It sucks being lonely but there’s always hope you have to change your thinking I’m single for as long as I remember and having social anxiety doesn’t help but there’s always hope you’ll be better in no time
I find myself weeping because of my past at the same time weeping because he did save me from it. Then forever grateful while weeping because he saved me… Although my situation around me right now gives me sorrow along with my addiction to cigarette and lust at times. I want be strong in faith because it will happen when God will do. Until then I endure with him because I know I couldn’t do it alone you are not alone sister. I want to go home but Fathers will over mine grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you
By the start of the video, i admit, i wasnt quite understanding what is it that was bothering you. But when you said that you have so many things you want to do ,but feel like you'll fail and the pressure of comparingson...i felt that, really hard, its something that is so powerful at making you feel unworthy and inferior. But i say this, the few times i feel accomplished (not proud) and that sense of dread goes away is when i'm serving God. I hope it goes away soon, for you as well, and that all of your sorrows become seeds for joy tomorrow.
GOD IS ALWAYS WITH YOU SISTER. But I feel the same, all my friends are not willing to help me with this. I also just never ask anyone though. Im here too if you need anything. But have a blessed and fruitful rest of your journey with the LORD!! LOVE YOU!! 🫶🏾🫶🏾
2 Corinthiens 12:9 "et il m'a dit: Ma grâce te suffit, car ma puissance s'accomplit dans la faiblesse. Je me glorifierai donc bien plus volontiers de mes faiblesses, afin que la puissance de christ repose sur moi" Tu sais ma soeur parfois Dieu permet à ce que notre coeur soit brisé pour qu'il puisse se glorifier complètement a travers notre vie, garde la foi et continue de chercher Jésus, reste forte, quand tout ça sera fini tu te diras que ca valait le coup de souffrir autant pour la gloire de de Dieu
Jesus is revealing that you dont need no body else but Him and only him Go to Him Run to Him whenever you get Unwanted Thoughts Pray Pray 🙏🏽 God Bless 🙏🏽
This is just a coping mechanism, We all need someone, Even if we say or tell ourselves that we don't, The only type of people that probably truly don't get sad or grieve and are content without having anybody in their lives are Psychopaths and i say probably because there might have been Psychopaths who have wanted to be with someone in their life, We as human beings want to be loved and want to be with that special someone, It is just simply a part of our nature, I do not buy for a second when i hear people say "Oh it's okay life is just telling you that your fine on your own, You don't need anybody" "Oh God is telling you that your fine on your own you don't need anybody" "Oh Jesus is telling you that your fine on your own, You don't need anybody" When i see and hear people say these things, I just see and hear cope and lying to themselves to try and temporarily stop feeling the sad feelings that bring someone when their don't have someone in their lives, Everyone needs someone, We all want to be loved, It is just in our nature religion or no religion.
@@SamuraiOniReaver i Agree ☝️ with you a 1000% we all need someone we all need a Friend, we all need people in ourlives to make us feel: Wanted,Loved,&Understood, but in the end if your struggling with something beyond ur understanding not a lot of those people would want to help you with whatever it maybe your going through(I speak for myself) thats why i always say Run To Jesus when unwanted thoughts linger around you, i used to have allot “Friends” Now that i dont indulge in Drinking,Fornication, Adultery Etc i Dont have much of my Friends no more because of i wanted to better My Life, My Health ,& My spiritual Health, Moral of the story is that we need people to Comfort us, Love us we all need each other to get through these things God Bless🙏🏽. PS. I suffered with Depression and anxiety & Sexual Sins for 10 years Jesus Christ my Lord&Savior opend my eyes God bless 🙏🏽
@@SamuraiOniReaver i agree ☝️ 100% God is love & Love Is God, but whenever we want to put our Trust in the Lord, Jesus will Separate the Sheep from the Goats i use Go Trough Depression&Anxiety every 2 days or so Dark Dark place to be in , We need people to Help us with kind words and to Help us Feel loved God Bless 🙏🏽
