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  • čas přidán 25. 04. 2020
  • Shwetabh talks about the biggest and no.1 mistake that all guys make when they fall in love. The three types of girls that guys usually fall for are committed girls, girls who are not over their exes, or girls in long distance relationship. One thing in common in all these cases is these girls are confused about their romantic feelings, and therefore the guys become perfect for friendzone.

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  • @ShwetabhGangwar1
    @ShwetabhGangwar1  Před 4 lety +377

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    • @itz_vinod_095
      @itz_vinod_095 Před 4 lety +1

      Aap bhahut hi ache se samchata ho yaar . Ham ladkiyan pe Nahi Marta Hoon Guru ladkiyan much pe Marti Hai

    • @VikramKumar-sl1rs
      @VikramKumar-sl1rs Před 4 lety +2

      itne din kaha the? ghar mein kya krte sir ap? bahr to ja nhi skte.

    • @kallalchowdhury679
      @kallalchowdhury679 Před 4 lety +5

      #shwetab gangwar bro,u chng my thinking ability and attitude bro.. watched every videos from the very 1st.. thanks big brother,love from the core of my heart

    • @unknownonline1825
      @unknownonline1825 Před 4 lety +1

      Sir i bought your audiobook on audible and i think that it vould be better the content which is being is provided is undoubtedly awesome but there is some problem with the narration which spoils all the thing
      These are my thoughts it could be different for others

    • @saifmiz9224
      @saifmiz9224 Před 4 lety +1

      Maza aa gya yr bhai hahaha good bilkul feel ho ra h jaise mere liye hi h yh video

  • @IndraTags
    @IndraTags Před 4 lety +967

    He is not motivator
    Hi is a mature mind making machine

  • @abhaypratapsinghtanwar4801
    @abhaypratapsinghtanwar4801 Před 4 lety +387

    Don't waste your life trying to understand someone.😏

    • @deepakwaghela7843
      @deepakwaghela7843 Před 4 lety +19

      Rather Understand the one who will understand you
      In a correct way

    • @Sadhrita2002
      @Sadhrita2002 Před 3 lety +5

      Damn..... thanks bro this was really a good thought.

    • @biochemistrybyhoney
      @biochemistrybyhoney Před 3 lety +2

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    • @bhanupratap5676
      @bhanupratap5676 Před 3 lety +2

      Bro..
      tumne ek statement me...bahut bada sikh de diya,,,😘
      Lots of love❣️❣️❣️♥️♥️♥️

    • @KomalSingh-cm8gc
      @KomalSingh-cm8gc Před 5 měsíci

      Very true,because we have our lives to create

  • @siddhantrawat9330
    @siddhantrawat9330 Před 4 lety +361

    8th wonder of world : Shwetabh Gangwar ❤️

    • @Cheero_cherry
      @Cheero_cherry Před 3 lety +7

      No it's compound interst said by einstein

  • @tanishqsbasak475
    @tanishqsbasak475 Před 4 lety +143

    If someone can leave a person for you, then they can also leave you for another person...

  • @beasteara009fitnesschannel4
    @beasteara009fitnesschannel4 Před 4 lety +634

    He is speaking the language of God it is the truth the reality of the people an eye opening speech love you channel bhai 😎😎😎

    • @adil_k
      @adil_k Před 4 lety +10

      He always speaks language of Gods

    • @samiuddinomer2538
      @samiuddinomer2538 Před 4 lety +4

      @@adil_k there is no God but Allah Muhammad(saws) is the messenger of Allah

    • @adil_k
      @adil_k Před 4 lety +1

      سمیع الدین عمر 😂😂😂

    • @biochemistrybyhoney
      @biochemistrybyhoney Před 3 lety +1

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    • @manusingh2507
      @manusingh2507 Před 3 lety +5

      @@samiuddinomer2538 krishna h na god chinta ku krte ho 🙂

  • @mr.d1584
    @mr.d1584 Před 4 lety +3003

    Girls be like - salle shwetabh har bar chilla chilla ke sabko scheme bta deta he..
    Lol girls😂

  • @robertleto9356
    @robertleto9356 Před 4 lety +222

    A women integrity is an oxymoron. When she makes a promise its because something made her feel a certain way at that moment. When they "feels" differently later the promise is no longer valid to her

    • @abdulrehman-ye3ug
      @abdulrehman-ye3ug Před 4 lety +4

      robert leto kasam se yaar

    • @shreehari2681
      @shreehari2681 Před 4 lety +5

      To uski Saheli ki Trhe suno na

    • @shreehari2681
      @shreehari2681 Před 4 lety +6

      Boyfrend BnNe ko Kon Bolra Hai

    • @vistaar6410
      @vistaar6410 Před 4 lety +21

      @@shreehari2681 *Triggered Feminist Noises*

    • @billtensus
      @billtensus Před 4 lety +11

      True, women are enslaved by nature towards emotional rollercoaster. Either the boy run the pedal or is crushed by it.but the issue is that they chase their fulfillment while we(a**holes) try providing them.

