For anybody wondering why you would need/want straws in the home, I can think of a couple reasons. For one, some people have disabilities that makes it difficult for them to coordinate the movement required to lift a glass to their lips. Second, I definitely appreciate having a straw when I'm wearing lipstick that I don't want to have to keep reapplying.
Ditch the swiffer and get a steam mop. It cleans and sanitizes the floor with steam. No cleaner needed and the head is washable. Shark and bissell make awesome one. :) Great video.
be careful on real hardwood floors, seriously, I left it in one spot for like a minute and it literally burned the floor! a brown to black scorch mark! I couldn't believe it!
A little tip. Watch out for essential oils in diffusers if you have small pets. Birds cats dogs can get very ill from essential oils. Lavender, eucalyptus, are a few. Check before using.
There are lists of essential oils that are toxic to cats and dogs. I have a few friends whose animals have recently become quite ill from diffuser use. I love a diffuser and always clean with a few drops of lavender. Make sure you're safe while saving or that vet bill is going to be a whopper. Thanks for all of the tips. I've not read where lavender is toxic to cats and I have a cat.
Also, if you plan to have guests over, please warn them. I have bad reactions to strong scents (any strong scents) and it's best if diffusers are shut off a few hours before I walk into a room. I know a few people who are similar, so I think telling people ahead of time is polite
I'm very transient in nature, so I move around a lot. Personal record - 9 times in one year, so not only I am an expert packer, in 15 years I've also learned to live without things that I don't actually need. Much like Alton Brown, I can't stand unitaskers so I made a point to get rid of everything that served one purpose. Plastic tupperware is now replaced with mason jars, as they are perfect for portioning leftovers and to be used as drinking vessels. Essential oils are used in cleaning, gardening, beauty and health care. Instead of wondering where do hair ties go to die, I switched to the phone cord variety and I am yet to lose one. I never used lotion because I have a good exfoliating cloth and I moisturize my skin internally by ingesting oil supplements. Also, I don't buy anything new until I get rid of something old beforehand. This year's goal is to set up square foot gardening, so I don't have to walk across the street for lettuce lol
@@freegee3503 I just learned that avocado and grapeseed oil are the only 2 oils we should fry with. And avocado makes an excellent sunscreen, as others have shared with me.
Lamps: Your approach works if you don't do lots of reading, crafts or anything else that requires good task lighting. It always seems kind of like a conspiracy on the part of the light fixture manufacturers that a ton of overhead fixtures come with a frosted shade and often also are for use with small and low output bulbs. To see properly to read and to do a ton of other things I've found extra lamps to be necessary. Yeah, of course, if it's about relaxation or meditation then less is more but if you need to see optimally and avoid losing your vision then proper lighting is important.
Yes! Low light is good for falling asleep, but I have depression and I live in Canada, bright lights can help wake you up in the morning and minimize some symptoms of depression (of course, this doesn't necessarily work for all people, so don't go shining bright lights in your friends' eyes for fun, but it does help me).
Thanks for the video! I encourage you to add the following timings to your video description, so they don't get lost in the thousand comments: 0:33 disposable straws - reusable! 1:50 household cleaners 2:34 hand cream - easy DIY! 3:22 wipes and mop pads - DIY mop and wipes 4:20 ottoman and coffee table 5:33 throw pillows - blankets 6:21 lamps - fairy lights 6:36 hair accessories - just clip/scrunchie 7:10 perfumed products: nail polish, dye, scented candles, scented laundry detergent, perfume - diffuser, natural lotions 7:55 stretchy bottoms - cotton 8:45 mouthwash - unscented floss 9:20 bakeware - muffin tin, cookie sheet, baking pan, roasting pan
A lot of these suggestions are just substituting one thing for another and that seems to me to be trading one clutter for another. Sorry, but that's the way I see it. Trade your couch pillows for a blanket? Trade one straw for another? Keeping two hand lotion bottles instead of four? Whats the point?
The point of minimalism isn't just about a number, it's minimizing the unnecessary or joyful things in your life. How many people love grocery shopping? Cleaning? Running errands? Carrying a ton of things around? These are areas she would like to minimize in her life, and it works for her.
Using a desensitizing toothpaste helps a bit but it takes forever for it to be effective. We instructed our patients to rub a small amount of the paste on to the teeth at night before bed and leave it. You will see noticeable results after one week. Choose a brand that has the highest percentage of strontium chloride or potassium nitrate you can find. If you have a mouthguard or bleaching tray, use it with the toothpaste for even faster results and less mess.
My minimalism = no straws at all. Vinegar on certain finishes on wood floors will remove the finish. There are some things vinegar is bad for. It IS my go to toilet bowl cleaner. But to just start 'chucking' cleansers from under the sink is very wasteful. Use em up or rehome them. I SO agree with the heavily scented products! They DO cause headaches, and u don't have to be the one wearing it to be affected!
You don't need a straw if you drink PLAIN water. But if you drink Lemon, Lime or other citrus juice in water, then Dentists recommend using a straw---because the citrus acid can erode the teeth. Other drinks can STAIN &Dull the teeth like Coffee, Tea, Sodas even natural sodas where they use "Caramel coloring".
Hey guys, I couldn’t resist giving my take on the Things I No Longer Buy. I tried to focus on how you can minimize your possessions without missing a beat! Hope you find some new tips to try, and hope you all have a great week.
More Melody Love the video. I spend alot on plastic ziplock bags that I have to keep buying over and over. I used them for my fruits and veggies. Any advice?
tikea p We even use mason jars (think prepped veggies, small berries). I keep washed, whole fruits on counter in bowls (keep apples away from bananas). Keep potatoes and onions in separate well ventilated bins in cool, dry, dark. If you absolutely need to use baggies, wash and reuse them until exhausted!
My favorite three things that I do not currently do, but after seeing this video, I will try. 1.) baking pans. We've become vegan and I realized I have 4 roasting pans I constantly move around in the pantry. (bye-bye) 2.) I have tried vinegar and water to wash my wood floors and like it better now than commercial wood floor cleaners. I will try vinegar and water as a staple cleaner as I've always hated bleach. 3.) getting rid of all nail polish. I never use it. If it's a special occasion I go get my nails done as a treat. Thank you for having a minimalism video, I do appreciate it.
Everyone here is arguing about who's really a minimalist and who isn't. Who needs straws, who doesn't. If you're such a minimalist why are you wasting power & internet arguing with people over wasting?
Not sure if it has been mentioned in other video's, but instead of buying lotion you can use (organic) coconut oil as moisturizer, it works on hands, body and lips, you can also use It as a mouth rinse (20 minutes). And instead of using shampoo keep vinegar and baking soda in your bathroom, when you take a shower combine to in a container and apply to hair (called the no poo method) It saves you time and money
Surely chucking products out that you already have is wasteful and against sustainability, you might as well use them up first and then choose a minimalist option
Forgot to add, please do more 'day in the life of' 😊 seeing your porch and just relaxing with pat is actually really relaxing to watch too! Thanks Melody
Agreed. I was looking forward to this video, but all the tips were not very practical, at least in terms of minimalism... I wouldn't think a minimalist would buy straws at all. Hm.
+Bee Buenrostro maybe it's a sales pitch, you know like "if you're a minimalist, you have to use reusable straws.. I happen to know where to get the best ones.. " :)
I thought I was the only person who dislikes throw pillows. I find them uncomfortable and I feel if I can't use the items it is wasting space lol. I'm all for blankets on the couch though. Makes so much sense. Also the less furniture the better for me..less to clean :) I absolutely love my essential oils. I MUST have my diffuser. Keeps me "chilled" lol Excellent video!
Some couches really need pillows to put behind your back so you don't sink in or find yourself perched on the edge because they're so deep. And blankets on the couch are not appealing at ALL if you live in Florida! :) There's nothing that works for everyone.
Pardon I wasn't quite sure what u said about lotion vs cream. I had already put lotion in small containers around the house, but then I found out CREAM is so much better than lotion! Dermatologist approved!😃
At its core, Minimalism is a design aesthetic. It's a mindset focused on purity and clarity. It's not about doing the same with less, that's frugality. Minimalism is about having 'the best' of everything because you only need one. A minimalist doesn't pick a couch because it declutters the room, you pick the one that is the pinnacle of comfort and support or one that represents the aesthetic reflection of your aspirations or identity. The 'tips' and what you're describing all have to do with frugality.
Getting rid of bakeware was life-changing for sure lol 2 big drawers emptied! The only tip I'll have to skip is the blankets on the couch, an unfolded blanket gives me hives haha like I've interrupted someone's nap 😅 always looks messy to me
keep 1 throw pillow for short guests.. I always grab one to put behind my back whenever I sit on a couch. & 1 can serve as a spare for a sleepover.. or sprained ankle, need to elevate :-) my throw pillows ALL came in handy for that.
You could stuff a pillow case using a scrunched or rolled up blanket! Perhaps a pretty bed pillow case with a large fold over flap, or a couch pillow style fabric with a zipper. I am liking this idea as a nice way to store blankets!
I don't see the point in buying straws at all. I have a few plastic ones that are reusable but that's it. The rest of this stuff makes good sense though. A lot of what is sold in stores is just bullshit we don't need.
Toxic lead is added to plastics as a stabilizer. It also contains hormone disruptors. (Sources linked in my following two comments.) We no longer store food in plastic. Metal and glass are safer options.
