Unlearning My Type | Cuffing Season Vol. 2 | Part 6 | Jerry Flowers
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- What if the problem is due to what you refer to as “Your Type”?
Then enemy traffics in sending pain, gift wrapped as your preference
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If only our eyes saw souls instead of bodies 🙏🏾
Darkness everywhere
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Aaaayyyyyyyy
I'm not Jesus
Some people can
"When it's a blessing from God, you will not have to exchange your mental health, to keep it". ☝️🎙️🎙️🎙️
FATHER, DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES!!🙌🙌🙏
Amen me too lord 🙏
Amennnnnn!!! I agree!!
God I know smh 🤦🏾♀️ please heal me .
"Bare minimum feels like royal treatment when you're settling." DANNNGGG. I need to tattoo that in my mind.
😭😭😭🥺
Yesssss
That was a word.
Not tattoo Chile 😂
💯
Just want to say, the dude God brought into my life didn’t have some physical aspects I had on my ‘list’. There were things I didn’t ask he had that I liked too! We really do need to depend on God more than our type. And let me just say, wow, he’s a man of God who takes care of me like I needed and wanted and I’m at peace. I am attracted to him for real, but I had to get some of those minor things out of the way to embrace what God had for me. God said He had my ‘perfect mate’ and I’m here to say, He is faithful to His promises.
Yes, they are "eye candy" but they not "soul food" - I WILL be quoting this one sir!!! Hallelujah!
Me too !
Be OPEN to who God brings you. I can almost guarantee it is not the type you would have picked!!!!
Yes. You know it will be from God when you don't have to force it to happen.
If they rejected you but that's not what I had for you anyway you won!!!🙌🙌🙏🙏💛💛😊
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
That is one thing I have learned over these years, if you would allow the Holy Spirit to lead, guide, & direct you, when it comes to dating, you will never pick the wrong one. Because God will reveal the true intent of that person and if he don't he will give you an unsettling within your spirit that you cannot continue on with them.
Amen… it is just interesting because nothing is perfect so until you know what the God man is like, you don’t know if you’re letting go of everyone.
I never feel like they’re good or God enough and can wait, but have been prompted so many times to not be too picky./
Wished I knew this years ago but I’m thankful I know this now
Amen to this. The Lord has protected me from the wrong people. One Girl i even planned on asking out, the Lord said no. It's better to follow obedience over our feelings.
Obedience isn't always fun, but it's life saving. And amen to everything you've said.
"If you don't know where you're going, you don't know who to take with you"
his purpose has a plan, and not everyone is going where you're going.
Know your assignment
Amen 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
AMEN
When you have entertained foolishness a history of trauma can cause for you to excuse and ignore mistreatment because you've survived worse... Bare minimum feels like royal treatment when you are settling.. A couple can be married 20years and bear no fruit.. It's not about length Its about Fruit🙌🙌🙏🙏
AMEN!!! this was put very well🙌🏼 thank you for your words
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 family and I
AMEN!!! You are so right
"God sends someone to you not for Romance but to Advance"!!!💥💥💥💥
Mmmmm
This sermon is raw but we need it. Thank you Jesus💞
You will always end up in wars you don't even need to fight when you are out of position.. 🙌🙌🙏
“You don’t have to flirt to convert” 😨😨😨that part tho! 🙌🏽
''You're not an introvert, you're in too hurt'' i felt that
Father, detox me from my preferences 🙌🏼
This is like God's trauma therapy 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🙌👏🙌 JESUS
Yupp
Exactly
Lord!!! You just preached my whole life story🤦🏾♀️ “I cannot solve a problem with the same mindset I created it in.” Father, detox me from my preferences! I thank God that He is a deliverer, a mind renewer, and life transformer. Hallelujah! Thanks, Pastor Flowers, for you and your family’s obedience.
This touched me in every aspect of what I have gone through and trying not to go through again. Breaking the cycle and doing it in God’s way and his will. Amen.
Gods will be done Amen
I STAND IN AGREEMENT FOR MYSELF AS WELL IN JESUS’S NAME I PRAY AMEN 😁🤗👐🏾👐🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾✨❤️🙏🏾
Don't forget to add in Jesus name prior to saying Amen. Because that is where the power is, and that's how it gets to the Father. IN the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. AMEN. GOD BLESS. 💜💛💙❤️🌹💗💖🦋💕
Not me closing my mouth when he looked at the screen and said “yes you with your mouth open” 😳🙌🏻
Fireeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!! this was for me!! edges goneee snatched
Lord forgive me for complaining when your molding me for your purpose ..
