Hey Bri 👋🏾🫶🏾 I'm in my 40s, and trust me, in the long term, the men who are spending all the money, tricking, etc. End up the lamest. They end up in jail, dead, scammers, or just horrible to women. Lol You will soon see that stability, a man who loves GOD, faithful and honorable, is much better than the luxury. You will crave character over cash. No, he won't be broke, but his character will be a priority.
Women still entertain and get pregnant by them a lot still wdym and there’s women out here succeeding in the dating pool without even entertaining that type of man at all js😂😂😂😂💯💯
Are the “high caliber” men that you are dating high caliber because they have money or because they have great morals, values, treat you well, and have a stable career with money? Just because a man has money doesn’t make him high caliber and I think that’s what a lot of women our age think. A man who can and does spoil us is great and that’s what we deserve. But if that’s all that he does he’s not high caliber and doesn’t deserve your time.
Man in my 40s here. My homegirl asked me to school you (in a good way) on this topic. Allow me to offer you this…Women confuse the “ bad boy” for what they really want. …a man that makes them feel secure, heard, and valued. Most bad boys couldn’t care less about providing any of that to you long term. And a bad boy with money is dangerous because he has the means to be patient because he can afford to buy you until he gets the chance to use you! All the while, he is using someone else until you get ready to give it up. And when you don’t he has no issue giving you up without a fight, because he had no intention to make you his to begin with. If you don’t know what you want, and can’t truly identify a real man of value, you will always get what you’ve been getting. Just because a man is “corny”, doesn’t make him less of a man. Instead of bad what you are really searching for is masculine. Rough, hood, street, unavailable does not equate to masculine. Those things are not the makings of a great partner, father, friend…. They are the hallmarks of heartbreak. And you will turn around and find yourself single and no longer in your prime, (which for most men 25 to 45 is the age you are NOW)! Nothing wrong with being single…. But if you want a GOOD high value man, STOP and reflect on you. Ask the right questions before you get into “relationship” with a man. Men are surprisingly honest when asked a question by a woman they owe nothing to. But when he has entered into relationship a bad boy may lie and tell you anything just to keep you around (for a while). Good luck sister.
Well said! All fathers need to have these conversations with their daughters while they are still young girls so that when they are in the dating years they won’t have to experience the heartaches that comes with dating a ‘bad boy’. Fathers have to teach their children their value/worth. Mothers play a role as well.
Enjoy your 20s and stop worrying about what other people think especially those who don’t add value to your life. I’m 33 and I was married for 10 years and regret wasting my years with someone who I thought would change. Don’t be me. You can’t change a man doesn’t matter how beautiful you are men are set in their ways and the type of men you speak of are all the same and have access to plenty of women and I know this from experience. Industry men whether they be rappers, athletes, ect. Alot of them have character flaws, are narcissistic, controlling, and are serial cheaters. They are not high value just because they have a lot of money and don’t make for good partners. Enjoy your life living care free and stop draining your energy on low vibrational people. Always best to leave room for mystery. People don’t need to know everything ❤
Hmmm... do you mind defining what you mean by "carefree?" This could be perceived as living recklessly, especially in this day and time, but I don't want to assume and/or misinterpret what you're saying...🤔
Once you change your appetite for men, you’ll appreciate the “corny” ones who are truly smart, respectful, considerate etc. make a list of what you want (don’t include superficial things like looks, specific career, etc) and stick to it.
What is wrong with a woman wanting a man who provides, creates luxury experiences, and has the qualities of a husband? Most women desire this and only a small percentage of women will actually experience it. Why would any woman be angry about a young woman sharing her dating experiences? I appreciate the video Bri. You rarely ever share and now we understand why… I would never recommend settling for a man who is not financially stable and who can’t provide or do romantic things for you. Life is too short to be struggling and unhappy, with a man trying to “figure it out.” You deserve the best. Finding a man who has husband qualities is challenging - money or not. Just continue getting to know men and eventually you will find your match.
It’s so interesting how most women really go through the same thing regardless of their circumstances. Once you reach your late 20s/early 30s it’ll all be so much clearer, as long as you stay self aware and keep growing.
Lol I knew Bri was gonna shake the table with this one. I had the same mentality at her age until about 28. Now I’m 31, happily married and have a beautiful family. My husband isn’t “rich” but the way he treats me is priceless. I would’ve never gave “rich” dusties the time of day had I known better. The man God handpicked for you, will be everything you didn’t even know you wanted/needed.
Damn, this is a moment where I wish we were actual “friends” I’m not too much older than you, I’ll be 29 in a few weeks but bby girrrrrl. You gotta change your mindset & maybe that’ll come along with age and experience. Men KNOW that women can be bought, regardless how how much money they have. It doesn’t matter if you threw it back or not.. your TIME is valuable, when you speak is valuable. It’s almost pathetic the way men can get their way when material things are placed in front of women. Instead of changing the men you date, change what you bring to the table. The more energy you give to those things that YOU can get yourself, the more they approach and you aren’t phased by it.. the more you say I’m good on it you’ll attract that person you want/need. Wether they hit or not they still won. Cause like you said spending money on a woman to them is.. nothing. Nevertheless God will Lead you once you allow him to. Love ya ✨
Bri appreciate your transparency but bby! let’s BFR friend. you ONLY spoke on materialism & money. nothing about a man’s character, morals, values, intentions, career, family, God etc. you only said you want to be a mother & wife; which is to be taken care of considering the context of this video. this was more arrogant & boastful than a humble high valued woman really wanting to seek change in her dating style. very beautiful, yes but lack so much depth. you gave no reason why YOU attract what you have or why other types of men should pursue you. your type is money not a man, bby. what personality will attract a valued man to you outside of your beauty? men want an asset, a partner, etc. no, you don’t have to bring anything to the table for the RIGHT man but what do you have to bring? are you nurturing, goal oriented, a planner, good with money management, can you hold it down if it all falls, are you funny, can you put together a business plan or cook for the little leagues bake sale? lol, no fr. fuck the rumors ppl will always talk but stand out, beautiful. & this is coming from a girl who also date high valued men, get treated nicely, flown out, dinners, gifts, money, shoes bags, cars etc. I drive a Maserati paid off & didn’t have to open my legs to the man. I got my body done & am a mother of 2 girls. I’ve dated street dudes, scammers, stock traders, athletes, rappers, actors, contractors, entrepreneurs lmaooooooo bby so I KNOW what you mean, you just have to articulate it BETTER. trying to go from what you’re use to to what you think you deserve is tough. build a relationship with God & see how life opens up . Good luck!
Girl , do not delete this. GET EVERY COIN from those likes comments and views. Half the people commenting acting like they never were 20 or in their 20s and LIVING LIFE TO THE FULLEST. Just because I have experienced different versions of men doesn't mean im a expert on what is best for me and im 32! Keep enjoying yourself life only begins at 30 so you being some years away , have fun , date , and find what floats your boat ! 💛
Wow!!!! First of all. What did we do to deserve this? You’ve been so consistent on TikTok and now you spoil us with beauty and girl talk over here. I love your vulnerability and transparency. You should start a Beauty with Bri series where you do makeup/skincare while discussing topics like this that girls can relate to. Dating is rough but we live and learn!!! Don’t let nobody tell you any different, when it’s meant, your one will find you til then be safe but have a ball. Don’t worry about anybody who are determined to judging or misunderstanding you, that’s their problem and life for you goes on. Makeup ATE by the way.
Did you notice when she started talking about men and relationships, she struggled to put coherent sentences together? This shows me; she has not thought this process out in her mind and she's moving off expectations the outside world may have for her! *I don’t date broke men* that’s her quote…now there’s a different between a man being *Broke* or *Gainfully Employed* making a living for himself. She should be honest and just say, ’m only interested in dating *Rich* men! ... I’ll let you in on a secret *Briana* rich men have options that’s one of the perks of having bread; you get to do whatever you want! Just like you’re successful, beautiful (aesthetically) and I would assume rich as well; you get to do whatever you want! Also.... you get to *Broker* your beauty to the highest bidder! (No disrespect- just making a point) Going back to the men you’re around, you’re just another pretty face…and you said your “type” is a man with money….you best believe those men know that’s what your all about; that’s one of the reasons you’re not taken seriously! She said just because a man buys her lavish gifts, wires her thousands of dollars…doesn’t mean I’m sleeping with them or doing strange things? Okay- if I believe that - because you also said “some of the men you are sleeping with” which one is it? why would you accept these free gifts? What are these men gaining from this? So a man can wire you thousands of dollars, along with lavish gifts and he can’t get sex from you or any other woman?? Ok lol. (Her whole commentary was just an “Arrogant Flex”) notice how she laughed when identifying men who share their resources with her *Tricks* Please pay attention to how she’s bragging about taking gifts from men without doing anything in return. This is selfish and a true sign of a user… (basically in those moments she was acting as a $ Paid Escort) In that segment she never mentioned a man’s character, morals, personality or values? Why she didn’t mention it; ......because she doesn’t care about that! Briana is a perfect example of Pretty Privilege gone wrong! All she spoke about was gifts, trips, jewelry, money - just material things etc. ..:::she’s single and she’s blaming the men she *chooses* to date? She’s the reason she’s single because she has no values and her character is flawed. Hey.....Briana those men are tricks but they ain’t stupid…they understand what your value is…. She really believes she going to find an “On Point Simp* shout out to SWP for that! She said, she dates Bad Boys but wonders why she can’t get commitment? The fact that she said men who are not bad boys ....she considers them *Corny* shows her immaturity and mind set! The nice guy is her default guy….hilarious you can’t make this up! Briana, please stay with the bad boys, street dude/rappers and SIMPS.... that’s your mental level! Real men with values, character and morals…don’t want you! Please don’t delete or hide my comment …let it live!
