Sexual Addiction Recovery Couples Testimony
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- čas přidán 12. 09. 2024
- Hear from a military couple how isolation fed his sexual addiction. And his affairs and distance affected his wife.
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Thank you for sharing your story. I pray God can heal my marriage, too. I feel so alone all of the time and most of the time I just feel like I can’t take another step or get knocked down even one more time. I pray for my husband to choose me over his pornography addiction, and that this pain of something that the world thinks is perfectly okay will not be the end of me and our marriage. I’m so scared all of the time. I don’t know if I am going to make it. I really don’t think he even cares. I just feel so cast aside and insignificant to him, and like such a burden on the whole world. Please pray for God to help my marriage. Please pray that his desire to choose every other woman in the world over me will somehow stop and be healed, and that he will eventually choose me instead of everyone else. I know some people might not think pornography addiction is a serious thing, but it has torn down every single part of my whole life, piece by piece, and I have no control over when or if he will stop it. He always says the same thing. That he’s sorry and that it is different now, and that he promises he loves only me. All I can imagine is that his secret life is so much worse than all I have found out so far. So many lies, and so many awful addictions that make me feel completely and utterly worthless as a wife. I need God to heal me and my husband, and for me to somehow not always be at the mercy of my husband’s mood swings from day to day. I wake up every day not knowing if today will be a good day or a bad day, and usually he thinks it is my fault. Maybe it is. I don’t know how to feel like I belong in my own marriage, and I have held on for fourteen very, very, VERY hard years, but I still hold out hope that maybe this time is different. Maybe some time he will stop, if he ever finally wakes up and realizes he had a real, live wife here the entire time who never stopped loving him and always wanted the best for him. I just really miss so many things that don’t exist anymore in our relationship; mainly the feeling that I can ever feel loved again by him. I hate that my self worth is built up on someone who doesn’t want to do anything but lie to me and tell me what he thinks I want to hear just to get me off of his back, but that would be the truth. I truly don’t know what to do. We wanted to have a baby and I am getting way too old, and I’m scared for the kind of father/example he might be to our child. It feels like I am always going to be so trapped here, just like I have been for the past fourteen years. Thank you in advance for praying.
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Meg and Shannon your story has touched me. God bless the both of you and your marriage. Keep sharing!
This testimony has touched my heart and soul deeply. It was indeed a word I needed to hear in this very moment. Thank you for your transparency and for allowing God to use you in such an incredible way. 🙏🏾
Please pray for me and my wife Ann not to go through with divorcing me. I do not want a divorce. May God heal her heart and mind. Beauty from ashes
Everything happens for a reason man. Itll be alright
Celebrate Recovery and the Conquer Series have helped me recover from several addictions and save my marriage. Great testimonies from both of you.
THX for sharing. IF ONLY we would all just obey GOD: Sex is for the
Married Couple without exception.
We as a society need to Wake-up &
Repent & Pray for & Protect all marriages. Amen
This was great, thank you both for sharing! That's a huge step to talk about this subject! Definitely helped me!
I have only 2byears and 6 months married and u can't stand anymore my gusband addiction...i feel so hurtful..he keep repeating the same thing over and over..it has been fourth time i firgave him and later i found out he is still on that...i just want to divorce him and run away from him...that kind if addiction is so harmful...i love him but i have felt used, humiliated that sometime i have thought to take my life, but the God's mercy keep me alive fir my family..
why everybody blame their behaviour on their background, their parents, ... This is so sad. Doing so doesn't make recovery any easier. I know people who were hit hard by life but who aren't addicted to anything. Good People we are sinners by nature and we need God's grace. Understanding that is called repentance. Pride is written all over the face of this gentlemen. He doesn't matter how much he weeps.
Thank you.
Appreciate this! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Please don't be sorry for showing your emotions
Thank you for sharing. I'm interested in fanos
Shannon mentions THANOS (I think it's spelt) at about the 13:20 mark and says go look it up. Thanos is a MARVEL character. What is he talking about? I can find nothing about it through Google.
FANOS - Feelings:
Affirmations:
Needs:
Ownership:
Struggles/Sobriety:
I love you guys testimony one question I am asking is God still healing your marriage