Laura Mason Source for plastics disrupting hormones (causing birth defects, cancer, etc.): www.huffingtonpost.com/lisa-kaas-boyle/plastic-is-food-poisoning_b_5219189.html I is a long article and well worth your time! (One or more links to follow.)
Laura Mason ... per OSHA, toxic lead is added to plastic as a stabilizer: www.osha.gov/SLTC/lead/ FYI: I read an article about a year ago saying lead is used in the manufacture of plastics to make it flexible....but now I can't find the article, so I will edit my earlier comment to reflect that. (I is still added, but as a stabilizer.) In any case, the health effects caused by the hormone disrupters in plastics is reason enough to not use plastics. Note: a lot of lead exposure comes from touching objects, and then it enters your body via your hands. Objects include lead jewelry, toys with lead based paint, and dust on mini-blinds (look up ***Consumer Reports*** on these to see if you own these types).
Everyone should feel comfortable with their own style of minimalism. Whatever relieves stress for you helps. For me for example, I prefer the pillows over the blankets, and that is ok.
I'm new here, I think this is great. Our apartment has just been filling up with clutter since we initially moved in. I'm definitely giving these a shot!!
Should we throw away all of the cleaners that are half full? Or should we use them up and then recycle the bottles? I would hate to throw out a ton of chemicals at once.
I would use it untill it's gone. And maybe the bottles can be reused. It is a wasted to throw away anything (eventhough I throw out things as well... it's a learning process right?)
Stephanie, the resources have already been used to create the cleaners you have at home. Throwing them away is a waste of these resources, even if they weren''t informed or wise choices. My 2 cents worth? Throwing them away without using them is a double whammy waste! 1) Finish whatever cleaners you already have (unless they are truly harmful for people, animals, plants, water or air). They will still be entering the environment if you throw them away, unless they are toxic, in which case you need to contain them appropriately 2) Reuse or recycle the containers 3) Change your 'new normal' cleaning products to more sustainable choices such as vinegar, baking soda, microfibre cloths etc....
I am from Europe and I have never understood why Americans wear shoes inside their homes. They walk in those shoes outside in dust, mud, and step on someone elses spitting on the sidewalk or step into a dogs poop. And then they go inside and on the carpet where their children sit and play. Yuck! Imagine all the bacteria! In my country it is considered rude not to take off your shoes when you come home, not to speak when you come into someone elses home on a visit. They would scold you immediatelly. No one wants dirty floors and carpets here... As for water with a little bit of vineygar - I have been using it for cleaning for years. I clean the bathroom with it, I clean the kitchen with it, everything. It is cheap and kills 99.9% of all germs. It works perfectly. I even use white vineygar as a fabric softener for my laundry - I put it in the washing machine instead of Lenor and other softeners. It works well, too. No acid smell and the laundry is soft and fluffy. As for straws - I know an even cheaper method: I dont use any straws at all. I drink right from the glass or mug. No straws (my family and me are not used to using them).
😳 This is minimalism??? Wow. I have never used straws for drinking, handcream, paper towels or anything like that in my life. Never realized I was living a minimalist lifestyle. In my country we never used disposables much, so I never learned it. I gotta say that has been changing in recent years though, "thanks" to American culture sweeping over. You can buy a lot more disposables at stores now, but I still don't know anyone who uses them.
Yeah, paper towels? Why? You have a sink right there to rinse out a dish cloth if need be.They are nice in a waterless environment, like when I was living in my camper with no water except in jugs.
I love this, because a bunch of these videos are about putting your things into baskets or moving it around from place to place. It's good to know who we can buy less, work less and have more fun with our lives. I'm tired of being a slave to stuff, and work and clothes and car payments. If we can have less then we won't have to work so hard for stuff that we don't really need.
Yes, but my uncle wants to enjoy his drinks without spilling them on himself or the table, so he uses straws. Of course, he could survive without them until the parkinson's kills him, but sometimes life is about more than surviving.
I have been trying so hard to find a video like this that makes the point clear cut. This video was great. I wasn't already purchasing alot of items that you mentioned but it was helpful to know that I really don't need to purchase alot of the things that I frequently do now. I have very severe allergies and I find myself constantly purchasing cleaning products to clean efficiently. Sometimes I forget that putting simple things together like vinegar and water to make a solution works just as well. I probably also don't realize many of the cleaning products I purchase may be health detrimental. I just purchased some method products online and I am looking forward to trying them hoping they are more close to organic. Great video! thanks for the tips.
I wanted you to know you changed my life!! I stumbled upon one of your videos trying to find tips to organized my mountains of crap. Then I found you and thank goodness because you opened my eyes ! I've watched almost all your videos. Thank you so much for the tips ! I've minimized my life extremely. I still have things I'd like to improve but it's all a process. I can't wait until I get to the point where my life is completely simplified. Thank you so so so much for all the information ! I'll be watching! (:
This is SO good to hear. I haven't found Melody until a couple months ago, but I started my own minimalism journey inspired by CZcamsrs a couple years ago. I read "The life-changing magic of tidying up" and went on a roll transforming my space and finding what in it I loved. I love living simply & frugally!
I have a Swiffer and a box of refills for easy cleaning. The refills are a waste of money because the floor feels sticky after using them. So, I went to the dollar store for a small microfiber towel and it works much better. For cleaning, I use baking soda, vinegar and water. The baking soda for my stove top, some pots and pans, the sink and my coffee pot. The vinegar/water for wiping. So dish washing liquid is the only other thing I still use in the kitchen.
Make your own moisturizer! 2 parts almond oil, one part coconut oil, one part beeswax. Add your favorite essential oils 6 drops per ounce. Sooo Easy! Also try the no-poo method of shampoo and conditioner for your hair. All you need is baking soda, vinegar, and essential oils!
I really like using distilled white vinegar for many purposes too. Instead of lugging heavy gallon jugs of it from the store and paying more for distilled vinegar, I buy the 30% concentrate and dilute it myself at home. Pour 21 oz into an empty gallon jug, fill the rest of the way to a full gallon and then you have 5% distilled white vinegar just like the strength sold at the grocery.
Essential oils from a diffuser can be toxic to cats. Melody, I noticed you have a beautiful cat in your video, so please be careful. All cat owners, please research the toxicity of essential oils for cats!
I love cleaning with vinegar, but not everyone around the house does. So if u absolutely hate the smell of vinegar, even after adding essential oil, you can use witch hazel instead. I make my multi surface cleaner with witch hazel now, it cleans just as well if not better, doesn't have a strong smell, and can easily add any essential oil if you prefer a scent. I like to add lemon and lime essential oil, not only does it make it extra antibacterial, but it leaves a nice smell as well.
OK, for me 50 cents on straws twice a year, a few $5 purchases of multi-surface spray, etc. isn't hurting the bottom line, but travel size cosmetics/creams and refilling makes a lot of sense.
eaudeflore oh! I didn't know that! I use the same diffuser and essential oils and suddenly both cats got whopping ear infections. I considered the EO as the cause. Thank you for the info.
Thanks for the heads up, eudeflore! I like my all-purpose just vinegar and water because eos have to be stored in amber spray bottles. I don't put eos on my skin because it makes it more sensitive to the sun. I'll make sure Pat stays away from the diffuser. I run it about three times a week in winter to get some moisture back into the air. I use 3 drops each time to keep the unit clean and air smelling nice.
Great video. I recently bought a cordless vacuum similar to yours and it is amazing. I use it almost every day and am astonishing by the dust. I used to be big into glass and stainless steel straws, but have since discovered that I like to feel the liquid against my lips instead. Besides, straws are VERY difficult to clean. Since I never wear lipstick, keeping it on by using a draw to drink it never an issue! Great tips!
I had to comment because a lot of people are questioning the straws. I personally rely on straws for iced drinks. I feel my teeth are sensitive and there’s nothing I hate more then cold ice on my teeth. I absolutely love all other tips!
Pamela DuBois Some people think that just by washing it with a bit of soap and a sponge it's clean, but there's probably enough bacteria to make you sick. That's why I would just buy the pack if I must or just not use any, period.
I like the swiffer idea. I was thinking of buying a swiffer but didn't want to have to keep rebuying refills. Good to know I can just use a microfiber wash cloth. :D
I am on a mission to declutter and it is going really really well! (But I have raised 4 kids so you can imagine what I've had to part with!) I found some absorbent washable towels at Trader Joe's that have replaced my paper towels! Love them! Love simple!
This is minimalism. Don't use straws, paper towels, tissues, vacuum cleaners, cotton balls, q-tips, or anything that requires an ongoing purchase. You can live your life without straws, for instance. Rags that are recycled from old cloth or clothing can be used in place of paper towels. Buy all your linens in white: towels, washcloths, hand towels, kitchen linens, handkerchiefs (soak in salt water til laundry day). Sanitize all your "whites" in a hot water wash cycle using a half cup of bleach once a week. Instead of a vacuum cleaner, which uses up resources to manufacture and electricity to run, use a broom and dustpan. Minimalism means Reduce, Reuse, Recycle, and Do Without!
