What I Taught My Sons: Becoming a Man Without a Father || STEVE HARVEY
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- čas přidán 10. 05. 2019
- When Steve brought together all sorts of men to discuss the issues facing them, one young man asked how he can learn to be an adult without his father around.
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The saddnes in eyes in those children who don't have father is so deep, I am sorry for you
I see it in many of my childhood pictures. There’s always an empty feeling
@@alexm1841 yup
How I can Deal with me being pregnant and knowing my son will not have father? He is completely gone, blocked me everywhere after my mom fight with him cuz he dumped me....he said he would be in touch but when my mom asked for financial help cuz im dealing with money issues he is gone.. I feel so guilty for my son
Thank you .. but Don’t be sorry for us . We going out the same way we came in alone . 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@mihb9116 try to get him back
So necessary, this guy was rewarded because he was brave enough to speak up.😭💪🏿👏🏾
Damn!! This is Powerful as a Man... This brought tears to my eyes
me too dude
me too
Same
This was deep. The number of men willing to mentor this young man made me cry. So very touching.
This so necessary. Steve , May the Lord Jesus Christ always bless u n all u do. May u be able to do this on a greater scale. 🙏
It’s not Jesus who blesses us it is Allah (God)
AMEN AMEN,😍😍😍😍
@@D7omy911 bruh
@@benjaminmathew289 I think Steve Harvey is muslim
This is so beautiful. Even boys with deadbeat fathers need this.
Man, I needed this when I was a kid. Luckily, my mom had me watch a lot of Family Matters and Fresh Prince of Bel Air. Uncle Phil and Carl Winslow always kept me determined, dedicated, and confident.
The work Steve do is real. I hope he's able to bring his show to a streaming format.
We gonna put our arms round you, and get you where you wanna get to... 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
That was deep 😭
YEAP only a man knows how to raise a man #period
This is .....one of my best episodes so far.....I recognized this with my son quickly and i was lucky to find GOD fearing strong men to put infront of him. hes about to turn 20 and in univertsity. Thank you Lord.
The look on his mother’s face #priceless #Salute to he men helping him
This just made me cry so fast!! The momma got me!! God bless her and her son.
Omg this made me cry 2 see those brothers raise their hands.♡♡♡♡♡
I'm growing up with no father, the only father I looked up to was my grandfather who passed away but last time I saw him was when I was 6.. the way I think about being a man is what my grandfather would do and to not be like my actual father.
This is EXACTLY what this world needs! The father wound is real.
He looked so nervous about the men actually STEPPING UP..
Put hedge around Yr son Lord..
Love the way Steve Harvey stepped up to help this young man. Thats what a real man does!
😢 😭 Just watching this. I’m full Asian, and I grew up without a Father Figure. Parents divorced at a young age. Was Raised by a single mom, and sometimes I wished I had a Good Man, Role Model in life to teach me the things that I’ve missed when I was younger, the bond and relationship between a Dad/Son that I never had. My mom was half mom and half dad and had to teach me the things that she knew, but the feelings weren’t the same as having a strong father figure in your life.
I’m thankful for what I have and for what I know. Much love the sons and daughters without a father in their lives.
Deuteronomy 31:6 ✝️
Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.
Same here. I used to give my mom a card every Father's Day...but finally after so many prayers and years of crying at the age of 43 I got to spend a whole day with my dad. I had only seen him twice in my life and each time was for a few hours. This time I really got to tell him how I felt and he apologized to me. It was only a day, but it was ours, and I got to get him coffee and make him dinner, so to God be all the glory for that moment in time. It can't change the past, but it healed my broken heart.
Same story, I just wished for the simple things, like go fishing with a dad.
Steve is amazing.
I grew up without my my biological father, but my grandfather was my dad. He taught me about being a man and I can never thank him enough for loving me not only as a grandson, but a Son and also teaching me how to be a respectable, God fearing, trustworthy, good man
Same here man but im still young
But my mom also mistreated me
Mashaallah god bless u Mr Steve
Yes!!!
This kid is beyond fortunate and blessed to have these men around him, to teach him to be a man. I never had that and I never will, so I gotta live with that for the rest of my life. I hope he learns from these men and gets after what he wants in life !
Steve Harvey finding mentors on the spot.."You're the young dude in the group...we're gonna put our arms around you and get you where you need to go"...thank you Steve..your legacy will outlive any show of yours that's cancelled. God bless you for your ❤ of the community and continued success wherever God leads you.
Real Stand Up Guy!!!! ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Wow I can’t believe this show was canceled! I love Steve so much! He’s been my mentor for many years... this show was amazing! I love hearing from men
Maybe the show upsets fiminists.