Lila, I know Im just some dude from the internet, and Im probably not a right person for giving any advice, but your situation is strikingly similar to mine. I got the same feeling lately, like Im neither sad nor happy. Just floating in a void with nothing around but uncertainity. I never have doubted God's existence, I was raised catholic. But just like you I found it frustrating when you reach a point in life when you really need an answer or a sign from Him and nothing particular happens, and you start wondering wether is God testing me or is He playing with me. But remember - as cliche as it may sound God gives its greatest His strongest battles. Every struggle you experience happens for a reason. A reason you may not yet understand, but sooner or later it will all add up to a greater plan God has meant for you in this world. Sometimes I wish my thoughts were like others' - that everything will be fine, just be nice pray to God and you will go to heaven. But that approach never satisfied me "Thats too shallow and too simple c'mon world is not like that" I often thought. Cause it would be a lot easier to accept all that bothers us. But to have faith is to have hope. A hope that despite this ungodly world we live in where Satan triumphs, there's still a great amount of good out there that is worth the struggle. All thats left for us is to trust the process of reaching eternal peace through our Lord cause eventually, at the end of times all evil will perish and we, God's children will be free of whatever bothered us here on Earth. I will be praying for you Lila God Bless ❤
Thanks a lot for your words, I really appreciated it thanks again. I’ve been struggling with so many things but the worst is love.. I’m currently in love with someone who doesn’t love me back ( the way I do..) it’s really complicated I know God is way more worth it than human .. but why is it so hard to get… thanks again for ur words Be blessed ❤️
some thing i do relating to the flesh is no practice self control in the small things, maybe you pain tolerance when you washing the dishes and the waters to hot, maybe your sleeping and your nose itches and you wanna scratch it, maybe your tired and wanna nap but instead decide not to, i personally haven't gotten to the point yet but i know fasting would be great. I think about it like a runner when they are so beyond tired and exhausted that there about to collapse but the keep running with all their strength is them in the spirit not the flesh and how they got their was training maybe even in the small things first.
Hey Lila! I hope you're doing better. I'll be praying for you as I'm sure others who have seen this video will be. I feel like I relate to you. I've just been feeling very down lately. I was frustrated because Joy is a fruit of the Spirit, and it seems like I'm just backsliding and struggling to trust God and to give my all to Him. I feel like this comes from a place of resistance to Him. He is and should be the number 1 in our lives. This is because our Maker is our Husband. So we need to let go of things that we idolize. I need to let go of the narratives I have in my head. For one, letting go of sin/deliverance: He has delivered me from a lot of sins, yet when I hold on to them, I do not get delivered from them. When I go to Him to take it from me, He does. But I have to want to let go of them. They could bring comfort, or they could be the only way I know how to operate, but if i want to let them go and I give it to Him He takes it away. I think so much, there's just a lot to think about and it doesnt even help but that's how I am used to operating, but to break this I need to let go of the comfort it brings me and trust in the Lord.
Trusting in the Lord is important. It doesn't mean that nothing bad will happen, it means that He will be with us through everything. Giving us strength or delivering us. When we give our life to Him, whatever happens is for the good (Romans 8:28). Secondly, I relate to wanting someone to love. I loved a girl very deeply, but she is not a Christian, so I was put in situations where I had to let go of her. I had to even though I felt deeply towards her. I've been waiting and praying for the one or whatnot, and I'm trying to figure this whole thing out but I'm not letting go of it. Letting go means to just leave it up to Him. I've been praying about it to the point of it being an idol before God. I'm looking towards that relationship more than towards God.
Thirdly, I learned that self-pity is a form of pride. I'm not owed whatever I think should happen with my life. God may have a completely different plan for my life, and I have to accept it and believe it is good. I have to trust in Him enough for that.
!!!!!! Finally, rejoicing in the Lord: please find a Christian community. Just pray about it He will give you one. And please sing and write poetry about Him and just keep falling in love with Him. Singing praises literally breaks the shackles of whatever holds us prisoners, it brings you joy of communing with the Holy Spirit. Acts 16:25-26 KJV [25] And at midnight Paul and Silas prayed, and sang praises unto God: and the prisoners heard them. [26] And suddenly there was a great earthquake, so that the foundations of the prison were shaken: and immediately all the doors were opened, and every one's bands were loosed. God bless you!
your faith with god is a lot like your idea of peace, its a state of mind not a feeling. Its an understanding of the love god has for you and what you are supposed to do. Live by faith not by feeling. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; 6 in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.
