Caitlin and Leah | Think Before You Type (Episode Two)
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- čas přidán 29. 08. 2024
- Our brand new documentary “Think Before You Type” is a 3 part series documenting our conversation with experts in the field of online bullying and hate. We made this documentary in partnership with Ditch The Label, to shed light on the world of online bullying, and importantly, where you can go to seek help. If you have experienced online bullying of any kind and you need help please see Ditch The Label’s details below and please reach out.
Future Release Dates:
28/9/22: Episode Three
Megan Starr Foundation megansstarr.com/
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Direct & Filmed By: Elliot Stephens
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Produced By: Outreach Agency
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Guests:
Soph Does Life - / @sophdoeslife
Liam Hackett - / diageoliam
Jenny Afia - www.schillings... - Zábava
All these hate comments are ridiculous honestly it’s disgusting. A way to see it girls is somebody is wasting their own time being hurtful let them at it it’s not a reflection of who you guys are ❤😊
Hearing Megan’s mom completely breaks my heart because I couldn’t imagine the pain of a mom losing her daughter, I committed 7 attempts of suicide and I couldn’t forgive myself for making my mom feel that pain, it’s so important to give awareness of how bullying can affect so many lives and even end with them, thank you Caitlin and Leah for making this documentary so many people can see how important is to give awareness, ily ❤
I hope your ok ❤
@@maya26248 thank you ❤
I'm so sorry to hear that. Just know you are loved, you are gorgeous and your so kind no matter what you've done. Your past doesn't make you and you are amazing! I hope your okay
As I'm watching this it hurts to think that so many people are affected by this issue it needs to be resolved. I always try and speak to others about how their feeling and support them when needed. This video is so important it needs to be spread everywhere to teach everyone about the hidden things that is happening online❤️😊
Edit: Thanks Caitlin and Leah for the heart! You both are so inspiring for many people with many different struggles in life!
I have no words of how thankful I am for this documentary. I am sorry for all the hate and everything you’ve been through here, babies. I hope you know how much you’re loved. 😢 thank YOU
You are loved by amazing Moms. You have each other. The haters do not know you as people. Please realize that you spread a lot of joy by sharing yourselves.
This series is such a great idea, especially for younger people on social media but for everyone really ❤
We really hope it helps people ❤
I cried I've been through bulling and I'm just so happy to see you help others I love you guys so much
same i know how much it hurts hope ur ok xx
what a heartbreaking story, I am absolutely sobbing. You girls are doing amazing and are changing so many lives. Meg's story & the advice her mother gave has certainly changed mine ❤
Thank you so much for bringing awareness to the many problems of our world. You guys have helped me so much with coming out and talking about my mental health with others. I don't know where I would be right now if I hadn't seen one of your videos in the first place around a year and a half ago. Thank you so so much for everything you do! Love you guys!!!!
I’m 11 years old and have recently been ditched by my best friend. (Ofc not my best friend anymore.) I’ve just started secondary school, and I was and still am really scared for it, so the fact that she did this to me just 2 weeks after we’ve started is honesty heartless. She texted me really rude and horrible things that just are not on, also sent me a photo on Snapchat saying ‘when you’re soooo happy you’re not friends with a girl called [my name]’. This documentary helped me sm, it made me realise that I’m not the only one going through things like this. Also my CZcams channel (not this one) has been getting hate comments recently. People saying I’m ugly when I don’t even show my face in the videos, calling my videos cringe and saying who asked. Ik this isn’t extreme online hate, but it’s still an issue and it’s still not right. Tysm for creating this amazing documentary Caitlin and Leah, it helped me so much x
Hope ur doing better now❤️❤️
Aww, I hate that they said all rude things to you, I really hope you're making some or a new friend at secondary school who is a true friend / are true friends for you. So disheartening to read that someone was mean and rude to you if you did nothing deserving of that. Best of luck with everything at your secondary school , I hope you like at least some of your teachers and let then help you where there can
@@carla_hi tysm x
@@picklethedinosaur Of course, all the best to you at school
@@carla_hi you too 🥰
It must be so hard for your mothers to hear those comments. My little girls are only 3 and 2 right now but as a Mother you just want to protect them from the world forever. The thought of people saying hurtful things to them one day breaks my heart.