The effect of lacking a father figure is real. I never grew up with dad. No single night I remember him come back home, it pains. It hurts that in all people in the world I don't trust my dad most. I dont see him as a father.nurturing is real. Men pliz let's do it for our dear children don't let them be victims as me. It really hurts. Hoping to heal oneday
This looks like a worthwhile episode
That man was so eager to mentor him....I really hope they stick around. That's so important!
Mr. Harvey, thank you for what you are doing in people's lives. I grew up without my father, he was off and on before he finally left when I was 12. I still recall how devastated I was and how I yearned to have a relationship with him, sadly i didn't get to be close to him until he passed. I've got a family now and I understand that having both parents raising kids is essential in having balanced adults
Bless this young blood!🙏🏿
Steve please start a podcast or something! I NEED YOU!
This is why I love STEVE... keeping it real
Easter Tatum Right!! I agree with you!!
This is so touching. I love Steve Harvey so much. He is a good man
Wow!!!! Ive been brainstorming and trying to figure out how i can help my 12yr old son prepare to become a man since his father is not in his life....and your right....how can i teach him something im not or will ever be......I needed to hear this Steve thankyou! Ill be looking for my son a mentor.
I sometimes have to work with kids with no father figure, younger than the boy in the video (from 5 to 17). They are angry or have repressed sadness all the time, they often are bullies or loners. The teenager ones don't know how to act or treat a girl, they are scared of them or just plain rude to them. I'm no psychologist or anything similar, but helping them and being a male referent for them if they want me to makes me feel so proud and grateful (and with a lot of responsability, of course!). And sometimes, when I think about them and reflect about their situation it truly makes me real sad. Sometimes, in some delicate scenario with any of these boys, I'll admit I have shed some tears at my almost 30 years of age. What I want to say with this is that if any man wants to be a referent for a boy, beware, because it is gratifying but also a heavy weight on your shoulders. Also, I want to say that I always will be thankful to my father for being there for me everytime I needed him.
I thank God for my husband that came into my life with his 1 son. ..and loved and raised his 1 and my 4 boys! I taught them a lot. ..but a boy needs a man and what I was lacking he willingly gave
Such a brave nd purposeful young man...to speak up.
I commend this MEN for seeking clarity!! I am a fatherless daughter...
Lord knows I love you Steve and I am broken hearted that you are going off the air. The ladies and I in my Senior group plan our day around your show and we do not miss you. We are all praying that you will come on another station soon. I just can not believe it.
T Calvin right!! He has such great and impactful topics
Sadly, the owners of the network are not interested in the impact Mr. Harvey is making all over the world. I know God has him covered
This is the first time I’ve heard of UNCLE STRVE IS GOING OFF THE AIR?!?!!!?!!!!!!!??!!!
He is too adorable!! I hope they follow through with the mentorship
I needed to hear this!!!! I want to meet Steve one day!!!!
steve is such a awesome person.he says what needs to be said without any negative reflection on your character
I'm glad Steve is doing this.
can Majorie do a series about becoming a woman without a father or how to become a good woman .something of that sort
Nerlyne Dautruche Iyanla did it a few years back if you want something like right now
@@DaisyMaye15 oh really? thanks ill check it out. did it work for you?
Nerlyne Dautruche I loved it. Just type in Iyanla daughters on here it’ll come up.
@@DaisyMaye15Ok. thank you so much
@Not At This Time Yes I will! I'm really trying to become a woman of God also . but right now, in my heart , I have no love for myself. so, its really hard at times . but , ill check that out as well
Why am I tearing up?! 😢
As a mother to a 12 year old... this was just gold advice... my son will.have good mentors in his life, period!
This brought tears to my eyes
I see your program some times you have no idea how it changes me,ur great man wish you long life,thanks 🙏 for everything.
This young man is going to be okay. This was a divine appointment on this day!
Superb Our Respected Steveihave been appreciating you from years... great service to humanity..stay blessed
Steve harvery will be the only person never canceled for telling people mens life's are hard. I appreciate you steve, you've been the voice of reason for a too long.
Damn I needed this haven't seen my father since I was 3 thank you Steve god bless you man !!!!!!
I feel him, without a father figure life gets so confusing sometimes
This is incredible to see
Good talk
one day i hope to see his shows in worldwide streamingchannel, what this man does is needed and not what the live channels show nowadays, mad love mr harvey
Yeah a man who can show this young man to be a great man 👨 no doubt what a brave young man to ask the question 🙋♂️
Thank you Uncle Steve !
Thank you uncle Steve
This is beautiful
YASSSSS!!!! Step up! This is beautiful!
I love Steve Harvey... he helps always people 💪🏻♥️
Wow I cried when I saw this video...I love Steve Harvey so much...he's a great God fearing man. Yes help the young men...they need fathers nd guidance.