  • @IshaanGaur
    @IshaanGaur Před 4 lety +251

    *Sandeep maheshwari :* i can motivate people
    *Shwetabh gangwar :* hold my beer

    • @devendragarwa9238
      @devendragarwa9238 Před 4 lety +3

      Ye zada hogya bhai☺

    • @IshaanGaur
      @IshaanGaur Před 4 lety +6

      @@devendragarwa9238 thk to h

    • @mystoricaltube10
      @mystoricaltube10 Před 4 lety +1

      @@devendragarwa9238 shwerab bhi kam nhi hai bro ♥️

    • @agri845
      @agri845 Před 4 lety +6

      @@devendragarwa9238 dono ka alg alg rol h bhai....

    • @devendragarwa9238
      @devendragarwa9238 Před 4 lety +3

      @@agri845 Haa yrr
      Tbhi to
      We can't compare😊
      Kisi chiz me Bhai bht upr h to kisi chiz me Maheshwari Sir

  • @ayushchoudhary4091
    @ayushchoudhary4091 Před 4 lety +540

    That's the kind of influence you have brother. People like without watching

    • @kaushikdas1833
      @kaushikdas1833 Před 4 lety +1

      Me also

    • @ru_uwu
      @ru_uwu Před 4 lety

      True bro

    • @ru_uwu
      @ru_uwu Před 4 lety

      @@BenNeedsATheme4aDream it's not like a andhi vakti or whatever it's about the direct dopamine release at the beginning of the video when you get suddenly motiveted you just can't stay without liking the video.

    • @devjyotbrahma9279
      @devjyotbrahma9279 Před 4 lety +3

      @@ru_uwu just control your fkin thumb buddy😂. Form ur own opinions don't be a sheep.

    • @captionland2955
      @captionland2955 Před 4 lety

      true bro sai ho

  • @prashant2144
    @prashant2144 Před 4 lety +278

    I think overtrust is problem of today s generation that's why this days relationships failed very badly!!!

    • @simanto7168
      @simanto7168 Před 4 lety +3

      correct

    • @thebeamerdreamer
      @thebeamerdreamer Před 4 lety +6

      Yup both of them are extremes ,"Moderation is the key".

    • @shreehari2681
      @shreehari2681 Před 4 lety +6

      Don't be Friend if u can't become Friend

    • @sm0000
      @sm0000 Před 4 lety +2

      Actually Expectations is problem...

    • @sm0000
      @sm0000 Před 4 lety +4

      "dhoop thi naseeb mein to dhoop mein liya hai dum, chadni mili to hum chadni mein so liye...
      Jo bhi pyaar se mila hum usi k ho liye"
      Nau do gyarah (1957)
      ❄️❄️❄️

  • @AkashKumar-uc5cg
    @AkashKumar-uc5cg Před 4 lety +84

    "Main kaunsa shree ram hu jo jake uske pet me teer maar dunga" line carried out a sudden laugh 🤣🤣

  • @shubham42150
    @shubham42150 Před 4 lety +85

    I never fall in love and I cannot fall in love because I don't want to fall in love .Love is just a imagination not reality.

    • @mayankindian3750
      @mayankindian3750 Před 4 lety +2

      Yes true 🤗🤗

    • @sometimesitrollidiotsonthe1798
      @sometimesitrollidiotsonthe1798 Před 4 lety +13

      Bhaisab. Shwetabh nhi keh raha ki pyaar mat karo. Wo keh raha he ki murkh mat bano.

    • @shubham42150
      @shubham42150 Před 4 lety +9

      @@sometimesitrollidiotsonthe1798 Even I am not saying that you shouldn't make love. I mean to say that most of the time means in 95% cases it is just a state of mind, actual love happens to only 5% of people.
      People should make difference between love and sexual desire. Love is good, sexual desire is also good but most of us do not have love but an addiction ( worst kind of sexual desire.)You should be away from this type of addiction because most of the time it ruins our life and family.

    • @sometimesitrollidiotsonthe1798
      @sometimesitrollidiotsonthe1798 Před 4 lety +5

      @@shubham42150 Those percentages makes no sense. Where did you get those? If you stay mature, you will automatically get the girl you love as life is a journey. There is a difference between falling in love and chasing women like a simp. Although I get your point and i agree.

    • @komaljeet7884
      @komaljeet7884 Před 4 lety +1

      Ryt. Just a dopamine hormone is released from brain . Watch videos of Acharya Prashant

  • @jatinchanchlani8982
    @jatinchanchlani8982 Před 4 lety +321

    This dude is seriously Underrated😕

    • @LuciferMorningStar-hj5kn
      @LuciferMorningStar-hj5kn Před 4 lety +5

      That's becoz most of his content is just about Criticising girls
      Boys have many more things except girls bro
      He is just making bad image of girls

    • @dbzfan2487
      @dbzfan2487 Před 4 lety +28

      @@LuciferMorningStar-hj5kn he is telling truth

    • @chetanm580
      @chetanm580 Před 4 lety +18

      @@LuciferMorningStar-hj5kn he is giving his perception about such toxic things which spoils the life of many young boys....

