2 Month Old Twists Takedown- How to Retain Length With Protective Styling| Hair Update & Chit Chat

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  • Natural Hair Growth. Old Twists Takedown- How to Retain Length With Protective Styling| Hair Update & Chit Chat. Protective Style Take down
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    Protective style growth results. Protective styles for 4c hair growth. This video covers how to grow 4c hair in twists, how to care for natural 4c hair or any hair type in a protective style. I go over hair growth tips for growing long hair, my hair regimen for long healthy hair, and how to reduce breakage through low manipulation protective styling. I talk about how to actually do protective styles properly to allow for growth. You can have protective styles without loosing your edges, experiencing a lot of breakage, or any other things that can commonly be associated with protective styling, but it requires a lot of care. In this video I go over hair growth tips for natural hair and relaxed hair. I answer questions like- Are protective styles good for natural hair? are protective styles good for edges? and how to maintain and grow healthy edges in protective styles using my protective style "growth oil" mix of castor oil and rosemary oil for hair growth, and avoiding heavy or tight styles along your edges. This video also explains how to grow 4c hair under wigs with braids, or any protective styles and generally, how to grow 4c hair thicker and longer with protective styling. As you may know, protective styles grew my hair in the past, and they are what I will continue using to grow my hair now. My hair regimen for 4c natural hair growth is very simple- I do a lot of protective styling! What is different though is that I do it without experiencing a lot of breakage. I give hair tips for growing long natural hair and relaxed hair. I go over my hair growth journey and exactly what I did to learn how to grow hair past your growth plateau. I show you how to grow long healthy natural hair and long healthy relaxed hair. While there is really not much you can do to grow your natural hair faster, what you can do is learn how to reduce breakage of natural hair or relaxed hair and how to retain more length! I hope this video helps you.

Komentáře • 486

  • @alantai6064
    @alantai6064 Před 2 lety +738

    Once I realized the idea of length retention, everything changed for me! Like she said your hair is always growing. You just have to avoid breakage while maintaining the length that you have and your hair will flourish!

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +33

      Yes!!

    • @reina-knasz
      @reina-knasz Před 2 lety +6

      Put me through please..I have volume but no length

    • @mira3903
      @mira3903 Před 2 lety +6

      i literally restarted my hair growth journey bc of length retention 💀 i’m done with blowout twists, braids then strain ur scalp and give breakage im just gon roll w it ngl😭

    • @tiahnarodriguez3809
      @tiahnarodriguez3809 Před 2 lety +14

      @@reina-knasz Low manipulation styles, leaving my hair alone when it’s not wash day, and being gentle with shampoo and detangling changed the game for me. Also, wearing a satin scarf or bonnet.

    • @reina-knasz
      @reina-knasz Před 2 lety +4

      @@tiahnarodriguez3809 thank You Girl ❤️

  • @Ellesappellejejeje
    @Ellesappellejejeje Před 2 lety +502

    My sister kept her braids down yesterday after 4 months. IT RETAINED Length, grew about 4-5 inches. Took the whole day to take down and about 3 hours of sectioning, hand combing with a little bit of brushing and detangling. Her hair is now down to her back about 6 more inches and it can get waist level. The Secret is Less MANIPULATION AND TENSION on our hair.

    • @alvinaanimates4877
      @alvinaanimates4877 Před rokem +9

      What was her routine with the braids?

    • @Nikky10000
      @Nikky10000 Před rokem +23

      HELLO SHE ASKING A QUESTION I'D LIKE TO KNOW AS WELL

    • @mesarypaul5824
      @mesarypaul5824 Před rokem +4

      Is braids or cornrows easier to take down and detangle after 4 months. I want to also be keeping my hair 4 months but I’m scared it will break when I’m taking it out due to the knots from build up

    • @Ellesappellejejeje
      @Ellesappellejejeje Před rokem +15

      @@mesarypaul5824 cornrows are easier to take down. My advice here would be to wash it first then take it down when it’s only a little bit damp, not completely dry nor completely wet then separate with your hands before coming with a wide comb(starts from the bottom to your roots.)

    • @taquinmcmullen6490
      @taquinmcmullen6490 Před rokem +12

      My hair will lock up badly. The longest I can go is about a month and a half

  • @AshleyChiLLi
    @AshleyChiLLi Před 2 lety +397

    I would love to keep smaller twists in for longer than 3 weeks, but around that time, they literally start to loc especially at the back where I have a looser texture. For me what’s been working well is braids with no extensions. No locking even at the 6 week point and they sit pretty flat so you can even put them under a wig.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +39

      I love that! Yes! More jumbo twists may be better as well!

    • @Jaliseemo
      @Jaliseemo Před 2 lety +49

      This is what I’ve been doing for the past couple of months and it’s worked wonders for me! Like Seun mentioned in the video once I realized I just need to leave my hair alone it changed my whole outlook!

    • @istuckmypeepeeinsomecheeri2394
      @istuckmypeepeeinsomecheeri2394 Před 2 lety +32

      try starting them off as a braid first, that’s what i do

    • @AMumJournies
      @AMumJournies Před 2 lety +19

      I keep my twists for two weeks , then unravel wash and back into small twists again. I wear them like a bob as it also helps with the thickness of my hair.

    • @kafenelily2125
      @kafenelily2125 Před 2 lety +26

      Ashley ChiLLi
      I just retwisted my mini twists yesterday
      Ive have them for 6 weeks now
      They were locked i was panicing,then i tried putting shea butter on each twist b4 unraveling it
      Guess what
      They came out without any stress,it was like it lubricated the hair 😁😁😁

  • @wangarikibaara1826
    @wangarikibaara1826 Před 2 lety +75

    I support this message 1000000%. Leaving your hair alone is the best thing you can do. I wash mine once a month. I do chunky twists and rock headwraps 95% of the time. The health, length, volume is just out of this world. Find what works for you but leave your hair alone as much as possible.

