Listen to the man, be patient. Don’t force it if you or your partner is not ready. Truly loving someone is letting them walk away to figure out themselves and loving them with open arms when they come back
Beautifully said. I ran into my ex at church yesterday and he approached me and said he was so happy to see me and wished me a good day. I could tell he still has feelings for me by the way he was looking at me. Anyway, I had to leave, otherwise, I might have been late for work; he was in a rush as well. Later that night I felt like reaching out to him to see how he has been doing, but instead, I decided not to with the same sentiments in mind that you have written. He is trying to figure his life out, so I must show him love and let him be so that he may do so. If he comes back, and I pray to God he will, I will accept him with open arms. Thank you for sharing your comment. It was so helpful to me.
This is the hardest part I want my ex husband to take the time to figure out what he wants but it’s hard to be so patient. I’m even busy with our kids, in college again, and my work.
I bumped into my ex recently and my natural reaction was to pretend I didn't see them because they had not returned any of my messages which I shouldn't have been sending. I later regretted not smiling and saying hello and I would recommend someone at least do that even if they're not ready to talk to them again
You guys have helped me so much in my breakup recovery! I made some mistakes, of course, but its ok. Im currently 2 weeks into NC & RS. I miss my ex everyday, but i dont wanna get back with her, yet...if at all. I realized that her and i have a lot of growing to do on our own. Anyway, can you guys please make a video on how to not “lose yourself” in someone when youre with them? How to hold onto your own inner happiness and not lose it while you’re with another person? How to not lose the love you have for yourself while you’re with someone? When im single, im really happy, genuinely happy and satisfied and lovin’ myself. The problem is, i find myself losing some of that when i get into a relationship with someone else. So, if and when the relationship ends, it’s almost like i lost a part of that and i have to “re-find” it again and im not sure how to avoid that. Please advise. Thank you, my saviors!
I just realised something...we really living in a moment where we look to someone else always to "fix us" including myself....some of these life moments JUST HAVE TO BE LIVED..Good and bad...those which bring joy and sadness alike!
I love all the videos they really helped me wan by boyfriend didn't what me anymore and this videos really helped me knowing that I was going to be okay thank you all for helping man and woman
Found her in my yoga class. She was a nervous wreck after when I grabbed my stuff that was right next to hers. She reached out about 3 weeks later but it was not to reconnect so I asked her for space unless she wants to work on rebuilding something.
I bumped into my ex & spoke briefly for the first time in a year - She was quite receptive & we were a bit jokey & also said I liked her jumper and that I liked her and left
Hi , thank you coach Adrian , I've asked to make a video about running to an ex in many comments and here it is ,and that's great👍, but if i am not ready to meet her its a trap but you didn't explain how to act to get out of it safely, i hope there is further explaining .
I bumped into my ex, she stood there hanging around near me for ages, I just smiled and waved she did the same and i went back to my friends. When leaving she kept straing at me but I just left as In my opinion if you do get along your still thinking there is hope, which could be worse!!
It’s been 8 months. We communicate but he never was the one to reach out, only a couple of times. I havnt spoken to him in a month and he had something shipped to the apartment with his name on it. I reached out and told him. I ended up seeing him and he asked me “ how is my love life going”
My ex broke things off about a month ago after 2 years together. Things were always great, I've just been dealing with personal issues for a while and stopped giving her attention. Now she's with another guy (rebound ?) but we've spent time together since then, last week we went to lunch together (her idea.) We laughed together, it was great. We both said we miss each other and she said she wanted to spend time with me and our old friend group. I told her that we were getting together last night and said she's welcome to come. I still haven't heard back from her :/ she knows that I'm going to counselling for my problems and that I've done everything I can do (so far) to self improve. Should I go into no contact? Continue doing what I'm doing?
My ex split up with me on Valentine’s Day. She said she didn’t see a future and dumped me. I’m still upset and I see her more around university then I did when I was with her. Everytime I see her it kills me and upsets me. Is she going through the same pain? I’m struggling to get over her big time. Don’t know what to do. When we see each other I just pretend I never saw her.
I really don’t know how to reach out to my ex and ask her to meet up. It’s been 3 or so months since the break up and we’ve gained some communication and talk every so often. I’ve been wanting to ask her to meet up to hopefully show her that I’ve grown but I get anxious and I don’t know how to make it not seem like a “date” but just a time to enjoy. Please let me know if you have any advice for my problem right now
I seen my ex I just wave hello from a far cuz she was looking at me but I didn't notice until I looked up from checking message on my phone something quick and simple like the princess wave, she looked down at the floor and walked off, someone then replied that that was rude, it didn't hurt my feelings I still had fun. There's more to the story, I just touched on what you asked.
