Bozo, a sigma is only an introvert... Its not a new type of male... Males are either an alpha or a beta... We all know what those mean... And if ur introverted u are still either an alpha or a beta... The alpha isnt the pack leader, its the one with a self-betterment mindset. The one the pack respects the most. But an alpha can also be a loner, no need for other's respect... That doesnt mean hes a "sigma" hes still an alpha, but introverted. Stop making excuses and creating third options for the betas who dont wanna be called betas.
Kind of, There’s one way to Bypass this. When you stand up for yourself, If you have people with you & Since Might is Right you won’t be Hated that much. Not that It Matters.
You want to piss people off beyond measure, look them in the eye with total certainty and tell them you don't care, you aren't interested, you don't need them, you can't be bothered. It's UNNERVING to them and unravels them, even frightens them. My siblings have all, at some point in their lives, admitted to me that they grew up afraid of me, despite the fact that I was the one sibling who did not physically attack anyone. I have been called rude, a loner, selfish, not a team player, you name it. Sure, why not.
I'd suggest that they are not the most "hated", but rather the most "envied" . People get right sour when they can't get under someone's skin, and get annoyed by people who live their own lives without giving a flying toot about what society has to say about it. Jealousy is different than hate, I do believe.
People hate what they cant have. Independence, self reliance, critical thinking, inner confidence, most importantly,the idgaf attitude is badass, and they know they cant ever do it. They are sheep.
they are neither "hated" nor "envied" but "annoying" lmao. Sigma trend is just 14 years old who think they're some kind of protagonist in this world. Sticking up for yourself is fine but it becomes cringe the moment you make defending yourself seems like you're some kind of secret agent that everyone is out to get you and that you're some kind of powerful hermit in cartoon that stay quiet but is powerful when being confront. It's all just power fantasy a loser make up to feel good about themselves.
lol the man who made this video is quite clever. He's appealing to all the losers out there living in their mom's basement who are socially awkward and saying "yeah, you're actually a winner because youre a SIGMA male" LOL
- small talk is a necessity, so we adapt..we can get more information by dumbing down and poking people...blend into society..not to stand out.. - about the truth - is true... can't run from that...for us and the rest of the world... - cold we are...but there is time to be warm, caring, loving...
@@Islandwaterjet wrong. I'm uncompromising in honesty but I find brutal honesty to be honesty at someone elses expense. I usually think good things about who I'm speaking to but unafraid to speak out when it's needed.
Damn, all of what you described above is exactly me.... 1) I don't seek validation but just do what I want in my own pace and my own time. 2) I hate people forcing me to get married because I don't like getting married, I value freedom more and I'm VERY happy with being alone. (contrary to the multitude of people who seeks to have relationships and are scared to be alone.). For me marriage is a prison. It will deprive you of your freedom to explore the world. 3) I often like to seat in the farthest part of the auditorium so I can study in peace and I observe the reactions of the people, while they applaud the speaker or (pastor?). 4) I question everything that seems to be manipulative, like someone forcing an opinion in a discussion and someone very needy for validation, I laugh at those people at the back of my mind. 5) I am silent in group discusions even though I already know the answer, I only give it when it's being asked, but I just let them spew their opinions while reserving the answer to myself. Will only share it when needed. 6) I have very few friends but thats okay, they are the ones who I know truly supports me. And In case they turn their backs on me, I don't care either. The best friend you can have and the only one you can Trust, rely onand will not betray you is yourself. 7) I am very compasionate and I'm willing to help those people who are in need and politely asking me for it. But I maintain boundaries, I don't give them too much knowing that "familiarity breeds contempt." 8) I don't give a f@ck if people get turned off but I always strive to live in peace with everyone and I always respect everyone as long as they don't force their beliefs and opinions on me. 9) I always study and plan my every actions and it every move should contribute to my goals. 10) I absolutely love my pet dogs because they are loyal, kind and genuine, for me they are better than courting highly delusional and demanding b!tches who manipulates you for your time and money. Sounds Anti-social or shocking isn't it. NOPE, it's not. It's just people fear those who don't conform to the passed on social structures and narratives focing us to conform to things We are not and how males should act. More power to US Sigmas. Cheers and SUBSCRIBED.
Dude whoever you are ,you are not a sigma definitely, you wrote such a elaborate comment, which i didnt read, i read i dont seek validation, you do , look at your brief comment.
@@stanleeloy007 Iol, seeking validation?, I don't need that nor do I care with what you or others may say. Just pointing out to the uploader the term which I really resonate and relate with. Sharing is not seeking validation.
@@steelbender8566 you definitely seeking validation lmao. If you don't then you wouldn't even make that long ass comments about how everything in the video is exactly the same as how you act and that you are considered as one of the sigma lol. Just admit it, you just want to boast that you're happy to have traits similar to what was explained in this video and think you're now sigma
Sigmas are just alphas who got wise and embraced their empathy and developed self awareness and just doesnt care what anyone else thinks I got sober over two years ago, lost every friend, family - everyone I intimidate them because i have done things they simply cant And i dont do small talk either
To use a line I heard at my brother's church last August, "Most people prefer a comfortable lie to an inconvenient truth." We Sigma men ain't in that crowd. We want the real truth. Someone doesn't like that? Whatever. I can be 97% sure someone doesn't like me but 100% sure I just don't care.
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, I am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, I love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
I feel your pain brother.. it'll probably take a long time to get over but the sooner you find the energy to start working on yourself the better you'll feel. Cold showers and David Goggins for motivation to stay hard.. you'll get there buddy!
