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Cheer up Sis! You do everything to make them babies happy! I'm sure it is hard for Dejah. First year in high school,new state,I really thought it would be harder for Yanna since she's a senior,but Dejah is smart, cute,and funny so its hard to tell she's sad,we just see a fun time from you guys! Maybe spend some one on one time to talk,lunch,walk together with out the camera just you two to see how Dejah is feeling ,and what can be done to help! I just did the same with my 7th grader, and decided to enroll her in a online charter school. Like you JaVonne I want what's best, and to see my baby happy! I don't know if that's what right for you but you are close with your girls,so I'm sure you'll be able to sort things out because home is wherever your family is ,and yours is a beautiful one! You are doing a great job never doubt it! Dejah,you're a talented pretty, smart young woman!! You are also strong black woman in training, some days are harder than others but never forget that YOU ARE BLESSED, to have both of your parents alive,and healthy sisters,and brothers who love you,family is sooo important!! You have a pretty home, clothes, your own room, a highly successful channel, you are a self made business woman already, what in the world should you be sad about? Baby girl get up, look in the mirror,and tell GOD THANK YOU FATHER FOR EVERYTHING, cause he hook you up girl! be blessed family,see you on the next one!
She may have all that but just because you have everything and are blessed doesnt mean you cant be depressed.. People need to realise depression is a real thing.
I didn't at any point say that depression wasn't real! I went by what her Mom said that she didn't feel that's what is was! Im 41 years of age and seen a lot! I know mental illness is A REAL THING! In this blog here, Javonne said she"didn't didn't feel it was depression" so she must don't display signs of it! She seems to be homesick! And like I said its a lot on a girl if her age to have so many changes at such a crucial time in her life! I also mentioned maybe she should spend aome alone time with her daughter to get to the bottom of it! Im not a psychiatrist, just a mother of a teen girl who going through a lot worse than Dejah seems to be! I know a lot about depression, seen it right in my face! I just wanted to give a fellow parent some support if you don't mind!
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Hi, Iâm a silent watcher Iâve been here from the very beginning and Iâve been watching Dejah for the longest! Seeing the process of you and your familyâs move was very draining and exciting. Well, thatâs what I got from the vlogs. I have noticed a difference in Dejah since the move (Yes Iâm aware we donât know what happens off camera). But I just want to say depression doesnât mean you have to droop around and frown and never want to socialize all the time. Believe me, my older sister has Depression and she definitely has mood swings. She can go from this happy bubbly person to sad and closed off real quick. So Iâd just try to keep that in mind with Dejah. Iâm not saying she is depressed, but depression isnât always noticeable. Not only that, moving is a VERY hard process especially when youâve lived somewhere your entire life and you have to readjust. You are such an amazing mom and you are so open with your children and you talk to them so Iâm sure Dejah will be okay Iâd just try to stay more aware with her actionsâ¤ď¸
Depression can be hidden in many different ways please please donât underestimate it
Icey Mesha yes! I hide my emotions very well while deep down inside Iâm unhappy and miserable. The times to yourself is when you realize it all.
Icey Mesha yasssss.... omg!! I just said this:" DEPRESSION and ANXIETY is the second leadin cause of death, now days!"
She probably wast she probably knows her kid
honestly.
You can hide it. But not EVERYTHING is depression. People use that for multiple things like anxiety, or more than one problem.
Donât be upset, sheâs homesick. Maybe you can plan a trip back to Ohio , so she can see her friends.
I agree because it looks like she really is homesick
I agree with you to thats a really smart ideal destiny Robinson
Teachers still calling home in high school đ¤Śđžââď¸đđ i gotta side with dejah on this ( that anit it chief)
Stg my teachers do da same thing
I be like âtell my mom I said hiâ
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personally, I think you should take what dejah said about her being depressed more seriously. Just watching her tell her side of the story, you could see her eyes tearing up. That should be an indicator itself that something is going on instead of just writing it off as she's just being dramatic.