Hi, Coach Adrian. On 13th March, I ran into my ex on campus. Even though we talked on Facebook, he never met in person when I invited him over to have lunch. By the way, he always tested me out by refusing anything throughout last year after breakup. While passing, I felt the need to talk to him. So, I went back and said hi, how things were going and what his future plans were. He responded but was stubborn to make eye contact. Even though without looking straight at me, he seemed observant about my reactions. Then his friend came up and asked if I had said anything. Right after that, she kept on telling me irrelevant stuffs like he's getting married the week after and if I had anything to say about it and all that. Seemed desperate to know my feelings and make me feel intimidated and all emotional. But I knew well enough that those were lies. Does this mean that my ex wants to know if I wanted him back? I do want him, but not like this. Should I write a second letter about what I actually want but being okay with the status of relationship?
It was a horrible break up both times.. I dont think I can ignore her if she spoke to me. I have a shitload of hard feelings towards her, nice went away when she betrayed me. So if I was to see her again I would ignore her but she can easily trigger me. No if I see her again shes going to see me happy with someone who has a soul, that alone is enough to make her upset, no matter what she is up to as long as I am happy she will never be.
My ex calls us “ talking” again and says he’s not mentally ready for a relationship. But yet treats me like I already am a girlfriend? Calls me babe and calls and texts me all the time, invites me to go to his house and be around his family? If we are just “talking” than why does he treat me like This
I did this in my recovery post divorce last year. We divorced after 19 yrs due to affair. I have forgiven him but he hasn’t forgiven himself. We try to build a new and improved connection in June. Well after 3 months he decided to tell me to leave him alone and give him space. Backtrack we did the no contact from Mar until June. Can you help what I need to do now?????????
my ex has blocked me on all social media (and I assume phone number too), and she has recently started dating someone new. I've also noticed that I've been randomly running into her with her new guy in the same places over the last couple weeks. The first time my ex made it fairly obvious that she wanted to me to see her with an loud, obnoxious set of laughs. Then I've been running into her at the gym which is close to us, but I have a set schedule of when I go based on work, and she hasn't been regularly in a few months but has been working out more with her new guy. I'm doing my best to move on from the relationship after she dumped me, but she still knows that I still have some feelings for her and would talk to her if I had the chance. Every time I've run into her, I've avoided her because I feel like it would only cause a confrontation and not do any good. I'm not sure if this is the right thing to be doing or if I should change my routine to avoid seeing her altogether or something else. I'm not sure what to do. Any advice?
I ran into my ex gf at a dance event we both used to go to. She was with her friends. I was a bit stressed but kept it cool. She came to me saying hello, we danced a little bit, laughed, we sat and talked a little bit about what was new in my life and she was enthousiastic about it. We talked for a couple of minits and then as she got a phone call, I decided not to wait and moved on to socialize with others. I kept on socializing with the other people But I could feel deep inside myself that I still had Strong feelings. But Eventhough im a bit hard with myself, i know I did something good by not staying around her and keeping it moving going from a group to another at this event. Please can you tell me if I did something wrong ?
My husband wants a divorce now he wants us to meet up to talk about everything the divorce and other stuff but he still won't stop the divorce he told me he is done... so what is the point of us meeting to talk? What do I do?
I havent talked to him since November... He lives on same street as me in more n more lately weve been running into each other.. I made a foool out of myself when i see him at the store i put my soda down n told the clerk ill brb.... He was right next to me i freaked out... N yesterday i seen him at the same park i go too... N today when i was going to work as i was leaving to turn his car turned on and he drove off? I miss him so much i dont mean to act weird its just he broke my heart
MAN, I ran into him in college, didn't wanna see him cause I'm trying to heal, he just smiled and waved at me, that's it. It sucks. Going from loving each other everyday to this shit.
How do you deal w/ the fact she could've slept w/ other men in this meantime? I just don't think I'd be comfortable in gettin' back w/ an ex knowing that or thinking about that.
Hey Jorge, I'm going to give you some tough love and say that being unable to deal with the possibility that she slept with other men while you were apart is a reflection of your own insecurity. She's human. She has needs and desires, just like you and everyone else. Let me offer you a thought exercise: would you be ok with her having slept with other men if you knew the sex was bad? Would that make it more palatable? - Coach Adrian
Love Advice TV It's not about being good or bad for me. How would you feel in gettin' back w/ an ex that was used up by several men? why would she allow that? so she goes and have sex until she's satisfied to get back w/ the idiot who still has feelings and that's waiting for her. Idk, It just bothers me the thought of other men being w/ her and doing what we used to.