Well said! She has a lot of growing up to do and work on her inner self. I too kept thinking damn she refers to non bad boys as corny men!😲 she definitely not ready for a real good man! She is so immature and doesn’t realize it yet
THIS !!! idk this video made me look at her completely different but not in a good way. She has a lot of learning to do.. she has a mindset of a 17 year old. It’s kinda sad.
@@MsJaCkIEJP - Thank you…I’m just waiting to get blocked lol. I do feel for her because she’s a product of the “Instagram” era where everything is done for clout and validation. She will never experience the true chemistry and connection between a man and a woman on an Organic level…rooted in Love, Respect and Trust! She’ll rather base her feeling toward you on how many Chanel, Gucci and Prada bags you can buy her! In closing that’s cool for her but she has a large following across her platforms and women in her age group look up to her and will run with this broken perspective! Sad. Thanks for replying
@@chantellelynne1 - Yes it’s very sad considering she’s an *Influencer* is this what we want them influencing? Self absorbing, money hungry young women? Yeah *Thanks a lot CZcams* The good news is she’s still fairly young she has an opportunity to change her mindset but unfortunately I don’t think she’ll learn anytime soon!!!!
Men of those types are attracted to you because of the way you look but may or may not be seeking a genuine connection. Continue to be grateful for the amazing things you get to experience love.
Love the honesty and vulnerability in this video(as a Scorpio, I know how hard that could be for us girl! LOL) But it’s refreshing to see someone being completely honest with themselves about the dating scene and what they want. Not only that but having realistic expectations about the men you’re choosing to date and knowing what they can contribute, financially, emotionally, and in all other aspects. I feel like sometimes as women we go into these situations with the idea of who we want the man to be and not accepting them for who they are and then making a logical decision to pursue them or not. Not all men are husband material, not all men can commit and take the relationship to the next level nor want to at the moment, it’s nice to see you having this sense of awareness and transparency. This is something I’ve been working on within myself. But You will get everything you’re longing for, I see you being the most beautiful wife and mother one day. ❤❤❤
Team Scorpio so yes I agree , and not bad boys 🤣 get the ones who are kinda good and have a good as job and will treat u with respect I’m in my late twenties so I totally understand relationships are hard now and days and I know being in one ☝️
Please be honest with your subscribers, or don't address it at all. You have teenagers watching you, there's a difference between dating a generous man that spoils you but that usually involves a relationship. Compared to doing "nothing" at all for these men, just for bags, trips etc. That's being a sugar baby, nothing wrong with it all, but be honest.
sounds like you are turned on my a lifestyle of luxury and not per saying wanting a man to build and grow with. The man that already has a lifestyle of luxury with disposable income can tend to view women as disposable too.
I used to do that until I realized that I was wasting my time with people who aren’t worth my time. Be picky girl it’s your life you deserve to be treated right
Also Bri, people will judge you regardless if you aren’t doing those “things”. Learned from my provider ex. You can block your blessing by being around certain type of women/friends. A genuine good man can pass you up because of who you associate with.
Amen. Say that again. A big lesson I am learning. I move to another country and recently came back to visit. Some people I thought were friends gravely disappointed me with their comments. God is cleaning house for me so I can step in to the new. I don’t want to come back to the old 👏🏾. Can’t take everyone with you
We also have to admit. WE ALL JUDGE PEOPLE. She judges people just like I do and im sure you do. Every day, the world judges someone. The thing is... is when you put yourself around girls who do those things and you claim you don't... what do you EXPECT people to think about you?? we ALL KNOW that we are the company that we keep. No one thinks your are different because you put yourself around people who do the same. So, you cant be made about being judged. Thats literally LIFE.
great point. I wonder what it is that she and these women have in common that she associates herself with them. She referred to some men as ''tricks'', that's a term you use on the stroll. She claims she does not do what these women do, but shes learning the language and playing stroll games for what purpose exactly?@@celebritney22
One thing I have learned is Ain’t no man giving out anything for free, especially bad boy’s with money. there is always strings attached to the luxury gifts, trips and Private planes. There is an exchange someway, at some point.
Hey girl 🤍 I love that you’re being this transparent! Honestly girl, you’re 26. I feel like sometime social media makes us feel like we need to hurry up and settle down but tbh… our 20s is when we need to do this because once we settle down, we hopefully will have DECADES for the serious stuff! Give yourself grace. 🫶🏾 love your content, keep letting these tricks do what trick do okurrr 🥂
Yea but honestly sometimes beautiful women with tricks do this in thier 20s and 30s and wind up being unmarried. I live in a big city where tricks are a thing as well as sugaring and see this all the time.
Love the transparency. One thing women don’t realise is men who have money ALWAYS have options. We don’t want to think so, so the rich/wealthy men will eventually cheat or have bad character cleats all because they have money. Just because your beautiful doesn’t mean wealthy men will stay faithful or just for you. Now if faithfulness isn’t one of your wanting characteristics then that’s fine, but also consider other characteristics. Such as respect because I’ve dated men who were wealthy and they had terrible flaws and because they had money I put up with it later just to later be heart broken with a new Chanel bag and seeing him do so for the next chick. I’m now married and my husband is a very hard working man and a family man. We travel with our kids and live a nice comfortable life and have financial freedom. But we didn’t start where we are now. Don’t settle for struggle love but make sure to know what YOU want as far as character. Women now a days have money on top of their list not realising those wealthy men may have money but characteristics are low calibre but by society they have been told they are high calibre. But also remember marriage if that’s what you want, is for richer for poor. There have been many people who marry rich and end up stuff happening to their business etc and end up in a lower position than they once where. Life is full of ups and downs and you never know what it will bring. Today you may walk and tomorrow you could lose your limbs. Today a man could have nothing and tomorrow he could be a millionaire and vice versa. We women think different than men. I use to watch Kevin Samuels and hated that man but once I saw his thought processes about certain things where how men with “high calibre” thought I saw what he was talking about. Look inwards and you’ll see what’s the problem. I had to do self reflection to see why I was attracting certain men and dealing with them.
I don't ever comment on videos, but I just wanna give a heads up that maybe you could work on your delivery of how you express your feelings/opinions because this video can be very off putting. But I can understand where your coming from I think a lot of women are going through this right now, men think women only want money and I believe social media has a part in that🙄
I’ve benefitted from rich men without having to do a thing at all. It’s an ego boost that they can make a beautiful woman happy. However, I will say this…those are never the men you want to settle with. Money is often all they can offer. Nothing else!!
Wife and Mom here, Women should stop allowing social media to decide what a real relationship/marriage should look like. I promise when you do become a mom and a wife one day and you possibly get postpartum depression after having your baby, the last thing you'll be thinking about is what gifts or trips your husband can take you on. You need a husband that will motivate you to do the bare minimum like shower everyday, eat, go outside and take a walk. Most of the bad boy types don't have these characteristics. Being a mom is so hard seriously some women literally stop having intercourse for a long time after having a baby because they don't feel like themselves mentally or are too insecure about their bodies. If we take sex and body image out the image sit and ask yourself will the type of man I'm dealing with actually be there for me. Food for thought. I really dislike how social media portrays marriage and motherhood it's more than just pictures.
This is so true!!! Wow I couldn’t have said it any better. This is something to consider for sure! I’m sure Bri will get that one day once she truly figures out what she wants & when the time is right
Hey girl! I love your channel and through my first few months of being a new mom I binged your channel. With that being said, I’ve been where you are and know how hard it is to date the “good guy” around your age I stepped out and dated one who is now my husband ! And girl let me tell you, I’m so glad that man was persistent and consistent even when I pushed back in the beginning. You will and can have both. I’m a stay at home mom doing all the things I said I wanted to do! I’ll be praying in Gods time he sends you the one who meets allll your needs and fulfills allll your desires !
Hey Bri, Honestly it seems to me like you have to really get in tune with yourself first before trying to be a wife and a mom. Getting to know yourself first and growing as a person will bring the right guy to you in time. If you're confused about what you want then you'll be confused about the kind of guy you need. Also that confusion you have is what you're putting out to the world unknowingly and these guys are picking up on that and that's why they aren't treating you properly. I've been there and done that sis. Once you decide on who you are and what you want all the beautiful things you want in life will flow to you. ❤
i got super used to being “tricked on” and now i’m with someone who still spoils me but not to the extent i’m used to but also is really loving kind loyal and provides me with great experiences! it’s been adjustment but i am happy..and real love was what i needed. stay hopeful!
I feel like we know what we want, and once we get it we get bored and move to the next fulfilling thing. When the right one comes along and you get “that feeling” and you never want to leave it… just flow with it! Keep your standards high and don’t break them for anyone 🤍🤍🤍🤍 you have the free will to do and feel however you want.. it’s your life 😘
Hey Bri! 36 year old woman from New York. I am a bit older than you & I want you to know that its okay. Girl, i’m still tryna figure it out at this big age. I totally understand the dating the men with money vs the men that are still trying to gain financial stability. My best advice would be to continue to date, which allows you to collect data on the man THENNN make more serious decisions. Don’t give up hope! You got this, boo🥰🥰
I feel like the right man will walk into your life when you least expect it ❤ your heart knows what it wants and you will know when the time is right. Just live and enjoy yourself while your at it ! Love the makeup ❤❤
Briana please dont be discouraged by the people being spiteful in the comments, we appreciate you being transparent with us as alot of us are also in similar situations and its nice to hear relatability. I pray we all find a man of God who will truly love us for us. Keep up the consistency 🥹
Thank you for sharing. This topic is very relatable.. I learned recently that choosing the wrong men and trying to fix them has a lot to do with our own trauma. It's called codependency. We won't choose better until we heal ourselves instead of trying to fix someone else. And a lot of the times when we try to "fix" them they end up resenting us and move on to someone else.... because we can't change anybody but ourselves. They have to want to change on their own. A healed and healthy partner feels uncomfortable to some of us because we've been used to chaos since childhood. I saw something that said we choose partners based on what we think we're worth and that's very true. Working on your self worth, value and respect is so important. It took one good heartbreak from the bad boy type for me to realize no ma'am I don't want to do that anymore. It's better to focus on healing and improving than to settle for disrespect. Take it God and ask him to reveal everything that needs healing within you. It's difficult but you can do it. I pray everything works out ❤ You're very strong. Being on social media and getting criticized constantly isn't easy but you handle it with grace and that's very admirable.