It's funny to hear people talking about these things. I remember when people started talking about Alpha males and Beta males. I was an outcast and a loner, and none of those descriptions applied to me. I'm not really a Sigma male either, but the descriptions are a little closer. Back in the day when people were talking about Alphas and Betas, I would just say I was a rogue male. I did always tell harsh truths, not to offend, and not unless someone asked for my opinion, because I didn't want to cause any bad social vibes. I was an outgoing child. When my single mother moved into the neighborhood I grew up in, I went around the blocks and knocked on every door to say hello, to introduce myself as a new kid in the neighborhood, and to ask if there were children in the house that I could play with. People looked at me as if I were a space alien that just stepped off of a UFO. "Where is your mother?" I was four years old. I was invited in by some old people for milk and cookies, and I would stay and talk to them for awhile. They all said I was exactly like Dennis the Menace. I played football with the teenage kids down the block. They thought it was funny that I wanted to play and they let me be quarterback. My blockers did a lousy job, and the captain of the other team, their leader, caught me and held me in the air by my ankles. I was laughing the whole time and still clutching the football, even when he dropped me on my head. I just tucked and rolled back to my feet. He asked me if I wanted to go again. I said yes, and I turned on my teammates and chewed them out for doing a lousy job of blocking. I said: "You have to hit them!" The leader cried out loud: "I love this kid!" I was popular everywhere and welcomed everywhere. They tried to cancel the series Dennis the Menace because they were afraid of the influence he would have on American children. The parents in my neighborhood had a meeting and agreed to forbid their children to play with me, though I had done nothing wrong. I was soon in hell, as my friends all abandoned me. Some parents forced their kids to pick fights with me, even when they were very much afraid and against the whole idea. It was all fighting for years after that. I became such a curse that even people who might have wanted to be my friend were too afraid of the violence around me. When I was ambushed by a dozen or so guys, anyone with me might also be hurt. I tried to go on for awhile with trying to get other kids organized to clean up trash along the streets in town, but it was a total failure because no one wanted to be associated with me. I believe I might have become what you call an Alpha male if people would have accepted my leadership, but I seemed to have the opposite effect. If I took up a cause, people hated the cause. If I joined a group, people wanted to leave the group. I could get into conflicts with Alpha males, but I would end up destroying and humiliating them rather than convincing them, and the group would hate me. Often, I couldn't convince the group not to do something stupid or not to do something wrong anyway. When I did get my way, everyone was miserable about it. I was always the least popular guy around. My outcast curse seemed to follow me even after I left the neighborhood I grew up in. I guess I had the habit of living and thinking like a loner and an outcast. Random strangers still sought to pick fights with me, and women still refused to talk to me. I don't know if it is a personality type so much as a response to the environment. They did an experiment with Boy Scouts that showed that boys were flexible about how they responded to their social situation. They found that boys socialize by adopting one of four main social strategies. One boy will adopt the king, or leader, archetype, one boy would adopt the warrior or worker archetype, one would adopt the wizard or scientist or intellectual archetype, and one would adopt the comedian, fool, or jester archetype. The odd thing was that most boys were flexible. When they mixed the boys up again, putting all the leader archetypes in their own group, all the class clowns in another, etc., the boys would change up their strategies, so that each type was represented in each group. For instance, a former leader might become the jester, the intellect, or the warrior in his next group. I suppose only the strongest types remained the same in group after group. I sort of understood these things since I was a child, before I ever heard of the study. I observed that people changed their behavior when different people were around. I consciously tried to maintain the same behavior around everyone, but I found it useful to use the strategies of the four archetypes on different occasions. If clowning wasn't working to diffuse a violent situation, I would resort to giving orders, and if that failed, I would resort to violence. I could switch mode from clown to king or warrior in the blink of an eye, and it would terrify people who witnessed it. I had to resort to all the stratagies myself because I didn't have even one wingman. I didn't have three other guys to play the other roles for me. Although I was always a simple man and I always said exactly what I wanted, people didn't believe me, and they always seemed to think I was up to some sort of mischief. If I liked a girl, I would ask her to go for a walk with me. They almost always refused. I thought it was strange, because I wasn't asking for more than a walk, and walking is one of the things I enjoy best of all - a beautiful experience that I always longed to share. Sometimes, when I liked a woman, I would tell her that I would like to see her in a dress, but I knew when I never saw her in a dress, she wasn't into me. Oddly, a woman who failed to do something I had suggested didn't realize that I had already rejected her for showing so little consideration for what I wanted, and she would go around gossiping with other women that I must be a homosexual because I showed no sexual interest. I simply didn't accept sex before marriage, and I couldn't help but think that people who did that were more animal than human. I sometimes told a woman that she needed to stop having sex, but they didn't take me seriously either. I wouldn't get involved with women like that, and I didn't respect men who slept with women they weren't married to. I thought they were pathetic, and too damned weak for men. Men and women who did that stuff were a disgrace to humanity and they had best keep their crimes against humanity secret. They all needed to stay in the closet. So, yeah, I was often so quiet it unnerved people, and sometimes they began to insist on hearing my opinion, but even when I warned them they wouldn't like it, they insisted, so I would rain on their parade. I knew I would never be popular, so I didn't even try. But it was all strategies forced upon me by circumstances. I would have happily had a humble version of the American Dream. I didn't want to rule the world or be famous, or do any magnificent thing like cure cancer, etc. I just wanted a nice little house, a loving wife, and some happy children, and steady work that could afford it. What is the American Dream? Sigma, Alpha, Beta, etc.? Anybody could have that. No one has to be a superman for such a simple life. If the system weren't so corrupt and evil.
Dayum. That's one heck of a story. You know, one thought I have, that might be of value: "Am I a sigma? Or something else? What if I am a sigma? Is that good?" And then it hit me: The point is not to be the hottest thing at the time, lets say, a sigma right now, but to arrive at a conclusion, that is useful to you at the moment. If I am a sigma, then thats not something to brag about. Thats something to take into account as you make decisions, to do better. When I watch sigma male videos, its not to boost my ego. Its to maybe learn something, or at least learn someone else's opinions.
