In my opinion, this is a self inflicted pain. And her parents didn't try at all. They shouldn't have allowed her to return after the lost of her first child.
Lady you are very lucky your head doesn't harbor evil. The truth is that the father in law has used his son that's why your baby daddy is a never do well still living in his father's house years after you left. Pls keep up training your children he has been used no good can come from him. Even the father in law can't be trusted he's only pretending knowing your children will be successful in life, having escaped his diabolical ways. He will answer when the children become successful. Pls pray very well so you will not be displaced when you should be enjoying the fruit of your labour. God is with you my dear
I don’t like to judge people 😢but the main issue here is this woman parents how on earth will you allow your daughter to be treated this way 😮😮it is well 😮
I haven’t gone into this story but this should be a lesson for women. The death of the first child was a sign for you to leave!!! Period. Also parent should advise their children and support them to take right decisions. All around you is full of signs…. Have mercy on women o.🙌
Dr.Biola , I wanto sincerly appreciate this for this programme.This woman is every lenient with the man and she is a very good woman.I can assure you the man will face it later ,the children will show him small.
This goes beyond stupidity. Sorry u lost your first child due to maltreatment but u went back for more even though u weren’t married. Pls don’t blame the supernatural
Some stories are just annoying You open eyes Dey suffer urself Even with dat first red flags 🚩 better red flags with all the beauty you still went back to beaten Well it’s ur choice mutweeee
I pray you not die without eating all the fruit of your labor,the children will show him shage,i mean sheage olorun gbo. I am a living testimony, even tho i lost my mum,he dy suffer for all what e did.hissss madam face your children
The story looks like self inflicted pain but it’s not. It would have been if she knew better but she didn’t. All that happened is a product of her mindset. There’s absolutely nothing spiritual in all that happened , apologies but she is small minded and you can tell it’s a result of her upbringing, the reaction of her parents all through the situation. I was also small minded up until last year but I put in a daily work such as listening to messages to unlearn and become better. Ma what you can do for yourself is own up to your mistakes (this was the first step I took) and resolve you want to do better with yourself, I actually see in you that you have the capability to do better, you tried resisting at some point but it’s all a function of your mind. Please do the work and God will help you. Stay away from their family as well, the children actually don’t need to associate with their family, it will damage them than it will do good. If you love your children, keep them away from their FATHER and his family.
I am so sorry to say this, is she okay at all. She should forget about the father her children and his family. Move on with your life and your children, God will see you through. Don't even allow your children to have anything to do with their father and his family. Is like the father is using the father of your children for a spiritual purpose. The whole family needs deliverance.
Ladies, wake up, any form of abuse is abuse, both mentally and physically. This relationship was doom from the beginning.The guy and his family have no respect for this lady. Imagine all the nonsense she put up with. Thank God for your life that you are able to tell the story. God bless you and your children.
Young ladies should first empower themselves financially i.e get education, learn trade etc before getting married or getting a man to impregnate you without even paying ur dowry. Young ladies need to learn!
In my opinion, it's not a sin to find yourself in a wrong room but remaining there after realizing or finding out is not a right decision. Thank God you are alive to tell your story ma. May God continue to bless u and u shall reap d fruit of your labour ma.
She was still a young woman, at the time she got pregnant… she didn’t have a say at that time, she was just being abuse and manipulated…. It is well with her…
Hmmmmmm💔💔its well We learn everyday though.Yoruba will say Ina ishi ishi kinjoni ni twice😢buh its well,I guess all those stupid adviseee deserve a jail term coz.. Thank God she later choose peace and deside to stay on her own.God will bless u and ur kids.DR B🙌🙌🙌
Pls maam tell her to go to court , no matter what both parent must take responsibility of taking care of their children not only one sided, since both parent is alive
That is a dysfunctional family and obviously what the parents in law practice. This lady was young and didn’t have experience and no guidance from her mother unfortunately. A lot of women are in this situation because they have no economic independence or poor mentorship
My sister the lord will help you and see you through the journey of life, the lord will take care of your children. Please forget that man and his parents. It will be late for him when he will realize what he has done
This girl is not serious nobody should pity her at all . She went back to the same man and family in law despite the aforementioned? No she has no self values. They treated her the way she portrayed herself
If truly what you are saying as a woman, you've really tried and this man isn't ready to change anything. May Almighty God bless you to take good care of this children. Stop deceiving yourself this man won't take any responsibility
What's the moral of this story? Cos even if you had low self esteem, it seemed you had a family that could have removed you from that situation. You weren't married so what was the binding force? Why did you continue to stay? Your family even visited yet your father left you behind? Anyway, parents. Always give your children a aupportive and loving home so this wouldn't happen to them.
