How Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder affected M.I Abaga and Eniola's marriage
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- Being the one with ADHD, you might experience constant criticism, nagging, and micromanagement. Nothing you do appears to satisfy your spouse or lover, regardless of what you try. You shun your partner or say everything necessary to get them off your back since you don't feel appreciated as an adult. You wish your partner would let up just a little bit and quit trying to manage every area of your life. You are curious about the one you fell in love with.
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For those who might want to ask:
ADHD stands for Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. It is a neurodevelopmental disorder that affects both children and adults. Individuals with ADHD typically have difficulties with attention, impulse control, and hyperactivity.
The symptoms of ADHD can vary widely but may include:
Difficulty paying attention or focusing on tasks
Impulsive behavior and difficulty controlling impulses
Hyperactivity or restlessness
Forgetfulness or disorganization
Difficulty completing tasks or following through on commitments
Procrastination or avoidance of tasks that require sustained mental effort
Difficulty with time management and planning
Interrupting others or speaking out of turn
Trouble following instructions or directions
Problems with anger management or emotional regulation
There are several types of ADHD, including predominantly inattentive, predominantly hyperactive-impulsive, and combined. ADHD can be diagnosed and treated by healthcare professionals, and a combination of medication, therapy, and lifestyle changes can help individuals with ADHD manage their symptoms and improve their quality of life.
Wow! Wow! Thank you for this breakdown. Thank you.
Thank you for breaking it down
Thank you for breaking it down 🙌🏽
If only our parents and teachers were aware of these facts, imagine what many "olodos" would have achieved today.
What's the difference between ADHD and indiscipline because they're almost inseparable.
I'm inspired by men who help their woman to shine bright, men who don't see their woman less... I like it a lot.
I like how she is holding the conversation and both men are basically glued to her every word. Well done Aproko Doctor.
I am 33 year old nurse and just last week found out that I have ADHD. Someone referred me to this video cos they know I’m a big MI fan. Now I’m both relieved and scared. I wish I knew this sooner. I unconsciously developed coping skills and I thought everyone was the same although I always thought I was a bit different in the way I process things. I’m embarrassed that as a very experienced nurse, I’ve always had incomplete knowledge of the condition. I thought it’s only hyperactive aspect and never suspected I had it because I am severely introverted. Now I know, I wish I help everyone else understand themselves
Even while struggling with this disorder you can see that this two individual are still very successful and productive individuals. My prayer for them is that the lead a successful and blissful marriage, Shout out to Eniola and the Guy .
Wow! M.I. went for a perfect catch, intelligent, fine woman with class. Merely listening to her, I'm a fan already, and I'm glad they could both talk about ADHD❤
One easy sign is watching this video and reading comments at the same time or watching a movie and pressing your phone. Or thinking different scenes in your mind. It is not a disorder doctor. It is just a different brain function. People with ADHD may find it hard to get up in the morning, stop pressing their phones etc. their minds are always racing and they get anxious easily. They can be hyper focused or not interested at all.
Lol I was doing this and I saw this comment 😂
😂😂 Me on every CZcams video
This just define me right now
Wow 😞
@@ednaa4382 nothing to be sad about. It’s not a disease condition. It’s just how some brains work. Knowing and acknowledging will help you surpass your challenges.
Loving children with ADHD unconditionally is basic. You can never go wrong lovinv them, being patient with them, making a big deal of their milestones and successes.
My ADHD Experience:
My school report card " he is very intelligent but always restless"
Me: always forgetting stuff, scattered room and cant mange focus for a long time, but i never forget what i manage to concentrate on... always know the right thing to do but cant bring myself to do it.
My Mums prayer: Every spirit of forgetfulness and restlessness in my child i rebuke you in Jesus name.
My friends:... always wondering how some one could be so forgetful... made fun of me cos i lost stuff all the time because i kept forgetting them them someplace.
Basically look for this signs in your kids and help them manage it early..
This is me too
Pele😢
Exactly my story! My mom also reacts the same way!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The mum's prayer😂😂
😂😂😂 is it not critical to even laugh at yourself in awareness of the se things?? Oh LORD hear my mum's prayers
Alarms, Timers, Calendar reminders, not being ashamed to get a cleaner, allowing yourself to make some mistakes, knowing that, though you have ADHD, there are things you will notice that a neurotypical will not.... most important is to know YOU. Thank you for this Aproko Doctor 🎉👏🏽👩🏽🎓💡
Wow first off Eni is so beautiful 🥰💕. This is the first time I'm hearing about ADHD, the symptoms is so very similar to my life experiences. Now I know the medical name to my condition.
