Hasanabi Reacts to INCEL Content is DANGEROUS | Noah Samsen
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- Hasan reacts to a new video by friend of the show, Noah Samsen, covering the pickup artist and blackpill content that exists on the internet.
Hasan is also joined by Murat and Dave1 from Chromeo during parts of the video.
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Hasan Piker is Political Commentator turned Twitch Streamer (#13) known for his Turkish heritage and leftist takes, often speaking on topics like Socialism, Communism, Capitalism, and Marxism (and occasionally 9/11). He loves reacting to political news, and occasionally goes on IRL adventures with his friends such as Ludwig, TinaKitten, Sykkuno, Pokimane, Valkyrae, xQc, and many others. He likes to react to popular media content with his audience as well, such as Jubilee, JCS (Jim Can't Swim), Joe Rogan, Andrew Tate, Ben Shapiro, Tucker Carlson, MasterChef, Channel 5, trending twitter posts or TikToks, and other creative videos. He also co-hosts two podcasts, Leftovers, with Ethan Klein of H3H3 fame, and Fear & Malding, with Will Neff. He allegedly sometimes plays games like GTA 5, Dark Souls, Elden Ring, and whatever excites him on the PS5, Switch, or the PC side of gaming.
I'm an old person. This is just men discovering that their looks matter too. In the past you would see a stinky, old elephant of a man critiquing a beautiful younger woman for some minor flaw, and if you said something like "WTF, you're a stinky old elephant tho!" they would legit say "Yeah but that doesn't matter because I'm a man!" It wasn't actually true but society in the 1980's and before colluded with men in this delusion. It meant that men could comfortably get old and fat and bald while making themselves feel better by feeding on the tears of women because they gained 1 wrinkle or 5lbs. But that delusion is pretty much gone now, and the capitalist machine is now doing what it does by making men and women equally feel like shit so we will buy whatever crap they say will fix our descent into oldness and eventually death. The funny thing is these incels when analyzing the issue have decided it is like racism or something and their suffering has no relation to the same issues that women deal with around lookism. Ridiculous and tragic.
That’s why they are clueless about dating.
I’ve seen older (50-80) women talk about these mythological “fat” girls that don’t get attention from men, oblivious to the fact that any 300-400lb woman gets more attention from men than Elvis, James Dean and The Beetles combined ever received from women.
This is such a good take tho.
spot on
Exactly, as a woman I have been lately watching a lot content for men especially bodybuilding content. I have seen a lot of men complaining about how much work they need to put in themselves, how standards are unfair compared to women and I always been like “not really”. Here is where you are right, men just weren’t submitted to those unattainable stands as much as women, but now the gap is closing. If you look at advertising in tv there are always ads promoting to take weight loss pills, hair/nails/skin pills, makeup ads, anti-aging stuff, for hair/nails/ lashes serums in 95% of the times these ads are directed at women.
This makes a lot of sense, thank u for sharing!
Incel: YOU NEVER GIVE UGLY PEOPLE A CHANCE!
Everyone else: Do you give ugly people a chance?
They be like "that's not my point but"
@@selku3973 hahaha
Incels only want the most superficial people when they themselves are not that way.
Funny how you people always agree with the black pill shit without knowing it.
Then it must be about people that they have denied in reality. Not just that it's about preferences.
Many who have a sex life do not think it is about the right to sex when they have sex, but rather when men lack a sex partner
Love how these incel dudes are saying social media gives a false impression of men’s attractiveness yet will never concede to the beauty standards women are held to in media
Wow typed this and as soon as I sent it hasan said exactly what I said
Lizzo is the current beauty standard for women dafug u talking about?
@@ronaldlalruatfela3597 since you, a man, seem to know so much about beauty standards today, why don't you tell us, women, more about the standards we're held to
no no go on lol
@@ronaldlalruatfela3597 whered you go? Lmfao
@@ronaldlalruatfela3597 The Kardashians are an obvious example of the current beauty standards. It's to the point where they make money off of little teen girls by lying about plastic surgery so that they can buy their beauty products. You must live in a small ass world if you think Lizzo is the current standard lol. Don't you think people would be photoshopping themselves to her body type of that was the case?
Why don’t incels just try wearing makeup? If it’s so easy to make a “low value woman” look beautiful, y’all should be able to do it
@@spliffrotation7238 contouring can work some magic I’m just sayin
If you use makeup to marry a woman, she will find out you use it.
Maybe a 7/10 incel could use makeup to become an 8/10 guy and that could get him on a date, but in a long term relationship there’ll be situations where makeup will come off (showers, pools).
Plastic surgery is better but still not a good idea.
A guy can use plastic surgery to get married but then when the kids are born normal looking, the wife will know she’s been tricked and will take vengeance on the children.
The only real way out is surrogate mothers.
@@johnwilliams655 you seem to think that women as a whole are so superficial that that would be something that they couldn’t overcome. I would imagine most women understand the pressure of beauty routines and would be empathetic
I gotta agree. I wear eyeliner and eyeshadow, and I feel pretty hot when I do 🤷
@@Hipno702 Most people may be superficial. Some studies really make you think that sometimes.
I love when Hasan twirls his long hair like a cute little schoolgirl.
hasan do be cute sometimes. i say this as a pan guy generally not into men
@@zzeroara9511 Hasan singlehandedly reignited my attraction to men. Cute af
@@fishy000 GACHIHYPER TO THE FUCKING MAX
effects of chad are remarkable
🥵
“Showers can’t wash away what’s under the skin.”
Yeah, that actually takes work and maybe a therapist.
That comment is referring to issues with bone structure; incredibly recessed, small or asymmetrical jaws for example
Yeah you surely can change your skull and skeletal structure with therapy and some work
@@kubat300subat Oh long time. My comment was referring to the fact that if you think your bone structure is in any way meaningful to your future partner, you've probably got some bigger emotional issues. If a doctor says you have a small enough jaw to cause issues, sure, but most incels complaining about their facial shape have nothing "wrong" with their facial shape. They resign themselves to the fact that they're "ugly" to ignore their actual source of anxiety, refusing to improve what they can, physically and/or emotionally. Complaining is far easier than doing the work.
The golden ratio is real, yes, but it is a totally unconscious judgement. 95% of people in the world make it by without a "perfect" face. Hell, they thrive and have partners of their own. I'm not a particularly attractive person, and my partner will always tell you my humor is what made him fall for me. Looks aren't everything, and they fade. In fact, if you do make them everything, your relationship may be incredibly boring and/or unfulfilling.
