If it's MEANT to be, you will eventually meet the RIGHT man someday---love doesn't have a time limit. Be yourself, love yourself, and live your life the way you want. I (5' tall Hmong female) never went looking for love---was too busy studying and living my college life---but love found me in the form of a 6'1" tall white guy who fell in love with my brain, personality, and looks (according to him). You never know when love will come into your life, so don't give up, and in the meantime, just live your life to the fullest---if it's meant to be, it will happen!
Wow koj yog ib tug ntxhais siab zoo tshaj li os.. koj twb tos tau nws tuaj cas koj tsis yuav nws kiag na.. licas los puam chawj thov kom koj nrhiav tau ibtus lis hlub2 koj nawd mog.. koj los rxhob xaiv2 es thiaj muaj tus hlub mog.. thaum tseem zoo li lub paj tshiab ces ktseem muaj tus ntshaw yus ces kav tsij yuav mog... tchob xyeej2 ma los
So happy for you sister. You don’t have to have a man to be happy. I did the same as u did too and i am so happy with my life. My son is 16 yrs old now. Being a mom is the best thing for me.
This was an empowering story, especially to all the sisters that are reaching their 30s as single woman. Even so, there are many ways to find happiness and I’m happy that you found yours ✨
Beautiful story! Thanks for sharing! I have a friend...she took the same route as yours because she has no man in her life. Her daughter is now 23 years old. My suggestion...please have one more child so your daughter is not alone...she deserves some siblings. I believe it's always better to have siblings, so they can share the responsibilities when it comes to long-term care for their parents.
Wow....beautiful story. You got the best heart & not married to your cousin, but give him a life in US. Having a child is the best blessing in life without a man. Soooo happy for you, sister! I'm similar, but with a husband to start my life. I had 2 beautiful children.
This is where you end up when you friend-zone all the decent guys. No man will do what he did for you if he didn't like you. He's probably too proud and self-dignified to beg you to like him.
Great story. God has a plan for your life. If you had married you would not have been able to help the young man. You have a kind and loving heart God will bring you a good man. Best wishes to you and your daughter.
Too bad how you have not experienced the intimate relationship between a man and a woman. It's not just because of children. I can't explain to you but you'll find out when you have one..
Good for you, my daughter is 32 and she was thinking about doing that. I told her I support her, whatever makes her happy. I’m glad you don’t do the hmoob xwm kab.
Great story but I feel like having a father figure would also be nice too even if you had everything in your life your still lacking other things in life too …and then your kids will be missing that piece in there life too so kinda sad
Awww....don't feel sad sister. I am very short and no guy likes me either. I still single too. However, unlike u, i am not that pretty and i am not successful like u. At my age, almost 40, i have accepted my fate and i am ok with not having someone anymore. We'll be fine. 💕
I agree. I mean, it's not wrong to have standards...however, I think this woman is too picky. No one is good enough for her... her "ideal" man does not exist... that is why she ends up disappointed time after time after time again... she said at the beginning that she was very small and short and was made fun of...people judged her because of her physical appearance. I'd think because she had experienced firsthand... how it felt like to be made fun of or judged... that she'd be less judgmental and look past the flaws of another...
I agree. I personally don't agree with this method because I believe having a father is very important in a household. I also felt that she was too picky.
My mom was telling me of this girl. She was too tired of seeing her brothers and nyabs arguing and sisters with their husband she didn't want to get married. She wanted a kid so she just went to a sperm bank and got pregnant that way. She said who needed a man to have a family and children.
Wow.... yog yuav tau 1 niag txiv phem2 ces ua li zaj neej neeg no xwb zoo heev lawm tab sis yog zoo li siab xav es yus xaiv tau qhov kom zoo2 ces yeej swb kiag muaj tus txiv os mog vim yawm saub yeej txim noob neej los nyob muaj khub.