You are something, based on this huge page you wrote. Is that a sign of autism or something. dunno. But it is something, i rarely see it. Not sigma, they are short effecient to the point.
I feel like I have always been a sigma. Sometimes I would doubt myself or ask myself if there's something wrong with me. That's because sigmas are so rare and always misunderstood. I can count on my fingers the number of other men I have met personally who were also like this.
Only two things are important: 1. We loved Love on it better.. ( better than we used to.. and better than our mutual enemies !!) 2. We kept Love number one and followed the Golden Rule.. ( but with prudence.. and more importantly.. faith !! ) !! ...
CHAPTER 05: Solo Pathfinder is partially correct. We learn to listen and apply what we heard without needing anyone else to help us determine if we should or not. Everyone else, wants others to be doing the same before they are comfortable to make a move
At the last annual job evaluation I underwent, I was told I had a "take it or leave it" attitude. I started to argue, but then I realized, I actually DO have a "take it or leave it" attitude. Why would I have any other attitude at work? I'm not rude, it's just we're there to do a job, let's get on with it or go home.
Don't try to be normal when you're different. But I want to warn people. Also don't try to be different when you're normal. Sigma is a personality and not a goal. In both examples you will destroy yourself.
I tried normal for a time. It put me in to such a state that I came close to self ending. Then I sead to myself ef it all. I now know I can talk to eny one regardless of their social standing equally. It's almost a super power. Be yourself always.
So much of this is a close match to who I really am. But I've ignored and suppressed it for years. Leading to my wife disrespecting me for too long among other things. Not anymore though, I'm stepping out. From now on I'll be true to myself and shoot for the stars. What better payback could there be?
I am a 52 turkish man and i had an awakening as i watched this...In my teens, 20-30s i felt i was different and somehow this lone wolve and EXACTLY this made people furious. I lost myself from 30 to 40 bc i couldnt handle all this inner and outter energy. In the 40s i started earning money bc of my personality BUT I dint knew that this came through my sigma energy. I still struggled with myself and the outter world bc beeing a lonely wolf makes you feel lonely. As i saw this clip i suddenly saw and understand who i am really are and that it is good to be who i am! Listen world: I AM SIGMA! You all knew it and hated me and your hate distraced me bc i didnt knew why you hated me. NOW I KNOW WHO I AM AND KNOW WHY YOU FEAR ! A 52 year man find himself so late after finding this YT clip. You young men and sigmas! You are good how you are! Feel the power and be free! THANK YOU for empowering me @LostTeachings!
Makes a lot of sense, i had a old Boss that despised me, mainly because i didnt care about trends and i didnt agree what he said the majority of the time
Very nice explained about me because being Sigma male life is very hard because people will hate you if you are lone philosopher because you are introvert and want to alone always learning from your thoughts and observations.
I am 100 percent a sigma male. This sounds like me to the T! I've always been a black sheep. This made me a easy target. However! They never succeeded in breaking me. I never stopped being weird. I never tried to be normal. They didn't make me want to change. I just rebeled even more!
I’m either overly loved or overly hated, I’m mostly loved by people because of these traits. I think person I don’t interact with drama for the most part
You’re not kidding. A lot of people don’t like me but I just don’t care. Do they pay my bills? Do I live with them? Are they accountable for me? Nope. I just don’t like them right back and keep to myself. I’m good 😁
Sigmas are the quiet heroes in action movies. Alphas either the villains or the incompetent bureaucrats. Both are threatened by the quiet sigmas with integrity.
It's funny year's ago I was at a weekend do at a friend of a friends mother's they were all playing charades ...I've never played any of these games I was sat in the same room but reading a great book people kept asking me to join in the mother kept pestering to join in ...I had to say it's ok I'm here in the room with you but I'm reading this book...people especially the mother got very angry ...some adults are so childlike...I wasent being rude or arrogant I've never played those games in just not interested I wish I could be..it would sometimes make things much easier...I was never invited back again lol
*Unfiltered honesty* Yeah... you can't be honest nowadays with people get so offended like a child losing his or her favorite toy and demand a new one. And those individuals are known as the Kevins and Karens. But if you're willing to man up (no matter if you're a woman...) and take a constructive criticism head on and hopefully you manage to come back from that blow... then and only then... will you find your own path. Though I hardly doubt that since everyone's are indeed a zombie... "Zombified" by Falling in Reverse literally tells how society truly is.
The FIRST thing they teach you in human behaviour is TRUST NO ONE. that makes the sigma hated, because he knows better to not trust anyone, therefore, he is standing on the side lines of society, knowing well, how 99% of human kind aint shit. The sigma is not a fool. He knows why he keeps away from the masses, and prefer to be a lone wolf.
I didn't know nothing 43 year ago when i was a teenager and even i was 14 eventhing start questioning everything, this year i'm 61 and man my knowledge as grown expediently. been bully didn't border me, it just making me stand up for myself as i start thinking for myself. i remember before the age of 10 some guy call me weird or freak, i've turn around and said ''thank 🤣'', And it not because we don't care, it because we had enough with bullshit that make no sense and we learn not to let be step on us anymore. Something happen to me in my teen year i felt outter time that i couldn't explain, and the more i dig in within 20 year more answer i found about everything in the universe, but i didn't stop there. i want to know who i really am. Yes i'm a sigma male. I'm INFJ
Not that i would call myself a sigma but i have these traits that are stated BUT these are learned traits, I use to look for help but too many people failed me so i dont look for help Been lied to enough to not follow the "mainstream" Was taught showing emotion was a weakness so i only trust a select few with my doubts and fears
Most people or some live a stressful life full of emotional anxiety . While the sigma male Lives a laid back disciplined and relaxed lifestyle . That he has everything under control This why many hate the sigma male. Due to the fact lack of Courage to make changes In their lifestyle.
