How Simps Are Born
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- čas přidán 26. 02. 2020
- This video is a commentary on Season 2 of Geek Love Episode 1(Alex) and Episode 9 (Joey).
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Bruh, he brings home a pretty, kind, ivy league girl and his mom still seems disappointed
His mom wasn't disappointed. She was intimidated by this girl because she seemed like such a catch.
She could even be the most perfect person in the world it wouldn't matter.
This is something that runs in my family so I know this behavior well. My grandmother does it to my mother and my mother does it to me. Not to the extreme seen in this video I guess but all the points match.
To give you a clear example, one time a few years ago when I was 18 or 19, I was video chatting a friend who happened to be a girl. After the call my mom started making ridiculous accusations (obviously false) that she was mocking her. It left me very puzzled but also skeptical because she literally had no reason to say that (my mother didn't even know her and had no reason to hate her) and after that incident she tried to incentivize me to stop speaking to her and kept mentioning her as if she was my girlfriend. I did have a girlfriend eventually after all that but I didn't even bother telling anyone at home because I didn't have the patience to deal with their crap.
Now last year, my mom got someone, didn't tell us and once my grandmother found out the usual drama happened. The bickering went on until grandma realized mom was no longer with that man. That's when I started noticing a pattern.
This video helped me understand things better and it is something that can also happen to daughters. If I ever become a father, I definitely don't want to repeat the same mistakes.
@@Manic_Panic Glad to see you are wiser now man. Keep on learning and growing
@@Manic_Panic why then, did they act in such a manner?
My mum kinda peaced out shortly after I got into secondary education so I never experienced it.
@@jp5d366 nah man, I pick it up from a dancehall song by the same name. By Alkaline if I remember correct.
My dating skills at 28 aren't the best either. But meeting the parents on the first date is ridiculous
Go on dates
I've had many dates and with sex on the first day
pegeta - Wow, such a Chad.
bruh is your name chad
@@pegeta With your father?
Joey honestly wasn’t half bad at all. Good shape, solid personality considering his circumstances, smart, etc. If only his mom wasn’t holding him back
@Thomas B Reaching the second cosmic speed won't be easy for Joey. 🚀
yeah ngl he seems pretty happy and that's what's most important, the only bad things are his mother and the fact that he doesn't have much self awareness
@@thomasb282hé Alr passed the event horizon
he just has hobbies, thats nothing bad. I especially like how he actually takes care of his body, which "geeks" are known for not doing (which is a prejudice which should be snuffed out)
I just dont like ALEX
Emily had to meet Joey's parents on the first date because the producers realized that this would be a good story.
Don't believe reality tv.
Think about this, she went to his house to "play video games" where anyone could play any video game including tetris attack at the convention. He could've scored more than in a video game if this were reality, no camera crews, no obsessive parents, etc
i watched the video. i thonk joey brought the ivy leage girl to her parents so she’d be turned off, so jowy can get the dr who girl
He doesnt want a female......they arent his "type"
The girls want him cuz cameras are following him around
Also the fact that he was probably there only guy there in normal weight with a drive to improve himself
excellent observation
lmaoo
Agreed. These people saying "he's a potential catch" are delusional. Even if he was middle class, he'd probably never land a girl that pretty in real life.
The cameras followed many more people and some of them didn’t even get women.
This is just another form of child abuse, the mother literally stops the boy from becoming a man.......hopefully the brother will be able to catch the time he lost or at least minimize the damage
It is not an issue for society if it was a child abuse against boys
Imagine if it was the dad who "abuse" his daughter by keeping all the bad boys out of her life. Then society finally cares because feminism
@@aisir3725 would you rather have her ride the cc instead?
@@Shoegazebasedgenre0. oh, dad can traumatize daughter directly, just as mother can destroy her son. The difference is the mother is usually dominant in the kid raising therefore boys suffer way more often.
My mom's doing the same thing. She took me out of school after the fifth grade and took my brother who's 3 years older than me out during the 3rd grade. She doesn't want us to get jobs, private bank accounts, or licences and she intentionally goes out of her way to destroy all of our friendships and connections by telling our of our family members that we're just really shitty because we don't want to baby a grown ass adult with hoarding problems as teenagers. He's 19 now with no desire to do better.
"the mother literally stops the boy from becoming a man"
FACT!
Hello Everyone. Since I am child from the 60's I have been dying to find out why our world is 100% different in 2021. After watching "Think Before You Sleep" for almost a week now. I now understand exactly why our world is 100% different. Or, Should I say Insane? I still don't know who the guy is that talks in the background but, In my personal opinion he does a super job breaking down every situation.
how do you feel watching him for a few months now? i highly suggest checking out his other video platform channels because a LOT of his videos are taken down. i recommend watching bud Toddlers and Tiaras video.
The world being 100% different is the result of social programming. Social programming is pretty much the same thing we do to train children or dogs, where you reward good behaviour and punish bad behaviour. The reason the world is insane, is because social programming has been used to reward bad behaviour and punish good behaviour, as a means of damaging and weakening society. Our rulers are aiming to gradually erode our rights and freedoms, to make us less of a threat to them, and for that, they require a weak and submissive society. And this social programming is a means to that end.
Calling out people who are liars, who are cowards, who are evil thugs etc, is generally punished in our society (as being mean and offensive), whereas weak virtue signalling is held up as actually virtuous behaviour. So people who are cowards, people who are weak, they chase the praise they gain for their weak behaviour, and they rage against being held accountable for their weak behaviour.
When we talk about the Red Pill, it is a reference from The Matrix about facing reality for what it is, or choosing to believe in the delusion that we are told to believe in. More and more people are waking up, because it is getting ridiculously easy to see through the delusion, but there are people in the world (weak people), who are working twice as hard to believe in the delusion (making themselves look ridiculous and insane in the process).
I am not a fan of the Red Pill being used, I would rather use the 1984 reference, of 2+2=4, or not. People who have courage will speak the truth, and they will say 2+2=4. People who are weak and spineless, they will say 2+2=5, or 3, or whatever they are told to say, because they fear the consequences (being branded a bigot etc). Such people could get slapped in the face with Caitlyn Jenner's penis, and they will insist it is a vagina, and despite it being absurd, they will do it anyway, because they fear the consequences of speaking the truth (social shaming).
Our society is being weakened one generation at a time, and they are being made to believe absurdities, because they are too weak and spineless to be honest.
You must build a time machine and go back to the 60's. Set right what was made wrong.
I'm only 27 and I know he's around my age somewhere and it makes me so happy someone else shares the same views as me that isn't twice my age 😂
"larry long" lmao
Joey : * brings home nice , tall , pretty lady
His 300 pounds old mom : Gamer ? Eeeew...
Lol. Of course she was better than the mom, but she was really not pretty, and also was abnormally tallish.
