I BECAME A MOM AT 14 - NOW I'M 28 (TEEN MOM TRUTH)
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âYou donât look old enough to have a kidâ
Jennica, âIâm not.â
*stares into camera*
LOVED that partđ
That is and always has been my line đ I had my son at the same age as her. He is now almost 17. Iâm 31.
@@ChaoticCountry I had my daughter when I was 17, people made it a horrible experience for me but my child is almost 18 and the best gift I've ever been given â€ïž
I never had a kid ,I should not say anything
Thatâs what I say. Had him at 16.
When her daughter is 60 she will be 74. Growing old together.
Awwwwwwwwww đđđ stopppp my heart
AWWWWWWW THATS SO SWEET
Time with my children...... never can be enough, you're lucky.
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She is SO lucky đ« making me wish I had a baby when I was 14
âTeenage girls are some of the most atrocious people on this earthâ GIRL I WHEEZED SO HARD I WOKE UP MY DOG đđđđ
I laughed out loud because teenage boys are atrocious creatures also!!! I have 2 and they drive me nuts with the constant bitching about everything. I know I grew up with all girl and we never just bitched about things, we would just fist fight that crap out in the yard and then it was over with, not my boys, they will bitch about one little thing for a week or more
Teenagers in general just suck. Its such a terrible time for everyone involved đ
This may be discounted by older people because Iâm still teen myself, but I personally feel like teenage years are just a different season of life, exactly like all the others are. Teens are at a point, though, where they have to figure out who they are and what they want whilst still growing and learning as people, and they have to balance that amongst other adult-like responsibilities while ALSO preserving the little bit of childhood they have left. I respect teenagers a lot for taking on the burden of having to navigate the world with limited knowledge and experience- two things which arenât inherently bad at all. Some of us are jerks and thrive on putting others down; I wonât deny that... but does that change in people when they become adults? I donât think it does, not entirely. A lot of us may be moody and impulsive and downright wrong at times, but we need room to breathe and learn from our (sometimes costly) mistakes and wrongdoing. I personally wish I had more audacity to make mistakes, since Iâm the type of person whoâs terrified of failure and therefore scared to try. (I do still make many mistakes anyway though, hahaha!) Because of all that, my respect goes to teens who put themselves out there and make bold decisions, even if they regret it later... since Iâm pretty sure thatâs how we live and learn. Just because this time period is a little awkward and different for people doesnât necessarily warrant everyone to hate it, and I truly hope that when I become an adult and have kids of my own, I can lead them through this time period without viewing them as the irritating nuisances that the older generations tend to label us as. This is just my thought process now, and it may change. Iâm open to other perspectives or predictions as to how this mindset may evolve over time. So for those of you who talk about your opinions on teenage years, do you want to have a discussion about this? It could be cool :))
@@sophiaredwood5825 i made my comment as a teen myself. I agree with the point you made and i believe thats also what people here also commenting. Its a very important and turbulent time for the teen as they try to understand and figure out the world and themselves which ends up with a painful growth process that have to be experienced not only by the teen but also by the people around them
@@sparkydoodle96 Ahhhh, I see now. Iâm pretty sure I misunderstood what your original reply was implying, but I get it- and I relate. Thank you so much for the response!! Yeah, I canât pretend like teenage years arenât overwhelming and hard, haha. They are. I donât think all teenagers suck, and that not everything about the time sucks, but at the same time, itâs pretty overwhelming. đ My heart goes out to all of us and those around us hahaha đ
netflix really did a gilmore girls revival and had the audacity not to cast you two in it smh
They would be great
I had a kid in high school.. dropped out to get 2 jobs to pay my rent/bills. SHE IS 13 now! I met a good man(now husband) who paid for my online classes to get a diploma at 24. Life works in mysterious ways, never say never. I thought I was going to be that person alone with kids, working my butt off to make ends meet. Now I run a *uckin zoo with a million kids running in and out of my house, animals, and a happy husband who loves it all, while Iâm trying to hide from everyone. He is Mr. Mom. đ€Łđđ€Ł
Amazing story ! I'm happy for you
We love a caring man and father
This is soooo cute! Youâre really lucky to have a man like that by your side. This story made my day, thank you for this. Have a nice dayđ„°
That's so beautiful. A shout out to your Mr. God Bless You All.