You saw the red flag, you just decided to ignore it. You inflicted yourself with a hard pains. Anyways, thank God you came out alive. Give thanks that you're alive to tell the story. He never loved you.
He should support children he obviously doesn’t love, woman just ex this man nd focus on your children, God has already supported you till now, he won’t leave you. He doesn’t worth you nor your children. It’s painful you just allowed yourself go through so much when you should have left. Buh God knows best, you obviously love him more than he loves you.
In my own opinion, I'll suggest she face her business squarely to be able to take good care of those children, For you to be able to take care of those children till this level,I must really commend you ma..you don't need his responsibility at all for now...All you need is support in your business or anything you're doing to take care of them.. Then the children and their Dad will have to talk about it in future.. They're old enough to see everything going on,and I also know they're quite intelligent too....I rest my case,just my opinion though
Nawa oh, make i know comment because e be like say some women love suffering! There are some stories that when I listen to on podcast this channel that make me cry and I feel goose bumps all over me but this particular story I did not feel any empathy because she should have left immediately when she lost her 1st child especially when you are not married. I am even angry because this is self inflicted and you are educated for that matter , it is paining me on your behalf.Fuck those who are counting and saying that you should stay in a abusive relationship, hypocrites will always look for people to join them.
Madam you did not leave early enough,however why are you forcing yourself on pple that do not love you,pray that God help you to take care of your childrem,when they grow up they will know the type of father and grandfather they have,until you take ur stand on this.
O ma se o. I believe people who give wrong counsel, misleading advice deserve jail time 🤬 Just because a mistake was made doesn’t mean one should continue in that error. Oyinbo to se pencil also added eraser, e get why 😏
Infact l don't understand why some women subject themselves to unnecessary suffering. Why would you go back to that house especially when you lost your first child O ga o!
Hmm these life is a lesson on it own but ma if you’re seeing this, please advice her to report the man to human rights if the man is not doing his responsibility on his children let the government fight for her or better still make the man gbe enu si mic 🎤 ni agidigbo 😂😂 @talk to b
This is pathetic, imagine the father inlaw is a pastor, what is he preaching to his congregations. Madam keep on praying for good health and wealth olus long life so you and ur children can have more testimony to share. ❤❤❤❤
Sad u lost ur first child in that cruel place, parents rise up and take your place in the life of your children, forcefully remove the child from such abusive marriage,by ALL means .God will heal you and the curses will be broken in the lives of your children in Jesus name.
My sister is better you move on and forget about that family. God has been so faithful to you and your children, they are not ready to assist at all. Face your job
You are just giving yourself unnecessary stress because the man did not pay your dowry, your father is the owner of those children, so stop disturbing yourself, until he comes to pay your dowry , that is when he can take the ownership of the children. God will help you to take care of them.
This Is looking weird,is cleared they didn't want anything doing with you,why can't you let go off them Very Very soon he will cry in need of d children,who tell you that the children will need him in future You sow good definitely sooner then you expect you reap the fruit of your labour
I can’t wrap my head around your story sis. This is so confusing, but all I could see is that you never believed in yourself added with maybe some spiritual problems.
Pls woman you need to be more strong, I will just advise you should forget about the man and the family, your children as seen it all, Atleast if he's dead you will surely live with your children, he's not doing anything seens the beginning and you expect him to do now. So help you God.