I JUST WANNA SAY IM SAYING THIS WITH ALL LOVE AND COMPASSION…… I completely understand wanting the private jets and the Chanel bags and the random Zelle notifications, who wouldn’t? But I feel like you should look a little deeper within and ask God for more important characteristics..for example a man who’s sexually disciplined, a man who answers to someone higher than all of us and is a man of God. A man who surrounds himself with people who also hold the same values as him…the athletes, the rappers and people who just throw money at women usually don’t have depth and don’t have discipline when it comes to women. It’s easy to subconsciously be blinded by the cash when we as women don’t hold those other important values on the same level as the $$$$…let’s just all remember anything can happen and the $$ can be gone in a second. A lot of men the second they’re low on money they get nasty and rude or even abusive.. Can you trust him to be the same man without the $$$? Overall I can understand the difficulties in dating as a pretty girl who is known but definitely ask yourself why you keep ending up in the same situations with the same results. (This goes for all women btw, self reflection is always gonna be important) 🩷🩷
I know what I’m doing wrong that’s what I don’t realize people keep skipping over. I know I have to look deeper to find the man that’s actually aligned for me. It’s just the fact of am I ready for that next step/change in my life… thank you for your advice 🫶🏽
This is what your 20s are for date and have fun. When you decide you want different you will move differently. Enjoy your life and always know your worth.
Always enjoy your content, but I must fast forward this section of this video. I can’t leave without adding my 2cents “ you want men who has money” however from listening, your really still not sure what your looking for in a man nor neither do you know what you want for yourself. From listing to your reasoning, you have a lot of maturing to do in terms of dating and finding that man who will take you serious in a relationship, men appreciates great conversation because that’s the way they know your true value as it regards to what their desire is, Take a break and get to know yourself and trust me, you will see the difference in the way men treat you.
I would focus less on a man who has money or can provide you with the material things, and focus more on a man of God. Out of all the things you said you wanted from a relationship, a Godly one wasn't what you mentioned but it's the most important. If a man has not submitted his will and heart to God, he will not submit his heart to you. God can bless you with a man after his own heart and a man that will provide for you. Trust in Him.
Bri I thank you for being so transparent cause you are not the only one who feels this way. I loved me a bad boy lol and they weren’t even rich🥴 but the more work you do on you your preference will change, standards will change. If you are still wanting to be dating, do that honey… you are still young. You 100% know when you are tired of just having fun. ❤
I never said that, I said I want men with a real job. I have dealt with men in the past who don’t and that’s not the type I want to date anymore. I need stability, safeness and security
And wym I don’t have a real job? You don’t consider CZcams social media a real job? Bc I still have to pay taxes lol if it wasn’t Real I wouldn’t be paying taxes.
@@BrianaMoniquexo hunny this is not a real Job. It’s a fad that will eventually go out of style. You can’t possibly be this naive to think you will be making CZcams videos in your big age of 40-50’s and beyond. Grow up!
When you truly get into the word of the Bible that’s when you have peace not material things or worrying about words or accusations from others. Live your life however you choose to. Pray for a man of god and someone who is going to be a good husband/father. All the things you have access to and ppl as you see men with money(who have jobs/careers)treat there women/wives like crap most of them. Just because a man can buy you material things doesn’t mean your life will be great. Continue to pray /reading the Bible and apply what you are learning everything else will fall in place.
I feel it’s best to keep your dating life private I like your vulnerability but pple will also judge you regardless of how you put it. I love that you are blessed to get anything you want
Lol I actually love this for Bri so much she so encouraging and beautiful to listen to she said nothing wrong !! She should stand on her wants and she is undeniably STRIKING ❤
Interesting conversation Bri thanks for sharing. Honestly dating in your late 20s is a struggle universally. The combination of soft life and committed exclusive relationship is almost amusing. I wanna straight up say you gotta choose one but if you’re lucky you’ll find a man to give you both. Realistically it’s exhausting though and you’ll have to put up with a lot of nonsense. It’s setting yourself up for disappointment. You say you don’t know what you want but the more you shared the more the answer seemed obvious. Athletes, rappers, celebs are players babe. If you want marriage maybe in time with maturity and growth you’ll reconsider what’s important. Money or family and how to pursue that. You should never settle either you’re gorgeous but jet setting around the world and access to nice things isn’t viable long term. Wish you happiness and love ❤
Bri not everything is meant for the public to know. You are not obligated to be vulnerable to anyone but God, yourself and Partner. Let people make assumptions. Your preference is just that. You're also still in your 20's which i call 'the ghetto' years. Your mindset will change in your 30's. Obviously one of your love language is receiving gifts and that's okay. I would suggest therapy to see if there is some underlying trauma and you might be love avoidant.
I love that you’re able to identify that you need to change your type! It’s the first step to attracting what you want and a stable relationship. I waited a good while before a man found me that met my standards financially, commitment wise, and princess treatment wise, and I mean years! The key for me was meeting a man who wasn’t a trick because they trick on everybody 😩 I had to meet a “generous” man. He made me wait a bit before he started doing for me because he was also trying to be sure that I wasn’t here just for a trick. He’s foreign and he so sweet, his family and friends love him and he’s BORING. I’m telling you. Get a boring man with a good and legit income 😂 all he wants to do is what you want to do. It’s a formula honey, but you’ll get there.
People have different opinions, different views on life, and expectations. Just because people don’t have the same views as Bri doesn’t mean they should write rude comments Bri, at the end of the day you are doing what makes you happy. In your vlogs, your personality shows. There’s more to you than just your beauty. You know what you want and deserve, and you’re learning what isn’t meant for you. And that is okay. If people don’t agree with what someone else says, it’s easy to just NOT say anything.
I got 11 mins in and when you started talking about the money I had to log off to keep my mouth shut 😭 i seriously hope you find a great man one day who meets your needs! Until then live your life ❤
A man that just throws money at you doesn't actually like you. A man that wants a life with you will not hand you money like a hooker. He will give you presents of course but courtship is not throwing money at a girl. And a man with real money doesn't flash it around. He wants you to love him for him. He might not even let on that he has that much money.
I can definitely relate. Dating men at a different level in life and hoping they will settle down and “pick / want you” but getting hit with nothing be excuses …
Live your life! Don’t pay attention to those negative people they’re most likely just envious. As you’ve already learned the gifts and trips are all temporary so just be safe and enjoy it while it lasts. People are going to judge you no matter what you do, so try not to give it too much attention. I really appreciate your transparency and this different style of video. Take care. ❤
I really love how you came on here and kind of just laid it all out and I am almost 37 years old I’m married and I have a baby and I am so happy but that being said I do wish when I was younger I had gotten the chance to be spoiled. I really love this for you! I saw in a comment that you said your fans want you to be more relatable so then you try to give us a piece of you, but then people still look at it negatively the issue is you are never going to be relatable because there’s a small amount of people that has access to the finer things in life I watch you because I’m living vicariously through you and I fucking love this for you keep living your soft life and I do hope you find a man with money that spoils you that also wants to wife you up and have a child with you fingers crossed girl.
It’s okay to be at this headspace,when the brain gets wired to a certain thing or routine, it gets hard for the brain to rewire itself. It takes time and conscious effort to do so. The fact that you are aware of what you want and being aware of not being used to certain things is great. Also for a good life partner, praying about it is really the best because at the end of the day, God sees you heart and pulls the strings together according to your request and what he knows is best for you. So when In doubt, pray about it and girl live your life and just block out the bad comments and rumours because at the end of the day, no one knows you like you do
First of all beauty is more than the surface things,a person can be beautiful on the outside and so ugly,dead,gullible and shallow on the inside until the surface shit don't matter honestly...people should want someone that speaks to their Spirit and their mental as well as their overall being.
Appreciate people’s transparency about their experiences with out coming at them for speaking on THEIR experiences. She’s not delusional to the fact it’s not ideal in the long term she’s just sharing her experiences. I would love to see the Rolodex of mistakes you guys have made the way you are condemning her. People ask questions and then get mad when they give you the real answer. What did you want her to say that she’s celibate and courting? Just appreciate the content and transparency and keep it moving. This is why people don’t like to be honest on social media.