It was the roll of paper towels in the kitchen that set me off. The self-styled minimalist "experts" lose me when they encourage the purchase of something like a metal or glass straw when you can do without or just keep using a plastic straw you may have acquired in your wanderings in case your jaws have been wired shut. ;-) The difference between frugality and minimalism is recognizing when you just don't need something. My breakthrough was the moment I realized that a large cutting board, a good knife, and an immersion blender replaced all the small appliances we think are "must haves". I still watch minimalism videos looking for the occasional gem of an idea.
its a process though no? if someone is shifting to that lifestyle/mentality - cant replace everything all at once. i for one - dont have that kind of money. nor do i want to just toss something thats unused because its not 'minimal' or whatever, thats pretty wasteful :P and even then, i think its okay to have one or two things that dont fit in the box of "minimalism" if thats your preference. (some people use cloth for toilet paper even) some effort of ecofriendly/frugality/etc is better than none
michelle lynn You make a good point about the amount of money one has and minimalism. An article I wandered across covered that aspect of minimalism, where people who have the means to acquire anything they wish do much better at going to extremes with minimalism. Those who don't have financial means tend to hoard material goods because they can't easily acquire them when needed, which leads to clutter and chaos in their lives. I was raised with a minimalist and frugal mindset. We never threw something away, but we didn't hoard anything. We bought used, recycled, insourced, grew food, kept a minimal amount of clothing, To remain minimalist, I don't throw anything away, I just resell it or don't acquire it in the first place. As for cloth "toilet paper", the Sear's catalog and junk mail used to be the answer in the 60's. Now I use the $30 bidet attached to toilet. >^;^
I grew up similar to you:) I still enjoy watching Melody's videos too:) I did like your tips on buying all linens in white! Great idea! I am always trying to be uber resourceful:)
New viewer here, and I agree with you 100%. The specific items you mentioned may not apply to everyone. But the reasoning behind your choices is really the basic ideals of minimalism.
Me neither. And I never plan to. McDs (which I now avoid-due to cottonseed oil in frying) and all other fast food places should stop automatically putting straws in bags. Straws should be ONLY by request.
I am not a minimalist but I do use vinegar to clean. My husband hates the smell of vinegar and essential oils only mask the scent slightly. I also like Mrs. Meyers products. Many of the things you mentioned I consider frugal not necessarily minimalist. Grove Collaborative has great glass spray bottles to mix your own cleaning products in and they are reusable over and over again.
Unless a product has expired or you simply don't like it...it seems to me that it would be more economical to use up what you have and not throw it out...Simply don't buy the product again in the future! I think the throw pillow idea is a good one. Throw pillows are often expensive and you really don't need them. I am also glad to see a no-nonsense woman, who doesn't carry her entire world in her purse. Thank you for posting this.
I don't use straws anyway, nor do I buy smoothies when out. Can be made at home if you really need a smoothie. Or just drink water, New mums do not need wipes, they can use and re-use face washers/flannels. Use an ordinary mop and you won't need disposable whatever it is. Sorry i didn't watch any more due to the high levels of consumerism.
I'm not a minimalist by any means, but was wondering if u could do an in depth video about how many items of clothing u own, what works for and y. I'm interested in paring down my wardrobe but would like ure imput xx
Angela Kneller Earlier in her list she did a capsule wardrobe showing how she manages with 2 tops, 1 dress, 2 bottoms and a blazer (so I recall). Give her list a look through, : )
Awesome tips! I, too, hate the smell of swiffer wipes, so for years I have been using either vinegar or lemon juice mixed with water in a spray bottle and spray my floors then use the sock over the swiffer to wipe down.
Leisa Buck the reason the sound gets significantly louder is because there is no longer air flow going through the vacuum (if you clog a vacuum or if the filter becomes clogged, this blocks an opening/exit causing a halt in air flow thus making the vacuum louder). Conventional vacuums work with a plastic filter or even a cloth filter (commonly the bag ones). The issue with these vacuums is that although you manage to trap dust, a large percentage of the trapped dust is going back into the atmosphere (your home) due to the need of air flow which is the key for a vacuum to function properly. A vacuum can still have suction, but the lack of air flow caused by a clogged or blocked filter or passageway won't allow you to pick up any dust. The average vacuum no longer picks up dust or debris effectively after 15 minutes. This is the reason why you can't muster to pick up the slightest fuzz on your carpet or rug. Also, the issue with releasing dust back into your home is the culprit as to why you see dust on your furniture after vacuuming or why some people like myself begin to sneeze like crazy. Not only this but I find from personal experience that no matter the vacuum, it begins to release an unpleasant odor as time goes by. This is concerning since odor signals the decay of organic matter (natural dirt doesn't have bad odor if you think about it; it's only the matter in decomposition). I've stopped using conventional vacuums for these reasons: you're only cleaning so much, worsens my allergies and my mom's asthma, spreads/hides the dust, odor, dreadful cleaning of the filter. In the past year, I have come across the best vacuum. I'm endorsing it because I truly love it. It's filter is not a plastic container nor a bag nor fabric; it's mother nature's water! The vacuum has so many functions! It works as a vacuum which comes with its many accessories: the vacuum head for floors (wooden floor friendly and it's designed to vibrate the dust from the bottom of the carpet all the way to surface), a small head for corners, another one for maybe stairs or couches, a soft brush great for furniture and blinds, there's even one for pets, then there's a large carpet shampooer, then there's the small version great for cleaning small stains and even cars, it also comes with mop accessories including two microfiber clothes, a hard sponge for tile or bathroom, a brush with a rubber side as well for tile floors. I literally clean my entire house with one machine! I love that the water is the filter because water does not have holes therefore, dust is not going back into the atmosphere and it's actually releasing the clean evaporated water through the other end to maintain the air flow. It's super easy to clean as well. Simply remove the plastic container, dump out the water and it's icky contents, give it a good cleaning, and tada! clean. All of its accessories are just as easy to clean. Wet dust cannot fly around, so there's no hassle of having a sneezing episode. Also, water traps odors, so your air will be clean, odor free, and fresh. I remove the vacuuming nozzle and use it as an air purifier on the high setting whenever my dog is shedding heavily or simply for 15 minutes per room to maintain a good water level (remember what comes back out is clean evaporated water) and it can be left 24 hours on the low setting to keep it purifying the air. It's also an amazing humidifier. I love that it comes with essential oils to put in the water, so you can go ahead and add some nice scent to your air while cleaning your home. My mother's asthma is under control (it has the certificate for being asthma friendly), and it has helped keep our house clean despite my dog's allergies which causes her to stink up and shed heavily when she's ill. I highly recommend this machine. It's not sold in stores though well in their stores only. It's only available on their website. It is about $3000 rounding upwards a couple hundred, but I believe it is worth it. It's many functions and great quality and warranty (8 years for warranty and 24+ years for lifespan or however it's called) make it worth it. They have a couple of financial plans considering the price as well. I should probably give the name haha silly me. It's called the Rainbow. Those living the in the US have probably heard of it at some point, but it truly is a great product. No more buying mops, dusters, etc. Oh and it dries as you mop and shampoo! Should I mentiona that it is NOT that loud. I can have a conversation eith someone even on the highest setting. It has a smart feature that makes it turn off when it grasps a cabel or wire or even something that can potentially get stuck. It's amazing. I highly recommend it. The link to the website is: rainbowsystem.com/?gclid=CjwKEAiAyO_BBRDOgM-K8MGWpmYSJACePQ9CgRsUu1eW__6vc7IKovLQGECGu_ygv_wjiWt-Em8asBoCrInw_wcB I don't recommend buying it elsewhere because eBay and Amazon typically carry used, potentially broken who knows really, older models. The company creates a new model every 8 years.
I recommend using alcohol and water instead of a vinegar solution. totally streak free on glass and you can scent it with a small amount of cooking extract ( alcohol based not oil based) I'm a professional cleaner and that's what I use on about 95% of surfaces. vinegar solution is what you should use on wood floors though :)
It isn't hard to clean a straw. You just let it soak in nice hot water and if need be use a pipe cleaner. Good quality ones can then be put through a dishwasher like I do.
Silvia Hoffmann To minimize time spent in the kitchen 😜. I'm not a minimalist but I know there are NO hard-fast rules, this is not a religion, just a lifestyle and each person has the FREEDOM to decide what they can live without, they are minimalizing their lifestyle mainly to free up time and money consumed on meaningless "stuff", not trying to fit in in a "cult" or gain the approval of others.
I'm the same with cleaning products but I do have Eco dish washing and clothes washing detergents. I use bicarbonate soda and vinegar to clean or a steam mop. Whenever people stay or move in with me they often buy other cleaning products for me - they decide I need them, not me. I don't buy straws at all, I stopped using them long ago. I have a drink bottle with a straw in it and it is very hard to clean if I have had a smoothy in it.
Steph Lane I've worked in the food industry. Restaurants are dirty and even the most high end places will cut corners when it comes to cleanliness. Eating at home may require a little work but it's so much cleaner and you save money. You would be shocked at the things that the department of health is ok with when it comes to restaurants. We're not required to clean 80% of the surfaces in the kitchen or dining area. All we're required to do is clean the floors and wipe down the table tops. Anything under the table, or on the seat (unless it's a spill) goes uncleaned. Booths are the dirtiest. Public kichens and dining rooms are the best places to spread germs and sickness.
I too have worked in the food industry and I AGREE with you FULLY. I once saw a fellow Starbucks employee wash the floor with one of the milk steaming pitchers. Also they wasted SO MUCH of their product by dumping it in the garbage. They are so fake and full of crap when they say "Oh we are so eco friendly" No. They pretend to be to make $$$ but they aren't.
Lily Rose And also my dear you are 100% correct on the price of things being ridiculous! But you forgot to mention the quality of the average restaurant's food is terrible as well.
I appreciate that you consciously consider what you need and why you do. I agree with everything you offered up. I personally wish people would also stop buying bottle water and stop using styrofoam take out containers. Eat it or leave it.