Hmmm sis some women do not want to birth children for different father. Am in the same both but I respect myself after God blessed me with two beautiful kids I zip up ni ooo
They are separated now and we the children where the one who took her out of the house before she die oo People are going through a lot all in the name of marriage . My mother will say she can't leave her children but we thank God that she's alive 🙏
Sis b I love everything about you, am a big fans of yours I love everything about your podcast it as change many things ma, but all this pupil coming out saying there mind please ma is true oooo many pupil battle this kind of a thing many years you can compare now and then, there's nothing like this then even so are still inside this battle up till now but they don't have anything too do wit internet, back then if you leave your husband house oh God some parent will not take them back or some don't have good parents
Irrespective Let her take their father to Justice court to take responsibility of his children It will be documented and justice will be passed Becos the children will still ask for their father.. Pls let him take responsibility
The Man is not ready to take up any responsibility Face your children, they won't even think of him as their father on the long run,to me as of you want to go back to him if they come begging,Pls don't try that God is o. Your side that is why you are Looking good and they are envying you,Their daughters would meet their match in their home considering what they did to you
Abeg make una no beg the man she can't come to the show and say all of this against the father of her children and this woman really loved this man she was ready to be there with him no matter what
I don’t want to sound insensitive but this woman had enough experience with the late first child and still went back to have more kids for the same beast and family 😩🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Many years ago many women died of depression, beating, bruise all over there body now there's investigation thank God they are coming out too spill it out, any woman that want too marry should be careful mostly leaving with husband family Ah 😌
Please my advice to U is leave that man and his family. God that has been helping u with those kids will continually help u with all u need to cater for them. They are not good for Ur children pls avoid them and also the children are grown and they see everything. U will enjoy Ur work over them in Jesus name and I can tell u he and his family will regret it and come back to beg with tears in their eyes. Shalom
He couldn't take care of himself, talk less of taking care of 3 children. You married him wipe omo olowo ni until you got there. This man is still ngba owo ounje ,stealing his mum 's money to buy weeds. What magic are you expecting? Any way I congratulate you for coming out alive.
God presented her with an escape route with the death of that first child but she stubbornly and ignorantly stayed there. Madam, stop asking him to take responsibilities for the kids. God has helped you thus far and He will continue to do so. Face your children
In my opinion, this is a self inflicted pain. And her parents didn't try at all. They shouldn't have allowed her to return after the lost of her first child.
Exactly most of parents failed their children
U r 💯 correct..self inflicted pain...nd this mostly happen to girls with no relative but in her case she have parent that are involve in her life
Thanks for helping compose the cpnment....cos what is this??????host gan is tired
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Exactly my take.
She didn't try for herself. After that first child died that was her escape route.
I wonder oo some people are the course of their problems
Lady you are very lucky your head doesn't harbor evil. The truth is that the father in law has used his son that's why your baby daddy is a never do well still living in his father's house years after you left. Pls keep up training your children he has been used no good can come from him. Even the father in law can't be trusted he's only pretending knowing your children will be successful in life, having escaped his diabolical ways. He will answer when the children become successful. Pls pray very well so you will not be displaced when you should be enjoying the fruit of your labour. God is with you my dear
Your head correct 👍👍
I don’t like to judge people 😢but the main issue here is this woman parents how on earth will you allow your daughter to be treated this way 😮😮it is well 😮
Madam God will continue to bless you, continue to taking care of your children, you will reap the fruit of your labour
I haven’t gone into this story but this should be a lesson for women. The death of the first child was a sign for you to leave!!! Period. Also parent should advise their children and support them to take right decisions. All around you is full of signs…. Have mercy on women o.🙌
There were a lot of red flags from the beginning.
Yes
This is a lesson to all mothers, teach your girls to be self-sufficient. Dont keep up with a monster
Dr.Biola , I wanto sincerly appreciate this for this programme.This woman is every lenient with the man and she is a very good woman.I can assure you the man will face it later ,the children will show him small.
Honestly this woman is so gentle ,why calling him again .A irresponsible father wil always be irresponsible
This goes beyond stupidity. Sorry u lost your first child due to maltreatment but u went back for more even though u weren’t married. Pls don’t blame the supernatural
That's because you've never been abused before
It's manipulations,he's a narcissist plus nonsense advices too
God will continue to strengthen you,you will reap all you labor on
Some stories are just annoying
You open eyes Dey suffer urself
Even with dat first red flags 🚩 better red flags with all the beauty you still went back to beaten Well it’s ur choice mutweeee
Mama you’re a queen 🫅 and you deserve the very best. May you reap the fruits of your labour Insha Allah. Sending you a lots of love❤
You are such a strong woman 😢, God will raise help for you in Jesus name
I’m now A big fan of this show😊 I’ve learnt a lot here.God bless you sis Abiola
I pray you not die without eating all the fruit of your labor,the children will show him shage,i mean sheage olorun gbo.