It's so fun when he has Dave on, and I feel so sorry for him having to endure the psychological torment that comes from Peering Into The Internet
The darkness
Idk who is he?
@@dirtclodboi he’s 1/2 of the band Chromeo, a funk band that was pretty popular in the 2010’s
Waffles guy: "Women put their IG accounts in their bios and men don't because women crave attention and men don't."
Also Waffles guy: "Here's the link to my discord server which is different."
I don't think you know what discord is...
@@ctoooc I don't think you know what sarcasm or irony is lol.
No you literally just made a false equivalency, thats all.
@@rachelroyce278 I don't think you know either if they were to literally slap you in the face with it.
@@NeroAngelo616 shes trying to justify her hundreds of DMS despite having a boyfriend by calling out a guy who uses discord for other purposes.
That second guy was so based. I'm so tired of people acting like weight lifting is some panacea for not being successful socially and boosting confidence. Finding a physical activity that you enjoy to get you healthy is a necessary step but the most important part is finding a hobby or something you enjoy and respect to join, take part in, and then identify with. This will boost your confidence. The hobby could be weight lifting but it could also be learning an instrument, learning a new language, reading books, helping your community, etc. Just make sure whatever hobby you choose to do also join a community within it to legitimize your self image.
You don't have to weightlift, but being physically active is something everyone should engage in. It's truly absolutely essential for your mental health. The body and brain are in no way separate, to have a healthy brain, you need a healthy body
@@IM2OFU When I used to exercise (weight lifting) it had no effect on my mental health. I was still depressed and neurotic but I could just lift slightly heavier objects
The mental health benefits are way overblown in my experience
Totally agree, I get a lot more value out of gentle, consistent, fun exercises than overdoing it and quitting because it’s too time consuming at some point. There’s a trainer I like who just makes workouts so fun, I realized it’s about being in my body and enjoying movement, not pushing myself to the limit and now I’ve lost weight and look great without that even being the main point anymore. Even walking and super low impact exercise daily is better than going crazy for one month every year. ❤
@@painunending4610 there's much research on it
That is where we run into a problem... they have tried everything and not one extroverted activity thrills or excites them as a video game does... which creates the problem. To enjoy a hobby... you need that "high".
Without that "high" they're always going to be angry and if they abstain from psychostimulants... they are only going to get angrier and angrier... as a way to cope with their desire to "Game Over" themselves...
"Don't panic I'm not a crazy person"
Every girl: Panicking because only a crazy person would say that
The think every dude would panic too... someone (even if it as hot girl) says that... I get the feeling she is concealing a knife or gun on her.
I'm always bewildered when I see a video that's around 20-some minutes, and see Hasan's reaction to it which is always at LEAST twice the length. True content creator
I wouldn't have it any other way. Content me, Hasanabi
thats... thats how it should be, right?
lmao literally . watched him react to a 6 minute moist video and his reaction was almost an hour
I love this dumb idea that "women never date down" because... dude... I'm a broke nerd who works as an artist (and I'm not even good at it tbh), with no meaningfull life prospects, who doesn't work out and doesn't look good (I'm average looking, you wouldn't turn yourself to look at me in any context), and has no sense of style, and yet I've never had a problem dating women who were far better than I am in pretty much every sense of the way. Seriously the only things I have going for me is that I've been told I'm funny, I can talk myself out of almost every situation, and I always try to have empathy and be a good human overall. And I've never had trouble dating. Not once.
Seriously, incels go through life thinking there's something wrong with women and that's why they don't date them but here's the reality; They don't date you because you're not a very nice person.
Stop being so angry and vengeful all the time you weirdo. Better yourself up, not physically, but mentally. Stop trying to be someone you're never going to be and start being comfortable in your own skin, motherfucker. That's the path. That's the only fucking path.
I feel like I'm a nice person and people say I am yet no woman's ever been interested in me. No experience is universal
@@painunending4610 wAh wAh WaH crying about it. Sure buddy. Stop acting like you've tried everything.
@@stawbury7413 not a very nice person are you?
@@painunending4610 you're right about no experience being universal. I was indeed generalizing and maybe projecting my own experience into others. That being said the fact that your experience is what it is doesn't prove that "all" women are superficial monsters either, which was my point.
Jesus you don't have to be a cunt about it. Guy was just speaking about his own personal experience. Take a page out of OP's response and be nicer.
What amazes me is the fact that the majority of the black pillers are teens and young adults. Their face and body aren't developed fully and they are financially unstable and they don't have as much experience as a 30 year old when it comes to life. So I don't know why they give up when they are at the age of improving and figuring out who are you as a person
A lot of untreated depression and mental health issues and a stigma against men talking about their feelings, I think. Young guys still need to know they can talk to their friends, families or professionals about their feelings
More cynical and not coping yet
@@itsmarinah they should stop blaming women for their problems and getting jealous of attractive men
The expectation that you're supposed to have your first experiences in that age
After 18 your not going to grow any taller and after 30 your only guaranteed to start balding and skin will rapidly degrade. After 40 spinal compression will reduce your height.
I love the transition from Murat to Dave1, thanks for posting this reaction : )
Happy to be of service!
I’ve always wondered how someone who claims to hate women can simultaneously be so obsessed with them lol
They dont hate women tho
Incel = never gotten laid, never will
Mysogynist = woman hater
2 different things
It actually happens a lot a classic example is with parents people can hate their parents because they were mistreated by them but then they will grow up and become obsessed with how they were affected by parents
@@leahflower9924 nah, I mean like, women haven’t traumatized these incels tho. Youre talking about two completely different scenarios. Incels are mad because women don’t want to sleep with them or date them, so their resentment towards women turns into hatred and anger, and thats no ones problem but their own. They’re also unwilling to be introspective or work to better themselves. Incels blame women for their problems
@@leahflower9924 overall, women haven’t mistreated incels. Maybe some have been rude, but guess what, sometimes people are mean. Thats literally just a part of being a person in the world lmao.
Hate is not the opposite of love
Don't know who this Dave guy is, but he comes bearing good vibes and wholesome energy.
I think he's one of the guys from the band Chromeo.
he'll give you bonified lovin, the type that makes you feel ooohhh
Being hyper masculine isn't the only way to be attractive. You can be a feminine man, and still be attractive or have a balance of both femininity and masculinity and still be attractive. Look at most of the heart throbs out there for example. Are most of them super ripped and look like gigachads? No. In fact a lot of them have a balance between femininity and masculinity. Some are even just straight up feminine, like the men in BTS, but still attractive. So, my point is that doesn't matter how feminine or masculine you are, you can be attractive either way. Hyper masculinity can be unattractive depending on you as a person. That's why it's important to find your own style, because not every man is or has to be masculine. Same with women as well, not all women is or has to be feminine.
