The MOST TOXIC player I’ve seen in 15,000 hours of Rocket League?! | My thoughts on online toxicity…

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  • @lesanjisan2989
    @lesanjisan2989 Před rokem +4268

    the fact that u kept calling out that he did good things or made a good attempt, just shows how professional you are Squish. Nor did u give a reaction so props to that

    • @Matt-yw2oi
      @Matt-yw2oi Před rokem +50

      Exactly this, I believe I left a similar comment a couple weeks ago. This is far more entertaining and valuable to watch someone who doesn’t sit there teammate blaming

    • @hydrarl3869
      @hydrarl3869 Před rokem +1

      @@Matt-yw2oi Left a comment like the dude in the game? We need answers

    • @Matt-yw2oi
      @Matt-yw2oi Před rokem +19

      @@hydrarl3869 nah I was raised to know how to respect individuals regardless of beliefs. I meant I left a similar comment talking about how professional and mature squish is when it comes to his gameplay and talking about teammates.

    • @flurexx2002
      @flurexx2002 Před rokem +12

      Pretty sure things would’ve been different off camera

    • @sidneygann2527
      @sidneygann2527 Před rokem

      Giving him the attention he's looking for is in fact a waste of your NRG! Internet pirates have nothing better to do.

  • @bird_0446
    @bird_0446 Před rokem +1044

    I knew why you stopped streaming but hearing you talk about it is still heart crushing. The fact that people can treat others like shit is terrible. Haters will always be there, stay strong Squishy we love you!

    • @damiozr1603
      @damiozr1603 Před rokem

      @@Jolzy shut ur goofy as up bro

    • @bird_0446
      @bird_0446 Před rokem +10

      @@Jolzy I actually frightened. .

    • @ishytamephoenix
      @ishytamephoenix Před rokem +6

      Wait he doesn't stream anymore what happened

    • @sukkisukki7663
      @sukkisukki7663 Před rokem +3

      I mean it’s not that big of a deal it’s just some kid trolling having they’re own fun

    • @thesaxofaunist
      @thesaxofaunist Před rokem +47

      @@sukkisukki7663 always that one person

  • @XEra404
    @XEra404 Před rokem +430

    You are a class act young man. Don't let other peoples' negativity affect you. If that's what someone wants to be, they have their own problems. You're gonna be in the Rocket League hall of fame. You'll always be my favorite pro. I got my kids psyched watching C9 win, it was awesome!!

    • @Scooploop1
      @Scooploop1 Před rokem +6

      Acc made 16 yrs ago is actually crazy

    • @icarob.1655
      @icarob.1655 Před rokem

      What a save 😂😂

    • @icarob.1655
      @icarob.1655 Před rokem

      What a save 😂😂

    • @NEbeliever
      @NEbeliever Před rokem +1

      @icarob.1655 u need three what a saves in a row for maximum toxicity

    • @Leinzd
      @Leinzd Před 5 měsíci

      W comment

  • @cloudkof9164
    @cloudkof9164 Před rokem +92

    I'm sure I've said this on another video, but as a dad and a RL fan, I can't say thank you enough for being a great human being. I know I'll be a proud parent if my kids have your mindset in life. Keep it up and go win another chip son!

  • @arrak5000
    @arrak5000 Před rokem +2112

    Remain stoic squish, you’re a good role model for these young kids 💪🏽

    • @AnDr3w066
      @AnDr3w066 Před rokem +2

      beta

    • @arrak5000
      @arrak5000 Před rokem +78

      @@AnDr3w066 sure lil man... i have a kid probably around your age so don’t expect me to engage

    • @AnDr3w066
      @AnDr3w066 Před rokem

      @@arrak5000 betaaaa

    • @kringhetto
      @kringhetto Před rokem +59

      @@AnDr3w066 lol, nice troll 👏. Imagining you typing "beta" with your cheeto dusted fingers gives me life.

    • @AnDr3w066
      @AnDr3w066 Před rokem

      @@kringhetto betas are getting real mad.

  • @stylz8081
    @stylz8081 Před rokem +750

    following squish for awhile now and am so proud that he was willing to talk about things like this. same thing happens to me. it pushed me from the game and im sure it pushes alot of people from the game. if there was just more positivity it would be great. negativity is contagious and is not good to be around.

    • @SL33P3R.
      @SL33P3R. Před rokem +30

      Just a tip to anyone that feels that way about a game. Just turn chat off, you will never know what anyone says to you. It's one of the best things they have added to alot of games.

    • @beingandtime
      @beingandtime Před rokem +16

      @@SL33P3R. yeah, I found that turning type chat off and just keeping team tactical quick chat on not only prevents me from coming across toxicity like this but also helps me to focus more on the actual game and, ultimately, play better.

    • @ghad6799
      @ghad6799 Před rokem +6

      Counter toxicity. Commit physical play. Chances are they have worse anger issues than you, so you can exploit those early challenges. Work on mechanics. Tell your opponent to train more. Pisses them off everytime and ez win

    • @austinrios4601
      @austinrios4601 Před rokem +1

      just had a teammate call me the same thing after one goal, but that doesn't mean we give up. so i played it out and the teammate just sat there until he got dc'd. After he left the other guys let me win but the community does have to understand that its just a game. just because you may be on a losing streak doesnt mean its the end of the world. do better rocket league. we all 3 reported him so if he doesn't get banned ill be highly disappointed.