I am a living testimony, even tho i lost my mum,he dy suffer for all what e did.hissss madam face your children
The story looks like self inflicted pain but it’s not. It would have been if she knew better but she didn’t. All that happened is a product of her mindset. There’s absolutely nothing spiritual in all that happened , apologies but she is small minded and you can tell it’s a result of her upbringing, the reaction of her parents all through the situation. I was also small minded up until last year but I put in a daily work such as listening to messages to unlearn and become better. Ma what you can do for yourself is own up to your mistakes (this was the first step I took) and resolve you want to do better with yourself, I actually see in you that you have the capability to do better, you tried resisting at some point but it’s all a function of your mind. Please do the work and God will help you. Stay away from their family as well, the children actually don’t need to associate with their family, it will damage them than it will do good. If you love your children, keep them away from their FATHER and his family.
Abi ooooo 💔💔🤦🤦
If you leave a man you will surely marry another man who care who is counting. Be grateful that you came out of there alive
Let them count o. It sharpens their Numeracy skills.
I am so sorry to say this, is she okay at all. She should forget about the father her children and his family. Move on with your life and your children, God will see you through. Don't even allow your children to have anything to do with their father and his family. Is like the father is using the father of your children for a spiritual purpose. The whole family needs deliverance.
Aunty, as far as i am concerned the guy is dead.Face your life, take care of your kids. Move on!
Ma, please let her go to Justice court in Lagos Judge Funmi will call him or go to Oriyomi Hamzat in Ibadan ma
God Bless You Ma ❤❤. Dedicated Niffy from Instagram here for my mama 🥰
Ladies, wake up, any form of abuse is abuse, both mentally and physically. This relationship was doom from the beginning.The guy and his family have no respect for this lady. Imagine all the nonsense she put up with. Thank God for your life that you are able to tell the story. God bless you and your children.
I tell you
Young ladies should first empower themselves financially i.e get education, learn trade etc before getting married or getting a man to impregnate you without even paying ur dowry. Young ladies need to learn!
Coming from a good family is so underrated 😊
In my opinion, it's not a sin to find yourself in a wrong room but remaining there after realizing or finding out is not a right decision.
Thank God you are alive to tell your story ma.
May God continue to bless u and u shall reap d fruit of your labour ma.
The Grandad know what he has done to his son. He see you has destiny saviour.
I'm sure the man's parents wouldn't even love her children since they don't even love their mother.
She was still a young woman, at the time she got pregnant… she didn’t have a say at that time, she was just being abuse and manipulated…. It is well with her…
Hmmmmmm💔💔its well
We learn everyday though.Yoruba will say Ina ishi ishi kinjoni ni twice😢buh its well,I guess all those stupid adviseee deserve a jail term coz..
Thank God she later choose peace and deside to stay on her own.God will bless u and ur kids.DR B🙌🙌🙌
This woman is truly not wise, why are you still communicating with his family
I'm forced to believe that the boy's parents are directly responsible for his actions.
Pls maam tell her to go to court , no matter what both parent must take responsibility of taking care of their children not only one sided, since both parent is alive
That is a dysfunctional family and obviously what the parents in law practice. This lady was young and didn’t have experience and no guidance from her mother unfortunately. A lot of women are in this situation because they have no economic independence or poor mentorship
My sister the lord will help you and see you through the journey of life, the lord will take care of your children. Please forget that man and his parents. It will be late for him when he will realize what he has done
This girl is not serious nobody should pity her at all . She went back to the same man and family in law despite the aforementioned? No she has no self values. They treated her the way she portrayed herself
If truly what you are saying as a woman, you've really tried and this man isn't ready to change anything.
May Almighty God bless you to take good care of this children.
Stop deceiving yourself this man won't take any responsibility
It's a course if someone married to a man in his parents house don't ever accept that nonsense
May God grant our children wisdom 😢
Na werey people self dey go to the church
I dey reason say na all those ayika church people
Honestly
What's the moral of this story? Cos even if you had low self esteem, it seemed you had a family that could have removed you from that situation. You weren't married so what was the binding force? Why did you continue to stay? Your family even visited yet your father left you behind? Anyway, parents. Always give your children a aupportive and loving home so this wouldn't happen to them.