The biggest issue is product packaging. Think about the volume of space packaging uses. I've been using powdered milk because I can get so many gallons from a cardboard box instead of empty air-filled plastic jugs. That's just one example. Recycling takes time and the less packaging volume, the less recycling time. Think about it.
I just spent about a half hour typing my ideas and tips and it's gone! Oh well, just don't buy or use anything you don't love. Having less and downsizing is such a good feeling. I don't miss anything that I've gotten rid of. I don't use a lot of things anymore. Or at least way less. Be conscience of what you buy and what you use. :)
Jody Mead I like this idea, too. Actually, I want to get rid of "stuff" and replace it with plants, lots and lots of plants. Fortunately my apartment has a balcony with a glass door that lets in lots of sunlight. The sun rises and sets on my side of the complex. I don't know how the folks on the other side can stand it.
I love your videos. I could seriously watch them all day. You have a very calm, soothing voice which is great for listening at work. All great tips and I think now I will go home and check out my bake ware cabinets because I know they have been bursting and driving me crazy.
I keep seeing people mentioning using a long handled spoon....i have never tried drinking water or juice with a spoon. I highly doubt I would drink anything if I had to do it with a spoon
I don't like the vinegar method. I used to do that with laundry and everyone said I wreaked of vinegar. It has a lingering smell. Don't use it for cleaning unless you need a tough stain or mess
Thx for these great tips! Fyi. We can't use Vinegar on our Floor ceramic tile or our new Granite counter tops---our home builder said NO because it's too acidic/eats away at the Tile grout and grout sealer and the granite protective coating too. I only use vinegar for cleaning veggies, toilets etc.. But Mouthwash i must have because of severe gum sensitivity due to autoimmune and Lyme/Mold disease. Unfortunately the natural brand i have to use with Neem oil is the most expensive at health store. We do what we gotta do.
Would be better if you could learn to modulate your voice... It became hard to follow your monotone pretty quickly. I also find it ironic that many of the things you are urging people to give up aren't exactly the things that are common clutter problems... like straws. I'd rather have a pillow than a throw blanket and why have two anyway??? Is it possible that some things on your list are motivated more by sponsorship than practicality? Good luck on any case.
This also help keep your spending in check. How many people say they never have any money and are constantly buying more "stuff"? Living simply is a no brainer. Unless you like constantly being in debt. How much stuff does average person have in closest or storage? But would never dream of getting rid of.
I have done the vinegar & water as you suggested...I also got the wellness essential diffuser, I love it!!! I've also gone thru a lot of my possessions and gotten rid of a lot : ) Thank you for taking the time to make your videos! Very inspiring!!
For the vinegar and water solution, you could also add orange peels into that mixture and then strain the mixture into the spray bottle after a few days just keeping the liquid for spray! Smells good!
I don't understand why you're claiming minimalism. A minimalist would not even use/buy straws. If you're at a restaurant, you don't have to use them either. They're extra stuff to store and clean.
Julianna HM a minimalist doesnt use straws?? she is a minimalist using straws. lol and they are small you are acting like they are a huge burden lol this is what happens in these types of communities where people then bash each other for not doing everything perfectly or how they see fit. lol it's like the same as having a holier than thou mentality to me. It's her life and it was a suggestion people can choose to follow or not follow. Some people need to use straws. It wouldn't make them less minimalist dear goodness. This is why I stay away from stuff like this. Everyone has to be perfect at what they claim themselves to be apparently.
My husband has cerebral palsy and is unable to drink anything without a straw because he cannot coordinate his lips to use a glass or cup. Different people have different needs and some people actually need straws. We reuse his straws by cleaning them with a brush and then sticking them in the dishwasher on the sterilize setting. Before we had a dishwasher I used to boil them after scrubbing them.
Peppermint extract (flavouring) from the bakery aisle, is the only thing which neutralises the smell of vinegar. A few drops of washing up liquid added to vinegar and water and it cleans just about anything. Thank you for those ideas as I need to de-clutter.
Metal or glass ones can be dangerous for kids if the walk or run with one and have a fall or are in a car. I remember seeing an X-ray of some Asian kid with metal chopsticks in his skull. Please do NOT recommend METAL straws!!! accident waiting to happen with the metal straws. Just go strawless! I stopped buying straws after my kids started elementary school. They are big enough to drink from a glass.
For anybody wondering why you would need/want straws in the home, I can think of a couple reasons. For one, some people have disabilities that makes it difficult for them to coordinate the movement required to lift a glass to their lips. Second, I definitely appreciate having a straw when I'm wearing lipstick that I don't want to have to keep reapplying.
Straws are good for sugary drinks to keep some of it off your teeth
Lipsticks contain minute traces of lead, dear. I stopped years ago, and threw out all the remaining makeup as well. My beauty comes from inside.
Ditch the swiffer and get a steam mop. It cleans and sanitizes the floor with steam. No cleaner needed and the head is washable. Shark and bissell make awesome one. :) Great video.
I have the shark one and it's great! And you can even add essential oils into the water to make it smell nice
be careful on real hardwood floors, seriously, I left it in one spot for like a minute and it literally burned the floor! a brown to black scorch mark! I couldn't believe it!
Aren't those expensive ?
A little tip. Watch out for essential oils in diffusers if you have small pets. Birds cats dogs can get very ill from essential oils. Lavender, eucalyptus, are a few. Check before using.
Tea tree is another. Usually not used in diffusers, but in cleaners. Toxic to cats for sure.
Quite amusing to see what passes for minimalism these days. Someone should go watch some movie like "Heaven and Earth" - that is true minimalism.
There are lists of essential oils that are toxic to cats and dogs. I have a few friends whose animals have recently become quite ill from diffuser use. I love a diffuser and always clean with a few drops of lavender. Make sure you're safe while saving or that vet bill is going to be a whopper. Thanks for all of the tips. I've not read where lavender is toxic to cats and I have a cat.
Also, if you plan to have guests over, please warn them. I have bad reactions to strong scents (any strong scents) and it's best if diffusers are shut off a few hours before I walk into a room. I know a few people who are similar, so I think telling people ahead of time is polite
I'm very transient in nature, so I move around a lot. Personal record - 9 times in one year, so not only I am an expert packer, in 15 years I've also learned to live without things that I don't actually need. Much like Alton Brown, I can't stand unitaskers so I made a point to get rid of everything that served one purpose. Plastic tupperware is now replaced with mason jars, as they are perfect for portioning leftovers and to be used as drinking vessels. Essential oils are used in cleaning, gardening, beauty and health care. Instead of wondering where do hair ties go to die, I switched to the phone cord variety and I am yet to lose one. I never used lotion because I have a good exfoliating cloth and I moisturize my skin internally by ingesting oil supplements. Also, I don't buy anything new until I get rid of something old beforehand. This year's goal is to set up square foot gardening, so I don't have to walk across the street for lettuce lol
Oil supplements? Do they really affect your skin?
Every minimalist has oil supplements and lotions and exfoliating cloths, because that's how we roll.
Healthy oils ingested are great for the skin- Coconut, Walnut, Avocado
This is awesome!
@@freegee3503 I just learned that avocado and grapeseed oil are the only 2 oils we should fry with. And avocado makes an excellent sunscreen, as others have shared with me.
Lamps: Your approach works if you don't do lots of reading, crafts or anything else that requires good task lighting. It always seems kind of like a conspiracy on the part of the light fixture manufacturers that a ton of overhead fixtures come with a frosted shade and often also are for use with small and low output bulbs. To see properly to read and to do a ton of other things I've found extra lamps to be necessary. Yeah, of course, if it's about relaxation or meditation then less is more but if you need to see optimally and avoid losing your vision then proper lighting is important.
Yes! Low light is good for falling asleep, but I have depression and I live in Canada, bright lights can help wake you up in the morning and minimize some symptoms of depression (of course, this doesn't necessarily work for all people, so don't go shining bright lights in your friends' eyes for fun, but it does help me).
I had to take off the frosted cover of my bedroom ceiling light.
Thanks for the video! I encourage you to add the following timings to your video description, so they don't get lost in the thousand comments:
0:33 disposable straws - reusable!
1:50 household cleaners
2:34 hand cream - easy DIY!
3:22 wipes and mop pads - DIY mop and wipes
4:20 ottoman and coffee table
5:33 throw pillows - blankets
6:21 lamps - fairy lights
6:36 hair accessories - just clip/scrunchie
7:10 perfumed products: nail polish, dye, scented candles, scented laundry detergent, perfume - diffuser, natural lotions
7:55 stretchy bottoms - cotton
8:45 mouthwash - unscented floss
9:20 bakeware - muffin tin, cookie sheet, baking pan, roasting pan
A lot of these suggestions are just substituting one thing for another and that seems to me to be trading one clutter for another. Sorry, but that's the way I see it. Trade your couch pillows for a blanket? Trade one straw for another? Keeping two hand lotion bottles instead of four? Whats the point?
You have something against blankets.
The point of minimalism isn't just about a number, it's minimizing the unnecessary or joyful things in your life. How many people love grocery shopping? Cleaning? Running errands? Carrying a ton of things around? These are areas she would like to minimize in her life, and it works for her.
THANK YOU FOR NOT WEARING PERFUME!! I wish people wouldn't walk through stores leaving a cloud and a migraine behind them. Like your Swiffer tip.
why use a straw at all? I haven't used one in over 20 years. nothing to buy, nothing to clean, nothing to store.
I agree I do carry tissues to wipe off a can top, but other than that, you don't need straws.
