ghib keep it up:)
日本式は冷静にみるとホント変だなって思いますね。と思いながらも日本式で頑張った日本人ですが笑。とても面白い動画でした！
Congratulations!
結婚おめでとうございます！
私も日本とシンガポールの結婚しましたですけど、いろいろのチャレンジでね、離婚しました。
永遠に幸せなように上げおります！
im shock for the chapel info! I thought japanese would prefer more of shinto (not sure if im right here?) weddings as its more of their religion. But i guess the look of a chapel is just more appealing with the white walls and windows etc x'D
日本の結婚のほうがとかくめんどくさいですよね。続編楽しみに待ってます。
In Japan, the angbao you give to newlyweds is expensive but you can "earn" it back when next time you get married and invite the same person, they will give you the same amount you gave them previously.
in SG, u are supposed to record down all the ang pow amount so u will give back the same if not more
Aiyoh... you miss out the task challenges by best men and bridesmaids before you get to meet your bride and the tea ceremony... anyway good work on the funny 😄 side of Ghib... it’s a fun video
The skits are back!!!!
Cool!
hahaha the part where a bunch of people you don't know turning up at the SG chinese wedding - thats damn true x'D
Wooo this is interesting!
Your guo da li is so simplified .The usual one comes with a lot of things, although most of the items are symbolic. Seems like you are missing the cakes for relatives.
Congratulations! welcome to our Singapore Family
The MIL has short hair last time. Camera woman was quite good when circling his head while he was in thinking action.
“We are getting married.”
“Congratulations! Let’s eat some durians!”
👆🏻This is definitely me when my future kids get married! 🤣 Shoutout to all the durian lovers out there!
私達は神殿結婚式しなかったけど和装の写真を撮りましたので主人がめちゃくちゃ喜びました。193cmの彼に合う袴を探すのが大変でしたけど…😂アメリカでも白無垢の写真はみんなに羨ましがられますね。
I get the part about cosplaying, I'd like that too !
Suit jacket + shorts = Reiwa era vibes
I believe ur wife is very happy I wish I could see her wedding photos
Wah although i wish we could see more of your japanese wedding foto but it was very nice ghib..please let your wifey know. 🤩🤩🤩🤩
Here in sg is much simple because many things are different from our parents era. I remembered my dad never even said much when i told him i decided to marry. 😅
7:59 Nice natural smile and handsome Ghib in suit.
Yeah, that's a fantastic, classic pic. They would always look at it and recapture the feeling at the time it was taken. It's magic in a frame.
国によって全然違うのが面白いですね。私には結婚なんてのは縁のない事ですがｗｗｗ
You forgot the part whereby in Singapore, right after dessert everyone's rushing off like even without finishing the dessert sometimes. How is it like in Japan?
hahahahah You're getting better at this, This was hilarious
So any reason why the standard 30k yen for angpaos for Japan weddings? I guess it's not to cover the self dinner cost like SG so it's per person? Meaning if a couple attending needs to give 60k yen Angpao?
Great video😂
3:20 chris broad from abroad in japan!!!!
Holy shit! That guy really sounds like Chris! (or it's actually him)
@@fadhilnugraha195 yep its chris
"So easy can meh?" .........haha!
Congratulations bro 😎👍
言い忘れたわ〜サムネが素敵すぎる❤️
白無垢に👗憧れますわ〜奥さまベッピン確定❣️
私はブッダと結婚したのでオレンジ色を纏った坊さんに囲まれ寺での挙式（笑）
今となればいい思い出ですが…女子からしたらやはりせめてドレス着たかったよー
Traditional Chinese hakka wedding has many rituals too
So the grim dad in Japan came to Singapore and became a Singaporean son-in-law
I suggest for you to change your clothes so that we can differentiate the characters easily
0:15 ! The famous Staircase from the animation at Suga Shrine in Yotsuya
Hey! That's the famous staircase from kimi no nawa at yotsuya!!
神前式良いですね〜素敵✨
パーティー嫌いな自分は、アメリカ人の夫と2人で市役所に行って宣誓？しただけです😅
キリスト教徒じゃない人がチャペルで式を挙げる意味は確かに分かりませんが、それこそコスプレ感覚？😅
海外の人が神前式や白無垢に憧れて適当に真似してても文句は言えませんねw
教会での式もそれなりに決まりとか順序とか色々あるんですよね。
人の式に何度か参加しましたが、立ったり座ったり周りの人と握手したり、訳がわからないまま周囲の人の真似をしてました。