    • @tobysheridan5252
      @tobysheridan5252 Před rokem +5

      @@ghad6799 there are toxic people far better than either of us will ever be. “Getting gud” is the stupidest fix

  • @TheGlennmiles
    @TheGlennmiles Před rokem +109

    Hey Squishy! It is a truly wonderful thing to be vulnerable like that in a public domain, and to tell the world how you're feeling. You have such a big influence on so many people all over the world; and the fact that you made the choice to upload this video and to share things about yourself and your life as a young adult is a wonderful thing. Keep making the world a better place

  • @mohamedghoneim4085
    @mohamedghoneim4085 Před rokem +18

    I used to be toxic and mentally weak and pathetic but that's in the past now. after watching this video till the end. I felt a great deal of pain in my heart as I remembered, I felt so horrible. Definitely for me one of the biggest regrets in life acting like that and I sincerely wish that I could find every single person whom talked ill to and say I'm so sorry.

    • @turtleturt3261
      @turtleturt3261 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Saying the n word is your biggest regret 😂? But props to you for putting it in the past man you love to see that.

    • @anomaly3215
      @anomaly3215 Před 3 měsíci

      @@turtleturt3261 you dumb?

    • @nam-dm1ut
      @nam-dm1ut Před měsícem +1

      @@turtleturt3261 I'm not sure if you're making a really unfunny joke or you actually don't get it, but *being a terrible person* was *one of* their biggest regrets, not saying one thing, although it could may as well be. Don't downplay people's regrets. Most unconsequential thing can be your biggest regret, and the thing with worst consequences may not be something you regret at all, for example in a situation where you already knew about the risks and went forward with it.

  • @olivermyatt5437
    @olivermyatt5437 Před rokem +545

    I’ve never commented on a video before but I feel like I have to now to commend you for your positivity :) You defined rocket league from the instant you started playing and here you are today still positively impacting a community you helped create. Keep up the great work man :)

    • @thirsty7281
      @thirsty7281 Před rokem +6

      Awesome stuff mate! Well said!

    • @ZacValdez13
      @ZacValdez13 Před rokem

      Tell him again 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @erwidobi7812
      @erwidobi7812 Před rokem

      lol maybe besides the smurfing in money tournaments

    • @Dreamcatcher9000
      @Dreamcatcher9000 Před rokem

      You have never commented on a video ever before in your life? How's that possible? :p

    • @thirsty7281
      @thirsty7281 Před rokem

      @@Dreamcatcher9000 Especially because he joined 2 years ago.

  • @ShibbyRL
    @ShibbyRL Před rokem +750

    I literally assumed Cam was gonna act like this especially after the first game and thought he was gonna keep losing and lose his mind lol.

    • @personnobody3710
      @personnobody3710 Před rokem +22

      Me too! LOL

    • @iskilii6877
      @iskilii6877 Před rokem +87

      I was waiting for cam to start scoring own goals or SOMETHING that guy is so tilted 24/7😂😂😂

    • @Astryns.
      @Astryns. Před rokem +2

      same here lol

    • @hamishstein9978
      @hamishstein9978 Před rokem +2

      nah cam is a known rl figure he wouldn’t be toxic

    • @reubenkimber
      @reubenkimber Před rokem +71

      @@hamishstein9978 cam is heavily known for his huuuuge toxicity and ego

  • @mikluap1
    @mikluap1 Před rokem +28

    i grow more and more respect for you with every video I watch. You took a shitty situation and not only called him out on his bs, you showed exactly how to respond with stoicism. Your self awareness, maturity and sincere positivity makes this game that much better. Your videos are therapeutic, educational, and inspirational man

  • @yusow
    @yusow Před rokem +4

    Honestly I think it's great that you're taking the time to open your heart and tell us about this, even though for most of us we already know that every person is affected to some degree by the negativity they encounter. As an NRG fan I'm so happy to have a player with such an admirable mentality, and even from our point of view (as an NRG supporter/fan) we come across extremely nasty comments towards you, and even if it's jokes it's hurtful because deep down the negative things are said even in jest. As an esport fan, I find it unhealthy the pressure that is put on players and teams, your journey is admirable (your individual journey, NRG's and all its players are too) and I think everyone would dream of it, but of course you can't stay on top forever, there are ups and downs like everything else in life (it's happened to all teams and players: dignitas, g2, c9, vitality, nrg, bds - turbopolsa, kaydop, violentpanda, you guys from NRG) but that means nothing, your talent is undoubtedly there, I too have hope for you and the team! Sending love ❤️ honestly as a fan of nrg and esport rocket league i would never shoot you for doing "bad" results or anything else, and by the way since as many of you as you, garrett or justin, it's so hard, i'd see it again and yet i'm having a hard time beating ssl to get to the top rank of the game So yes, you have to forgive the pros because you are up against so many formidable teams that to be 6th in NA is already extraordinary. Even if you want to be at the top, and we wish you that too! Love ❤️

  • @maxdebenham5513
    @maxdebenham5513 Před rokem +70

    6:06 nothing could've prepared me for that

    • @oscr_rl7863
      @oscr_rl7863 Před rokem +7

      lmao fr

    • @madminute6662
      @madminute6662 Před rokem +16

      Absolutely flabbergasted

    • @blez5418
      @blez5418 Před rokem +6

      got me rolling ngl

    • @salineaddict9850
      @salineaddict9850 Před rokem +2

      I expected something worse tbh, I see that word all the time in chat, I had to turn team chat on because I’m sick of it. I’m Diamond range, so it makes sense I see it more than squishy does. But also RL has a small minority of toxic players and it overshadows the rest.

