MAURICE BENARD STATE OF MIND with JOHNNY WACTOR

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  • čas přidán 15. 01. 2022
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    This week I'm joined by Johnny Wactor. You may know Johnny best from his current role on as Brando Corbin on General Hospital.
    Johnny has also starred in the tv series' Siberia, Hollywood Girl, and the mini series The Passenger. He's also had roles in series such as NCIS, Army Wives and Criminal Minds.
    Today we talk about how similarly share having a 'rage' inside of us that we're able to tap into when acting and how it could stem from childhood. We also discuss the loss of our fathers and how that impacted us, before diving into Johnny's' most recent storyline on General Hospital.
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Komentáře • 361

  • @michelletucker1397
    @michelletucker1397 Před měsícem +83

    Rest in heaven Johnny, this world will miss you. So glad you interviewed him on State of Mind Maurice

    • @ewebster509
      @ewebster509 Před měsícem +2

    • @lisastephens7702
      @lisastephens7702 Před 12 dny

      Maurice is a legend from General Hospital, he makes the show what it is, I think he is a great actor and now he is learning to dance and that is so funny when he gets on live and dances I love that

  • @shawnuel
    @shawnuel Před měsícem +47

    All you need to know about Johnny is that, as soon as he realized his car was being stripped, he stepped in front of his co-worker to protect her from whatever might happen.

  • @DonnaHarris-sm2xi
    @DonnaHarris-sm2xi Před měsícem +36

    I didn't know Johnny was on State of Mind. I was just watching it crying. My heart is broken what happened to him. I watch General Hospital every day. He was an excellent actor. I pray they catch the criminals who did this to him and put them away for life. My prayers go out to his family and friends. He will be missed. R.I.P. Johnny.

  • @gincole8306
    @gincole8306 Před měsícem +33

    Johnny seemed like a really nice guy. Our hearts break for his Mom & Brothers & all who loved him,including his GH family. Gone way too soon.

  • @TihetrisWeathersby
    @TihetrisWeathersby Před měsícem +49

    RIP Johnny, a wonderful human being and talented actor. Tragic loss.

  • @jullesteach
    @jullesteach Před měsícem +30

    Just heard of Johnnys passing. I knew he was on State of Mind , I remembered his powerful honesty about himself. So unfair this life can be. Rest in Peace sweet man!

    • @freedom4063
      @freedom4063 Před měsícem +1

      😢 I dont know him but my heart is broken. He was my age

  • @user-kq8sp7qp4k
    @user-kq8sp7qp4k Před měsícem +20

    This is so heartbreaking 💔 watching him alive and smiling laughing such a beautiful young man 💙🙏

  • @mandy1104
    @mandy1104 Před měsícem +18

    Thank you Maurice for having him on here. Prayers for you, the GH family & Johnny's family.

  • @user-sp1yy5oy5d
    @user-sp1yy5oy5d Před měsícem +19

    RIP Johnny Wactor. Many prayers to his family, friends, fans, cast, crew. This is very very sad.😔🙏✝️💔

  • @j.r.r.4
    @j.r.r.4 Před měsícem +29

    RIP Johnny. I hope you and Billy and Tyler are celebrating in heaven today. Prayers for your family and friends during this hard time.

  • @lindagiorgio6058
    @lindagiorgio6058 Před měsícem +27

    RIP Johnny, such a tragic loss.

  • @Yellowrose8
    @Yellowrose8 Před měsícem +41

    Uplifting Johnny's family and friends in my utmost prayers. May the Lord wrap his arms around you all to provide comfort from your pain...Amen.

  • @sharonparkes695
    @sharonparkes695 Před měsícem +16

    Watched this once! Had to come back and watch again after hearing about Johnny! RIP Johnny 🙏

  • @appleiiee
    @appleiiee Před měsícem +11

    Maurice, after watching this for a second time after 2.5 yrs , I am thankful that you did this interview. 1. It shows how dedicated he was as an actor and how far he probably would've gotten if his life didn't tragically end. 2. It shows he had issues like those of us dealing w/ parental abuse. 3. He was just a normal guy who happened to land on a show that got to showcase his talents with the Liam story. 4. He was an overall good human being that was so genuine. I'm sure his family/friends/fans are so grateful to have this footage. Thank you for asking Johnny to be on the show. From the looks of this interview, you both must have been good friends and coworkers who had a lot in common and were there for one another. My sincere condolences to you, his family and everyone who loved Johnny. 🌹

  • @angelasurratt5908
    @angelasurratt5908 Před měsícem +11

    I’m so sorry to hear of Johnny’s passing! He’ll be dearly missed!