The feminine men are very attractive until their get to the age where they suffer the curse of balding.
Feminine bois are attractive to girls until around 20-23, past that age....they want mascunility. Its not a general rule but it applies to most women, there are always ALWAYS exceptions there are 100 billion people in this world.
Masculinity and femininity make no sense
Totally agree. Even the most masculine men, when altered with the female gaze, will end up with feminine traits being the aspect of attraction. You know those edits and fanfictions of those COD characters Ghost, Soap, etc? Yes, they're partly praised for being big and strong by a lot of women and being simped over for their muscles and being brave soldiers. But these fantasies, most of the time, end up centered around how "babygirl" or soft or emotional they are. Search any fanficiton involving those characters - the seasoned killing machines - and the author will have written them to eventually break down their walls and have the focus of the plot be them becoming emotionally vulnerable and weak and needing care and showing affection. And if you look at all the comments, they eat it up, and they'll all be about how cute and soft the characters are.
It's really wild to me as a woman to have grown up kind of assuming that women are attracted to hyper masculine men, because I grew up consuming media created by men for men. But then I consumed media created by women for women, and the male characters who are designed to be attractive through the female gaze often have traditionally feminine traits.
And the man who was the effeminate skinny male friend of the popular girls... I gotta be honest.... dating or even hook ups (outside my social circle of friends) was never difficult...
It was difficult for all the “alphas” who would repeatedly approach the girls though... and try “pick up” lines... and got laughed at.
Even after 11 years since high school... still the effeminate male friend of the popular girls (now in a law firm). Not that I don’t have guy friends... not or dude bros as guy friends.
1:11:17 can't ask women about women and can't ask straight guy friends bc they're your competition. the logical solution is to get a gay friend. This dude is just super woke!
That would only apply to an extroverted/normal social circle.
A more autistic minded person will view their friends as team mates rather than people to out do. From that perspective, sabotaging a friends relationship would be self harm because if your friends don’t have kids, then your kids will have no one to play with growing up (aside from siblings).
Yeah I kinda noticed that too...after watching this incel stuff my reaction has some disgust but I have to admit that I was rejected too as a female and I think constant or more than one time rejection changes people it tends to make people defensive and bitter against the people who rejected us
This is funny bc I’ve been around men before that I thought were smokin hot, but as soon as they opened their mouths and showed how arrogant they were, I couldn’t get away from them fast enough. I’ve also developed feelings in high school for the “mega nerd” that nobody else wanted bc he was a little chubby because I saw what a kind, genuine person he was and we had a lot in common. Personality overrides a LOT.
@@laptopstudy3279 lmao! I’ve never craved “chad.” I’ve always dated down to earth guys who do not look the “chad” part. One of my exes was pretty obese, but I loved him bc of his personality. If you’re THIS bitter, it’s probably bc YOUR personality is trash. Women don’t wanna date misogynistic men who say ignorant shit like, “AlL oF yOu WaNt A cHaD.” I’ve turned down extremely hot, in shape guys bc they were egotistical and self absorbed and that’s a HUGE turn off. But here you are, assuming you know me and trying to put me in a box because you’ve been reading incel shit and blaming women for your failures rather than focusing on self-improvement and you wonder why women turn away from you. Get connected with reality. Do some self-reflection and focus on self improvement and you’ll find the right person for you. Not all women are the same and not all men are the same. Listening to ignorant people who tell you otherwise will keep you single and bitter.
@@laptopstudy3279 y u making up a story about her life? Pathetic lol
@@studybuddy. it sint psthetic when u hit the nail. It applies to every modern women that uses a cellphone and is not religious.
@@laptopstudy3279 oooooooooh. That IS pathetic. Modern women? Cell phone? NOT RELIGIOUS?! You’re such a weird guy. Grow up.
@@studybuddy.
I base my comments on data and exp, u base urs on feelings and cope.
,,i have had tons of female friends and bc they were my true friends they told me everything. Even the two religous ones followed the same rule: try to lock down the best option…and keep the rest on the friend zone..one of the two religious virgin girld said that she told the guy who proposed to her to wait a few years (bc she was trying tonlock down a chad…and she wasnt interested in him bc of the first impression ( she did not say looks) is all that matterred to her).
The other religious girl…gave up after failing to lock down chad and is engaged to her ex who is uggly…just engaged…possibly still messaging chad, im only telling you the stories from the religious girls bc if i tell u the story of normal modern women your mind will blow up and not believe it. Modern women with a cellphone have access to chads and tons of girls messaging them and proposing them. Its just natural but far far worse during these times.
If ur a girl, u cant fool me…go ahead pretend like everyone else does if ur a dude…time will teach you my friend.
Ok but beard, hair, gym, clothing will not get you to a 7 w/o therapy. You can be a 7 with therapy, good banter, and kindness. I’ve found myself attracted to a man that mentally I wouldn’t think I would be when he walked in the room. But then he spoke with emotional intelligence and was nice to me and made me laugh, and now I need to change the bottom half of my clothing (trying not to get this comment flagged)
@@black_forest_ EXACTLY!!
@@black_forest_ SO TRUE I’ve always said with these incel types that it doesn’t even matter how they look, I can just smell the anti-woman on them, it’s like an instinctual aversion to subconsciously sensing a dangerous creature in your presence 😂
i want to be so sexy that women literally shit themselves when they think about me
@@HP-sq2fp Same. When I date a guy, I don't want to end up on a true crime documentary after we get in an argument, or I tell the male cashier to have a nice day.
@@black_forest_ Every human being wanna be safe around their potential partners or current partners, this isnt a preference. Most people wont date you just because you are nice. I think this is an entitled perspective.
Approaching a stranger on the street usually doesn’t work. People most often date their circle of acquaintances or online, so if you want more opportunities to date, as a straight guy, make more female friends. Most of these incels only hang out with guys or get turned down by a few female acquaintances and think it’s a dead end. The biggest thing you need is to learn how to take an ‘L’ like a grownup.
The second thing is to learn how and when to flirt. This can be complicated: it requires good people skills and a lot of incels for one reason or another don’t have good people skills. The first step is to figure out when women are are showing interest and when they’re not.
The last thing is to figure out your more attractive aspects and play them up.
I don't want to be friends with women. If they reject me the friendship won't survive (I have personal experience with this).