    • @aadviksinha6488
      @aadviksinha6488 Před 4 lety +6

      @@LuciferMorningStar-hj5kn Haan, Remeber Neha Dhupia not every girls are good and his video is only about your self improvement

    • @shuvamchakravorty7420
      @shuvamchakravorty7420 Před 4 lety +19

      @@LuciferMorningStar-hj5kn He never criticized girls. He always speaks about the mistakes we boys do. He doesn't speak in favor of girls and that doesn't mean he criticize girls. He doesn't talk about girls. He talks about boys. There's a huge difference

  • @sbks_empire
    @sbks_empire Před 4 lety +731

    पता नही लेकिन , Single होने का एक अलग ही Confidence होता है ...

    • @aimam4884
      @aimam4884 Před 4 lety +2

      ✌️

    • @mrshetty2019
      @mrshetty2019 Před 4 lety +9

      I am 29, I had my share of relationships and your comment is relatable.

    • @sinr8237
      @sinr8237 Před 4 lety +30

      @@mrshetty2019 ab toh vivah ki umar hogyi hai bhai

    • @manojlatoriya5109
      @manojlatoriya5109 Před 4 lety +2

      Use hope kehte hain

    • @rg2rg260
      @rg2rg260 Před 4 lety +16

      Loneliness में जब फसेंगा तब पता चलेगा लौंडे...

  • @peaceout7862
    @peaceout7862 Před 4 lety +76

    He is the guy who rescued me 2 years ago when i was stuck in friendzone. Can never forget Shwetabh sir. It’s because of his videos that encouraged me to work hard and to do something in my life. Today, I am doing something better. Something, that I never expected that I would be able to. It’s all because of you, sir.

    • @Imperfect5252
      @Imperfect5252 Před 4 lety +1

      Brother, you should motivate yourself. That real maturity.
      You can't always rely on his videos for your motivation

    • @prashantkumaroptimisticlea7803
      @prashantkumaroptimisticlea7803 Před 2 lety

      @@Imperfect5252 you don't know everything, you need to watch those people who have more perspectives than you, more logical, you can't be Always right, it's better to learn from someone who has more experiences and knowledge about it, and never get motivated from anything.. never motivate yourself and get motivated from others, just fuckin learn from others and from your past, whatever you can learn from your experiences learn it and then learn from others life experiences, when you'll learn from others perspectives you'll realise that your thinking was so small, your world was soo small, and when you'll learn from others like Shwetabh then your thinking and knowledge will expand!
      Well if you think you're a genius and you know everything then of course you don't need to watch these types of videos, it'll waste your time, Good Luck Genius! 🙃😉

    • @shuvamdey8807
      @shuvamdey8807 Před rokem

      Bro how did you get yourself out ??
      Share your experince bro

  • @TheHinduRakshak
    @TheHinduRakshak Před 4 lety +38

    14:26 "Mummy ka call aata hai" bhai you rock, you won my ❤️ when you brought up this point.

  • @Vidu_03
    @Vidu_03 Před 4 lety +451

    A girl here. Though he made this video and all other videos from a guy's perspective, I can completely relate to each and everything he mentioned, because being a girl, I too have committed this mistake of becoming a shoulder to a guy who was in constant contact with his long distant ex girlfriend of 7 long years. He used to get mad whenever I used to talk about his ex. After 5 months of emotionally investing myself there, I eventually blocked that guy 10 days ago and he too didn't bother to contact me since then. I feel better now. Thankyou Shwetabh sir for making us sensible beings!🙏

    • @CaHemantsharma1217
      @CaHemantsharma1217 Před 4 lety +15

      Same here but it's hard to block some one na jisse aap pyar karte😟..... Aisa lagta kiya explanation dunga agr baat hua.....

    • @basitsultan2854
      @basitsultan2854 Před 4 lety +6

      Same here!
      Now feeling peace in myself.

    • @Incognito-my9lt
      @Incognito-my9lt Před 4 lety +15

      Mtlb hadd hai. Bande na gala khrab karwa Lia smjhate smjhate or tum yha bhi chance dhundh the ho. Salute to you guys

    • @ashishvlogs2783
      @ashishvlogs2783 Před 4 lety +1

      Sahi hai ekdum

    • @MassMascotHindi
      @MassMascotHindi Před 4 lety +2

      You guys were preparing for the same exam right ? Well done anyways 👍👍

  • @abhishekpandey9304
    @abhishekpandey9304 Před 4 lety +168

    Don't make someone fall in love with you if you don't know how to love them back.
    Because guess what- At the end they won't end up questioning you, they'll end up questioning love.
    ~Jay Shetty

    • @whothefuckiskunal
      @whothefuckiskunal Před 4 lety +1

      abhishek pandey nice bro nice quote

    • @s.jagadesh4406
      @s.jagadesh4406 Před 4 lety +7

      Jay shetty

    • @beachange8338
      @beachange8338 Před 4 lety +1

      Very true👍

    • @souvikmitra6161
      @souvikmitra6161 Před 4 lety +15

      Problem comes when they put the loved one on a pedestal. Believe me, I've been on both sides. My first love, I thought of her as some angel. But her flawed side broke me. My ex put me on a pedestal, said she could not live without me. Luckily I immediately told her off for saying that, but I didn't see it as red flag. Later I had to break up because of some insane accusations on me, and she said exactly what you said. That she doesn't believe in love anymore. Problem isn't love or the person you love, it's with you putting them on some higher plane. We're all just flawed humans afterall.