  • @nizolierocks
    @nizolierocks Před měsícem +11

    RIP JOHNNY. What a senseless loss

  • @user-gb1it8vf8z
    @user-gb1it8vf8z Před měsícem +11

    So Sad Great Actor Of G H RIP With Deepest Sympathy to his Mother n Family n Loved Ones will be missed🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💝😭😭😭😭😭

  • @nso9417
    @nso9417 Před měsícem +24

    RIP Johnny

  • @tiffanymarie4332
    @tiffanymarie4332 Před měsícem +5

    I just watched State Of Mind five minutes ago & found myself staring at Johnny. How handsome he was, pleasant personality, had everything to live for. I saved this video, probably going to watch it again soon. Makes me wonder why did this happen, bad luck? Rest In Peace, Hope Your In A Better Place❤

  • @sher2341
    @sher2341 Před měsícem +10

    RIP Johnny you are such a kind and thoughtful person and always answered all your DM’s. My prayers are with your family and friends.😢❤

  • @sherylsd
    @sherylsd Před měsícem +16

    Such a loss ❤

  • @CMA222
    @CMA222 Před měsícem +10

    Thank you for doing this Maurice. My sympathy for your loss.

  • @MichelinaSayo-lo1vy
    @MichelinaSayo-lo1vy Před měsícem +8

    Another amazing human life cut too short he didn't deserve this act of violence so senseless and very tragic rest in peace Johnny 🙏

  • @arianakatrina1031
    @arianakatrina1031 Před měsícem +21

    (Sorry in advance that this is a long-winded comment. I’ve never felt so compelled to speak on an actor’s passing before, and I just had to share.) I started getting back into GH consecutively after my dad suddenly passed away in 2021. It was always my comfort show growing up, and I finally carved out the time to watch it more. For at least an hour everyday, I could escape my own grief and get lost in the drama of Port Charles. At that time, Brando and Sasha were my favorites. They were having a baby and eventually lost it, which was some of the most vulnerable, realistic, and heartbreaking episodes I’ve seen in a while. As a mother myself who almost lost their son in birth, I related in a certain way. I feel like we were able to see that kind of acting again when Brando died. The twisted irony of it all is that Brando was also senselessly killed, and I remember being so upset that the writers got rid of such a great character for the sake of a Heather storyline. There was so much more that Brando could’ve been, and I was looking forward to seeing him and Sasha get the family they so deserved, while never replacing the son they lost. The interesting thing about watching your favorite characters die on screen is knowing that in real life they’re okay. It’s just a role and perhaps he would eventually come back to Sasha in a dream or something. Maybe I’d find myself watching some other TV or movie in the future and he would be there, like an old friend saying hello. But, when you find out that the actor has died in real life after something so violent and senseless, a whole new grief as an audience member forms. However, it’s nothing compared to the grief his family must be going through, and I can’t even begin to imagine the turmoil they’re currently dealing with. My heart goes out to them and the coworker that witnessed it. I remember watching this State of Mind episode when it aired and having such admiration for Johnny and enjoying the very real conversation he had with Mo.
    RIP, Johnny. I hope you’re peacefully flying high up there, away from the ugliness that plagues our world. You will be sorely missed here, that’s for sure. Thank you for sharing your talent and vulnerability on screen. There will never be a better pairing for Sasha than Brando, in my opinion. And thank you to the cast of GH for gracing our screens everyday and doing what you do. I know a soap actor’s schedule is one of the most brutal in the business and I promise it doesn’t go unnoticed by the fans. Thank you for getting me and many others through such a tough times throughout our daily lives. I’ve continued to watch avidly since then and it’s always remained a comfort. Also, thank you Maurice for all the work and attention you bring to mental health. In a world where people still don’t understand the intricacies of mental health, you’re shining a much needed light on it. It’s beyond appreciated for so many of us that continue to struggle. ❤️

    • @aeshaj
      @aeshaj Před měsícem +4

      😢well said

    • @charlenefm3188
      @charlenefm3188 Před měsícem +1

      Beautiful ❤ Kind…thank you for sharing.

    • @user-vo8uj3nu2c
      @user-vo8uj3nu2c Před měsícem +1

      💔💔💔💔💔

    • @user-vo8uj3nu2c
      @user-vo8uj3nu2c Před měsícem +1

      My heart is so broken to hear that Jonny wactor passed away I loved him on General Hospital I am so Heartbroken 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