@@myrtila okay hi there you will like my story too. Yep I married the best of God's creation. I am Greatful to God, the universe the Goodness that put us together. Greatful for each day. He never cheated on me even once- he has very high morals n rules- it's in his blood, his brothers are like this too. I had an arranged marriage turned love. There are Great amazing men out there, but u must trust your instincts/ your inner voice , don't get married too young though.
Just an FYI Anika will be okay without a car. I didnât have a car until college until I was able to provide for half the cost. Of course itâs up to you. Itâs really a humbling experience to work for your first vehicle. đ
Most definitely see Iâm sixteen rn and I do not want my mom to have to pay for my car that is sometime I think I need to do for myself I think itâll do us teens a lot more good if we start doing things for our self
I am 26, stil not having a car and I started university a month ago AND I AM FINDE AND ALIVE! đ
Of course it would be easier if my parents would have paid all of that for me, but now I drive by bike or bus when it's raining and therfore I am the least lazy person nowadays. I appreciate it so much to go to university. I swear I am giving 1mio% energy into it! If I would have to pay it by myself maybe I wouldn't be that ambitious
I got my driving licence at 24 and already with one year old son. Didnt need car until I had my son and my partner started being really busy in his work. I could easily do everything, even while living in a village. It takes a bit of planning to make sure you get everywhere you need on time but its totally doable. Its not a bad thing to not have a car, I would even argue its a good experience as it teaches you a lot of things.
I think it definitely depends on where you live. The more rural you live, the harder it is to get around without a car. I got my dad's old car right at 16 because our town has no public transport whatsoever and biking around town just isnât feasible (100+ degrees in high humidity, town spread over quite a distance but with rather low density.) At college, several of my friends didnât have cars and didnât need them.
Here not having a car is not an option for me. Where I live, the only way to get into town is through the highway. All of the stores are hours away for walking-distance.
EVERYONE! Stop skipping ads so she can buy a house! đŁ
Oof sorry I have youtube premium so I canât get ads
yeah...premium too lmao
premium still gives them a little money instead of adsense
No
Thatâs what Iâm doing! Itâs only a couple more seconds anyway?!
Omg please try to colab with Mama Doctor Jones. It would be cool to hear you talk with an OBGYN about all kinds of stuff about being pregnant so young and also educating your own daughter on safe practices.
I love Mama Doctor Jones so much!
omg yes!!
YESS
Yes!!!
This is a great idea
âThey didnât want a 16 year old sitting around at their 2 year oldâs birthday partyâ đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł I am dead lol
lmao, you saying "this is going to show my age" was sort of funny because, girl, you're 28 not 82!!!
Yes I meant that I was young!
Hahah I know right. Iâm older than her and Iâm still a young fry ;)
âtopless granâ I YELLED yâall have to watch that story time if you havenât
We stan Topless Gran!
yessssss!!!
Literally cried laughing đđđ
I remember that đđ
OMGSHAHEHDK I REMEMBER THAG
âYou donât look old enough to have a kidâ
âIâm notâ
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This is the best thing ever
Omg how did i find you hear @andpeggy
Jaclyn Randolph
HAHAHAHAHAHA Hiiiiiii
Me not skipping the ads at the end to âšmake a differenceâš đđđ»
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Being able to talk to your kid after a fight and actually listen to what they have to say about it is so important, I really wish more parents knew that they don't have to be perfect all the time, it would make having those conversations a lot easier for them I think. My parents really struggled to admit when they'd done something wrong because they were afraid of undermining their own authority but all that did to me was make it way harder to handle all my mental health issues. They've changed now I'm an adult because I learned how to stay calm and have conversations with them where I didn't lose control of my emotions, but it would've been way easier for them if they'd known earlier that apologising when you make a mistake or lose your temper isn't going to make your children think any less of you
@Bailey Law that's a really hard thing to be going through, you don't deserve to be treated like that, I'm sorry. It sounds like your sister really cares about you though, whatever you do don't let your parents drive you apart. Your mom doesn't believe you're good enough because she's too worried about her image to care about her own children and that's a horrible way to think, your grades are as good as they need to be and there's nothing wrong with that, you can't be expected to be super successful in the situation you're going through. Your sister is getting better grades because she's a different person and things are affecting her differently, you aren't worth anything less than her just because your grades aren't as high, good parents wouldn't measure their children's worth like that. Do your best to support your sister and don't be afraid to talk to her about what's happening, and let her talk to you too. You'll be able to heal from this when it's over but getting through it is the hard part, it's always going to hurt that your parents didn't love you like they should have, but there are plenty of people out there who will, starting with your sister.