I have severely sensitive teeth, so if I want to drink cold drinks, I have to use a straw.
Using a desensitizing toothpaste helps a bit but it takes forever for it to be effective. We instructed our patients to rub a small amount of the paste on to the teeth at night before bed and leave it. You will see noticeable results after one week. Choose a brand that has the highest percentage of strontium chloride or potassium nitrate you can find. If you have a mouthguard or bleaching tray, use it with the toothpaste for even faster results and less mess.
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My minimalism = no straws at all.
Vinegar on certain finishes on wood floors will remove the finish. There are some things vinegar is bad for. It IS my go to toilet bowl cleaner. But to just start 'chucking' cleansers from under the sink is very wasteful. Use em up or rehome them.
I SO agree with the heavily scented products! They DO cause headaches, and u don't have to be the one wearing it to be affected!
Why use drinking straws? you can drink from a cup or glass without a straw (even a toddler can)
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No straws. Sensitive teeth need an anti-sensitive toothpaste. Most companies offer it.
You don't need a straw if you drink PLAIN water. But if you drink Lemon, Lime or other citrus juice in water, then Dentists recommend using a straw---because the citrus acid can erode the teeth. Other drinks can STAIN &Dull the teeth like Coffee, Tea, Sodas even natural sodas where they use "Caramel coloring".
I have severely sensitive teeth. Even with the sensitive toothpaste, I have to use a straw to drink cold drinks.
crosswind76, that has been debunked. askthedentist.com/drinking-sugary-drinks-through-straws/
I use 2oz. dawn, 4oz. lemon juice, 6oz. disstill white vinager, and 10oz. of water...put in spray bottle. LOVE it makes the best all purpose cleaner.
Hey guys, I couldn’t resist giving my take on the Things I No Longer Buy. I tried to focus on how you can minimize your possessions without missing a beat! Hope you find some new tips to try, and hope you all have a great week.
More Melody Love the video. I spend alot on plastic ziplock bags that I have to keep buying over and over. I used them for my fruits and veggies. Any advice?
buy some "bees wraps" instead and use reusable glass boxes when possible, for lunch or freezing!
Thank you.
tikea p We even use mason jars (think prepped veggies, small berries). I keep washed, whole fruits on counter in bowls (keep apples away from bananas). Keep potatoes and onions in separate well ventilated bins in cool, dry, dark. If you absolutely need to use baggies, wash and reuse them until exhausted!
More Melody: Are you heading towards zero waste? If so, good for you (and Mother Earth)!
My favorite three things that I do not currently do, but after seeing this video, I will try.
1.) baking pans. We've become vegan and I realized I have 4 roasting pans I constantly move around in the pantry. (bye-bye)
2.) I have tried vinegar and water to wash my wood floors and like it better now than commercial wood floor cleaners. I will try vinegar and water as a staple cleaner as I've always hated bleach.
3.) getting rid of all nail polish. I never use it. If it's a special occasion I go get my nails done as a treat.
Thank you for having a minimalism video, I do appreciate it.
Everyone here is arguing about who's really a minimalist and who isn't. Who needs straws, who doesn't. If you're such a minimalist why are you wasting power & internet arguing with people over wasting?
Brilliant.
how do you get metal or glass straws really clean?
Snap! Love this comment!
When I bought my glass straws, they came with a little brush to clean them. They also can go in the dishwasher.
Pipe cleaners?
Not sure if it has been mentioned in other video's, but instead of buying lotion you can use (organic) coconut oil as moisturizer, it works on hands, body and lips, you can also use It as a mouth rinse (20 minutes). And instead of using shampoo keep vinegar and baking soda in your bathroom, when you take a shower combine to in a container and apply to hair (called the no poo method) It saves you time and money
Surely chucking products out that you already have is wasteful and against sustainability, you might as well use them up first and then choose a minimalist option
I'm afraid the glass straw will break, at home or on the go, since I have 3 little kids. The metal straw, they can poke their gums. 😞
how about bamboo straws?
What's that?
re-usable straws made from bamboo. Have a look on amazon. There are lots of different options.
Just be sure to wash and dry thorough to prevent mould.
Why bother buying any kind of straw. NOT needed for any drink at home.
Forgot to add, please do more 'day in the life of' 😊 seeing your porch and just relaxing with pat is actually really relaxing to watch too! Thanks Melody
I was surprised anyone would consider straws a necesity? like I literally never have straws??
Bee Buenrostro Straws help to keep from destroying all of your teeth with sugary drinks.My dentist claimed that's a lie but it's not.
Some people with disabilities need them, if you don't need them, don't buy them :)
Agreed. I was looking forward to this video, but all the tips were not very practical, at least in terms of minimalism... I wouldn't think a minimalist would buy straws at all. Hm.
+Bee Buenrostro maybe it's a sales pitch, you know like "if you're a minimalist, you have to use reusable straws.. I happen to know where to get the best ones.. " :)
Some people have sensitive teeth. Straws help. Plus, anyone who is bedridden have trouble sitting all the way up to drink anything.
I thought I was the only person who dislikes throw pillows. I find them uncomfortable and I feel if I can't use the items it is wasting space lol. I'm all for blankets on the couch though. Makes so much sense. Also the less furniture the better for me..less to clean :) I absolutely love my essential oils. I MUST have my diffuser. Keeps me "chilled" lol Excellent video!
***** That's EXACTLY what happened to us years ago...so I gave them up...never been happier lol :)
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Some couches really need pillows to put behind your back so you don't sink in or find yourself perched on the edge because they're so deep. And blankets on the couch are not appealing at ALL if you live in Florida! :) There's nothing that works for everyone.
Love the fact that she doesn't do long intros! This makes it so much more interesting.
Pardon I wasn't quite sure what u said about lotion vs cream. I had already put lotion in small containers around the house, but then I found out CREAM is so much better than lotion! Dermatologist approved!😃
At its core, Minimalism is a design aesthetic. It's a mindset focused on purity and clarity. It's not about doing the same with less, that's frugality. Minimalism is about having 'the best' of everything because you only need one. A minimalist doesn't pick a couch because it declutters the room, you pick the one that is the pinnacle of comfort and support or one that represents the aesthetic reflection of your aspirations or identity. The 'tips' and what you're describing all have to do with frugality.
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Getting rid of bakeware was life-changing for sure lol 2 big drawers emptied! The only tip I'll have to skip is the blankets on the couch, an unfolded blanket gives me hives haha like I've interrupted someone's nap 😅 always looks messy to me
I never bought any of that crap in the first place.
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keep 1 throw pillow for short guests.. I always grab one to put behind my back whenever I sit on
a couch. & 1 can serve as a spare for a sleepover.. or sprained ankle, need to elevate :-) my throw pillows ALL came in handy for that.
You could stuff a pillow case using a scrunched or rolled up blanket! Perhaps a pretty bed pillow case with a large fold over flap, or a couch pillow style fabric with a zipper. I am liking this idea as a nice way to store blankets!
Minimalist throw out cooking pans, throw pillows, and straws, but keep video cameras, laptops, and large screen television sets.....interesting.
I don't see the point in buying straws at all. I have a few plastic ones that are reusable but that's it. The rest of this stuff makes good sense though. A lot of what is sold in stores is just bullshit we don't need.
Lily Rose so v unhygienic
Toxic lead is added to plastics as a stabilizer.
It also contains hormone disruptors. (Sources linked in my following two comments.)
We no longer store food in plastic. Metal and glass are safer options.
PleaseCiteYourSources Please cite your source
Laura Mason Source for plastics disrupting hormones (causing birth defects, cancer, etc.):
www.huffingtonpost.com/lisa-kaas-boyle/plastic-is-food-poisoning_b_5219189.html
I is a long article and well worth your time!
(One or more links to follow.)
Laura Mason ... per OSHA, toxic lead is added to plastic as a stabilizer: www.osha.gov/SLTC/lead/
FYI: I read an article about a year ago saying lead is used in the manufacture of plastics to make it flexible....but now I can't find the article, so I will edit my earlier comment to reflect that. (I is still added, but as a stabilizer.)
In any case, the health effects caused by the hormone disrupters in plastics is reason enough to not use plastics.
Note: a lot of lead exposure comes from touching objects, and then it enters your body via your hands.
Objects include lead jewelry, toys with lead based paint, and dust on mini-blinds (look up ***Consumer Reports*** on these to see if you own these types).
Everyone should feel comfortable with their own style of minimalism. Whatever relieves stress for you helps. For me for example, I prefer the pillows over the blankets, and that is ok.
+MySardarji why call it minimalism then? might as well call it personal preference lol :)
Your FIRST thing was straws?? How many people actually use straws in their homes on a regular basis?
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I do, when you have sensitive teeth it’s great because the cold beverage doesn’t touch the teeth :)
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i rarely drink from a glass without one. i hate the way cups (especially plastic) feel and taste in my mouth
Georgia peach My family include 2 adults and 3 kids. Me and my siblings use a packet of straws every month. People use straws ALOT.
You can use instead of lotion coconut oil for your hands body face and hair put it in a small container
Deutschlehrer Athener I've tried it but it doesn't work... kinda ironic but it's not oily enough for me... I have super dry skin tho...
+Emily Rose Actually it's the opposite for pure organic Coconut oil. It kills bacteria. I use it & have glowing skin.
+Karoliina Rautavirta it doesn't provide moisture, rather it locks it in. I use it nightly after washing my face :)
Coconut oil (pure/organic) is also great as a mouth rinse or oil pulling. It's saved me when I had dental pain, cause it killed the bacteria!