This is the reason my marriage is suffering 😭😭. Hubby is tired and calls me a liar cos I forget things easily and still defend myself 😔. I've questioned myself and God severally, confused and going into depression not knowing I have a condition I'm battling with.
I'm getting flashbacks and realizing the cause of most of my inabilities now. I will one day put all the pieces together and share my story. For now I'm glad I stumbled on this 🙏🏻
"No way!", I screamed excitedly when I got the notification, abandoned what I was doing, and came to download it immediately. But here I am, watching it 24 days later, because... ADHD 😂
This conversation was everything. I love that it's not just some of my faves talking about it, but actual NIGERIANS who understand. It's so hard to explain this to people without feeling like you're not making sense, but this was so relatable, I feel seen and understood. Thank you so much.
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Just to let you all know that we all have one thing or the other that we are all dealing with. It might be ADHD, it might be something else. Don't expect to be perfect to live a normal life. At the end of the day nobody is actually perfect. Live your life and give it your best shot 😊
This is the first time I'll hear Nigerians talk about ADHD. So glad about it. MI and Eniola words were educative and strengthening. Definitely following Eniola to learn more. I hope the conversations continues. ADHD can be stressful but living consciously is key😊. Thank you Aproko Doctor 🤗.
Nah they are looking for western problems
Wow! I never knew there’s a term for this, I can relate to this very well now. Thank you for having this conversation.
Thank you so much for this discussion. I haven't been able to speak on this since I found out that I had ADHD because I feel like people may not understand it. I still struggle with it even in my relationships with people. It often shrinks because I find it hard to keep my attention on the discussion or maintaining such discussion for a while. I do better when I don't have to talk to my people often, that way my mind doesn't feel bombarded with trying to keep up with different conversations. I also feel guilty when people don't seem to understand why I'm that way. I hope I can do better. I also struggle with perfectionism, procrastination and having to focus on a particular idea or thing for a long time.
Be gentle on yourself.
This is me sometimes but i don't want to believe that I'm living with ADHD how did you confirm that you've ADHD for real?
This is the first time I'm seeing content like this. Thank you for bringing this here. I pray you do more of it; using your content to create relatable awareness
This lady is so smart 🤍
So beautiful, educative, and enlightening. Thank you guys ❤
Wow, this is very very eye opening for me and there were also a lot of A ha moment’s for me. There were so many things I could relate too here. Thankyou Aproko Doctor, that MI and Eniola for coming and giving your insights and experiences. I appreciate this ❤️
I will be looking out for Eniola’s podcast. This is personal to me! Thank you
This is very informative! It makes a lot of sense
Thank you 🙏
Finally!! These is the most helpful video I have seen this year yet.. thanks M.I, Aproko doctor, and Mafe
thank you so much. this was so helpful. especially the last point MI made. I feel seen and understood
I have been so insecure of my ADHD and getting into a relationship with anyone because I know the issues that come with it..Seeing Eni get loved despite of ADHD gives me hope😢.
Please don’t look down on yourself and don’t let people take advantage of you for having ADHD or any disorder.
@@JoyFay Thankyou Joy Fay..I needed to hear this😊
We are all in this together and we will pull through together 💯
This is the most important conversation I've heard this year. Thank you Dr and God bless Eniola and M for talking about ADHD
This is so damn relatable 😂😂 especially when he said if you want to clean your room find an ADHD person with exams lol
This is an eye opening session. Love MI and his beautiful wife, they are do down to earth and very open. I loved loved this session. Can't wait for the podcast.
Wow. So relatable. Thanks for this interview, Doc. Very enlightening.
Awesome content...eye opening and very relatable
Wow!... It was nice listening to Mr MI and His lovely wife. The conversations were really helpful. I just realised the medical term for what I have been experiencing. Thank you for sharing. Though I guess the experiences and levels will differ from person to person.
This is a necessary conversation and we are not having enough of it. The shame attached to losing interest in things... Hmmm.
Watching this in 2024. We're still not talking about it enough!
Thank you very much for this exposure. May God continue to bless u oooh. I learnt so much. Infact it was as if this discussion was made because of me. I am better informed now.
You're welcome
Kai, this couple , I love them so much. Thanks for bringing them on😍😍😍😍😍
The last 2 things Jude said are extremely true. Thank you for this show. Quite educative.