simon freela thatâs what I said and she said you can see dejah havenât been depressed well some of us are good with hiding it..Iâm sorry, not trying to pull the race card but everytime I see a African American female say sheâs depressed she gets called dramatic đ¤
Miss Bando I know you commented about this a year ago the reason behind that is black woman ( dark skin woman specifically) are depicted as strong (physically and mentally), independent so when we show any signs of âweaknessâ depression, suicidal tendencies, sadness ( negative emotions in general) we are told were being dramatic and to get over it because its not serious and or itâs all in our head. I hope this answered your question
Honestly, I think she just needs time to adjust. I was just like that when I moved away from my family and it was just me and my mom to a different state. Eventually, she will grow to be happier, just like I did. Iâm a new subscriber and Iâve been binge watching all of your videos lol, Sending love & positivity your way! â¤ď¸
Same. I was homesick for a while but it got better! Im still adjusting with all my friends and family in another state far away
You gotta realize that youâve spent the last half of your life, living and breathing to make sure that these 5 humans were happy... and you decide to do one thing that will make you happy. itâs ok to do stuff for yourself. It doesnât make you selfish, or a bad mom. it is probably really hard for deja to adjust rn but Florida is probably where sheâll go to college, meet some of her best friends, and even marry. Sheâll then be so thankful that you made the wonderful decision you did.
Suggest that you read Jeremiah 29:11
With deja. It may encourage her and reassure her that god has it all worked out. â¤ď¸â¤ď¸â¤ď¸â¤ď¸
Javonne with all due respect Dejah could be depressed. I am vary similar to dejah. Last year a big sudden environment change happened to me and I became so depressed missing people. But I never showed how sad I was to anyone my family thought I was happy and didnât see any big emotion change. But I would cry out of no where when I was alone. And was unhappy.
It will get better i moved from Ohio with 3 children years ago to Virginia, they were in elementary and middle school. They Thank me all the time now for moving it's hard in the beginning but it will get better they are all grown now and have really good careers. She will be fine it's Still new. I think leaving ohio was a good move because I'm from their if you want better we sometimes have to make those hard decisions for our children. I Thank God daily for my 2 grown adult sons not sure i would have had this turn out if i hadn't left. Don't feel guilty you are an awesome Mom and want what's best for them. đ
i meannn Dejah can be depressedđ¤ˇđžââď¸. she is a goofy person just like me, but i have depression & not everyone realizes it because iâm a goofy person. my family moved to Virginia the beginning of my sophomore year of high school & i fell apart. im a junior now & i still hate it
Madison Honesty I totally agree with you! I donât know why everyone hates VA tho. I love it lol
TheKerahaan Yeah I like VA too
Madison Honesty I live in va ! Iâm ig famous honestly it is what you make it .. and Iâve made the best out of out
Girllll I was born here and I hate vađ
same people think im not because im always happy
I understand how you feel..me and family just moved again and I still feel bad for taking them away from what they know...but sometimes we gotta do what's best for them..I think she will eventually get used to it and start loving Florida...prayers to you and to Dejah â¤
I know the feeling I miss my friends from back home but I know this move was for the better. My mom would usually send me some encouraging words thur out the day or weâll have mommy daughter time
Stay strong sis, these kids go thru growing pains wherever they are! We just gotta keep em our prayersđđ˝
It not your fault just make sure she doesn't come down with depression because I moved from New York to North Carolina . And away from all my family. When you asked her if she was depression and she told you, you should get her help because my mom said I wasn't depression but then it got bad. Some kids can hide there depression from there parents because we are afraid to tell you guys. But maybe you should plan a trip for you guys to go to Ohio for a week or weekend. Love you guys
You should do something where you bring out all of dejah's friends for like thanksgiving or Christmas break
Tiana Ross omg that would be so cute!
I wish the best for you and your beautiful family. You're an awesome mom. I'm a mom too & grandmom, I understand how you feel. Maybe have a one on one serious talk with your daughter. I'm not saying in no way at all that she's depressed. Keep in mind depression comes in so many different ways. Laughing & smiling for awhile & sad depressed the next. Maybe just have that talk just you and her just to be sure to absolutely rule it out. I pray for the best for her, you and your lovely family. Continued Blessings.đđ
Btw, try not to feel bad bc I'm sure when you moved, you weren't only thinking of yourself, I'm sure you were thinking of the best for your kids. xoxo
Why don't you homeschool her? I'm homeschooled and I've improved soo much ! You should definitely consider it.
I wanna be home schooled
Homeschooling has its negatives and positives.
Negatives: No social interaction, harder to get into colleges without any extra curricular like sports or band, and also a parent has to take out a lot of time to help the child with it and Javoone has to worry about her youtube channel too,
Positives:No teachers to nag at you
I think the negatives out weights the positives, trust me I know a bad teacher when I see one in on my second year at university but you just have to learn to deal with it because at the end of the day we will not always be comfortable in situations. My mother always told me to look at it as you will never have to take that teacher again once you finish. I hope all goes well for Dejah because freshman year can be a stressful time, And good luck to you in homeschooling. Sorry for the essay lol.