Deutschlehrer Athener olive oil so nice for skin I break out with coconut oil
Buy a bidet to attach to your toilet instead of using toilet wipes. There are some relatively cheap ones with high ratings on Amazon.
I'm new here, I think this is great. Our apartment has just been filling up with clutter since we initially moved in. I'm definitely giving these a shot!!
Should we throw away all of the cleaners that are half full? Or should we use them up and then recycle the bottles? I would hate to throw out a ton of chemicals at once.
I would use it untill it's gone. And maybe the bottles can be reused. It is a wasted to throw away anything (eventhough I throw out things as well... it's a learning process right?)
Stephanie, the resources have already been used to create the cleaners you have at home. Throwing them away is a waste of these resources, even if they weren''t informed or wise choices. My 2 cents worth? Throwing them away without using them is a double whammy waste! 1) Finish whatever cleaners you already have (unless they are truly harmful for people, animals, plants, water or air). They will still be entering the environment if you throw them away, unless they are toxic, in which case you need to contain them appropriately 2) Reuse or recycle the containers 3) Change your 'new normal' cleaning products to more sustainable choices such as vinegar, baking soda, microfibre cloths etc....
Stephanie Manley duh. She's not in charge of your life! Use up what you have.
Throw them out, and google xenoestrogens!!!
I would make use of them some way.
You had me at "you know I hate long intros." :) Very nice!
A couch with legs that raise up? Its a reclining couch.....
Like she though of it, how pretentious
I am from Europe and I have never understood why Americans wear shoes inside their homes. They walk in those shoes outside in dust, mud, and step on someone elses spitting on the sidewalk or step into a dogs poop. And then they go inside and on the carpet where their children sit and play. Yuck! Imagine all the bacteria! In my country it is considered rude not to take off your shoes when you come home, not to speak when you come into someone elses home on a visit. They would scold you immediatelly. No one wants dirty floors and carpets here... As for water with a little bit of vineygar - I have been using it for cleaning for years. I clean the bathroom with it, I clean the kitchen with it, everything. It is cheap and kills 99.9% of all germs. It works perfectly. I even use white vineygar as a fabric softener for my laundry - I put it in the washing machine instead of Lenor and other softeners. It works well, too. No acid smell and the laundry is soft and fluffy. As for straws - I know an even cheaper method: I dont use any straws at all. I drink right from the glass or mug. No straws (my family and me are not used to using them).
DanaPatriciaMary1 when I come home I put on socks. To wear your shoes inside your house is uncomfortable, and gets your floors dirtier.
😳 This is minimalism??? Wow. I have never used straws for drinking, handcream, paper towels or anything like that in my life. Never realized I was living a minimalist lifestyle. In my country we never used disposables much, so I never learned it. I gotta say that has been changing in recent years though, "thanks" to American culture sweeping over. You can buy a lot more disposables at stores now, but I still don't know anyone who uses them.
This is American culture (minimalist): a new subculture in America expanding fast.
Yeah, paper towels? Why? You have a sink right there to rinse out a dish cloth if need be.They are nice in a waterless environment, like when I was living in my camper with no water except in jugs.
I love this, because a bunch of these videos are about putting your things into baskets or moving it around from place to place. It's good to know who we can buy less, work less and have more fun with our lives. I'm tired of being a slave to stuff, and work and clothes and car payments. If we can have less then we won't have to work so hard for stuff that we don't really need.
don't use straws. period. People have survived without using straws
when you use straws for drinking tea or coffee, your teeth don't get as stained.
Yes, but my uncle wants to enjoy his drinks without spilling them on himself or the table, so he uses straws. Of course, he could survive without them until the parkinson's kills him, but sometimes life is about more than surviving.
I have gotten rid of my coffee table years ago as my house was too small for it and it changed my life for the better! Good info.
can't wait to whip out the dental floss at my next dinner party
I know right.
I have been trying so hard to find a video like this that makes the point clear cut. This video was great. I wasn't already purchasing alot of items that you mentioned but it was helpful to know that I really don't need to purchase alot of the things that I frequently do now. I have very severe allergies and I find myself constantly purchasing cleaning products to clean efficiently. Sometimes I forget that putting simple things together like vinegar and water to make a solution works just as well. I probably also don't realize many of the cleaning products I purchase may be health detrimental. I just purchased some method products online and I am looking forward to trying them hoping they are more close to organic. Great video! thanks for the tips.
I wanted you to know you changed my life!! I stumbled upon one of your videos trying to find tips to organized my mountains of crap. Then I found you and thank goodness because you opened my eyes ! I've watched almost all your videos. Thank you so much for the tips ! I've minimized my life extremely. I still have things I'd like to improve but it's all a process. I can't wait until I get to the point where my life is completely simplified. Thank you so so so much for all the information ! I'll be watching! (:
Rachel Rascon I second you on that .
This is SO good to hear. I haven't found Melody until a couple months ago, but I started my own minimalism journey inspired by CZcamsrs a couple years ago. I read "The life-changing magic of tidying up" and went on a roll transforming my space and finding what in it I loved. I love living simply & frugally!
Rachel Rascon. I have to say this is a very sweet comment
and I'm sorta disappointed that you didn't get a response whatsoever from Melanie
I have a Swiffer and a box of refills for easy cleaning. The refills are a waste of money because the floor feels sticky after using them. So, I went to the dollar store for a small microfiber towel and it works much better.
For cleaning, I use baking soda, vinegar and water. The baking soda for my stove top, some pots and pans, the sink and my coffee pot. The vinegar/water for wiping. So dish washing liquid is the only other thing I still use in the kitchen.
Make your own moisturizer! 2 parts almond oil, one part coconut oil, one part beeswax. Add your favorite essential oils 6 drops per ounce. Sooo Easy! Also try the no-poo method of shampoo and conditioner for your hair. All you need is baking soda, vinegar, and essential oils!
I really like using distilled white vinegar for many purposes too. Instead of lugging heavy gallon jugs of it from the store and paying more for distilled vinegar, I buy the 30% concentrate and dilute it myself at home. Pour 21 oz into an empty gallon jug, fill the rest of the way to a full gallon and then you have 5% distilled white vinegar just like the strength sold at the grocery.
Essential oils from a diffuser can be toxic to cats. Melody, I noticed you have a beautiful cat in your video, so please be careful. All cat owners, please research the toxicity of essential oils for cats!
I love cleaning with vinegar, but not everyone around the house does. So if u absolutely hate the smell of vinegar, even after adding essential oil, you can use witch hazel instead. I make my multi surface cleaner with witch hazel now, it cleans just as well if not better, doesn't have a strong smell, and can easily add any essential oil if you prefer a scent. I like to add lemon and lime essential oil, not only does it make it extra antibacterial, but it leaves a nice smell as well.
I enjoy all your thoughtful suggestions! This year I will be giving Luminara candles for gifts - the gift of relaxation!
Great and thoughtful gift!
OK, for me 50 cents on straws twice a year, a few $5 purchases of multi-surface spray, etc. isn't hurting the bottom line, but travel size cosmetics/creams and refilling makes a lot of sense.
Be careful with essentials oils, cats can be very sick with them in the long term...
eaudeflore oh! I didn't know that! I use the same diffuser and essential oils and suddenly both cats got whopping ear infections. I considered the EO as the cause. Thank you for the info.
Thanks for the heads up, eudeflore! I like my all-purpose just vinegar and water because eos have to be stored in amber spray bottles. I don't put eos on my skin because it makes it more sensitive to the sun. I'll make sure Pat stays away from the diffuser. I run it about three times a week in winter to get some moisture back into the air. I use 3 drops each time to keep the unit clean and air smelling nice.
Thanks for the info...is it okay to use little bit at a time and not so often or is it bad to use any at all ? and what does it do to cats ?
Lori Sanford my cats got whopping ear infections with added yeast infection to the ears. Although I ran mine continuously. Oops.
Be careful with the diffuser. A OT of animals are getting sick from breathing the oils. Google for more info. Scary stuff.
Great video. I recently bought a cordless vacuum similar to yours and it is amazing. I use it almost every day and am astonishing by the dust. I used to be big into glass and stainless steel straws, but have since discovered that I like to feel the liquid against my lips instead. Besides, straws are VERY difficult to clean. Since I never wear lipstick, keeping it on by using a draw to drink it never an issue! Great tips!
Your posts make a lot of sense, especially, now that I'm an empty nester. Thank you!
They really do.
I had to comment because a lot of people are questioning the straws. I personally rely on straws for iced drinks. I feel my teeth are sensitive and there’s nothing I hate more then cold ice on my teeth. I absolutely love all other tips!
my only concern is how you make sure the inside of the straws get clean
Thanks
Pamela DuBois In a pinch a soapy pipe cleaner can do the trick, too
There are actually straw brushes. Go to Amazon and search "drinking straw brush".
Pamela DuBois pipe cleaners
Pamela DuBois Some people think that just by washing it with a bit of soap and a sponge it's clean, but there's probably enough bacteria to make you sick. That's why I would just buy the pack if I must or just not use any, period.
I like the swiffer idea. I was thinking of buying a swiffer but didn't want to have to keep rebuying refills. Good to know I can just use a microfiber wash cloth. :D
Straws? I've never had an occasion to use a straw at home.
Swankster She needs straws because of her husbands disability
Okay? 🙄🙄
I am on a mission to declutter and it is going really really well! (But I have raised 4 kids so you can imagine what I've had to part with!) I found some absorbent washable towels at Trader Joe's that have replaced my paper towels! Love them! Love simple!