@@yourdailydoseofreality3219 She is really above average what
@@kaiji4788 I think you didn’t finish your sentence. It makes no sense.
@@yourdailydoseofreality3219 Men aren't turned off by the idea of a woman being "too tall" the way women are by a man being too short. The only disadvantage to a tall girl is her own self-imposed refusal to date a man who isn't even taller, whether she's six four or four two.
@@RoninCatholic Not sure where you get this from, dude. I know a lot of tallish women who would willingly date anyone just for the sake of having a boyfriend. The thing is most men don’t want them. Even the ones who are much taller than them. They usually prefer short women.
I personally wouldn’t date a tall woman, although she’d most likely be quite shorter than me. They are simply not womanly.
I don’t know how these geeks never got any inspiration from comic book heroes to go to the gym. That’s the influence it had on me, anyway.
What comic book heroes go to the gym? I thought they got their strength from being a descendant of Krytonians, being bit by a mutant spider, or being an engineering genius who builds a suit that makes you strong.
Similar here. A lot of positive traits rubbed off on me from being nerdy about WWF/WWE " wrestling"
Eternalwarpuppy Obviously, it has nothing to do with CMB characters going to the gym, but everything to do with wanting to simply look like them.
Heroes were not meant to inspire that simply. The story of them is where the inspiration come from
@@alexanderavila2514 Our sensibilities in terms of masculine ideals are obviously radically different so I guess I shouldn’t expect low-testosterone males to agree with me.
wow..the way Joey's dad's face lights up when he sees the girl he brought home..and mom swoops in for the kill :/
i feel bad for his dad
Ikr
Yep! Can’t divorce her or she gets everything.
@@gort8687 the dad is a simp
@@thrashhh4457 based on?
4:20 she is cute, she goes to college and plays video games. If I brought a girl like that home my parents would be proud as hell.
Ha! Funny weed number.
Plus she’s also taller than him. Which is a good thing. It means she’s not that superficial.
@@joress well...he has a camera crew following him.
that squirrly girl with the lip piercing was hella cute, energy included. I would have flirted. makes me want to go to these places. do chicks dig the post-psycho Gaara vibe? XD
@@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse I sure do! 😁
My mother is almost like Joey's mother. Thanks for opening my eyes while I'm still young, I will need to be independent soon.
you can do it, buddy 🙂
If you ate short or ugly and poor...will be hard
you can do it
Haha, you are a beta already
@@nasx.6959 lmao you’re a “beta” for using the word “beta”
Raised by a single father here and my best friend was raised by a single mother. Can confirm the large differences in personality. He makes an effort to be a man and has some success, but its easy for me to tell his mentality is closer to that of women. Consider me very thankful for being raised by a single father who worked his ass of to support his 3 kids and let me figure a lot of shit out on my own.
@Booya Mazi Not necessarily. I have a similar situation. Father passed when I was 13 raised until around 18 with my mother, had friends in high school who showed me the light of manhood and was the first to move into his own place at 21. I was older than my clique though so I should've been out sooner I believe, but stayed out of my mom's house until mid 30s when my apartment flooded. 6 months back at mom's made me appreciate my peace quiet and Freedom and I've never returned except for brief visits. I say all that to say I know where you're coming from, but don't get discouraged. Keep living, and be around as many male friends as you can and glean from them. Also try and find a reliable mentor. Not a simp but someone who'll tell the truth about life and women and other questions you may have. It's never too late to learn new things brother. Peace
@Booya Mazi Anytime I can help brother. It's kinda what I do. I speak from the wisdom in my heart and from personal experience. You keep your head up brother, and don't hesitate to hit me up if you need to, I dont charge to help out the brethren.
@Booya Mazi
"I KNOW I will be NOTHING but a grunt to society"
Yeah, society doesn't care much about men outside what we can do for it. You're your own person, though, never forget that. Conform to society to the extent you have to, and otherwise live your life for yourself and those you care about. The only thing you owe society is taxes (infrastructure, education etc), and that'll depend on your income. Set yourself one or more goals, break them down to manageable milestones and start working towards them. If they seem too challenging, break them down even further. To keep your motivation up, keep track of your progress, and keep your expectations down. "Slow and steady wins the race" some say, but my experience is that it's usually more of a combination of stagnation and leaps forward; if you give up, you'll likely miss those leaps forward.
Making society happy won't make you happy - making you happy will. Everything gets easier when you're happy, so make that your number one priority. Just make sure it's long term; short term happiness isn't necessarily worth it. You won't get anywhere without you putting some effort into it - if you want to get up there, you need to climb - so don't get demotivated if you're making slow progress despite working hard at it. It takes years, even decades, for all of us.
Peace and prosperity.
@Booya Mazi Well brother, "the person in the mirror is the only person responsible for you". That's been my mantra for a while. Dont remember where I read it, but it's one of the truest statements I've ever read. Simply because it puts YOU in control. Nobody has any stake to you or your body or the way you choose to live. MGTOW to me just resonated with what I was already feeling about life. I always used to think that I had to be the only one who thought like this, but when I found out there was a community of brothers going through the same thing. I was taken aback. I've been there with the cold steel and such. But I sat back and thought. I have people that look up to me. And you never really notice it until you stop, readjust, and think. If only for a brief second, "I know things are bad right now, or seem bad, but sunshine ALWAYS comes after rain. Think of your sunny days more than those clouds and you'll be ok. And I'll be here if you need me to stick my hands through them clouds and pull you into the sunlight, because clouds always seem to hang low, and sometimes you just need a boost to get above them. Take care brother, I'm always here. May take a minute to get back to you, but I always will. Peace.
@Booya Mazi Exactly my brother, keep that kinda thinking up and you'll be fine.
I’m so glad my father, a decorated Vietnam Vet took me camping, fishing, mow yard, help fix the car, etc. Learned real life lessons and skills in the process.
@Roy Sunshine bruh
@Roy Sunshine show a bit respect
@Roy Sunshine gee, it's almost like the majority were forced to go against their will, and war is shit. Crazy
@Roy Sunshine ah yes I'm sure it was just that easy a decision
@Roy Sunshine dude...
He's going to have a field day with "I Love a Mama's Boy" on TLC
I watched clips of that show but it looked too fake.
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT Yeah it did seem fake, no manipulative person is that open being filmed, the situation seemed unrealistic too(definitely for the money)
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT Can you still do videos regarding the subject? I’d love to hear your perspective and advice on situations like that!
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT why not do a break down of the movie "Crumb" that Peterson suggested? his entire family dynamic is that of an emotionally disturbed man who was being devoured by his oedipal mother.
My mother did this to my brother. He's 40 and still living with them. He is pretty much done at this point and it really disgusts me. Then they wonder why it is that I want nothing to do with them.
