The Fray - How to Save a Life (Official Video)
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- čas přidán 22. 11. 2009
- The Fray's official music video for "How To Save a Life" directed by Mark Pellington
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Lyrics:
Step one, you say, We need to talk.
He walks, you say, Sit down. It's just a talk.
He smiles politely back at you
You stare politely right on through
Some sort of window to your right
As he goes left and you stay right
Between the lines of fear and blame
You begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong? I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
#TheFray #HowToSaveALife #PopRock - Hudba
I know: At the very moment I'm writing these sentences, there are already 82,012 comments to this video. I might be too late, because no one ever will read this. But I have to do this. For my brother.
13 years ago, I was 17, my oldest brother just got 30. (Disclaimer: I was always the little brother, of course. Always too young to hang out with the friends of my older "cooler" brothers.)
But when I got 16/17 he accepted me as a real man. Brother. "semi-mature"-guy.
From 2005 to 2007 we did a lot of things together. He invited me to his home. When he did this the first time, it was one of the proudest moments of my life. Hanging out with the real dudes. Wow. You can't imagine how proud I felt. :)
In 2007 my brother had to go the doctor. He had breathing problems. Long story short:
He was diagnosed with lung cancer. Incurable. His lung cancer was so "rare", even doctors from the US (Hopkins Medicine School? I'm not really sure) wanted to analyze his illness. (I swear: This is no bragging. This is just the truth and extremely sad.)
He knew that he will die. We all knew. In the last months he made the best out of it. We both did. We played a lot of guitar and sang together. And so the circle is complete. :)
The last song we played together was this one here. We both sang. And I played the guitar.
I think we did it roundabout 25 times. We stopped because we had to smoke.
Yeah, he had lung cancer. He shouldn't smoke of course.
But in his last days he didn't care.
Nevertheless, after the last repetition of the song and when we smoked the last cigarrette: I cried as fuck. He didn't. He was so strong and happy that we shared these last "drunken moments" together.
We made the best of these last days. And now: After 13 years I can finally write about it.
I love you, my brother. And I will never forget you. I promise.
Jani, mach's gut. Ich liebe dich.
Please folks, I don't need a like/thumbsup/whatever.
But please dot it for my brother. So that maybe some other people will read this and give a little smile to my brother in heaven.
Love you!
And: Thank you, The Fray!
(Sorry: I'm not a native speaker. Here are definitely a lot of grammar/vocabulary fails in the text.)
Your brother seems like he was quite a special and unique person and I’m glad you was finally able to share your story with everybody. Keep fighting to honor your brother and continue his legacy because you’re going to do great things in your life (: my condolences to your brother and I hope he rests peacefully
I read to the end for your brother. And for you.
Wow dini Gschicht hed mich echt berührt😪 Ich hoffe, dass es dir guet gaht.
Hey, ich möchte dir nur kurz meine Mitgefühl und ein Lächeln an dich und deinen Bruder senden. Machs gut.
I'm crying
My son killed himself almost 7 months ago. He battled depression and anxiety for over half his life. He was in counseling with both a psychiatrist and psychologist. He turned 20 the day before.
Please know that there are sadly some things that you cannot change.
Take care and talk to others.
Suicide is a horrible way to lose someone. It is so hard not to second guess everything. He clearly had friends that love him as you do.
The memories and love will be with you always. I hope you find comfort in that fact.
I’m going to listen to the song and release some sorrow before I have a friend come over.
Read all the words in the video. And follow them.
Im so sorry to hear that😔
Colleen,
I'm so incredibly sorry for your unimaginable loss. I think we can all give and use a bit of love from each other, and if you feel comfortable talking about it with me over email or something, please don't hesitate to reach out.
My email is the first letter of my first name, and then my full last name followed by @gmail.com
Remember that he will always live on in your ❤️.
Im losing myself, leaving alone and feel so alone. The battles within myself of surviving every day, the cries of the night and the hope of an helping hands. In the end I just feel numb after the struggles that I encounter. The problem is people tend to listen only and let you alone face it. Lucky for me my feet is standing still what I worry is how long I last.