I love you guys. This really makes an impact..I had a bad eating problem and people's words hurt and made things worse. I had a tiktok page with quite a few people...and alot of them were good but I'm also nonbinary and lesbian...so I got hate "you can't be both!" "YOU have to be girl boy or Trans. Nonbinary is fake" and even hate from other lgbt creators saying I was fake and hurting the community by being nonbinary..i was afraid and often dident tell people..it hurt to be dead named and misgenderd all the time...but I was barley supported by my own community so I was lost. Seriously think before you type. It makes a difference. Thanks for making these videos Leah and Catlin! Love you guys♥️♥️♥️[edit:eating problem being not able to eat well after choosing to not eat for some time]
The unnecessary hate comments can never beat the amount of love and support you guys get from people 🙂
Thank you so much for sharing awareness of on line bullying I had a tear in my eye listening to that poor mother talk about her beautiful daughter xx
We all love and will support anyone who goes through this, I have, trust me its hurts, and seeing so many people help others even if its though a device is help so so much. this can help so many people speak up and then help others feel like they can shear their feelings that they might be hiding 🥰❤
i am a 16 year old and am sitting alone in my room watching this. at around 15:30 i started sobbing. this hits pretty close to home and I just wanted to say thank you so much for this. her advice was really good to hear.
You both are amazing influencers.. I struggle with mental health and self image everyday .. I had a friend that took his life at a young age because of his family not caring . I've been battling mental health for a while ..this makes me feel less alone thank you . Just remember you both are amazing and worth it . People hate because they are upset or unhappy with what's happening in their life. You both matter ❤️
Hello caitlin and leah I have notice some comments about you are upsetting but I am a A 73 YEAR OLD GRANDAD AND LOVE every thing you are doing just like your parents. Are there hundreds of fans out there who feel happy and excited for you both the wedding day was wonderful. Thanks for sharing your day with us .and don't forget that there are more people who love out there than send silly messages. Love Ricky from Yorkshire
Thank you two for having the courage to put yourselves out there and shine a light on this issue. That story about Megan truly crushes my soul. Just too damn young. The gutless, spineless, useless "anonymous" haters out there hiding behind a keyboard are as guilty as if they pulled a trigger in my opinion. You two need to know that there are so many people who love you guys and support you a thousand percent!!
You young ladies are an inspiration to all who suffered or suffering online bullying for putting this out, hopefully those still suffering will see this and say to themselves enough is enough and speak up, f**k all your haters their jealous of your popularity with each video you put up wether it’s important like this one or your pranking each other makes me ❤️ you more & more, I’m really proud of you both x
I luv u guyssss. I have suffered with a lot of online hate, from someone who I thought was my ''friend'' and even her parents. I will never forget the pain and anger I felt at that time... Thank you so much for being there for people who have suffered from these unfortunate events. I will always be your biggest fan!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you for spreading kindness, and doing your bit in this world...
U guys are so kind and always so thoughtful
The world has many problems to solve!! I wish you the best in your life and hope you will become 2 wonderful moms for your child ❤️
You guys are so beautiful together don't listen to any of those haters I absolutely love you guys I love how you guy are bringing awareness to all of these things I love your videos and all the stuff you do so don't let anyone change the way you guys are and I can't wait to see that baby you guys make me feel good about myself and if I'm having a bad day I watch your videos and smile
Aw girls I'm really sorry about what happened, Some people don't get how much it can hurt . You 2 make my day every post . Thank you ❤️
Caitlin and Leah stay strong and remember you guys are amazing. Never think those haters are right because there wrong!!❤️
You guys are honestly so sweet and amazing! You should never have to feel this way no one should. Cyber-bullying is a crime and anyone who does it should take a look at themselves and realize they are criminals and stop immediately cause its Not a Joke its real, its feelings, its lives this is a matter that needs to be solved.
Leah and Caitlin i am so sorry this has happened its so upset full it makes me cry. try to look at the nice comments
These hate comments are awful you guys deserve the world ❤🎉
Thank you for spreading awareness about this ❤️
So proud you guys use your platform for such an important topic❤
This is heart breaking but such an important conversation to have. So proud of you two xx
These types of videos are so important.
I was putting off watching this because I knew I’d end up balling my eyes out so many people including me when I was younger went through or are going through this it needs to stop people don’t realise the consequences of their actions until it’s to late!
i've been bullied both mentally and cyber and i tried to kms many time as well as bad self harm, i wish these videos where around when this happened to me. this will help so many people and i as someone who has gone through this i say to anyone going through this be brave and speak out because the way you think is the best way out its not and it will haunt you and your loved ones forever.