Is he ok
@@thegamerguy1790 Not really. He doesn't have much of a life to speak of. Just gets out of bed, sits on his PC playing games. He's got health problems that someone his age shouldn't have and he has some emotional problems, too. I resent my folks for having done that to him. I only get one brother and out of fear of him being hurt by the world they have stopped him from living his life.
I'm sorry about your brother, man.
@@CountArtha Me too. He doesn't even know what he's missed.
So me
“What this entire experience taught me is that my mom is a creep, and my dad is a wet rag.”
if your family supports you ! pays your education, gives you food and a roof , does not Hit you because they like it or think they need to lay off some steam, or steal your savings ! you have excellent parents
Both my parents abandoned me when they divorced, and stolen my savings! i had to work pay for everything...including my studies! i do not hate them today, i grew past that, but i was in shock... what does kill you makes you stronger!
most people have some type of damage from their parents. The goal of parenting is to create the least amount of trauma as possible. My dad was a narcissistic workaholic, that had an unhealthy obsession with healthy lifestyle. Too bad he died of a heart attack at 57 anyhow. I’m drowning in student debt for school loans that I didn’t understand, and for an “education” I was forced into so that I could have health benefits for just a little while longer. Even though I was notoriously awful in an academic environment, my mom just knew that college would save me. I can guarantee that my story is relatable to 90% of my peer group. There comes a point where “my parents screwed me up” doesn’t excuse anything anymore. Like when you are an adult, and have some semblance of autonomy. It eventually becomes your conscious choice to be just like your parents, allow their shitty decisions shape the entirety of your life, or be your own human. I am a mom. You should respect your parents...when they’ve earned it just like with anyone else. Let’s not make generalizations about respecting parents just cause they birthed you. Some parents are Satan. That’s a silly statement.
@@serenemountain6769 oh, yes, I’ve got friends that went to turn on utilities for their new home only to realize they’d had a charged off account in collections since 1987...Shitty people are everywhere, and unfortunately some of the shittiest do the most reproduction.
I’m still sorry that your parents weren’t patient, and didn’t see the value in emulating emotional regulation for you. We can’t be hot headed, and beat on our kids, and then turn around and say “stop throwing a tantrum, and don’t hit your sibling etc...” Corporal punishment is the ultimate betrayal, and is not discipline. All it teaches is “this person cannot be trusted, and I should hide my mistakes.”
@@Investigativebean i had the same problem, but i did not use a student loan, i eventually had to drop out because of lack of funds in my third attempt! Then it hitted me to search for a professional course with access to the college ! i worked overtime, i had ahigh score, gain a scholarship, maintained my grades, at the end of the course i could be selected by an IT company ! and i was selected !
My mom tried exactly what Jordan Peterson was describing, on me! I was out of there at 22 ! She didn't teach me a thing about life, and kept me trapped in the house when I was young! So I had to learn on my own! It didn't click until later in life, but I recall her always saying...." When I get old, WE this, and WE that! Glad I'm on my own!
My parents are doing the same thing that the first mom is doing to her son. I think it's the fear of losing their kids so they intentionally withhold teaching skillsets that help their kids become independent. My dad is an accountant and he manages my money. But I feel there's a control factor in that because the less i know about money the more I'll need him. When i try to do it myself he'll put me down saying i don't know anything.
I left three times. Once for college, once for an away program, and recently for 2 years. I moved back in July 2019 at 32 because my brother also moved in for a 1 year due to work in the area. He's been away for 6 years so i thought it would be a nice gift for my parents if all 3 brothers were home. My oldest brother is a complete manchild. No high paying job, plays video games all day, complains about everything, he's 36.
Anyway, none of us have been in a significant relationship with a women and I am sure that my parents "nurturing" played a significant role in that.
@@LW4816 I had to get away from everyone, rent an apartment, and learn to be my own man, and it's my best life! Red pill videos on you tube have been a life saver, when it comes to relationships! My mother used to always talk as if I couldn't do anything! Getting away from my negative, controlling family, was the best move of my life! Getting stronger every day!
@@43one thanks for sharing. A lot of my coworkers who I've shared my relationship experience with my parents feel that I've been emotionally abused. They're happy for me and saying that's it's a blessing that I'm going away.
Im looking forward to it.
Red pill videos helped me understand that my lack of experience with relationships was also affected by female hypergamy. I was 5'6", scrawny 115lbs in high school with no confidence as it was beaten out of me by my parents. Looking back at it now, it's makes sense why I didn't have a lot of chances.
Now I'm 125, more toned from gym and running, more social, finishing my cardiology training and when I was in my apartment I went to a lot more social events at downtown. I had more interactions with girls. I just fit the picture of an independent man and they're more interested in that.
@@LW4816 💯!!!😄Your definitely on the right path!!💪
@@LW4816 keep on it man
In Finland we have a term for this kind of people: ''Peräkammarin poika'' - ''Boy of the Backroom'' or ''Peräkammarin tyttö''- ''Girl of the Backroom''. My childhood town had a well known alcoholic who lived with his 90 year old mother when he was 60 something years old. It's a sad fate and this kind of people are usually looked down upon by society and it's a shame. These people need help, not judging.
precisely. finland would be a place that would likely have a different attitude towards socially isolated communities, here in the west you live so close to everyone that everyone puts up walls. in sparsely populated areas that get extreme weather the social atmosphere tends to be a lot more helpful. like here in canada, the further out you get the more friendly people are towards one another. Places like Alaska, its illegal to drive by someone walking down the road without stopping and asking if they need help.
When she freaks out that he's a "brony", it's so obvious she's thinking "Wow, it actually can be worse."
hyper-femininized cartoon for hyper-femininized men. its only bad because its a man. but a girl who likes baseball and the military that's okay. double standards. there are plenty of reasons to like my little pony...i haven't personally watched it, but its really not that surprising. I imagine he watched it during difficult emotional periods and it has been linked with self soothing behaviors, like how infants suck their thumbs. it puts them at ease, its familiar, its a show thats swimming with feminine energy, which would be associated with nurturing, protection, matriarchal elements, remember these are all men who have been babied by their mothers...this happens to girls too but with girls its not as detrimental because all they have to do is open their legs, with men they're expected to manifest in the world.
@@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse I wouldn't compare a toddler's cartoon with activities like sports or working in the army. Those activities required strength & discipline.
@@lagopusvulpuz1571 i didn't compare them...try not to think mate, it clearly hurts. its a reference to woman entering and enjoying masculine fields of employment..you know, mostly masculine woman who are really comfortable about men. The same way hyper feminine males would in their domains. That's not a comparison between the military and my little pony..no wonder you're in the military. not too bright.
@@CircumcisionIsChildAbuseit is a good show but I’m a gay man so idk if that helps his case
I certainly wouldn’t judge him for being a brony, I am one too. Or was one when the show was still going. His weight and grooming habits are clearly the worst things
I heard joey did try to move out but he didn’t, his mom ate him.