This is minimalism. Don't use straws, paper towels, tissues, vacuum cleaners, cotton balls, q-tips, or anything that requires an ongoing purchase. You can live your life without straws, for instance. Rags that are recycled from old cloth or clothing can be used in place of paper towels. Buy all your linens in white: towels, washcloths, hand towels, kitchen linens, handkerchiefs (soak in salt water til laundry day). Sanitize all your "whites" in a hot water wash cycle using a half cup of bleach once a week. Instead of a vacuum cleaner, which uses up resources to manufacture and electricity to run, use a broom and dustpan. Minimalism means Reduce, Reuse, Recycle, and Do Without!
Nice to see real minimalism :)
It was the roll of paper towels in the kitchen that set me off. The self-styled minimalist
"experts" lose me when they encourage the purchase of something like a metal or glass straw when you can do without or just keep using a plastic straw you may have acquired in your wanderings in case your jaws have been wired shut. ;-)
The difference between frugality and minimalism is recognizing when you just don't need something. My breakthrough was the moment I realized that a large cutting board, a good knife, and an immersion blender replaced all the small appliances we think are "must haves".
I still watch minimalism videos looking for the occasional gem of an idea.
its a process though no? if someone is shifting to that lifestyle/mentality - cant replace everything all at once. i for one - dont have that kind of money. nor do i want to just toss something thats unused because its not 'minimal' or whatever, thats pretty wasteful :P and even then, i think its okay to have one or two things that dont fit in the box of "minimalism" if thats your preference. (some people use cloth for toilet paper even) some effort of ecofriendly/frugality/etc is better than none
michelle lynn You make a good point about the amount of money one has and minimalism. An article I wandered across covered that aspect of minimalism, where people who have the means to acquire anything they wish do much better at going to extremes with minimalism. Those who don't have financial means tend to hoard material goods because they can't easily acquire them when needed, which leads to clutter and chaos in their lives.
I was raised with a minimalist and frugal mindset. We never threw something away, but we didn't hoard anything. We bought used, recycled, insourced, grew food, kept a minimal amount of clothing, To remain minimalist, I don't throw anything away, I just resell it or don't acquire it in the first place. As for cloth "toilet paper", the Sear's catalog and junk mail used to be the answer in the 60's. Now I use the $30 bidet attached to toilet. >^;^
I grew up similar to you:) I still enjoy watching Melody's videos too:) I did like your tips on buying all linens in white! Great idea! I am always trying to be uber resourceful:)
New viewer here, and I agree with you 100%. The specific items you mentioned may not apply to everyone. But the reasoning behind your choices is really the basic ideals of minimalism.
Ive never bought a straw in my life.
Me neither. And I never plan to. McDs (which I now avoid-due to cottonseed oil in frying) and all other fast food places should stop automatically putting straws in bags. Straws should be ONLY by request.
I am not a minimalist but I do use vinegar to clean. My husband hates the smell of vinegar and essential oils only mask the scent slightly. I also like Mrs. Meyers products. Many of the things you mentioned I consider frugal not necessarily minimalist. Grove Collaborative has great glass spray bottles to mix your own cleaning products in and they are reusable over and over again.
straws? they are an extra, but I love the idea of non-disposable ones. the other thing is Dollar Store. I am loving the vinegar idea.
Unless a product has expired or you simply don't like it...it seems to me that it would be more economical to use up what you have and not throw it out...Simply don't buy the product again in the future! I think the throw pillow idea is a good one. Throw pillows are often expensive and you really don't need them. I am also glad to see a no-nonsense woman, who doesn't carry her entire world in her purse. Thank you for posting this.
Love your videos and tips I find them really inspirational, also appreciate the lists you make in the description. I want to be as organised as you!
Thanks so much, Kat! I have a great organization series coming up for January. You'll love it :)
I don't use straws anyway, nor do I buy smoothies when out. Can be made at home if you really need a smoothie. Or just drink water, New mums do not need wipes, they can use and re-use face washers/flannels. Use an ordinary mop and you won't need disposable whatever it is. Sorry i didn't watch any more due to the high levels of consumerism.
I'm not a minimalist by any means, but was wondering if u could do an in depth video about how many items of clothing u own, what works for and y. I'm interested in paring down my wardrobe but would like ure imput xx
Angela Kneller Earlier in her list she did a capsule wardrobe showing how she manages with 2 tops, 1 dress, 2 bottoms and a blazer (so I recall). Give her list a look through, : )
I suppose they have to be pretty thick clothing. As minimalist as I'd like to be, I've never managed to go without underwear :)
I noticed that you didn't have reusable bamboo straws. I love the strength of the wood as well as oh..i love wooden products.
Check it out.
I also dont have a coffee table. Makes it so easy to vacuum.
Awesome tips! I, too, hate the smell of swiffer wipes, so for years I have been using either vinegar or lemon juice mixed with water in a spray bottle and spray my floors then use the sock over the swiffer to wipe down.
I just bought the cordless vacuum that you recommended! I love it and may vacuum more!! 😀
It's just the best! It's versatile, nice to look at, and easy to clean. I've been using it for years now, and I still am in love. :)
LeslieMcsg i bought a dyson stick vac and i definitely vacuum more!
LeslieMcsg is it very lpud
ladama no its not. i had a VAX upright before this one now it sounds like a jumbo jet!!!
Leisa Buck the reason the sound gets significantly louder is because there is no longer air flow going through the vacuum (if you clog a vacuum or if the filter becomes clogged, this blocks an opening/exit causing a halt in air flow thus making the vacuum louder). Conventional vacuums work with a plastic filter or even a cloth filter (commonly the bag ones). The issue with these vacuums is that although you manage to trap dust, a large percentage of the trapped dust is going back into the atmosphere (your home) due to the need of air flow which is the key for a vacuum to function properly. A vacuum can still have suction, but the lack of air flow caused by a clogged or blocked filter or passageway won't allow you to pick up any dust. The average vacuum no longer picks up dust or debris effectively after 15 minutes. This is the reason why you can't muster to pick up the slightest fuzz on your carpet or rug. Also, the issue with releasing dust back into your home is the culprit as to why you see dust on your furniture after vacuuming or why some people like myself begin to sneeze like crazy. Not only this but I find from personal experience that no matter the vacuum, it begins to release an unpleasant odor as time goes by. This is concerning since odor signals the decay of organic matter (natural dirt doesn't have bad odor if you think about it; it's only the matter in decomposition). I've stopped using conventional vacuums for these reasons: you're only cleaning so much, worsens my allergies and my mom's asthma, spreads/hides the dust, odor, dreadful cleaning of the filter. In the past year, I have come across the best vacuum. I'm endorsing it because I truly love it. It's filter is not a plastic container nor a bag nor fabric; it's mother nature's water! The vacuum has so many functions! It works as a vacuum which comes with its many accessories: the vacuum head for floors (wooden floor friendly and it's designed to vibrate the dust from the bottom of the carpet all the way to surface), a small head for corners, another one for maybe stairs or couches, a soft brush great for furniture and blinds, there's even one for pets, then there's a large carpet shampooer, then there's the small version great for cleaning small stains and even cars, it also comes with mop accessories including two microfiber clothes, a hard sponge for tile or bathroom, a brush with a rubber side as well for tile floors. I literally clean my entire house with one machine! I love that the water is the filter because water does not have holes therefore, dust is not going back into the atmosphere and it's actually releasing the clean evaporated water through the other end to maintain the air flow. It's super easy to clean as well. Simply remove the plastic container, dump out the water and it's icky contents, give it a good cleaning, and tada! clean. All of its accessories are just as easy to clean. Wet dust cannot fly around, so there's no hassle of having a sneezing episode. Also, water traps odors, so your air will be clean, odor free, and fresh. I remove the vacuuming nozzle and use it as an air purifier on the high setting whenever my dog is shedding heavily or simply for 15 minutes per room to maintain a good water level (remember what comes back out is clean evaporated water) and it can be left 24 hours on the low setting to keep it purifying the air. It's also an amazing humidifier. I love that it comes with essential oils to put in the water, so you can go ahead and add some nice scent to your air while cleaning your home. My mother's asthma is under control (it has the certificate for being asthma friendly), and it has helped keep our house clean despite my dog's allergies which causes her to stink up and shed heavily when she's ill. I highly recommend this machine. It's not sold in stores though well in their stores only. It's only available on their website. It is about $3000 rounding upwards a couple hundred, but I believe it is worth it. It's many functions and great quality and warranty (8 years for warranty and 24+ years for lifespan or however it's called) make it worth it. They have a couple of financial plans considering the price as well. I should probably give the name haha silly me. It's called the Rainbow. Those living the in the US have probably heard of it at some point, but it truly is a great product. No more buying mops, dusters, etc. Oh and it dries as you mop and shampoo! Should I mentiona that it is NOT that loud. I can have a conversation eith someone even on the highest setting. It has a smart feature that makes it turn off when it grasps a cabel or wire or even something that can potentially get stuck. It's amazing. I highly recommend it. The link to the website is:
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I don't recommend buying it elsewhere because eBay and Amazon typically carry used, potentially broken who knows really, older models. The company creates a new model every 8 years.
When using removable straws REMEMBER the straw cleaner!! This is an AMAZING tool!!
Great video thank you! Would you have time to do a cooking video by chance?? I've never seen you cook or what you eat! 💞Stephanie have a great week!