Thank you too for sharing
THESE GUYS ARE HIGH FLIERS FROM MY VIEWPOINT. ADHD IS'NT LIMITING. WELL DONE TO YOU ALL FOR THE ENLIGHTENMENT
This came at the right time! as someone living with bipolar disorder and has a partner with adhd, it’s been really difficult but we find ways to be there for each other at all times. This was really helpful and I look forward to more information about it.
I love the way M. I keeps saying Eni Eni Eni... That's lovely. Thank you, Aproko Doctor.
Thank you for this very informative conversation 👏 👍 😊
Great stuff. Very relatable & enlightening
Wow! Thanks for exposing me to me. It gives me a sense of realization.
Types of ADHD
There are three different ways ADHD presents itself, depending on which types of symptoms are strongest in the individual:
Predominantly Inattentive Presentation: It is hard for the individual to organize or finish a task, to pay attention to details, or to follow instructions or conversations. The person is easily distracted or forgets details of daily routines.
Predominantly Hyperactive-Impulsive Presentation: The person fidgets and talks a lot. It is hard to sit still for long (e.g., for a meal or while doing homework). Smaller children may run, jump or climb constantly. The individual feels restless and has trouble with impulsivity. Someone who is impulsive may interrupt others a lot, grab things from people, or speak at inappropriate times. It is hard for the person to wait their turn or listen to directions. A person with impulsiveness may have more accidents and injuries than others.
Combined Presentation: Symptoms of the above two types are equally present in the person.
Because symptoms can change over time, the presentation may change over time as well.
“Is It ADHD?” in ASL
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Learn about symptoms of ADHD, how ADHD is diagnosed, and treatment recommendations including behavior therapy, medication, and school support.
Causes of ADHD
Scientists are studying cause(s) and risk factors in an effort to find better ways to manage and reduce the chances of a person having ADHD. The cause(s) and risk factors for ADHD are unknown, but current research shows that genetics plays an important role. Recent studies link genetic factors with ADHD.1
In addition to genetics, scientists are studying other possible causes and risk factors including:
Brain injury
Exposure to environmental risks (e.g., lead) during pregnancy or at a young age
Alcohol and tobacco use during pregnancy
Premature delivery
Low birth weight
Research does not support the popularly held views that ADHD is caused by eating too much sugar, watching too much television, parenting, or social and environmental factors such as poverty or family chaos. Of course, many things, including these, might make symptoms worse, especially in certain people. But the evidence is not strong enough to conclude that they are the main causes of ADHD.
Diagnosis
Deciding if a child has ADHD is a process with several steps. There is no single test to diagnose ADHD, and many other problems, like anxiety, depression, sleep problems, and certain types of learning disabilities, can have similar symptoms. One step of the process involves having a medical exam, including hearing and vision tests, to rule out other problems with symptoms like ADHD. Diagnosing ADHD usually includes a checklist for rating ADHD symptoms and taking a history of the child from parents, teachers, and sometimes, the child.
Learn more about the criteria for diagnosing ADHD
Treatments
physician speaking to family
In most cases, ADHD is best treated with a combination of behavior therapy and medication. For preschool-aged children (4-5 years of age) with ADHD, behavior therapy, particularly training for parents, is recommended as the first line of treatment before medication is tried. What works best can depend on the child and family. Good treatment plans will include close monitoring, follow-ups, and making changes, if needed, along the way.
Learn more about treatments
Managing Symptoms: Staying Healthy
Being healthy is important for all children and can be especially important for children with ADHD. In addition to behavioral therapy and medication, having a healthy lifestyle can make it easier for your child to deal with ADHD symptoms. Here are some healthy behaviors that may help:
Developing healthy eating habits such as eating plenty of fruits, vegetables, and whole grains and choosing lean protein sources
Participating in daily physical activity based on age
Limiting the amount of daily screen time from TVs, computers, phones, and other electronics
Getting the recommended amount of sleep each night based on age
ADHD can last into adulthood. Some adults have ADHD but have never been diagnosed. The symptoms can cause difficulty at work, at home, or with relationships. Symptoms may look different at older ages, for example, hyperactivity may appear as extreme restlessness. Symptoms can become more severe when the demands of adulthood increase. For more information about diagnosis and treatment throughout the lifespan, please visit the websites of the National Resource Center on ADHD and the National Institutes of Mental Health.