I honestly think you know what you want, but you’re still young. Live your life! Remember, he who finds a good thing finds a wife. Give yourself grace ✨
Such beautiful girl and I believe that God will give you the desires of your heart! One thing I’ve learned is to pray for God’s will to be done in your life and pray for the desires of your heart to align with His will. Since he only has to prosper you and not harm you…it’s a win win regardless! ❤️
Reading this comment makes me realise how negative y'all are she just share her experience and want she wants for herself keep yourself busy and stop hating. Coming back to the video, I understand her point on everything. I love the fact that she admit her past and try to move forward and i really hope that you will find the perfect man for you to settle down i feel like maybe if you really keep focusing on god you will find the answer soon. Just surround yourself to positive and good vibes and everything going to work out soon.❤
You should do more videos like this it's so refreshing sharing your experience (not the depths) but how you started CZcams, some mistakes that you make before etc can help a lot ❤
I am the most humble person, this isn’t even HALF of the the things y’all don’t see. So how was I bragging by trying to be transparent and more open with you guys bc dating has such a full spectrum and I was sharing mine bc I know some could relate. and of course I get hate. It’s never enough 😂 and how am I arrogant?
I think she’s just intimidated by your confidence honestly, maybe it was because you said you were beautiful? You are gorgeous and this video was very vulnerable! Someone’s always gonna have something to say, like their so perfect it’s crazy, lmao just do you.
you want to see a change then you be the change because the mindset you have in this videos will keep you where you are. Somebody special will come for you in God’s timing 😊
You are beautiful, but you’re not perfect so sitting up here calling some one arrogant when you don’t know them and they’re being vulnerable isn’t beautiful babes, that’s why people don’t tell y’all sh*t now😩 she wasn’t bragging she was literally just explaining her preference and how dating has been for her and how she wants to switch and all you got was she’s arrogant..
My question is how can you want to change up your type or leave the industry men alone and you got a industry man’s name tattooed on your wrist? So what was that for? To change him?
You do not have to explain yourself to real ones, we appreciate the transparency. Love me a girl talk. It’s always the girls hating from OUTSIDE the club with the most to say. Live life. Bri, when I come to Atl you gonna have to show me a good time, you my type of girl 🫶🏾
Y'all think marriage is a joke or you think you gonna be young and hot forever 🤔. 20 years ago everybody was a young boy or girl, today you are man or woman so ask yourself where did the time go. Same 20 years ago there were handsome dudes and hot girls then but where are they now, they all aged up. Life is a cycle be smart a make right choices.
ENJOY YOUR LIFE the way YOU see fit. Whatever you decide to do, YOU have to live with. Just enjoy your life. Keep YOUR BUSINESS to yourself 💯💯. You grown.
How do you keep a man with money ? It seems like you can attract them but can’t get them to put a ring on it … Remember a man controls who gets married and a women control who comes into the world.
@@BrianaMoniquexo No offense at all, but I think you're in denial. You're projecting your insecurities in your responses to the people in these comments. You know the truth that a lot of us are saying, but are too afraid to face it right now because like you said in the video, you enjoy the finer things in life and you still want to be a part of the "in crowd." You need to re-evaluate yourself and really humble yourself because your conceited attitude is extremely off-putting. Yeah, you're pretty but beauty fades and there will always be someone prettier, younger, and smarter than you.
@@BrianaMoniquexo men definitely control marriage. You have a lot to learn. A simp might marry you by your req but a real man with substance will not. It will always be his decision first to marry you!
Girl so much concealer yet still so flawless beautiful. Love the conversation it’s real. Everyone has their own story and life experiences. Enjoy ALL the luxuries and experience. You will know when you find true love. It will be undeniable.
it’s okay to not have everything figured out right now, life is meant to experience things good and bad. the best thing to do when you’re unsure of what you want is to take it day by day ✨
I've learned that people feel better about themselves when they come up with something negative about someone else. Influencers are such an easy target for negativity, even those of us who aren't on social media. Stay prayed up🙌🏾
I’m hereeeeeee for this videoooooo, alllll of it! You low key went off on your haters! Keep being polite and humble Bri, that’s the difference. This is why you live the soft life, you deserve it all! ❤
My favorite YT girly for sure. You’re so humble I love it. I live through you, keep being you. Don’t pay the haters any attention. You have genuine supporters like me, who love your content. You’re so different to me, not a clout chaser, very much classy & successful.
Awe it kinda mad me sad when you said you like bad boys and good guys are corny 😢 lol. I just love me a good ol sweet guy and married one. I hope you find what your looking for but the guys you are attracted to don't seem like marriage or husband material. No rush, keep enjoying like 😊
Thank you for your honesty and transparency. You’re enjoying life and keep enjoying it. I’ve always dated men with money and provided for me and theirs nothing wrong with that. Everyone is always so quick to judge. We are who we attract. When your ready to settle down you’ll know, Trust God☺️
I LOVE this video! I applaud you for your honesty and wish more women had standards and required a certain level of stability from the men they date. There is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with a woman being spoiled, taken care of and treated with the best ( emotional, physical and material). This does not mean you're with a man ONLY for money, but why would you want to be with a broke man? A real man wouldn't even entertain a relationship until he was financially secure to provide for him and whomever he pursues. Thank you for sharing Bri! I pray you get the desires of your heart because YOU DESERVE IT!
Everyone has a life that they choose, your decision determines your outcome in life!!! But I just have a question where is Kayla? Haven’t seen you and your friend in awhile?????
I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting to date someone with financial stability. That's something any mature person would want. I haven't dated men on the level that you speak of so I can't speak of it from personal experience. But even men that aren't extremely wealthy and work 9-5 are financially stable and great partners. There's nothing wrong with either as long as you feel okay with your decisions at the end of the day and it isn't making you feel like you are missing out on something. You can definitely find your type that will give you want you want outside the material goods. I can't wait to see you get that! I want to see the wifey, one day mommy vibes bri bri!! and speaking to being ready for the guys that aren't your type, I feel like we all go through this! I've tried dating guys that ARE NOT my type because they were the ones that were serious. but in the end I couldn't get myself to like them. like seriously rolling my eyes and getting the ick. I would say check your heart and spirit and see what is conflicting. These men don't come with thrills and gimmicks but you will have more balance and sustained peace.
Im proud if your elevation Bri! Its a process learning your “type” and what floats your boat! Take your time and use Gods discernment and be obedient he will guide your steps! In the meantime, have fun and do what brings you joy! ❤
This comment section has been beautiful and I love the way Bri has received advice from ya'll. I won't add anything at all because ya'll have already spoke well. I'm happy to see women support women like this and being honest, Bri I'm proud of you for listening. I know you're taking notes. You're a child of God and children of God are coachable. Keep it up sweety. You're doing well.
Whew! Bri you did this! I love that you’re blessing us with this realness , some of us really appreciate it. We are all living and learning. And in a perfect world, it would be without judgment but whatever. You’ll figure it out!
You say you don’t want to be defined a certain way because of your friends and who u hang out with. But being realistic in this world ppl will judge u on how ur crowd is. So men who r approaching u are based on what they see and not know .
I came to the comments to see what people would say because this can be a very controversial topic, I don't think there is anything wrong in having a preference and holding yourself to a higher standard. It's ok to accept things from people if they genuinely want to just see you smile. Especially if you made it very clear to them the type of person you are. As long as both parties' intentions are clear and genuine I don't see a problem.
Hey girl, fellow Scorpio here🦂 I appreciate your openness & honesty. I can tell you get a little timid about certain topics & I can understand why b/c we’ve seen people become so quick to judge or place a label on you. But the girls who get it, get it. (And even if you did want to do sum strange for a piece of change that’s your business tf.) You’re young, smart & beautiful. Live your life as you see fit. Keep going & keep learning. Be safe. Sending love & light your way. ❤️💖
A lot of the time the men who are willing to just drop stacks on women they don't really know don't want to settle down. Why would they, they can drop a couple stacks and have their pick and switch of women. So if they are quick to just drop stacks without really knowing you 🚩. BUT if you are not ready for a serious relationship either then do you boo and get what you can get.
I absolutely love your makeup. You always give natural sun kiss glow. I believe you will always attract the right person for you at the right time. Timing is everything! You deserve everything your heart desires. Make a vision board for the type of husband you desire to attract. He will come and you won’t have to compromise anything. ❤️
Hey Bri 👋🏾🫶🏾 I'm in my 40s, and trust me, in the long term, the men who are spending all the money, tricking, etc. End up the lamest. They end up in jail, dead, scammers, or just horrible to women. Lol You will soon see that stability, a man who loves GOD, faithful and honorable, is much better than the luxury. You will crave character over cash. No, he won't be broke, but his character will be a priority.
Preach!
Women still entertain and get pregnant by them a lot still wdym and there’s women out here succeeding in the dating pool without even entertaining that type of man at all js😂😂😂😂💯💯
Facts!
Spot on.
EXACTLY what she said! 🫶🏽
Are the “high caliber” men that you are dating high caliber because they have money or because they have great morals, values, treat you well, and have a stable career with money? Just because a man has money doesn’t make him high caliber and I think that’s what a lot of women our age think. A man who can and does spoil us is great and that’s what we deserve. But if that’s all that he does he’s not high caliber and doesn’t deserve your time.
Well said
Man in my 40s here. My homegirl asked me to school you (in a good way) on this topic. Allow me to offer you this…Women confuse the “ bad boy” for what they really want. …a man that makes them feel secure, heard, and valued. Most bad boys couldn’t care less about providing any of that to you long term. And a bad boy with money is dangerous because he has the means to be patient because he can afford to buy you until he gets the chance to use you! All the while, he is using someone else until you get ready to give it up. And when you don’t he has no issue giving you up without a fight, because he had no intention to make you his to begin with. If you don’t know what you want, and can’t truly identify a real man of value, you will always get what you’ve been getting. Just because a man is “corny”, doesn’t make him less of a man. Instead of bad what you are really searching for is masculine. Rough, hood, street, unavailable does not equate to masculine. Those things are not the makings of a great partner, father, friend…. They are the hallmarks of heartbreak. And you will turn around and find yourself single and no longer in your prime, (which for most men 25 to 45 is the age you are NOW)! Nothing wrong with being single…. But if you want a GOOD high value man, STOP and reflect on you. Ask the right questions before you get into “relationship” with a man. Men are surprisingly honest when asked a question by a woman they owe nothing to. But when he has entered into relationship a bad boy may lie and tell you anything just to keep you around (for a while). Good luck sister.