Yummy
🤣😂
I’m sorry little one, but I’m hungry
I thought she squashed him as she rolled after him like the boulder from Raiders of the Lost Ark.
@Sean Brogan you mean oedipus?
if you want your boys to be independent tell them to go play outside, oh wait you cant do that anymore because of helicopter moms
If you do that she takes away the kids and call u abuser
@Reverend Tim Lovejoy You should be grateful to have cats and wine.
My parents luckily were like that once I got a dog
Well said there.
You can't now because of the Corona
I never knew there are attractive girls in comicon with low self esteem. I will exploit that
Are u bored of ur sister Muhammad?
@@commanderofkesariyaknights come on bro, is that how bad u hate islam? U cant even write my name properly, U think all muslims ar muhammad right?
@@abdulabdulrahman-ho8wj Don't answer trolls, they want that. Let him rot and maybe he'll think about his stupid ways and finally change for the good.
Lack of self-confidence is a major global issue nowadays. Feminism helped destroy that (though it's not the only one, you have: bashing failure, overly criticising while not encouraging enough, blaming for Ape or Acism with an R, etc...). Boys are taught it's not ok to be masculine, girls are taught they should be more masculine. In both cases, they're like fish out of water. Biology is telling them one thing, society is telling them another. Of course people won't be self-confident then! The only variable left is the parents who can add fuel to the fire or help them grow normally.
@@thebotanist7145 it looks like Muhammad shares his goats with u…😂😂😂😂😂
There is progression to cousins as well in his cult…👍
I'm a nerd with a toy collection and I've ended relationships because I enjoy my hobbies but my exes hated it and would talk behind my back to people despite how well I treated her. I have always been a responsible adult teaching myself how to cook, do laundry, budget because I had to take care of my mentally ill mother. I am a firm believer that you can be a nerd while being a proper adult and don't give up anything you enjoy for someone else unless important things come up where you have to prioritize things like starting a family.
Choosing toys over relationships lol
So your single now with a toys, as a grown man. Looks like you’re the one who messed up here.
@@carlwhy but it’s the premise. Swap toys with anything else. Alcohol, friends, sports, cars, etc
@@carlwhy nah, choosing self respect over people who don't appreciate you. I myself don't have such interests, but i sure as hell wouldn't appreciate my supposed loved one to make fun of me for things i like
Man up.
I’m 42 and my mom still contradicts me as a father in front of my son. I’ve confronted her and she tries to explain it away like she’s not doing that.
Once you have your own family, you gotta protect them from bad influences and many times it's our own family members.
Society and social media has all of us wanting to "gatekeep" or add in our 2 cents, be a helicopter parent, or put in our critique. But man, to face criticism in front of your own children -I would tell them 'Hey stop, my kids don't need to hear or see that. If you have a problem, you speak to me about it, and we can have a conversation.' I would be guarding my kids' ears, eyes, and minds from that garbage parenting.
People who cannot bridle their tongues and who idolize emotions before reason and logic, people who aren't sober-minded can be very difficult to reason with and my kids don't need to see confrontations in the home like that. That's adult business.
Props to you for standing up for your kids. My father treats me like crap and has got his own personality disorders, my mom too. My whole family's crazy and I feel like at 31, I'm the only sane one left (or the most sane one, anyway) after growing up in a emotionally messed up home. So I have a lot of respect for parents trying to make it right for their kids.
Yup my future kids won't have anything to do with my toxic mother lol
Did 4 years in the Marines, married for 9 years, currently finishing a college degree. My mother still attempts to infintalize me any time we talk. Im 27 now, i stopped being a child almost 20 years ago because of her life choices. It pisses me off every time, and i keep those times short and scarce. When me and the wife have kids she will not be the grandmother that gets to spoil them. Shes lucky i still let her be in my life at all.
I feel like this is a perfect reason to not have kids till she is a lot older.
@@Hoffmanpack same
Jaba the Hut is in charge. The ginger wants a woman that isn't crazy, good luck my man.
@Reverend Tim Lovejoy English 100
That is exactly the relationship I had with my parents.
I tell younger men who live under similar circumstances...cut the umbilical cord. Your mother does not care about what is good for you, she values what she needs from you. She will sabotage your manhood just to prevent you `leaving´ her.
Yeah if they won't kick you out of the nest like you need to be, jump outa there yourself.
so your suggestion is for people to basically run out into the woods alone? that's why its so difficult to do by the way. because what you're suggesting they do is terrifying and dangerous. thats why parents are supposed to prepare their kids for the world, so for the ones who were NOT prepared what you're saying wont be as helpful unless you provide actionable steps. You don't go from 0 to 100, you go from 0 to 5 or 0 to 10, and then from 10 to 20 and you work your way up until you're ready. Like, "does your mom do your laundry? Well, from this day on, never again, you do your own laundry." those actionable steps empower and prepare the individual for self actualized independence as opposed to just scaring them with the idea of being alone.
@@Tokmurok ...and some people, break their legs and get heavy into addictions, and then commit suicide...like my brother...not always a good idea. Guidance, and gradual growth, mentorship...friends...role models. You can't just cut yourself off of your only support structure and expect to do well. Like you want to teach people to swim by throwing them into a raging river, it would probably be better to teach them how to swim somewhere safe and gradual. you know, like parents are supposed to do as they're growing up. This idea that adults are just going to go from crawling to running is ridiculously unrealistic and the cause of a lot of homelessness, mental deterioration and suicide.
@@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse To go from 0 to 100 is entirely doable, so your advice doesn't fit all people, either.
@@Oera-B I never claimed bipolar behavior isnt 'doable' I claimed the healthy option of sequential improvement to be the foundations of all psychotherapy and the source of all long term success.
You can go from zero to a hundred all you want, just make sure you enjoy the quick climb, make sure to take a picture cause you wont stay very long before an even quicker fall.
"Jumping up the entire flight of stairs isnt impossible." Yah just really dumb to try.
Just because I'm autistic does not mean that I can't get the ability to talk or see women's bad behavior. Granted, I am not extremely autistic, quite low on the spectrum, but that generalization had to be corrected. It's something like saying autistics are bronies. Some are, but most aren't. Most of us have common sense, we're not idiots. We just see the world in a different way.
Did you see the reality show Love On The Spectrum?
@@NJGuy1973 no, is there something special about it?
What does it mean to be autistic again?
@@maxime2445 I know you didn't try to make that pun, but it's still fucking hilarious.
@@theworstcatholic7247I mean I'm autistic and I'm less of a "brony gamer" and more of an art beatnik. It's a spectrum y'all, and its about how you manage it
I can't get over the mom's reaction to finding out that the girl was Ivy League. She was devastated. Presumably because she realized she was a real threat...