@@guilhermedesouza6454 why are you asking out every woman you come in contact with? That’s not friendship. You’re the one actively sabotaging it
@@guilhermedesouza6454 I have rejected a friend before. And we kept our friendship like that has never happened. Adter some years, now we both laugh about it
@@stellalegolasnevolous4666 I can't keep the friendship (2 friendships ended because I was rejected and I tried to keep them alive)
@@guilhermedesouza6454 Yes thats your personal experience. Which are 100% valid. What I'm saying is that it's not because it hasn't worked for you that it's not gonna work for other individuals.
I absolutely agree with bettering yourself, but I also think that slip-ups are normal and you shouldn’t feel bad to mess up because you are human.
To Hasan and most people in his chat men have to literally act perfect. A lot of dudes better themselves and still can't find anyone. You have to talk to women because they will never come to you, but you also can't be creepy. You need to give them space because just by existing women are terrified of you like you are some demon on hearth (In hasan arguments women have been compeltly traumatized by the world since they are 5 because they get "graped" by every men that passes near them. not an exageration at all by the way), but at the same time you can't just leave because the girl is going to ignore you. You literally have to do everything exactly right, and if you have one slip up and you are not successful it's because of that slip up, you wheren't perfect enough.
@@paulogaspar8295 no one asking you to be perfect; as long as your looking your gonna find something?
@@paulogaspar8295 You sound quite anxious about this. Do you think maybe your anxiety about it is contributing to your success? I see this problem with a lot of introverted nerdy dudes (I include myself in this as an introverted nerdy enby).
I even experienced it myself while I was on a date with this one guy a few years ago.
I was immediately very attracted to him physically, and we had things in common. He was older than me, taller than me, and he was an engineer with his own house. A "high-value" man, as most manosphere guys would say. However, it became increasingly clear as the date went on that he was extremely nervous and insecure. It started out as just some slightly awkward jokes and nervous laughter but then transitioned into internally debating with himself whether to buy me something (in front of me) and deciding not to. I didn't even want the thing he seemed like he was going to get me, but it was just a weird and awkward moment. My best friend at the time (a gay guy) was working there at the time and had come by to give me a hug, and this dude I'm on the date with immediately questions if there's something going on between me and my very gay (I'm AFAB and identified as a woman at the time) best friend. On a first date. And this is nothing compared to the horror stories I've heard from girls I'm friends with now. It's not that you have to be perfect, but if you act like a fucking weirdo, she's gonna think you're weird.
@@fishy000 anxious and nervous = weirdo, got it
@@IlGrandeMagazzi No. That's not what I'm saying at all. If you're visibly really nervous and awkward, most people (not just women) are not going to want to hang out with you, and that's the part that incels don't want to hear. You can try to strawman me like that if you want, but it's not going to get you anywhere.
I didn't even call anyone weird. I said something that's actually not controversial at all. If you act weird, people will think you're weird. Only on the internet will people try to tell you this is a hot take lmao
If you're genuinely interested in someone, get to know them, let them get to know you, express your feelings, be kind, and if it doesn't work out accept it. That's it.
well they got the acceptance part for sure.
Yep, basically it.
For you to get to know them, women have to allow you to do it in the first place. A lot of women nowadays just don't wanna be approached, so I get them.
Don't express shit to a female, wtf are you talking about?🤡🤣
@@shuttlescoff7668 you seem like an absolutely sad sad person. What’s it like never talking to women??
“Women are so shallow for wanting equally attractive men” Also: “I, as a solid 2, deserve a 10”
You know it's bad when even the comment parrots use strawmens.
@@hyperboliccancers3269 dude... they literally say that multiple times in multiple videos.
@@marcelinoalvarado9129 Dude... Being a copy of a copy still makes you a copy.
@AndrogynousAngel2006Lmao, by "talk" you mean creep on.
@AndrogynousAngel2006 It's not inherently, but it depends on how you do it. Incels are notorious for having 0 social skills and awareness, and are often pushy, even malicious.
“Showers can’t wash away the flaws beneath your skin”… bro lmao. I’m pretty sure I went to a high school slam poetry reading where that same exact thing was said🫰🫰🫰
It’s true though, you need to work on yourself internally and your personality, which isn’t a physical part of you
I literally met my ex by him coming up, asking my name, complimenting me, and giving me his phone number. 😂 It literally works and the interaction was so flattering and exciting because he was genuinely respectful and friendly. I really respected the guts it took and that he left the ball completely in my court. I messaged him as soon as I got off work that night and we dated for 3 years. 😅
@Mr. M ok..? Just seeing it works, I’ve met people other ways too. How I met my ex wasn’t an attack on you or something.
Thanks for picking up the pieces of this ADHD Andy's reacts 😄
Men and women - do their best to look their best
Incels - And I took that personally
Love the editing. Thanks for showing the whole reaction (switch from Murat to Dave)
You're welcome! Because it was watched over multiple days, it was a much more in-depth editing job than usual, so I'm glad you're enjoying it :)
I liked ur comment but took it bad bc it’s at 69
The whole "negatives seen as positives" thing is a moot point because they're ultimately describing what it means to feel attraction toward someone, yet they're framing it as some sort of insidious discrimination against them as a class. Attraction is subjective -- the "problem" isn't attractive people, the "problem" is that people give passes to those they're attracted to, not just attractive people in general. Attractive people can't get away with anything as a rule, but it's easy cope for incels to tell themselves at night and it relinquishes them from any accountability in the matter when in reality they're just a bunch of weird, angry, off-putting dudes. God forbid you tell one of these guys that they should smile and dutifully flirt back with another man if that man is gay and trying to shoot his shot, even if they themselves are heterosexual. Suddenly the nuances of attraction start making a lot of sense to them and they somehow start valuing the concept of comfort -- their own, of course.
@@aymanbouhlali5257 beauty standards. but to answer your question, yes it's weird.
Major self report when you compare being fished out of the ocean, killed and eaten to dating you. Yeah bro if it's as bad to date you as it is for fish to be caught why would anyone help you lol.
I think what Murat is trying to say is he agrees that pretty privilege (aka the halo effect) exists, which I think perfectly illustrates why it's so easy to fall down dangerous rabbit holes. They use a modicum of truth to draw you in, spice it up with their own interpretation & gradually build on that, feeding you more & more bs. Since its core foundation is truthful, people are more likely to believe it
The halo effect only gets you noticed... then you got to showcase your personality... which most of these “alphas” do not have.
