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- During the pandemic, many people battled through loneliness and depression. We were trapped in our homes with no way to leave. It was a new and strange way of living that we had to adjust to. Even going outside felt like a privilege. Personally, I did not struggle during covid because of my family and friends. But some people were not afforded the luxury of having friends and a safe family to be around. In turn, they found themselves alone. And to be alone, I might imagine is a battle. This film is about that loneliness. Additionally, It is about confronting yourself and overcoming and accepting what you are fearing. In this film, Jason, overcomes the dreadfulness of being alone and accepts solidarity.
I made this film with my own blood, my brother. So, It means a lot to me to make something with someone I love and someone who I have grown up with.
Solitude is the joy of being by yourself. Loneliness is the pain of being by yourself.
Loneliness is actually killing me for real. It's slow but it's real.
Love to every lonely brave souls ❤❤❤
I'm sorry, thank you for sharing! You're very brave!
Me too.
@Lala-un5yb You Dear Dear Soul, please allow me to say I understand. My hugs to you and to all us lonely brave souls!
@@lucapaluca8537you are not alone! I wanna be with you. 😘💕
They say that the best friend you will ever have ... is yourself.
Being alone helps you attempt to conquer your mind, emphasis on “attempt”. I came out realising that the real “you” is always alone. This body needs people, it needs company but the real you that exists beyond a mortal coil is always there by itself. So, I’m always alone even when there is company. Most people never realise this.
This Video was Beautiful.👍🏻
Beautifully said, Thanks for your comment and so true!
The boy is beautiful.
I am living like this and see no problem.
all I can say is that this is a very handsome young man!
Very handsome, loneliness could be more bearable with someone like you…
Very sweet. I did a paper recently about accepting solidarity, and this resonates with me. I also have a brother that means a lot to me, I'm glad you can do such creative things together, really cool.
Thank you Marko for your kind words
I don't see any examples of solidarity. Did you mean the collaboration to make this video? Did you mean "solitude"?
Very moving and creative. It made me think of the book, “Solitude- A Return to the Self” by Anthony Storr. “True health and happiness is ultimately based upon the ability to live in peace with oneself”.
There is a big difference between being alone and being lonely (feeling emotionally isolated, unwanted) . Spending time alone is therapeutic and healthy. We have to allow ourselves time in solitude seeking some space and quiet each day. Being lonely is not healthy or therapeutic. We are by nature a social species evolved to live in small groups, to touch each other, talk to each other, and bond. Loneliness is exhausting, and painful, the psycho-social equilivant of living with constant dull headache. Loneliness increases incidence of anxiety, stroke, depression, and dementia and its a serious condition that is now becoming an epidemic.
Don't know who you are, but very well said. Thanks 😊
Luca, just wanted to say that your short "film" "I feel alright" is great. I enjoy all your work.
haha, thank you I like that one too.
This made me feel less lonely
I'm glad to brighten your day
My loneliness seems never ending but suffering every moment as long as I woke up . Thx for ur bravery.😮
Keep going, my friend, you never know which day the sun will come out and give it's warmth to you. 👍😎
So well executed. Beautiful find in a yet to be seen by many corner. I trust you'll do well :)
Thanks you. I appreciate it a lot! I hope you do well!
This really stuck with me. Like genuinely, every scene is a memory i vividly remember doing as well. incredibly well-made video. when i first watched it, i only had my right earbud on and thought Jason wasn't speaking. i just thought it interesting how every form of socialization and action (whether talking or typing) is done on the side, but it's the music itself that takes the control of the audio -- the music itself being that universal language of loneliness. Honestly, the emotional weight that music brings was exactly what clouded my entire head, before, during, and after Covid. But it's why I turned to literature to fill up those lonely hours, because it both felt like talking to the author and sitting with the characters they have written.
To all the lonely people out there, you're amazing. Thank you for this incredible video, Luke. Jake played the role beautifully. Hope the best for you two!
Αφιερωμένο στον Στέφανο από το σχολείο που δεν είχε φίλους και σε παλιούς καλούς φίλους. Από Ελλάδα. Dedicated to Stefan from school who had no friends and to old good friends. From Greece.
I hate how much I relate to this...great film!
I'm sorry, don't worry, if anything the guy on CZcams is here for you haha , thanks!
A great short film really displaying this impact of loneliness.
Bravo! I could really feel the pain
i think loneliness/solitude is something that we don't talk about, I always wanted to read a book or a thesis about it. I'm someone that experience a lot of loneliness sometime in his life, and i think it is fascinating how ppl coop w that and some don't.
Yes, I agree, besides loneliness there's other things people don't talk about unfortunately, that's our society. A good movie to watch is Edward Scissorhands by Tim Burton. It's very sad and it resonated with me. Check it out!
Research the forbidden experiment. Psychologists have already concluded that being alone from birth or early childhood is too unethical to actually do any experiments with.
Feral children, like Edward Scissorhands that the other commenter mentioned, is the closest we can get to understanding the impact loneliness has on the psyche. Except, definitely read about real feral children.
I live alone, with two cats. I have poured myself my third drink and am watching this.
Always stay positive though! Things could be worse! What drink you make?
@@lucapaluca8537 New Amsterdam Vodka mixed with Ocean Spray Diet Cran Mango. Thank you for asking.