Or she's worried about the debt that accompanies a useless degree.
Think Before You Sleep in the absence of any discussion of what the degree was I’d assume the threatened part. Most degrees aren’t necessary but some Ivy League ones are still likely to be .
I wouldn’t expect a woman like the mom to have her finger on the pulse of things like how common useless degrees are. Her thinking is far too insular and self centred
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT I doubt the mother had the cognitive foresight to even consider that honestly. Her reaction was purely emotional.
Can you elaborate? Idk what that is
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT I respect your philosophy and use of petersons lectures. I've read his Maps of Meaning thesis. Great stuff. Insightful guy, respectable. Definitely one of the people I credit most of my changes to, shadow integration, psychological insights, religious insights. Definitely has the hero archetype in him. I've lost real life friends because of my respect for him, I never thought that was possible but never underestimate political neuroticism.
This encapsulates American society in 2020: emasculated father, overbearing land-whale mother, weak soyboy son. Time for Comicon to create : "The Adventures of Soyboy and Neckbeard". Pathetic.
p.s Not hating on geeks and meeks. I have a comic collection as well, specializing in the artwork of Neal Adams. But I also train hard to stay hard. I hope these guys wake up. They are the future of America.
They are not the future as they will not take part
lol, dude your funny as he*!!
Neal Adams? Is he still alive?
They are the future of America. They are the weak men who will bring on the difficult times. Do not lament that. Rejoice. Difficult times bring about strong men.
@Reverend Tim Lovejoy czcams.com/video/O58qxBE90Zk/video.html Pound for pound? Probably so, sir.
This is why you need parents with a good balance of perspective and power. My mom can be overprotective, and my dad is very encouraging for me to do stuff on my own. My mom supports me emotionally when I’m in terrible mental places which my dad isn’t good at, but my dad helps me move forward. Complimentary parents are effective
8:58 honestly that was quite a good response from that guy. He showed interest in her by saying "someone like you" in her face, which shows confidence, but stops himself from being simp by critisizing her personality in a funny way. He first compliments her and then takes it away. Push and pull. Thats chad behaviour in my book
It's more like a good idea with bad execution I think
“Weird girls there” and portraying a girl who would go there is not desirable, she doesn’t understand what she is saying to him is that HE is undesirable because he is the type of guy who would go to the conventions. If she thinks the women are weird for going wouldn’t you think your son is too? How sick and destructive.
@@kana22693 and that is a wrong and absurd way of seeing people's hobbies.
@@nessyness5447 but real
@@Ahrone1586 the only real part of it is that some people are still so stupid to think like that. hobbies have no gender tl begin with ans behaving as if they did only makes people be ashamed of revealing their interests and force themselves to do things they don't really like when in front of their friends, family,etc. and even without this consideration, how are comics and anime and videogames for boys? there has always been material for girls in those, there is an entire anime genre airmed at young girls and another at women. in the american comics there has always been at least one strong female superhero. and in videogames too.
It must be an Western thing because in the East the girls goes to the comicon are cuter than average, and they are just your normal girl next door, office lady, college students and even young hot moms.
@@lishan7219 is not a west thing, people, not just girls, who go to conventions are perfectly normal people and even hot too in spain
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Underrated comment I swear
Did the Dad even say one word in this video?
One of those "I worked 9-to-5 today so I've already done my part" types.
I was raised by one of those mothers and life as an adult has been fucking hell. I wish more people would talk about overbearing and/or narcisstic mothers and their effect on childrens' development.
that guy in the background speed dating in a full on batman outfit is king
The only reason theyre even getting attention is because theres a film crew around them.
exactly.
@@SonoTom not really if you watch the show the girls only know who the cameras are for after the speed dating event is over
@@that1guy246 So they probably assume that every guy gets the camera. People go to great lengths to be famous.
No women select by status but that isn't always clear in what area. It's likely that these girls all have plenty of beta male orbiters (being moderate to decently attractive and most not being severely overweight). I think it's more the fact that these are fresh guys and they don't know they are beta males for sure yet. So they get a staus bump to these women, until they open their mouth anyway. They are both digging in the discount bin hoping to find a good deal with few blemishes even though it's probably the same as what they got back home.
I don’t think joker was “simping” for his mum, he was taking care of her cause she’s ill.
also because he was trying to prove a point to modern day society but that is true
If he was "simping," he was doing it on accident without his knowledge because he didn't know his mom abused him and allowed him to be abused as a kid, the realization of which is kinda what finally completely broke him.
Yea I don’t consider that simping. I would if she’s fully capable of caring of herself. But she isn’t. I always told my parents if they ever got too old or too ill, I would take care of them to return the favor. Not because they’re just my parents, but because they deserve it. I genuinely believe people who shove their parents (and I mean actual good parents) into a retirement home and rarely or never visits them. It’s cruel and wrong.
And he killed her
He was taking care of the same person who let her bf beat him up as a child & tie him to a radiator while she was doing her drugs
When I tell you this video unlocked the biggest barrier I was having with communication, learn how to stop verbalizing every thought! I have to improve my self-control. Thank you so much for this content.
get comfortable with the silence between sentences. if done correctly it can make you seem wise because you're thinking deeply about a response. there are some great public speakers I can suggest to you, one of which has been getting a lot of attention recently.
I'm very glad I found this channel, it has helped me so much in terms of the dating game.
This is by far the best red pill channel. I love how he deconstructs everything and then tells you how not to be and what to do instead. This is actually valuable content. This is how you red pill men. Not just complain about women like many other channels do.
Yes. Many guys get it but get stuck in the "now what" phase.
truuuuu all the other red pill channels are just "woman bad" this guy unlike other red pill channels teaches us good lessons
@@wagnercorange3458 yeah they dont learn anything at all other than just learning about the "female nature" so the people that watch those videos dont grow up and learn anything at all
Yes.
Did you type this comment in 2016 I don't think I've heard anyone use the term "red pill" unironicly in a while.
Though I do find this channel to be quite helpful even if I'm not a man he has good insight that isn't just "woman bad".
Jordan Peterson's speech on this is very illuminating. A lot of mothers stifle their sons. As men we have to experience difficult things to prepare us for the real world, and they want to bubble wrap you. I've grown up with this so I know all too well.
same
while mother's and feminists in general are responsible for enabling bad behaviour and lifestyle choices in emasculated men...the men themselves can't take no blame either. they should recognize how miserable and wrong their life is and want to make every necessary step (even if it seems impossible) to change that. including walking away from their enablers. these dumbass boys refuse to do that.
What lecture of Mr Peterson is not illuminating, that guy is a luminaire
@@Wolfdorf he is a globalist agent fulfilling a role in a play. The leftist devastation you see in the world is very deliberately executed. Jordan peterson is there to lure people into the far right phase of the globalist plot. The controlled opposition will "solve" the engineered problems of the current regime, and then will go tyrannical as well. Thesis, anti thesis, synthesis. The synthesis being their long sought after technocratic, christian "benevolent" dictatorship aka the new world order.