@@Ozzie_Mandias The Halo Effect literally changes how people perceive your personality
@@jacksonfitzsimmons4253initially, until you interact with them
I'm sorry, but if a good looking chad dude has a bad personality, I am NOT going to overlook that just because he is handsome. IN FACT, the bad personality makes them a lot less attractive very quickly.
@Mr. M Men started it.
Well of course you wouldn't intentionally, but it works kind of like subconscious racism where outside of your conscious control, the attractive man can get away with more
@@aneraxxmusic2343 Subconscious behaviour can be very easily countered by just being conscious of it. Self-awareness, it's called. We're not all subconsciously racist lol As a person who really isn't into looks, a bad personality subconsciously makes me wanna gag and I perceive them as a lot less attractive.
For me personally looks matter but they are secondary. Looks will never make up for a bad/boring personality. If your traditionally good looking and have a good personality, your extremely attractive, if your traditionally good looking and have a terrible personality, your a generic looking jerk and with every stupid thing you say your face will become increasingly infuriating to me and my brain will start to pick out every flaw and I can’t un-see it.
Is it just me or does the way you feel about someone sometimes start to form the way you see them physically?
I’m a single female. I’m attracted to all different types of guys. Skinny guys, fat guys, short guys, tall guys, gym bod or dad bod, any color of the rainbow, bi guys or pan guys or straight (as long as they are into me it’s all good), doctors or mechanics or coal miners. Etc. They all had a few things in common-
Good sense of humor. They don’t have to be a damn comedian. Just someone who can laugh at themselves, or at me, hell. I gotta be able to fart in front of the man.
kind to animals
Gives good tips at restaurants
Yes. Incels like myself know that the reason we don't have is because of our personality, not appearance
@@scifirealism5943 personality can be improved with passion in life and hobbies my guy
@@jenm1 I know. I have them now.
Anime and physics.
I just completed my mathematics-physics internship.
@@jenm1 The question we never ask is what if they have tried and tried... but not a single extroverted activity "thrills" them at all? Manosphere morons are the second majority of men like this... the first majority take their own lives or die from overdose.
@@scifirealism5943 Why do you choose to call yourself an incel?
I was playing my guitar for the first half of this, barely even listening, and I looked down and was completely shocked when I thought that Murat had morphed 😂😂😂
murat upgraded to chad
My advice is always just be comfortable with who you are and work on your social skills, then be yourself. It will not land you every and any woman you talk to, you'll still get rejected by some people but the hope is that with consistency over a long enough period of time, while you're still just out living your life, eventually you'll be in contact with someone you're compatible with. Women get rejected & dumped too...no matter how pretty or hot they are 🤷♀️ just a part of dating.
The halo effect (the effect being discussed abou5 how better looking people are percieved as generally better or good) is a real thing. It really only applies to people we don't know. Once you start interacting with a person in a real way behavior out weighs this effect.
This is such an important conversation to have with the internet. Thank you @hasanabi
Rigggggght, the tall handsome guy says “Anyone can be attractive” cute
i was thinking the same but look for pictures of him when he was younger and he's mostly right in his theory. He was also a 7 that found out how to work on his looks. And from my personal experience most people are a solid 7, you can change that to go up or down
As a person who thinks of himself as unattractive, these incels make me feel insecure about myself, that's how they lure you into their incel ideologies. Luckily I meet real people instead of chronically staying online
Young people today are so angsty. I’m in my 40s and I don’t ever remember being this bent out of shape and overthinking dating when I was younger. Then again the internet wasn’t as much of a thing.
I never understood why incels even need to hate others. Just hate yourself like a normal person. Know youll never be enough not because of womens insanely high standards. Realize youll never be enough because the problems in your life are yours and yours alone and theres no fixing them
They’ll just use it as ammo that proves how unfuckable they are even in a world of “whores”
Yo, I doubt Murat sees comments on a Hasan alt-channel however homie is looking fit. I don't know if he's been lifting or something but he's looking great.
everyone just wants to blame someone else for their failures, it's really that simple
most of the dudes I know that women ignore just seem to lack fashion sense and carry an outdated attitude towards gender roles, lol
Even though i never really thought i was "ugly" or "weird" or anything, Hasan has unironically become such a huge inspiration for me to better myself nonetheless
I like the idea of someone just giving a paper and walking away but I rather they give me their social media accounts or other app where I can easily block them after the fact. Texting dudes you don’t know is always a risk because it’s not easy to fully block a number. I learned that the hard way. The “I saw you from across the room” vibe is cute and just handing a paper and dipping is a lot less scary than a dude getting in your space and trying to talk to you. Guys hitting on me on the train always freaked me out, bad anxiety, so the paper drop would be way less scary.
Dehydrated eddy burback is so funny
Yeah being a shy bi I've asked out alot of girls this way by giving them a note on the bus-had some good dates but it's really not good for a relationship to start
Like Hassan said give you're number to them when you already have met once or twice ya know
I would rather a guy just hand me his number but honestly I would really rather no strangers (man or woman) ever talk to me lol
Good strategy. I'm going to invest in cat food now.
true, i hate talking to strangers. and i feel like its just awkward to be hit on by strangers, feels super shallow.
There will no be romantic movies in the future because all people will meet on dating apps...
A glaring flaw in their mission is that they have an obsessive desire to find an algorithm that will instantly gain acceptance from any potential partner. That isn't a realistic goal for anyone to aspire to.
First seek individualism in one's self then maybe realize that different people respond differently to different stimuli. You'll never find intimacy without accepting that people are unique and then learning to adapt to and play into that uniqueness.
Another thing. These incels should explore their femininity. That's where confidence comes from; accepting and becoming comfortable with ALL aspects of one's self. There's such an unconscious dismissive attitude that really keeps these men from discovering the happiness right in front of them.
Legal disclaimer: I'm tired lol
I'm a big fat ugly man that don't have any problems getting women it's how you carry yourself, I also missing a few teeth and you can see it.
How tall are you? Are you white?
@@grizzlybear2702 over 6
I thought Hassan was wrong about the whole giving number thing and then I had flashbacks to the numbers I've been given this way and how I've literally never texted anyone back. Lol.
ik it’s been 10 months since u commented this but i don’t totally get what else ur supposed to do if u wanna meet strangers - like is the only way to meet a partner either online or being friends?😭💀💀
Omg this is my first time seeing this brother on his stream and he’s literally so precious and sweet!
women be not deciding. women be shopping.
💀💀💀
I like how Hasan's giving his "everyone can be a 7" rule, Dave says you don't need to exercise or anything, then proceeds to say he doesn't work out by saying what exercise he does.