    • @DarknessRL
      @DarknessRL Před měsícem

      hello snowflake generation, how are you?

  • @hurdlerl-
    @hurdlerl- Před rokem +434

    just so u guys know this is one of the wintraders, he cheats his way up in mmr and stream snipes pros and stuff etc, and then says racist / out of pocket stuff like this. hes been banned on twitch and on many accounts (no its not Ashllxyy the one armed player)

    • @hazeisbored2937
      @hazeisbored2937 Před rokem +105

      Yeah he obv wasn't on their level lmao. Wish he'd got an IP-ban already

    • @justinwilliams2381
      @justinwilliams2381 Před rokem +8

      Figured he was a win trader, but nice to see it confirmed

    • @4jkendall
      @4jkendall Před rokem +86

      yeah he was clearly not good enough for that lobby. what a lame existence

    • @jonas8993
      @jonas8993 Před rokem +36

      Its actually depressing that, there's always markets for stuff like this. Between cheats, scams, snipping... Like... why... This is a video game, everybody came here to have fun at some point, why are certain people here to try and ruin it...

    • @sobakathehusky
      @sobakathehusky Před rokem +2

      Well said Squishy. It’s important to remember we are playing together even when miles apart. Respect and kindness go a long way even when not in person, maybe especially when not in person since it’s so hard to actually connect but just as easy to be hurt. Good words dude. As always love the content.

  • @cloudkof9164
    @cloudkof9164 Před rokem +42

    People sure are brave when they are anonymous aren't they?

    • @twstdreality
      @twstdreality Před 9 měsíci

      You’re one to speak pal

    • @genesisosuna
      @genesisosuna Před 9 měsíci +2

      ​@@twstdrealitythe person that commented isn't saying anything offensive or trying to act tough. Not sure whet you're trying to say here.

    • @anomaly3215
      @anomaly3215 Před 3 měsíci

      @@twstdreality touch a woman

    • @anomaly3215
      @anomaly3215 Před 3 měsíci

      @@genesisosuna hey beautiful hyd

    • @alexmaldonado2804
      @alexmaldonado2804 Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@@anomaly3215ain't no way bro 😭

  • @thomasreed5654
    @thomasreed5654 Před rokem +38

    You are probably one of the most underrated players in RLCS, and I don't mean in terms of skill because we all *know* you're skilled beyond measure. As someone who has watched you since you were called The Muffin Men, your humility and respect towards the community and other RL players is unmatched. I guess what I'm trying to say is.. you've taught people so much more than just Rocket League, and you lead by example. Keep it up Squish.

  • @anthonydamato0803
    @anthonydamato0803 Před rokem +273

    I can tell in your voice at the end of the video squish that what are you saying is genuine and from the heart. I can sense the emotion. I hope people act better so people like you who have notoriety can still live like the rest of us. You don't deserve to be treated that way.

  • @wiskidew
    @wiskidew Před rokem +259

    This video should be shown to everyone struggling with ranked queue and mental health in any game. What a strong message on how your environment can mold your mental state. Be a positive influence on young gamers!

    • @ChiefLunar
      @ChiefLunar Před rokem +3

      Crazy how he didn’t even report him, right? Like wtf, that troll would’ve for sure gotten chat banned

    • @Dreamcatcher9000
      @Dreamcatcher9000 Před rokem +1

      @@ChiefLunar Even if he wasn't bothered personally, he should report him, because scam like these shouldn't exist in any game.

  • @_clorp
    @_clorp Před rokem +10

    Your empathy for the other players, especially the young ones, is super cool. After all the trolls you've dealt with it would have been easy excuse to become more cynical but instead youve become more kind. Big props.

  • @MitchyMadness
    @MitchyMadness Před rokem

    Thank you for speaking truth, man. I deal with this daily on Rocket League. At the end of the day we are here to improve and have fun. I remember watching your old games and you’d mute people immediately. It wouldn’t be a bad idea to silence them. The objective for these people is a response, they thrive off of it. It’s pretty lame. I still watch your content, man. You’re a warrior, it’s easier said than done but don’t let these people self reflect their own issues onto you. You’re sick dude, always been helpful to the community and have been a huge inspiration for myself and I’m sure everyone else watching. You’re a real one man. It may sound weird but your videos bring me genuine happiness, I hope to see you around long enough to play you in a game. All love man, that’s all you’ve ever promoted ❤

  • @JediKnight988
    @JediKnight988 Před rokem +64

    i love the monolog at the end really shows where your mindset is at. Like you said it's a waste of our energy to give a response to negativity.. too many trolls on rl nowadays looks like they've made it to SSL, probably with bots.