Oh you betta preach! You’re preaching, teaching, real, real, really good! Father, detox me from my preferences in the mighty, matchless, chain breaking name of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ! Come on in Holy Ghost and set me free so I can get married and do ministry for the glory of God. Team Fkowers please pray for the brother! I wanna get it right. My type have to be pleasing in the Lord’s sight!
Amen!
🤦🏾♂️ " *What if they are only compatible with your Rock Bottom* ? " 🥵 #MyFibula&Tibula
“Reading and listening to all the spiritual stuff but still loving the wrong thing”Lawd that hit me like a ton of bricks, thank you Holy Spirit for using Pastor Jerry as a vessel
This teaching is so transformational. Thank you Pastor Jerry. You really ministered to me when you said, “God doesn’t give you a spouse for romance, but for advancing his kingdom.” It’s about glorifying the Father not about about self.
LORD TEACH ME TO SEE FRUIT OF YOU .....
If I don't know His voice in devotion,I won't know His voice in direction🔥🔥
This is good! And King Solomon and his momma….hmmm what a teaching…. I got so much about this message for me!
“ you uh huh sir with your mouth opened , yep compatibility can be a trap yep “ (man that part had me undone lol )
The devil can send pain gift wrapped as your preference!
Geeeez almost took me out!!! So true !
These messages are truth. God is using this man to speak his words
FATHER DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES
DETOX ME OH LORD FROM MY PREFERENCE ✊🏾
Lord he did not say 6 ft, 6 figures, and 6 pack!!! I hollered when he said you could be with the devil!! I haven't asked for all of that but I did have some devils. And I was too. Thank you Lord for the healing that is taking place in my heart, mind, and soul in this season.
THIS SHOULD BE TAUGHT IN SUNDAY SCHOOL, PRESCHOOL, 1ST YEAR OF UNI....EVERYWHERE Y'ALL. God bless this Ministry to reach the ends of the earth 🌎 🙏🏾
I remember my ex who laughed at you Sir when y'all were starting out and I found you online looking for godly youthful* counsel that I could understand at the time not knowing he was a total counterfeit that the enemy had brought because he noticed how I'd started getting my spiritual life together.
But here I am by His grace, finally back in His will. 🥺♥️ He's a merciful God.
Amen!
God can turn broken pieces into MASTERPIECES.
UNLEARNING MY TYPE!!!!
So much resonated with me, especially ‘if you don’t know where you’re going , how are you going to know who to bring along”. I have to listen to the rest of the series now.
I’m late. I just know he’s going to drag me out the door
Father, detox me from my preferences again Lord! Amen🙏🏾🙌🏾
Oh my gosh!!! This is sooooo good!!! Hit everything I'm going through. "Some people are only compatible with the crawling version of you!"
It's not abwt marital length, it's abwt fruitfulness 💯🎯
This is great. Jesus, I tried this last time… and one seemed to mimic you… Please this time, I don’t even want to date. Keep them away and bring me Your pick when You feel the time is right. Contract signed… thank you!
Hope you find or found them. My ex pretended to be equally yoked with me too
This is true this happen liking my type before what I've now, my preference. I was wanting what I wasn't ready for , I thank GOD through JESUS that he protected me from myself., when you are my yourself, the flesh will play with you and put what you desire with false .and not knowing GOD word will destroy what GOD desire for you. I had to learn this along because people I was around wasn't the same as I desiring GOD as I was as a teenager, but at 56 now and hearing this is awesome to know all of what GID was teaching me was protecting me from what could have destroyed me. This is why I praise GOD through JESUS, he has protected for so many years and now thank you Father in the name of Jesus, love this sermon thanks Jeremy, GOD bless you and your family,
Bruh... I already felt attacked by the sermon title.
as you should lol. You deserve better than your type dear. Is your type YOUR type?-As in is your type good for you? Does God want that for you? chile if you don't do like me and start asking yourself these questions.
lol! all the edges!!
He came for all of our necks!!!!
Father, DETOX ME FROM MY PREFRENCES
"God didn't put anyone in your life for romance but to advance" BRUH!!!!!
6 feet
6 figures
6 pack
The devil 😂
Disclaimer: if he just so happens to have all those things and is also in love with the Lord, it doesn’t make you more blessed than the one who’s partner only hit some of those external qualities but is also in love with the Lord.
A blessing from God you will not have to exchange your mental health. A blessed word from God this one.
YES INDEED THIS is IT... STRAIGHT flesh slicing TRUTH!!!!!