People often get upset when I see them struggling with something and I don't jump in to help, but it's not out of laziness, it's out of respect. I usually have a very specific way I want something done, so if I don't explicitly ask someone for help, that means I don't want it. Of course they're just being courteous, but there's nothing that aggravates me more than someone jumping in just to mess up what I'm doing, so I try to give other people the same courtesy. If you ask me for help I'll be more than happy to do so, but if you don't, I'll let you sit there and struggle with it all day long. Lol
I don't know why people are seeing me like I stand in their way or more likely a threat no matter what... Until i watch this video now I understand that I didn't realise I am a sigma male after all this time..
Wow! Now I know why people don’t seek out my company. It’s kind of liberating actually. It’s just that small talk, sheep, fake people, and PC garbage are like my kryptonite 😱
The fact that we just don't care if people like us confuses everyone! I have never understood why most people want to fit in with the group! I have always questioned why people care and they usually respond with they want to be liked so they don't get shunned by society! I laugh and ask why they care if society shuns them? They usually answer it increases their chances of having sex! When I was young I thought that might be true but I have to be true to myself. Now that I am old I know that women are not attracted to a man that is trying to please everyone. Women are attracted to men who are confident and know what they want, not letting anything dissuade them from achieving their goals. If you are focused on getting what you want women will be attracted to that confidence! If you don't know what to do just do what you want and accept the consequences. Later you can research and be better prepared for the next time. If you are always seeking to improve your knowledge you will improve your confidence and decision making ability.
Because we don't care what all of you think! Everyone laughs when I say "I don't need/want any new friends". Thing is I'm being honest. Friends take time, energy and consideration - away from the people (the few) that I do cherish.
Yo I feel you. This is so sigma, so alpha, so andrew tate, so sneako, so fall of the broken sigma, so rise of the broken sigma, so revenge of the broken sigma, they just don’t understand (for the love of god go outside and make some friends)
How funny to see how everyone's considering themselves sigma males or philosophers after seeing in a video traits we, in fact, probably only fantasize for most of us.
Such a trap to find yourself in - since you cannot go the way the crowd is going you must - must - go a different way... thus demonstrating one's 'agency' by being compelled by axiom to go another way. Love that sociopathic fictional characters are their role models... says all anyone needs to know
If you think Travis Bickle from Taxi Driver, Patrick Bateman from American Psycho, Arthur Fleck from Joker, Rorschach from Watchmen, and Walter White from Breaking Bad - who are all criminals and murderers - are characters to be admired or model yourself after, you might want to check in with a therapist.
Sigma males are exceedingly rare .. yet there's endless streams of them self-declaring themselves as Sigma all over YT = What's wrong with this picture. ffs 🙄
Anyone watching this video and wondering if they're a Sigma male? Well if you wore a face mask during Covid in shops, on public transport etc, then you definitely aren't.
Sigma girls are very similar to sigma guys. I would say their traits are identical. I'm a sigma guy myself, and I knew a sigma girl in school. I respected and liked her a lot. Pity we lost touch after graduation.
Didnt watch the video yet, but I would speculate that the social media made sigma males a popular topic while true natural sigma males were enjoying the shadows in peace
That is just your opinion do you see all my fans on my website when you have haters you must be doing something right and when I enter the scene we all shine our own unique light
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Bozo, a sigma is only an introvert... Its not a new type of male... Males are either an alpha or a beta... We all know what those mean... And if ur introverted u are still either an alpha or a beta... The alpha isnt the pack leader, its the one with a self-betterment mindset. The one the pack respects the most. But an alpha can also be a loner, no need for other's respect... That doesnt mean hes a "sigma" hes still an alpha, but introverted. Stop making excuses and creating third options for the betas who dont wanna be called betas.
Or even follow the "flock" if a woolly back ...Who's not as smart think they are Bless them and the big boy me me me shout voice .
People don't like people who stand up for themselves. Sigmas are just people who stick up for themselves.
Exactamundo
People that have boundaries, respect them.
What people don't like is their own pettiness, and envy.
And other people in circumstances where it's proper and necessary.
Kind of, There’s one way to Bypass this.
When you stand up for yourself, If you have people with you & Since Might is Right you won’t be Hated that much.
Not that It Matters.
I like the use of people. Not male or female. Sigmas…are themselves.
You want to piss people off beyond measure, look them in the eye with total certainty and tell them you don't care, you aren't interested, you don't need them, you can't be bothered. It's UNNERVING to them and unravels them, even frightens them. My siblings have all, at some point in their lives, admitted to me that they grew up afraid of me, despite the fact that I was the one sibling who did not physically attack anyone. I have been called rude, a loner, selfish, not a team player, you name it. Sure, why not.
Your just a guy desperately seeking attention trying to be different. Lmao
Hmmm. I'm usually like that. People think I don't like them. I don't like when people are overly emotional.
Bc they couldn’t control you… so their looking for any kind of way to get to you
@@gscsurfExactly
Damn dude! Thanks! I was always the least violent one too but my family all act afraid of me.
You can put a sigma male on a desert island and he'll build a house and a boat. 🗿
Calmly, methodically, without a single tear shed. I have never, once, in my life, felt like I was lost.
@mikeg3439 bahahaha... okay buddy.
It’s not that the ‘sigma’ doesn’t care as you suggest. It is rather that the truth is more important.
I'd suggest that they are not the most "hated", but rather the most "envied" . People get right sour when they can't get under someone's skin, and get annoyed by people who live their own lives without giving a flying toot about what society has to say about it. Jealousy is different than hate, I do believe.
People hate what they cant have. Independence, self reliance, critical thinking, inner confidence, most importantly,the idgaf attitude is badass, and they know they cant ever do it. They are sheep.
they are neither "hated" nor "envied" but "annoying" lmao. Sigma trend is just 14 years old who think they're some kind of protagonist in this world. Sticking up for yourself is fine but it becomes cringe the moment you make defending yourself seems like you're some kind of secret agent that everyone is out to get you and that you're some kind of powerful hermit in cartoon that stay quiet but is powerful when being confront. It's all just power fantasy a loser make up to feel good about themselves.