@@zerothehero123 then let's go full nihilistic and do whatever right? Lol.
Thanks for the life advice at the end of the video. Really made the 15 minutes of watching worthwhile.
I am 24 and live at home with my mom. My father died and she had a stroke years ago and is unable to do many things by herself. She can take care of her own personal needs, but grocery shopping, taking herself to doctor appointments, etc, I do for her.
Your just being a man. I’m turning 24 here soon. Live with my parents because I’m gonna stay broke if I live out on my own. But it’s either pay to stay in a shitty apartment so women will not laugh at my face and wanna date me. Or stay at home save money and maybe have a life. Even with the apartment it wouldn’t last. I wouldn’t be broke anymore. just in serious Debt if I found a woman. I’m definitely not simping! Just staying single. Good luck. I pray for ur mom. Ur a good dude.
this is why men or fathers have to influence or mentor boys from not preparing life for simp hood.....
@MrHoppers002 I can not disagree with you westerner.....👍
@MrHoppers002 now there's to many single mothers who make sure fathers stay away
@The monster under your bed not only that , society thinks man left his wife and children or he was abusive so the women fleed
I respect my dad immensely for how much he emphasizes the importance of masculinity, and for talking to me about women. I'm the oldest of five and I have 3 younger brothers, so this is really good to say the least.
2011: we love games and nerd culture
2020: everything here is sexists
everyone gets offended easily god dam it
Glad I'm not the one who realize that.
Bro thank you for this so much!! 1- it helps me reflect on that aspect in my own life and 2- idk where else you could go to get this info as I feel most people need to hear it.
I like how this video doesn't 'attack' Joey or the other dude, the opposite, it actually gives positive feedback and stuff. It was such a very nice video
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Joey's mom sounds like my mom. Ever since I had my boyfriend in my life, she tried to paint him in a bad light and made it difficult for me to leave the house to spend time with him. It's been about a year and half and we are planning on moving in together. So, far my mom has given me advice on how to move out if "things don't work out." My boyfriend has been nothing but polite and patient with my mom and I love him for it.
It is very probable that your mom feels threatened because you are leaving her for someone else. There is a level of co-dependence that exists in some women (usually damaged ones), where they are unable to accept their children moving on, because they depend on them for emotional support. This can commonly be seen with obese women who have children, they are subconsciously frightened of being 'abandoned' by their child (when they 'fly the nest'), so they fatten them up, to sabotage their future, to keep them tied to the mother. "No one will ever love you as much as I love you" etc, but what they really mean is that their kid is the only person who loves them, and they are terrified of losing that love to someone else.
I used to have a girlfriend years ago, who had the same problem. She was so insecure, that she was terrified of losing me to another woman, so she tried to fatten me up. Whenever she cooked for me, I would ask for a moderate amount, and when she brought me the plate, the food was spilling over the side, it was a mountain. And whenever I was going to go to the gym, she would suddenly become very interested in sex. What she was doing, was attempting to sabotage my attempts to better myself, because in her mind, if I became a better man, I would leave her for a better woman.
I learned a lot about abusive relationships from her, I eventually left her because I refused to tolerate her attempts to drag me down to her level. If she had wanted to keep me, she should have lifted herself up to my level instead of trying to drag me down to hers. That is a pattern of behaviour that is common in deeply insecure people (damaged abuse victims), and your only option is to do what they fear the most, by leaving them, or they will succeed in dragging you down to banish their fears and insecurities. It is extremely abusive and selfish behaviour on their part, so you shouldn't feel guilty about distancing yourself from them.
@@zalamael thanks brother. we are helping each other here.
@@zalamael
Let's be honest, her boyfriend is most likely trash and this has nothing to do with the topic of this video.
Men and women dating are two parallel universes, she's merely trying to get attention and her mother is probably right.
Oh wah, it must be really hard dating as a woman, you can't bring your man home until you have your own place. It's almost like men desire you even if you are still living with your parents and will help you escape that situation, while women for the most part do not. That sucks!
@@usernameluis305 its hard for men and women dude
This is one gem of a channel. Great work.
Loving the pep talk at the end, must've needed it man. Great video too 👌👌
I was raised by a single mother and I'm so thankful she never tried to shelter me, she always told me I had to be the man of the house and protect her and my sisters. I'm still an introverted dude but I can take care of myself since my mom was always working. I'm very thankful she never tried to shelter me and protect me from everything, I feel like I'll be good on my own thanks to her.
Lol that's if they let their 'protector' leave or you don't feel guilty when you try to leave cause that wasn't your job. It was hers as an adult. Will your wife be happy to share?
@@rantersparadise get out of here with that disrespect for single mothers. Sure it would have been better with a man in the House but that is not the only way to raise children, just a part of it. Was raised by one myself and just like other mothers most of them tries their best under the circumstances. It’s not like they all are some egocentered psychopats. You cant just assume that because you see a single CZcams video.
Your mom was manipulating you. Trying to teach you that you needed to take care of them even put your life on the line, that they came first and not you. Guilting you if you didn't always think of them first. Making them your obligation.
@@VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM well who else can be the role model for the siblings? Shirking off responsibility when people are in need are cowardly and pathetic.
@@VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM if she manipulate him into becoming a man i dont see whats wrong 🤷🏻
Being a man is dark souls, keep dying and dying and getting better. Pound a 9 (I mean boss) and then get outta there there's more to see, look a skeleton!
Nah, it would better be "I wanna be the Guy".
@@unknownphilosopher9657 ive seen that game
@@alexanderavila2514 And "I wanna be the Guy" is harder.
@@unknownphilosopher9657 Well yea but it's not one of those iconic games. It's as if you were playing some flash game on Scratch
I like this channel so much instead of bashing people and robbing them of thier hopes he gives genuine advices on how to better our situation
This doesn't necessarily only happen with mom's who don't get something from their husbands or are lonely. My mom has a perfectly fine relationship with my dad and my dad is a great father, but my mom is just an extremely over protective and worried person by nature. Growing up, she was over sheltering me and my brother and severely restricted our social interactions, especially with girls. She told me I was too young to date all throughout my teen years. Then as soon as I was like 20 she completely flipped and started constantly harassing me about finding a girl and starting a family because she wants grandchildren. Now, I was able to overcome this because I have always been a very social person by nature and I'm in great shape with above average looks, so I had no issues dating. My brother on the other hand, had always been very shy growing up and has had very few relations with girls despite being 33 now. He still lives at home and my mom is on his ass on the daily about getting his shit together and starting a family. To me it's pretty obvious she is a big reason he became like this.