    • @chanchalbhatnagar5731
      @chanchalbhatnagar5731 Před 4 lety +2

      Jay shetty quote well nice

  • @adityakulkarni7889
    @adityakulkarni7889 Před 4 lety +93

    I have never been in a relationship, never dated or broke up. Used to feel jealous of my friends. But after seeing them in depression I am glad my life wasn't like them. Also my career is on right track. Choose my hobby over the usual Engineering/ Doctor and I happy in it.

  • @theswiper7234
    @theswiper7234 Před 4 lety +55

    Summary of this Video in one sentence:
    Don't be a Simp.

  • @soomjeetsahoo8710
    @soomjeetsahoo8710 Před 4 lety +26

    My take from this video... *Never invest on confused ppl*

    • @shreehari2681
      @shreehari2681 Před 4 lety

      Never - Friend
      Don't Give Hope of Friend to Someone

  • @akashjaiswalll
    @akashjaiswalll Před 4 lety +200

    Brother your book the rudest book ever mene read krii literally bhut hard book h🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️

  • @adarshsaxena6572
    @adarshsaxena6572 Před 4 lety +54

    Boys : Saviour Complex😋
    Le Shwetaabh : apki ashiqui jaagi hai 😠

  • @regaltossworld1114
    @regaltossworld1114 Před 4 lety +54

    I left my higher studies for her; I thought she will never leave me; but after 6 years she left me for some one else . Today I’m happy that instead of going through tip of divorce its good to breakup it now and move on.

  • @NISHANTKUMAR-wb6eu
    @NISHANTKUMAR-wb6eu Před 4 lety +380

    The wise Lakshman once said " Jo stree moh mein phasega, uska yahi haal hoga"
    Ye to vidhi ka vidhan hai...
    He cut off the nose who proposed him once...
    Don't you dare to cry over who left you...
    Jai Sri Ram

    • @unknowngamer-vd7er
      @unknowngamer-vd7er Před 4 lety +8

      Tu bhai ha yaar

    • @user-wm7yx8vb7d
      @user-wm7yx8vb7d Před 4 lety +3

      😂😂

    • @shreehari2681
      @shreehari2681 Před 4 lety +12

      Or Jo achhi Ldki inhey chahti Hai
      use ye Bhaav Ni detey
      kyuki uski shakal Psnd Ni

    • @NISHANTKUMAR-wb6eu
      @NISHANTKUMAR-wb6eu Před 4 lety +7

      @@shreehari2681 nahi, yadi vivah ki abhilasha ho to kanya varan kro... In the world full of kabir singhs, be like a Lakshman... Sass & Savage

    • @sankhasubhrasaha3929
      @sankhasubhrasaha3929 Před 4 lety +5

      @@shreehari2681 bhai tum ye jo inhe achhi ladki bol rahe ho ye khud bhi wahi kar rahi hai jo wo ladka kar raha hai bas looks ke basis pe pasand agar inki priorities hoti ki ladke ka personality kaisa hai character kaisa hai career oriented kitna hai toh inhe obviously aisa ladka pasand nahi aata jo bas looks ke basis pe judge karta hai wo obviously inke personality aur charater wale priorities se match nahi khata jo ki inko turant samjha deta ki yeh ladka mere saath relarionship ke liye compatible nahi hai toh phir kyun wahi type ka ladke ko chahte sirf ek hi reason hain inki khud ki priorities sahi nahi thi bas physical attributes ke peeche bhaagna khud looks ke peeche bhaag rahi hai aur chahte hain ki ladka inko looks ke basis pe judge na kare kya baat hain socho ye jo tum inhe achha bol rahe ho ye soch lo kya samajh ke bol rahe ho phir toh inme aur wo ladke jinhe wo ladkiyan bhaav nahi deti jo inhe chahiye inme kya farak hain dono physical attributes ke piche hi bhaag rahi hain inhe achha toh bilkul nahi but bewakoof zaroor keh sakte hain. Agar sach mein uss ladki ke priorites looks nahi the toh unhe aisa ladka pasand hi nahi aata jo ki unke personality and characer se bilkul match hi nahi karta maan lo unki khudki priorities bhi looks hi thi ye mat keh dena ki bewaja chahne lage ladke ko aise bekar ke filmo wale dialogue mat hi karna dono mein koi farak nahi hain dono same chiz ke piche bhaag rahe hain

  • @adityachakravarty3045
    @adityachakravarty3045 Před 4 lety +77

    I was missing these lines from Shwetabh from his last few videos...
    "Aur mere bhai kya haal chaal.. Kaam kar rahe ho ki nhi??"❤️

    • @souvik17
      @souvik17 Před 4 lety +2

      Same here ♥️👌

  • @pratik_1149
    @pratik_1149 Před 4 lety +70

    There's a rumour that mindhunter season 4 will be featuring shwetabh decoding the psychology behind every toxic relationship 😂

  • @DhruvishShah
    @DhruvishShah Před 4 lety +82

    The story of Every Girl's best friend!😌

    • @bhaveshkochra5286
      @bhaveshkochra5286 Před 4 lety +2

      Bruhh that's relatable

    • @DhruvishShah
      @DhruvishShah Před 4 lety

      @@bhaveshkochra5286 yeahh!!