Beautiful response
these type of women do not care. they want money & lifestyle. they want to be known. great advice, tho.
Well said, I agree! Thank you
Well said! All fathers need to have these conversations with their daughters while they are still young girls so that when they are in the dating years they won’t have to experience the heartaches that comes with dating a ‘bad boy’. Fathers have to teach their children their value/worth. Mothers play a role as well.
Valuable teaching-may we as women TAKE HEED💯
Enjoy your 20s and stop worrying about what other people think especially those who don’t add value to your life. I’m 33 and I was married for 10 years and regret wasting my years with someone who I thought would change. Don’t be me. You can’t change a man doesn’t matter how beautiful you are men are set in their ways and the type of men you speak of are all the same and have access to plenty of women and I know this from experience. Industry men whether they be rappers, athletes, ect. Alot of them have character flaws, are narcissistic, controlling, and are serial cheaters. They are not high value just because they have a lot of money and don’t make for good partners. Enjoy your life living care free and stop draining your energy on low vibrational people. Always best to leave room for mystery. People don’t need to know everything ❤
Hmmm... do you mind defining what you mean by "carefree?" This could be perceived as living recklessly, especially in this day and time, but I don't want to assume and/or misinterpret what you're saying...🤔
Once you change your appetite for men, you’ll appreciate the “corny” ones who are truly smart, respectful, considerate etc. make a list of what you want (don’t include superficial things like looks, specific career, etc) and stick to it.
What is wrong with a woman wanting a man who provides, creates luxury experiences, and has the qualities of a husband? Most women desire this and only a small percentage of women will actually experience it. Why would any woman be angry about a young woman sharing her dating experiences? I appreciate the video Bri. You rarely ever share and now we understand why… I would never recommend settling for a man who is not financially stable and who can’t provide or do romantic things for you. Life is too short to be struggling and unhappy, with a man trying to “figure it out.” You deserve the best. Finding a man who has husband qualities is challenging - money or not. Just continue getting to know men and eventually you will find your match.
It’s so interesting how most women really go through the same thing regardless of their circumstances. Once you reach your late 20s/early 30s it’ll all be so much clearer, as long as you stay self aware and keep growing.
Lol I knew Bri was gonna shake the table with this one. I had the same mentality at her age until about 28. Now I’m 31, happily married and have a beautiful family. My husband isn’t “rich” but the way he treats me is priceless. I would’ve never gave “rich” dusties the time of day had I known better. The man God handpicked for you, will be everything you didn’t even know you wanted/needed.
Damn, this is a moment where I wish we were actual “friends” I’m not too much older than you, I’ll be 29 in a few weeks but bby girrrrrl. You gotta change your mindset & maybe that’ll come along with age and experience. Men KNOW that women can be bought, regardless how how much money they have. It doesn’t matter if you threw it back or not.. your TIME is valuable, when you speak is valuable. It’s almost pathetic the way men can get their way when material things are placed in front of women. Instead of changing the men you date, change what you bring to the table. The more energy you give to those things that YOU can get yourself, the more they approach and you aren’t phased by it.. the more you say I’m good on it you’ll attract that person you want/need. Wether they hit or not they still won. Cause like you said spending money on a woman to them is.. nothing. Nevertheless God will Lead you once you allow him to.
Love ya ✨
Bri appreciate your transparency but bby! let’s BFR friend. you ONLY spoke on materialism & money. nothing about a man’s character, morals, values, intentions, career, family, God etc. you only said you want to be a mother & wife; which is to be taken care of considering the context of this video. this was more arrogant & boastful than a humble high valued woman really wanting to seek change in her dating style. very beautiful, yes but lack so much depth. you gave no reason why YOU attract what you have or why other types of men should pursue you. your type is money not a man, bby. what personality will attract a valued man to you outside of your beauty? men want an asset, a partner, etc. no, you don’t have to bring anything to the table for the RIGHT man but what do you have to bring? are you nurturing, goal oriented, a planner, good with money management, can you hold it down if it all falls, are you funny, can you put together a business plan or cook for the little leagues bake sale? lol, no fr. fuck the rumors ppl will always talk but stand out, beautiful.
& this is coming from a girl who also date high valued men, get treated nicely, flown out, dinners, gifts, money, shoes bags, cars etc. I drive a Maserati paid off & didn’t have to open my legs to the man. I got my body done & am a mother of 2 girls. I’ve dated street dudes, scammers, stock traders, athletes, rappers, actors, contractors, entrepreneurs lmaooooooo bby so I KNOW what you mean, you just have to articulate it BETTER. trying to go from what you’re use to to what you think you deserve is tough. build a relationship with God & see how life opens up . Good luck!
Girl , do not delete this. GET EVERY COIN from those likes comments and views. Half the people commenting acting like they never were 20 or in their 20s and LIVING LIFE TO THE FULLEST. Just because I have experienced different versions of men doesn't mean im a expert on what is best for me and im 32! Keep enjoying yourself life only begins at 30 so you being some years away , have fun , date , and find what floats your boat ! 💛
She’s definitely getting controversial discussions on this lol. Wonder if she’ll delete it fr
Wow!!!! First of all. What did we do to deserve this? You’ve been so consistent on TikTok and now you spoil us with beauty and girl talk over here. I love your vulnerability and transparency. You should start a Beauty with Bri series where you do makeup/skincare while discussing topics like this that girls can relate to. Dating is rough but we live and learn!!! Don’t let nobody tell you any different, when it’s meant, your one will find you til then be safe but have a ball. Don’t worry about anybody who are determined to judging or misunderstanding you, that’s their problem and life for you goes on. Makeup ATE by the way.
Literally live and learn. Thanks for the advice 🤍🤍
Did you notice when she started talking about men and relationships, she struggled to put coherent sentences together? This shows me; she has not thought this process out in her mind and she's moving off expectations the outside world may have for her!
*I don’t date broke men* that’s her quote…now there’s a different between a man being *Broke* or *Gainfully Employed* making a living for himself. She should be honest and just say, ’m only interested in dating *Rich* men! ... I’ll let you in on a secret *Briana* rich men have options that’s one of the perks of having bread; you get to do whatever you want! Just like you’re successful, beautiful (aesthetically) and I would assume rich as well; you get to do whatever you want! Also.... you get to *Broker* your beauty to the highest bidder!
(No disrespect- just making a point)
Going back to the men you’re around, you’re just another pretty face…and you said your “type” is a man with money….you best believe those men know that’s what your all about; that’s one of the reasons you’re not taken seriously!
She said just because a man buys her lavish gifts, wires her thousands of dollars…doesn’t mean I’m sleeping with them or doing strange things? Okay- if I believe that - because you also said “some of the men you are sleeping with” which one is it? why would you accept these free gifts? What are these men gaining from this? So a man can wire you thousands of dollars, along with lavish gifts and he can’t get sex from you or any other woman?? Ok lol.
(Her whole commentary was just an “Arrogant Flex”) notice how she laughed when identifying men who share their resources with her *Tricks*
Please pay attention to how she’s bragging about taking gifts from men without doing anything in return. This is selfish and a true sign of a user…
(basically in those moments she was acting as a $ Paid Escort)
In that segment she never mentioned a man’s character, morals, personality or values? Why she didn’t mention it; ......because she doesn’t care about that!
Briana is a perfect example of Pretty Privilege gone wrong! All she spoke about was gifts, trips, jewelry, money - just material things etc. ..:::she’s single and she’s blaming the men she *chooses* to date? She’s the reason she’s single because she has no values and her character is flawed. Hey.....Briana those men are tricks but they ain’t stupid…they understand what your value is….
She really believes she going to find an “On Point Simp* shout out to SWP for that!
She said, she dates Bad Boys but wonders why she can’t get commitment? The fact that she said men who are not bad boys ....she considers them *Corny* shows her immaturity and mind set! The nice guy is her default guy….hilarious you can’t make this up!
Briana, please stay with the bad boys, street dude/rappers and SIMPS.... that’s your mental level! Real men with values, character and morals…don’t want you!
Please don’t delete or hide my comment …let it live!
Well said! She has a lot of growing up to do and work on her inner self. I too kept thinking damn she refers to non bad boys as corny men!😲 she definitely not ready for a real good man! She is so immature and doesn’t realize it yet
THIS !!! idk this video made me look at her completely different but not in a good way. She has a lot of learning to do.. she has a mindset of a 17 year old. It’s kinda sad.
@@MsJaCkIEJP - Thank you…I’m just waiting to get blocked lol. I do feel for her because she’s a product of the “Instagram” era where everything is done for clout and validation.
She will never experience the true chemistry and connection between a man and a woman on an Organic level…rooted in Love, Respect and Trust! She’ll rather base her feeling toward you on how many Chanel, Gucci and Prada bags you can buy her! In closing that’s cool for her but she has a large following across her platforms and women in her age group look up to her and will run with this broken perspective! Sad. Thanks for replying
@@chantellelynne1 - Yes it’s very sad considering she’s an *Influencer* is this what we want them influencing? Self absorbing, money hungry young women? Yeah *Thanks a lot CZcams*
The good news is she’s still fairly young she has an opportunity to change her mindset but unfortunately I don’t think she’ll learn anytime soon!!!!