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity I think that we all have needs it's a matter how you can control your hormones and needs. Alot of people don't like when a person that just don't know how to control themselves. It's about balance
If she slept with someone else than don't mess around with her. Apparently she doesn't have respect for herself. If she does it onces or more than twices than you let her go.. you don't want no STD or HIV.. just watch what you do. You don't know when she is clean or not.. sleeping around can cause some many health problems also.. I would of you don't take her ass back . Just keep moving on with your life.. don't look back
I said some bad words to my ex girlfriend and it was over we were together for 8 months, our love was weird but real and intense but i made a lot of faults mainly bc i was unsure about things going in my life. she started dating a other guy when we were actually still together and it together with him now for 2 months,on nye i was so drunk i texted her emotionally and said i was depressive en suicidal. she told me things will get better for me eventually and she said she wanted to see me ever again but i wanted to so her quick again so i said i faked the depression, she replied that im a psycho for faking it, i then went crazy and i kept calling and texting her and sending flowers for valentines day 2 week ago she blocked my phone and facebook im now blocked on everything and she prob thinks that im a stalker. i just wished we kept contact i still love her, what do u think i should do to get her back ? i started an education , a own bussines and will try to begin a model career i really changer already she just must believe me pls answer me
She left me for anthor man and now one of her friends ask me do I accept her now if she comes .I just denied .is she going to reach out herself or she Just move on .we dated for 7 years.
I'm not gonna lie. It's been over 10 years since I've seen my ex. We both have our own families. But i still think about them all the time. I dont know why.
Hey fook miass, do you think about your other exes as often or frequently? Have you stayed in touch with this particular ex? - Adrian www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Well, it happened to me once. He was calling me 100 m further away as soon as he saw me and he was joined by a friend who called me as well. Finally I joined them both and after exchanging a couple of words with him, I turned my back around and went back home not because this incident was unconfortable but because it was so unexpected and I felt so surprised that my words were not able to get out of my mouth.
I bump into my ex. We small talk. He only looks at me when I look away, but doesn't want to have eye contact with me. When leaving, I wanna kiss him on the cheek but he turned and kiss me on the lips. He didn't contact me thereafter, what gives?
Hello, my ex girlfriend was broke up with me 2 weeks ago . Our relationship was 4 years old. She blocked me on fb insta whatsapp and everywhere. i beginning her for 4 days after break up, after that i tried to mail her. She ans me she doesn't want to be with me anymore because of my behaviour. She told me that she already gave too much chances to improve and stay away from bad habits. But i stopped to texting her, mailing her. I do nothing. But i post story everyday on Instagram. (Not broken heart). About changing and some motivational quotes. And she stalking me every day she reads my stories with her fake account. I know her that account because we already chat on that account. And she also knows that i know her 2nd fakr empty account that is no following no followers no post . What's that mean . Why she reads my stories every day , almost twice in a day. I want her back but i can't make any mistakes with trying to contact her again . Because she is angry on me. She really want me?
You have changed... Yes, but your ex doesnt know about that... I think better you talk to her and encourage her to express how she feels.... And do not hesitate to say "sorry". Saying sorry doesnt make a man less valuable... It makes them more sincere in woman eyes... That is the "changing" you show her... She was angry and she need to express it. Not because she want to blame. Just because for you to understand her feeling. Woman need to talk about their feeling, their problem to release stress, to feel love... It is hard for man. I know it... But try.
(I rejected my Ex ) My ex GF said I miss u , and I want to get you back , but I told her we need to stay friends, it's better like that, she cried a lot. FYI : she dumped me, and she reached out first. Now what shall I do to get her back, shall I wait until she reaches out again ?
Listen to the man, be patient. Don’t force it if you or your partner is not ready. Truly loving someone is letting them walk away to figure out themselves and loving them with open arms when they come back
Beautifully said. I ran into my ex at church yesterday and he approached me and said he was so happy to see me and wished me a good day. I could tell he still has feelings for me by the way he was looking at me. Anyway, I had to leave, otherwise, I might have been late for work; he was in a rush as well. Later that night I felt like reaching out to him to see how he has been doing, but instead, I decided not to with the same sentiments in mind that you have written. He is trying to figure his life out, so I must show him love and let him be so that he may do so. If he comes back, and I pray to God he will, I will accept him with open arms. Thank you for sharing your comment. It was so helpful to me.