    • @masternobin
      @masternobin Před 4 lety +14

      My gf also has a male best friend. I let her use him. Mai bass pela peli karu😆

    • @anweshadas2339
      @anweshadas2339 Před 3 lety

      I tried for 7 years! Now finally he realised his mistake and stopped talking to her.

    • @AshishPanthee62
      @AshishPanthee62 Před 3 lety +8

      @@masternobin best friend bhi kar raha hoga parde ke pichhe dhyaan rakho

  • @BruceWayne-kg8tm
    @BruceWayne-kg8tm Před 4 lety +90

    When I get into a toxic relationship
    Shwetabh - years of academy training wasted

  • @Zee_Sean94
    @Zee_Sean94 Před 4 lety +244

    Shwetabh describing the entire scenario.
    Me : Getting the flashbacks of my toxic past relationship.
    Never ever, I repeat never ever invest a single penny or single minute of your life in confused/broken/unable to move on kinda people!
    Thank you Shwetabh for helping me move on 3 years back.

    • @shreehari2681
      @shreehari2681 Před 4 lety +7

      Yes . Don't be Friend if u Can't

    • @manojlatoriya5109
      @manojlatoriya5109 Před 4 lety +5

      Same broooo!!! Mujhe bhi meri ex yaad aa gayii😂😂

    • @Zee_Sean94
      @Zee_Sean94 Před 4 lety +6

      @AYAN MANDAL Yes. She was the 2nd type. She said to me it was over with her ex, but she can't stop talking about him. She was simply fooling herself or me, or both (God knows).
      But the only positive thing is that I'm over it & 1 year back I found someone 100 times better than her.
      I'm happy, thanks to God & Shwetabh!

    • @abhinandandas9310
      @abhinandandas9310 Před 4 lety

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    • @shreehari2681
      @shreehari2681 Před 4 lety

      zisko Pyar k BadLe Pyar Ni mila
      Ya Dhoka Mila
      Wo Pyar K upar kuchna Boley

  • @adeelbhai7282
    @adeelbhai7282 Před 4 lety +39

    This video deserves 1 billion views.

  • @joydeepmoitra6521
    @joydeepmoitra6521 Před 4 lety +55

    when i was in College, the exact same thing happened... The only difference is, I had no one like u in my life... So, I went through hell.. Almost ended up with ruining my carrier... Then I turned back, started fighting, finally I survived ...these things which u r saying right now, I figured these all by myself... However, Doing a great job man...hats off..✌

  • @manishtak1847
    @manishtak1847 Před 4 lety +207

    Who so ever thinks he should go to TedX hit like.

  • @finaloutput
    @finaloutput Před 4 lety +373

    Ironically, the background quote says: Never, Never, Never Give Up😂😂😂

  • @harmanisingh9677
    @harmanisingh9677 Před 4 lety +43

    I really appreciate your efforts for others, man. 8 years before I fall in love with a girl who was in a romantic relationship, which you says an attractive. And today I have to take 12 tablets to avoid my mental illness(depression). So please I request everyone to listen carefully

  • @GreyComrade
    @GreyComrade Před 4 lety +7

    I'm in LDR
    Maintaining a relationship is not easy
    Trust, Truth and Faith is most important in every relationship

  • @DevilsChild919
    @DevilsChild919 Před 4 lety +26

    Modern Day Chanakya ❤️

  • @sakutaazusagawa208
    @sakutaazusagawa208 Před 4 lety +211

    Why am I even watching this, when my probability of getting a girlfriend is zero 😂😂

  • @rakibrehman386
    @rakibrehman386 Před 4 lety +149

    Me before: love u my girl.
    Me now :Aur behen kaam karr rahi ho ya nhi?

  • @KaranKumar-tj9mh
    @KaranKumar-tj9mh Před 4 lety +50

    After this video , She is emotionally dead for me.

  • @raghav9000
    @raghav9000 Před 4 lety +162

    "Ladki ka chakkar chod do, apna lo Brahmacharya "
    - Mr. Hola

    • @raghav9000
      @raghav9000 Před 4 lety +1

      @Ankur Shukla Follow channels like
      Agni dev arya
      Bharat yogi
      Amit aryavrat
      Brahmachari Jivan

    • @reyanshchauhan5568
      @reyanshchauhan5568 Před 4 lety +8

      Saala Asur ban jao! Aur duniya ki aisi taisi krdo 😂

    • @komaljeet7884
      @komaljeet7884 Před 4 lety +1

      @Ankur Shukla watch videos of Acharya Prashant

    • @kalyankarmakarKK
      @kalyankarmakarKK Před 4 lety +3

      "Kudhka uthta nahi or hume samjharya"
      Sameer Fuddi

    • @armourv1390
      @armourv1390 Před 4 lety +2

      @@kalyankarmakarKK uthta sabhi ladko kaa hai par Hume control karna chaiye ki hum masturbation naa kare .
      Uss sexual energy ko sahi jagah use karne ke liye store karo .