Try the Jesus prayer: "Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner." Just every day, over and over until it just becomes a habit. Say it in your mind when you can't say it out loud. Taste and see that The Lord is good ☦
Why did you isolate yourself? God doesn't want you to be alone. He is always with us, but we were not made to be alone. You're definitely in a season of waiting (this is tough and a real thing), but you need to find people who you can have these conversations with, a mentor that can guide you. Please reach out to a good church and look for friendship. Don't cut people out of your life, God would never want that. Just don't let someone who isn't of faith influence you. As for romantic love, sometimes we have to wait. That's how I met my wife. I waited for 7 years. God is there with you, but He also wants you to find His path. The best way to find it is to allow Him to use those around you. Reach out to a good church, find a mentor!
Im sorry to hear that you like someone that doesn't like you back but there's one huge question on my mind that i just have to ask you, How many times were there a situation where there was another guy that liked you but you didn't like them back? Im not asking this in a condescending way or anything i genuinely would like to know, Obviously if you were aware of it ever happening? Maybe you weren't aware of it, Sometimes girls can't tell if they've turned someone down who is into them, My point is and i think everyone can agree on this, We firstly take our own perspectives into consideration first before anyone else's, We may not want to cause any harm or sadness towards others but sometimes we don't always have control over it, The mind controls everything, Your talking about wanting to be be with somebody as if it's this heinous thing calling it a sin and that it's just your flesh speaking but it's entirely the opposite 😅 It's your mind basically telling you "I want human connection and companionship and love" Which is a completely normal and universally world wide thing literally everyone feels at some point in their life unless of course their a Psychopath because they are unable to feel any certain amount of empathy or are completely devoid of feeling any of it altogether, Your doing the right thing by focusing on yourself and doing what you enjoy, I think as long as you keep doing those things then everything will fall into place for you and it's definitely easier said than done, We have to love ourselves before we can be loved by others.
31“Therefore do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32For after all these things the Gentiles seek. For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. 33But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. 34 Mathew 6, I just wanted to share this passage knowing you struggled with not doing enough and that in my experience you don't seek the kingdom of god by looking to be righteous or being good or doing good acts its by seeking god with a pure heart and all else will be added onto you.
Hi Lila, there’s many brothers and sisters pray for you right now your not alone. Most important your best friend Jesus Christ. For a while we may feel alone and weary but when God gives us what we desire it will be exceedingly and abundantly more than we can ever imagine. Us in the flesh we believe life is so depressing but that’s Not how God sees it. May the cloud of lies from your mind be removed in Jesus name so you can see his fullness of Joy and Faith like child. Jesus have your way in your life!
Hello Lila! I can understand your loneliness/sadness, and certainly your feelings on your unrequited love. But I'll say this, don't fret about someone who does not love you back! You deserve someone who will unabashedly return your love and you shouldn't want anything less! You're still young, trust me there is no need to rush 😃 I know though that is easy for me to say though and of course you're perfectly valid to feel the way you do. It may take some time, but these hard days you're facing won't last forever. This video does make me want to give you a big hug though ❤ I feel maybe I don't have the best words, but this song always makes me feel better: czcams.com/video/DZ1IsWeWRrI/video.html Have a blessed day!
It sucks being lonely but there’s always hope you have to change your thinking I’m single for as long as I remember and having social anxiety doesn’t help but there’s always hope you’ll be better in no time
I find myself weeping because of my past at the same time weeping because he did save me from it. Then forever grateful while weeping because he saved me… Although my situation around me right now gives me sorrow along with my addiction to cigarette and lust at times. I want be strong in faith because it will happen when God will do. Until then I endure with him because I know I couldn’t do it alone you are not alone sister. I want to go home but Fathers will over mine grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you
I have been feeling the same but just never knew how to express it in words.