Jordan Peterson apologised to MGTOW.
He also introduced a ton of guys to it
All he agreed is about courts system. Trads still expect men to go through it and be used as a utility as 'sacrifice'.
Then became a junkie and produce an ethot single mom. He has always preached in underwear.
@@hominem3731 Couldn't said it better myself.
savage
Dear Lord, these "reality" shows make me cringe so hard.
"reality" shows are internationally cringe.
always
They are kinda supposed to be cringy. But those guys actually need help, an alpha male best buddy that will teach them.
Thankfully most of these reality shows are scripted and fake.
This is one of my personal favotites out of all the videos you have made. I think ive watched it 3 times now.
I just stumbled across this channel. Your advice is so very spot on. I wish more young men would listen.
"Why would you ever wanna date a girl at Comic-con"
Why did your husband ever wanted to date you?
*(😂 sorry I had too..)*
No need to apologize dawg
Joey: "Same reason why dad ever wanted to date you".
Because of the meat curtains, free real estate
I keep thinking of "The Waterboy", how his mom always said that things were "the devil".
OMG I kept searching for this comment!
@@mr.speyside5240 Great minds think alike!
“What Momma don’t know won’t hurt her”
"Mama, Benjamin franklin invented electricity."
"That Benjamin franklin is the devil!"
😂
Gaaaator aiiid!
Holy...., I am addicted to this red pill channel. You made me realise a lot of stupid things that i did and didnt realise it was bad. thank you thank you thank you. Keep it up with the content.
7:23 Good for Joey. It's nice to see a show like this actually helping a man's self-esteem and helping him see his situation through a new lense. Also, the spin machine while gaming is genius!
So glad I never had a mother like that. But i know a few guys who do and it crippled them. Good video man.
My mom tried to do that to me and I had to set her straight real quick
Amateurs. My dad was already middle aged when i was born so he didn't have any hand in raising me. My mom did that and when i reached puberty i had to find out about what was happening with my body from my friends and from the net cuz no one told me anything. My mom was also very strict and didn't alow me an email and a cell phone until i was 19. I'm shy infront of girls cuz of all of this
Honestly that blond was out of his league. Even geek girls want attractive guys! Also, I am a comic book fan too! Why don’t more comic geeks hit the gym? You would figure they would want a better body after reading enough comic books!
Every girl wants an attractive handsome guy. How is this news?
Cuz they are lazy
And what's your point? Male geeks want attractive women as well..
WOAH!! Almost every human being would prefer an attractive partner! Crazy right?
get set Why not? I’m attractive, I just have don’t have the best self esteem and confidence. I believe we all have the potential to better ourselves and reach for what we want.
I'm a female, but my mother did the same thing with me as Joey's. Last year I finished college and decided 'fuck that' and went on an exchange program. My mother fell apart. I do feel bad for her, being so emotionally dependent on me, but what was going on wasn't healthy for either of us.
Its not your fault that your mother didn't want to submit to an adult male for companionship. You have your own life to live.
@@avuyilecakwebe6880 She found herself a man, but I wouldn't say she submits to him. And you can be single while not smothering your children with your emotional attachment needs, too. She just couldn't manage it.
with woman though they tend to naturally rebel because that's the biologically predetermined stage to rebel against your mother, but with men, it's not the case. In many cultures boys have "coming of age" ceremonies where they are sometimes taken from their mothers entirely and accepted into the brotherhood of men because they realized that woman had the ability to ruin men that way so they would physically remove them and force them to join the masculine activities. With woman, they tend to rebel naturally because of the feminine competition but men dont feel that competition with females.
@@avuyilecakwebe6880 She didn't need to find a man to top her. She needed to grow the fuck up and not depend on her children.
That's my mom and your video actually helped me understand what's happening. She has coddled me and my brother all our lives and her relation with our father is very strained. I now understand it's because she wants us to not leave. My brother, however, made a good life for himself and got a great job while I'm struggling with my own mental and physical health and for a long time I just depended on my parents for every small thing. I wanna grow up and not depend on them anymore and I want to leave the home.
That dude was pimping instead of simping at that gamer speed dating event, lol. That shows that the issue is that a lot of guys simply never find themselves in the environment that’s actually right for them, because it’s uncommon, unconventional, not politically correct or socially mainstream, etc.
exactly. ive been saying that for years since but most people just resort back to normie tier reasoning(which only further proved the point). once you read up on the social engineering done, history and female nature, it all makes sense. the only logical move to make is to not bother playing a rigged game. we know the government has too many hooks that allow it to infiltrate any environment that strays too far from the programming so the next move is to to let this gen crash and burn in hopes that the youngest generation breaks the cycle (kids born 2010-onwards). ive got beer and lotus roots; now where is that asteroid ??
yes and some bro morons will be like "go to the club thats where real women are" when in actuality...i dont need to finish that sentence
That guys face literally lit up. You can see it like a light bulb going off. "I'm not the looser that my mother keeps telling me I am."
My wife admitted that when she was in HS, she did this to a guy who she described as very sweet, a good friend etc. he checked all the boxes but he wasn't good-looking or particularly confident. She admitted that she knew he liked her, but she always kept him at arms length because, though she wasn't interested in dating him, she liked the attention. She's disgusted by what she did to him, but admits that almost all women do these kinds of things at some point (particularly in their teens and early 20s, when they're learning to use their charms).
Women are one step away from socially acceptable Nazi prison guards, they do things that aren't good without considering what they are doing
What happened to him then?
Almost all women? Wtf? I'm a woman, and neither I nor none of the woman I know have done something like this. I'm going to assume that your wife only thinks this is common amongst all women because it happened a lot within her own friend group. Which is what you'd expect because people tend to pick their friends based off of similar personalities.
@@thelemurofmadagascar9183ITS very Common with women...they Love this men doing Them favours Like picking Them Up after a night out
My freshman year of college i saw my roommates do similar stuff to many guys. I dont think they realise what theyre doing is wrong and why, it blows my mind
loved the last advice you gave - I think that would apply to everyone that if they would take better care of themselves, they would succeed in dating
I really needed to hear this thank you
Living with your parents untill you are 25 isn't bad, the culture that children should move out by the time they are like 18 or what ever is damaging to the economy and housing market.
We need to build way too much housing, because people are moving out at younger age which causes higher rents for everyone. Also if you live longer with your parents, you have more time to work, and get yourself some savings, since you don't have to worry about living expenses. Living with your parents for a longer time is more beneficial than moving out as soon as you are 18.
And on top of this, taking care of your elderly parents instead of putting them in an old folks home isn't simping. It's a respectable way of giving back to the people who raised you.
That depends on your parents!! Joey should leave his parents home, others might be good staying in their parents homes for awhile and save money, but not him. If he made any money his mother would want to control that to. I don't know that I am just guessing based on the type. My mother did that to me. Constantly demand to have control over my finances and never had enough to move out on my own. If that is what someone's parents are doing to them THEY NEED TO LEAVE!?!