    • @reina-knasz
      @reina-knasz Před 2 lety

      So mo combing hair Right

    • @ewesiijeawele9268
      @ewesiijeawele9268 Před 2 lety +1

      Doesn't the head wrap soak in all the moisture from the hair?
      Also how do you get them to stay on your head all through the day and not fall out?

    • @wangarikibaara1826
      @wangarikibaara1826 Před 2 lety

      @@reina-knasz i finger detangle 99% of the time. I use a comb when I feel my fingers are not enough which is roughly once every two months. I spray my hair with water almost daily and add some oil if needed.

    • @wangarikibaara1826
      @wangarikibaara1826 Před 2 lety +6

      @@ewesiijeawele9268 it doesn't because I tie a satin scarf first and then the headwrap on top.
      For it to stay on you have to be concious of the technique you are using. CZcams is your friend.

    • @blessingbeauty14_
      @blessingbeauty14_ Před 2 lety

      Same

  • @wengezumusa
    @wengezumusa Před 2 lety +53

    I've realised when I leave my hair in small knotless braids and don't manipulate it becomes thicker and doesn't break much. Definitely leaving one's hair works for hair growth.

  • @dobisally6782
    @dobisally6782 Před 2 lety +63

    Its amazing how you can find someone who can finally bring solutions to a problem you have been facing for so long! I have an extra fine hair and extremely scanty too but the day I discovered and started practicing your "protective styling /low manipulation techniques, I have seen tremendous results in two years. I recently took down a 4mnth loc hair style and posted on my status and I got a whole lot of comments about how my hair grew from nose to lower lip length. People were amazed! You have a gift from God for saving lives this way. Keep it up. Sending you so much love from Cameroon. Merci beaucoup.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před rokem +2

      Aw, that makes me so happy! Im so glad! I agree, knowledge is truly power!

  • @redeemedbythecross1669
    @redeemedbythecross1669 Před 2 lety +22

    12:15 mark...such a real nugget of truth. A lot of consumerism has come round through us being sold into the false truth of having to buy the answer to our insecurities..hair products, make-up, body enhancing clothes etc...makes u really think and realise how the answers we need are really all in Jesus and knowing our identity in him ❤️

  • @nylorac1984
    @nylorac1984 Před 2 lety +26

    Makes total sense. Not manipulating the hair as much explains why hair that is locked grows and grows without breaking off as much. There are of course several catches for the loose hair natural, namely the style or lack of one. How does one either get comfortable rocking wash day plants, or jazz them up with an assortment of scarfs or wigs. Personally wigs never worked for me. I think scarves would work better, but I don't feel like every work environment would allow for them. There is also the issue of carrying for hair that is being left alone, especially the scalp. Some people have to wash more often. For me I have found that washing hair in a style causes knots, tangles and more detangling efforts down the line. The maximum duration of a style is determined by the frequency of needing to wash my scalp. For me that limits me to two weeks as my scalps happy place. Totally wish I could go longer like 2 months with a style, but alas.

  • @Ogechime
    @Ogechime Před 2 lety +26

    I leave my hair in twists. I never had any results with twists in the past, mini braids is usually my go to. But the stylist braided the roots and then twisted the rest. My hair grew so much. I washed my hair every two/three weeks and redid them and I had this routine for two months. I would use leave in conditioner and grease as a sealant. I have high porosity hair, my hair would stay moisturized for a whole week. My hair became so thick, and from shoulder length, it grew to close to bra strap length. I also used threads to stretch out my twists to prevent single strand knots. Usually when I leave my hair out, my hair would become so dry, but now my hair stays moisturized the whole day

    • @lanaya4451
      @lanaya4451 Před 2 lety

      I have the same problem with knots on my twists, do you thread the whole twist or just the ends?

    • @ewesiijeawele9268
      @ewesiijeawele9268 Před 2 lety

      Do you wear scarves when you want to lie down? If 'No', then what do you do to avoid your bed soaking in the moisture? Because I also have high porosity but any time I lie down after moisturizing my hair, it becomes so dry😩😥

    • @Ogechime
      @Ogechime Před 2 lety

      @@lanaya4451 I thread my twists in 2 sections, i start from the middle of my twists and thread down until I cover the hair completely. This has helped me to prevent single strand knots. Also I moisturize my ends before threading so it doesn’t dry up

    • @Ogechime
      @Ogechime Před 2 lety

      @@ewesiijeawele9268 if your bed is soaked, it means your hair is too wet. Just spritz some water, not too much. I don’t usually moisturize at night time or cover my hair immediately after I moisturize so I haven’t had this problem. I suggest you check your products too because sometimes that’s what causes your hair to dry out fast

    • @janellelives5158
      @janellelives5158 Před 2 lety +2

      I’ve been natural my whole life, but my 4c hair has stayed around shoulder and collar bone length. It’s definitely because of breakage, dryness and dandruff issues. There were a couple months where I did twists & I saw lots of growth. I only retained that length for a couple months. I’m going to try growing it again.

  • @marianacarneiro7180
    @marianacarneiro7180 Před 2 lety +159

    I dunno why I’m getting emotional over this but it’s so nice to see someone I can relate to.
    I’m about to reach my 1 year post big chop milestone and it’s been such a beautiful journey for me, learning how to take care of her, trying new styles and just falling in love with my hair. Which upsets me to say wasn’t a reality for my younger self. It’s been a challenge but I’m so glad I went on this journey and so happy with the growth I’ve experienced within myself, thank you for being a part of that ❤️

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +7

      Aw, I love that!❤️❤️❤️

  • @WordsPictures997
    @WordsPictures997 Před 2 lety +83

    This video is EVERYTHING!
    You've just given me language I needed.
    Had locs for 5 years because I wanted something simple I could maintain by myself and not take up too much time. I'll definitely say it showed me that my hair thrives with low manipulation and minimal products.
    Recently cut my locs and after watching this video I'm excited for a better natural hair experience.
    Thank you Seun!