That’s the wrong way to have a baby and NOT Gods way to have children. Conception is supposed to be btn a husband and wife inside a marriage. You don’t have a husband or marriage. Adopt instead. Btw, you did needed a man to have that baby 🤦♂️
Lub tswv yim no tsis zoo. Hmoob swb rog puag tuam tshoj Los txog rau xov tshoj Los vim poj niam tsis pab. Yog tseem muaj tej no thiab Mas ntshe txiv neej hmoob yuav tsawg zuj zus tuaj lau.
Tos koj ho tsis muaj hluas nraug nyiam Tham koj li Los vim tias koj muaj ntsis txa ntse zog lawm thiab koj khav theeb dhau lawm koj thiaj tsis muaj hluas nraug Tham koj ne lo hehehehe 😮😮😮
Koj xav luaj li lub ntuj tab sis qhov koj xav ntawv xu luaj li ib tug txiv heev nyuj thiab koj xav luaj li lub nriaj teb tab sis nws ho xu loj npaum li ib lub roob poj zeb. Koj tsis yog neeg loj siab ces koj txhob ua npau suav tau ib tug hluas nraug los yog txiv loj siab li koj qhov koj xav ntawv ib zaug. Txawv koj ho tau los tus txiv no yuav tsis hlub koj txog hnub laus dua.
Thaum twg koj tseem siv nyob lub neej tiam 22 lawm na. hahahha... Tiam 21 tag rau xyoo 2099 mas mam txog tiam 22 os tus me niam tsev. 😁😆🤣 Txhob tu siab rau koj qhov height vim yus yog neeg qig taub os nawb. Qhov qig taub yog kev ntshaw xwb nws yog nyob ntawm yus lub peev xwm thiab kev ntse xwb os nawb.
Kuv xav tias zoo li koj tham mas yav tas los zoo li puas yog koj tsis tau mag ib qaus li sub? Thiab qhov kuv xav mas ntshe yuav yog li koj tsis pub man ua koj li puas yog? Los yog koj yeej ua ua txiv neej lawm tiam sis koj tsis yuav los yog luag tsis yuav koj?
Tiam 22 nov nej cov poj niam tsis need Txiv neej lawm vim tias nej cov poj niam nej siv QAUS Yas los tsoob nej lub qhov pim lawm xwb thiab nej mus tsoob Dub tsoob Mev lawm that's why almost Hmong women have been divorced 75% but shameful for lost your own life and your family
Hmoob awwws! Leejtwg nim Hais nej tias no Yog tiam 22 Lawm na?? You should not say things like that without knowing It will still be 21st century for a long time yet from what I understand!! It will be 21st century until December in the year 2100 😂
Ntuj os ml hluas nkauj,koj txawm me2 thiab qig taub los koj twb txawj2 hais lus ne yuad, yog kuv yuav tau koj los ua kuv tus poj niam mas ntshe kuv yuav coj koj mus da dej txhua2 hmo li tus mi nyuam mos ab es mam coj mus puag pw xwb tiag......
Me ntxhais aw! Koj zoo tsis txawv li ib tug ntxhais uas muaj me nyuam tsaub qab ke xwb os. Rau qhov tsis muaj txiv yug ces yog me nyuam 18 xeem xwb tiag lau.
Wow the guy from Laos is so lucky to have meet you. You are such a kind heart person.
Peb cov me ntxhais hmoob mekas mas siab zoo tshaj plaws li lau,. Me ntxhais aw....koj siab zoo2 li es thov kom koj nrhiav tau 1 tug txiv zoo raws koj siab nyiam thiab hlub2 koj nawb mog, yus ua qhov zoo lawm ces vaj tswv yawm saub yeej foom txoj hmoo zoo rau yus xwb nawb mog.
Tsis tau yog tiam 22 vim tseem tshuav 76 xyoo thiab 1 hnub mam txog tiam 22. One century (1 tiam) is 100 years.
I am a Hmong-American man who always supports gender and racial equality and diversity
If it's MEANT to be, you will eventually meet the RIGHT man someday---love doesn't have a time limit. Be yourself, love yourself, and live your life the way you want. I (5' tall Hmong female) never went looking for love---was too busy studying and living my college life---but love found me in the form of a 6'1" tall white guy who fell in love with my brain, personality, and looks (according to him). You never know when love will come into your life, so don't give up, and in the meantime, just live your life to the fullest---if it's meant to be, it will happen!