  • @agnishikhachoudhury1862
    @agnishikhachoudhury1862 Před 4 lety +50

    I am a girl who was interested in a guy who was in a complicated relationship.Your videos motivated me to move away from that guy who was confused and I didn't invest anything.Thank you swetabh bhaiya.Great video.❤️

  • @shieldfit4427
    @shieldfit4427 Před 2 lety +13

    This man is changing the perception of relationships! Mad respect to you brother ❤️

  • @madhukanodia3025
    @madhukanodia3025 Před 4 lety +108

    someone who saw my this comment pls learn new skill during quarantine use your time .
    Me :skill gather Kar dost

  • @chandanawale4599
    @chandanawale4599 Před 4 lety +36

    Love is the biggest scams of 21th century

  • @waseemmalik8033
    @waseemmalik8033 Před 4 lety +7

    "Tum mujhe achi tarah se samjte ho.." yeah i knew this sentence, you are 100% correct. Mummy ki yaadh agayi..

  • @dreamland4944
    @dreamland4944 Před 4 lety +9

    *Bhai tu purush nahi*
    *Maha Purush Hay. Salute to you✔️✔️✔️*

  • @pulkitsharma4176
    @pulkitsharma4176 Před 4 lety +43

    Shwetabh Bhai is surely on an "Anti SIMP-ing Campaign" 😂💯💯

  • @monikkatiwari6193
    @monikkatiwari6193 Před 4 lety +16

    Your point is absolutely correct liking is not love. And I'm also going through the same problem. You're right I have to make a rational decision about this problem.

  • @sumitkunalgask287
    @sumitkunalgask287 Před 4 lety +8

    This video applies 100% in my story.
    Swetabh sir is 1000% correct.

  • @drprashantchettri3581
    @drprashantchettri3581 Před 4 lety +9

    The reason I love to watch your videos even though many of the the topics doesn’t match to my current life is because YOU THINK. Your videos are filled with logic and that brightens my synapses in my brain and helps me in many situations. Thinking is hard. You have helped many people. Thanks for choosing to be a problem solver!

  • @prantikkanrar4889
    @prantikkanrar4889 Před 4 lety +83

    The most favourite dialogue " lawoya lasson " 😂😂

  • @Gradu-ates
    @Gradu-ates Před 4 lety +11

    I think this is the final closer video on toxic relationships, wow what a great way to deal, stunning.

  • @imleo1000
    @imleo1000 Před 4 lety +8

    I have moved on thanks to you . But listening to this made me understood where I went wrong. I ignored all the red flags . Thanks

  • @lawliet2263
    @lawliet2263 Před 4 lety +23

    Shwetabh I still don't believe that you're married

    • @sometimesitrollidiotsonthe1798
      @sometimesitrollidiotsonthe1798 Před 4 lety +13

      Practical and logical bande acchi tarah se pyaar karte hain. Chapri nhi hain wo.

    • @lawliet2263
      @lawliet2263 Před 4 lety

      @@sometimesitrollidiotsonthe1798 Han Bhai aaj Kal ke zamaane mein to Mrs fida Hui Mr per, shaam ko dono bistar pera

  • @alokraj9024
    @alokraj9024 Před 4 lety +20

    ye video 2 years phle aati tao sayad mai bach jata🥺🥺😢
    phattt chuki h 2 sal m puri, bht invvest kr dia glt gajah 😖

  • @aadityanailwal7368
    @aadityanailwal7368 Před 4 lety +88

    New age philosopher

  • @nazplays8825
    @nazplays8825 Před 4 lety +14

    Bhai,this is 100% my story.😢i was just a helper for her..🤧she already had boyfriend but she didn't told me

    • @adwaitanand7193
      @adwaitanand7193 Před 3 lety

      Same is the case with me bhai😢

    • @nazplays8825
      @nazplays8825 Před 3 lety

      @@adwaitanand7193 i have way passed that time , dude. now i understand i was the chutya who was helping her with ulterior motives

    • @adwaitanand7193
      @adwaitanand7193 Před 3 lety

      @@nazplays8825 ya Nazmul, it was 5 months later that she told me to leave her,🤧 and she is already taken. My 5 months wasted just to try on her and helping her.