    • @blackmercury956
      @blackmercury956 Před rokem

      He got win boosted and his multiple account got banned. But imo rockets league needs to start doing IP ban like fornite

  • @samautrey3834
    @samautrey3834 Před rokem +5

    Been watching you since the beginning. I have never seen you show this kind of vulnerability, my respect for you has just skyrocketed and you have 100% reinvigorated my fandom in you. Stay squishy

  • @_puffy
    @_puffy Před rokem +1

    Rocket league is a competitive game and it can get frustrating. So beyond the baseline toxicity of the gaming internet, the dynamic of the gameplay and inherent stressfulness of the competitive nature is susceptible to breeding toxicity. I know I get frustrated when I grind, and whenever I feel tempted to get or start getting toxic (think sassy Nice Shot!), I know it's time to take a break. I have some tolerance for frustrated teammates.. I get it.. but there's no excuse for behaving like the way that person did. It says more about their character than anything, and it pays in dividends to take the high road and not humor it.
    Thanks for uploading this video Squishy. I'm not as familiar with you as some other pros, but I gained a ton of respect (and a new channel to subscribe to) for how you handled yourself here. I think you reflect how all professionals should practice their craft - with passion, understanding, and positivity.

  • @kanesadler114
    @kanesadler114 Před rokem +87

    Thank you for speaking out Squishy, It means more to a lot of people than you think🙏🏾

  • @miladhayat5915
    @miladhayat5915 Před rokem +60

    The toxicity in this game is actually crazy and the same can be said for the chat in RL Esport. It's like kicking people when they are mentally down anyways, because we all know loosing doesn't feel good. The last events, the NRG chat especially, was just slandering the boys and to hear that you stopped streaming and even thought of retiring is making me feel very bad for you. I'm just happy to see all three of you healthy and in beastform on the next weekend even if you guys get last it doesn't matter for me.

    • @ChiefLunar
      @ChiefLunar Před rokem +2

      Fr man that’s why I can’t play RL anymore too toxic swear to god no other game is as bad I log into rocket league to run a casual game after not playing for 6 months and 2 games in I already get a toxic teammate lol

    • @Sourwhatup
      @Sourwhatup Před rokem +2

      @@ChiefLunar can't let people get to you... just mute them and block them. keep playing.

    • @Crystxllize
      @Crystxllize Před rokem +2

      ​@@ChiefLunar just disable chat. I did a few months ago and not gonna lie, best thing ever, makes the game so much more enjoyable

    • @farexponent9173
      @farexponent9173 Před rokem

      ​@@ChiefLunarThere's like 100's of games more toxic than rl. But if toxicity is really effecting you then just turn chat off when you solo queue.

    • @SkyVirtual
      @SkyVirtual Před rokem

      Csgo and league of legends are worse

  • @yaba9726
    @yaba9726 Před rokem

    That's just the way to deal with it. Subconciously it maybe does have a effect when people write bs, but just not letting it get to you to much and keeping the good vibes up will always be the way to go. And the more people stand unite against toxicity the more will follow and hopefully some of the bullys one day realize that there are other ways than to bs other people online.
    Anyways thank you for being such a good role model to all of us and that your showing us what it does to you mentally espacially at such a young age, but also nowadays...
    Love always

  • @Wolfchant17
    @Wolfchant17 Před rokem +6

    I stopped playing because of the toxic community. My temper would always get the better of me, and I would end up behaving no better than them. So good on you for being able to keep yourself so composed. It was just easier for me to remove myself from the situations that would get me so worked up.

  • @natasha4391
    @natasha4391 Před rokem +41

    dude i love this game it's super fun but people really do suck the life out of it, thank you for talking about it so openly and posting that game despite the slur. just saying, if you ever retired and did whatever else i would still watch your content. you're dope squish.

  • @raza.y
    @raza.y Před rokem

    Stay positive man and keep going. Ignore the trolls for the rest of us who admire your skill and achievements. Also great message to community at the end. It is a hard game & everyone makes mistakes. I remember I had less than 50 hours I was stuck in net just watching the ball & nice shotting everyone because I was amazed even at my opponents how they good they were, but they thought I was toxic and started saying how bad I am (at the time I didn't realize nice shot quick chat can be considered toxic to anyone). Told them I am learning and new to game they immediately apologized & realized their mistake.

  • @Yuletyrl
    @Yuletyrl Před rokem +1

    Needed to hear this squish. You’re still the goat idc what anyone else says. You were the reason I started playing competitive rocket league. Glad to hear that you’re confident with nrg still it makes me happy.

  • @wupp69
    @wupp69 Před rokem +62

    He did NOT want to play another game after that💀 For real tho can't imagine how hard it is for you guys dealing with these haters/trolls constantly

  • @exotic_beat7281
    @exotic_beat7281 Před rokem +17

    Man... It's so depressing and sad to see these kinds of things happen. If anything, it only shows the jealousy of some people, and even though I know that you already know that, it's really important to remember it - jealousy exists in people that want what you have. It's, although sadly, a part of the industry, and the only way to answer to these people, is not to answer to them at all, which you already did, and huge props to you squish!
    I've probably watched your rant at the end a couple of times now, and just knowing that you even thought about retiring because of trolls and dumb people is heartbreaking... I dearly hope to watch you lift that trophy again, and I know that I'm not the only one who thinks that way. What motivates me as a fan, is seeing you and the NRG squad succeed, whether it being in ranked on CZcams, or on stage at a LAN.
    I'm about to be 25 years old soon, just finished my bachelors degree in mechanical engineering, and through my lows the past couple of years - lows on my study or just life in general - I always got in a good mood whenever you had posted a new video, and it always calmed me down and took my mind off of things. With the bright charisma and atmosphere you radiate, I always feel welcomed and at ease watching you play.
    Just know that we appreciate you and will always support you, Mr. Muffin Man! And this message isn't only for you, but for the whole NRG squad as well!