Yes, yoga has a bunch of spiritual shit tacked onto it, but its still fundamentally exercise.
he's referring to woeking out for aesthetic purposes
@@JoseGomez-jr8hn oh, good thing "everyone can be a 7" has nothing to do with aesthetics, then.
If you were talking to a woman for the first time and doing surprisingly well and she asked you "so what brought you to california?" and your response was "to find you", the response wouldn't be her chuckling it would be her expecting you to draw a gun
The most attractive thing you can do is have a personality and be emotionally stable! That cannot be overstated enough. A man who genuinely doesn’t get triggered is attractive. The amount of resentment and animosity that comes out of these online men’s dating advice communities is the most unattractive thing about them.
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This is so sad lol - i cant believe how many dudes are subscribed to this stuff
The man o sphere?😅 I’m dying up in here!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I haven’t laughed this hard all week 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This entire ideology is so insane to me 😭 I met my man in drug rehab (merely stayed acquaintances as he came in when I was leaving) and we met again a month or two later in an NA meeting. My baby is 5’6” on a good day and was slightly heavier from getting sober. But he is the best man. He has always treated me well and respects me. He’s not super rich or anything either. He is hard-working, honest, kind, and loving. We live together now and have been dating for almost a year.
Height is NOT a defining factor. He has never asked if I thought he was too short and is confident. To his credit, he has always had a girlfriend and/or female attention growing up as he’s a good looking guy. But he’s never seen it as something that would stop him from dating. It’s all about mental obstacles. Yes, a lot of women have standards for height, but so many don’t mind. Hell I almost prefer guys closer to my height because it doesn’t hurt to kiss them while standing 😭 but you can absolutely find love with short stature or a weaker jaw or whatever. Do what is right, work hard, learn how to love in a healthy way and it will come
"as he’s a good looking guy" - Of course, who would've thought, of fvcking course. Just stfu!
Women date down looks wise almost always. Incels just don't realize that women in general are lot more beautiful than men because they have needed their looks to attract a mate. In this video there is a perfect example at the beginning, that male "7" looks completely ok, but if they get to the female "7", she looks like she could be a model. More like a catalog model and not high fashion model, but still. Way prettier than the man. There are very rare examples where men date down looks wise, even the example Hasan brought, Hugh Jackman, he has a wife at least as pretty as he is, just age appropriate and I guess people are not used to that. But she was probably very pretty when she was younger.
lmao now this incel has an example of a female "4" that is definitely far above average looking and attractive, just the lighting is weird.
That’s because women hide all their genetic imperfections with makeup whereas even the most microscopic imperfections on a man will be on full display for ever. In addition the women faces no height discrimination and will never suffer the curse of balding.
@@grizzlybear2702 ever heard of alopecia?
@@michaelironsights8347 this dude probably don't see people often, there are bal women all there for many reasons and a lot of them look cool and beautiful, the same for men, there are so many cool looking and hot bald dudes, being bald is not an attraction death sentence.
@@grizzlybear2702 if that were true, anyone, including old people and men, could use makeup to transform themselves into beautiful women. No woman would have self esteem issues because anyone can become a beautiful model. In reality, there are only a few things that you can do with makeup, like covering bad skin (which also men can do) or make your lashes longer. But that's pretty much it for most people. Almost all women who look pretty with makeup but ugly without it have bad skin but otherwise good bone structure.
Height discrimination is very real, I'll give you that. But sometimes men also want women a lot shorter than them, so if an average man finds only those women attractive who are 15-20cm shorter, he won't have that much choice, unless he moves to a country with shorter people. I hope they will find some cure against premature balding. Otherwise, when talking about female beauty, it is always about their face structure, which is a lot harder to achieve than a good looking body or a nice haircut for men.
I wonder if hasan was actually mad at his brother for agreeing with the incel for a second 😂
Giving dating advice to people is, to me, really dangerous especially en masse via influencers and social media. Because advice comes with the inherent implication that if followed will result in success or at the very least, will result in favorable results. So when incels or potential incels get 'advice' and act on it and don't get the expected reaction (success) they lash out and build up their prejudices that make them toxic personalities. How about, when you interact with other people those people have their own drives, predispositions, and other factors that make up their personality which don't revolve around your own factors and so when they don't click with you it isn't the end of the world and it doesn't make them or you any less of person.
Unfortunately if someone like Hasan doesn't give it to them, they will get it from someone worse. Leaving it up to chance is a luxury that society can't afford
in terms of humor, i think good humor (even edgy ones) are meant to point out the irony in reality. it is a byproduct of that action that results in humor getting under people's skin. edgelord racist humor, on the other hand, misses that point entirely, and assumes that humor is only meant to "trigger" or troll people, so they base their humor/pleasure out of other people's anger, misery, annoyance, etc.
"accept yourself for who youre not" HAHA
@0:35 it's true man, I was balding pretty bad until I stopped being an incel and that singlehandedly stopped my balding and partially reversed it.
-Edit: I was originally joking when I started typing this comment but for real I actually was balding and it hasn't went any further since I started dating my current s/o who I've been with for 5 years, I think the biggest problem is that they are depressed AF and stressed AF and yet think having sex with a girl regularly will suddenly make their lives do a 180 - which is bullshit!t, but it inadvertantly caused me to stop stressing so much and in turn stopped my balding. It's been 5 years and my hairline has not gotten any worse - it could be exactly where it was 5 years ago and I may just be more comfortable with it so that could be why I think it's gotten better but still. I was so depressed back in the day cuz I let all the "the worth of a man is measured by his woman/family" type bullsh*t get to me (which is been taught that stuff since birth so it's not surprising), and it's so stupid because just adding an extra person in your life won't make you not depressed. No matter who gets added into your life, you are *personally* depressed and anxiety ridden. For me, what did it was the fact that i learned I was still depressed and anxious despite being in a relationship and that caused me to actually look inward and at my own mental state. I was somewhat aware of my issues prior but not in the same way. It was learning that I was waiting for someone else to solve my own problems that got me to solve my problems, cuz when I started dating I realized I hadn't changed at all - and it did help somewhat to have someone in my life I had the ability to confide in but it wasn't what got me out of that funk.