Big oof
@@emersonranes7715 me too ❤ Every day is a battle and I am sick of living with it. It's not really about others, though they don't get it, it's more around not being able to tolerate it anymore. I am right on the edge right now.
I listened to this song on repeat in 2019, falling apart after losing my husband to an addiction. We were both addicted but I chose to get sober, though I begged him to stop he didn't. We soon grew apart, I felt every pain. There was no changing him there was only fighting. Soon the fighting became a fight to save my life. So many times I wanted to relapse just to be closer to him. I watched us turn into people I didn't recognize, he went missing and only his skeletal remains were found. Five years later, I'm still sober. I come back here to read the comments and hope to read stories with happy endings. Keep fighting, life is worth the living. God bless. 🛐🙏🏽💟
Thank you for sharing your story and I hope you‘re doing ok. I hope you felt some relief. I also wish, I can walk your path. We carry their history on our shoulders with pride, we got this!
I’m so sorry for your loss, words can’t describe how much I mean that. I lost my wife to addiction just a little over a year ago. We were both addicts. We both got clean and we both relapsed. Unfortunately she didn’t make it. I’ve been sober since. I hate that, that had to be the lesson for us both. I hope it gets more bearable at some point. I wish you well.
god what a story... I hope you're still doing well, i'm proud of you
Hardest fight of my life. I'm so sorry you lost your husband, but I'm thrilled to know you won the battle.
Bless you
I'm not sure whats worse...the fact that the world feels empty without you....or the fact that I know I will never accept that you're no longer in this world.
I’m right there with you! God bless and stay strong
2004
Keep breathing my friend, you are needed, ❤
😢
I can relate so honestly and emotionally to this statement ❤
To my mom, who I lost to cancer in 2016. I know I was 26 so an adult, but inside I was still very much a child. And to my grandmother, who died 2 weeks after her. I miss you both. It's a deep wound that will never totally heal. We just learn to live with it.
TheNobsnob amen
TheNobsnob my dad died Nov 18th 2012 :(
TheNobsnob amen
Black Angel amen
Sorry For your lost
We are all not in the same boat..we are in the same storm. Some have yachts, some have canoes, and some are drowning..be kind and help when you can.
So many languages in the world and you chose to speak facts
@@yahlidan9710 No they're speaking english
@@aoibhh please tell me you are joking
Amen...
Amen
My father passed away two months ago, and today is the first time I cried. Something about this song just hit me
I'm sorry for your loss 😢 My dad passed in 2009 when I was 13 and it still hurts so bad...
Stop asking "who's listening" or "still listening", we never stopped listening
thx
@@grumpyoldmen2502please wake me up in the dream call my mom Rebecca juco and ALJON juco my angel Nicole juco I love you too my friend Nicole juco
The more you grow up the more you understand the lyrics of sad songs.
I agree
Aggred
Facts
It makes you let the little annoying things your family and friends do go. because life is so short shitty and precious lol
most definitely, How to save a life came out when I was 16 and I still enjoy the song a lot.
My sister died on Thursday after a very long and difficult illness, this has been very therapeutic
Nathan Guillemette sorry for you lose brother
Sorry for ur loss
fuerza hermano
Sorry for your loss. Sending love!
I lost my sister too...I am terribly sorry for your loss.
Lyrics:
Step one, you say we need to talk
He walks, you say sit down, it's just a talk
He smiles politely back at you
You stare politely right on through
Some sort of window to your right
As he goes left, and you stay right
Between the lines of fear and blame
You begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Let him know that you know best
'Cause after all, you do know best
Try to slip past his defense
Without granting innocence
Lay down a list of what is wrong
The things you've told him all along
And pray to God he hears you
And I pray to God he hears you
And where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
As he begins to raise his voice
You lower yours and grant him one last choice
Drive until you lose the road
Or break with the ones you've followed
He will do one of two things
He will admit to everything
Or he'll say he's just not the same
And you'll begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
How to save a life
How to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
How to save a life
How to save a life
I lost a friend yesterday. Didn't see it coming. I wish I was there when he needed me. He always was for me.