I’m glad if you feel seen by this, you’re loved
By the start of the video, i admit, i wasnt quite understanding what is it that was bothering you. But when you said that you have so many things you want to do ,but feel like you'll fail and the pressure of comparingson...i felt that, really hard, its something that is so powerful at making you feel unworthy and inferior. But i say this, the few times i feel accomplished (not proud) and that sense of dread goes away is when i'm serving God. I hope it goes away soon, for you as well, and that all of your sorrows become seeds for joy tomorrow.
GOD IS ALWAYS WITH YOU SISTER. But I feel the same, all my friends are not willing to help me with this. I also just never ask anyone though. Im here too if you need anything. But have a blessed and fruitful rest of your journey with the LORD!! LOVE YOU!! 🫶🏾🫶🏾
How can you be so beautiful and so sad ..
2 Corinthiens 12:9 "et il m'a dit: Ma grâce te suffit, car ma puissance s'accomplit dans la faiblesse. Je me glorifierai donc bien plus volontiers de mes faiblesses, afin que la puissance de christ repose sur moi"
Tu sais ma soeur parfois Dieu permet à ce que notre coeur soit brisé pour qu'il puisse se glorifier complètement a travers notre vie, garde la foi et continue de chercher Jésus, reste forte, quand tout ça sera fini tu te diras que ca valait le coup de souffrir autant pour la gloire de de Dieu
I have felt lonely for several years, and strangely, this is becoming normal. I don't know if this is healthy for me.
It can only be ! If u feel alright maybe you found out something that brings u happiness ☺️
Jesus is revealing that you dont need no body else but Him and only him Go to Him Run to Him whenever you get Unwanted Thoughts Pray Pray 🙏🏽 God Bless 🙏🏽
This is just a coping mechanism, We all need someone, Even if we say or tell ourselves that we don't, The only type of people that probably truly don't get sad or grieve and are content without having anybody in their lives are Psychopaths and i say probably because there might have been Psychopaths who have wanted to be with someone in their life, We as human beings want to be loved and want to be with that special someone, It is just simply a part of our nature, I do not buy for a second when i hear people say "Oh it's okay life is just telling you that your fine on your own, You don't need anybody" "Oh God is telling you that your fine on your own you don't need anybody" "Oh Jesus is telling you that your fine on your own, You don't need anybody" When i see and hear people say these things, I just see and hear cope and lying to themselves to try and temporarily stop feeling the sad feelings that bring someone when their don't have someone in their lives, Everyone needs someone, We all want to be loved, It is just in our nature religion or no religion.
@@SamuraiOniReaver i Agree ☝️ with you a 1000% we all need someone we all need a Friend, we all need people in ourlives to make us feel: Wanted,Loved,&Understood, but in the end if your struggling with something beyond ur understanding not a lot of those people would want to help you with whatever it maybe your going through(I speak for myself) thats why i always say Run To Jesus when unwanted thoughts linger around you, i used to have allot “Friends” Now that i dont indulge in Drinking,Fornication, Adultery Etc i Dont have much of my Friends no more because of i wanted to better My Life, My Health ,& My spiritual Health, Moral of the story is that we need people to Comfort us, Love us we all need each other to get through these things God Bless🙏🏽. PS. I suffered with Depression and anxiety & Sexual Sins for 10 years Jesus Christ my Lord&Savior opend my eyes God bless 🙏🏽
@@SamuraiOniReaver i agree ☝️ 100% God is love & Love Is God, but whenever we want to put our Trust in the Lord, Jesus will Separate the Sheep from the Goats i use Go Trough Depression&Anxiety every 2 days or so Dark Dark place to be in , We need people to Help us with kind words and to Help us Feel loved God Bless 🙏🏽
@@_.Garv1.9.9.6._ Nah Satan is better
Best wishes to you Lila and things will work out for you
Thanks a lot
you ar not alone god is with you even if you don't see it ❤🙏
Lila, I know Im just some dude from the internet, and Im probably not a right person for giving any advice, but your situation is strikingly similar to mine. I got the same feeling lately, like Im neither sad nor happy. Just floating in a void with nothing around but uncertainity. I never have doubted God's existence, I was raised catholic. But just like you I found it frustrating when you reach a point in life when you really need an answer or a sign from Him and nothing particular happens, and you start wondering wether is God testing me or is He playing with me. But remember - as cliche as it may sound God gives its greatest His strongest battles. Every struggle you experience happens for a reason. A reason you may not yet understand, but sooner or later it will all add up to a greater plan God has meant for you in this world. Sometimes I wish my thoughts were like others' - that everything will be fine, just be nice pray to God and you will go to heaven. But that approach never satisfied me "Thats too shallow and too simple c'mon world is not like that" I often thought. Cause it would be a lot easier to accept all that bothers us. But to have faith is to have hope. A hope that despite this ungodly world we live in where Satan triumphs, there's still a great amount of good out there that is worth the struggle. All thats left for us is to trust the process of reaching eternal peace through our Lord cause eventually, at the end of times all evil will perish and we, God's children will be free of whatever bothered us here on Earth.