My sister was a teen mom and I was only 11 years old like your little sister . Let me tell you that her teen pregnancy affected me as well. I made sure to finish college lol but now I have 2 beautiful boys and Iâm so proud of my sister for raising her child . My niece is now 16 đ§Ą
Iâm 17 and have never even kissed anyone let alone dated/slept with/even held hands...I know when my mom was a teenager lots of girls have children because it was easier to get benefits but thatâs simply not the case these days - many girls in my school had children as teens while Iâm in college just hoping to waste years to avoid being an adult. I donât know how they do it but more power to them tbh
Actually kinda same 18 going to 19
Me
18 and yeah felt this bro
Almost 24...
Same, I am 20 and never did anything with a guy. I didnât even know how babies were made at 14. My mom probably would have kicked me out though tbh. So Iâd have to become an adult if I had kids as a teenager.
anybody else not skip the ads on her videos just because she deserves every bit she can get? love helping a sister out!
Me I love them so much
I donât think it makes a difference
I wanted but 28 minutes were just too long đ
@@silverco2560 it does!
Iâm 17 and have never even kissed anyone let alone dated/slept with/even held hands...I know when my mom was a teenager lots of girls have children because it was easier to get benefits but thatâs simply not the case these days - many girls in my school had children as teens while Iâm in college just hoping to waste years to avoid being an adult. I donât know how they do it but more power to them tbh
Sheâs so inspiring. âEveryone's problems may be different but they're all just as big to us internallyâ period sisđđ
âAnd annica Jane she becameâ
âHopefully you donât skip these ads so I can buy a houseâ IS THAT HOW IT WORKS?! I will never skip again
It's my birthday and I'm sitting in my car eating chipotle and watching you ⣠Love y'all so much, sending love from GA
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!
Omg Iâm sitting in my car eating jimmy johns watching this đđđ
And happy birthday!
Happy belated birthday...
Happy birthday đâ€, hope it was a good one
"she will not be allowed to stand within 6 weeks of him not just because of social distancing" đđđ
I was literally about to skip the ads but then my brain was like âno, jennica needs to buy a houseâ lol
Have you experienced the high of Annica not following in your teen mom footsteps? I was a little bit older than you were when I had my first, but I literally did a happy dance when my firstborn reached 20 years old without a baby. đ
@bihbhkjbnlk oh my god, that sounds awful..
I hope you weren't affected by having such a pessimistic parental figure, show him you'll do great things!
My mom brags about me all the time bc she taught me to do the complete opposite of her lol. She had me young, was kicked out of the house at 18, was a smoker/drinker, partied hard all the time, had to juggle 3 jobs/college/a kid, and was irresponsible with money/credit cards. She was so happy that I listened to her and didn't follow her footsteps, bc she didn't want me living a stressful life like she did. She was so open and honest from the beginning and her life right now is pretty good, but it didn't start out that way. I have a lot of respect for young mamas, thats not an easy thing to go through.
@bihbhkjbnlk sounds like my dad.
@@JordanWeatherbie your mom is a mood
My mom conceived me at her senior prom and Iâm 18 right now so was a bit younger then me and everything is a milestone of thank god. I had a scare a few weeks ago and I cried because of reasons but one was I didnât want to be another statistic because since she had me at 18 thatâs all I was to schools and doctors
"I had the perfect kid the first time"
FACTS I had my baby girl at 17 and I couldn't agree moređ€Łđđ€Ł SHOP IS CLOSED
âyou donât look old enough to have kids!â
jennica: iâm not đđđ
my name is Annie Jo and itâs a combo of my two grandmotherâs names: Annetta and Josephine... people call me AJ and i think itâs so frickin cute that Annica is an AJ too đđđ i love yâall!