@@shell6467 You have a point. Some people claim to be sigma but dont actually know what it means . Just self righteous and delusional
you just described my entire life in one video. i always wonder why i am this way.
It's startling, to put it mildly, how uncanny, could possibly be, the resemblance, of one sigma's life's Outlook and experience, with another.
LOL
lol the man who made this video is quite clever. He's appealing to all the losers out there living in their mom's basement who are socially awkward and saying "yeah, you're actually a winner because youre a SIGMA male" LOL
I went over 40 years until I learned I wasn't the only one.
o shame here is a medal for beeing fucked up lol
Fun fact: listening to the radio is also a form of small talk.
whats a radio ,, you mean that thing in the center of a dash board that makes noise ?? BLAH blah blah
Come to think of it, I actually don't mind small talk unless I have to reply.
Drive in silence with window cracked
- small talk is a necessity, so we adapt..we can get more information by dumbing down and poking people...blend into society..not to stand out..
- about the truth - is true... can't run from that...for us and the rest of the world...
- cold we are...but there is time to be warm, caring, loving...
I'm also liked and trusted by many because of these traits. My agenda just never is about someone liking me or hating me.
@@Islandwaterjet wrong. I'm uncompromising in honesty but I find brutal honesty to be honesty at someone elses expense. I usually think good things about who I'm speaking to but unafraid to speak out when it's needed.
When you’re hated as much as loved…you’re a fucking sigma 👊😎⭐️
well said dude:)
Damn, all of what you described above is exactly me....
1) I don't seek validation but just do what I want in my own pace and my own time.
2) I hate people forcing me to get married because I don't like getting married, I value freedom more and I'm VERY happy with being alone. (contrary to the multitude of people who seeks to have relationships and are scared to be alone.). For me marriage is a prison. It will deprive you of your freedom to explore the world.
3) I often like to seat in the farthest part of the auditorium so I can study in peace and I observe the reactions of the people, while they applaud the speaker or (pastor?).
4) I question everything that seems to be manipulative, like someone forcing an opinion in a discussion and someone very needy for validation, I laugh at those people at the back of my mind.
5) I am silent in group discusions even though I already know the answer, I only give it when it's being asked, but I just let them spew their opinions while reserving the answer to myself. Will only share it when needed.
6) I have very few friends but thats okay, they are the ones who I know truly supports me. And In case they turn their backs on me, I don't care either. The best friend you can have and the only one you can Trust, rely onand will not betray you is yourself.
7) I am very compasionate and I'm willing to help those people who are in need and politely asking me for it. But I maintain boundaries, I don't give them too much knowing that "familiarity breeds contempt."
8) I don't give a f@ck if people get turned off but I always strive to live in peace with everyone and I always respect everyone as long as they don't force their beliefs and opinions on me.
9) I always study and plan my every actions and it every move should contribute to my goals.
10) I absolutely love my pet dogs because they are loyal, kind and genuine, for me they are better than courting highly delusional and demanding b!tches who manipulates you for your time and money.
Sounds Anti-social or shocking isn't it. NOPE, it's not. It's just people fear those who don't conform to the passed on social structures and narratives focing us to conform to things We are not and how males should act. More power to US Sigmas. Cheers and SUBSCRIBED.
Dude whoever you are ,you are not a sigma definitely, you wrote such a elaborate comment, which i didnt read, i read i dont seek validation, you do , look at your brief comment.
@@stanleeloy007 Iol, seeking validation?, I don't need that nor do I care with what you or others may say. Just pointing out to the uploader the term which I really resonate and relate with. Sharing is not seeking validation.
@@steelbender8566 you definitely seeking validation lmao. If you don't then you wouldn't even make that long ass comments about how everything in the video is exactly the same as how you act and that you are considered as one of the sigma lol. Just admit it, you just want to boast that you're happy to have traits similar to what was explained in this video and think you're now sigma
Brad pit is not a sigma. I doubt anyones a sigma male in hollyweird, besides Keanu Reeves.
I think they are referring to brad Pitt character in Fight Club.
I agree with your statement about Keenu
Keanu my spirit guide...
Cillian Murphy too
Bruce Willis Mel Gibson
Sigmas are just alphas who got wise and embraced their empathy and developed self awareness and just doesnt care what anyone else thinks
I got sober over two years ago, lost every friend, family - everyone
I intimidate them because i have done things they simply cant
And i dont do small talk either
I can relate, big time. We are who we are..
To use a line I heard at my brother's church last August, "Most people prefer a comfortable lie to an inconvenient truth." We Sigma men ain't in that crowd. We want the real truth. Someone doesn't like that? Whatever. I can be 97% sure someone doesn't like me but 100% sure I just don't care.
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, I am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, I love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
@jaypritchett3414how did she helped you??
I feel your pain brother.. it'll probably take a long time to get over but the sooner you find the energy to start working on yourself the better you'll feel. Cold showers and David Goggins for motivation to stay hard.. you'll get there buddy!
Stay strong my brother, best of luck🤙
It's funny to hear people talking about these things.
I remember when people started talking about Alpha males and Beta males.
I was an outcast and a loner, and none of those descriptions applied to me.
I'm not really a Sigma male either, but the descriptions are a little closer.
Back in the day when people were talking about Alphas and Betas, I would just say I was a rogue male.
I did always tell harsh truths, not to offend, and not unless someone asked for my opinion, because I didn't want to cause any bad social vibes.
I was an outgoing child. When my single mother moved into the neighborhood I grew up in, I went around the blocks and knocked on every door to say hello, to introduce myself as a new kid in the neighborhood, and to ask if there were children in the house that I could play with.