    • @MissChris.
      @MissChris. Před 2 lety +4

      Same. Combed mine out after 7yrs, I'm in love with my curls but I found being a straight hair natural works best for me overall.

    • @WordsPictures997
      @WordsPictures997 Před 2 lety +3

      @@MissChris. I can definitely relate! Thank you for sharing.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +2

      Yes!! You are very welcome!❤

  • @briannafraser6084
    @briannafraser6084 Před 2 lety +25

    I keep my mini twists in for an entire month and I don't have like any major problems with it. While I have them in, every other day I oil my scalp and use grease along the length of my hair to keep it from getting dry, yes I just use grease, if I use a leave-in or a cream, I will have too much build up, and I can't have that because I wash my hair every four weeks. It works best because my hair isn't dry as it used to be when I used to wash my hair bi- weekly. To take down my hair from any style, no matter what it is, be it low manipulation, a short term protective style or a long term protective style, I use oil to take down always, the shed hairs LITERALLY just slide out, conditioner is catastrophic for me, all the knots or matting that I would have developed over the course of the protective style would be made worse no matter how careful I am.

  • @strudelh
    @strudelh Před 2 lety +254

    Girl your hair is growing so fast, I've been growing it for almost 3 years and it's still at collarbone length (stretched 😭).
    Maybe it's because I shaved it when I started but still lol.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +56

      That's still good!! I hope my videos may help show the different ways you could go about things to retain additional length as well! I think the two videos I mentioned at the beginning of this video are especially incredibly incredibly helpful

    • @anekadarling1867
      @anekadarling1867 Před 2 lety +1

      Same

    • @daughterofyah6209
      @daughterofyah6209 Před 2 lety +26

      That is actually still pretty good for a buzz cut

    • @strudelh
      @strudelh Před 2 lety +2

      @@SeunOkimi thank you sm !!

    • @helga8338
      @helga8338 Před 2 lety +19

      Hang in there my dear🥺. Try following Seun's routine/tips. After 5 years natural, i've finally managed to grow my hair way beyond earlobe length.

  • @cynthiaigirimpuhwe428
    @cynthiaigirimpuhwe428 Před 2 lety +41

    Currently going through the worst phase of my hair journey where It’s literally falling off my head due to postpartum and I was decided cut it all off and never start another journey again but your video made me reconsider! Am still gonna cut it and start over again maybe🤔 but postpartum hair loss is the beast!! Went from shoulder length healthy hair to loosing half of it. Wishing everyone a happy healthy journey💕

    • @ferventloverofyhwh9868
      @ferventloverofyhwh9868 Před 2 lety +4

      Have you considered your iron might be low? My hair was so dry and short for almost 2 years, long story short I went for my annual my Dr demand a blood work y cuz I wasn't feeling it. She actually followed me to get my blood taken in the same building of course. I was low key mad as heck, then within a week I got a call when I saw the number my knees got weak and j had knots in my stomach, I thought it was something very bad but it was my iron was extremely very low I was on some iron pills that hated me, I never ate so much veggies in my life before I almost went vegan UNTIL God opened my eyes one day I was scrolling online and found a liquid iron with other minerals in it. I actually look forward to take it it's so gentle, and no constipation at all. Shalom

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +1

      I'm sorry to hear that! Yes, you've got this!! The good thing is that your hair can still grow back at least!

    • @sherifatghali8174
      @sherifatghali8174 Před 2 lety

      I can so relate to it. My hair was at bra strap length. I lost more than half of my hair and scalp. I had to cut it to ear length. My hair is no longer shedding, and I've started taking multivitamins. It really help stop the shedding.

    • @ldkenney18
      @ldkenney18 Před 2 lety +2

      @@ferventloverofyhwh9868 I agree. I take SSS Tonic! A miracle in a bottle

  • @tarynmichelleart
    @tarynmichelleart Před 2 lety +61

    Hair journey is going great! Finally at nipple length before 3 years of growth. I am 5’3. The last style I did was mini braids as a protective style I wore out. I kept them in for 5 weeks. I washed them a few times but I need a thorough wash. It’s a great style for this hot weather! Plus I am healing my cartilage piercings so I need my hair to be contained.

  • @prieryals4945
    @prieryals4945 Před 2 lety +27

    Just imagine if u did that same style for another year with small breaks in between, your hair will be soooo long. It's already grown soooo much, how exciting! I love your advice it just makes so much sense. Can't wait to see a wash day video! I'm transitioning from relaxed hair ( Oct 2021) back to all natural which is going great!! I see a stylist every three weeks, and I ALWAYS get cornrows with a braided bun.

  • @redrose14152
    @redrose14152 Před 2 lety +147

    Your hair is growing so fast and nicely 👍🏽

    • @jamaicanmommy
      @jamaicanmommy Před 2 lety

      Ikr!?☺

    • @prettylittleliarsforever5902
      @prettylittleliarsforever5902 Před 2 lety +13

      I’m at the same length I was when she cut it 😭

    • @redrose14152
      @redrose14152 Před 2 lety +6

      @@prettylittleliarsforever5902 girl I know ur pain 😩.. her nape is the same length as mine lmaoo. My nape is very stubborn

  • @emmanuellandombeson6610
    @emmanuellandombeson6610 Před 2 lety +43

    I've been keeping my hair natural for years now and seeing your videos always motivates me. You're the only one that helped me understand the best way to use protective styles to grow hair and it keeps growing more and more. I'll try keeping twists for three months as well 😁
    Your hair is growing so fast. Seriously 😍
    Thanks for the great content you keep sharing with us. Be Blessed

  • @TamarasTreasureTrove
    @TamarasTreasureTrove Před 11 měsíci +4

    10:00-11:48 = probably the most important part of this video. This is a prophetic word, too. The more we rest, the more room God has to work and that rest includes leaving our hair alone. Thanks, hunny!