I want her as my mom...
She's very:
-open
-honest
-cool
-fun
-sweet
-caring
-and has my fav mother daughter channel
That's one perk of having a teen mom. They'll understand your feelings more
my mom was 17 when she got me and she also says that she's not the cool mom! i sometimes think she's more strict than other parents bc she knowsss what i could be doing haha. i love your channel! keep it going
That's my cousin. She was 14 when her daughter was born and she is strict!!!
My cousin had her daughter at 15. Sheâs really strict too
I love that!
âitâs hard to budget when you donât have any moneyâ i know that itâs serious but when u said that i died đ. also as a new teen mom i respect you so much and look up to u đ
I was 19 when I had my daughter, she's 19 now. I related to so much of this, but you blew me away on how confident you are with owning your "teen mom"-ness. I'm a grown ass woman on a second marriage with girls 12 years apart (you are right, it's dumb, don't do it) and I STILL can't tell people I just met I was a teen mom. Frikken hats off to you.
Lol whaaatt đ I'm 19 and i just had my first baby 4 days ago i dont even feel like a teen mom haha
@@ninarae3368 but you are
@@xcobmi I had my son at 19 when I was a sophomore in college. Don't see how that makes me a teen mom since I wasn't in high school.
@@natc1008 because you were nineteen. As the number suggests, a teenager.
@@xcobmi.... "Teen" in math just means ten. So nineteen means nine and ten. I guess by teenager I mean adolescent, which is based on the individual. But yes, my age was in the "tens" so I suppose that's true.
I'm 14 now and I cannot imagine having a child I literally have so much respect for your commitment to your daughter âșïž
I grew up with teen parents. I saw the struggle and Iâm so grateful for them. Youâre doing amazing sweetie! lol
Ok but Gilmore Girls is such a good show
Agree but the last seasons are went downhill and it never was the same..đ„ș
Maram Maaroufi true
đOnce i found this channel i never left đđ
Dabster Sam SAME!!!!
Same
Iâm 21, donât have any kids. But the fact you can find out your pregnant and have a child at 13/14. Blows. My. Mind. How can a person be so strong, resilient, incredible??? Itâs why I watch you. You are such an incredible role model. Not because of how you got pregnant or the fact you had a child so young but how you handled that situation. You got lemons and you made lemonade, lemon cake, salad dressing, used the seeds to plant more lemons, the whole shibang.
20:36 THIS!!! if theres anything in this video that i understand and want to preach, its this. my "more significant" issue was i had my period every day for two years straight. when my friends would talk to me about their periods, they would usually say "oh i just feel bad complaining to you because you have it so much worse" like NO!!! please complain to me, i want to be there to help you and be just a normal friend to you!! i dont want my medical anomalies to alienate me from you, that would be worse than the medical issues themselves!!!
B r u h- that sounds like a nightmare, if I get my period for more than 3 days I get paranoid-
@@lolno811 ahahah it got to a point where it just became normal
@TatzRules Yay oh iâm sure trust me lol
I had the same experience, except was 2-3 months at a time with a month break in between and repeat. I can relate đ
I'm 30 and can't imagine having a baby even NOW! Let alone 16 years ago! Props to you, you've done a great job with Annica :)
âYou donât look old enough to have a kidâ
âIâm notâ
I literally canât even đ spat my water out. Haha #MadeMyDay #AndThatsTheTeaSis
Holy crap your honesty is so refreshing.
Yâa Annica are only a couple days apart so weâre both 14 and my mom had me at 17 so we kinda have the same dynamic as you two!!
âTopless Granâ I litteraly laughed so hard I almost peed, like for real- sorry ik its TMI. But like-.... OMFG, YESSS WE STAN TOPLESS GRAN! That was how I discovered this channel..... topless gran.... ahh the memories
I'm really glad that I found your channel. I became a mom at 17 and my son is now 5. I have definitely found that CZcams has a plethora of teen moms but I haven't seen many mothers talk about their experience as a teen Mom in the past tense. Thanks for this!