Weed's and Wheat ... WoW🗣️⚡👑⚡👑⚡👑⚡
FATHER, DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES!!
FATHER Detox me from my preferences.!!!!!!!
This man preached his face off. This was soooo good.
God has Anointed this man to preach!!!! My ears are so tuned in and I’m actually receiving this ! Keep going man !!!!
God I'm on Your Clock on Your Time, You are my King🙌🙌🙏
Jerry did it again 🙌🏾‼️
God did *. He’s just a vessel of God’s Word
Needed this. Very timely
UNLEARNING MY TYPE!
This is deep. I'm going to need to watch it a few more times.
You just keep coming with fire🔥!!! Watched this one live!! So amazing
Watched last night live, but had to watch this again! Lord, give us wisdom and discernment to recognize the "wheat" from the "weeds". In Jesus name Amen 🙏🏽 🙌🏽
Detox me Lord...I repent from thinking I'm god...ur way is the best way Lord🙏
Wow. Bare min feels like royal tx when you’re settling. Def made me sad 😢. I’m in the process of forgiving myself and forgiving those who I gave my heart to and gave me back heartache. It’s not easy BUT I’m accepting this detox I’m going through. I thank God for his UNCHANGING LOVE. Also want to encourage anyone else who maybe going through similar detox, God literally will NOT and HAS not forgotten about you. Keep your head in the Bible and sermons like these and literally write these things down and read them back, they help!!
Thank you God for Pastor Jerry.
I am inspired by how you preach! Every word hits my soul! Amen
Whew get out of my life!! Lol this man just preached my whole dating life Jesus 😭
Amen Thank you Lord God
I am listening so much, I need this. I should have stayed on my journey with God. I took my sight off Him and now, I lost what He placed in front of me, through not listening and ego. Father, I apologize to you for straying from that path. I need you now more than ever. Keep me thirsting for YOU and I’ll keep what you create for me next time. 🙏🏽
As Jerry prayed us out I was watching him, as I closed my eyes I saw a brief image of his 'robe' covered in sparkling multi colored jewels!
Thank You Jesus for his pure heart, you are using this vessel of truth to help us mature & grow into the person You have called us to be. Holy Spirit, bless him & his family, fill them up Lord! Thank You for protection, provision & peace in Jesus name, amen 🙏🏼🤍🕊️
This is so beautiful. I truly feel the Holy Spirit convicting me when Jerry preaches.
you have legit changed my life with this video and I have been watching you for months,thank you from the bottom of my heart
Father, detox me from my preferences!
Jerry preached that such a humble servant of God, my prayer is that God continues to magnify your voice so the lost will hear.
Even if they are God fearing and purpose driven with a pure heart for God...we must seek God to know if that person is yours?.....still!🤔
Helping you should not cause me injury on that note my brotha SPEAK TRUTH💯
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Pastor Jerry Flowers preaching !! This man is talking to me and I'm trying to receive. This man said yeah they EYE CANDY BUT THEY AINT SOUL FOOD!!! Phew when you realize the importance of your soul being led and feed by the one who gives life and have company with Christ.
I know this is more on marriage, but does anyone else think that this can apply in your singleness season too? So spot on and timely.
Bless you brother. You're 100% in the Spirit and speaking biblical facts. I pray the youth, especially "Christian single youth" open their hearts to what is being said here. Shalom 🙏🏾
Wow!!! I just want to say thank you for this teaching. I used to be proud to say I grew up in church but now I see all the legalistic teachings I received.
All of my edges are gone, Pastor Flowers dragged me!! Thank you ❤️
Not even 15min Im and I’m on the floor with all them 6 girl you’re gonna end up with the devil 😂😂 and yess the devil will get you if you think all you need is someone you’re compatible with happened to me 🤷🏾♀️ but I healed he didn’t and my eyes started to open because compatibility is season based 🙌🏿
FATHER!!!detox me from my preferences........ Thank you Lord Jesus
Gosh this is so rich. Such sound Biblical doctrine. Thank you Holy spirit, thank you pastor for allowing yourself to be but a vessel.
This is an awesome and on time word. I am literally going through this at this time in my life. Married “my type” against wise counsel, together for 15 years, married for 10… no fruit. Two months ago my brother-in-law had the conversation with me that the kingdom man that God has for me may not be “my type”.. it was then that I realized that I have shallow all these years. 😩 I thought I was deep… NOT 😆 God has shown me my husband but told me to wait… I’m an in a purging and pruning process which is how I found this video. Thank you for teaching the unadulterated word of God. May God continue to bless you and your family. 🙏🏽
🗣️FATHER DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES!