@@chuyh5247 not all homeschooling is like that re your negatives. My two children homeschool. It's online and i don't have to spend time with them. They have access to their teacher if they need help. No social interaction? My kids go sailing. There's also many other classes such as swimming, tennis, golf, basketball AND SO MUCH MORE that the children can do during school hours or after school as extracurricular.
@@laikahmom yeah but that is only if you have money to spend on it. Stuff like that isn't cheap. Most sports clubs cost more than 1500 dollars. Homeschooling isn't really practical for people who don't have money to spend on sports.
h0nneybun Not to be that one person but that is incorrect. They have FREE homeschool activities? What are you talking about?
I'm right there with you sis. We moved a year ago and the kids remind me every day how I took them from there friends. I try to tell them it's for better opportunity but they dont understand that and being the caring loving moms we are, it does get to us to see them like that. You hang in there, she will come around.
Iâm not pushing this on you but people can be depressed but still act fine around others. Iâm not sure how she acts usually but itâs just a thought
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Ja'Vonne. Thanks for sharing, this video with us. As a parent, myself. Every parent/parent's know their child. Am glad you are not in denial, what the Teacher said. As a Teacher myself. I been teaching for 30 plus year's. Started teaching in my early Twenties. I love what I do, and some of the student's in my class, talk to much, and some have attitudes. So am glad, you listen to both sides. Again as a parent/parent's we all want the very best for our children. You, and your husband are doing a wonderful job. The children have a beautiful home. Thanks again.
I know you love your kids and would do anything for them. Dejah is a teen and is going through things teens go through. Sure, moving is stressful and I know she misses her friends but I truly believe she would have ups and downs in Ohio as well. I know you and Cleveland will always be there for all of your kids and give them the support and encouragement they need. And I know your kids know how much they are loved. Dejah is going through an adjustment but life is full of those and she will be fine. đ
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Weren't you just in Shannon family matters live video toođ
*Yanna we need a big chop update*
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I recently move away from all my friends too for my freshman year and I always wanted to move back and I actually fell into depression but no one in my family noticed because I would try to hide all the crying and sadness from them so yea just because you canât see it doesnât mean itâs not happeningđ¤ˇââď¸ ly guys thoâ¤ď¸
I been refreshing my CZcams since you said you were posting a video on live.
awww poor dejah :( i 100% believe her and i know how she feels. i moved when i was 11 and i loved the city i lived so much, but i had to move because the schools were better there. i never wanted to go because i missed my friends so much, it's so much harder here because everyone is white and it's extremely hard since there's so much racism in my city. i luckily found great people there still, and I've lived here for almost four years now. i used to think that i was depressed as well once i moved to my new school, but i was beng dramatic. i really hope dejah gets better because i understand how she's feeling so much, i used to cry a lot because i hated my school so much, but i'm a freshman now like dejah and the high school i'm in now is much better than the middle school, and i became more confident and i feel like i can finally find my place now. love you javonne and dejah
I don't smoke or drink ethier. Just stay on top of deja Evonne. Just to make sure she's ok we lose so many over depression. We all want the best for our kids so I definitely understand oam gonna keep you all in my prayers. That's Santa bag is oh so cute OMG women o can't go a day without turtles.. Love you all.. Everyone have a blessed day...
Even though Dejah doesnât look so seem depressed when sheâs around you it doesnât mean sheâs not feeling depressed. Someone could seem like the happiest person in the world on the outside but end up being the ones to commit suicide. Now Iâm not saying itâs that extreme for Dejah but I dont think you should just write it off as her being dramatic. Try to get her to open up because most times the person is too afraid to say something.
It's hard to please our kids sometimes, I'm sure you understand her feelings but it's all apart of life is an adjustment. All yall had to adjust she will to and will be ok. Javonn you are a great mom and Dejah knows that. Heck we see that. Love yall great video.
Omg Itâs Spirit Week At My School To!! Great Video đđ
I felt the same when i moved schools. Itâs really hard to adjust to new things. And I was very depressed because of how lonely i felt. Thankfully that school year ended and i got to start fresh in middle school and Iâm so glad i moved because ive met some great people! It really just takes time.
I thoroughly enjoyed your little talk about parenting struggles. I think this is the first time I've ever seen you open up like that. It's very comforting because I am 37, with 6 kids, American but living in Bermuda and many times we thought about coming back home to the US. But, I want the best for my kids. I can relate to how you feel. I have a 16yr old and 13yr old who are homeschooled. It's not easy manoeuvring through life, trying to stay happy and keep those around you happy as well.