Plus, they literally sit around expecting women to show up and baby them for no reason and they think that will somehow singlehandedly make them better - you don't keep men in contempt when they don't become your friends do you?? No. You can't act like you are "entitled to having a woman", it's all inherently misogynistic and objectifying as hell and the only reason incels are stuck being single is because they're sexist as fvck and won't treat women as human beings. No one wants to live the rest of their life with someone that thinks they're inherently inferior just because of their sex/gender. If you acted like your friends were inferior to you they'd leave you behind too - and it's totally unsurprising in that case but then men act shocked when women don't want to be around them. It's just ridiculous as all hell to me. People aren't objects, they aren't property, it's insane that these people are so far up their own asses that they don't get it. Even when I was a lonely far-right nutcase, I never blamed women for my inability to date women - I did think a girlfriend would change me and "fix" me, but I wasn't sitting around hating women for not wanting to be around me and tbh it was totally my conservatism that was keeping me single because I had no issues with making great friends - I could easily talk to men.
The incel dudes usually turn to pickup artist bullsh*t and think that's gonna make it any better, and then it's even funnier because they all only care about getting phone numbers in the first place - it's like they accidentally give up the entire game and the only ones who don't see that are *themselves* - cuz people who either are women or anyone else that just isn't sexist (or as sexist) sees it as the greasy and sexist bullshit*t that it is. It's like they're admitting that it's not enough - all kinds of lonely men get into that sh*t but don't realize it's still not enough to get you into a serious relationship. They double down on the sexism. It's funny that so many men are so sexist that they take such a long and embarrassing route (one that also won't even get them a serious relationship) instead of just treating women as equals, as autonomous human beings. Is it really that hard for them to just care about someone else and to treat them like a human being?
Bruh asking anyone out in a public situation is a low success rate lol
It's because typically when someone is out they are running an errand or something and who wants to be bombarded with that? I know that when I go out and I'm doing stuff the last thing I want is to speak to anyone. Even people I may know. Not to mention the fact that it's so bizarre for a complete stranger to try and "pick someone up". Like you'll have way better success rate just going out to a bar and having a normal conversation with someone.
as depressing/scary as the content they were reacting to was, i will say, i loveeee dave's energy, so wholesome, uplifting, like the type of friend i could talk to about anything without judgement.
What Hasan says here is true. If' you're 25 or under, your body is clay. It's possible to get in very good shape in 6 months. If you do, the self-respect and discipline you gain will help you break the incel mode.
It's much more difficult to do this when you are older; your body is less responsive to exercise, your brain is used to thinking this negatively, and you have to work harder in the gym to achieve the same result. Don't waste your youth.
If you're an incel, I plead that you take the amount of time you waste hating yourself on the internet and use it to exercise. Give yourself 6 weeks you'll notice the good changes. Also, a hygiene is very important. Maintenance of your skin and hair is the floor for proving to a potential mate that you can "take care" of someone. Namely, you.
Being over 25 isn’t a death sentence lol. Your metabolism slows down _gradually_ over the course of years. You still have plenty of time to change your lifestyle, it’s not like you hit a wall on your 25th birthday.
Like, my one aunt was always in good shape, but when she was ~50 she got really into fitness and now she’s in the best shape of her life and has won marathons
@@CharlieApples That's why I said it's harder (and not impossible). Now that I'm firmly middle-aged, the weight loss I could do in six months of not really trying in my early 20s, has taken a couple of years of careful management.
your body is not clay. Some people have genetically way more trouble losing weight. Some have a hard time gaining muscle because they are too skinny. Some people can have hormonal imbalances or chemical imbalances that makes them very hard to develop muscles like diabetes or hundreads of other diseases that influence your body. If you take cortisol your body becames like an inflated baloon. It's not that easy to a lot of people. You need to have to be extremly lucky to have a body, money, time and the help that enables you to be in shape in 6 months.
I’d bet money that the average incel spends more time exercising than the average sexually active man.
Older guys do have the advantage of living away from parents though. If you’re incel, your parents will do everything within their power to discourage you from exercising or eating well.
There’s a reason for this, money can be transferred from a man to a woman, but fitness cannot. A mother will view her son as a future ATM for another woman and will do what she can to groom him into becoming just that. Seeing a son attain physical health is infuriating to a mother because, as stated before, your health can’t be given or stolen.
@@johnwilliams655 There’s nothing impressive about spending your mom’s money lol
How refreshing hearing a guy be like “I tried finding mental health through exercise it didn’t work for me”. I’m happy for the guys it helps, but it’s not the answer for all men and ppl act like ‘just get in the gym bro’
You can be a 7 to somebody out there
Love you calling out your guest.
12:47 hit the nail on the head. I'm boring as hell and don't speak unless spoken to but everyone I've worked or been around loves me. All you need is to be a decent human being
"She doesn't find you sexually attractive but uses you for emotional support and your male energy.." It's not using. It's called having friends. Most men don't know what friendship with women looks like.
Why do all the incel channels just make shitty powerpoints?! 🤣 A reflection of the level of effort they want to put into anything, maybe?
“All” it’s literally just the one.
@@atavism-dream dude he watched another vid with the vampire incel. That guy used a powerpoint too. 😂
@@dev9619 shiiieet didn’t watch the video
They view PowerPoints as bad because they are not much of a visual experience.
An incel minded person will watch a video seeking information and ideas. A normie minded person is only seeking exciting visuals. This is why they love tick tock because there’s no exchange of ideas there, no need to focus on or process anything just endless dopamine rushes.
Then they say incels only care about looks while judging an informative video on its visuals.
@@johnwilliams655 “An incel minded person will watch a video seeking information and ideas”. 😂 About what?
I think pretty privilege is definitely real but it’s like…I don’t become the worst version of myself possible because I know a lot of people don’t find me attractive. It’s so weird to not just use that as an opportunity to become extremely likable and personable.
You don't even have to tjink it, there have been numerous studies confirming it being real
But so what, if anything that gives you more motivation to be statistical anomaly rather than conform. Tjey all preach some alpha sigma male grindset better than the rest cut from a different cloth bs while simultaneously saying they cant do anything
Right? Like, these guys weren't born looking like a Hemsworth, so they just give up and don't try to improve. When in reality, they aren't "losing" to guys that hot, they're "losing" to guys who shower and have empathy.
@@fordsquared537 Hell you dont even need to have empathy, just showering and being presentable will result in you having some results with girls because of how low the bar is in many cases
Interesting that Wheat Waffles doesn't ever show himself. There's a good chance that he'd actually be seen as a Chad by his viewers and his grift wouldn't work.
He does now, he is still by far the most popular blackpill youtuber so not sure what you are saying
Hi...
As a 42 year old woman, this whole incel video makes me cringe laugh.
Here's why.
The slide that said 30+ year old women lax their standards.. WheatWaffles needs to meet a few of us. We have higher standards because a lot of us have been married, engaged or dated fools who weren't worth the ink their signature makes.