I recommend using alcohol and water instead of a vinegar solution. totally streak free on glass and you can scent it with a small amount of cooking extract ( alcohol based not oil based) I'm a professional cleaner and that's what I use on about 95% of surfaces. vinegar solution is what you should use on wood floors though :)
I disagree with the straw thing. That is unhygienic, and cleaning straws completely is impossible. Sometimes things get caked on the inside. Gross!!
Barbie Pena just soak it dudette! duh!
It isn't hard to clean a straw. You just let it soak in nice hot water and if need be use a pipe cleaner. Good quality ones can then be put through a dishwasher like I do.
Barbie Pena a lot of reusable straws come with a cleaning brushes
why would a minimalist have a dishwasher
Silvia Hoffmann To minimize time spent in the kitchen 😜. I'm not a minimalist but I know there are NO hard-fast rules, this is not a religion, just a lifestyle and each person has the FREEDOM to decide what they can live without, they are minimalizing their lifestyle mainly to free up time and money consumed on meaningless "stuff", not trying to fit in in a "cult" or gain the approval of others.
I'm the same with cleaning products but I do have Eco dish washing and clothes washing detergents. I use bicarbonate soda and vinegar to clean or a steam mop. Whenever people stay or move in with me they often buy other cleaning products for me - they decide I need them, not me.
I don't buy straws at all, I stopped using them long ago. I have a drink bottle with a straw in it and it is very hard to clean if I have had a smoothy in it.
I notice you have paper towels in your kitchen......I haven't used those for years....
Why bother with straws at all? Just drinking straight from a glass is even more minimalist.
Junk the straws!
I have begun to bring my own beverage when I go out/eat out (Trying to forgo eating out at all but the temptation is strong)
Steph Lane I've worked in the food industry. Restaurants are dirty and even the most high end places will cut corners when it comes to cleanliness. Eating at home may require a little work but it's so much cleaner and you save money. You would be shocked at the things that the department of health is ok with when it comes to restaurants. We're not required to clean 80% of the surfaces in the kitchen or dining area. All we're required to do is clean the floors and wipe down the table tops. Anything under the table, or on the seat (unless it's a spill) goes uncleaned. Booths are the dirtiest. Public kichens and dining rooms are the best places to spread germs and sickness.
I too have worked in the food industry and I AGREE with you FULLY. I once saw a fellow Starbucks employee wash the floor with one of the milk steaming pitchers. Also they wasted SO MUCH of their product by dumping it in the garbage. They are so fake and full of crap when they say "Oh we are so eco friendly" No. They pretend to be to make $$$ but they aren't.
Lily Rose And also my dear you are 100% correct on the price of things being ridiculous! But you forgot to mention the quality of the average restaurant's food is terrible as well.
I appreciate that you consciously consider what you need and why you do. I agree with everything you offered up. I personally wish people would also stop buying bottle water and stop using styrofoam take out containers. Eat it or leave it.
There's a brush to clean those straws... a rinse out is not good enough.
dishwasher will clean glass straws?
Dishwasher won't clean those straws.
Mine does if I stand them up on one of the vertical wire things that the rack is made of. I certainly don't lay them down.
Pipe cleaners - also work well on my pyrex glass teapots' spouts.
The biggest issue is product packaging. Think about the volume of space packaging uses. I've been using powdered milk because I can get so many gallons from a cardboard box instead of empty air-filled plastic jugs. That's just one example. Recycling takes time and the less packaging volume, the less recycling time. Think about it.
Lmao this is how my brain works but I never knew there was a name for it
I think a lot of folk into the tiny house movement may also be minimalists.
That would be me ;)
I just spent about a half hour typing my ideas and tips and it's gone! Oh well, just don't buy or use anything you don't love. Having less and downsizing is such a good feeling. I don't miss anything that I've gotten rid of. I don't use a lot of things anymore. Or at least way less. Be conscience of what you buy and what you use. :)
Jody Mead I like this idea, too. Actually, I want to get rid of "stuff" and replace it with plants, lots and lots of plants. Fortunately my apartment has a balcony with a glass door that lets in lots of sunlight. The sun rises and sets on my side of the complex. I don't know how the folks on the other side can stand it.
Yay! Welcome aboard. You can still have makeup and plants and be minimalist. It's a really an inclusive and exciting movement :)
I love your videos. I could seriously watch them all day. You have a very calm, soothing voice which is great for listening at work. All great tips and I think now I will go home and check out my bake ware cabinets because I know they have been bursting and driving me crazy.
Why would you even need a straw? Can't you just drink directly from the cup or use a long spoon?
I don't know about others, but I drink so much more water if I have a straw.
I keep seeing people mentioning using a long handled spoon....i have never tried drinking water or juice with a spoon. I highly doubt I would drink anything if I had to do it with a spoon
I don't like the vinegar method. I used to do that with laundry and everyone said I wreaked of vinegar. It has a lingering smell. Don't use it for cleaning unless you need a tough stain or mess
I would never invest in metal or glass straws,,your asking for accidents with those
Thx for these great tips! Fyi. We can't use Vinegar on our Floor ceramic tile or our new Granite counter tops---our home builder said NO because it's too acidic/eats away at the Tile grout and grout sealer and the granite protective coating too. I only use vinegar for cleaning veggies, toilets etc.. But Mouthwash i must have because of severe gum sensitivity due to autoimmune and Lyme/Mold disease. Unfortunately the natural brand i have to use with Neem oil is the most expensive at health store. We do what we gotta do.
Hahaha, The ad before your video was for a lady who loves candles and has 1000 of them♥
Vonda Krakar Love that's funny cuz you later find out she doesn't buy the strongly scented ones :(
keg10609 That's great! you watched the whole thing. I walk the line too♥
Vonda Krakar Love hahah lmao yeah :p
Would be better if you could learn to modulate your voice... It became hard to follow your monotone pretty quickly. I also find it ironic that many of the things you are urging people to give up aren't exactly the things that are common clutter problems... like straws. I'd rather have a pillow than a throw blanket and why have two anyway??? Is it possible that some things on your list are motivated more by sponsorship than practicality? Good luck on any case.
This also help keep your spending in check. How many people say they never have any money and are constantly buying more "stuff"? Living simply is a no brainer. Unless you like constantly being in debt. How much stuff does average person have in closest or storage? But would never dream of getting rid of.
How do you clean those straws when you don't have a dish washer
Leila Robinson There are small brushes designed just to clean them. Can get them on Amazon for cheap
Leila Robinson I bought Pipe Cleaners at the Dollar Store - 30/pkg. They are reusable.
We use the sterilize setting after brushing and rinsing my husband's straws. He needs to use straws due to his disability.
Most of my cleaning can be done with Dawn dish soap (even use it on the floor), vinegar and baking soda. I use plant-based cleaner on the tub
wait, no nail varnish, hair dye or scented candles... those are some of my fav things!!!!!
I have done the vinegar & water as you suggested...I also got the wellness essential diffuser, I love it!!! I've also gone thru a lot of my possessions and gotten rid of a lot : ) Thank you for taking the time to make your videos! Very inspiring!!
But y do u even need to use straws?
Wong Shiyun protects ur makeup!
I use straws to drink
Apple Cider Vinegar to avoid contact with my teeth
I’m sensitive to cold and need straws for most drinks.
Wong Shiyun this video about things not to buy... I've never bought any of those things in the first place.
I have read that straws don't help keep the vinegar off your teeth enough. You need to rinse and spit, with plain water.
For the vinegar and water solution, you could also add orange peels into that mixture and then strain the mixture into the spray bottle after a few days just keeping the liquid for spray! Smells good!
WE CALL IT SHOPPING FOR ESSENTIAL OILS, ORANGE SCENT.
I don't understand why you're claiming minimalism. A minimalist would not even use/buy straws. If you're at a restaurant, you don't have to use them either. They're extra stuff to store and clean.
Julianna HM a minimalist doesnt use straws?? she is a minimalist using straws. lol and they are small you are acting like they are a huge burden lol this is what happens in these types of communities where people then bash each other for not doing everything perfectly or how they see fit. lol it's like the same as having a holier than thou mentality to me. It's her life and it was a suggestion people can choose to follow or not follow. Some people need to use straws. It wouldn't make them less minimalist dear goodness. This is why I stay away from stuff like this. Everyone has to be perfect at what they claim themselves to be apparently.
No one is bashing, they are just pointing out something, chill.
eveny119 as was I. chill.
Ms Ana Jocelyn I agree...she's suddenly 'not a minimalist' for something as simple as straws. Sweet heavens...
My husband has cerebral palsy and is unable to drink anything without a straw because he cannot coordinate his lips to use a glass or cup. Different people have different needs and some people actually need straws. We reuse his straws by cleaning them with a brush and then sticking them in the dishwasher on the sterilize setting. Before we had a dishwasher I used to boil them after scrubbing them.
Peppermint extract (flavouring) from the bakery aisle, is the only thing which neutralises the smell of vinegar. A few drops of washing up liquid added to vinegar and water and it cleans just about anything. Thank you for those ideas as I need to de-clutter.
just a little info if you have pets be careful about the scents u use. lavender is very toxic to cats.
Metal or glass ones can be dangerous for kids if the walk or run with one and have a fall or are in a car. I remember seeing an X-ray of some Asian kid with metal chopsticks in his skull. Please do NOT recommend METAL straws!!! accident waiting to happen with the metal straws. Just go strawless! I stopped buying straws after my kids started elementary school. They are big enough to drink from a glass.