Worst part is that you don't get to know when those who are close to you are at their lowest points in life. Usually, they'll show as if they're happy, and then you become aware this wasn't the case. Quite sad!😟
2004
I hope you’re doing well and in a better place brother
Damn, sorry for you friend, you and the ones around that were his beloved ones
"Trading Yesterday" or "Arrows to Athens" or just "David Hodges". Their/His songs heal, I promise.
Take care, my friend!🤍
I remember when my close friend killed himself. It was the toughest time in my life. He was only 12 at the time and his dad really abused him, and some days he would go without food. I remember getting told about it and feeling devastated, but I felt bad about myself, I couldn’t stop thinking about what I could have done to help him, and it has for the last few years. I’m currently 14 and there is not a day that doesn’t go by that I don’t think about him. I’ll always remember his smile, and the time we got caught drinking beers in my garage. I loved you Tom like brother.
I remember reading his note that he left out on the table before he left. All it said was “it’s not your fault. I just wasn’t meant to be here. Just don’t get beat up over me. You’re all better off without me.” Reading that cracked my heart. I wanted to tell him how much he meant to me, and how he was the brightest thing in my life. This was always his favourite song and he always listened to it in the morning on the way to school. Tom, I just want to say that wherever you are, I hope you fit in there, and get the love you truly deserved.
Wow, that hit deep.
May your friend rest peacefully
Reading this comment, reminded me of most of friends experiencing this on their own and couldn't tell anyone about it, because they were trapped and had no where to escape the worst. I offered many suggestions to them and they had an idea of trying to hold themselves out and need to find a way out as quick as possible. I wish, I could help that person with his father also abusing them, because of not being better than other people in his class and must get the highest grades in the school. It hurts to not do anything for this person, so all I can do is keep in contact and pray that they'll be ok. It's so saddening to hear such stories on young people having to experience such a traumatic parts of their life, which having to mentally and physically hurt themselves to the core of no return. Just remember that your friend will always be in your heart and you couldn't read his thoughts, even if you wanted too, but stay strong for him, no matter.
Aww I’m so sorry
I’m genuinely crying. Going through that must’ve been tough. I can only imagine the pain u have gone through
Praying for my brother right now hoping he will survive cancer 😞
Praying with you🙏
He'll get better the soonest 🤗
Hope everything goes good
Oh bless you I hope and pray that he can fight through it 😔🙏
Hope it all goes well ❤
I once lost someone I was sure I couldn’t live without.
If you’re reading this please tell her,him,them that you love them . One day you will have to live without them or you will get lucky and pass away before them and anyway it goes you lose. Love them ,hold them , cherish every waking moment you have with them as long as you can . Good luck out there …
Teacher
10代の頃、大切な友達を自死で失いました。毎日悲しくて喪失感や悲しみを乗り越えられずにいました。
そんな時にこの曲を聴き、歌詞の意味を理解し、大粒の涙が止まらなかった。当時の自分の心境に寄り添ってくれた大切な曲です、私はこの曲に本当に救われました。
私自身も薬物中毒と鬱に苦しみました、いろんな心境とこの曲の歌詞がリンクします。素晴らしい曲、ずっと聞いています✨
احسنت بالتغلب على الأدمان والضغوط النفسية قلة من يستطيعون الأبتعاد عنها 🎉👏
@@ahmedhr6248 Thank you！
my wife died 2 months ago, after a hard year with endless hospital visits, chemo therapys, operations, everything. she was only 30 years old. I love her so much and miss her every day. still dont know how to handle it, when the woman you love more than anything else die in your arms.
everyone please stay safe and healthy.
I’m sorry to hear that
I'm so sorry sweet pea...