  • @sukrativerma4583
    @sukrativerma4583 Před 4 lety +23

    hahahaa sare bollywood gaane baj jate h dimag me 😂😂😂 exactly teenage boys aisa hi karte h i see ur videos sometimes its vry informative for me too sometimes its quite funny but still it gives a more clear prospective..great work 👍👍

  • @Ghxst969
    @Ghxst969 Před 4 lety +81

    There couldn't be a more perfect timing. You have always Helped me Keep up the Good work 🔥🔥🔥.
    One of my female co-workers recently went through a break up cuz her BF was ignoring her since a month or so. So she broke it off. I asked her how many ex's he had she answered 12. I was like doesn't that give you a redflag i asked she said I don't judge a people by their past. I said good it's your choice and i got out of there and told her good luck . MORAL : DON'T BE THERAPIST FOR A GIRL SHE'LL MOVE ON BUT YOU WILL BE FRIEND ZONED

  • @inderjeet8659
    @inderjeet8659 Před 4 lety +47

    Never had a gf, why am i watching this lmao

  • @souvikroy117
    @souvikroy117 Před 4 lety +27

    Mx player releases Girlfriend chor
    After seeing this I vomitted whole night

  • @advaithhegde5553
    @advaithhegde5553 Před 3 lety +10

    Stay away from commited girl, EEx-girlfriend r long distance relationships

  • @akshaykamat8543
    @akshaykamat8543 Před 4 lety +107

    During this lockdown, Boys would be busy fixing girls issues or busy scoring girls and comforting them on social medias.
    Meanwhile, Our Shwetabh Sir is educating and enlightening us about the trap which most people fall into nowadays.
    We are lucky to have you Sir💯🙏
    You have changed our perception/perspective about the reality of life to the next level and made us more matured human being! 💯💯

    • @sumitgurung5079
      @sumitgurung5079 Před 4 lety +2

      @Nikhil Singh me too brother
      He changed my mentality

  • @anshulsingh366
    @anshulsingh366 Před 4 lety +8

    Brother ..it's really true......I simply disconnected from her..... I'm just applying this simple method what you said.....I replied her message after 4-5 hours with a one word answer.... Then automatically she is not disturbing me after that .

  • @akashchakraborty5949
    @akashchakraborty5949 Před 3 lety +3

    Man, this is just epic. Really really admire the depth and logicality with which you state things. Huge fan brother!

  • @mariamnosheen4103
    @mariamnosheen4103 Před 4 lety +2

    This video must come 3 years before. Best video. Thanks

  • @akethmaregowda3792
    @akethmaregowda3792 Před 4 lety +12

    Hi Shwetabh,
    You are right that people have a savior complex, and it ruins and makes people feel they are right and need to save people.
    But, I think this problem has its roots in 2 main avenues - Bollywood/Culture and psychology of attachment anxious types - belief that others will make one happy for a lifetime. What we need are parents who are aware of this in kids and root this evil out.
    In India we need a cultural revolution in parenting, which likely will eventually lead to a change in expectations from Bollywood content and eventually causing a snowballing effect.

  • @BAMAVLOGS
    @BAMAVLOGS Před 4 lety +4

    A REAL CREATOR FOR CHANGE. VERY HONEST AND STRAIGHT FORWARD.

  • @vaibhavwalia035
    @vaibhavwalia035 Před 4 lety

    Amazing!!!! video. Thank you sir for sharing wisdom.

  • @karthikchakraborty7741
    @karthikchakraborty7741 Před 4 lety +5

    Brother.....U teaches the most important lessons of life... Whenever I doubt my decisions, I listen to you...and u saved me many time...Thank you...

  • @piyushkapadia5295
    @piyushkapadia5295 Před 4 lety +4

    He is like a big brother who guides his younger brother. Love you bhai for changing life and making us better.

  • @amanawake5202
    @amanawake5202 Před 4 lety +24

    Love is a place
    which is full of heartbreaks
    and the hell that it takes
    You is the worst space
    Motivation is great when
    Mensutra is there

  • @goblinslayer6432
    @goblinslayer6432 Před 4 lety +4

    He is like the Indian version of Jordan B Peterson. People should listen to these kind of people more often. Huge amount of respect from me.....

  • @farhatminhas7886
    @farhatminhas7886 Před rokem +2

    Extreme love for you bro, you are saving the lives of many youngsters . Thanks for the advices.

  • @AnandSingh-zn8yz
    @AnandSingh-zn8yz Před 4 lety +23

    When shwetabh bhai uploads a video on love topic...
    My mind : ab maza ayega na bhidu 😆😂

    • @shreehari2681
      @shreehari2681 Před 4 lety

      ZAB Ldki dosti k Liy Bolti Hai to Ldka Pyar me Behkaane ki Koshish krta Hai indirectly

    • @admireyou9178
      @admireyou9178 Před 4 lety +2

      😄 right boss

    • @SayanRick100
      @SayanRick100 Před 4 lety +2

      Sahi bola bhai😁

    • @AnandSingh-zn8yz
      @AnandSingh-zn8yz Před 4 lety

      @@shreehari2681 wo fukke hote hain..or sab ldke fukke nhi hote

  • @nidhisingh8362
    @nidhisingh8362 Před 4 lety +4

    Ultimate, super-honest n thought provoking as always🙏🙏

  • @Mgfire
    @Mgfire Před rokem +2

    Bhai itni batein kaise bol dete jo 100% connected hoti haii...
    Agr tumhare chanel pe 10 aur subscribe ka button hota to mai usko bhi dba deta..
    Jin sawalon ka jawab mai kai dino se dund rha tha sare jawab mujhe is video me mil gya..Love u bhai dil se!!
    You saved me to go in the wrong direction ..thx a lots!!!