  • @mbmb77
    @mbmb77 Před 2 lety +27

    Knotless braids have been golden for me as a protective style! They're not tight at the scalp and you will get those inches!

  • @miZZPortah
    @miZZPortah Před 2 lety +25

    I'm currently wearing box braids, I think it has been my favorite protective style so far. Wanted to add: I really appreciate your videos and congratulations on your progress. Keep it going!

  • @AlexiaSmith
    @AlexiaSmith Před 2 lety +24

    I use to leave my twist in (haven’t got to this length of time) but now I do braids. I can’t wait to watch this video later.

  • @youcannotspeaktomeanyhow
    @youcannotspeaktomeanyhow Před 2 lety +6

    This is exactly how I grew my hair to now a length similar to yours. People are always asking me what products they should use and I'm like just leave it be. And they don't get it🥺

  • @nonyeiweanoge2536
    @nonyeiweanoge2536 Před 2 lety +7

    Seun,you have changed my hair growth journey for the better.Thank you sooo much.I've been trying to grow my hair for 4 years and ever since I found your channel,my hair has actually been growing.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před rokem +1

      That makes me really happy to know!!

  • @thenameisnanab2859
    @thenameisnanab2859 Před 2 lety +16

    I followed your videos for your relaxed hair journey when my hair was relaxed and I saw much improvement with my hair but in 2020 I decided to have a big chop and I realized later you had started your natural hair journey too so I followed
    I love the way your hair has grown
    My hair is currently in a protective style and I'm aiming for 3months
    I love the simplicity and truth in your videos, I've seen it work, love from Ghana 🥰

  • @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers

    Having your hair stretched helps too bc it prevents single strands knots, which also cause breakage

  • @mamoyoT
    @mamoyoT Před 2 lety +3

    Seun I always like coming here. You are to me the daughter / child I never had. I find you so inspiring,caring and kind. May good bless you Seun.

  • @deborahnwakwesili9719
    @deborahnwakwesili9719 Před 2 lety +17

    I have healthy natural hair and I have never thought about checking how long it has become because I am unbothered. The funniest thing is I have never left it unplat without extension. Once I am unravelling the old extension, I am prepared for the next. Seriously hats off to those who can rock their natural hair without thinking of it shrinking and tangling up. I might give it a try one day.

    • @Anonyme67
      @Anonyme67 Před 8 měsíci

      I wear my hair in twist or braids. I can leave them out because they will break. The only way to leave them out is either a blow dry or flat iron (I don’t like this though). So twist is my to go style

  • @ManeThingz
    @ManeThingz Před 2 lety +10

    Seun you have a gorgeous bone structure for a short cut! Like the comment below I have received more length this past year just due to figuring out lengthe retention. I also stopped trimming every 8 weeks or whatever and do it every 6 months. I think whoever came up with that rule was trying to sabotage us. For me the trimming was killing my length. I went from years of going to a hairstylist and my ahir going from shoulder length in like 4 years, to it being right at the bottom of my neck. Now its at my bra hooks with me doing my own hair. Headband wigs, keeping it twisted and moisturized, deep conditioned is what working for me. Summer i get braids

  • @nikkiq5124
    @nikkiq5124 Před 2 lety +3

    I totally agree. Leaving my hair alone has done wonders for my length

  • @RobinInTheCut
    @RobinInTheCut Před 2 lety +13

    Hi 👋🏼 Seun! I just wanna let you know that you were inspiration for me to start my natural hair growth journey. I’m so glad that I’m going along with you on the ride. I have retained since I started three years ago 2019, 12 inches of growth!! I recently styled my hair in large knotless braids for 2 1/2 months. Then I went to the hair stylist and I needed my hair colored because part of my hair is gray and I couldn’t believe how long my hair was I had to make her stop so I can look at it it was just like I was and I never thought that it would get that long!! Thanks 🙏 for sharing your wonderful hair journey and helping me with mine 🥰

  • @llorzz
    @llorzz Před 2 lety +7

    recently started washing my hair in twists, and it's sooooo much easier!

  • @essieabwa-njie9071
    @essieabwa-njie9071 Před 2 lety +12

    I think you're my hair twin! I've been following you since before you did the big chop 3 years ago and I'm loving your advice. It just makes sense! Keep it simple. I've been on this journey for some time now. I want to finally take the reins of my hair care and really give my hair the love it needs. Starting TODAY, everything will be intentional. My goal is mid-back length hair. Part of my reason for that goal is to prove to others that I can do it. The MAJOR reason is to prove it to myself. I want to prove that I can grow my hair; I can take good care of my mind, body, skin, and hair. I'm following you on your journey because you're inspiring. Its not a race; I want to walk on this journey with you and the millions of other women who are learning and growing and loving the hair that comes out of our scalp! Thank you so much for your videos.

  • @ommaume
    @ommaume Před 2 lety +7

    I've been doing the low manipulation method by leaving my hair in twists or braids for 3 weeks or more...it really works

  • @estheroluwatoyin5311
    @estheroluwatoyin5311 Před 4 měsíci

    "The best way to change the world is by understanding it." Love that saying. :)❤

  • @laurelandrea7278
    @laurelandrea7278 Před 2 lety +12

    I'm on a quick break at work I'll have to watch this later but babes they look so good! Can you please do a installation and maintenance video? Twists are soo good and versatile mine only last like 2 or 3 weeks

    • @lorrainelashley3723
      @lorrainelashley3723 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes please.
      An installation and maintenance video re flat twist .