People looked at me as if I were a space alien that just stepped off of a UFO. "Where is your mother?"
I was four years old.
I was invited in by some old people for milk and cookies, and I would stay and talk to them for awhile. They all said I was exactly like Dennis the Menace.
I played football with the teenage kids down the block. They thought it was funny that I wanted to play and they let me be quarterback. My blockers did a lousy job, and the captain of the other team, their leader, caught me and held me in the air by my ankles. I was laughing the whole time and still clutching the football, even when he dropped me on my head. I just tucked and rolled back to my feet. He asked me if I wanted to go again. I said yes, and I turned on my teammates and chewed them out for doing a lousy job of blocking. I said: "You have to hit them!"
The leader cried out loud: "I love this kid!"
I was popular everywhere and welcomed everywhere.
They tried to cancel the series Dennis the Menace because they were afraid of the influence he would have on American children. The parents in my neighborhood had a meeting and agreed to forbid their children to play with me, though I had done nothing wrong.
I was soon in hell, as my friends all abandoned me. Some parents forced their kids to pick fights with me, even when they were very much afraid and against the whole idea. It was all fighting for years after that.
I became such a curse that even people who might have wanted to be my friend were too afraid of the violence around me.
When I was ambushed by a dozen or so guys, anyone with me might also be hurt.
I tried to go on for awhile with trying to get other kids organized to clean up trash along the streets in town, but it was a total failure because no one wanted to be associated with me.
I believe I might have become what you call an Alpha male if people would have accepted my leadership, but I seemed to have the opposite effect. If I took up a cause, people hated the cause. If I joined a group, people wanted to leave the group. I could get into conflicts with Alpha males, but I would end up destroying and humiliating them rather than convincing them, and the group would hate me. Often, I couldn't convince the group not to do something stupid or not to do something wrong anyway. When I did get my way, everyone was miserable about it. I was always the least popular guy around.
My outcast curse seemed to follow me even after I left the neighborhood I grew up in. I guess I had the habit of living and thinking like a loner and an outcast. Random strangers still sought to pick fights with me, and women still refused to talk to me.
I don't know if it is a personality type so much as a response to the environment.
They did an experiment with Boy Scouts that showed that boys were flexible about how they responded to their social situation.
They found that boys socialize by adopting one of four main social strategies. One boy will adopt the king, or leader, archetype, one boy would adopt the warrior or worker archetype, one would adopt the wizard or scientist or intellectual archetype, and one would adopt the comedian, fool, or jester archetype. The odd thing was that most boys were flexible. When they mixed the boys up again, putting all the leader archetypes in their own group, all the class clowns in another, etc., the boys would change up their strategies, so that each type was represented in each group. For instance, a former leader might become the jester, the intellect, or the warrior in his next group. I suppose only the strongest types remained the same in group after group.
I sort of understood these things since I was a child, before I ever heard of the study. I observed that people changed their behavior when different people were around. I consciously tried to maintain the same behavior around everyone, but I found it useful to use the strategies of the four archetypes on different occasions. If clowning wasn't working to diffuse a violent situation, I would resort to giving orders, and if that failed, I would resort to violence. I could switch mode from clown to king or warrior in the blink of an eye, and it would terrify people who witnessed it. I had to resort to all the stratagies myself because I didn't have even one wingman. I didn't have three other guys to play the other roles for me.
Although I was always a simple man and I always said exactly what I wanted, people didn't believe me, and they always seemed to think I was up to some sort of mischief.
If I liked a girl, I would ask her to go for a walk with me. They almost always refused. I thought it was strange, because I wasn't asking for more than a walk, and walking is one of the things I enjoy best of all - a beautiful experience that I always longed to share. Sometimes, when I liked a woman, I would tell her that I would like to see her in a dress, but I knew when I never saw her in a dress, she wasn't into me. Oddly, a woman who failed to do something I had suggested didn't realize that I had already rejected her for showing so little consideration for what I wanted, and she would go around gossiping with other women that I must be a homosexual because I showed no sexual interest. I simply didn't accept sex before marriage, and I couldn't help but think that people who did that were more animal than human.
I sometimes told a woman that she needed to stop having sex, but they didn't take me seriously either.
I wouldn't get involved with women like that, and I didn't respect men who slept with women they weren't married to. I thought they were pathetic, and too damned weak for men.
Men and women who did that stuff were a disgrace to humanity and they had best keep their crimes against humanity secret.
They all needed to stay in the closet.
So, yeah, I was often so quiet it unnerved people, and sometimes they began to insist on hearing my opinion, but even when I warned them they wouldn't like it, they insisted, so I would rain on their parade.
I knew I would never be popular, so I didn't even try.
But it was all strategies forced upon me by circumstances.
I would have happily had a humble version of the American Dream. I didn't want to rule the world or be famous, or do any magnificent thing like cure cancer, etc. I just wanted a nice little house, a loving wife, and some happy children, and steady work that could afford it. What is the American Dream?
Sigma, Alpha, Beta, etc.?
Anybody could have that. No one has to be a superman for such a simple life.
If the system weren't so corrupt and evil.
Dayum. That's one heck of a story. You know, one thought I have, that might be of value:
"Am I a sigma? Or something else? What if I am a sigma? Is that good?"
And then it hit me: The point is not to be the hottest thing at the time, lets say, a sigma right now, but to arrive at a conclusion, that is useful to you at the moment. If I am a sigma, then thats not something to brag about. Thats something to take into account as you make decisions, to do better. When I watch sigma male videos, its not to boost my ego. Its to maybe learn something, or at least learn someone else's opinions.
You are something, based on this huge page you wrote. Is that a sign of autism or something. dunno. But it is something, i rarely see it. Not sigma, they are short effecient to the point.
Compared to the other sigma male channels, you dig deep with subtle details.. all true.
👏 Subscribed.