You saw the red flag, you just decided to ignore it. You inflicted yourself with a hard pains.
Anyways, thank God you came out alive. Give thanks that you're alive to tell the story. He never loved you.
She said all the lord almighty will help her with her three children in jesus name amen lovely speech
He should support children he obviously doesn’t love, woman just ex this man nd focus on your children, God has already supported you till now, he won’t leave you. He doesn’t worth you nor your children. It’s painful you just allowed yourself go through so much when you should have left. Buh God knows best, you obviously love him more than he loves you.
He didn't love her at all
In my own opinion, I'll suggest she face her business squarely to be able to take good care of those children, For you to be able to take care of those children till this level,I must really commend you ma..you don't need his responsibility at all for now...All you need is support in your business or anything you're doing to take care of them..
Then the children and their Dad will have to talk about it in future.. They're old enough to see everything going on,and I also know they're quite intelligent too....I rest my case,just my opinion though
Nawa oh, make i know comment because e be like say some women love suffering! There are some stories that when I listen to on podcast this channel that make me cry and I feel goose bumps all over me but this particular story I did not feel any empathy because she should have left immediately when she lost her 1st child especially when you are not married. I am even angry because this is self inflicted and you are educated for that matter , it is paining me on your behalf.Fuck those who are counting and saying that you should stay in a abusive relationship, hypocrites will always look for people to join them.
Madam you did not leave early enough,however why are you forcing yourself on pple that do not love you,pray that God help you to take care of your childrem,when they grow up they will know the type of father and grandfather they have,until you take ur stand on this.
O ma se o. I believe people who give wrong counsel, misleading advice deserve jail time 🤬 Just because a mistake was made doesn’t mean one should continue in that error. Oyinbo to se pencil also added eraser, e get why 😏
Have been waiting for you to post it God bless you ma
Why was she so stupid and stubborn just because of marriage. With her story, she had a very good mother.
Did you say marriage!!!! Who married her??? I sensed stupidity in her case but I don't know why her mum didn't save her
He's not your husband since he didn't pay your dowry
U dey mad,,shut up ur dirty mouth and thank God for ur own
Moral of this story, dont get married when u have no career or job.
Another story to learn from
Infact l don't understand why some women subject themselves to unnecessary suffering.
Why would you go back to that house especially when you lost your first child
O ga o!
The man's parent failed to raise a proper child. Imagine him not being responsible till now. Men like this still exist for sure
I love your dress Talk to B.and your wisdom.❤
Hmm these life is a lesson on it own but ma if you’re seeing this, please advice her to report the man to human rights if the man is not doing his responsibility on his children let the government fight for her or better still make the man gbe enu si mic 🎤 ni agidigbo 😂😂 @talk to b
This is pathetic, imagine the father inlaw is a pastor, what is he preaching to his congregations.
Madam keep on praying for good health and wealth olus long life so you and ur children can have more testimony to share.
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It appears that she was loved by her parents, yet she willingly navigated towards an abusive man. I'm trying to make sense of that 😢
Over gentleness is bad and I don't think this is love
Almighty God will bless you for your children's 🙏💕
My sister forgot the family and take care of your children.
According to her she was a young girl when she married and she stick to the advice given to her
Sad u lost ur first child in that cruel place, parents rise up and take your place in the life of your children, forcefully remove the child from such abusive marriage,by ALL means .God will heal you and the curses will be broken in the lives of your children in Jesus name.
I stop giving birth once I know that my husband impregnates another lady to focus on my life and the children future.
I won’t blame her she was just young then and they might be diabolic
My sister is better you move on and forget about that family. God has been so faithful to you and your children, they are not ready to assist at all. Face your job
You are just giving yourself unnecessary stress because the man did not pay your dowry, your father is the owner of those children, so stop disturbing yourself, until he comes to pay your dowry , that is when he can take the ownership of the children. God will help you to take care of them.