AMEN yes I want the Holy Ghost to be glorified in my life
Yess Lord
This sermon blessed me. Wow. This was an eye opener. I took so many notes and will revisit this one. Wow. This hit home. Thank you Lord and thank you Pastor.
I live in Ohio .. I’m coming to a service soon. Thank you pastor jerry for amazing words and sermons thank you lord for using pastor jerry and his wife to speak to me.
I live in Illinois and I plan to attend a service also
Father, Detox me from my preferences
FATHER GOD DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES.
God is the one who turns broken pieces into a Master piece. This is so good Amen !
I Surrender Oh Lord🙌🙌🙇🏾♀️🙇🏾♀️Thank you God🙏🙏
Deuteronomy 7:13
Unlearning my type
#CuffingSeason
Date or marry in the will of God
2 chronicles 1:7-12
1 kings 11:1-2
We want the wrong one
We connect with people as Caterpillars. They may be a mo th not a butterfly.
Eye candy vs soul food
I have watch this 3 times there so much to take in. "You're getting their thinking, their mind set not just their looks".. Assignment, character, values. Life changing when applied in my life. Thank you for your honesty when you preach.
Unlearning My Type | Cuffing Season Volume 2 | Part 6 | Jerry Flowers
Deuteronomy 7:1-3, 2b-3a, I Kings 3:1
Whatever is close to a thing, proximity determines the temperature 🤒
Whenever God sends a thing, it will need come with Pluto conditions.
II Chronicles 1:7-12
God has a way of giving you something you didn’t even ask for.
You look for a woman with a virtuous charm and character who loves the Lord.
A woman who prays for you is having your back on a whole another level.
I Kings 11:1-2
It’s possible to love the wrong thing & the very thing that’s turning your heart away from God.
Toxic to your destiny. Wheats & weed same season, soil, and time.
It’s possible to love & be compatible to the assassin to your peace, spiritual growth, and sanity.
Compatibility can be a trap 🪤 because you can be compatible with a devil 😈
It’s pain gift 🎁 wrapped as your preference.
6 ft, six pack, six figures - you’ll end up with a devil 👿
God is planting, and so is the devil. They are both working. Seek God’s counsel & direction.
Every open door 🚪 isn’t God. Some opportunities are ammunition playing dress up.
Compatibility is season based. Struggle, not success.
Is this really compatibility or is this just shared dysfunction??
What happens if one of you heal??
You can’t change people, only God can.
If you heal & they don’t, you remove what y’all had in common.
You thought y’all were compatible because when y’all met, y’all were both crawling. ‼️
Be so secure in who God is making you, that you won’t feel guilty when you get wings and they are still crawling.
I was compatible with someone who was liking the very thing that was fatal to my destiny.
Whenever they come back, they shake the grave.
Betrayal hits different when someone you gave your heart to gave your heartache.
It hits different when they gave you the best memories and now all they are is a memory.
How could someone who said they love me doesn’t know me.
The prisoner was you. Forgive you & yourself.
Bitterness only contaminates the container.
God can turn broken pieces into masterpieces.
The master gives you peace & his word in your heart & mouth & now you have a mouthpiece. 🗣
When it’s a blessing from God, you will not have to exchange your mental health as payment to keep it.
Kingdom success & my sanity.
I don’t wanna lose my mind keeping up an appearance. Offline I have joy & a true smile 😊
Amen 🙏
You don’t have to flirt to convert.
I want a kingdom man and ex 🥴
That’s why we don’t get narrow way blessings.
He is capable of dating but I’m not the one.
We aren’t meant to be.
Could it be the very thing you’re not releasing is why you’re not being released??
Attractive is cool. Attracted if I see fruit 🍉
Unlearn cultural view. Learn kingdom view.
They are fine on their exterior but can you see their soul.
They are eye candy 🍬 but they aren’t soul food 🥘
God knows your type if marriage is your journey. ❤️
Self control is a fruit of the spirit so it makes you more attractive. Godliness is attractive.
I cannot solve a problem with the same mindset that created it.
FATHER, DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES ‼️
This is a lawn the enemy is working in this area of my life, behind this production that is keeping me in a cycle of recycled pain but I can’t see it because my grass is too high.
Your offend ness to accountability pushed them away. Trying to help you shouldn’t cause others mental, emotional, and physical injuries.
Some people are used to indirect communication that healthy communication feels like an attack.