  • @dominikdjurak149
    @dominikdjurak149 Před rokem

    This video was so heartwarming. You're such a good role model and inspiration for everyone, especially in this toxic world we live in. I can't describe how much more i love you after this video. I'll always keep supporting you and your team, no matter where you'll be. Keep it up and rise back to the top !!!

  • @halorl123
    @halorl123 Před rokem +1

    your such an inspiration to me in rocket league, i love how you play and i respect your mental so so much, i find it hard to believe that your still so positive after someone said that to you and how you are still willing to say he did something good is really inspiring to me. keep up the great work ❤❤❤

  • @ch33tha
    @ch33tha Před rokem +26

    The fact you stayed calm bro and stayed a good team mate to him is the reason your are very well known in this community comparing to that nobody

  • @justinwilliams2381
    @justinwilliams2381 Před rokem +129

    I've been missing your streams, but it's understandable why you don't do them anymore.
    You're a goat Squish, keep your head up!

  • @XxTsGMontagexX
    @XxTsGMontagexX Před rokem +1

    Amazing video man. I’m 21, and I know there’s a lot of kids out there that need to hear stuff like this. You’re a great dude to take the time to add to your video like that. keep up the awesome work man, mad respect 💯

  • @lockwoodpatrick82
    @lockwoodpatrick82 Před rokem

    Hey man, I've been following you and your career for a long time now, since the good 'ol days (pre muffin men even). Just wanted to let you know that the main reason I've stuck around, following you and your content, being a squishy fanboy (

  • @BBYDJ
    @BBYDJ Před rokem +15

    I really look up to you squishy. That way you treat trash talk, the way you react, and just being a good example to young kids. Thank you for that message at the end of ur video!!!

  • @MrBuffalo
    @MrBuffalo Před rokem +175

    After definitely watching the whole video I can confirm this was the most toxic player ever seen in 15,000 hours.

    • @sharad6697
      @sharad6697 Před rokem +15

      After watching this entire video I can confirm that was the most toxic player i’ve ever seen in 150 hours.

    • @vali0603
      @vali0603 Před rokem +22

      Hey guys, I'm Captain Obvious and I can confirm that this guy did NOT watch the whole video because it is 17 minutes long and it just released 2 minutes ago. James Maynard will not trap you this time thanks to me!

    • @LuckyRL
      @LuckyRL Před rokem +1

      you traveled ahead in time by 15 minutes

    • @HerbertThundercock
      @HerbertThundercock Před rokem

      @@vali0603 thank you kind Mr.Juleslezingou☝️

    • @vali0603
      @vali0603 Před rokem

      @@HerbertThundercock there's no problems Herbert, just doing my job 🤘

  • @kendallhardesty6931
    @kendallhardesty6931 Před rokem

    this is why i love watch squishy and nrg in general! Keep up the positivity!! especially in RL so much trash talk, but your amazing!!

  • @twaltxn
    @twaltxn Před 9 měsíci

    only just got into rocket league and i’m a straight up beginner and this is my first time watching but you’ve not even made this video to give us tips but i’ve learnt so much telling us your thought process as you go it’s definitely helped me in my decision making and plays now so nice one will have to watch more of your vids

  • @amexonga
    @amexonga Před rokem +6

    One of your most powerful videos yet. Sorry to hear what you've had to deal with, and that there can be so much toxicity and hate in this world. I've been playing since 2015 and spread positive vibes to my teammates and opponents whenever I can ♥️
    PS I respect the shit out of you! Love you man.

  • @GotDamBoi
    @GotDamBoi Před rokem +30

    I don't even engage with people anymore. Quick chat only for every game. I know I'm probably missing some legitimately good people but it's worth it for my sanity. I'm too old for this shit

    • @krall14
      @krall14 Před rokem +2

      So true, I barely play games anymore. The last thing I want to put up with when I do decide to play is some crap like this

    • @XR-888
      @XR-888 Před rokem +3

      You’re not missing out on anything with the rocket league community. The good of it has long been on a decline

    • @wohnie39
      @wohnie39 Před rokem +2

      Not missing out on anything. I turned my chat off completely and while it did lead to a couple of misunderstandings on kickoffs, I've been having a lot more fun in the game and winning more games.

  • @dannydeko331
    @dannydeko331 Před rokem +178

    Crazy how these players can act, glad you lost the second one, get him down the food chain

    • @AnDr3w066
      @AnDr3w066 Před rokem +2

      down the food chain of ssl.. thats a cope

    • @heisen1815
      @heisen1815 Před rokem +10

      @@AnDr3w066 nobody cares about what happens below rank A/2100 so yes good thing that he lost 🎉

    • @AnDr3w066
      @AnDr3w066 Před rokem

      @@heisen1815 lol keep on coping.