    • @sos9020
      @sos9020 Před měsícem

      Wow!! I'm speechless... because u just voiced everything I've been feeling since Johnny passed so senselessly. I keep imagining the utter fear in him, on his face, when he realized he had been shot, and actually voicing it out to his friend, and his struggle to live. Uuuuuuu I'm making myself cry again!! How did we make this awful and senseless turn, all around the world that, all the air has been let out of this world, that there's no FUN anymore??? Jeez, this one hurts,..these people unload some of our daily troubles, when they grace our tv screens, if only for an hour. How many more people will GH lose, right in front of our eyes, just after we just took a breath after the last one dies! As an actor too, I kinda get attached too these people and their characters, I'm sure we all do, and ,,,,,.this one just really stings like hell, just because he was just struggling to pay the rent like we all do as actors, when your phone is not ringing, as this is a tough business to get into, he was just helping his friend, who was a woman, and he was trying to walk her to her car, he didn't want her to go downstairs alone on the streets of dangerous LA, HIS CARING AND KIND HEART JUST STEPPED BETWEEN THEM AND HIS FRIEND!! Oh God! Split second decision! As great of an actor as he was, I always would be angry when I saw him in just some 2 liner flash in the pan guest flip on some popular show, and his great looks.....the last thing I saw him on recently, was a quick flash 1 liner(like he was some beginner) on the ABC show as a firefighter, on that Shonder Rimes show with GREY'S ANATOMY, and I remember saying, he wouldve been so great as a regular in that uniform, and that amazing smile of his. Anyway, let me leave u alone, and thanks for indulging me. God bless! 🙏

  • @user-kq8sp7qp4k
    @user-kq8sp7qp4k Před měsícem +7

    May you be resting peacefully in the arms of Angels ! Prayers for your family and friends ! A beautiful life cut to short ! 💔💙🙏🕊️🪽

  • @lorimartell5421
    @lorimartell5421 Před 2 lety +29

    Wow, listening to Johnny Wactor be so raw about everything he's dealt with or still dealing with just hurts my heart. I commend him for being so strong to bring this out into the open and let his fans know that he is just as human as the rest of us. Love you, Johnny.

  • @shelleysmith599
    @shelleysmith599 Před 2 lety +40

    Johnny, as one of the 10s of thousands of people listening to you thinks that what you are saying is the most real thing in the world. Thank you both for being you.

    • @MBStateOfMind
      @MBStateOfMind  Před 2 lety +5

      Thank you so much

    • @anitaknight3915
      @anitaknight3915 Před měsícem +6

      ​@@MBStateOfMindaw Maurice I remember watching this episode on your mental health podcast and to hear the sad news today about another GH actor gone so young😢. Wishing his family love, comfort, and may he transition into the heavenly spiritual realm of love and eternal peace ❤

    • @katherineskrzynecki3347
      @katherineskrzynecki3347 Před měsícem +1

      Yes, so sad that this happened to Johnny, he was the real Southern Gentleman...May he R I P

  • @user-tk7jy1np6i
    @user-tk7jy1np6i Před měsícem +10

    We will miss you, Johnny back there rest peacefully in heaven

  • @BrendaWannamaker
    @BrendaWannamaker Před měsícem +7

    RIP Johnny. What a great actor but most of all what a great and humble. man. A true southern gentleman. A true South Carolinian. Prayers to you and your family.

  • @MichelinaSayo-lo1vy
    @MichelinaSayo-lo1vy Před měsícem +4

    Rest in peace Johnny thanks sonny for this video he was an humble and kind person 🙏

  • @user-gb1it8vf8z
    @user-gb1it8vf8z Před měsícem +5

    Thanks Mauriceyour So Great n Great interview With John❤

  • @Heather_1964
    @Heather_1964 Před 2 lety +41

    Maurice I’m so happy for you! To think of all the people you will be able to reach and help! This will be so powerful!❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

    • @patriciaesposito8941
      @patriciaesposito8941 Před 2 lety +3

      Amen!

    • @helenchilds7719
      @helenchilds7719 Před 2 lety +2

      Congrats Maurice!!

    • @kymberlyhounsell6872
      @kymberlyhounsell6872 Před 2 lety +1

      I only got CZcams. Haven't missed an episode but I know it will reach others I like the real down to earth
      Too many talk shows

    • @noreenschuetz2331
      @noreenschuetz2331 Před 2 lety +1

      Congratulations Maurice!!! I hope and pray 🙏 i can still watch you on State of Mind.
      Awesome news!!!!

  • @PH-pn2yu
    @PH-pn2yu Před měsícem +3

    My heart goes out to Johnny's family, loved ones, friends, and to his General Hospital family. Such a horrifically sad, tragic, senseless, needless loss. Thank you, Maurice, for this conversation with Johnny.

  • @user-kq8sp7qp4k
    @user-kq8sp7qp4k Před měsícem +4

    Grief is the hardest part of life , to try to move forward when you can’t even get through of what happened and why that’s how my brain works I just can’t get through it I just shove it in my heart !

  • @amycastor2872
    @amycastor2872 Před měsícem +8

    Rest in peace, Johnny

  • @jf6720
    @jf6720 Před 2 lety +15

    Congratulations, you really deserve it Maurice. So happy for you - doing something you love that helps people, it doesn't get any better!

  • @rjzeplvr2279
    @rjzeplvr2279 Před měsícem +2

    So proud of and for you, Maurice! I know how dear to your heart this has been for you and for so many of us who have gotten so much knowledge concerning mental health issues! Thank you for sharing your insights! Concerning Johnny, I am heartbroken!