@@knowEgoagreed!
Men of those types are attracted to you because of the way you look but may or may not be seeking a genuine connection. Continue to be grateful for the amazing things you get to experience love.
Love the honesty and vulnerability in this video(as a Scorpio, I know how hard that could be for us girl! LOL)
But it’s refreshing to see someone being completely honest with themselves about the dating scene and what they want. Not only that but having realistic expectations about the men you’re choosing to date and knowing what they can contribute, financially, emotionally, and in all other aspects. I feel like sometimes as women we go into these situations with the idea of who we want the man to be and not accepting them for who they are and then making a logical decision to pursue them or not. Not all men are husband material, not all men can commit and take the relationship to the next level nor want to at the moment, it’s nice to see you having this sense of awareness and transparency. This is something I’ve been working on within myself. But You will get everything you’re longing for, I see you being the most beautiful wife and mother one day.
❤❤❤
This was perfectly said! Thank you for this🤍
Team Scorpio so yes I agree , and not bad boys 🤣 get the ones who are kinda good and have a good as job and will treat u with respect I’m in my late twenties so I totally understand relationships are hard now and days and I know being in one ☝️
Please be honest with your subscribers, or don't address it at all. You have teenagers watching you, there's a difference between dating a generous man that spoils you but that usually involves a relationship. Compared to doing "nothing" at all for these men, just for bags, trips etc. That's being a sugar baby, nothing wrong with it all, but be honest.
THIS!
sounds like you are turned on my a lifestyle of luxury and not per saying wanting a man to build and grow with. The man that already has a lifestyle of luxury with disposable income can tend to view women as disposable too.
I used to do that until I realized that I was wasting my time with people who aren’t worth my time. Be picky girl it’s your life you deserve to be treated right
Also Bri, people will judge you regardless if you aren’t doing those “things”. Learned from my provider ex. You can block your blessing by being around certain type of women/friends. A genuine good man can pass you up because of who you associate with.
👏🏽🤍 thank you! And I agree
Absolutely agree !
Amen. Say that again. A big lesson I am learning. I move to another country and recently came back to visit. Some people I thought were friends gravely disappointed me with their comments. God is cleaning house for me so I can step in to the new. I don’t want to come back to the old 👏🏾. Can’t take everyone with you
We also have to admit. WE ALL JUDGE PEOPLE. She judges people just like I do and im sure you do. Every day, the world judges someone. The thing is... is when you put yourself around girls who do those things and you claim you don't... what do you EXPECT people to think about you?? we ALL KNOW that we are the company that we keep. No one thinks your are different because you put yourself around people who do the same. So, you cant be made about being judged. Thats literally LIFE.
great point. I wonder what it is that she and these women have in common that she associates herself with them. She referred to some men as ''tricks'', that's a term you use on the stroll. She claims she does not do what these women do, but shes learning the language and playing stroll games for what purpose exactly?@@celebritney22
Bri i love how you’re talking about your experience dating because a lot of us can relate and it’s nice to hear your perspective
One thing I have learned is Ain’t no man giving out anything for free, especially bad boy’s with money. there is always strings attached to the luxury gifts, trips and Private planes. There is an exchange someway, at some point.
Hey girl 🤍 I love that you’re being this transparent! Honestly girl, you’re 26. I feel like sometime social media makes us feel like we need to hurry up and settle down but tbh… our 20s is when we need to do this because once we settle down, we hopefully will have DECADES for the serious stuff! Give yourself grace. 🫶🏾 love your content, keep letting these tricks do what trick do okurrr 🥂
Thanks for this girl🤍
Yea but honestly sometimes beautiful women with tricks do this in thier 20s and 30s and wind up being unmarried. I live in a big city where tricks are a thing as well as sugaring and see this all the time.
Love the transparency. One thing women don’t realise is men who have money ALWAYS have options. We don’t want to think so, so the rich/wealthy men will eventually cheat or have bad character cleats all because they have money. Just because your beautiful doesn’t mean wealthy men will stay faithful or just for you. Now if faithfulness isn’t one of your wanting characteristics then that’s fine, but also consider other characteristics. Such as respect because I’ve dated men who were wealthy and they had terrible flaws and because they had money I put up with it later just to later be heart broken with a new Chanel bag and seeing him do so for the next chick. I’m now married and my husband is a very hard working man and a family man. We travel with our kids and live a nice comfortable life and have financial freedom. But we didn’t start where we are now. Don’t settle for struggle love but make sure to know what YOU want as far as character. Women now a days have money on top of their list not realising those wealthy men may have money but characteristics are low calibre but by society they have been told they are high calibre. But also remember marriage if that’s what you want, is for richer for poor. There have been many people who marry rich and end up stuff happening to their business etc and end up in a lower position than they once where. Life is full of ups and downs and you never know what it will bring. Today you may walk and tomorrow you could lose your limbs. Today a man could have nothing and tomorrow he could be a millionaire and vice versa. We women think different than men. I use to watch Kevin Samuels and hated that man but once I saw his thought processes about certain things where how men with “high calibre” thought I saw what he was talking about. Look inwards and you’ll see what’s the problem. I had to do self reflection to see why I was attracting certain men and dealing with them.
I don't ever comment on videos, but I just wanna give a heads up that maybe you could work on your delivery of how you express your feelings/opinions because this video can be very off putting. But I can understand where your coming from I think a lot of women are going through this right now, men think women only want money and I believe social media has a part in that🙄
I’ve benefitted from rich men without having to do a thing at all. It’s an ego boost that they can make a beautiful woman happy. However, I will say this…those are never the men you want to settle with. Money is often all they can offer. Nothing else!!
Wife and Mom here,
Women should stop allowing social media to decide what a real relationship/marriage should look like. I promise when you do become a mom and a wife one day and you possibly get postpartum depression after having your baby, the last thing you'll be thinking about is what gifts or trips your husband can take you on. You need a husband that will motivate you to do the bare minimum like shower everyday, eat, go outside and take a walk. Most of the bad boy types don't have these characteristics. Being a mom is so hard seriously some women literally stop having intercourse for a long time after having a baby because they don't feel like themselves mentally or are too insecure about their bodies. If we take sex and body image out the image sit and ask yourself will the type of man I'm dealing with actually be there for me. Food for thought. I really dislike how social media portrays marriage and motherhood it's more than just pictures.
This is so true!!! Wow I couldn’t have said it any better. This is something to consider for sure! I’m sure Bri will get that one day once she truly figures out what she wants & when the time is right
Hey girl! I love your channel and through my first few months of being a new mom I binged your channel. With that being said, I’ve been where you are and know how hard it is to date the “good guy” around your age I stepped out and dated one who is now my husband ! And girl let me tell you, I’m so glad that man was persistent and consistent even when I pushed back in the beginning. You will and can have both. I’m a stay at home mom doing all the things I said I wanted to do! I’ll be praying in Gods time he sends you the one who meets allll your needs and fulfills allll your desires !
Congratulations🎉 AMEN to that😊
Hey Bri, Honestly it seems to me like you have to really get in tune with yourself first before trying to be a wife and a mom. Getting to know yourself first and growing as a person will bring the right guy to you in time. If you're confused about what you want then you'll be confused about the kind of guy you need. Also that confusion you have is what you're putting out to the world unknowingly and these guys are picking up on that and that's why they aren't treating you properly. I've been there and done that sis. Once you decide on who you are and what you want all the beautiful things you want in life will flow to you. ❤
i got super used to being “tricked on” and now i’m with someone who still spoils me but not to the extent i’m used to but also is really loving kind loyal and provides me with great experiences! it’s been adjustment but i am happy..and real love was what i needed. stay hopeful!
I feel like we know what we want, and once we get it we get bored and move to the next fulfilling thing. When the right one comes along and you get “that feeling” and you never want to leave it… just flow with it! Keep your standards high and don’t break them for anyone 🤍🤍🤍🤍 you have the free will to do and feel however you want.. it’s your life 😘
Love the transparency and vulnerability! This is the type of content we all want to see. Live your truth and enjoy this moment
Hey Bri! 36 year old woman from New York. I am a bit older than you & I want you to know that its okay. Girl, i’m still tryna figure it out at this big age. I totally understand the dating the men with money vs the men that are still trying to gain financial stability. My best advice would be to continue to date, which allows you to collect data on the man THENNN make more serious decisions. Don’t give up hope! You got this, boo🥰🥰
Thanks so much for this! Means a lot 🤍
I feel like the right man will walk into your life when you least expect it ❤ your heart knows what it wants and you will know when the time is right. Just live and enjoy yourself while your at it ! Love the makeup ❤❤
Briana please dont be discouraged by the people being spiteful in the comments, we appreciate you being transparent with us as alot of us are also in similar situations and its nice to hear relatability. I pray we all find a man of God who will truly love us for us. Keep up the consistency 🥹
Thank you for sharing. This topic is very relatable.. I learned recently that choosing the wrong men and trying to fix them has a lot to do with our own trauma. It's called codependency. We won't choose better until we heal ourselves instead of trying to fix someone else. And a lot of the times when we try to "fix" them they end up resenting us and move on to someone else.... because we can't change anybody but ourselves. They have to want to change on their own. A healed and healthy partner feels uncomfortable to some of us because we've been used to chaos since childhood. I saw something that said we choose partners based on what we think we're worth and that's very true. Working on your self worth, value and respect is so important. It took one good heartbreak from the bad boy type for me to realize no ma'am I don't want to do that anymore. It's better to focus on healing and improving than to settle for disrespect. Take it God and ask him to reveal everything that needs healing within you. It's difficult but you can do it. I pray everything works out ❤ You're very strong. Being on social media and getting criticized constantly isn't easy but you handle it with grace and that's very admirable.