I lived at home until 25 and saved enough to put 20% down on my own home. I ended up paying off the mortgage at 32. I never could have done that if I'd left years earlier. Society's attitude is that I should have had my own place to bring hookups to instead of securing my future.
Yeah that's one thing I disagreed with him on.. I'm like eeeh.. As long as you are working and building yourself.. It's fine to live with your parents for a while longer..
Asian parents be like: "Excatly!" 👍
Western (white) parents be like: "GTFOH! You're an extra burden, time to fly on your own"
@Andrew Evans I ended up moving out when I was 18 😂 I just made an over night devision to move out and next week I got my own house. I've been living alone for three months and I like it ngl.
I know it all too well. Growing up with an overprotective mother and a father that often treated me poorly. We are the people that live life on hard mode. When we are 18 we are put into the world already emotionally and mentally damaged. We have to heal years of trauma and mistreatment.
Many of us would resort to being simps or sugar daddies. Its hard to become a real man when you were brought up like that. To serve your mother and do everything for her. But we can overcome this. We deserve our manhood. We deserve to have kids and treat them better than our parents did. Let's end the cycle of poor parenting.
I actually feel happy for these guys seeing them grow and stuff hope they'll be good
“Every girl wants him”
Joey: 📸🎥📸🎥📸🎥📸
Aaaahhh.... i remember the good ole’ days when boys had fathers that taught them how to be men.
Its sad times. Modern society is completely ruining families.
The single fathers raise their sons to be cold and their daughters to not be able to express themselves
The single mothers raise their daughters to be brats (or mentally abuse them) and their sons to be losers.
Neither gender was ever suppsoed to raise their children alone
@_jeff _ When you say it like it makes sense actually.
@MissSchnickfitzel What an eloquent way to put this out. Yes, I'm serious.
Joey is an absolute legend for moving out🏆💯
I don’t care if I go bankrupt this man deserves all of the drinks
I wonder if TBYS will cry if he decides to watch this video again.
Great video, especially the section about talking about every little thing. I have done that on dates and it has cost me. Same with job interviews
What a beautiful message at the end "when you start focusing on bettering your own standing, you will stop caring about which women like you and which don't"
But you're still doing it in the subconscious hope that you will impress a woman. Evolutionary psychology 101
that's the message of self love.
@@MushookieMan Probably not a fair assessment to claim it's fully such. Maybe in part, but other things have priority.
@@MushookieManit's not the main priority tho .
Saw this kind of behavior from my mom while I was in high-school. I knew I was a geeky kind of person, but didn't want to be trapped. Decided to enlist in the Army to get away and be more independent. Now I have a beautiful wife and own a house while living well financially. Not rich, but I'm happy and can play games outside of work still.
I had the weird mix of hot and cold from mine. ignored you for years, then suddenly the entire world revolved around what you were doing. disappeared to work, everyone else disappeared into their own worlds, island families that were all avoiding the storm of my mother because the only thing she did was criticize for doing things she never taught you.
Did you move Out at 18 ?
God bless you man.
It makes me genuinely grateful to have found your channel. I'm 27 and it's very VERY rare that someone younger than 40 feels how i do.. This channel is a blessing in disguise
How do you feel?
My little brother in his mid 20's was deeply miserable and not doing well, I told him it's because he only associates himself with women and weak blokes, if he's upset rather than having a laugh they re enforce it by taking every little upset super seriously until he now believes every minor upset is the end of the world, in the end I took him to dad's (he wasn't keen because we can seem too mean) to have a few days being just men, after he was genuinely much happier and enjoyed himself for the first time in years, he stopped searching out people he saw as unthreatening (really wierd pathetic bunch) and realised being a man isn't toxic and is mentally healthy, we taught him its fine being a beta, nobody cares as they still have a purpose in society so don't fear alphas or your own masculinity, went to his wedding recently, his friends are all that absolute unicorn of attractive, friendly, genuinely good and charisma that just attracts others, he's now happy, outgoing and doesn't fear his own or others masculinity.
My mother was the exact same way but I had an outside force take me out the house she couldn’t interfere with, the army. When I came back from the military for the first time (about a year away first time away from home) the amount of pride I saw in her eyes showed me it was something she needed to happen more than I did
U sure you not still in an Oedipus story
I stand and applaud you sir. Well done. "Don't we have this strange idea that's especially fostered on young men that the pathway to virtue is your weakness and harmlessness, and that's simply not true. That's the pathway to uselessness and resentment. You should be able to be a monster and then not be one.".- Jordan Peterson
appreciate the lesson in this one man!
Seeing how awkward Alex is makes me feel a little better about myself. I'm no Casanova but if I acted that cringe in public, I'd retreat and never show my face again.
I never thought about the damage that happen when a narcissistic mom put boys into a submissive position without a dad I'm glad I'm in the age of information
I'm one of the lucky ones who escaped, not without the help of the RP though. Absolutely sick.
You know I have a friend who asked me one night at the bar how I was able to talk to strangers and be socially accepted (being that I’m a pretty weird guy and he is by modern standards more attractive) I told him the best way is to engage with social situations and fail. Learn and you get better. As easy as that really.
What makes you think your friend is considered more attractive than you?
Yeah you’re right practise talking to people really does help with social skills. I still need to keep doing that to get better at that. :)
Great analysis.
I don’t know how people go to things like that I’m to socially inept and to insecure doing those things seeing people with such confidence motivates me and watching you’re videos also help
Start meditating, confront your fear, start developing yourself. You might be starting with a disadvantage but if you learn to grow, you can easily grow past 90%+ of people. Therapy and psychedelics work too.
I had a father figure in my life myself, but he was a more hands off sort of father, leaving my mother to handle raising me. He tried to teach me a lot of things, but he had very little patience with me, cussed me out a lot, and basically treated me like shit. I'm thankful to my mom, but I'm also sad about my dad not being there as much.
Let me guess, car mechanic?
@@Labyrinth6000 damn how did you know
We the i wish my father was in my life more i understand that he has his own wife and kids
@@Labyrinth6000 .my dad is a carpenter
Yeah mine was that way.. or always over talking me, and a moaner, cried how how wasnt good with women, basically spilled his whole life problems onto me and now i dont really talk to people cause i hate hearing others problems
Great analysis. Young western men are in deep deep trouble. 😢
I immediately thought of Jordan Peterson after watching that first clip of that Oedipal mom. So glad you put a clip of him in the video!
learned a lot from this video, thankyou
This is mainly why I dont make my room nice because you get attached and you dont want to leave your parents house
Man alex should be happy, friendship is magic afterall
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i feel hope in every video you do , i learn alot too
Man, I love those lectures.