This is the hardest part I want my ex husband to take the time to figure out what he wants but it’s hard to be so patient. I’m even busy with our kids, in college again, and my work.
I bumped into my ex recently and my natural reaction was to pretend I didn't see them because they had not returned any of my messages which I shouldn't have been sending. I later regretted not smiling and saying hello and I would recommend someone at least do that even if they're not ready to talk to them again
Love this CZcams channel. Greatest advice on here. Always have something you are looking for for your situation.
You guys have helped me so much in my breakup recovery! I made some mistakes, of course, but its ok. Im currently 2 weeks into NC & RS. I miss my ex everyday, but i dont wanna get back with her, yet...if at all. I realized that her and i have a lot of growing to do on our own.
Anyway, can you guys please make a video on how to not “lose yourself” in someone when youre with them? How to hold onto your own inner happiness and not lose it while you’re with another person? How to not lose the love you have for yourself while you’re with someone?
When im single, im really happy, genuinely happy and satisfied and lovin’ myself. The problem is, i find myself losing some of that when i get into a relationship with someone else. So, if and when the relationship ends, it’s almost like i lost a part of that and i have to “re-find” it again and im not sure how to avoid that. Please advise.
Thank you, my saviors!
What if the Ex wants to talk about the past. Just listen to them, then talk about the present because you got to keep it fresh.
I just realised something...we really living in a moment where we look to someone else always to "fix us" including myself....some of these life moments JUST HAVE TO BE LIVED..Good and bad...those which bring joy and sadness alike!
I love all the videos they really helped me wan by boyfriend didn't what me anymore and this videos really helped me knowing that I was going to be okay thank you all for helping man and woman
Found her in my yoga class. She was a nervous wreck after when I grabbed my stuff that was right next to hers. She reached out about 3 weeks later but it was not to reconnect so I asked her for space unless she wants to work on rebuilding something.
How did it end up ?
You all are amazing people
Adrian for president!
First video, brilliant and wise advice, thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
I bumped into my ex & spoke briefly for the first time in a year - She was quite receptive & we were a bit jokey & also said I liked her jumper and that I liked her and left
Hi , thank you coach Adrian , I've asked to make a video about running to an ex in many comments and here it is ,and that's great👍, but if i am not ready to meet her its a trap but you didn't explain how to act to get out of it safely, i hope there is further explaining .
I bumped into my ex, she stood there hanging around near me for ages, I just smiled and waved she did the same and i went back to my friends. When leaving she kept straing at me but I just left as In my opinion if you do get along your still thinking there is hope, which could be worse!!
It’s been 8 months. We communicate but he never was the one to reach out, only a couple of times. I havnt spoken to him in a month and he had something shipped to the apartment with his name on it. I reached out and told him. I ended up seeing him and he asked me “ how is my love life going”
My ex broke things off about a month ago after 2 years together. Things were always great, I've just been dealing with personal issues for a while and stopped giving her attention. Now she's with another guy (rebound ?) but we've spent time together since then, last week we went to lunch together (her idea.) We laughed together, it was great. We both said we miss each other and she said she wanted to spend time with me and our old friend group. I told her that we were getting together last night and said she's welcome to come. I still haven't heard back from her :/ she knows that I'm going to counselling for my problems and that I've done everything I can do (so far) to self improve. Should I go into no contact? Continue doing what I'm doing?
My ex split up with me on Valentine’s Day. She said she didn’t see a future and dumped me. I’m still upset and I see her more around university then I did when I was with her. Everytime I see her it kills me and upsets me. Is she going through the same pain? I’m struggling to get over her big time. Don’t know what to do. When we see each other I just pretend I never saw her.
I really don’t know how to reach out to my ex and ask her to meet up. It’s been 3 or so months since the break up and we’ve gained some communication and talk every so often. I’ve been wanting to ask her to meet up to hopefully show her that I’ve grown but I get anxious and I don’t know how to make it not seem like a “date” but just a time to enjoy. Please let me know if you have any advice for my problem right now
I seen my ex I just wave hello from a far cuz she was looking at me but I didn't notice until I looked up from checking message on my phone something quick and simple like the princess wave, she looked down at the floor and walked off, someone then replied that that was rude, it didn't hurt my feelings I still had fun. There's more to the story, I just touched on what you asked.