    • @heisen1815
      @heisen1815 Před rokem +9

      @@AnDr3w066 you're the one acting like some low SSL nobody matters in the food chain of comp RL stay mad 👍

    • @tidusandjecht10
      @tidusandjecht10 Před rokem

      @@AnDr3w066 ur mad at life lol

  • @APRBaller
    @APRBaller Před 10 měsíci +1

    It's absolutely infuriating. I just got back into RL after a year and half hiatus because the last time I had played (for a week straight I shit you not), all I got into were toxic lobbies with teammates throwing, arguing with each other, the opposing team joining in on the shitfest, etc. This was CASUAL, mind you. All I'm trying to do in that playlist is warm up, and I still get despised for making the smallest mistakes. I had NEVER been so frustrated in my life playing a game that I enjoyed so much. I don't get why everybody has a pine tree shoved up their ass when they play this game apparently.

  • @Easymoneysniper45
    @Easymoneysniper45 Před rokem +1

    Thank u bro. The message about negativity affecting us as youth is very very important. Thank you for the reminder

  • @DrBowMaster
    @DrBowMaster Před rokem +9

    Thanks for your insight on toxicity at the end Squish, that mindset is exactly what all rl pros should strive for ❤.
    Also, good luck in the upcoming regional, I’ll be cheering the entire way through 👍

  • @thesaxofaunist
    @thesaxofaunist Před rokem +11

    I’ve been a fan of yours for a long time squishy and always will be because of your positivity, don’t ever let them bring you down none of them will ever achieve anything close to what you have achieved and I love that you continue to be professional and positive, keep your head up goat

  • @woodzy6100
    @woodzy6100 Před rokem

    Great perspective. It's good to see an honest take on how the community/fans interact and how it effects people. Pro's are ppl too.

  • @frmvtrn
    @frmvtrn Před rokem +3

    squishy we love you brother, you helped many of us to imrpove at the game. thank you for the realtalk, and thx for always staying positive. keep going bro, we got your back

  • @jerdro
    @jerdro Před rokem +17

    You handled the situation well squishy. Much love ❤

  • @frostfire9434
    @frostfire9434 Před rokem +1

    Love the message you spread squish, keep the community positive! Thanks for all your hard work!

  • @ThePumqkin
    @ThePumqkin Před rokem +3

    I love squishy's mindset and self control. It was intelligent to not respond to Ashley. It was also heartwarming to see squishy not get angry with his team-mate and he still played as a team player. Very good role model, love you squishy ❤️

  • @zito88
    @zito88 Před rokem +5

    Not that I'm happy that someone would say that, but I'm in Champ and I see that type of stuff all the time so in some ways it's good to know everyone deals with it at every rank. But either way I hope that guy gets banned for that. I try my best to just report and move on. The world needs more love and let hatefulness and toxicity. Glad you didn't respond but tried to stay positive and do your thing. Also glad you uploaded it.

  • @zaheen6614
    @zaheen6614 Před rokem +4

    Bro squishymuffinz ur literally my favorite RL CZcamsr
    I love you and the team so much and I think us fans don't realise how much work you boys put in
    Squishy pls don't retire tho I'm acc gonna cry😓😓
    Love u squishymuffinz your the best!!!

  • @YezJPKR
    @YezJPKR Před rokem

    Wow, this was a great video for me to watch. I just started getting into Rocket League more competitively and I know it can be toxic. Great job for not letting it get to you and setting a good example Squishy.

  • @daltonmckay4179
    @daltonmckay4179 Před rokem

    At first I was so confused at why you'd leave that clip in there and as I watched I realized your reasoning. Bringing this to the light and discussing it and finding ways to help each other deal with negativity in the world was great. So happy to have seen this upload.

  • @ProfJonJon
    @ProfJonJon Před rokem +37

    as a big fan of yours, it was really refreshing hearing you talk and speak about mental. I hope you guys get over the mental hump, and it seems like your head is in the right place. really happy to hear that and we need more people like yourself.

  • @SkelletorMartinez
    @SkelletorMartinez Před rokem +3

    Squishy your mental is amazing. I would not be able to deal with that troll as well as you did. Keep spreading the good vibes

  • @ravenclawknight8701
    @ravenclawknight8701 Před rokem +4

    Thank you for bringing these things to light and talking about it. When people do these things it really hurts the community and the more we try not being toxic the better it is for everyone. At the end of the day we all just want to play car soccer and have fun doing it

  • @rlcoachshazanwich
    @rlcoachshazanwich Před rokem

    I really respect your point of view Squishy. If I were in a similar position I would try to say the same message you are. I’ve experienced the toxicity of this game many times and all of them extremely unpleasant and destroyed my self esteem. While I know these are just people. The words they say are hard to ignore. Life and this game would be so much better if people were a little kinder than they are. I myself try to encourage positivity when it comes to games and just how I treat people IRL or online. Being positive soothes my subconscious and makes me feel safe.

  • @ZacValdez13
    @ZacValdez13 Před rokem +2

    Love your attitude bro! I wish the community was more like you as a whole. “I am still going to be a good teammate to him.” I played you once in casual late night and we got wrecked and I got a demo on you. My only game with a pro. Ggs bro 🤙🏽🙌🏽👊🏽

  • @lucasampaoli1977
    @lucasampaoli1977 Před rokem +3

    9:35 the fact that you keep calling out his good plays even tho you got scored twice because of him is crazy amazing ! Stay strong man love your vids ❤

  • @frizzloko
    @frizzloko Před rokem +3

    Even if you retire, you are still the best it's ever been. You have nothing to prove, you've already proven it. You are the greatest and a personal hero of mine. Thank you so much, Mariano!

