I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but as a plus size, very big busted woman I feel I can help you. I wear a size 44I in Goddess bras. The bra I live in is the Yvette. It is technically a minimizer bra. I find it holds me wear I want to be without looking too wide in the bust area. I don't know what bra size you are but it looks to me that a good minimizer bra will help balance you out. Hope you see this as constructive and not being mean. I would never want to make anyone feel bad about their weight or body type. Just thought you might give it a try. Lord knows I have a difficult time finding bras that not only fit, but gives my bust the look I want.
No not at all. I always appreciate constructive comments. When it comes to bras though, as you know they are very hard to get in our sizes. I’m a 34J. I don’t know the one you talk about but I’m not a fan of minimiser bras. I don’t like the flattening effect they have. But I will check yours out next time I need to shop for bras x
You look great in the raspberry pantsuit. .i think you should keep it. If it needs hemming, that is an easy fix. I also liked the deep orange dress. It would not look good if it was tight. It flows over you nicely I don't understand why so many plus size women want to wear clingy clothes. It looks cheap and reveals any rolls of flab. I am plus size, plus have serious medical problems that cause edema. I am glad that most of my clothes are of the flow-over- the+figure type or I would not be able to wear them now.
Mary I will tell you something. When I started this game I never tucked a top, I never wore anything clingy. I never wore bright colours. I hid away in oversized dark baggy clothes. Because I was ashamed of my size. Now, I’m not saying anyone who likes dark, looser fit clothes are hiding, we should all wear what we like but back then I wondered how others could wear what I wear now and why every plus girl I saw wore tight clingy sexy clothes. Nearly 3 years on now I have discovered why! It’s confidence! Pure plain and simple. Confidence! It’s having learned that my body is amazing. That I am beautiful, that just because I’m plus does not make me worth any less nor any less sexy than someone who is smaller. Back then I didn’t have the confidence, now I do. And personally I think I keep it classy. But I am no longer ashamed of my size, my body and who I am. And yea, being plus can have medical problems, I know only too well myself, however, most of us who are plus, are so because we are dealing with some form of trauma and food became our way of dealing with it. What we need is support and understanding. I think it’s important that we remember that we all want/like/feel differently and what is right for me, may not be for “you” and that is absolutely ok. We can still be friends and like different things can’t we? As for the clothes, the suit was a little bit too small, that orange dress waaaaayyyy too big and the other pieces wasn’t perfect either. I only keep clothes if they wow me and would have kept the suit if the fit was better but sadly it wasn’t to be.
Hi Marleen, loved the colour of the dress and the pink Jacket as well. You actually did suit the polo neck in my humble opinion lol. Enjoy your weekend and hope your weather's not as bad as mine 🌧 roll on spring xx
Hi Marleen, HAPPY ST. PATRICK’S DAY……loved the color of the pant suit but the sizing was abit off.I absolutely love the outfit you were wearing. The blouse is perfect for you. Best to you always.
You need to try the staples from Wanda bra, it has like a hand in the plastic bones, it really does work, I’m big on top and tried most affordable brands, but this one is worth my money x
I’m not really sure what that means? Are we talking underwear? Bra’s? What is it I need to try please? Is it for a haul to share you mean? Let me know and if you can add a link that would be great and I can have a look x
I really loved your original outfit of white trousers and grey spotted blouse, you really know what suits you, gorgeous look. I have always been so nervous of wearing white but have just bought my first pair of white jeans and I feel really daring😂 . Hope you try the plisse dress in a smaller size as it looked so good on you ❤😊
Hi Marleen, I really love the outfit you had on with the white trousers and grey shirt, could you please let me know where you bought them from. Thank you.
U looking so pretty❤❤❤❤ with black outfit
Thank you
Hey Marleen, here watching xx
Hi Penny 👋👋❤️
I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but as a plus size, very big busted woman I feel I can help you. I wear a size 44I in Goddess bras. The bra I live in is the Yvette. It is technically a minimizer bra. I find it holds me wear I want to be without looking too wide in the bust area. I don't know what bra size you are but it looks to me that a good minimizer bra will help balance you out. Hope you see this as constructive and not being mean. I would never want to make anyone feel bad about their weight or body type. Just thought you might give it a try. Lord knows I have a difficult time finding bras that not only fit, but gives my bust the look I want.
No not at all. I always appreciate constructive comments. When it comes to bras though, as you know they are very hard to get in our sizes. I’m a 34J. I don’t know the one you talk about but I’m not a fan of minimiser bras. I don’t like the flattening effect they have. But I will check yours out next time I need to shop for bras x
Oh no 🙉 the orange dress and pink suit were great pieces. Too bad they didn’t fit well.