I speak from the experience of being a 29 year old who dated a 23 year old Chad. I learned a lot from that.
I went into my next relationship as a 32 year old woman who dated a 25 year old Chad.
Yeah.. That's.. Not a topic for discussion.
I'd like, just once, a "Normal" looking man between 35-45 whose intelligence can captivate me for long enough to have an adult conversation and is willing to dance with me, cuddle and not mind that I look like hell some days because I'm chronically ill.
If those standards are too much for someone, then I guess I'm high maintenance and too much for even the blue pill guys.
Incels don't like my intelligence because I'm not what they're used to, and I'm proud of that.
Thanks for the content! I love the Twitch chatters I read. They make me giggle, what I catch at least.
Continue the awesomeness!
Plz don't talk to women who are just trying to go about their business at the street or mall or whatever... It's just scary and unpleasant. There's a time and place for that. Like social events, clubs, etc. And even then plz make a normal conversation first.
@@---nu4ed 🤡
I disagree. Some of us enjoy social interaction.
This video made me cry we needore conversation like this
39:00 Hasan is kinda right. Fear of failure definetly stopped me from asking girls out in highschool. Id just not attempt it at all so I didnt go out of my comfort zone, or be friends with them and just still not attempt it, and that lack of confidence im my looks and abilities fucked up alot of potential relationships i coulda had. Thats definitely a thing. Luckily i got over that years long fear and other ppl can too, they just gotta give it a shot.
How come girls did not ask you out then?
@@rick-ry3kjmore often than not, women wait for the guy to make the first move, but this is less common than ever.
Incels took the halo effect with attractiveness and just ran.
I used to really love Chromeo in highschool, neat to see this guy is so chill
That second part of the video got me in a state of Rage. This incel guy is just mad that he doesn't have the Fancy Footwork to find himself a Needy Girl to give Bonafied Lovin' to while she tells him Don't Turn The Lights On.
“Are incels against showering?” Yes! Hence the greasy hair.
just take a shower bro - Men's Health Magazine.
@@NeroAngelo616 it’s literally that though. A shower takes 5 minutes. No excuse. You can easily go from a 3 to 7 with a shower. Take y’all stinky asses a shower and groom your hair.
@@chadmcfly1299 meanwhile water is wet
Second dude is so laid-back and amicable, for sure see him doing yoga 💚
There are people who are better looking, smarter, funnier and more athletic than you in this world and yes it might cause them to achieve things easier ! but it doesn't mean that you can't achieve those things too.
The irony is that (straight) women most often date down, not it terms of looks but personality-wise. Like she'll date someone who doesn't care if she finds him attractive, treats her like shit, but expects her to put in a fuck-ton of effort, because that's what all she thinks she's worth. Straight women put up with so much crap and it's just seen as normal.
I don’t think all incels are bad people inherently, by definition it’s just unattractive people. It’s when they start talking about colored pills that it gets dicey
I really loved the commentary from the guests
The fishing metaphor is so messed up because your intentions with catching the fish is to kill/eat it but your intentions with finding a partner SHOULD be to share your love and joy with someone lol
They just want to dominate a sex object. Which is hard if she starts becoming too human for them
@@lucasmurphy740 exactly lol
Fish are sentient but can't talk so how would you ask a fish how to fish. If they could talk, they'd probably tell you how to catch their predator???
Right and the whole analogy also falls apart when you take into account that fish are the ones who choose the bait they want. 😂
The Blackpill is not about hating women or attractive men, but realizing that looks are essential to the dating scene and that physical attractiveness is based on unchanging factors (neutral canthal tilt, good brow ridge, good bigonial angle, wide ramus and a relatively symmetrical facial bone structure). The hate is directed mainly at the mainstream narrative (the bluepill or even the redpill) that you can become attractive without interfering with the factors already mentioned.
Everyone knows this lol I don’t know why men make it such a big deal looks matter less for man anyways.
Women late more likely to date uglier men than vice Versa
Being an incel and buying into this shit automatically makes you a woman hater
tell me you’re chronically online without telling me you’re chronically online. seriously, talk to just one (1) real life person and you’ll realize not one of those things actually matters to your actual human connections with other people
But the factors are not unchanging, you're messing with your own mental health by thinking that, people have a wide range of what they find attractive, if the problem is finding someone to date, you will probably find it, if what you want is date an instagram model maybe it will be harder, most people end up dating people who look similarly attractive in comparison to themselves, but there are no set rules.
"lets say you're a shorter dude lets say 5'7" alright hasan u better watch out
Hassan is 6’ 2”
"Contemporary man tends more and more to put between himself and nature an abstract and complex machinery that casts him into solitude. … With so much paper, so many offices and functionaries, we are creating a world in which human warmth has disappeared. Where no one can come into contact with anyone else except across a maze of what we call formalities." - Albert Camus
i love murat so much he is THE giga chad
Right!?
Funny thing with the fish comment is you sort of do "ask a fish" how to catch it. You observe the behavior of a fish. It's the whole basis to hook and lure fishing or fly fishing. So, in the case with finding a woman to date, improve the qualities that you think women might like about you. If you don't have any qualities they'd like, develop some.
we also can just watch bears and copy their spawn camping strategy for salmon
Honestly the "fish-catching analogy" never made sense to me.
A fish doesn't want to be caught.
Most women however actually do want to date men.
So of course a fish would never 'tell' you how to catch it, because it wants to remain alive. Women however do want to date and get into relationships so it makes sense to try and help guys who don't know how to do it.
Women aren't fish bruv
The chad graph triggered me ngl. I just turned down a guy who by all objective standards is attractive at my work. Im buying a house with my man, so even if im attracted to someone, i adore the love of my life, what were building together and i wont blow up my life. I gave the colleague 2 soft nos, mentioning my bf before he started hitting on me and *he ignored them* and kept trying to escalate and flirt. He plowed through my boundaries in text. I gave him a hard no, and only then he backed off when it was in text saying please stop im not interested and this is making uncomfortable.
He immediately went into the "dangerous man" box. I will purposely leave spaces hes in because if you wont virtually respect me, he probably wont irl. He was socialized to think thats an ok way to treat women that he works with. Your behavior can make your rating fall like a rock. I agree, in many facets of life conventionally attractive people get away with alot, but theres still basic accountability. You cant just behave like a predator nowadays and get away with murder with a wink and a smile.
More than half of this video is bullshit. Blackpill is misintroduced to people by straw man fallacy on purpose.