I agree with everything you said 🤍 thank you
I JUST WANNA SAY IM SAYING THIS WITH ALL LOVE AND COMPASSION……
I completely understand wanting the private jets and the Chanel bags and the random Zelle notifications, who wouldn’t? But I feel like you should look a little deeper within and ask God for more important characteristics..for example a man who’s sexually disciplined, a man who answers to someone higher than all of us and is a man of God. A man who surrounds himself with people who also hold the same values as him…the athletes, the rappers and people who just throw money at women usually don’t have depth and don’t have discipline when it comes to women. It’s easy to subconsciously be blinded by the cash when we as women don’t hold those other important values on the same level as the $$$$…let’s just all remember anything can happen and the $$ can be gone in a second. A lot of men the second they’re low on money they get nasty and rude or even abusive.. Can you trust him to be the same man without the $$$? Overall I can understand the difficulties in dating as a pretty girl who is known but definitely ask yourself why you keep ending up in the same situations with the same results. (This goes for all women btw, self reflection is always gonna be important) 🩷🩷
I know what I’m doing wrong that’s what I don’t realize people keep skipping over. I know I have to look deeper to find the man that’s actually aligned for me. It’s just the fact of am I ready for that next step/change in my life… thank you for your advice 🫶🏽
This is what your 20s are for date and have fun. When you decide you want different you will move differently. Enjoy your life and always know your worth.
Always enjoy your content, but I must fast forward this section of this video. I can’t leave without adding my 2cents “ you want men who has money” however from listening, your really still not sure what your looking for in a man nor neither do you know what you want for yourself. From listing to your reasoning, you have a lot of maturing to do in terms of dating and finding that man who will take you serious in a relationship, men appreciates great conversation because that’s the way they know your true value as it regards to what their desire is, Take a break and get to know yourself and trust me, you will see the difference in the way men treat you.
I would focus less on a man who has money or can provide you with the material things, and focus more on a man of God. Out of all the things you said you wanted from a relationship, a Godly one wasn't what you mentioned but it's the most important. If a man has not submitted his will and heart to God, he will not submit his heart to you. God can bless you with a man after his own heart and a man that will provide for you. Trust in Him.
I didn’t mention it bc I didn’t really mention my over all type that I would want as my man to be my husband but GOD is number one.
Bri I thank you for being so transparent cause you are not the only one who feels this way. I loved me a bad boy lol and they weren’t even rich🥴 but the more work you do on you your preference will change, standards will change. If you are still wanting to be dating, do that honey… you are still young. You 100% know when you are tired of just having fun. ❤
Pray about it and ask God for some guidance and what type of man he wants you to be with.
saying you don't want a man who doesn't have a real job and you don't have a real job is very cruel and hypocritical.
I’m sure she meant jobs like (scamming, drug dealing , etc )
I never said that, I said I want men with a real job. I have dealt with men in the past who don’t and that’s not the type I want to date anymore. I need stability, safeness and security
And wym I don’t have a real job? You don’t consider CZcams social media a real job? Bc I still have to pay taxes lol if it wasn’t Real I wouldn’t be paying taxes.
@@BrianaMoniquexo hunny this is not a real Job. It’s a fad that will eventually go out of style. You can’t possibly be this naive to think you will be making CZcams videos in your big age of 40-50’s and beyond. Grow up!
When you truly get into the word of the Bible that’s when you have peace not material things or worrying about words or accusations from others. Live your life however you choose to. Pray for a man of god and someone who is going to be a good husband/father. All the things you have access to and ppl as you see men with money(who have jobs/careers)treat there women/wives like crap most of them. Just because a man can buy you material things doesn’t mean your life will be great. Continue to pray /reading the Bible and apply what you are learning everything else will fall in place.
I feel it’s best to keep your dating life private I like your vulnerability but pple will also judge you regardless of how you put it. I love that you are blessed to get anything you want
Lol I actually love this for Bri so much she so encouraging and beautiful to listen to she said nothing wrong !! She should stand on her wants and she is undeniably STRIKING ❤
Interesting conversation Bri thanks for sharing. Honestly dating in your late 20s is a struggle universally. The combination of soft life and committed exclusive relationship is almost amusing. I wanna straight up say you gotta choose one but if you’re lucky you’ll find a man to give you both. Realistically it’s exhausting though and you’ll have to put up with a lot of nonsense. It’s setting yourself up for disappointment. You say you don’t know what you want but the more you shared the more the answer seemed obvious. Athletes, rappers, celebs are players babe. If you want marriage maybe in time with maturity and growth you’ll reconsider what’s important.
Money or family and how to pursue that.
You should never settle either you’re gorgeous but jet setting around the world and access to nice things isn’t viable long term. Wish you happiness and love ❤
Bri not everything is meant for the public to know. You are not obligated to be vulnerable to anyone but God, yourself and Partner. Let people make assumptions. Your preference is just that. You're also still in your 20's which i call 'the ghetto' years. Your mindset will change in your 30's. Obviously one of your love language is receiving gifts and that's okay. I would suggest therapy to see if there is some underlying trauma and you might be love avoidant.
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I love that you’re able to identify that you need to change your type! It’s the first step to attracting what you want and a stable relationship. I waited a good while before a man found me that met my standards financially, commitment wise, and princess treatment wise, and I mean years! The key for me was meeting a man who wasn’t a trick because they trick on everybody 😩 I had to meet a “generous” man. He made me wait a bit before he started doing for me because he was also trying to be sure that I wasn’t here just for a trick. He’s foreign and he so sweet, his family and friends love him and he’s BORING. I’m telling you. Get a boring man with a good and legit income 😂 all he wants to do is what you want to do. It’s a formula honey, but you’ll get there.
People have different opinions, different views on life, and expectations. Just because people don’t have the same views as Bri doesn’t mean they should write rude comments
Bri, at the end of the day you are doing what makes you happy. In your vlogs, your personality shows. There’s more to you than just your beauty. You know what you want and deserve, and you’re learning what isn’t meant for you. And that is okay.
If people don’t agree with what someone else says, it’s easy to just NOT say anything.
Yes girl. I completely understand. Like can we really have it all😂 some of them with money want to explore their options continuously.
I’m so confused..why would accept thousands of dollars off a man you have no intentions of being in a relationship with
Lol because she's an empty gold-digger
I got 11 mins in and when you started talking about the money I had to log off to keep my mouth shut 😭 i seriously hope you find a great man one day who meets your needs! Until then live your life ❤
A man that just throws money at you doesn't actually like you. A man that wants a life with you will not hand you money like a hooker. He will give you presents of course but courtship is not throwing money at a girl. And a man with real money doesn't flash it around. He wants you to love him for him. He might not even let on that he has that much money.
I can definitely relate. Dating men at a different level in life and hoping they will settle down and “pick / want you” but getting hit with nothing be excuses …
Live your life! Don’t pay attention to those negative people they’re most likely just envious. As you’ve already learned the gifts and trips are all temporary so just be safe and enjoy it while it lasts. People are going to judge you no matter what you do, so try not to give it too much attention. I really appreciate your transparency and this different style of video. Take care. ❤
Love that you’ve been authentic and speaking your truth regardless of the unwarranted criticism!
There’s men out there that will spoil you and treat you the way you want, don’t feel like you need to settle for anything.
When did I say I settled or I’m settling ?
I really love how you came on here and kind of just laid it all out and I am almost 37 years old I’m married and I have a baby and I am so happy but that being said I do wish when I was younger I had gotten the chance to be spoiled. I really love this for you! I saw in a comment that you said your fans want you to be more relatable so then you try to give us a piece of you, but then people still look at it negatively the issue is you are never going to be relatable because there’s a small amount of people that has access to the finer things in life I watch you because I’m living vicariously through you and I fucking love this for you keep living your soft life and I do hope you find a man with money that spoils you that also wants to wife you up and have a child with you fingers crossed girl.
This means a lot babe! Thank you 🤍 and thank you for continuing to support me 🤍
Y’all are horrible in these comments. This why she never tell y’all nothing. People are allowed to grow and come to a realization of themselves. Dang
It’s okay to be at this headspace,when the brain gets wired to a certain thing or routine, it gets hard for the brain to rewire itself. It takes time and conscious effort to do so. The fact that you are aware of what you want and being aware of not being used to certain things is great. Also for a good life partner, praying about it is really the best because at the end of the day, God sees you heart and pulls the strings together according to your request and what he knows is best for you. So when In doubt, pray about it and girl live your life and just block out the bad comments and rumours because at the end of the day, no one knows you like you do
First of all beauty is more than the surface things,a person can be beautiful on the outside and so ugly,dead,gullible and shallow on the inside until the surface shit don't matter honestly...people should want someone that speaks to their Spirit and their mental as well as their overall being.
Appreciate people’s transparency about their experiences with out coming at them for speaking on THEIR experiences. She’s not delusional to the fact it’s not ideal in the long term she’s just sharing her experiences. I would love to see the Rolodex of mistakes you guys have made the way you are condemning her. People ask questions and then get mad when they give you the real answer. What did you want her to say that she’s celibate and courting? Just appreciate the content and transparency and keep it moving. This is why people don’t like to be honest on social media.