  • @angelajohnson184
    @angelajohnson184 Před měsícem

    Maurice so glad you got the opportunity to do this episode with Johnny it truly showed what kind of person Johnny was how down to earth and genuine he was and so much more and I know it is providing comfort and healing for his family,friends and all who loved him being able to watch this.Johnny you may have been taken way too soon but you left your mark where it will forever go unnoticed

  • @aeshaj
    @aeshaj Před měsícem +8

    RIP Jonhny 🕊️🤍🕊️🤍🕊️🤍🙏🏾😔

  • @user-uz6wv3tm1h
    @user-uz6wv3tm1h Před měsícem +2

    Had tears than with his beautiful smile 😢now have tears of sadness that your smile is gone your light in life will shine on forever I'm glad we have you on GH to see you 🤗 forever yet have to deaths to mourn... Your amazing Johnny at always & forever

  • @lindaa2437
    @lindaa2437 Před měsícem +3

    My deepest condolences to the family, friends & colleagues of Johnny Wactor. Your fans are also grieving your senseless death. R.I.P. kind sir. I pray justice is served on your behalf, but that won't bring you back to your loved ones. I pray for a change in the hearts of those who so easily take a life without realizing how many hearts are shredded by his death. 💔😭

  •  Před měsícem +2

    Just got done watching this interview for a second time. Such a good interview with Johnny. I still can't believe he's gone. I hope he's looking down right now and see all the love that has been shown for him. He defently was a good guy....

  • @user-gb1it8vf8z
    @user-gb1it8vf8z Před měsícem +6

    RIP JOHN U Will be Missed🙏🙏😭😭😭

  • @DianaDavis-qg3sb
    @DianaDavis-qg3sb Před měsícem

    Maurice Thank you for this interview with Johnny. I had watched it before but wanted to see it again. Johnny was the real deal the whole package. Smart kind loving funny down to earth compassionate no ego just pure and simple. He was in his prime for going places in his acting writing producer modeling. His smile and lafter was infectious and his blue eyes were captivating. A true gentleman til the end.He was a Great actor, Johnny you were loved and you will be missed, but never forgotten. May you rest in Peace with no more pain and spread those wings like you always opened your arms to give those hugs. Love you Johnny and RIP 🙏 🙏 🪦 ❤️ ❤️
    We will bring you Justice ⚖️ 🙏 🙏

  • @badbetty76
    @badbetty76 Před měsícem +3

    This was another amazing human who had his life cut way too short 😢 I have missed seeing him on GH and had to come back and watch this ❤

  • @marykohler9864
    @marykohler9864 Před 2 lety +12

    First of all, CONGRATULATIONS to you Maurice! Your "new gig" is well-deserved, and the WHOLE WORLD is going to be fortunate to be able to have access your insights on mental health. Johnny, my deepest sympathies over the loss of you dad. I just lost my mom in January of 2020; and sometimes the grief is unbearable. Without going into detail, I also have anger that comes and goes, over how certain situations were handled regarding her care;but I'm trying to deal with it, and your words truly helped. Thank you both!

  • @coleda-1460
    @coleda-1460 Před 2 lety +14

    This episode was so fantastic, I was glued to the computer screen, Johnny really laid himself bare, Maurice has such a talent for getting people to dive deep into their phyche. Very generous of both of them to share so much with the people watching.

  • @stacyproctor8268
    @stacyproctor8268 Před 2 lety +8

    This was a beautiful conversation to watch. Thank you Maurice and Johnny for being so open and sincere. You are both amazing ❤

  • @denisebyers7647
    @denisebyers7647 Před 2 lety +13

    I have been crying a lot lately for seemingly no reason. I put it down to hormones. It wasn't. I figured it out. I was internalizing my rage. I released it and I feel free and empowered again. I'm feeling more like the "real" me. Releasing my anger, using it responsibly has probably saved my life. I was suicidal...again. When I listened to an old interview of me about my book SHATTERED on my mental illness journey, I heard the woman who was healing. Then the penny dropped. I was internalizing anger. Because I will not hurt anyone else, I want to hurt myself. I justified a lot of crap, then I got real with myself and figured out that I was hurting myself and I can't help anyone else if I'm not healthy and in control. I relate to you scaring people and being remorseful later. As a writer, I need my pain and rage aka my beast to be creative. I have to maintain balance and control without repressing. I adore you. I love this podcast! You're helping a lot of people.

    • @MBStateOfMind
      @MBStateOfMind  Před 2 lety +3

      First of all I want to say you’re a great writer rage is a bitch and congratulations on your book♥️

    • @denisebyers7647
      @denisebyers7647 Před 2 lety +1

      @@MBStateOfMind Thank you so much. Your words really mean something to me because you are REAL. I hope you enjoyed my book. I did send you 2 copies about a year ago. Thank you for the compliments. Isn't it the best feeling when you know you're doing something that is actually helping others. I call it my "good for the soul work". It's more of a pleasure. ❤

  • @rosebud7283
    @rosebud7283 Před 2 lety +12

    Maurice, Im sorry to have missed so many shows. Been battling stage 4 Breast cancer. Chemotherapy has sent me back a few notches! Need 🙏🙏 from all! 🌹❤❤

    • @rosebud7283
      @rosebud7283 Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you for responding! FYI My tumor has shrunk alot. Not out of the wood but hopeful. Your prayers are working. My love to all and congratulations on your show, Maurice! I'll follow you forever!