  • @CarneyParty
    @CarneyParty Před rokem

    Love u so much squish! Hope to see you in San Diego keep it up 💙

  • @two_rare2256
    @two_rare2256 Před rokem

    Doing great bro, keep pushing. Thank you for the videos and for being you man

  • @Omar-gv1op
    @Omar-gv1op Před rokem +4

    You have to ignore people like this, don’t waste your energy and give attention to this kind of people. When they will be ignored they will feel they are not seen by RL community. You are legend and everyone knows who you are and what have you been doing for RL community. Love and respect my friend ❤.

  • @mcspacecash6807
    @mcspacecash6807 Před rokem +8

    your commentary at the end of this video is why you're hands down my favorite RL player. looking out for the future generations is awesome. you're still young too, but you've got an incredibly mature attitude. thanks for being you, squishy! can't wait to see you all succeed!

  • @erased6900
    @erased6900 Před 11 měsíci

    I know how you feel tbh. I was buoyed when I was in school and I still am so I know how it feels to be hated in and all that. I don’t care about it that much but like you said it does affect you a little bit and I’ve noticed that. But don’t give up on your dreams and don’t quit because we are all here for you and we will support you no matter what you go threw. But don’t give up and don’t let the haters get to you!! Just keep doing what you love and that’s all that matters man. So don’t give up!! And I also loved your rocket league car, I thought it was pretty cool looking.

  • @nickalarid1234
    @nickalarid1234 Před rokem

    Squishy You are an absolute inspiration. Thanks for always being here for us. One of my top heroes in RL. Thanks

  • @patrickford4120
    @patrickford4120 Před rokem +9

    Speaking as a father, fan, and gamer..It's unsettling knowing my son who loves gaming as much as me sees toxicity like that. Super grateful for rolemodels like yourself spreading this message and being a genuine human. - You the man squish, keep being you ❤️

  • @leaky3955
    @leaky3955 Před rokem +5

    I doubt I’m alone when I say your talent in Rocket League is why I started watching you play, but your calm and encouraging attitude is what made me a fan. And it’s why I’ll always root for you regardless of what your team is ranked. You’re setting an example for all those who follow your footsteps, as well as all of us who play online games. You’re showing us how to make better decisions in rocket league on many different levels. One of the best to play the game.

  • @halcyon7005
    @halcyon7005 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I think I've somehow gotten derailed from seeing the bigger picture with toxicity, even in the context of rocket league. Helps to see you carrying the torch.

  • @thegardens9221
    @thegardens9221 Před rokem

    You know, when i first started playing rocket league a few years ago, i came across RLCS, that same RLCS that you won with C9 and you instantly became my favorite player. And as of this video you clearly are, and still, going to be my favorite player. Currently coaching a RL team at my local college and i make sure to pass the values of respect to my players. Keep it up Squishy!

  • @bipnuts401
    @bipnuts401 Před rokem +7

    Squishy, I always enjoy watching you play, but I loved hearing your thoughts in this video. The way you handled that troll and your mindset about your current position in RLCS as well as the importance of spreading positivity in the game, shows how mature and wise you have become in front of our eyes, which for a still very young 22 years old, is extraordinary. Bravo legend. And thank you for uploading.

  • @Obs2748
    @Obs2748 Před rokem +8

    Nah this is some every game toxicity in Diamond

    • @jerdro
      @jerdro Před rokem +4

      You should see Gc 1 😂

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      @jerdro Před rokem

  • @grimm_raven188
    @grimm_raven188 Před 10 měsíci +2

    i had to go back 3 times to see what made you say wow i thought it was the gameplay then i saw it great on you for having an unbreakable composure for toxicity and gameplay wish i was unbreakable like that

  • @ElementWTF
    @ElementWTF Před rokem

    great mentality and really refreshing words to hear in this sad world ! stay healty champ ! learned a lot from ur gameplay and commentarys ! this year will be my Grand Champ summer ! c2 l2 now ❤

  • @jagdawgii929
    @jagdawgii929 Před rokem +3

    All love squishy, sorry that happened to you but great message about that man

  • @yoitstrevor
    @yoitstrevor Před rokem

    We love you Squish! Glad you took the time to share what's on your heart! Lose, or win, I'll still support you guys!

  • @brodiedame8452
    @brodiedame8452 Před 8 měsíci +2

    It shows how much better you are as a person by just staying chill and not typing something negative back. This is why we love you Squish

  • @KingReubs
    @KingReubs Před rokem +4

    That dude has nothing going for him in life. Happy people don't try so hard to upset others. Sad to watch

  • @alegenda4390
    @alegenda4390 Před rokem +5

    Thats why I never activated my chat in Rocket League

  • @kuafg
    @kuafg Před rokem +1

    Been watching you for years squish, not just because your a legend of a player, but you shine through as a great person. Happy people like you spreading positivity have a platform.

  • @rrrgaming1485
    @rrrgaming1485 Před rokem

    I've watched your videos here and there but after seeing and hearing how you handled this and your feelings a life. I have nothing but respect for you!!

  • @Lurchstavo
    @Lurchstavo Před rokem +3

    It's crazy that wasn't edited out or blurred out though..

  • @Bminister_12
    @Bminister_12 Před rokem +14

    I was speechless when I saw that message, didn’t think SSL’s acted like that

    • @blazikin
      @blazikin Před rokem

      theres a few who do this

    • @nevarDski
      @nevarDski Před rokem +1

      You didn't think SSL's acted like that? People in actual positions of power act like this, why wouldn't kids?