"Runes of comfort for the bereaved"
by Ralph Blum
"I am the life and the light and the way-
The Earth is my garden.
Each of the souls I plant as seeds germinate and flower in its own season, and in each I am fulfilled.
There is no cause for grief when a bloom fades but only rejoicing for the beauty it held and praise that my will is done and my plan served.
I am one with all creatures and none is ever lost, only restored unto me having never left my side at all.
For what is it mortal cannot be separated from its source.
I am with you all,
And each of you is a channel for my light.
Feel My Love enfold you now and forever more."
Thank you guys, im really grateful for your words 🙏
@@par0x234 np
Stay strong, man
It's really depressing to see how many sad people there are around the world :( I hope everyone finds his happiness soon
Thank you. I've been thinking another killing myself just to stop the pain. It hurts too much to live. My mum won't take my to any psychiatrist or therapist so it seems like the only option 😖
@@b.t-bootsncats964 no it's not an option, don't you ever think like this again! Each one of use has the gift of being alive don't waste it. Get better; listen to music, stay healthy and find your purpose, don't give up on yourself we need more people to turn this world around to the better side, so please don't let us fight this fight without you.
There's almost 8 billion
thank you i hope we do too
Dojocho listen brotha.... Life is fucking rough isn’t it? Sending you love, motivation, and strength from Texas, USA. Get yourself right. Deal with the pain, go cry, punch a wall, break a mirror. You’ll be alright my brother. We’re all in this bs life together.
Every time I hear this song, it reminds me of when I was younger & my mom would always sing it word for word.
I never really understood why it meant so much to her, but at the time… her best friend & coworker (Rhonda) she drove to work with EVERY SINGLE DAY got diagnosed with like a severe disease or cancer & was told she only has a few months to live. So my mom & her went on a cruise & they traveled a bit together before her untimely passing. It’s bittersweet cause now as a 27 year old I understand it more. I lost my best friend when I was 21 & my grandma when I was 25. I’ve lost over 7 friends unfortunately & this song just reminds me of all of them. It probably has nothing to do with anything I’m talking about or relates at all. But it cool how music is like a lil Time Machine & I can genuinely go back for a brief moment to remember when times were simpler. It’s funny how it somehow correlates to now every time.
Not to mention I just lost my uncle at the start of the year due to lung issues.
I guess I made these comments to maybe give someone the same feeling I get when I hear this song. It’s something I’ll always cherish & music like this is what made me always want to be a musician. I love how everybody has different connections to the same sojg
2004
Anyone who has lost a loved one to suicide or self harm, we all come back to this song and we will spread the message.
"It's a beatiful day to save lives"
Derek Christopher Shepherd.
Miss that guy.
Im sorry
omg me too
deadass
yes omg
🥺
I'm only 17 and this January I lost my dad from a drug overdose. I never knew he was doing drugs this was so sudden but he was the kindest dad ever, I guess he just had some problems, I love you dad I'll stay strong for you.
EDIT: It's been three years since I posted this and the support and attention on this comment has been unreal everyone. I'm in a lot better of a place now than where I was back then, time is definitely one the best medicines. It'll always hurt to think about, but having good people in your life really is key. Keep going and don't give up, even if it seems that all hope is lost because things will eventually get better, which everyone's immense positivity help me realize. I can't thank anyone who left a kind comment enough for the sincere words, you guys have no idea what that meant to me I never expected this much attention. Thank you all so much and continue to stay strong!
skittle63099ify i wish u the best of luck in the Future!! Stay strong homie! !
Playstation Gaming Holy shit you're actually the worst
Playstation Gaming people like you genuinely need help
skittle63099ify u stay strong and be ur self he will always be by your side so just remember
Playstation Gaming 😡😡😡😡 I don't normally get angry but what you just said is the most cruel thing possible. Who the hell do you think you are?! Don't even try to argue. She lost her dad! And you make a joke of it. And wish terror among her family. YOU BELONG IN AN INSTITUTION. Somebody help me out here!!!