Thank you two so much you have helped me realize that bullying is just jealousy.
I don't get as effected as I used to even though I still get bullied
You guys are so wonderful and putting the positivity and support and love out there for others is so nice to see💗💗 at the same time I hope you know the people who really appreciate and support you would completely understand if you felt you needed to leave a social media platform or completely leave the internet for your mental health (because that’s the most important thing!) You guys are so so lovely💗 sending so much love and support☺️
Thank you so much Caitlin and Leah for taking the time to shed light on this thing that so many people struggle or have struggled with. This issue is a very real thing that not a lot of people talk about. This video is helping so many people. Lots of love to you both always❤💘
This was such an inspiring video, you girls are truly amazing for talking about something as important as online bullying. Sending you both love ❤️
Thank you so much for this, it means so much! Just know you’ve helped me-with everything! Remember you have 1 person who hates you and a million others who love you! And if you forget that, I love you, we love you, you have each other, and you have your family! ❤❤
I love you guys for using you platform to spread awareness like this your the loveliest people ever and your going to be great parents xx❤❤❤❤
To think that people have said those things to you hurts me to the core. You are such a huge inspiration and a joy to watch, and I’m so sorry that anyone ever made you feel worthless and hurt and unimportant. I know that radical and rapid steps need to be taken against cyber bullying, and in the meantime, I hope that all these words of love in your comment section now can start to heal the wound left by the ones who hurt you ❤
I think you are both fabulous ❤
If people don’t like something they can just stop watching, there’s no need for hate. Thank you for sharing 😊
6:00 "They don't know you as people. They see a 10 second video and they think they know you."
This. I personally think this is the root of the issue: lack of empathy. The inability to put yourself in someone else's shoes and understand how they feel. When you get to know someone as a person, you slowly grow more and more soft to them. You don't want to hurt their feelings because you know you know how it would feel to have those same things said to you.
One thing that I saw in myself is my habit to say I don't like certain artist's music. I've justified it if they're super popular. For some reason, it feels ok to say things like "ug I don't like Demi lovato's music, if i hear cool for the summer ONE MORE TIME..." but if I said something like that about one of my friend's music, I'd feel like a horrible person! Celebrities, no matter how popular, are still people. And I know for a fact I wouldn't say something like that to their face, so why do I justify saying it in any other occasion?
This topic has definitely got me thinking, especially as a Christian. Just because I'm not telling people to kill themselves does not mean I'm better than those haters or that I'm immune to displaying hateful behavior. Nobody is perfect, and everyone can learn something from this discussion. The Bible explicitly says "we have all sinned and fall short of the glory of God". It does NOT say that we're better than other people who seem "more hateful" than we are. We are all capable of hate, and we need to make a conscious effort to choose love and encourage one another instead. "Love your neighbor as yourself." Luke 10:25. Notice in the verse after, Jesus disapproves of a guy who asks who his neighbor is, in an attempt to "gatekeep" who deserved his love. We can all be a bit like that guy sometimes, creating exceptions for certain people that we really don't want to love. Notice the Bible DOES NOT say "love your neighbor, except if they're gay." Or "love your neighbor, except if they have different political beliefs than you do". Everyone is deserving of love. Every. Single. Person. If you have somehow managed to read this entire thing, I hope you get one thing out of it: no matter how much bullying you experience or how much hate comes your way, know that you will always have someone that loves you more than you can ever imagine. Wether or not you believe it, God sees you as his beautiful creation and you are worthy of his love. Even if everyone you know turns against you and you feel completely alone, know that you will ALWAYS have someone who cares for you an unfathomable amount. He will never leave your side, no matter what you do or what other people do to you. I cannot stress how important this is.
Ah man this really hit me.. I've been feeling like it's better off if I never existed and such because I reallly do feel like a burden to my family and boyfriend and such, and that they would be happier and my boyfriend tells me that it would affect so many people but all I can think about is how i want everything in my head to stop because im so exhausted constantly beating myself down all the time 😔 Thank you for doing this 💕
I'm speechless and in awe...