Wow koj yog ib tug ntxhais siab zoo tshaj li os.. koj twb tos tau nws tuaj cas koj tsis yuav nws kiag na.. licas los puam chawj thov kom koj nrhiav tau ibtus lis hlub2 koj nawd mog.. koj los rxhob xaiv2 es thiaj muaj tus hlub mog.. thaum tseem zoo li lub paj tshiab ces ktseem muaj tus ntshaw yus ces kav tsij yuav mog... tchob xyeej2 ma los
Thank you for sharing! What a wonderful story.
I am very proud of you that you tos tau ib tug tub Hmoob tuaj ua neej rau tebchaws no os.
I actually like this story! Very brave and smart lady. I love strong woman like you. If you're reading this I love your story
So happy for you sister. You don’t have to have a man to be happy. I did the same as u did too and i am so happy with my life. My son is 16 yrs old now. Being a mom is the best thing for me.
You're lying to yourself and will never be happy without a man. Don't give up... Good men are out there.
Zoo heev le os txiv neej sab phem2 le ua le koj ua mas ua tau lub neej kaaj sab dua le os
I love the way how you said “you know what, I don’t need a man to start a family.”
Amen to you sister.
This was an empowering story, especially to all the sisters that are reaching their 30s as single woman. Even so, there are many ways to find happiness and I’m happy that you found yours ✨
Koj yog ib tug me ntxhais siab zoo kawg li os me ntxhais aw
Vajtswv foom koob hmoov rau koj nawb mog
Nkauj Hli…kuv pab koj zoo saib kawg nkaus li….Nyobzoo rau neb ob niam tub os might…:))
Thanks for sharing ☺️ maybe I should do the same. No drama with men and peaceful life
I'm proud of you and your choices.
Beautiful story! Thanks for sharing!
I have a friend...she took the same route as yours because she has no man in her life. Her daughter is now 23 years old.
My suggestion...please have one more child so your daughter is not alone...she deserves some siblings. I believe it's always better to have siblings, so they can share the responsibilities when it comes to long-term care for their parents.
Wow what a beautiful story. Love this head strong brave young lady. So proud of you
Good story. Thank you for sharing. Hais tau zoo kawg.
Great story . There many women who have husband but do all the work by there self. Women power. ❤DONT NEED A HUSBAND LIKE YOU SAY.
Wow....beautiful story. You got the best heart & not married to your cousin, but give him a life in US. Having a child is the best blessing in life without a man. Soooo happy for you, sister! I'm similar, but with a husband to start my life. I had 2 beautiful children.
Zoo heev li os tus me ntxhais aw !! Li ko thiaj li yog 1 tug ntxhais muaj peev xwm ua txhua yam lawm tiag lau !!
Me ntxhais siab zoo ua ca kuv yuav hlub koj ualuaj koj yog ibtug me ntxhais zoozoo nkauj es tsi txhob tus siab mog koj zoo siab rau qhov VAJTSWV Pub koj txawj ntse pub koj muaj peevxwm ua tau qhov zoo koj cialis zoo siab mog.
I guess you first person do that.. good for u...it good ideas too..thank u
Thank u for sharing your story. Your story has inspired me to want to go the same route as u too.
You have everything! Love will come in time, don’t worry you have your whole life to enjoy!
You don’t need a man. You will meet your soulmate one day, as long you have education and have money! Value your self and be happy!
Wow amazing story!
Kuv twb muaj ib tug viv ncaus Ua li ko thiab. Nws Yog hmoob.
This is where you end up when you friend-zone all the decent guys. No man will do what he did for you if he didn't like you. He's probably too proud and self-dignified to beg you to like him.
It is a different story of all and an amazing choice. Thanks for sharing. You're a strong woman ❤
Awesome story! Yes it’s ok you don’t need to have a husband to have kids. It’s probably less headache and heartache for you. I’m very happy for you.
Wow ! Thov qhuas koj os tus me ntxhais koj yog ib tus uas muaj peev xwm tiag2 !!