I wish I had this growing up. Me and my little brother. Our father walked out on us when I was 4 cus he couldn't be wit my mama no more. If we had a positive role model growing up we woulda went a more positive direction. I'm trying to be that man for my step son now and it's hard
Oh my heart..I know exactly what the mother was feeling when those hands went up.
L. Hamilton what was that?
#KEEPSTEVEONAIR
Beautiful! ❤️
it's crazy watching this cause i didn't have a father but i knew how to be a man without one. i had to really teach myself. its not as hard as people make it seem just have to work and take care of your responsibilities you don't need a man for that. being raised by a single mother was hard but i got into the military with her.so i think she did a pretty good job.
@GG T87 I know where you coming from me and you both . since you a woman it must've harder.
Powerful!!!!!
From one Daniel to another, this was the ultimate highlight of What I Taught My Sons. When those men raised their hands.
This is just beautiful
I shed a few tears watching this 🙏🙏🙏
Wow I wanna watch the whole episode
Excellent!!!!!!
Lil man, please smile❤️
I love you steve
Good job!
Young boys need to just do the things with their sons that their father never did for them. Stop playing the victim all their life and take control. This was a beautiful segment. Like Steve said society has pressured men to stay strong, never cry, provide, work til you're tired. Its very important to have a sit down and talk about these things.
I love this
Oh my heart!
Cried so hard when I saw all those men raise their hands saying they would mentor him.
Man hearing him ask Steve how to be a man without a dad hits hard. I mean mines alive n sorta in my life although he’s away, he’s been kinda absent in it. My mom mostly been my rock but I see that I had my own pains and troubles cuz of that hole in me.
💯 real talk
This young man...Jesus, Jesus, Jesus! But God! I wish I’d had this kind of mentoring for my sons when they were growing up! Going to miss you Steve Harvey when your show comes to its end 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾!
Thank u aĺl the way😇
This has been my biggest worry about my son, I'll never be able to provide him with a good father. All I can hope is to find good men to put in front of him somehow. That takes time, though, and there's not a lot of that left while he's still a kid.
it's not hard to find male mentors. Enroll him in a martial arts class, so many men including the sensei will be role models. Get him in church or school groups with men in it, let him spend time WITHOUT A WOMAN AROUND so he can be free to ask questions without worrying about what they think.
If you don't get him out there quick, he's going to ask google about being a man and will find those groups on the internet that hate women and make men feel resentful that they are not appreciated by society.
This is not a prediction, but 9 out of the last 10 school shooters came from single parent homes. Almost all of them had interacted with fringe forums that are meant for grown men who want to speak their mind freely and because they are young boys they don't understand the full context of the shorthand the men are using to express themselves. They start to think women actually hate men, only want them for money and status and will use them up. There are men every day with no male role model who take their own lives because their mother cannot do what a father figure or role model can - no matter how hard she tries.
If you want the best for your boy, don't just worry. Take action. Even if you need to reach out yourself and have a heart to heart with a few men. BUT make sure they're men and not just boys that grew bigger. Don't identify them by whether or not you would date them. identify them by their behavior and actions not what they have or the words they say. And please please please encourage your son to listen to a large variety of music. Rap and pop nowadays is either "azz and tiddies" or "girl i want you back i'll give you the sun, the moon the stars" and neither of those lines are reality.. but without role models they will interpret these as scripture - especially if you don't do church.
Most of all, make sure the guy is cool enough. Not cool by women's standards (stoic, wears the bling, doesn't mess with hoes even though he could). Cool by men's standards (knows how to build a machine or hunt or fix things, knows how to TALK to women without stuttering and blushing, has a path of his own that he handles with grace).
Thats basic things could make or ruin your life.
Yesssssss 😩😩💛
The absolute best thing I've seen in a long time.
I have a dad around but he taught me nothing wish I had this kind of support.
So deep
If you think a men is so very important for your formation as a person you can find that in an uncle, a family's friend etc, if you don't have a father or you have a very bad one there's no problem, there's a lot of great adult men who can help you.
KID I WANT TO TELL YOU you are just alright and will be ok even without a man!
Finding a good man to mentor your son IS NOT THAT EASY. If I knew how to find a good man, my son WOULD HAVE A FATHER IN THE HOUSE.
I met my father @ age 9 let that sink in !!!only brother that grew up without no father never been to his crib none of that WICKED 18 years no father in the household ... it’s the hard Knox life foreal
He’s right about that thou, can definitely make it rough
So beautiful.....Look at God.
Not my crying over here 😢😢
Manup Nz tutangata, open up not harden up
Fathers need to rise up
Can't we get Steve a show just on this exact subject? So great those other men are helping this young lad. But wouldn't it be great for Steve to regularly speak on this but with actual actionable points?