I feel like I have always been a sigma. Sometimes I would doubt myself or ask myself if there's something wrong with me. That's because sigmas are so rare and always misunderstood. I can count on my fingers the number of other men I have met personally who were also like this.
Never before I believed in Alpha, Sigma or Beta but now I must say I fit in this Sigma category way too much to ignore it. Thanks for the video!
this is it, the brutal honesty,,, thank u,,,
I like feed back from friends that are no BS. I hate when I miss the small stuff. I will not move forward until I have got my mind right.
Only two things are important:
1. We loved Love on it better.. ( better than we used to.. and better than our mutual enemies !!)
2. We kept Love number one and followed the Golden Rule.. ( but with prudence.. and more importantly.. faith !! ) !!
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I love your videos, your channel is among the true channels out there, raw truth
CHAPTER 05: Solo Pathfinder is partially correct. We learn to listen and apply what we heard without needing anyone else to help us determine if we should or not. Everyone else, wants others to be doing the same before they are comfortable to make a move
At the last annual job evaluation I underwent, I was told I had a "take it or leave it" attitude. I started to argue, but then I realized, I actually DO have a "take it or leave it" attitude.
Why would I have any other attitude at work? I'm not rude, it's just we're there to do a job, let's get on with it or go home.
sigma don’t walks alone, there's a shadow with them too
Don't try to be normal when you're different.
But I want to warn people.
Also don't try to be different when you're normal.
Sigma is a personality and not a goal. In both examples you will destroy yourself.
I tried normal for a time. It put me in to such a state that I came close to self ending. Then I sead to myself ef it all. I now know I can talk to eny one regardless of their social standing equally. It's almost a super power. Be yourself always.
So much of this is a close match to who I really am. But I've ignored and suppressed it for years. Leading to my wife disrespecting me for too long among other things. Not anymore though, I'm stepping out. From now on I'll be true to myself and shoot for the stars. What better payback could there be?
Wow ! You nailed it. 👍
I am a 52 turkish man and i had an awakening as i watched this...In my teens, 20-30s i felt i was different and somehow this lone wolve and EXACTLY this made people furious. I lost myself from 30 to 40 bc i couldnt handle all this inner and outter energy. In the 40s i started earning money bc of my personality BUT I dint knew that this came through my sigma energy. I still struggled with myself and the outter world bc beeing a lonely wolf makes you feel lonely. As i saw this clip i suddenly saw and understand who i am really are and that it is good to be who i am! Listen world: I AM SIGMA! You all knew it and hated me and your hate distraced me bc i didnt knew why you hated me. NOW I KNOW WHO I AM AND KNOW WHY YOU FEAR ! A 52 year man find himself so late after finding this YT clip. You young men and sigmas! You are good how you are! Feel the power and be free! THANK YOU for empowering me @LostTeachings!
People who dislike yours truly..?
Pity, not my problem..
Makes a lot of sense, i had a old Boss that despised me, mainly because i didnt care about trends and i didnt agree what he said the majority of the time
Very nice explained about me because being Sigma male life is very hard because people will hate you if you are lone philosopher because you are introvert and want to alone always learning from your thoughts and observations.
I am 100 percent a sigma male. This sounds like me to the T! I've always been a black sheep. This made me a easy target. However! They never succeeded in breaking me.
I never stopped being weird. I never tried to be normal.
They didn't make me want to change. I just rebeled even more!
I’m either overly loved or overly hated, I’m mostly loved by people because of these traits. I think person I don’t interact with drama for the most part
You’re not kidding. A lot of people don’t like me but I just don’t care. Do they pay my bills? Do I live with them? Are they accountable for me? Nope. I just don’t like them right back and keep to myself. I’m good 😁
WELL SAID !
Brilliant
Sigmas are the quiet heroes in action movies. Alphas either the villains or the incompetent bureaucrats. Both are threatened by the quiet sigmas with integrity.
Spot on
It's funny year's ago I was at a weekend do at a friend of a friends mother's they were all playing charades ...I've never played any of these games I was sat in the same room but reading a great book people kept asking me to join in the mother kept pestering to join in ...I had to say it's ok I'm here in the room with you but I'm reading this book...people especially the mother got very angry ...some adults are so childlike...I wasent being rude or arrogant I've never played those games in just not interested I wish I could be..it would sometimes make things much easier...I was never invited back again lol
Self-reliance by Waldo Emerson would be a great read
*Unfiltered honesty*
Yeah... you can't be honest nowadays with people get so offended like a child losing his or her favorite toy and demand a new one. And those individuals are known as the Kevins and Karens. But if you're willing to man up (no matter if you're a woman...) and take a constructive criticism head on and hopefully you manage to come back from that blow... then and only then... will you find your own path. Though I hardly doubt that since everyone's are indeed a zombie... "Zombified" by Falling in Reverse literally tells how society truly is.
The FIRST thing they teach you in human behaviour is TRUST NO ONE. that makes the sigma hated, because he knows better to not trust anyone, therefore, he is standing on the side lines of society, knowing well, how 99% of human kind aint shit. The sigma is not a fool. He knows why he keeps away from the masses, and prefer to be a lone wolf.
I didn't know nothing 43 year ago when i was a teenager and even i was 14 eventhing start questioning everything, this year i'm 61 and man my knowledge as grown expediently. been bully didn't border me, it just making me stand up for myself as i start thinking for myself. i remember before the age of 10 some guy call me weird or freak, i've turn around and said ''thank 🤣'',
And it not because we don't care, it because we had enough with bullshit that make no sense and we learn not to let be step on us anymore. Something happen to me in my teen year i felt outter time that i couldn't explain, and the more i dig in within 20 year more answer i found about everything in the universe, but i didn't stop there. i want to know who i really am.
Yes i'm a sigma male. I'm INFJ
its freedom!!!!!