    • @auPretender
      @auPretender Před 2 lety

      All the prayers from our pack to you. My Mom is on her 5th battle now and my hero. When the days knock you back a notch please know we're sending you positive energy.
      We all stand up together. Many Blessings to You 🙏🙏🙏🌈💜

    • @denisejefferson5977
      @denisejefferson5977 Před 2 lety +2

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @PatriciaRodriguez-vn6cv
    @PatriciaRodriguez-vn6cv Před 2 lety +20

    So I cried the ugly cry today listening in and watching how painful it was to talk the topics that were spoken. Addiction, and anxiety make for a very scary situation. I finally caught my breath enough to say this to you both, Thank you. I’m drained now. I think I need a long walk or at least s short nap.

  • @margies2880
    @margies2880 Před 2 lety +10

    Thank you for allowing yourselves to be so vulnerable, sharing about your childhood, and the journey your lives have taken. As long as my dad was alive, although I was doubtful, a part of me still hoped he would seriously see the need to get some help. When he passed, I grieved over the healthier relationship that never came to pass. More open, honest discussions like this need to take place.

  • @brendag173
    @brendag173 Před 2 lety +13

    Another great talk! Johnny is a great actor! The baby Liam storyline was amazing.
    It’s nice to see how supportive the GH cast is with each other. That’s why the show is so great! ❤️

  • @lisacostigan1337
    @lisacostigan1337 Před 2 lety +16

    Such an honest conversation….difficult topics to be so open about….you both are setting the standard for all men ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ God bless🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @toniidowu6428
    @toniidowu6428 Před 2 lety +15

    As always, Thank you, Maurice for having Johnny on the show. It was a fantastic raw, real talk. thank you, Johnny for letting us see you and allow us to love you even more. I believe so many of us were beat as children, especially those who are older because that was acceptable then. My mother suffered mental illness. Her rage would propel her to beat us in anger. That caused so much trauma in my life and I was anger with her for years until I realized she was suffering also. I have since forgiven her but She passed away with Alzheimer’s in 2017 and didn’t know me. God bless you Maurice and Johnny and thank you.

    • @denisebyers7647
      @denisebyers7647 Před 2 lety +3

      I'm so sorry you didn't get the chance to really work things out with your mom before Alzheimers took her, then eventually God. I think most of us were taught to be kind to others and we teach our kids that but we have to be kind to OURSELVES. I pray you are in a better head space even though you were denied the chance to tell her how you felt. My mother is still alive. I swear she will live to 100 just to torture me. I am 57 and I've never had the guts to confront her with things. I tried a few times as a teenager and was quickly punished and silenced. The silence turned to repression. That triggered anxiety and depression and eventually suicide attempts. I think you are brave. You were ready and willing to talk to your mom about this. I'm nowhere near ready. I told her to shut up when I was nine years old and she beat me so bad that I was screaming. My adoptive dad heard me in the building hallway and came rushing in to stop her. She turned her rage on him but still kept beating me. He told her if she didn't stop SOMEONE (not him... he didn't protect me as much as he should have) would call Children's Aid and they'd take me away and the police would arrest her. She only stopped when she thought SHE might go to jail. She was too afraid at 16 to have an illegal abortion and too stubborn and cruel to allow my grandparents to raise me (they did anyway when I wasn't raising myself and my little sister). I can't forgive her for those choices. I've forgiven the child abuse and I'm trying to walk away from the adult abuse she still doles out.

    • @toniidowu6428
      @toniidowu6428 Před 2 lety +2

      @@denisebyers7647 Hi, Denise Thank you for your kind words and for sharing with me. You are in my prayers. May God give you strength daily. Don’t beat yourself up for holding on pain. I know where you’re coming from. Sending you hugs and keep listening to state of mind. I look forward to it every Sunday ♥️

  • @roccopaolino463
    @roccopaolino463 Před 2 lety +5

    Good for you Maurice on the success of the show and the new platform. To see your candid interviews with people we follow and to see you unfiltered is refreshing and helpful to many of us

  • @cathyrizzi1360
    @cathyrizzi1360 Před měsícem +2

    Wow l missed this one 😢Johnny RIP what a great guy l loved him in GH too
    🩵😪🙏💔
    Please bring justice for Johnny and his family
    Condolences to his family ❤️

  • @noreenschuetz2331
    @noreenschuetz2331 Před 2 lety +4

    Maurice i can hardly hear you on this one. This young man is sooo talented!! I can't wait to see what he brings next as "Brandon "

  • @sherrylessen
    @sherrylessen Před 2 lety +13

    State of mind so so excited! It needs to be all over the world. Each episode are amazing and I learn so so much!