    • @jonas8993
      @jonas8993 Před rokem

      yeah well, it's about people's persona, not skills. Of course, sometimes the amount of hours and skills affects how people act but. There's still sh*tty and good people everywhere

    • @jarnold0124
      @jarnold0124 Před rokem

      Fake ssl using win trading to boost their accounts

    • @Bminister_12
      @Bminister_12 Před rokem

      My bad I don’t know everything guys. Just assumed ssls would be at a higher level of maturity

  • @_mr3_
    @_mr3_ Před rokem

    Thanks dude, I like the timing of this. To me this issue extends to people that use negativity as what they see as a morally 'valid' tool in game too. While they've justified it in their minds morally, if they're honest then they have to acknowledge the potential to cause damage beyond what you'd expect with silence or positivity. It's easy to just say "toughen up", but you don't know the background or history someone's lived through on the other side, so you don't know how well or poorly even a reasonable person would receive and experience it. To use that kind of strategy to me is saying this is all morally ok. My issue w/it is that it's way more risky, and it's a slippery slope. And in the case of pros it a choice undertaken by a role model. It's what's been bothering me about RLCS in the last year too, it feels like a few pros are starting to introduce it to open competition. I don't want that happening without it also being called out for what it is.

  • @joesretrostuff
    @joesretrostuff Před rokem +1

    I started watching squishy for the skills, but stayed for the positivity. What a way to use someone’s horrendous behaviour as a force for good. I hope that guy sees this and is convicted to change his ways

  • @tinystar3010
    @tinystar3010 Před rokem +5

    I've seen toxicity skyrocket immediately after Psyonix gave a punishment for leaving a casual match. No longer can you leave a toxic lobby without getting punished now, and since casual is now the same as ranked but with no incentive for staying, I've seen most people just play ranked only now. This game desperately needs its casual mode back that lets you leave if the lobby isn't fun to chill in. It's forcing people to stay in matches that are toxic because 99% of teammates never want to forfeit.

    • @salineaddict9850
      @salineaddict9850 Před rokem +1

      Me and my friend play standard, it’s just 2 of us and our 3rd teammate sometimes just stops playing and starts typing in chat.

    • @tobysheridan5252
      @tobysheridan5252 Před rokem +1

      @@salineaddict9850 uh why don’t you queue 2s? Its a meme at this point that parties of 2 ignore their random 3rd

    • @salineaddict9850
      @salineaddict9850 Před rokem

      @@tobysheridan5252 Smurfs. Diamond 1 is filled with them, sadly. And playing 3s take some pressure off my friend, who isn’t as good as me yet, but can play good in 3s. Putting him in 2s is kind of unfair.

  • @ashllxyy2997
    @ashllxyy2997 Před rokem +7

    just to clear up that was not me

  • @gee3161
    @gee3161 Před rokem

    Much love squishy - toxicity and negativity is a waste of time in any circumstance. Definitely agree to not perpetuate and repeat slurs and toxicity

  • @helikaon5
    @helikaon5 Před rokem

    all of the props in the world to you, Squish. you're the GOAT for a reason. you kept a level head and even complimented the plays worth mentioning that the troll did correctly. Im gonna try to not let these things affect me as much in the future. I dont respond, but it always used to ruin the games for me. I appreciate you, big dawg.

  • @RPGesus.
    @RPGesus. Před rokem +5

    if you report them for text harrassment that's an instant perma ban for the racial slur

    • @-scrim
      @-scrim Před rokem +1

      🤓

    • @iskilii6877
      @iskilii6877 Před rokem

      He’s obviously a troll but why should one word have more power to get someone banned then other words??? You can’t ban someone for swearing at kids on rocket league but can ban them for saying nigger then something ain’t right. Ban everyone or ban no one.

    • @RPGesus.
      @RPGesus. Před rokem

      @@-scrim look at your channel. All of your comments on CZcams are acting like a child. Grow up and get a life.

    • @-scrim
      @-scrim Před rokem

      @@RPGesus. Really? Show us, Nolifer3000.

    • @ogle_tr
      @ogle_tr Před rokem

      @@-scrim you realise squishy can send 1 text and its auto gg right?

  • @KingJojoB
    @KingJojoB Před rokem +6

    “Congrats to everyone who is early and who found this comment” 🏆

    • @ImPunk
      @ImPunk Před rokem

      @@Buzz69Lightyear yeah bro hes got a dying channel, hes gotta do something for likes

  • @denisehouck5766
    @denisehouck5766 Před rokem

    somethint i want to add is some days people have bad days whether it’s in real life or rocket league. and it’s no excuse for toxicness but i think we’ve all fallen victim to it a few times i love how squishy approaches it and still continues to compliment him through his rage though great job!

  • @ggrl9
    @ggrl9 Před rokem

    heap up champ, i watch you since ur days in C9 you inspire me to start playing rl much love

  • @eggs_tm
    @eggs_tm Před rokem +1

    been following you for 3-4 years now Squishy, keep your head up. you got a good heart.

  • @jorn_hub9364
    @jorn_hub9364 Před rokem

    This is a very valuable lesson in how a team’s mindset can impact a game. Had your teammate been as collected as you, I have no doubt the score would be much different. Keep being you squish