Wow. Zoo heev ❤
Great story. God has a plan for your life. If you had married you would not have been able to help the young man. You have a kind and loving heart God will bring you a good man. Best wishes to you and your daughter.
Proud of you! It's very inspiring.
Too bad how you have not experienced the intimate relationship between a man and a woman.
It's not just because of children.
I can't explain to you but you'll find out when you have one..
Fantastic story. You GO GIRL!!
Happy for you! It is a very different story. Your man hasn’t come yet.
Wonderful story sister. Thanks for sharing!😊
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I am so proud of you!
Zoo kawg li .
Txhob maj2 nrhiav txiv tsam yuam kev
Kav tsij yug 1 tug ntxiv nawb mr niam hluas aw
Go ahead have 1 more baby
My favorite one too
That's right single is better and free..😊
Good for you, my daughter is 32 and she was thinking about doing that. I told her
I support her, whatever makes her happy. I’m glad you don’t do the hmoob xwm kab.
Proud of you 👏👏👏
Bravo to you sister!!!!
Yog kuv muaj nyiaj li koj Los kuv yeej xaiv ib yam li ko thiab. ♥️
Great story but I feel like having a father figure would also be nice too even if you had everything in your life your still lacking other things in life too …and then your kids will be missing that piece in there life too so kinda sad
Very interesting story. So proud of you me ntxhais.
Very beautiful story ❤❤❤❤❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉zoo kawg nrog koj zoo siab os.ua rau koj muab koj zaj no tuaj tham ua kev kawm rau sawv dawg
Maybe i need to recommend this to my 2 daughters....they are over 30 and still virgin
Im sure they have alots of toys in the closet already...
❤❤❤ proud of you ..
Awww....don't feel sad sister. I am very short and no guy likes me either. I still single too. However, unlike u, i am not that pretty and i am not successful like u. At my age, almost 40, i have accepted my fate and i am ok with not having someone anymore. We'll be fine. 💕
Tsis yuav txiv Hmoob xwb Txiv mev Txiv dub poj niam Hmoob ntxhais Hmoob tsoob tuag nthi
Love the story
You're just too picky, it's not because you can't find a boyfriend, your standard is too high and you expect too much
I agree. I mean, it's not wrong to have standards...however, I think this woman is too picky. No one is good enough for her... her "ideal" man does not exist... that is why she ends up disappointed time after time after time again... she said at the beginning that she was very small and short and was made fun of...people judged her because of her physical appearance. I'd think because she had experienced firsthand... how it felt like to be made fun of or judged... that she'd be less judgmental and look past the flaws of another...
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You just now, I knew this for a long time ...if you don't need love from man then do like you did.
I agree. I personally don't agree with this method because I believe having a father is very important in a household. I also felt that she was too picky.
Bit it's not tiam 22 yet it's only tiam 21st lol
My mom was telling me of this girl. She was too tired of seeing her brothers and nyabs arguing and sisters with their husband she didn't want to get married. She wanted a kid so she just went to a sperm bank and got pregnant that way. She said who needed a man to have a family and children.
I'm thinking of doing that too.
Tiam 22 ces peb txhua tus no tsis muaj sia nyob tag lawm os ces tsis matter.
Wow.... yog yuav tau 1 niag txiv phem2 ces ua li zaj neej neeg no xwb zoo heev lawm tab sis yog zoo li siab xav es yus xaiv tau qhov kom zoo2 ces yeej swb kiag muaj tus txiv os mog vim yawm saub yeej txim noob neej los nyob muaj khub.
That’s the wrong way to have a baby and NOT Gods way to have children. Conception is supposed to be btn a husband and wife inside a marriage. You don’t have a husband or marriage. Adopt instead. Btw, you did needed a man to have that baby 🤦♂️
Lub tswv yim no tsis zoo. Hmoob swb rog puag tuam tshoj Los txog rau xov tshoj Los vim poj niam tsis pab. Yog tseem muaj tej no thiab Mas ntshe txiv neej hmoob yuav tsawg zuj zus tuaj lau.