I don't suffer from cyber bullying because I don't have anything but CZcams. But I get bullied a lot at college and at work. I attempted suicide a few months ago. Every single person that I asked for help made it seem like everything was my fault.
I literally had everything set out on the table to try again. I can't handle the stress. I'm only 19 and am under so much pressure that it's killing me. But documentary has really got me thinking that there is another way. Thank you @ Caitlin and Leah.
Love from West Virginia ❤️🩹
This hurts me so bad, just treat people the way you would want to be treated. I'm so proud of them for making this series cause it will show many people how upsetting and distressing it can be, when sending hate comments. Bless Leah's mum, i was literally crying when she was cause no one deserves hate :) like i come from a Muslim background so LGBTQ is forbidden but i fully support it cause you are who you are and it is normal.
Hi caitlin and leah can't wait to see you little baby boy so proud that you are doing this documentary xxxx
Bless you girls, you are amazing, loved and so talented. Everyone who is a content creator goes through hate comments. I have stumbled apon one or two hate videos of yours on tiktok, i blocked them, reported them and did everything i could. You girls are amazing. I love these documentaries cuz they help ppl who receive this kind of thing, to make them feel like they are less alone. Thankyou 😀😀
Such an important campaign to raise awareness against online bullying.
It's mostly done by people who aren't able to deal with their own problems and try to get relief by pulling other people down.
Social media platforms have the duty to do more against such bullies!
Well done girls, so glad your keeping up the topic and talking about it! love you x
Ugh. This is so hard to watch. The fact that people have the nerve to say such nasty comments about these two? Caitlin and Leah are a beautiful couple with such beautiful personalities. They never come after other people because they are different. So why should we? I feel like alot of the haters are just jealous. I hate how these people are trying to make it seem like the LGBTQA are aliens....when they are just people! People like us.🥺🥺 Why can't we just love one another? Why can't we look past those small differences and just learn to get along?
The way that people just write horrible comments without thinking what it affects other people I just want Caitlin and Leah to know that they are loved by turns of Other people
I love this documentary thank you so much for making this 💞
Don’t let them get to you Caitlin and Leah your absolutely amazing girls every time when I watch your guys videos they make me happy
And Connor your amazing too ❤❤
I love this documentary so far, I know what it’s like to be bullied online, I’ve experienced death threats and people telling me to kill myself. It got to a point I started having dark thoughts and I started SH
You girls are honestly so so amazing and selfless. Will 1000% help so many people for the better.. So proud of you two always. I love you.❤️❤️xx
After watching this one and the first one, I've come to understand that you can't change the way you look. But also while watching this it actually hurt me so hard seeing how badly this affects so many children and adults. I guess it's just not ok that people think it's ok to post this stuff online. Like I know a boy who suicides because of this. It's not ok, this has hurt like many mothers, fathers and siblings losing there kid or even there parents to this. I mean watching this is such a good video to give young people and even older people hope that they aren't alone. ❤💖
Seriously I don’t understand people that write hate comments or negative comments with someone on line but through support and friends I do see that it’s nothing to do with the person or people on line but the sender. It’s what they think of themselves or there is jealousy or they are envious as well as they are in a very dark place themselves in their mind. I love and enjoy Caitlin and Leah and looking forward to seeing their little one is born, and feel bad about the reaction of their mums. It is so sad that the bullies cause people to think they have nowhere to go so they um see nothing else to do but end it. I enjoyed this video a lot and think this is a great video and great platform for more people to do these videos. Thank you so much for doing this documentary
Thank you so much for making awareness of this awful subjects, you girls are really so special and an inspiration❤
Hi Caitlin and Leah just a message to you both to say keep strong and I will always be through your pregnancy journey! Love you both ❤
I am a Christian, but I would never ever hate someone for there beliefs, that is very wrong, I hope you no how much you are loved ❤
I love your relationship so much you guys seem so wholesome
These comments are horrible 😢 you guys don’t deserve it at all, love you both. Stay strong 💪 ❤❤xxxxxxx
We stand for kindness and respect.
Online hate comments need to stop.