  • @hollycuellar3601
    @hollycuellar3601 Před 2 lety +5

    I love how you dove right in and getting to the root of how a lot of people feel.

  • @sherrylessen
    @sherrylessen Před 2 lety +15

    I can’t wait to hear your talk today. Two amazing actors. What intense story lines for both of you happening now. So dark but acted so incredibly.

  • @juliegibson-2020
    @juliegibson-2020 Před 2 lety +3

    Didn't realize I missed this one - what an exceptional interview! I found myself getting teary multiple times on this one, with the self realization that it must have required after Johnny's father passed. It's hell when you're blindsided by the death of a loved one. Grief is personal to each individual and there is NO time table for it, but the only way to regain your life afterwards is to go through it. It SUCKS...anger, sadness, despair, frustration, emptiness...they're all valid and you have to let yourself feel it, but it does suck. Thank y'all for an amazing interview ❤️

    • @handsome-brute2666
      @handsome-brute2666 Před měsícem

      Funny u spoke on his father's 💀☠️ death 🤔 two years ago.. NOW we mourn his

  • @katkohler
    @katkohler Před 2 lety +3

    What a great conversation. Thank you for the courage to share your stories. I, too, was beaten so hard with a belt that I would make my mind go elsewhere until it was over. I never felt worthy of love from a man and married an abuser. These are patterns we create from our younger years until we decide to break the cycle. I forgave my dad and it released me from so much pent up emotions.

  • @joanparker2443
    @joanparker2443 Před 2 lety +5

    I am glad for state of mind today. Thanks Maurice.

  • @CreativeLifeofanArtist
    @CreativeLifeofanArtist Před měsícem

    So incredibly heartbroken to hear of this tragic loss. He was such an incredibly kind down to earth person. It was an honor to call him a friend.

  • @marnatieger6652
    @marnatieger6652 Před 2 lety +7

    This is one of my favorite interviews but I say that every week. In all honesty I think Johnny is a good guy and you guys are both awesome ♥️

  • @susanmcknight6401
    @susanmcknight6401 Před 2 lety +5

    Congratulations Maurice . Further validation of the positive effect State of Mind has on people .You are helping thousands of people and are considered by many to be a pioneer in bringing the importance of Mental Health to the world .Pleasr don't stop putting Statr of Mind on y-tube . Believe me there are alot of people who still do not have internet or cable .They can't afford it or live in rural areas where b they can't get service. Great episode with Johnny today.The conversation between you two was so good and a very im portent topic
    Thank you .

  • @reneed326
    @reneed326 Před 25 dny +1

    I feel he is a strong beacon of light to wake up California! Rest in peace!

  • @peglistening714
    @peglistening714 Před měsícem

    What a beautiful program...you give so much to others in doing this...Johnny will certainly be missed, thank you for interviewing him.

  • @annettephillips872
    @annettephillips872 Před 2 lety +4

    This came at just the right time for me. Bless you! I have lost 5 very important people in my life since June, 2020. The last one was Saturday & for the 1st time I noticed that I get mad at everyone around me in the beginning & usually have to do some huge apologizing later. It is so great to know that I am not the only one who reacts this way. I think I have a handle on it now. Thank you so much!!!

  • @maryannkiepczynski6102
    @maryannkiepczynski6102 Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you for encouraging people to seek therapy and use medications to help with psychological concerns. We need to continue the efforts to destigmatize mental illness, and it begins with just talking about it. ♥️

  • @JG-wy1so
    @JG-wy1so Před 2 lety +4

    This really was one of your best interviews, for Mr. Wactor to be so honest and feel safe thanks to you was just so beautiful. Thank you so much, I use your conversations when talking to others facing mental health challenges. God speed to you and your family. Congratulations!

  • @annemarieesan9130
    @annemarieesan9130 Před 2 lety +7

    Thank you for allowing so much exposure to the illness. What an amazing discussion. Love and hugs to you both

  • @mandyyates5091
    @mandyyates5091 Před 2 lety +2

    Johnny Wactor I love you and respect you as an actor. Thank you for introducing YOU. When you were talking about your dad, and grief Man can I relate. My dad was an alcoholic and when cancer took him, it fuc*ed me up big time. Then in 2020 I lost my husband. He was 56. Grief is a beast. It amazes me that we survive that pain. You're an inspiration Johnny!! I think it's great the way you were so real and opened up about some hard shit to talk about. Men should never feel like they can't be human. We all need help sometimes. You're amazing!!

  • @taras6578
    @taras6578 Před 2 lety +5

    Congratulations on being picked up globally. My husband bought me your book as a Christmas present this year and I’m really enjoying it. Happy anniversary on state of mind.