đ¸â¤ď¸đ¸â¤ď¸Hey girrrl!!!Things will get better...Just keep pushing your being a good parent to your children... Love â¤ď¸ u always!!Enjoy your evening!!!!
I love your family and it's show that's just because you put your life in front of people they still don't know everything about your life thank you for showing that
Aww I feel bad for dejah . Iâve been here long enough to know sheâs not the one to cry because of things so I felt really bad when you told us she was crying. But there are better days to come and things will get better I love you guys and stay strong javonneđ
We're chasing the a easy life....Great vlog keep them coming!!
I love when you post...helps me escape reality!
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Sometimes change can be hard to adjust too. stay encouraged y'all. đ
I love how she wants to keep her kids happy đ thatâs a true parentđđ
Well personally, I donât think Dejahâs being dramatic. Moving is hard and I know what sheâs feeling. Itâs hard to leave a place and people youâve known for big part of your life growing up.
Javonne itâs okay everything will be okay continue to do your thing ,God Bless đ
Just got out of school so Iâm mad excited â¤ď¸â¤ď¸
Youâre a great mom. Dejah will adjust with time; moving at the age is a little stressful. Love how open you are with your viewers â¤ď¸
Sheâs just growing up and dealing with being a girl/teenager. I remember when I was 14 I thought my life was sooooo hard....we live and learn. You just keep being an awesome mom â¤ď¸
You are a great mother!! Everything will adjust eventually. You do everything for your kids they have what they need . Iâm sorry you are sad & just know Iâm praying for everything to change đ I love you guys
Awww Dejahđ. I really do hope things get better for herâ¤ď¸. I really hate seeing people upset especially people I care about. As always , sending love your way! Love you all đ
Niyah is so well spoken!
In the latter part you sound muffley like youâve been crying.. HUGS*** Your doing the best you can with what you know!! She wonât be in school forever! I honestly look up to you, your so calm, cool & collective. Thatâs saying something!!!
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Please donât stress or overthink. Your doing a great job, keep up the amazing workđŞđžâ¤ď¸
You made the right decision! I love you soooo much! Dejah is going to eventually get use to the Floridian Pride!!! It just going to take some time for her to adjust! Iâm SUBCRIBED to ALL of you guys CZcamsâs and I absolutely enjoy all of the videos that are uploaded!đ!!! Keep your head up girl!! You got this!!
Wow Javonne it's refreshing to see a parent that cares and is concerned about how their kids feel when the adults make life changing decisions like moving... My folks would of just moved us and wouldn't have cared about friends or our adjustment to the new environment...I hope to have the type of understanding and open relationship with my son as he gets older that you have with your kids
Yooooooooo the fact that it was just meat on the sandwich and nun else had my deaaaddd bruh!đđ
My mom did the same thing with us. When I was just starting Middle and my older brother started HS. It was hard at first but we adjusted and we were better off bc of it. Sometimes change is good. It puts everyone in a different perspective. Iâm not saying where you were was bad but where we were was and I was so angry for the first year and my older brother was so angry that we left our cousins and friends but we all got over it and we love the South now. I know sheâll be fine. Itâll make your children closer even thought I feel like they are close now. It made a difference bc we experienced way more. đ love your family!
You made a great choice in a lovely home and nurturing environment for your family itâs normal for the kids to feel down especially with teachers it takes time to adjust and always remember they can visit their friends in the summer or friends can visit them.
You are an amazing loving mom much admired by your followers I never met you and I always look forward to watching the videos you all put out on CZcams.
May god bless and keep you whenâre you doubt yourself. đđ˝đđž
Niya is so cute she remind me of my niece she has so much energy and is always bring joy to everyone
You and your kids are an inspiration
Your vlogs are so refreshing đđ
i love my her so much she is a really sweet & outgoing person and I havenât even met her yet you have an amazing daughter,& I love how she loves to read books đĽ°đĽ°
I missed the live stream but Iâm here for this
I loved Niyaâs book review at the beginning. My 11 year old loves to read and I was talking to her about doing some.