Great insights! Eniola is an amazing human.I like the way she looks at her husband all I see is pure love.
Wow!!! So glad i watched this. Thank you.
Thank you very much Doc for this piece![
Hmmm!!!
Well done Dr Aproko. These sessions where you bring people who have owned certain health conditions to talk about it is reeeeally gooood.
Eniola n Jude, thank you so so much.
Eniola, just like Jude said, you have the best words to describe ADHD and I just love listening n learning from you.
Jude, your few words sounds like that of a master who has owned an impossible skill.
Dr Aproko, I think you need to do another segment on ADHD. For me, the more formal flow of this video and analytical response/information from your guests is why this is my best video from you.
For others (most people if may say), this nature of the video might limit their interest/understanding. So, if possible, PLEASE figure out with Eniola and probably another person living with ADHD how to do another version in a way that will attract more views and in way parents, care givers and youth educators can relate to.
Thank you. I hope you see this comment since it's a year late.
Thanks for this video. ❤️
I also take walks to get more control my attention. It’s surprising when people say they don’t dream every time they close their eyes. I have never had a break and it not so easy to relate normally but it’s one day at a time.
As a primary teacher in a Uk mainstream school neuro diversty traits in chn is more prevalent than ever. It is def a minefield. One just knows that there is something more with this behaviour in particular children than just being troublesome It is the believe that we all have a bit of neuro diversity dysfunctions in us as the case may be. In my 50s and a premature birth and the way I manage and navigate thru the beautiful colourful issues of life, I know I live with some form of autistic features😊. We just deal, live and learn.
Interesting topic. Enny , your podcast too will flourish with your vast exp and knowl.
Ok. So I have a daughter with ADHD and some other co morbidities. Also backward in academics . It’s extremely difficult having to deal with this situation. Sometimes when we get into frustrating moments, I completely lose it and I cry right in front of her. I would love her again in another life. I am thankful for this very frank talk by this very lovely couple, however I would be grateful if I have an idea of what happened in their lives from age 6-19. That would help me manage my current situation.
Hello there, thank you for loving your daughter. I'd like to say that the educational system in Nigeria is not Inclusive-which can mostly affect our how people like us do in classes in terms of grade. There is another approach to learning for ADHDers. Also, kindly reach out to any professional neurologist/Psychologists who is well equipped in this area. You really cannot understand what happens in their lives (Even us with ADHD still struggle to understand our brain). Sending you all my 💕💫✨️
If it was abroad she would be made to take drugs to help her focus and less hyper active. You might want to consider taking this route.
Does your daughter have Autism too? If so, I’ll be happy to share my experience with you. I struggled a lot and was bullied due to my Autism. We live in an ableist society that does not offer positive and accurate help to neurodiverse people. I also understand your frustration as a parent. You are doing well. Please don’t let societies shame get to you. There are now more resources online and you might even find groups on social media for parents like you. Also, practice mindful journaling everyday, it will help you a lot!
Kindly Follow and listen to Dr umar Johnson. Adhd is usually a mid diagnosis
I am over 50 years old and didn’t realize something was wrong until I got into college in the United States a decade ago. II knew something was wrong. When reading I would skip lines and I couldn’t solve problems from row to row, I would always skip rows or start from the bottom of a task. I can’t focus my attention on anything that doesn’t interest me and even at work, during meetings, my mind drifts off someplace and drifts back and at that point am lost and struggling to understand the context of what is being taught or discussed. Also daydreaming was a BIG thing for me in high school in the middle of class. It’s been tough I have to admit. Being forgetful, careless and talking a lot are some of the indicators as well.
I've always had an idea growing up because I have like 90% of the symptoms that exists, but you this drifting away is just so ridiculous that I do it exams, face to face conversations, Eniola's experiences sounds so close to what I experience on a daily basis, doing anything but what needs to be done😪
@@ikechukwudike7340, that is what she meant by “having no structure “.
Omg this is sooo me I feel seen!
So these are signs of ADHD
@@seunagboola3910, yes! Attention Deficit means the inability to be attentive or stay focused .
I can relate to everything she's saying. I'm not legally diagnosed, but it was when I started educating myself on mental health and came across adhd. A lot started to make sense but it's difficult to explain how it is for me but meeting a community of people online that struggle has helped somewhat
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😂😂 see village gal. "Legally diagnosed"? Wetin concern legal with dis matter? Una be mini. Brainwashed. Dem don take oyinbo grammar confuse all of una. Mumu. I dey work for this field and half of the ting wey dem dey yarn no bobo
"FORMALLY diagnosed"
@@Malingerer1505utter fool
Welldone man. This was quite educative.