Jesus loves you all
I can’t remember this song being that deep..
I get you man👌🏻
Love the vids, but yeah its very deep
Oh shit can u make a rebuld for an mls team.
Actually kinda hate that this song is only about the singer having fights with his brother but they get along now. Everyone else thinks its suicide idk kinda annoys me. Love the song tho
Valerie Knowles I feel people can interpret songs and lyrics in their own way though, the beauty of music.
"It's a beautiful day to save lives." -Derek Shepherd
samee but listen to this song TIme by The Impures,
is good :))
I just started watching grey's anatomy
No ur gunns make me cry😭😭
😢
@@adversityluiss6614 its sooooo good
Reading these comments got me in tears. Peace and love to you all
Bless you ❤
Id just like to stop everyone for a moment to leave you with this thought.. do you see all these connections in the comments? All of us have lost someone, and all of us are sharing, being sympathetic and expressing, relating to one another. The world doesnt have to be as cold as it is, if we simply remember were all living with our own stories, stories we dont know. Peace be with you on your journey. Peace. Love. Positivity. ❤️
❤
"the second you start blaming yourself for people's deaths, there's no coming back"
That is the episode I came from 🥺
Yess we have some scrubs fans
God Bless! Stay strong, stay safe and take care of yourselves! Wishing everyone the best!
I'm still there ... and i don't think I can save myself anymore ...
Yeah ...your right
“As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others.” -Audrey Hepburn
amen sa pungkol
@@trastokkerko1929 pisti
@@kjracz15 bogo ka kaon igit
Unless you’re Jim Abott.
This is a great quote
Suicide only passes your pain to others. stay strong 💪 you got this
The Fray will never ever be the same without Isaac Slade. This song is indeed a true masterpiece. ❤
My grandma died recently. She was the only family left in my life. My father and mother died when I was a baby. Mother from cancer and father from a car accident. Grandma raised me and helped me go through the struggles of not having parents. Her dying left me feeling so empty. This song always brings me to tears. :'(
miksuaka ;-; I'm sorry for your loss
miksuaka your friends will help you through this :'(
Feel better soon man
Thanks so much for the well wishes :) I'm getting better slowly but surely.
miksuaka xxxxxx
This song goes to my friend and boss, Hugo, i hope you're okay in heaven. Covid-19 took his life, I miss you buddy!
Raul Neiva I’m sorry for your loss covid 19 is horrible and takes so many people’s life daily
Raul Neiva you miss hugo boss
like, the underwear?
@@dom5175 the guy that made the nazi uniform (they dont like to talk about that part much)
I was a suicidal person before. I finally found hope, peace, and JOY in JESUS CHRIST! Depression sometimes still kicks in, but JESUS Gives me hope, not only in this LIFE, but also in the next life. 💗💗
I'm glad you found God
Substance abuse is real. I was a meth addict. Went to prison for 5 years. I'm clean from meth since 2010. Now Im battling being a alcoholic. Please don't ever feel like you haven't done enough. If I'm not ready I'm not going to change. I do feel and see the.love snd my family and friends but I'm not ready to surrender. We love you for your courage to help but we dont have the courage to stop. God Bless us all.
Well said. I too lack the courage. Unfortunately, I've been numb for a very long time and don't have the will to face reality. I hope someday I can process feelings again like a "normal person" Til then pray for myself and those around me as I will you.