You've got Talent. I love this. It shows a hitherto unspoken side of a typical man's life. We men always have to face our significant battles alone. This is a side of our existence no one ever sees. It beyond female comprehension. Thank you so much for sharing this truly original short movie. You definitely have what it takes to succeed well in life. I love you tremendously my brother. Live long and prosper.
Thank you man for the kind words. I wish you all the same my friend.
What does a “female” has to do with this??
find groups that are focused on things you are interested in... join up, invest... start a group of your own...
Being alone is nice until a moment of weakness hits and i start missing craving connection with others
Learning to be alone and enjoy your own company is special. But yeah, we are social creatures after all!
Your entire video you are looking down. How could anyone get in?
Being alone definitely restores you and can heal you from this crazy world. But, fake it till you feel it. Smile and speak to people. Look up. There is much to see and learn.
Beautifully made, thank you ❤
of course!
Humans have evolved to be pack animals. But in my opinion, this was due to physical survival (hunting, building, fighting, gathering etc) As a result, we have become socially interdependent. In the 21st century, I dont think its as critical as most of us are connected to features (food at the ready, internet, mass transit, telephones) that involve less human interaction. We still need each other but its not as dire as once was.
love this
i love this!!
I'm glad you enjoyed it!
Whenever I feel lonely, I watch comedy. It always gives me a pick me up!
There are many people who share being alone... so get out there!!
Hell yeah! Love to hear it!
Love you
Dont know why this pops up in my recommention but I am intrigued and confused at the same time😂 subscribed for the mysterious misty somewhat melancholy vibes
Haha , I got on the algorithm I guess, I'm glad you checked it out though!
Masterpiece
thanks jg13!
Nice man really liked it
I'm glad you enjoyed it!
the girl in my class who was in Emotional distress and feeling loneliness itself dislikes to make friendship with me. she too was listening to songs about loneliness.
she was kind to everyone but.
Awesome my guy 💯 Greetings from Palm Beach Florida 😎
Thanks bro, much appreciated!
@@lucapaluca8537 Bell notifications are turned on for you my guy 👍
@@paulmoreno6279 Thanks brotha , much appreciated !
@@lucapaluca8537 👍 👌
It's good! 🙂 I like your initiative, and it's a nice idea, a tip, introspective or philosophical movies don't do very good on YT if you're new, try making one that everyone can understand, and make every scene not boring, don't need to be epic, just not boring, and make things you like, but don't go too far from people's expectations in a movie, uhh, that's all I know, I hope you have a lot of fun making movies 🙂
Thanks for your feedback, I will!
We are all alone. Even if you are in a crowd of people you are still alone. If you are in a relationship you are still your own individual person , so you are still alone. People depend on others to much. They don't want to be alone so they are needy. Accept that you have to be responsible for your own happiness.
Well said, this is all true!
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Bruh you got me ^^ I also have depression. I'm taking Amitriptyline and Lorazepam
I'm sorry man, I don't have depression or major depression, but I know what it feels like in short periods of time, and you are brave and strong , you got this!
@@lucapaluca8537 oh 😄✌✌
wow
shazzzy, lets ball bro, been a min
Wait until you pass 50 and see how you feel about this issue
You are reading a book in a public. I can't do that. I don't have any friends. I don't know many things, like how to drive. I don't even understand the computer
Keep pushing , keep struggling, don't dwell on it, and you will make progress!
@@lucapaluca8537 But this is the hardest thing for me
@@boburrahimov over come it, fear is in the mind, it is self inflicted. Take little steps. Just because someone can do something never means you cannot do it.
No subtitles in Portuguese. And the video has a very dark image. But I would really like to have supported it. The content looks really good :(
The beginning, he is leaving his friend a message on the phone during the pandemic. He is battling loneliness. He has no one except himself and he accepts it in the end, to be with himself.
@@lucapaluca8537 Although I am not exactly an orthodox religious person, but I know that Buddhism encourages solitude as an essential teaching for spiritual growth.
I also know that loneliness forced by the outside world (pandemic, for example) can generate suffering.
But solitude by choice can have countless benefits. Only by knowing ourselves, accepting ourselves, loving ourselves, will we be able to interact socially with more patience, tranquility, sincerity, empathy...
And there's more: we will die alone. Even on a crashing aircraft with 300 passengers, we may even scream together; but our deaths will be individual.

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@@lucapaluca8537Although I am not exactly an orthodox religious person, but i know that Buddhism encourages solitude as an essential teaching for spiritual growth. I also know that loneliness forced by the outside world (pandemic, for example) can generate suffering. But solitude by choice can have countless benefits. Only by knowing ourselves, accepting ourselves, loving ourselves, will we be able to interact socially with more patience, tranquility, sincerity, empathy... And there's more: we will die alone. Even on a crashing aircraft with 300 passengers, we may even scream together; but our deaths will be individual.
@@lucapaluca8537If possible, in the future, remember to subtitle your films. I live in Brazil and I'm subscribed to your channel because of your creativity.
@@aosilva1032 yes, this is all true, well said!
se escucha de un lado amigo
Gym
These are just short films
Leave your friends and family and tell others about Jesus if you believe! Go see how alone you won’t be! Maybe we can try it together some day in the future!
you are more loved than you even know. God loves you so much He sent His son Jesus Christ to die for you. He loves you and is with you. Please seek Him
So whats the deal? can't relate to people or have problems being around people . Drinking alone is not a good idea, by the way .
I LOVE YOU BABY
The best friend you will ever have is Jesus!
I know you wants to meet like minded people. how are you ? ate food ?