Wow! Quite insightful, very informative!
Perfectionism is holding me back, I've always known cos i was the last to submit my project work back at vet school all because i want to write my abstract in 2 languages ie English and Igbo since my research was of public health importance
I really appreciate MI saying speak to yourself and appreciate your self even though others don't appreciate you
Really looking forward to Eniola's Podcast
I love watching Eniola talk 😂❤
Thank you for sharing!
Brilliant conversation and eye opening! Thanks to MI & Ennie for sharing. Thanks Doc for making this happen.
Looking forward to how well and articulate the next generation of Nigerians will sound, hopefully we also instill culture and love
This is insightful... Thanks
Being married a neurotypical spouse married to someone with ADHD is torture. Especially, when they are not willing to get the proper help for fear of the stigma that it would bring. I’m left constantly repeating myself on the smallest things. Picking up after him on pretty much everything, because nothing is ever completed unless he’s reminded (then I’m nagging, because he would’ve gotten to it eventually). I’m tired and I feel like there’s no hope. It’s the same cycle and there’s no progress.
i am really glad i found your page...wow😱😂😱😅enlightening
Golden content!
Educative, learnt alot
Thank you M.I Abaga and Eniola for sharing.
A lot of people don't even know what ADHD is or even stands for. I think a brief explanation of the condition would have been a better introduction to the video
That true
Same thought I have. The whole interview just started like everyone knows what ADHD is.
Y'all should check the description box
@@olasipeelizabeth1719it's a great interview, yes. But the description says nothing about the meaning of it. Its description, symptoms and what nots.
True, is like the interview Jst jumped and started. I will have to go read about it cos I still dnt know the meaning.
Thanks for dis ❤
Thank you so much and many thanks to Eniola and MI for sharing their experiences. Learnt a lot about myself from this.
This is a lotttt. I love it
This Couple… wow
Beautiful minds, very articulate… Couple Goals…
Well done! Glad more attention is being shone on issues like this. My daughter is autistic semi verbal and ADHD and it's being a journey
Huggggsssssssss
@@bashhouseofdenim2833 thank you 😊
Weldon warrior mom
Well-done doc. 💯🌝
This is eye opening
Mi's wife is so brilliant in her speaking. I loooooove it
Good topic as many people do not understand the multiple sensory advantages that people living with ADHD have. Most people try to treat ADHD with medications which isn't bad but understanding different approaches to managing the challenge is the best way to cope with the diagnoses.
What do you mean by multiple sensor advantages?
My question exactly
Very illuminating 👏
This is credible content. Kudos man
I really love this. I think I'm suffering from ADHD. I HAVE GOTTEN ONE OR TWO ON HOW TO DEAL WITH MINE. Thank you guys❤.
I’m seriously struggling with my second daughter’s ADHD. I am learning but it is not exactly something that Nigerians talk about or are open to. Everyday comes with learning
Lol ADHD got me bored after 5 minutes of the video. I started thinking about something else. I had to speed it up 2x and still got bored at 22mins. What happened was, I zoned out and I didn’t even know. I started looking at my reflection in my phone screen and found myself on Instagram for a while. I’ve just come back now because I suddenly remembered I hadn’t finished the video.
😂 I hate to laugh but you gave an accurate description of ADHD in a funny way.
lol...this cracked me up
Yours was better
I got bored after 2 mins and I just opened it 3 weeks later because I'd totally forgotten about it👀
Thanks for sharing 😊❤
Why am I laughing so hard in guilt and Grace at the same time 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂oh Hallelujah ADHD Colossians 2:14 sur toi🎉🎉🎉
Thank you so much Doc and Mr & Mrs Abaga for this
When a couple feels right everyone can tell 😊. Very mature couple I must say.
I have read about ADHD numerous times, if not for anything probably because i studied "Social Work" in school. One of the benefits of studying my course is understanding different types of mental disorder and how they pose a threat to humans if not been tackled at an early stage of their lives. Studying Social Work makes me feel i am a therapist myself, but it turns out to be that i am a therapist who also needs a therapist.
Having read about ADHD, it becomes more vivid to me that i am battling with it. I tried to get people to share with and tell them that i have ADHD without being shy most especially family members but everyone thinks i am just being negative about myself and it kills me the more.