I understand how youâre feeling about making decisions and making sure your babies are happy. I go back and forth with myself about rather moving was the right choice all the time, but it had opened up so many opportunities. đđ
Missed your live ughhh ,I'm here 4 you sis every thing will be okay Dej just still adjusting it will pass God bless you and family Love yall â¤đđ¤
Niyah is so SMART đ¤Š
One day at a time. Everything will work out. You are awesome so keep doing what you are doing. Blessings to you and the fam
Awww donât feel bad! I have very young kids and we been through some transitions and it wasnât easy for them but they got through it! so Imagine a teenager who is very hormonal... It will take time and she will be ok you are doing a good job with your children. Keep up the good work! I love your family vlogs â¤ď¸
You all are an amazing family..Dejah may just be homesick, I know itâs hard to get used to but she will eventually..Iâm praying for dejah and your family â¤ď¸đđ˝
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i lovvvvee niyah's hair and your kids are hilarious
Iâm not a mother or anything, but I know youâre just trying your best as a mother to make sure your kids receive the best education! My cousins who lived in Minnesota all her life had to move to California because of her the new job opportunity! We were all upset about it, and originally my cousins hated the new adjustments but about a year or two in, they began to love California! I suggest a one one with Dejah and figuring out how sheâs feeling and what it is she wants.
Im in my math class on a computer then my phone vibrated w/ the notifications ..I clicked on the videos so fast!!đđ
love ur vids you inspire me so much ur family is so funny and i watch all ur videos and they jus make me laugh so hard cuz yâall be sayin some funny stuff
Dejah with them stories I canât đđđđđđ
Aw dejah! Iâm a freshman too and all my friends went to a different highschool and itâs sooo hard to adjust, home itâs gets better for us.
Javonne you have good kids, and you and Cleveland are amazing parents. Moving is hard, especially for kids. Dejah is probably still adjusting, sheâs going to be ok! Sending you all some hugs!
Love yallđ
Niyah is so smart đđ!!!
Awwww the beginningggđđđ
I love your family every one is real. Some times we have our good days and bad days.
Sis it's going to be okay. You guys are so blessed.
Niah should start a book review channel and read books to CZcams and give reviews on it
La'Queen Slays OMG Thatâs a great idea⌠we should get your comment to the top
I can relate to what dejah going thru i felt the same way when i moved to a different place to live im still learning to get adjusting to it going take sometime but i think you will eventually like it i hope you feel better just think you have a great family that loves you and wants the best for you i know you didn't want to move sometimes you have do stuff you don't want to do i love you guys have a bless day btw im not make anyone feel bad cheer up -Taylorđ
Stay strong Dejah Iâm praying for you
I had never seen you so down before i wanted to just jump in the screen and give you a hug. Like frfr
Love how niyah can explain a story so well đ !
Just because dejah laughing and goofing off on camera doesnt mean she isnt depressed .. i cover up my depression by laughing all the time and it turned me suicidal... like cmon now i feel
Her . I moved to Georgia from ohio when i was 12 and i was so sad .. laughing one minute and cutting myself behinds closed doors.. ima pray for yall..
Exactly, I hate when people generalize what depression is, your not going to be walking around 24/7 sad its nothing like that. People knows how to mask it very well.
She not even depressed she said it on her yt channel
Jalyn Barber I was speaking on the generalization of what depression looks like, saying you know what depression looks like is completely false because I know people who are very outgoing and you would never know that they are depressed. I seen that she said she wasnât depressed so my comment wasnât in reference to Dejah, and I live with depression and no ones know that I have been diagnosed with depression.
You're such a good parentâ¤
Love your channelâ¤ď¸
aww. I wish you the best. Iâm sure time will make her grow accustomed to FL. You are the best, auntie đ
You a great mother to your kids
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That made me tear up when you was taking about dejah at the end i know what it feels like to leave all your friends behind it hurts but she will be ok
Its okay Dejah. Youâll get betterđ
Dejah's story relates to me because that's for real how teachers be I'm over here in Tampa fl I feel you dejah it will be ok love y'all đđ
Niyah should keep on doing those book reviewsđđ¤
You are AN AWESOMEEE MOM !! I see a lot of myself in Dejah because I talked a lot in class and was a class clown but I got my work done and my mom never really got upset about because my grades were excellent but just me talking in class .
Dejah has the full potential and personality to really blossom in FL she is such a cool kid, as a substitute teacher tho you really have to watch theses teachers because some of them really there for that check You'd be amazed at how many I've met.. A conference with the 3 or 4(Cleveland) of you would be great. It's the most uneasy feeling ever when your children display unhappiness. You're a great mom I'm sure u will figure it out. I pray Dejah finds her place in her new area. We love u Dejâ¤ď¸
I know how Dejaâs feeling. When my mom said that we were moving to Mississippi I was not having it. I had moved from my home town were all my friends were (Pennsylvania) then we were back and forth from north and South Carolina. And a lot of things happens between them that had me even more sad and mad. So I really wanted everything to go back to normal. Even tho I have close friends down here and kinda adjusted, I still wish I could go back to Pennsylvania. Even if itâs just to visit.