  • @Bhq12345
    @Bhq12345 Před 4 lety +3

    One of the best and relevant topics in recent times....
    Swetabh bhai...good job...yesterday was my birthday started reading your book...I hope I complete it soon...and give 2-3 more readings that every advice seeps into my brain cells.

  • @trixzplayzz6944
    @trixzplayzz6944 Před 4 lety +78

    Seriously,everyone needs an elder brother just like you. BTW just discovered your channel and tried to order your book,but in vain. I'll order it as soon as the lockdown ends.I need a hard copy that's why I didn't order the e-book in case you're wondering.

  • @VikasKumar-hm6su
    @VikasKumar-hm6su Před 4 lety +4

    Much needed this video bro😊👍🏻👏👌🏻
    You are our hero, pls stay with us just like this♥️
    U opened my mind in 2 years😎

  • @fitvarunsingh
    @fitvarunsingh Před 4 lety +4

    Keep making videos brother,we need people like you .🙌

  • @gauravkumar8138
    @gauravkumar8138 Před 3 lety +4

    This is what evey teenagers need. This video should be a must watch for every teenagers.....😁

  • @VishalSinghOnline
    @VishalSinghOnline Před 4 lety +50

    Now I know how much time I have wasted in people like these even though my intention was not to get in relationship with these poeple. I have told people to get outta toxic relationships but they be like, "You can't understand." Thing is, they don't want to understand.

    • @shreehari2681
      @shreehari2681 Před 4 lety +2

      Jo Khudko zaan Gaya
      Wo dusro ko Zaan Gaya

  • @thenameisfaiz
    @thenameisfaiz Před 3 lety +8

    This man totally changed my perception about love...😂😂Thank you man...I never indulge in these bullshit things

  • @MayankAld
    @MayankAld Před 4 lety +1

    बहुत अच्छा बताया... थैंक्स ब्रो

  • @rajnikam79
    @rajnikam79 Před 4 lety

    Thanks bade bhai!! Yehi motivation ki jarurat thi , recently apne jo 1st situation bataya iss mae pad gaya tha par ab sab clear ho gaya.

  • @changeyourstory
    @changeyourstory Před 4 lety +7

    You have changed my life, Man!💯

  • @kapiltanwani4901
    @kapiltanwani4901 Před 4 lety +4

    Man, you're next level amazing. Thank you so much for giving me so many perspectives about life and relationships. Salute to you and thank you so much.🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @vipulchoudhary1499
    @vipulchoudhary1499 Před 4 lety +2

    Bhag chuka hu ese red flags se aur mere block list me 3 ladkiya hai, Happy for the decision I made for myself

  • @Arpit.singh.
    @Arpit.singh. Před 3 lety +4

    Love is when you do impossible things for your partner that you could ever imagined

  • @sk-oc8uo
    @sk-oc8uo Před 4 lety +29

    If i had got this suggestion 3 years ago,i could have ended my relationship very early.
    But koi baat nhi deer aya durust aya.
    Agee se yaad rahega..

  • @mr.someone2476
    @mr.someone2476 Před 4 lety +5

    Damn,,ur advices on relationships are super awsm as always. 💣💣💣 Thanks a lot for being there

  • @itzashish6567
    @itzashish6567 Před 3 lety +10

    Girls-- shewtabh Hamara business me panaga kar raha hai
    Boys - Thanks you bhaiya 🙏😃😃♥️
    🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣

  • @ashishbharti1410
    @ashishbharti1410 Před 3 lety

    Awesome bhai .............. awesome .....helpful

  • @varunpandey3547
    @varunpandey3547 Před 4 lety +82

    I genuinely think that how much logical data would be processed before sir's marriage unconsciously!! 😂😂🤣🤣

    • @AnupamEnosh
      @AnupamEnosh Před 4 lety

      Sir is already married

    • @sm0000
      @sm0000 Před 4 lety

      He is genuine ❄️🔥

    • @ALL-et4vo
      @ALL-et4vo Před 4 lety

      @@sm0000 hello paji 😄

    • @sm0000
      @sm0000 Před 4 lety

      @@ALL-et4vo I am a female paaji.
      (I am not a Punjabi...so I don't know what a female paaji is called) 🙁

    • @ALL-et4vo
      @ALL-et4vo Před 4 lety

      @@sm0000 I know you are female , you forgot me ??

  • @jyotishmankalita5624
    @jyotishmankalita5624 Před 3 lety +6

    i can relate it to myself ✅
    Thanks for your valuable advice Sir ❤️

  • @abhinavbaanaait1012
    @abhinavbaanaait1012 Před 3 lety +2

    You the saviour! You made me think bro!
    Now I’m feeling a kind a joke to myself!
    Good to here you...

  • @jaatkumar3064
    @jaatkumar3064 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Literally Bro you are doing a fab job for society!
    👍