Living in your preferences is highly problematic because hell sends what you prefer, God sends what is purposeful.
Killing you softly with your type 🎶
Mold in you devotion, purity, faith, Godliness, patience, confidence.
Mold out entitlement, and the what you don’t talk about.
You’re not an introvert. You’re into hurt. 🥺
You gave God a deadline like He’s on your clock 🕰
He answers our prayers by not answering it.
You can’t exercise patience through avoidance. ‼️
We bless those who hate us, who curse us.
If they go low, we go high 〰️
We run from things that help us grow, better, and hold us accountable. ♥️➰
If you lose them but found you, you won 🏆
Now you have a prayer 🤲 life.
Some people cause us to drift. It’s one compromise at a time - spiritual decay.
“We didn’t do something this time.”
If they rejected you & it’s not what I had for you anyway, you won ♥️
Sometimes limitation is the breeding ground to innovation. ‼️
The Genesis To Unlearning Your Type ❤️🔥
A. Knowing Your Assignment
She looks good. Eye candy.
But is she good for my assignment? Soul food.
When you meet Jesus, it’ll always come with a breakup. When you know where you’re going, you get over it faster. Discipleship & purpose expedites the healing ❤️🩹 process ‼️
B.) Have to know what’s good for spiritual well-being and soul care
Soul means psyche from Greek, psychology
Soul is your psychological emotional self that involves your emotions, mind, thoughts, reasoning, desire, and feelings.
Mate summons fruitfulness.
I want somebody who summons fruitfulness in my life. ❤️🔥
Beauty is in Godliness.
Don’t be only real photogenic 🤦🏾♀️
Fruit production requires maturity.
Joy, gentle should be attractive.
When he gets mad, that wall can become your face ‼️
Sex doesn’t keep people, the fear of God does.
Be attracted to self control, long suffering ♥️
Chemistry is not gonna keep you, character will.
Fine is not gonna keep you, Godliness will.
God doesn’t bring someone in your life for romance but to advance God’s will and kingdom together.
When you’re kingdom, waiting doesn’t feel like waiting. Serving someone or somewhere & pouring into somebody.
Marriage is not an upgrade for singleness.
You must desire it. If you don’t, nothing is wrong with you.
John 15:5-6
Differentiate between sticks & branches.
Sticks have no fruit.
Will this compliment the kingdom or compliment my flesh?
Puberty is hell’s alarm 🚨 clock ⏰
You do have to detox, learn my voice, you have to purge from all the choices that changed how you think.
It’s her mindset that will raise children not her backside.
Thinking up scenarios require healing in the mind. We don’t just get their body, we get how they think.
Malachi 2:15
Your relational picks matter. 🤗
You will always end in wars that you don’t even need to fight when you’re out of position.
Lust doesn’t use logic & does not think 💭
You’re dealing with a spirit, not just your type.
-Fruit of assignment
Does our purposes compliment, life’s bullseye 🎯 whenever we don’t have a target, we’ll date & aim aimless
-Fruit of character
Will you tell the ugly & honest truth? Shouldn’t be inspector gadget.
Bare minimum feels like royal 👑 treatment when you’re settling.
-Fruit of values
Do you read your Bible or is it a dust collector?
-Fruit of faith
You believe in Allah & I believe in Jesus so this is not going to work.
-Fruit of devotion
Pray, seek God’s counsel
-Fruit of counsel
Who can correct you, or hold you accountable?
Who do you call when your flesh is on fire 🔥
-Prefer vs Surrender
What I want - What Heaven needs
Deadline - Waiter time
My happiness - Obedience
Modified behavior - Heart metamorphosis
Not face lifts, heart transplants.
Control freaks - Submit.
Yasssss!! Here for it!
Thank you so much for the notes!! 😍❤️❤️
Thank you for this!!!! 🤍
I needed this, so much Truth! THANKYOU Pastor Jerry!
Wow 😳 I needed all of this 💯.I was confused weather I like or not a guy at Church. (True I got serious with God it caused me a break up)
1-Knowing my assignment/2-I have to know what is good for my soul
Somebody that said they loved you now acts like they don’t know you what a word 🙌🏾
FATHER DETOX ME FROM MY PREFERENCES!
FATHER DETOX ME FROM MY PREFENCE ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
Thank you for always bringing out the fire and breaking it down in a way that not only helps me realize things in other but also in myself. 🙏🏼❤️
Yes, totally agree with you Pastor Jerry; it's time to experience real joy nd peace; not a kind that's just for show on social media....