God knows why most Inlaw are always werey in disguise, Olorun majeki amu wrong choice🙏🙏
This Is looking weird,is cleared they didn't want anything doing with you,why can't you let go off them
Very Very soon he will cry in need of d children,who tell you that the children will need him in future
You sow good definitely sooner then you expect you reap the fruit of your labour
You go dey bring people wey go dey make people cry
Atleast, we are learning
@@oladimejiajoke6141 yes oo I love the show
I can’t wrap my head around your story sis. This is so confusing, but all I could see is that you never believed in yourself added with maybe some spiritual problems.
Pls woman you need to be more strong, I will just advise you should forget about the man and the family, your children as seen it all, Atleast if he's dead you will surely live with your children, he's not doing anything seens the beginning and you expect him to do now. So help you God.
4 kids in a place u were not wanted! I find that difficult to comprehend!
Hmmm sis some women do not want to birth children for different father. Am in the same both but I respect myself after God blessed me with two beautiful kids I zip up ni ooo
Ma, my mother had 6 of us and she passed through more than what this woman passed through She stayed for more than 30yrs in the marriage
They are separated now and we the children where the one who took her out of the house before she die oo
People are going through a lot all in the name of marriage .
My mother will say she can't leave her children but we thank God that she's alive 🙏
Sis b I love everything about you, am a big fans of yours I love everything about your podcast it as change many things ma, but all this pupil coming out saying there mind please ma is true oooo many pupil battle this kind of a thing many years you can compare now and then, there's nothing like this then even so are still inside this battle up till now but they don't have anything too do wit internet, back then if you leave your husband house oh God some parent will not take them back or some don't have good parents
My own is can we know this family and the church please. Other people’s children need to avoid the family.
Irrespective Let her take their father to Justice court to take responsibility of his children
It will be documented and justice will be passed
Becos the children will still ask for their father.. Pls let him take responsibility
The Man is not ready to take up any responsibility Face your children, they won't even think of him as their father on the long run,to me as of you want to go back to him if they come begging,Pls don't try that God is o. Your side that is why you are Looking good and they are envying you,Their daughters would meet their match in their home considering what they did to you
Take home to justice court!
But your are the predicament of how your life turned out ma!
I hope people learn
Go to Justice Court madam. Take it up legally.
I enjoy the show but wish the subtitles were better
Abeg make una no beg the man she can't come to the show and say all of this against the father of her children and this woman really loved this man she was ready to be there with him no matter what
Irrespective Let her take their father to Justice court to take responsibility of his children
It will be documented and justice will be passed
Please forget the father and the family entirely, pray to God for strength and care for your children, you'll surely eat the fruit of your labour
Sister, please forget this family. They don't love you and children.
Thé family will regret it very bad family to all women stand up for your self work
The man is capture. The family 😅need to go to social welfare. Thank God you are set Free
Not that I'm judging her o but she shoudn't have returned after the child died. what about her parents? Hmmm, this is deep o
I don’t want to sound insensitive but this woman had enough experience with the late first child and still went back to have more kids for the same beast and family 😩🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
There’s a pattern here with women raised by their grandma
What types of church is your so-called father-in-law is running? You too, like suffering?
This is irritating and self-inflicted pain.
I love you Aunty Biola
Many years ago many women died of depression, beating, bruise all over there body now there's investigation thank God they are coming out too spill it out, any woman that want too marry should be careful mostly leaving with husband family Ah 😌
Please my advice to U is leave that man and his family. God that has been helping u with those kids will continually help u with all u need to cater for them. They are not good for Ur children pls avoid them and also the children are grown and they see everything. U will enjoy Ur work over them in Jesus name and I can tell u he and his family will regret it and come back to beg with tears in their eyes. Shalom
He couldn't take care of himself, talk less of taking care of 3 children. You married him wipe omo olowo ni until you got there. This man is still ngba owo ounje ,stealing his mum 's money to buy weeds. What magic are you expecting? Any way I congratulate you for coming out alive.
God presented her with an escape route with the death of that first child but she stubbornly and ignorantly stayed there. Madam, stop asking him to take responsibilities for the kids. God has helped you thus far and He will continue to do so. Face your children
It's better you forget them and face your life
Well done sis and thanks for all you do 👏👏👏👏👏
sorry to say this I am a woman, but you cause most of this cos if your parent doesn't want you to leave you can run away after the 2nd child.