  • @darash555
    @darash555 Před 2 lety +4

    Wow wow your hair is growing gracefully. I'm taking my twists down as i type. My hair use to lock when i twist it so now i add a bit of kinky hair and it can stay for long without locking.
    I'm seeing some growth,thanks for sharing your hair journey with us. Beautiful hair.

  • @1GoldenBreeze
    @1GoldenBreeze Před 2 lety +6

    The last style I did was a WnG, and I didn't it because it's the style I wear almost all of the time. For me, this works well for length retention.

  • @emmanuellafreeman7409
    @emmanuellafreeman7409 Před 2 lety +4

    Been following your tips over the last 4 months and managed to get from shoulder length to your current length stretched. Thank you 😊 💓

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před rokem +1

      that makes me so happy to know that it has been helpful!!

  • @154angel154
    @154angel154 Před 2 lety +10

    Talk to Us Sis!!! I am currently wearing four african threading braids (I guess LOL). GOING on week three of no hair washing! My hair oil and spritz (both containing peppermint oil, rosemary and cloves) are keeping me straight! I undo them every two weeks and spritz the tucked away parts with spritz, leave-in and oil. I remove shredded hair and put the four african threading back into my hair!!! It doing doing SOOO WELL!!! I wear non-tension wigs daily so I am good!!!

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +2

      That's awesome!!

    • @154angel154
      @154angel154 Před 2 lety +3

      Washed and deep conditioned my hair today! 4 afrocan threading went right back in . I create zigzag parts to prevent the permanent lasting look (forgot whose channel I saw this on though but thx).

  • @idowuajayi8721
    @idowuajayi8721 Před 2 lety +21

    My hair journey is going terribly at the moment. I currently have cornrows in and I'm with you when I say I'm never doing corn rows again. I experienced so much breakage recently than I have since I started my hair journey. I've definitely tried putting it in a style and leaving it alone for weeks, almost 3 months sometimes and I'm careful when I take it down and I do retain length but I really don't know what's causing the breakage😔

    • @ellen3973
      @ellen3973 Před 2 lety +4

      We're the same. I had cornrows for 2 months and took them down on Saturday and half my hair went with it.

    • @hani6364
      @hani6364 Před 2 lety

      I usually do twists or mini braids but the time I did 6 big cornrows I found that it was way harder to take out than twists or braids. It helped for me to add leave in conditioner and oil to each braid as I was taking it out for less breakage. But still I think I’m gonna stick with twist/mini braids.

    • @ellen3973
      @ellen3973 Před 2 lety +1

      @@hani6364 I think I'll try this method . I'm getting soft locs soon so I'll have my hair in mini braids for them.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +7

      Sometimes cornrows put more manipulation on your hair to do and take down than twists would! Many people I know prefer twists if they realize that they run into that issue with cornrows

    • @ElTee519
      @ElTee519 Před 2 lety +1

      Are you doing protein treatments and deep conditioners?

  • @odbrittany
    @odbrittany Před 5 měsíci

    I was diagnosed with seborrheic dermatitis two years ago and it has been so hard finding products that dont cause a flare up. Now that I have, I can focus on length retention. Following your growth has been inspiring

  • @cecesopretty
    @cecesopretty Před 2 lety +2

    I stopped doing braids and plaits in my hair 2 months ago now I just do my protective styles in twists and it saved my edges and length retention too

  • @ndjobet
    @ndjobet Před 2 lety +24

    I was natural for 6 years but I wasn't patient with my hair. It grew long but when it came down to combing my hair out before washing it I was not gentle so eventually it started breaking off. My patience level had diminished drastically so I went back to a relaxer. Now I don't have to detangle my hair as much as before and yes I do wear protective styles for growth. Thank you for your knowledge and patience because it helps me out.

    • @swisdom9117
      @swisdom9117 Před 2 lety

      How's it been being back to relaxers? I'm thinking of relaxing mine because no matter what I do (I have tried everything. The only thing left for me is to find some magic product or something) my hair is always tangled. The tangles at the roots drive me crazy especially, and if I don't blow out my hair it'll be so painful getting it done. I kid you not but 100% of the times my hair is in cornrows. I keep them for 1-2 months max. I'm growing out my hair after a relaxer nightmare resulted in me having to cut all my bra strap length hair

    • @Claudiinha33
      @Claudiinha33 Před 11 měsíci

      Same problem here😕😕

  • @saronsaron6145
    @saronsaron6145 Před rokem +4

    Hi little sis..love u girl...I love the way u speak...u always makes me smile...thanks for the tips...I really appreciate it...u are so beautiful. Stay safe and god bless u always.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před rokem +1

      Thank you so much!!!! ❤️

  • @breonaamaryllis7890
    @breonaamaryllis7890 Před 2 lety +4

    Love your protective style take down videos! They are one of my favorites from you.

  • @talltalllady
    @talltalllady Před 4 měsíci

    I've been wearing my hair in the SAME bun for a month I plan to keep it in for two more months. I love how easy it is to take down.
    .

  • @glamglam8347
    @glamglam8347 Před 2 lety +18

    Girl the whole "dont too much" was me 😭😭😭 now I got my hair in like 7 braids and just wearing marley hairstyles, wigs, and faux puffs. I refresh once a month and wash once a week.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +2

      We've all done it, haha😆😭

    • @lindarushing638
      @lindarushing638 Před 2 lety +9

      Calling all backsliders to come home to JESUS he will forgive you of your sins if you truly repent of your sins, JESUS is comming back are you ready to meet him in peace (HEAVEN/Hell) you make the choice.