My momâs name is Annica. Her name was spelled Annika but she never really liked it so she started spelling it like your daughter Annica. My mom is from Sweden though and itâs a very common name back home đžđȘ
the "hey sweety, sorry about thaaatt" sent međđđđđ„
Mama Bear coming through! "...and not because of social distancing!"
Weâre the same age and itâs crazy cause I had my daughter 5 months ago and sheâs my first and I feel overwhelmed sometimes at this age. Youâre brave and a great mama
Iâm 31 trying for my first lmao I feel like a grandma
Im 16 and don't plan to have kids yet, but respect and hope the best for yall
I remember it didn't hit me until after I gave birth in the hospital, that I was gonna have an actual child and not just a baby. She was gonna come home with me and grow up with me. That blew my mind at 16 years old. Now she's 13 and full of attitude but I wouldn't trade her for the whole world â€ïžâ€ïž
my mom got skin cancer last year. iâm 14 iâve been depressed/ mental health issues since i was 12. almost every night i cry about my mom and how much i love her, i definitely have major mood swings but i can warn people when they are coming and she knows how to cool me down when i donât
Imagine Annica and a kid whose parents had them when they were like fifty. Completely different experiences growing up.
My dad was 48 and 50 when he had me and my sister lol
Lol Iâm 19 and my dads in his 60s
@@user-ml2gb6sj2z I'm 16 and my dad is 64 lolol
@@larissaleigh4488 Iâm 15 and my dad is 63! Hahaha
My dad had me when he was 41 and my sister was born when he was 50. I'm 22 now and I'm so worried that I'll lose him before graduating law school or getting married or having my first child. 2 years ago he had us all scared to death when he had to undergo an emergency surgery and I believe it was a miracle that kept him alive. Kids with young parents probably don't need to worry about stuff like this, but each case has its pros and cons
You seem extremely mature, it's hard to believe the immaturity of some 28 year olds now! It will be interesting when you are 32 and I'm sure you will have friends just having their first child and you'll have a kid going off to college!
Well of course. Having a child is what turns a girl into a woman and a boy into a man. Never have a kid and that makes you always be one.
@@natc1008 Are you seriously saying a 60yo childless person is still a child?! Not sure how that does make sense
@@theresuga yep. Never experienced parenthood and always lived a single life? Then they never matured.
@@tati9867 I agree that just having a baby isn't what matures someone, but stepping up to be a parent and raise a child...that selflessness is what makes an adult. Sure there are childless people who are "mature", but they never had to experience parenthood so they'll always be lacking that. And of course there are people with kids who are terrible parents and aren't mature.
@@natc1008 so people that are infertile canât become adults. Girl wtf you on about
This video is so pure
Honestly I am so proud of you that you have learned how to become a teen mom and finding out how to be happy and cheerful with your one teen and having friends that actually care and want to help you
We love the Gilmore Girl references throughout thisâ€ïž
just found you, this was the first video iâve watched of your channel, and i am so proud of you! you seem so mature and itâs obvious you really care about Annica. you really are an inspiration to teen moms everywhere! so happy i have found your channel
I absolutely love how honest you are about everything. Never skipping the ads đ€đŒ
At 20:40 giiiiirrl! You preach it sister! This is a very rare commodity in a person! It's so beautiful to hear someone say this. I'm 27 and don't have very many friends and you just saying this gives me hope that I will find a friend that has this same view point. Everyone needs a listening ear and not feel like they can't "complain" to their friends with worry that their friends story will over shadow theirs. You seem like a very genuine person. I'm so happy to have found your channel! Ps. you are frikin hilarious girl! Don't stop with the videos!
Ughhh I love you guys so much!! Youâre such a good mom! Yâallâs relationship is very much like my mom and Iâs. You make me cry every time you talk about your life storyâ€ïž
Thank you for sharing your journey! I became a mom at 22 and Iâve never felt like anyone knows how it feels to be a young mom. Your videos have helped me so much. đ€đ€
Just came across this channel and let me tell you I'm hooked! I love how you took charge of your situation and made the absolute best of it. Not to mention, anyone can see how much you love you have for your daughter. It truly amazes me to see how well you understand and support her when "normal" parents don't even know what friends they have! I have the upmost respect to you ma'am, keep up the good work!