Koj hu tsis tau tias koj yog ntxhais hmoob, koj yog ntxhais meskas vim koj txiv yog meskas, hos tsis li ces koj yog ntxhais tsuam tsoov xwb.
Yuav ua li cas los tau tab sis kom nej nco ntsoov tias caj ces no os mog nco ntsoov li ntawd
Koj puas xav tau ib tus tub ?
Cov puj tsis need txiv neej, yog cov sob thawj. Cov yawg tsis need puj, yog cov sob keeb! Txaus tu siab 😢😂
Tsis yog tiam 22. Tseem yog tiam 21 xwb. Tiam 21 yog txhais haistias: tiam 2100 xyoo los sis hais tias: tiam ob txhiab ib puas xyoo.
You are an educated woman
But why you keep thinking
This is tiam 22 ????
It is still 21st century!
Cas nej tsis yoog meskas dawb ib qho kiag li.
😂 tsis need txiv neej no yog los ntawm kev chim siab xwb. Tsis muaj sense ....txiv neej, pojniam los tseem tsuav cov zoo.
Title : cov txiv neej phem muab ncawx tawm
Tos koj ho tsis muaj hluas nraug nyiam Tham koj li Los vim tias koj muaj ntsis txa ntse zog lawm thiab koj khav theeb dhau lawm koj thiaj tsis muaj hluas nraug Tham koj ne lo hehehehe 😮😮😮
Koj xav luaj li lub ntuj tab sis qhov koj xav ntawv xu luaj li ib tug txiv heev nyuj thiab koj xav luaj li lub nriaj teb tab sis nws ho xu loj npaum li ib lub roob poj zeb. Koj tsis yog neeg loj siab ces koj txhob ua npau suav tau ib tug hluas nraug los yog txiv loj siab li koj qhov koj xav ntawv ib zaug. Txawv koj ho tau los tus txiv no yuav tsis hlub koj txog hnub laus dua.
Hmonggremark2686, ua li cas koj haus tau tu siab ua luaj. Yuav hais rau peb cov neeg tsis siab tu siab tag.
Thaum twg koj tseem siv nyob lub neej tiam 22 lawm na. hahahha... Tiam 21 tag rau xyoo 2099 mas mam txog tiam 22 os tus me niam tsev. 😁😆🤣 Txhob tu siab rau koj qhov height vim yus yog neeg qig taub os nawb. Qhov qig taub yog kev ntshaw xwb nws yog nyob ntawm yus lub peev xwm thiab kev ntse xwb os nawb.
Kuv xav tias zoo li koj tham mas yav tas los zoo li puas yog koj tsis tau mag ib qaus li sub? Thiab qhov kuv xav mas ntshe yuav yog li koj tsis pub man ua koj li puas yog? Los yog koj yeej ua ua txiv neej lawm tiam sis koj tsis yuav los yog luag tsis yuav koj?
Es yog li ntawv es niag me nyuam yuav muab leej tug hu ua txiv no mas
Tiam 22 nov nej cov poj niam tsis need Txiv neej lawm vim tias nej cov poj niam nej siv QAUS Yas los tsoob nej lub qhov pim lawm xwb thiab nej mus tsoob Dub tsoob Mev lawm that's why almost Hmong women have been divorced 75% but shameful for lost your own life and your family
Hmoob awwws! Leejtwg nim
Hais nej tias no Yog tiam 22
Lawm na??
You should not say things like that without knowing
It will still be 21st century
for a long time yet
from what I understand!!
It will be 21st century until
December in the year 2100 😂
Ntuj os ml hluas nkauj,koj txawm me2 thiab qig taub los koj twb txawj2 hais lus ne yuad, yog kuv yuav tau koj los ua kuv tus poj
niam mas ntshe kuv yuav coj koj mus da dej txhua2 hmo li tus mi nyuam mos ab es mam coj mus puag pw xwb tiag......
Me ntxhais aw! Koj zoo tsis txawv li ib tug ntxhais uas muaj me nyuam tsaub qab ke xwb os. Rau qhov tsis muaj txiv yug ces yog me nyuam 18 xeem xwb tiag lau.
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