  • @kisforkim1
    @kisforkim1 Před 2 lety +9

    Even though I have relaxed hair, I've seen your hair videos when you had your hair relaxed and for me I've only been able to retain length while having my hair in a protective style. It works wonders! Thank you for the advice! :)

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +1

      It makes me happy to be able to help!

  • @rb7007
    @rb7007 Před 2 lety +3

    Imagine, it took me 55 years to find out what you’ve just explained. Smdh 😳
    But both you and your hair are lovely! 💕

  • @anythingispossiblewithgod1879

    Your hair grew so fast. Congratulations. I have been natural for almost all my life and my hair is stuck in one place.

  • @joyharuna9679
    @joyharuna9679 Před 2 lety +7

    This was really helpful. I say it often that you don't have to break the bank to grow your hair healthy and long. Thank you for sharing. I love your authenticity. I've been watching your videos since you were on relaxed hair and it's my first time commenting. Much love from Nigeria Seun. Keep it up

  • @owamuhmza
    @owamuhmza Před 2 lety +37

    My hair loves cornrows. No locking even after 8 weeks, take down is easy and detangling is a breeze. Twists and braids are cruel to my hair.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +2

      Nice!!

    • @tsuyuasui7297
      @tsuyuasui7297 Před 2 lety +1

      arent your edges breaking off? i’ve experienced breakage around the edges.

    • @owamuhmza
      @owamuhmza Před 2 lety +1

      @@tsuyuasui7297 I used to struggle with breaking edges especially in my postpartum seasons but I found that a simple black tea rinse puts a stop to it quickly.

    • @tsuyuasui7297
      @tsuyuasui7297 Před 2 lety

      @@owamuhmza Hmmm okay imma try that one out! what does a black tea rinse even do for it to stop? cause it’s so depressing to see how a few months ago my hairline was still so thick and all the hairs in the front were the same length as all the hair over my scalp but now its just getting shorter and shorter : ( maybe its bc i’m getting my hair braided to tight?

  • @Grow_with_Yvonne
    @Grow_with_Yvonne Před 2 lety +3

    Danm you hair is growing so fast🔥it’s thriving too .

  • @PrincessYonna1
    @PrincessYonna1 Před 2 lety +3

    Your hair grows super fast

  • @hani6364
    @hani6364 Před 2 lety +14

    I went buzz cut bald 2 years ago in May and my hair has been growing great since. It’s about 2 inches below my collarbone! Twists are my friend! I’m kinda worried my hair will get to certain point and stop growing and this is all the length I’d get. I mean that would be okay but I really wanna see if my hair can grow to at least bra strap length. I’ve done the bald, short and medium hair length. I guess I’ll see how I am in 2-4 years time!

  • @aishalong9735
    @aishalong9735 Před 2 lety +2

    your hair has grown so much omg.... I been following you before your big chop your hair was super long & full. I remember when your mom didn't believe you cut your hair. now it has grown dramatically.. love it

  • @ashleigh_robyn
    @ashleigh_robyn Před 2 lety +4

    Our natural hair journeys are really alike and you were the one who convinced me to finally big chop. I big chopped around 3 months ago and have been natural about a year and 3 months. Watching your videos and seeing your growth is making me excited for my own hair journey :)

  • @fayth35
    @fayth35 Před 2 lety +3

    I love your hair, it’s so thick and full

  • @Oreoluwa
    @Oreoluwa Před 2 lety +1

    Funny enough I just got twists yesterday just came combing your channel to see what you had to say about mini twists and natural hair. And I was legit like woahhh, Seun okimi hasn't done twists yet? I was super shocked lool. And you upload this. Yes girl!

  • @Kealasadiva42
    @Kealasadiva42 Před 2 lety +1

    I love that you touched on marketing. I am a victim of this. I appreciate this!

  • @PreciousMaria.
    @PreciousMaria. Před 2 lety +10

    Wow, is it just me or your hair is growing faster than normal? 🤪 It's beautiful, I really enjoyed the authenticity of the video

  • @polishedjoy123
    @polishedjoy123 Před 2 lety

    You're hair has grown it look GREAT! I love that genuine surprise when you saw how long your hair had grown pretty cool!.

  • @adeola1919
    @adeola1919 Před 2 lety +1

    how do you only have 434K?? You meed 1M+ I love your videos sm

  • @154angel154
    @154angel154 Před rokem +1

    I have been in DIY African threading (rubber thread) since July 7 (redid on August 17). Aiming for two. Or three straight months th is go round. My density (low/med) is increasing before my eyes. I am going to remove in Nov and assess my ends afain and give it a slight trim. I consider the threading as my hair jail because it keeps my hands out of my hair. I just keep it balanced (moisture/protein) and put on my daily wig and go!

  • @CCJohannaJames
    @CCJohannaJames Před 2 lety

    The world DOES profit greatly on insecurities! You're absolutely right.

  • @comfortowusu1
    @comfortowusu1 Před 2 lety +3

    I wish I can keep my twist in for that long… this is my second week and here watching braids take down videos..

  • @eboniepierce
    @eboniepierce Před 2 lety +13

    My hair was flourishing in 2020 and although I haven't been doing anything different to my hair it has been breaking so badly. I'm attempting to retain length with cornrows and crochet. It been a week now and I'm hoping to get to 2 months. I've been stuck at my collarbone since a 2 inch cut in early 2021( bc of the bad breakage). I'm trying the braids just to stop feeling so bad about it breaking. I hope to be able to keep my length.

    • @okayzizi
      @okayzizi Před 2 lety +2

      Check your protein moisture balance if that might helps

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety

      Yes!^ You've go this!

  • @Daleanaaa
    @Daleanaaa Před 2 lety +1

    Seun is the truth she helped me grow my hair 100! Seun do video on being a Straight hair natural. Any advice?