*If you are a hater and want to hurt people through your comments, think twice and choose not to do it*. *Let people be who they are, and if you don't agree with them... just walk away. Why choose to hurt them?* *There's no one single positive thing doing that. It only brings out the worst in you.*
who gives a shit if y’all post dancing videos on tiktok without being professional dancers and gaining fame from it! you deserve every follow on every platform of yours because you’re against cyber bullying, mental health advocates, and even educators which makes y’all perfect internet influencers. i’ve literally learned a lot about ivf from you guys :)
That is more true than the world
This is such a heartfelt documentary amazing job again girls me and me sister are still proud and can’t wait to see what this becomes keep up the amazing work ❤️❤️❤️
It really helps seing things like this documentary
I just want you guys to know that don't let hate comments get to you you have a incredible life ahead of you and you have one now there just jealous LOVE YOU GUYS ❤
Came here from tiktok🫶🏼 amazing work you girls are doing, you should be so proud❤
This is such an important story to share. You are sharing such an important message Caitlin and Leah. Thank you 💕
Do not quit any social media. I love u guys so muchhh💙🫶 You don’t deserve it hate❤I love uuuuu both so so muchhhh🫶💙
Omg this is so smart and great idea for people that are always on social media and the things that can people do on that ❤❤❤
Came from TikTok love you guys so much
You couple's should not read these hate comments you guys your awesome together and your baby boy will come out awesome like you both Caitlin and Leah be strong😉🥰
I’m so sorry you have to go through this You are amazing people and never let anyone put you down❤
I can't wait to see your gorgeous baby boy. He's going to be so happy with such amazing parents 😊
You two are both so beautiful and kind! I love you two together your such a cute couple and your little baby is going to be so cute and will be born into such a kind loving and accepting family! Don’t listen to the haters they don’t know what they are talking about! Love you both so much!❤😊🙃💖
Dear Caitlin and Leah
I really felt this I am very lonely and have considered many a times and so have my freinds and this help me realise other people go through it and that it will pass eventually I just need to go through it . I love your videos and iam really glad you did this series ❤❤❤❤ ( please reply if you can )
this is so true. Words can truly hurt
Hate is disgusting it NEEDS to stop ✋
Never let haters get their way
You two are amazing so courageous and have helped so many peopeople from all over the world! I am so genuinely sorry that you have both had to experience this:(
idk whats wrong with people they are horrible I and others love you so much and I cant believe how lucky ur baby boy is going to be they have the best mums in the whole world and ur both amazing wish I could know u in person we all love u so much xxx
Megs mum is so so strong ❤️ to open up ❤️
I cried so much watching this I just always think if I do something then people won’t have to deal with me and my problems anymore but I’m starting to rethink my thoughts and maybe I will stay because of you girls and Connor and you all help me alit
Hey, Ladies! I'm proud of u both in sharing all of ur struggles and let us all keep bring awareness and let us all help each other! I know what it's like 2 be bullied and I don't wish it on anyone! Especially, as as a Christian, who am I 2 judge u both or anyone in general? I don't judge! I hope and pray that we all can work together and find a way that all the hate stops and let us all continue 2 make Mental Health a priority and bring awareness and make it know! God love u both and so do I! ❤❤❤❤
Iv been bullied online. This really helped me , my partner been bullied for being transgender ❤️. I love you both
I think it’s really great how your addressing these issues
I love you guys and just came from your Tiktok live to comment and have a great day!
This a actually made me cry it’s so unfair that you get all this hate when all you want to do is help people the same with Megan why can’t people just think for 2 minutes before they send the comment
Love your documentary❤❤ it will help so many people
This is an amazing documentry. i'm so proud of Caitlin and leah🥰
Don’t listen to them you are Beautiful 😊😊
They don’t deserve all this hate I love them both ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I’m bursting out in tears. How could people do such a thing. Poor Megan she was only 14.
I feel bad for her parents and others that knew her, I hop nobody decides to send such disgusting hate comments.
I experienced these things too when I was only 10 years old, sometimes I wanted to end my life because of hate comments, I get age shaming everywhere and everyday because I got introduced to social media at a young age, people really need to realize they don’t know that some of the words they say can kill you…
I love tbis this topic is so important
This is really sad, no one deserves this kind of behavior and you guys aren't doing anything wrong, everytime I see someone sad I cant take it, I have to ask if something is wrong, but sadly most of the time my question is followed by silence, I hope the hate calms down a bit, I know it will never be gone for good but you guys and actually everyone doesn't deserve the hate. Thank you for reading this, have a awesome day I hope you are doing good, love yourself
My advice is just to read all of the good comments because so many people love you
I’m currently watching ur TikTok live 😊