Hi, Coach Adrian. On 13th March, I ran into my ex on campus. Even though we talked on Facebook, he never met in person when I invited him over to have lunch. By the way, he always tested me out by refusing anything throughout last year after breakup. While passing, I felt the need to talk to him. So, I went back and said hi, how things were going and what his future plans were. He responded but was stubborn to make eye contact. Even though without looking straight at me, he seemed observant about my reactions. Then his friend came up and asked if I had said anything. Right after that, she kept on telling me irrelevant stuffs like he's getting married the week after and if I had anything to say about it and all that. Seemed desperate to know my feelings and make me feel intimidated and all emotional. But I knew well enough that those were lies. Does this mean that my ex wants to know if I wanted him back? I do want him, but not like this. Should I write a second letter about what I actually want but being okay with the status of relationship?
It was a horrible break up both times.. I dont think I can ignore her if she spoke to me. I have a shitload of hard feelings towards her, nice went away when she betrayed me. So if I was to see her again I would ignore her but she can easily trigger me. No if I see her again shes going to see me happy with someone who has a soul, that alone is enough to make her upset, no matter what she is up to as long as I am happy she will never be.
What if she's married now to the person she left me for? How should approach it if we are to run into each other. Idk what I'd say.
Yes
My ex calls us “ talking” again and says he’s not mentally ready for a relationship. But yet treats me like I already am a girlfriend? Calls me babe and calls and texts me all the time, invites me to go to his house and be around his family? If we are just “talking” than why does he treat me like This
I did this in my recovery post divorce last year. We divorced after 19 yrs due to affair. I have forgiven him but he hasn’t forgiven himself. We try to build a new and improved connection in June. Well after 3 months he decided to tell me to leave him alone and give him space. Backtrack we did the no contact from Mar until June. Can you help what I need to do now?????????
my ex has blocked me on all social media (and I assume phone number too), and she has recently started dating someone new. I've also noticed that I've been randomly running into her with her new guy in the same places over the last couple weeks. The first time my ex made it fairly obvious that she wanted to me to see her with an loud, obnoxious set of laughs. Then I've been running into her at the gym which is close to us, but I have a set schedule of when I go based on work, and she hasn't been regularly in a few months but has been working out more with her new guy. I'm doing my best to move on from the relationship after she dumped me, but she still knows that I still have some feelings for her and would talk to her if I had the chance. Every time I've run into her, I've avoided her because I feel like it would only cause a confrontation and not do any good. I'm not sure if this is the right thing to be doing or if I should change my routine to avoid seeing her altogether or something else. I'm not sure what to do. Any advice?
What did you do in the end ? How are you today?
I ran into my ex gf at a dance event we both used to go to. She was with her friends. I was a bit stressed but kept it cool. She came to me saying hello, we danced a little bit, laughed, we sat and talked a little bit about what was new in my life and she was enthousiastic about it. We talked for a couple of minits and then as she got a phone call, I decided not to wait and moved on to socialize with others. I kept on socializing with the other people But I could feel deep inside myself that I still had Strong feelings. But Eventhough im a bit hard with myself, i know I did something good by not staying around her and keeping it moving going from a group to another at this event. Please can you tell me if I did something wrong ?
Update?
My husband wants a divorce now he wants us to meet up to talk about everything the divorce and other stuff but he still won't stop the divorce he told me he is done... so what is the point of us meeting to talk? What do I do?
I havent talked to him since November... He lives on same street as me in more n more lately weve been running into each other.. I made a foool out of myself when i see him at the store i put my soda down n told the clerk ill brb.... He was right next to me i freaked out... N yesterday i seen him at the same park i go too... N today when i was going to work as i was leaving to turn his car turned on and he drove off? I miss him so much i dont mean to act weird its just he broke my heart
MAN, I ran into him in college, didn't wanna see him cause I'm trying to heal, he just smiled and waved at me, that's it. It sucks. Going from loving each other everyday to this shit.
How do you deal w/ the fact she could've slept w/ other men in this meantime? I just don't think I'd be comfortable in gettin' back w/ an ex knowing that or thinking about that.
Hey Jorge, I'm going to give you some tough love and say that being unable to deal with the possibility that she slept with other men while you were apart is a reflection of your own insecurity. She's human. She has needs and desires, just like you and everyone else. Let me offer you a thought exercise: would you be ok with her having slept with other men if you knew the sex was bad? Would that make it more palatable? - Coach Adrian
Love Advice TV It's not about being good or bad for me. How would you feel in gettin' back w/ an ex that was used up by several men? why would she allow that? so she goes and have sex until she's satisfied to get back w/ the idiot who still has feelings and that's waiting for her. Idk, It just bothers me the thought of other men being w/ her and doing what we used to.