  • @radley3519
    @radley3519 Před 2 lety +1

    I braid and wear a hat all winter or for at least 6 months of the year and do wash and gos the other half my hair grows super quick too.. as long as I can keep my moisture protein balance in check

  • @FineNaturalHairROCKS
    @FineNaturalHairROCKS Před 2 lety

    Gorgeous! I love how well you take care of both your relaxed and your natural hair. You're truly an icon!!!! 😍🙌🏾

  • @elshadisam
    @elshadisam Před 2 lety +3

    Your hair growing fast man😃

  • @marthakatongo101
    @marthakatongo101 Před 2 lety

    Girl your smile is wow…..always looking forward for new video from you, You have helped to grow my hair…

  • @jorgebessa4390
    @jorgebessa4390 Před 2 lety +7

    I noticed for me flat twist, and braids are to much manipulatio for my hair, only normal two strands twist are the best way to grow my hair.

  • @angieangiel2666
    @angieangiel2666 Před 2 lety +1

    A few years ago I wore braids for 7 weeks. After I took them out my hair went from neck length to top of boob length. I miss that long hair, I haven't been able to grow it back long like that every since.

  • @dasiahemmings4177
    @dasiahemmings4177 Před 2 lety +2

    Love watching your videos.....I recently took down my protective style which I had for almost 2 months and before that I had in another protective style for two full months....Happy to say I have been seeing some progress 💃🏾.

  • @kaitlynree
    @kaitlynree Před 2 lety +4

    I left my hair in twists for 5 weeks and my hair was locking and budding. I did not know my hair could loc that fast!

  • @smilesunbroken6448
    @smilesunbroken6448 Před 2 lety +3

    You are so inspirational! I love your videos! 🥰

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you!! That makes me happy to know!

  • @extraordinary_woman
    @extraordinary_woman Před 2 lety

    That’s amazing… we all were just as shocked as you omg 😱🙌🏾 methods are tried and true.

  • @kabbyhearts
    @kabbyhearts Před 2 lety +2

    I just loced up. I've been trying to crow my hair long for years and only the back would grow. I'm over it. I noticed that it grew already and it's only been two months. Now I'm just trying to make sure my sweat don't smell too bad 😅

    • @beardedbeast9606
      @beardedbeast9606 Před 2 lety +1

      I just did the same! I may comb them out at some point but for now, this is the new way of life

    • @kabbyhearts
      @kabbyhearts Před 2 lety +1

      @@beardedbeast9606 yeps and I'm loving it. It's so dang convenient. I don't even have to take the extra 30 minutes to lay my edges 🙌🏾

  • @jenniferoluebubechukwu375

    Seun thank you so much. Your videos have really helped my hair journey

  • @star0138
    @star0138 Před 2 lety +2

    😎☺️Yo hair grew longer than mines lol. That lets me know I ain’t doing something right. Thanks for the video I am learn today.

  • @jamesmichelle8351
    @jamesmichelle8351 Před 2 lety +13

    I really enjoyed watching this video, and I've also learned something new. Breakage is the problem, not growth.
    I started keeping my hair in protective styles for a longer period of time because of your videos, and I'm currently on week 4 in a protective style, I have 2 more weeks to go. Fingers crossed.
    I also realized that cornrows isn't my go-to style any more, i just can't protect my hair at night and I tend to pick my hair so much. So I'm trying African threading at the moment and it's been a breeze, but yea I'll see how that goes.

  • @chezvaninacoiffure3870
    @chezvaninacoiffure3870 Před 2 lety +3

    Could you film a video of how you maintain your twists or protective style while keeping them that long ? Do you wash them ? Use oils?

  • @Moyo_K
    @Moyo_K Před 2 lety +5

    I’m just taking down my braids and I enjoyed this video. The friendly chat is everything 🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @chinyerefidelis5015
    @chinyerefidelis5015 Před 2 lety +2

    you are so pretty and your hair is growing super fast

  • @maryadedokun2405
    @maryadedokun2405 Před 2 lety +3

    Litterallyy I do the same leaving my hair in for 3 months, usually doing African threading with my hair, where it sorta looks like faux locs but wayyyy stiffer 😂 and I do use oils and try to grow my hair 1 1/2 inches or more while I have it tucked away. It's helped quite a bit, especially since I tend to break my hair easily lol

  • @michellennadozie
    @michellennadozie Před 2 lety +9

    I sure enjoyed watching this video, I always like when you're chatty. I'm currently wearing what is called 'two hand' weave with my natural hair, some people also call it 'D D' or Dutch braid. Since I started my natural hair journey, I usually do twists, flat twists or single twists but I recently tried this 'two-hand ' hairstyle and left it for more than a month and I saw a lot of growth so I did it again. Thanks for always sharing...
    But Seun, please tell the secret to your beautiful skin,🥺 I'm also dark skinned and I'd like a lotion and skin treatment recommendation especially for my face.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you!!❤️ I love that you've learned what works best for your hair! And, lol, thank you! I'm still trying to get my skin care routine together myself, but retinols work wonders for hyperpigmentation and textured skin

    • @michellennadozie
      @michellennadozie Před 2 lety

      @@SeunOkimi
      ✍🏽 Retinolsss ...
      🛒🛍😊
      Thank you! ❤😄

  • @locgirllifestyle
    @locgirllifestyle Před 2 lety +5

    Love your hair girl.
    I did a super big chop, like fade, 😂 last year October. Now my hair is slightly passed shoulder length, the rapid growth shocked me.
    Well, I hair has always been long, even when relaxed, (been relaxed my whole life).
    I was so happy and shocked at the same time, had to visit the doctor, who told me, I was very estrogen dominant.
    Ladies, embrace your hair journey, love the uniqueness of your hair and body.

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you! That's awesome!!