Stop thinking "I hope people will like me".Instead, think like "I don't like you, so tell you what Idgaf about how you think anymore"
Don't do that lol
Of all the people you just showed in that clip, it would be interesting to know how many got the vax IRL
sigmas dont get the vax ..we saw that bullshit a mile away
Not that i would call myself a sigma but i have these traits that are stated BUT these are learned traits,
I use to look for help but too many people failed me so i dont look for help
Been lied to enough to not follow the "mainstream"
Was taught showing emotion was a weakness so i only trust a select few with my doubts and fears
Pure
Most people or some live a stressful life full of emotional anxiety . While the sigma male
Lives a laid back disciplined and relaxed lifestyle . That he
has everything under control
This why many hate the sigma
male. Due to the fact lack of
Courage to make changes
In their lifestyle.
COOL BROTHER ❤
All true.
People often get upset when I see them struggling with something and I don't jump in to help, but it's not out of laziness, it's out of respect.
I usually have a very specific way I want something done, so if I don't explicitly ask someone for help, that means I don't want it.
Of course they're just being courteous, but there's nothing that aggravates me more than someone jumping in just to mess up what I'm doing, so I try to give other people the same courtesy.
If you ask me for help I'll be more than happy to do so, but if you don't, I'll let you sit there and struggle with it all day long. Lol
The price of being a sigma is that no one will ever truly know me, because there is no one I will ever share 100% of myself with. Just the way it is.
Good vid, but music is a little too loud. Makes it hard to hear your voice.
I’d like to see examples of people hating on “sigma” males
I don't know that I'd want to be a sigma male if the examples are psychopaths from movies
Well spotted.
Your self respect has to be stronger than your feelings. How's yours?
I don't know why people are seeing me like I stand in their way or more likely a threat no matter what... Until i watch this video now I understand that I didn't realise I am a sigma male after all this time..
It's simple for some. Don't live a lie.
Sigma and proud
The idea people associate Patrick bates the psychopath as a sigma just shows the term isn’t understood
Wow! Now I know why people don’t seek out my company. It’s kind of liberating actually. It’s just that small talk, sheep, fake people, and PC garbage are like my kryptonite 😱
“Don’t try.”
The fact that we just don't care if people like us confuses everyone! I have never understood why most people want to fit in with the group! I have always questioned why people care and they usually respond with they want to be liked so they don't get shunned by society! I laugh and ask why they care if society shuns them? They usually answer it increases their chances of having sex! When I was young I thought that might be true but I have to be true to myself. Now that I am old I know that women are not attracted to a man that is trying to please everyone. Women are attracted to men who are confident and know what they want, not letting anything dissuade them from achieving their goals. If you are focused on getting what you want women will be attracted to that confidence! If you don't know what to do just do what you want and accept the consequences. Later you can research and be better prepared for the next time. If you are always seeking to improve your knowledge you will improve your confidence and decision making ability.
I'm used to pain, that's all I've ever known. I'll do what I think, people reaction feeds me.
It's grand when you slide Professor of Money Heist in but notice that Lionel Messi and Jason Statham were not part of your clip.
Because we don't care what all of you think! Everyone laughs when I say "I don't need/want any new friends". Thing is I'm being honest. Friends take time, energy and consideration - away from the people (the few) that I do cherish.
Yo I feel you. This is so sigma, so alpha, so andrew tate, so sneako, so fall of the broken sigma, so rise of the broken sigma, so revenge of the broken sigma, they just don’t understand (for the love of god go outside and make some friends)
literally me 💀
I am a sigma male thank you for letting me know how special I am
Sigmas are just Omegas, but with an attitude on a bad day. 😂
To KINGS 💂
👌🔥💯
Idk but i quite like everyone in the thumbnail.
How funny to see how everyone's considering themselves sigma males or philosophers after seeing in a video traits we, in fact, probably only fantasize for most of us.
Thanks,Why se rebelliens if do things in our way?
Such a trap to find yourself in - since you cannot go the way the crowd is going you must - must - go a different way... thus demonstrating one's 'agency' by being compelled by axiom to go another way. Love that sociopathic fictional characters are their role models... says all anyone needs to know
People pleaser are not good people neither they are liked.
If you think Travis Bickle from Taxi Driver, Patrick Bateman from American Psycho, Arthur Fleck from Joker, Rorschach from Watchmen, and Walter White from Breaking Bad - who are all criminals and murderers - are characters to be admired or model yourself after, you might want to check in with a therapist.
Very very few can handle truth
People are threatened by those who think differently, its as simple as that 😅
Never heard of such a thing as a sigma male till recent years. There was alpha when I was young. Where did this sigma shute come from?
My wife admires me so much as a Sigma male, she is now turning into a Sigma woman, it is a beautiful thing
Sigma males are exceedingly rare .. yet there's endless streams of them self-declaring themselves as Sigma all over YT = What's wrong with this picture. ffs 🙄
FACTS!
SALUTE!
Anyone watching this video and wondering if they're a Sigma male? Well if you wore a face mask during Covid in shops, on public transport etc, then you definitely aren't.
well said.... sad when your the only on at times ... but these past 3 years really showed you who is who...
They prefer to be ignored. I don’t blame them, because is what I prefer.
Amen!
How are these chatacteristics distinguishable from those of Sigma females?
Sigma girls are very similar to sigma guys. I would say their traits are identical.
I'm a sigma guy myself, and I knew a sigma girl in school. I respected and liked her a lot. Pity we lost touch after graduation.
Ågreed
Didnt watch the video yet, but I would speculate that the social media made sigma males a popular topic while true natural sigma males were enjoying the shadows in peace
Everyone wants to be sigma until they know it's bs
Where is Jeremiah Johnson ?
Psyop vibes here
That is just your opinion do you see all my fans on my website when you have haters you must be doing something right and when I enter the scene we all shine our own unique light