I can't afford a therapist because i am from a poor background (sorry to say, but i have to admit). My family is not helping me cope at all probably because they don't understand the condition and not willingly apparently. I keep fighting this battle in my brain alone with no one to help. Please if there is a chance for me to be engaged in conversations like this with you guys to share my views and also to help me cope i will appreciate.
Thank you.
I hear you, bro. We keep pushing. Regardless.
This is the case for most of us...
@@HybridElla Exactly, same here
Wowwww
So informative..
Tnis was a really uplifting session
Dyslexia, ADHD and asperges syndrome (autism) can coexist in one person. I call it the jackpot 😅
I do have inattentive ADHD, got diagnosed this year and I've been on meds for 2 months, I've been managing my mood and productivity much better. I've lost relationships and mismanaged situations because of my inability to properly regulate my emotions.
If you have ADHD, you're not alone. Your mind is an amazing world of possibilities and you should learn to love it, be patient with yourself and give yourself grace to grow at your own pace in your own unique way.
I've not been diagnosed but I have many of the discussed symptoms. The most painful is managing with interpersonal relationships and communication, I easily get tired of people and it's frustrating. God help me.
@@ItoroAbasi I am sorry youre going through this Itoro, I think you should speak with a qualified psychiatrist to guide you through this, many mental health symptoms are similar, it helps to know for sure.
@AggressiveTomato will advise you to try therapy before settling for medication..... Medication tends to keep people slow and mess with thought process.
@@swantakachidi6311 I think you may be putting a blanket description on meds. Panadol doesn't make you slow and confuse your thoughts for instance. Each prescription has a purpose, this is why one needs to speak with a professional to get one.
And yes, I did go through an extensive period of therapy.
@@musix2163 ok my bad....you are right was speaking from the a few cases I have witnessed....most especially here they are quick to prescribe meds most especially when in middle school or high school...because they lack patience to deal...
I wish you all the strength you need to keep pushing ❤️
I Love this so much
Very funny it’s the first time I’ve heard of this but Eniola is me… her story is my exact same story… I just googled and see that everything they said is me. Thanks for sharing this… Hopefully it helps me!
I love M .I in all these podcasts ..... I love this family
I can totally relate I have not been diagnosed but lol I always say I am naturally forgetful because when I was little my dad says "you are so forgetful" and my mom says you like "delaying and keep turning around"... I always perform well in task when I pay attention but to get me to focus and do stuff takes a lot of work... I had to cautiously limit my distractions so they don't overwhelm me... In fact the first time I read about adhd was in pharmacy school but the lecture slide made it look like its a condition from substance abuse or maybe I didn't understand it since I know I wasn't going to chose questions on it in the exam so I focus on other easier topics... in my work life I saw myself not paying attention to the level I wanted then I googled attention deficiency then adhd came up and I could see my life struggles on the net.... anyways my coping mechanism is paying attention to my self(my strengths and weaknesses), identify positive energy and keep them really close because I realize it helps me perform better on task.... I wish there is some kind of evaluation of adhd level online and relatable help resources..... MJ helps with exhaustion and selection of achievable task also brisk walks or long lonely journeys helps me in prioritizing task.... I really can't wait for "did I just do that" Thank you
Three brilliant minds.
I am Soo glad I clicked.. like alot makes Sense now, how else would one have known? Thank u Aproko, MI and wifey for this session
Hmm glad hearing this. Because I'm hard on myself for forgetting even my siblings and longtime close friends birthdays.
It’s just how they are loving and supportive for me,💕💕
The way M.I stares at Eniola is just amazing
And you saw that through those dark shades
Can’t blame him
The two of them have ADHD?. I didn't even know ADHD was a thing, we learn everyday, thank you for sharing sirs and ma ❤️❤️. Listening to this, a lot of people especially children have this, not paying attention.
Ehm, not paying attention makes it seem like a choice, its literally you being unable to control your brain to stay attentive, I'd be face to face with you and zone out and not hear a word you're saying and then I remember we're having a discussion🥲
ADHD is beyond not paying attention just like depression is beyond been sad. ADHD/ADD is worse than you can Imagine. My point is, not everybody with attention issues have ADHD/ADD.
ADHD is beyond not paying attention just like depression is beyond been sad. ADHD/ADD is worse than you can Imagine. My point is, not everybody with attention issues have ADHD/ADD.