    • @TheFilmLocker
      @TheFilmLocker Před 2 lety +1

      Excuse me…like fade/almost bald? Oct 2021?? 😩😩😩

    • @locgirllifestyle
      @locgirllifestyle Před 2 lety

      @@TheFilmLocker Yes, like fade.
      It's almost a year now, my hair grows very fast.
      As am very estrogen dominant.
      You need to see my hips and bust size for my age.

  • @Jasmine-uu2xo
    @Jasmine-uu2xo Před 2 lety +4

    Our self-hatred is a billion dollar business. There are business that capitalize off of insecurities that stem from self hate. Hair extensions/weaves/products are marketed towards us bc companies know we yearn for acceptance and we are women. My scalp health changing and not allowing me to wear extensions made me realize that WE DON'T NEED WEAVE AND PRODUCTS WE NEED A ROUTINE AND REGIMEN TAILORED TO OUR HAIR TYPE AND LIFESTYLE (and we also need to be gentle and work in sections 😂 Our parents man-handling our hair has fooled us into thinking we have strong hair that can handle anything). My current style is MINI TWIST secured w rubber bands- no added hair; wash every month; untwist and re twist without combing out the hair. This lasts me 2-3 months.
    You were right, it's not the product its our hair routine and how gentle we are with the process. As BW we do far too much to our hair and THAT is what's hindering us. Through my journey I learned that less is more and simplicity is key. LESS PRODUCT AND A SIMPLE STYLE is the key to growth/retention AS WELL AS BEING GENTLE.
    I saw that Chadian women use chebe powder on their braids in sections and leave it in for 1-2 weeks and repeat. I remember what you said about products not being the reason your hair grows. It is even known CHEBE DOES NOT MAKE YOUR HAIR GROW, yet so many people began marketing it as hair growth.
    What I notice about African protective styling is this: Keep the hair in a low-manipulation protective style sealed with moisture and SOME FORM OF NOURISHING PRODUCT. It wasn't the chebe itself it's the act of keeping the hair in a simple style and nourished.
    As always you have shared valuable information, I have experimented with your advice and 2 other youtubers and feel as though I learned enough to write a manual 😂

    • @Jasmine-uu2xo
      @Jasmine-uu2xo Před 2 lety

      @Love You'll get there !💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 Same here. I was relaxed but I stopped when I was 20

  • @hamidumohammed6168
    @hamidumohammed6168 Před 2 lety +9

    I see a whole lot of growth in my protective style ( mini twist) but the breakages after takedown is too much. My hair stylist also breaks a lot while twisting my hair. One major problems I have with my hair is lots of knots at the tip. I'm really bothered

    • @AngelRestored613
      @AngelRestored613 Před 2 lety +2

      Maybe a trim could help or even dusting your ends with each install

    • @hamidumohammed6168
      @hamidumohammed6168 Před 2 lety

      @@AngelRestored613 thanks dear I will try that my next take down n see if anything changes

    • @CarolCarol31
      @CarolCarol31 Před 2 lety +3

      Avoid borrowing hair while twisting and just twirl/curl at the end instead of twisting to the end and also detangle towards the end while twisting to smoothen it . This reduces the knots and makes take down easier

  • @adalenehankins1644
    @adalenehankins1644 Před 6 měsíci

    Thank you for this video you showed me that I don’t need a relaxer

  • @ommaume
    @ommaume Před 2 lety +1

    I always look forward to your videos❤️

  • @MSSHARIII
    @MSSHARIII Před 2 lety

    Your hair is thriving, loving the progress!

  • @fantatoure9005
    @fantatoure9005 Před 2 lety +2

    You are literally gorgeous 💕💕💕

  • @Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers

    I attempted a sleek pony 🤣 it was a fail. Got a pony, no sleek.
    But I wasn't too discouraged. I prioritized low/no tension and the pony wasn't bad. Just was more like a pineapple, my first. I don't usually do styles that require hair ties. So I just experimented with it.
    I transitioned the style as my hair fluffed up. I really enjoyed the look and the simplicity of just being able to pop a scrunchie on and go. Now it's a fro and wash day has arrived. Hoping for low breakage and shedding.
    I honestly have no idea what to expect since my hair has been stretched but out, soaking up the humidity but manipulated every few days. 🤷🏾‍♀️ we'll see. Wish me luck 😅

  • @its_tru
    @its_tru Před 2 lety

    Dude that was fast as heck. I am blown away

  • @aqeelahmunshi9069
    @aqeelahmunshi9069 Před 2 lety +3

    Im still holding on to some relaxed ends 😭 pray for me to just let them go

  • @onandra30williams
    @onandra30williams Před 2 lety

    I learned what works for my hair to maintain length. I usually put my hair in 10 plaits after I detangle it one by one then rebraid it as well! I never take all my braids down at once! After I have detangle and rebraid my hair I then proceeded to wash my hair with warm to low hot water because it helps my hair grow! Cold water drys my hair out! Then I condition my hair as well. For my shampoo and conditioner I use AUSSIE Moisturizer shampoo and conditioner. Then I'll follow up with my Jamaican Castor oil make sure its warm and Cantu Thick Moisturizer right after. I never wash my hair when it All down. once I detangle and rebraid my hair then I'll wash my hair, It has help my Hair Tremendously!

  • @evaneykelly5123
    @evaneykelly5123 Před 2 lety +2

    Girl what did you do to your hair grow that fast!😌 You look stunning.🤩

    • @evaneykelly5123
      @evaneykelly5123 Před 2 lety

      Like, are you using any special couple of products or sum? I want my hair to grow!
      Apart from the protective style tip, do you recommend me anything else?

    • @SeunOkimi
      @SeunOkimi  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you! I hope this video helps! I also recommend being gentle outside of protective styles. You can see my video about breakage where I explain more about that too!