That sadly how it goes sometime lol x
You look great in the raspberry pantsuit. .i think you should keep it. If it needs hemming, that is an easy fix. I also liked the deep orange dress. It would not look good if it was tight. It flows over you nicely
I don't understand why so many plus size women want to wear clingy clothes.
It looks cheap and reveals any rolls of flab.
I am plus size, plus have serious medical problems that cause edema. I am glad that most of my clothes are of the flow-over- the+figure type or I would not be able to wear them now.
Mary I will tell you something. When I started this game I never tucked a top, I never wore anything clingy. I never wore bright colours.
I hid away in oversized dark baggy clothes.
Because I was ashamed of my size.
Now, I’m not saying anyone who likes dark, looser fit clothes are hiding, we should all wear what we like but back then I wondered how others could wear what I wear now and why every plus girl I saw wore tight clingy sexy clothes.
Nearly 3 years on now I have discovered why! It’s confidence! Pure plain and simple.
Confidence! It’s having learned that my body is amazing. That I am beautiful, that just because I’m plus does not make me worth any less nor any less sexy than someone who is smaller.
Back then I didn’t have the confidence, now I do. And personally I think I keep it classy. But I am no longer ashamed of my size, my body and who I am.
And yea, being plus can have medical problems, I know only too well myself, however, most of us who are plus, are so because we are dealing with some form of trauma and food became our way of dealing with it. What we need is support and understanding.
I think it’s important that we remember that we all want/like/feel differently and what is right for me, may not be for “you” and that is absolutely ok.
We can still be friends and like different things can’t we?
As for the clothes, the suit was a little bit too small, that orange dress waaaaayyyy too big and the other pieces wasn’t perfect either. I only keep clothes if they wow me and would have kept the suit if the fit was better but sadly it wasn’t to be.
LOVE the pink trouser suit on you xx
Me too, so sad it’s a little too small x
Great video and yes the dark pink suit looks awesome with the white underneath!! Well done and thank you 👍🥳
My pleasure and thank you x
What a shame about the cerise trousers the outfit looked gorgeous on you. There sizings seem to be all over the place though xxx
Yes boohoo sizing is always all over the place lol but yes the suit is fab isn’t it xx
Nice haul. The beige turtle neck might be better with a thicker gold necklace and a blazer.
It might have Mary but it’s being returned lol x
I wish I needed a pink suit! Looks beautiful on you 💖
One always needs a pink suit lol. It is fab isn’t it lol x
Hi Marleen, loved the colour of the dress and the pink Jacket as well. You actually did suit the polo neck in my humble opinion lol. Enjoy your weekend and hope your weather's not as bad as mine 🌧 roll on spring xx
Ah thank you hun. And no weather is ok here. A bit wet but degrees have gone up again thank god. Hope it will stay that way now lol
That suit was beautiful such a fab colour. Hope you have a great weekend. X
Thank you Carol and you too x
Hi Marleen, HAPPY ST. PATRICK’S DAY……loved the color of the pant suit but the sizing was abit off.I absolutely love the outfit you were wearing. The blouse is perfect for you. Best to you always.
Thank you so much hun and happy st Patrick’s day 💚
You need to try the staples from Wanda bra, it has like a hand in the plastic bones, it really does work, I’m big on top and tried most affordable brands, but this one is worth my money x
I’m not really sure what that means? Are we talking underwear? Bra’s? What is it I need to try please? Is it for a haul to share you mean? Let me know and if you can add a link that would be great and I can have a look x
Which ever but was meant for you to try so you can wear the strapless dresses, wonder bra is the brand, I’ll try and find a link for you x
Ahh got ya now. Sorry was totally lost there lol x
@@ImjustmeMarleen I’m not the best at explaining things some times, xx
I really loved your original outfit of white trousers and grey spotted blouse, you really know what suits you, gorgeous look. I have always been so nervous of wearing white but have just bought my first pair of white jeans and I feel really daring😂 . Hope you try the plisse dress in a smaller size as it looked so good on you ❤😊
Aw yeah go you Julia, well done you. Keep me posted on them. Xx
Hi Marleen, I really love the outfit you had on with the white trousers and grey shirt, could you please let me know where you bought them from. Thank you.
@Marie trousers are from NewLook and the blouse is from shein. Not sure if any still available though x
Hello Marleen,the bright pink trouser suit is beautiful,don't think I would have the nerve to wear it tho,,by the way Happy St Patrick's Day ☘️
Oh I love my bright colours lol. Thank you and the same to you 💚
@@ImjustmeMarleen your a joy to watch,you just say it as it is,
The only way I know how lol x
Too bad about the raspberry pantsuit. I like the idea of the orange dress but it looks a little too much like a "church dress"
Hmm yes maybe.. I think it might work if smaller but it’s ok, always fun to try. Xx
I'm just blazered out, sorry. Too many.
Fair enough (not that I feel one can ever have too many lol) what would you like to see instead??
🙂