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Love this chitchat types of videos. Nothing wrong with being vulnerable. We all need that you look gorgeous as always. 🫶🏼
I honestly think you know what you want, but you’re still young. Live your life! Remember, he who finds a good thing finds a wife. Give yourself grace ✨
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That’s my type, too! I’m willing to reconsider a few things- financial freedom is not one LOL
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Such beautiful girl and I believe that God will give you the desires of your heart! One thing I’ve learned is to pray for God’s will to be done in your life and pray for the desires of your heart to align with His will. Since he only has to prosper you and not harm you…it’s a win win regardless! ❤️
Reading this comment makes me realise how negative y'all are she just share her experience and want she wants for herself keep yourself busy and stop hating.
Coming back to the video, I understand her point on everything. I love the fact that she admit her past and try to move forward and i really hope that you will find the perfect man for you to settle down i feel like maybe if you really keep focusing on god you will find the answer soon.
Just surround yourself to positive and good vibes and everything going to work out soon.❤
You should do more videos like this it's so refreshing sharing your experience (not the depths) but how you started CZcams, some mistakes that you make before etc can help a lot ❤
When it comes to relationships it is so so much to unpack. me and my friends have healthy pow wow sessions it's been very helpful.
she’s so arrogant. All she did was brag in this video
I am the most humble person, this isn’t even HALF of the the things y’all don’t see. So how was I bragging by trying to be transparent and more open with you guys bc dating has such a full spectrum and I was sharing mine bc I know some could relate. and of course I get hate. It’s never enough 😂 and how am I arrogant?
I think she’s just intimidated by your confidence honestly, maybe it was because you said you were beautiful? You are gorgeous and this video was very vulnerable! Someone’s always gonna have something to say, like their so perfect it’s crazy, lmao just do you.
you want to see a change then you be the change because the mindset you have in this videos will keep you where you are. Somebody special will come for you in God’s timing 😊
@@aaliyahxoox😂😂😂 okay love. I’m just as beautiful though 😅
You are beautiful, but you’re not perfect so sitting up here calling some one arrogant when you don’t know them and they’re being vulnerable isn’t beautiful babes, that’s why people don’t tell y’all sh*t now😩 she wasn’t bragging she was literally just explaining her preference and how dating has been for her and how she wants to switch and all you got was she’s arrogant..
My question is how can you want to change up your type or leave the industry men alone and you got a industry man’s name tattooed on your wrist? So what was that for? To change him?
What industry man?
Whew chile. Lipstick Alley has entered the chat 😂
Yall eating this girl up💯
You do not have to explain yourself to real ones, we appreciate the transparency. Love me a girl talk. It’s always the girls hating from OUTSIDE the club with the most to say. Live life. Bri, when I come to Atl you gonna have to show me a good time, you my type of girl 🫶🏾
Y'all think marriage is a joke or you think you gonna be young and hot forever 🤔. 20 years ago everybody was a young boy or girl, today you are man or woman so ask yourself where did the time go. Same 20 years ago there were handsome dudes and hot girls then but where are they now, they all aged up. Life is a cycle be smart a make right choices.
Do more of these chit chats we love the vulnerability it is very relatable 💙
ENJOY YOUR LIFE the way YOU see fit. Whatever you decide to do, YOU have to live with.
Just enjoy your life. Keep YOUR BUSINESS to yourself 💯💯. You grown.
Some of y’all missing the point. This is extremely valid. It’s a preference a good one at that
The jealousy of some women commenting on her being vulnerable is just sad. Bri don’t listen to them and keep doing you boo!
How do you keep a man with money ? It seems like you can attract them but can’t get them to put a ring on it … Remember a man controls who gets married and a women control who comes into the world.
Who said I can’t keep them, did you think my I didn’t want to keep them anymore?
And who told you a man controls who he marries like what?? It has to be mutual lol y’all are insane 😂
@@BrianaMoniquexo No offense at all, but I think you're in denial. You're projecting your insecurities in your responses to the people in these comments. You know the truth that a lot of us are saying, but are too afraid to face it right now because like you said in the video, you enjoy the finer things in life and you still want to be a part of the "in crowd." You need to re-evaluate yourself and really humble yourself because your conceited attitude is extremely off-putting. Yeah, you're pretty but beauty fades and there will always be someone prettier, younger, and smarter than you.
@@BrianaMoniquexo if you could keep them then bring them this video wouldn’t be public🤭
@@BrianaMoniquexo men definitely control marriage. You have a lot to learn. A simp might marry you by your req but a real man with substance will not. It will always be his decision first to marry you!
Idk ab those other hatin people that still watch you but I watch you because I love your personality and your lifestyle and I get so inspired!!
Girl so much concealer yet still so flawless beautiful. Love the conversation it’s real. Everyone has their own story and life experiences. Enjoy ALL the luxuries and experience. You will know when you find true love. It will be undeniable.
it’s okay to not have everything figured out right now, life is meant to experience things good and bad. the best thing to do when you’re unsure of what you want is to take it day by day ✨
And I’m taking it day by day. You always going to watch me, ily 🫶🏽
I've learned that people feel better about themselves when they come up with something negative about someone else. Influencers are such an easy target for negativity, even those of us who aren't on social media. Stay prayed up🙌🏾
I’m hereeeeeee for this videoooooo, alllll of it! You low key went off on your haters!
Keep being polite and humble Bri, that’s the difference. This is why you live the soft life, you deserve it all! ❤
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My favorite YT girly for sure. You’re so humble I love it. I live through you, keep being you. Don’t pay the haters any attention. You have genuine supporters like me, who love your content. You’re so different to me, not a clout chaser, very much classy & successful.
Awe it kinda mad me sad when you said you like bad boys and good guys are corny 😢 lol. I just love me a good ol sweet guy and married one. I hope you find what your looking for but the guys you are attracted to don't seem like marriage or husband material. No rush, keep enjoying like 😊
Thank you for your honesty and transparency. You’re enjoying life and keep enjoying it. I’ve always dated men with money and provided for me and theirs nothing wrong with that. Everyone is always so quick to judge. We are who we attract. When your ready to settle down you’ll know, Trust God☺️
I LOVE this video! I applaud you for your honesty and wish more women had standards and required a certain level of stability from the men they date. There is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with a woman being spoiled, taken care of and treated with the best ( emotional, physical and material). This does not mean you're with a man ONLY for money, but why would you want to be with a broke man? A real man wouldn't even entertain a relationship until he was financially secure to provide for him and whomever he pursues. Thank you for sharing Bri! I pray you get the desires of your heart because YOU DESERVE IT!
Everyone has a life that they choose, your decision determines your outcome in life!!! But I just have a question where is Kayla? Haven’t seen you and your friend in awhile?????
I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting to date someone with financial stability. That's something any mature person would want. I haven't dated men on the level that you speak of so I can't speak of it from personal experience. But even men that aren't extremely wealthy and work 9-5 are financially stable and great partners. There's nothing wrong with either as long as you feel okay with your decisions at the end of the day and it isn't making you feel like you are missing out on something. You can definitely find your type that will give you want you want outside the material goods. I can't wait to see you get that! I want to see the wifey, one day mommy vibes bri bri!! and speaking to being ready for the guys that aren't your type, I feel like we all go through this! I've tried dating guys that ARE NOT my type because they were the ones that were serious. but in the end I couldn't get myself to like them. like seriously rolling my eyes and getting the ick. I would say check your heart and spirit and see what is conflicting. These men don't come with thrills and gimmicks but you will have more balance and sustained peace.
I love the transparency thank you for this... unapologetically
Im proud if your elevation Bri! Its a process learning your “type” and what floats your boat! Take your time and use Gods discernment and be obedient he will guide your steps! In the meantime, have fun and do what brings you joy! ❤
This comment section has been beautiful and I love the way Bri has received advice from ya'll. I won't add anything at all because ya'll have already spoke well. I'm happy to see women support women like this and being honest, Bri I'm proud of you for listening. I know you're taking notes. You're a child of God and children of God are coachable. Keep it up sweety. You're doing well.
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Whew! Bri you did this! I love that you’re blessing us with this realness , some of us really appreciate it. We are all living and learning. And in a perfect world, it would be without judgment but whatever. You’ll figure it out!
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You say you don’t want to be defined a certain way because of your friends and who u hang out with. But being realistic in this world ppl will judge u on how ur crowd is. So men who r approaching u are based on what they see and not know .
I came to the comments to see what people would say because this can be a very controversial topic, I don't think there is anything wrong in having a preference and holding yourself to a higher standard. It's ok to accept things from people if they genuinely want to just see you smile. Especially if you made it very clear to them the type of person you are. As long as both parties' intentions are clear and genuine I don't see a problem.
SPRINKLE SPRINKLE!!!
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Shera will teach us l0l ❣️💡
Not us all gathering on CZcams on a Friday night lol 💕💕💕
Yesss we are 😂❤
Hey girl, fellow Scorpio here🦂 I appreciate your openness & honesty. I can tell you get a little timid about certain topics & I can understand why b/c we’ve seen people become so quick to judge or place a label on you. But the girls who get it, get it. (And even if you did want to do sum strange for a piece of change that’s your business tf.) You’re young, smart & beautiful. Live your life as you see fit. Keep going & keep learning. Be safe. Sending love & light your way. ❤️💖
A lot of the time the men who are willing to just drop stacks on women they don't really know don't want to settle down. Why would they, they can drop a couple stacks and have their pick and switch of women. So if they are quick to just drop stacks without really knowing you 🚩. BUT if you are not ready for a serious relationship either then do you boo and get what you can get.
This video is so Scorpio coded, I feel you so much!!
I absolutely love your makeup. You always give natural sun kiss glow. I believe you will always attract the right person for you at the right time. Timing is everything! You deserve everything your heart desires. Make a vision board for the type of husband you desire to attract. He will come and you won’t have to compromise anything. ❤️