  • @furioussound
    @furioussound Před 2 lety +3

    Hello, I’ve never left a comment on CZcams about anything, ever. But I have to write to you. Congratulations on State of Mind growing to reach more people on a larger platform. What you do here is really important. You’re open, vulnerable, and brave in every conversation you have here. You’re also so approachable and so very *real*. I’m a survivor of physical and sexual abuse and one of the things I’ve learned from listening to you here is that it’s a process. There are no easy survival strategies or perfect answers. We can only try and keep trying and do the work and reach for perspective when it all stumbles. So. Thank you for SofM. Oh. And the ‘gram. I learn a lot about life watching you talk to the goats. Congrats again.

  • @adnyl6288
    @adnyl6288 Před 2 lety +5

    Congrats Maurice! You so deserve this! Such an important topic to help so many of us that need this in this crazy time! What a blessing you are to everyone. God certainly had a purpose for your life 🙏

  • @debbieramsey-hanks3757
    @debbieramsey-hanks3757 Před měsícem +1

    Maurice, Thank you so much for doing and then sharing this. spiritually revealing and raw and brutally honest beginng of. glimpses of an overall a southern gentleman and. anmazing actor with more to show the. world I am sure your heart is breaking as kindred actots. Tragic
    Gone too soon and he was trying to. Protect someone. A true hero.

  • @penny7205
    @penny7205 Před měsícem +1

    An excellent broad range of topics. So genuine. Makes me love Maurice more and miss Johnny more! Thank you for state of mind sharing. Remarkable

  • @danablackburn4267
    @danablackburn4267 Před 2 lety +6

    Love this show and the education about mental illness. Wonderful, informative guests that bring out my emotions too!

  • @aprilfoxbilligmeier2059
    @aprilfoxbilligmeier2059 Před 2 lety +11

    Loved this episode!!! The honesty was so refreshing to see nowadays. But...you wear honesty on your sleeve always!! Thank you for the enlightenment from you both. Also...the baby storyline was amazing. My husband and I went through almost the exact situation over 30yrs ago with our first child. It was very hard for me to watch...but I did with lots of tears!!! Thank you Jonny and Sophia for doing the story so much justice. Looking forward to next week's episode!!!

  • @jodieveretts5916
    @jodieveretts5916 Před 2 lety +3

    Congratulations for being picked up. You are truly such a inspiration to a lot of people. Much respect for you. I’ve been listening since you started in your car. Completely a fan of you as a actor but as a advocate for mental health you are such a huge inspiration

  • @backporchparadise
    @backporchparadise Před 2 lety +8

    Today's interview touched on many things I have experienced in my life so I appreciate the conversation. Again, I don't feel as alone. Also, I really enjoyed chatting with everyone. Thank you so much. You all have made my Sunday a good one. *hugs*

    • @MBStateOfMind
      @MBStateOfMind  Před 2 lety +1

      Thank you

    • @backporchparadise
      @backporchparadise Před 2 lety

      @@MBStateOfMind I feel I should also say that I forgave my mom a long time ago. She did the best she could. I understand. I feel I can share my story and still respect her memory. As far as my step-dad, he isn't really approachable. So...the rest goes in higher hands. Thanks Mo and Company. ♥

  • @hilaryscott2642
    @hilaryscott2642 Před 2 lety +13

    There is absolutely no place for violence against people, especially children. Do whatever you have to do to work through that.

    • @denisebyers7647
      @denisebyers7647 Před 2 lety +4

      I had to have my 28 yr old son removed from my home by police because he was being verbally abusive and threatening violence against his sister. He never shuts up. He is relentless. He is an alcoholic. I thought I was helping him. I wasn't. I was enabling him. Hardest thing I've ever done as a parent. He was almost arrested but sadly wasn't. Instead he went to stay with an alcoholic friend. I've been praying every minute of the day that I don't get a call that he is dead. I love him so much. I put him out so he could save himself and so my daughter and I would be safe. I think a little time in jail would have been better for him. The more time the better, until he dried out.

  • @angelakamerma7100
    @angelakamerma7100 Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you Maurice for another awesome state of mind! Mental illness needs more attention for sure and I appreciate your willingness to help those who struggle

  • @angelagray3491
    @angelagray3491 Před 2 lety +4

    Awesome news Maurice!!!I'm so happy for you! Your wife is a great lady! God bless you and your family! I would love to see Steve Burton on if you can.I loved Ingo and Laura ! Many great shows!

  • @sandydusza6155
    @sandydusza6155 Před měsícem +1

    You are a wonderful man Johnny, RIP. So tragic for his family and the GH family. Violent crime is rampant, something needs to change!

  • @Transcendfinejewelleryonline
    @Transcendfinejewelleryonline Před měsícem +3

    Rest in peace, you are now in God's arms, Johnny. Our prayers to his family and friends, God bless them.