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity I think that we all have needs it's a matter how you can control your hormones and needs. Alot of people don't like when a person that just don't know how to control themselves. It's about balance
If she slept with someone else than don't mess around with her. Apparently she doesn't have respect for herself. If she does it onces or more than twices than you let her go.. you don't want no STD or HIV.. just watch what you do. You don't know when she is clean or not.. sleeping around can cause some many health problems also.. I would of you don't take her ass back . Just keep moving on with your life.. don't look back
Don't take her back and you won't have to deal with it!
Ran into my ex today we live in the same apartment complex. We just said Hi but had face masks on so cant see if shes smiling.
Not ran into ex yet but wondering what i will do, as he is wth a different person
I said some bad words to my ex girlfriend and it was over we were together for 8 months, our love was weird but real and intense but i made a lot of faults mainly bc i was unsure about things going in my life. she started dating a other guy when we were actually still together and it together with him now for 2 months,on nye i was so drunk i texted her emotionally and said i was depressive en suicidal. she told me things will get better for me eventually and she said she wanted to see me ever again but i wanted to so her quick again so i said i faked the depression, she replied that im a psycho for faking it, i then went crazy and i kept calling and texting her and sending flowers for valentines day 2 week ago she blocked my phone and facebook im now blocked on everything and she prob thinks that im a stalker. i just wished we kept contact i still love her, what do u think i should do to get her back ? i started an education , a own bussines and will try to begin a model career i really changer already she just must believe me pls answer me
She left me for anthor man and now one of her friends ask me do I accept her now if she comes .I just denied .is she going to reach out herself or she Just move on .we dated for 7 years.
I'm not gonna lie. It's been over 10 years since I've seen my ex. We both have our own families. But i still think about them all the time. I dont know why.
Hey fook miass, do you think about your other exes as often or frequently? Have you stayed in touch with this particular ex? - Adrian www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Well, it happened to me once. He was calling me 100 m further away as soon as he saw me and he was joined by a friend who called me as well. Finally I joined them both and after exchanging a couple of words with him, I turned my back around and went back home not because this incident was unconfortable but because it was so unexpected and I felt so surprised that my words were not able to get out of my mouth.
I bump into my ex. We small talk. He only looks at me when I look away, but doesn't want to have eye contact with me. When leaving, I wanna kiss him on the cheek but he turned and kiss me on the lips. He didn't contact me thereafter, what gives?
Hello, my ex girlfriend was broke up with me 2 weeks ago . Our relationship was 4 years old. She blocked me on fb insta whatsapp and everywhere. i beginning her for 4 days after break up, after that i tried to mail her. She ans me she doesn't want to be with me anymore because of my behaviour. She told me that she already gave too much chances to improve and stay away from bad habits. But i stopped to texting her, mailing her. I do nothing. But i post story everyday on Instagram. (Not broken heart). About changing and some motivational quotes. And she stalking me every day she reads my stories with her fake account. I know her that account because we already chat on that account. And she also knows that i know her 2nd fakr empty account that is no following no followers no post . What's that mean . Why she reads my stories every day , almost twice in a day. I want her back but i can't make any mistakes with trying to contact her again . Because she is angry on me. She really want me?
Dear Coach adrian i have changed but my ex is still negative and angry on me
I am in long distance relationships
What should i do ?
You have changed... Yes, but your ex doesnt know about that... I think better you talk to her and encourage her to express how she feels.... And do not hesitate to say "sorry". Saying sorry doesnt make a man less valuable... It makes them more sincere in woman eyes... That is the "changing" you show her... She was angry and she need to express it. Not because she want to blame. Just because for you to understand her feeling. Woman need to talk about their feeling, their problem to release stress, to feel love... It is hard for man. I know it... But try.
I texted my girl after 2 months of no contact . But she said she don`t want to talk . What can I do to lower her defenses.
Don't chase her, give her space, focus on yourself and do no contact. Live your life. If she will contact you, you can be polite and reply :)
I need a girl please help me
(I rejected my Ex )
My ex GF said I miss u , and I want to get you back , but I told her we need to stay friends, it's better like that, she cried a lot. FYI : she dumped me, and she reached out first.
Now what shall I do to get her back, shall I wait until she reaches out again ?