You're a true inspiration. Like honestly having a baby at any age is never easy but I couldn't even imagine being 14 and being a mom. Keep on killin' it!đ
Girl, you have my utmost respect. Iâm blown away at your incredible energy and for sharing your lives. Iâm learning so much! Canât wait to learn more, thank you so much!â„ïž
I love how mature you handle your daughters emotions/outbursts, and how you recognize that teenagers say things they donât mean in the heat of the moment. Itâs so under-recognized that itâs okay to let things slide when things are heated and then discuss later or the next day when things have calmed down. You sound like an amazing momma!
I have a hard time listening to people and actually accepting what they say or agreeing and feeling satisfied but everything you say is just so settling and comforting I love it
I think that mind set of focusing on your child than dating is at any age too
I'm 23 and my daughter is 2 1/2 đŁ
I did my make up this morning with you. Iâm glad you said something about the ads. I always skip them, but Iâve decided to not skip ads while Iâm watching you. I am also a grown up teen mom and itâs incredible that you put your life out there for the rest of us, so that we do not feel alone. Thank you! You are an amazing mom and such a beautiful woman, inside and out!!!
Thank you for always being so genuine! From mental health to realistic mother-daughter relationships to money - you always keep it real. â€ïž
i would love to see you and annica do each others makeup while you answer more questions!! thank you for doing your best to upload content; we all love to see it!!!!!!
Love this đ€ Love how much of a REALalistic mother you are
This is the first time I've seen one of your videos, and it makes me SO happy to hear that you're able to let things she says slide for the moment and address them later- I am a parenting coach, and that is exactly what we teach! I really believe it builds a stronger relationship and will help her grow into an emotionally healthy and aware person. You seem like a great mom.
You are just so darn sweet and I can tell how amazing of a person and mom you are based solely off this video. Your sacrifices have paid off and youâre such an inspiration! Definitely have such a bright soul. đ
I am so happy that you are finding so much joy in CZcams! Itâs so clear how much fun youâre having. Through your journey you deserve this joy and so much more. Wishing the best for you and your daughter â€ïž
Thank you for saying that all issues that people have are valid. Iâve had a lot of experience with people belittling my problems because they say they have it worse and it makes you feel terrible. Itâs really bad for your mental health as you can start to feel as if you have to ignore the fact that you have problems to the point that they become overwhelming and start to tear you down. If an issue is affecting you then it is valid and people should treat it as such and try and help you, not hinder you.
So inspired by you girl âșïž love your authenticity and humility! â€ïž
i absolutely loves yâall channel, always puts a smile on my face đ„șâ€ïž.
Omg when you brought up that Khloe K quote I was just throwing my hands up in the air like THANK GOD I am not the only one who has brought up that quote into a convo haha - Iâve definitely pulled it up once or twice and itâs so true and such good advice âdonât make permanent decisions off of temporary emotionsâ like yes yes yesss - also just discovered your channel and I know Iâm already hooked. â€ïž
Jennica, youâre wise beyond your years. I enjoy listening to you talk about pretty much anything haha - Love you and Annica!
I had my daughter at 19 and I know that isnât 14 but I can still relate so muchâ€ïž Iâm 24 now and she is the best thing thatâs ever happened to me. Even at 19 years old I was so thrilled to have my baby. Iâm an only child and I always wanted siblings or something/someone to fill the void of always being alone. We are blessed mamasâ€ïž
It mustâve been hard, but you did and are continuing to do so great! â€ïž
I love watching your videos and seeing you laugh, it just makes my day. Keep on thriving!
Support is very important đ Iâm so happy you had that, especially as a young mother... Iâm almost 25, never needed financial or any kind of support but emotional support, but I didnât and donât have that. Itâs so heartbreaking, but a relief that less people arenât going through what Iâm going through because they have a support system.