  • @johnoksys7713
    @johnoksys7713 Před 2 lety +2

    Congratulations Maurice on your show I enjoy your interviews & Your a great actor on General Hospital I love watching you on the soap keep up the good work

  • @denisebyers7647
    @denisebyers7647 Před 2 lety +5

    I also relate to your experience with your Dad. My "mother" beat me and was brutally strict. She took her anger out on me and she still does. I am 57 yrs old! In the last few days, I've spoken back to her. 57 yrs old and still scared of my "mother". I was put on a pedestal and it was beaten into me to stay there. She was and is totally abusive. She was a good provider but she wasn't a mother. I spent most of my life with my maternal grandmother. She saved me. Any good in me is because of her. I can't even talk to her about this today. She threw me out at 16. Prior to that she allowed her male common law partner to sexually harrass me and nearly rape me. Getting kicked out saved me! I slept on my grandmother's couch for a year because she was sheltering so many other family members. I was soooo grateful for that couch! God bless that woman. I also had a schizophrenic grandfather and his parents in the same home. Apparently he was violent toward my mom and her siblings but he was my hero. I was his Princess. When I was an infant, he allegedly threatened to hurt me and his mother finally stepped in and he never touched another person or animal in aggression again. He came back from WWII a totally different person. I guess I inherited mental illness and also got it through traumatization by my mother. No substance abuse issues. She is just a really angry woman who had me at 16 yrs old. She didn't even know how to boil water when she moved us out when she was about 21 yrs old. She had no idea how to be a mother. Today she shows up when I need her but it is for show. I know that 100%. I'm standing up and staying away. I'm trying not to ask her for ANYTHING! She triggers deep anxiety that often turns to depression. She told me to stop threatening suicide and just do it already. That fueled me!! I don't ask why anymore. It is what it is. This is my lot in life. I deal with it through a psychiatrist and medication. I have asked God why once why I got this shit and He did answer me. We all have struggles we have to overcome in order to be stronger and ascend. Wishing everyone listening all the best. Remember... be kind to YOURSELF! Others are important too but if you don't take proper care of yourself, you really can't help anyone else. Blessings from Toronto Canada.

    • @MBStateOfMind
      @MBStateOfMind  Před 2 lety +1

      I’m so sorry thank you

    • @denisebyers7647
      @denisebyers7647 Před 2 lety

      @@MBStateOfMind As I am sorry for your own horror show. Thank you for sharing and making this a safe place to talk about really hard things. I've never told anyone q lot of this. Thank you again. God Bless you!

  • @sherribauer6822
    @sherribauer6822 Před 2 lety +4

    As usual emotional, insightful, intense sprinkled with humor! Another great show, thank you!

  • @rosemaryfrancois1865
    @rosemaryfrancois1865 Před 2 lety +2

    Congratulations Maurice. This is wonderful news. Thank you for sharing your experiences and helping others with State of Mind. This was a powerful interview and I called a friend to watch it as well. This topic is a hard one that a good number people had to deal with in their youth and still dealing with the trauma.

  • @Heather_1964
    @Heather_1964 Před měsícem

    RIP Johnny! You were taking way too soon! It shows what a man you were to step in front of your friend. I’m crying even watching this knowing that you’re gone. Prayers to your family and friends.❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🥲🥲🥲

  • @purejoy1985
    @purejoy1985 Před měsícem +1

    Came to pay respect to him. Hate what happened to him, his loved ones, all those hurting forever by his loss. Extending to those who knows this type of pain very well. ❤

  • @amycook8871
    @amycook8871 Před měsícem +2

    I can not believe what poeple will do for a car piece. Rest in Johnny. You will be missed by all

  • @jasminebauer5697
    @jasminebauer5697 Před 2 lety +4

    Johnny ❤️❤️ thank you for sharing those sad tough times with use I can relate, we can relate. Came out strong and still learning how to cope. Love you Maurice ❤️❤️❤️

  • @cynthiarafn9027
    @cynthiarafn9027 Před 2 lety +7

    Maurice and Johnny, that was awesome! So open and honest. My step father was an alcoholic, so I can relate to Johnnys story. Amazing actor he is so awesome as Brando! Thank you both for sharing 🤗

  • @KimberlyM-W
    @KimberlyM-W Před měsícem +1

    😓💔🥀 RIP Johnny Wactor 🥀💔😓
    So sad to see this young man in videos and to know his faith….😢
    Extremely shocking and heartbreaking!!
    My deepest condolences to his family & friends that knew Johnny!!

  • @Spartins1988
    @Spartins1988 Před 2 lety +1

    This struck a cord with me. I felt the same when my grandmother died and it took a long time to work though all my emotions. I also want to say I agree with you Maurice. Johnny deserves more storylines. He's super talented and GH should capitalize on that before he goes on to be a global superstar! We the fans also deserve more Brando and Sonny scenes!

  • @ritagoodhue5983
    @ritagoodhue5983 Před 2 lety +4

    That is so awesome how far it has come ! I’ve told all I know who have issues to tune into you ! I’ll always support this for you ❤️ So happy for you !