I will be praying for you Lila
God Bless ❤
Thanks a lot for your words, I really appreciated it thanks again. I’ve been struggling with so many things but the worst is love.. I’m currently in love with someone who doesn’t love me back ( the way I do..) it’s really complicated I know God is way more worth it than human .. but why is it so hard to get… thanks again for ur words
Be blessed ❤️
I love what you said here, thank you as well for commenting. We all need to hear this.
The only opportunity to connect with the deepest self 🙏
In the end, loneliness and sadness finish off in happiness
some thing i do relating to the flesh is no practice self control in the small things, maybe you pain tolerance when you washing the dishes and the waters to hot, maybe your sleeping and your nose itches and you wanna scratch it, maybe your tired and wanna nap but instead decide not to, i personally haven't gotten to the point yet but i know fasting would be great. I think about it like a runner when they are so beyond tired and exhausted that there about to collapse but the keep running with all their strength is them in the spirit not the flesh and how they got their was training maybe even in the small things first.
Hey Lila! I hope you're doing better. I'll be praying for you as I'm sure others who have seen this video will be. I feel like I relate to you. I've just been feeling very down lately. I was frustrated because Joy is a fruit of the Spirit, and it seems like I'm just backsliding and struggling to trust God and to give my all to Him. I feel like this comes from a place of resistance to Him. He is and should be the number 1 in our lives. This is because our Maker is our Husband. So we need to let go of things that we idolize. I need to let go of the narratives I have in my head. For one, letting go of sin/deliverance: He has delivered me from a lot of sins, yet when I hold on to them, I do not get delivered from them. When I go to Him to take it from me, He does. But I have to want to let go of them. They could bring comfort, or they could be the only way I know how to operate, but if i want to let them go and I give it to Him He takes it away. I think so much, there's just a lot to think about and it doesnt even help but that's how I am used to operating, but to break this I need to let go of the comfort it brings me and trust in the Lord.
Trusting in the Lord is important. It doesn't mean that nothing bad will happen, it means that He will be with us through everything. Giving us strength or delivering us. When we give our life to Him, whatever happens is for the good (Romans 8:28).
Secondly, I relate to wanting someone to love. I loved a girl very deeply, but she is not a Christian, so I was put in situations where I had to let go of her. I had to even though I felt deeply towards her. I've been waiting and praying for the one or whatnot, and I'm trying to figure this whole thing out but I'm not letting go of it. Letting go means to just leave it up to Him. I've been praying about it to the point of it being an idol before God. I'm looking towards that relationship more than towards God.
Thirdly, I learned that self-pity is a form of pride. I'm not owed whatever I think should happen with my life. God may have a completely different plan for my life, and I have to accept it and believe it is good. I have to trust in Him enough for that.
!!!!!! Finally, rejoicing in the Lord: please find a Christian community. Just pray about it He will give you one. And please sing and write poetry about Him and just keep falling in love with Him. Singing praises literally breaks the shackles of whatever holds us prisoners, it brings you joy of communing with the Holy Spirit. Acts 16:25-26 KJV
[25] And at midnight Paul and Silas prayed, and sang praises unto God: and the prisoners heard them. [26] And suddenly there was a great earthquake, so that the foundations of the prison were shaken: and immediately all the doors were opened, and every one's bands were loosed.