I'm 14 now with a kid and your channel definitely helps me and makes me realize alot đ very thankful for your channel đ„șâ€ïž
Congrats mumma. Canât be easy. Iâm 15 and still making too many mistakes to have a kid. I fool around too much to take it seriously ahaha â€ïž
Love this video. For so many reasons but above all, you keep it real and raw but can still throw some humor in there. Also the part about you said you only have 4 years before she goes out on her own so you weren't even focusing on dating you were solely focused on her. More women/mothers really need this energy!! And they needed to hear this too. I'm the same way. I got pregnant with my son at 19 and long story short, if you choose to stick with your kid/kids and actually be a good parent you have to mainly focus on those kids and mentally/emotionally on yourself but dating takes a back burner especially as a single mom. Love y'all.
I could listen to you all day, I literally feel like weâre just hanging out and chatting
Ugh, I seriously ADORE you đ©đ you just radiate kindness and the love you have for AJ.
I could listen to you for hours. Your such a great talker you very lucky you have such a great support team. Love your channel, and look forward to seeing more videos. Love your mother/daughter relationship.Your a great mom and you have a great daughter.
When I was sixteen people sometimes mistakenly thought my little sister was my daughter
That happens with me
Random people have thought my cousin was my daughter since I was 13
Love your honesty and how openly you addressed these questions â€ïž
what you said about not overshadowing other peoples problems is so wise and insightful ! makes u seem so woke and validated in how intense ur experience was, cuz u donât need to compare ur problems to others
When you mentioned Aly and AJ I just got flashbacked to my room when I was 14 listening to their CD on repeat for hourrrrssss lmao
Omg this is the first video I've ever watched by you Jennica, you popped up in my recommended and I have to say that I instantly liked and subscribed! đ„° I'm a young mum myself same age as you and love your refreshing honesty and your fun down to earth personality đ
love yâall!! Proud of you guys for making it so far!! â€ïžâ€ïž
Just found you today and so in love with your story!! You know what I would loovveee to seeee??? Your mom tell it from her perspective!! Itâs nice to have your story itâs def a heroic story to say the least and donât know you and Iâm proud of you!! You completely embodied being a mom and still living your life and achieving your goals!!! But you could even do a zoom social distancing video but would just love to hear it all from her pov!! đđđđđđđđđŒđđŒđđŒđđŒ
I rarely comment on yt but after watching this, I felt compelled to tell you that you are my favorite channel. You are so entertaining, so funny, and not afraid to tell it like it is. So many yt tow the line as to not lose viewers and I don't see that here. Thanks for being you!
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My mom was a teen mom and she had my brother at 17, my brother us going to be 17 in December and I'm 14. She doesn't let us like date and do all that basic teen stuff, and part of me feels like its because she doesn't want us to be like her, because she always says how she wants to change things and she just keeps reminding us to like stay in school and yeah.
That sucks. She sound pretty fearful. Wish sheâd utilised that better.
You are genuinely one of the smartest people Iâve ever heard speak. So wise!!! Iâm so happy to have found your channel. Good luck with Annica as a teenager- you guys will both be fine!!!!! Youâre already fine. Love you both.
Thank you for sharing! You are fascinating, and Iâm learning a lot from your kind openness. Iâm SO GLAD that most people have been great to you!! Having a healthy support system is soooooo needed and healing. Much sincere love to you and Annica đâ€ïž
When I was pregnant with my son we played around with the name "Shannon" and I loved it especially because close family doesn't call me Shannon, so it wouldn't cause confusion. ( It didn't end up his name so no worries )
Shout out to you for doing such a great job with Annica!! When you said the thing about how other parents treated you in high school, it broke my heart (and yes to taking care of your mental health and not going there right now). But anyway, I mention that because I follow you and another mom who was a teen mom, and I honestly feel like your children are exemplary human beings and it speaks volumes to the type of parent raising them. I am truly so inspired by you. I also really appreciate your comment about listening to people and not needing to find something to relate- I often forget to do that so it's helpful to hear. Love your content!! Hope you can transition to full-time youtube- lets get you to a million!!! đđđąđą
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I love that you posted a video of Annica getting her new car yesterday. Youâve done good, Queen.
I love your problem scale thing. I love that so much thatâs how I feel about everything especially depression. Theyâre all just as big exactly! Iâve gained so much respect for you after thatđ„°