God bless you!
your faith with god is a lot like your idea of peace, its a state of mind not a feeling. Its an understanding of the love god has for you and what you are supposed to do. Live by faith not by feeling.
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; 6 in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.
Same,
What the Chanel Onorato Diamante, I hope God brings you peace through it.
I feel you...
When the disciples were facing severe storm on the boat Christ Jesus was sleeping so likewise the disciples; Lila need to wake him up
Try the Jesus prayer: "Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner."
Just every day, over and over until it just becomes a habit. Say it in your mind when you can't say it out loud. Taste and see that The Lord is good
☦
❤❤❤
Why did you isolate yourself? God doesn't want you to be alone. He is always with us, but we were not made to be alone. You're definitely in a season of waiting (this is tough and a real thing), but you need to find people who you can have these conversations with, a mentor that can guide you. Please reach out to a good church and look for friendship. Don't cut people out of your life, God would never want that. Just don't let someone who isn't of faith influence you.
As for romantic love, sometimes we have to wait. That's how I met my wife. I waited for 7 years. God is there with you, but He also wants you to find His path. The best way to find it is to allow Him to use those around you. Reach out to a good church, find a mentor!
Im sorry to hear that you like someone that doesn't like you back but there's one huge question on my mind that i just have to ask you, How many times were there a situation where there was another guy that liked you but you didn't like them back? Im not asking this in a condescending way or anything i genuinely would like to know, Obviously if you were aware of it ever happening? Maybe you weren't aware of it, Sometimes girls can't tell if they've turned someone down who is into them, My point is and i think everyone can agree on this, We firstly take our own perspectives into consideration first before anyone else's, We may not want to cause any harm or sadness towards others but sometimes we don't always have control over it, The mind controls everything, Your talking about wanting to be be with somebody as if it's this heinous thing calling it a sin and that it's just your flesh speaking but it's entirely the opposite 😅 It's your mind basically telling you "I want human connection and companionship and love" Which is a completely normal and universally world wide thing literally everyone feels at some point in their life unless of course their a Psychopath because they are unable to feel any certain amount of empathy or are completely devoid of feeling any of it altogether, Your doing the right thing by focusing on yourself and doing what you enjoy, I think as long as you keep doing those things then everything will fall into place for you and it's definitely easier said than done, We have to love ourselves before we can be loved by others.
31“Therefore do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32For after all these things the Gentiles seek. For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. 33But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. 34 Mathew 6, I just wanted to share this passage knowing you struggled with not doing enough and that in my experience you don't seek the kingdom of god by looking to be righteous or being good or doing good acts its by seeking god with a pure heart and all else will be added onto you.
Hi Lila, there’s many brothers and sisters pray for you right now your not alone. Most important your best friend Jesus Christ. For a while we may feel alone and weary but when God gives us what we desire it will be exceedingly and abundantly more than we can ever imagine. Us in the flesh we believe life is so depressing but that’s Not how God sees it. May the cloud of lies from your mind be removed in Jesus name so you can see his fullness of Joy and Faith like child. Jesus have your way in your life!
chill bruh… relax… everything is it…
thats why i drink
I’ve been there, I can tell that it’s not a good thing … faire care of yourself
@@Lilasthoughts yeah, its probably not good but i dont care. i cant do anything else about it.
and thank you, you too.
@@Morpheus776 don’t worry everything will be fine
Hello Lila!
I can understand your loneliness/sadness, and certainly your feelings on your unrequited love. But I'll say this, don't fret about someone who does not love you back! You deserve someone who will unabashedly return your love and you shouldn't want anything less! You're still young, trust me there is no need to rush
😃 I know though that is easy for me to say though and of course you're perfectly valid to feel the way you do. It may take some time, but these hard days you're facing won't last forever. This video does make me want to give you a big hug though ❤
I feel maybe I don't have the best words, but this song always makes me feel better:
czcams.com/video/DZ1IsWeWRrI/video.html
Have a blessed day!
Jesus loves and cares for u he will work through u
Jesus loves you so much!