2004
Heres the lyrics:
Step one, you say we need to talk
He walks, you say sit down, it's just a talk
He smiles politely back at you
You stare politely right on through
Some sort of window to your right
As he goes left, and you stay right
Between the lines of fear and blame
You begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Let him know that you know best
'Cause after all, you do know best
Try to slip past his defense
Without granting innocence
Lay down a list of what is wrong
The things you've told him all along
And pray to God he hears you
And I pray to God he hears you
And where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
As he begins to raise his voice
You lower yours and grant him one last choice
Drive until you lose the road
Or break with the ones you've followed
He will do one of two things
He will admit to everything
Or he'll say he's just not the same
And you'll begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
How to save a life
How to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
How to save a life
How to save a life
Perfect bro your amazing for putting all of that I know that took a long time good job 👍😎
@@thecrazysideofpets5071 They copy pasted
@@chesphendshil8270 r/whoosh
@@aimeestenekes3746 lol
I lost my brother last February this year. He was just 15. I woke up and went home to his lifeless body. He took his own life. I can still remember how I fell down to my knees as soon as I heard that it was all real, screaming for help trying to digest the fact that he's gone, forever. Suddenly, it was all blurry. It's the pain in your heart that you can literally feel physically. I can cry for his name, but I can't utter any words no more. I can't describe how devastating that situation was. The only thing I know is that my tears keep on streaming down my face nonstop but I didn't care, I just want him to wake up. To tell me that he's fine. That he will stay by my side. That he won't leave us for that reason. It's unbearable. It made breathing a very tough thing to do.
To anybody who's reading this, just a reminder in case your mind is playing tricks on you today: You matter. You're important. You are loved. And your presence on this earth makes a difference whether you see it or not.
I feel ur pain , lost my bro 4 years ago . All the memories , the mistakes , the good times the bad times , he was my best friend and real life brother.
@@moonspeech82 🙏
It will get better❤️
@Verónica López Gómez go over to their house if you can, try and comfort them and inform a guardian
U don’t know how much u saved me
💜2024 And this gem continues to shine 💖💎🔥
Why is this the 6th time ive seen you comment on a video this week (no hate)
Made me tear up.
I CANT ESCAPE YOU STOP
Old but the best❤❤❤❤
Seattle rocks❤❤❤❤
stop commenting on good music for likes :/
Life is hard. But you cannot let hardships hurt you or others. Things get better, way better, the smell of nice rain, the feeling of hope, kindness to others, no matter how hard it gets you will make it trust me your way stronger then what your going through trust me, have a good one and stay on top❤️
Why does this song hit differently 10 years later
because burnley are gettin the drop you dosser
its just something called nostalgia
10 years letter i know this song, I remember.........
Minax this song is great in general
Because today has much worse music.
Hi everyone,
Following my post 10 months ago.
I would like to say I've beaten the cancer for the moment, following the forequarter amputation in February :)
Thank you all for your prayers as they were what kept me strong and gave me the stamina to go on in life :)
Love you all ❤️
god bless you my friend..im happy for you:)
@@brandyplays6134 thanks
Hooray!
No way I was watching this video crying and cried to your story a few days ago and I see this so recently I’m so proud of you right now
@@benjaminyes6308 :)
Some battles are meant to be fought with someone, don’t be afraid to reach out
Who is listening to this masterpiece 2024? Amazing!
7 years Christian. 7 years since you took your life. 7 years since I've seen you. I would have stayed up with you all night if I knew the signs that were in front of my face. I miss you so much and I will see you when He let's me. High school wasn't the same without you and I will never forget you.
I love and miss you so much Christian
Sorry about your loss
متع عقلك thank you
Marissa FICTION Kroll RIP sorry for your loss
FireboyYT -Minecraft and more thank you :,)
your welcome
My best friend killed himself a week ago. He was only 17. I'll always regret that I couldn’t give him a hug and make him know how much he meant to me. If only I had seen what was in front of my face
Strength
Omg... I am 17.. I'm so sorry for your loss. I beg you to not put the blame on yourself, you can get through this :) stay strong!
@@kam2894 I can assure you that to the people left behind hugs will never be enough to bear your loss
Maybe his story will save a life, your story
lol. F in the chat
I know there's a lot of comments about deaths and how they've impacted people, but I wanna flip it around, try and give some smiles. Its not a long story but recently I saved my bf from suicide, and its probably the best thing I've done in my life, not cause I get to have a bf but because I managed to save someone's life, that's not something you experience everyday (depending on your job). Unfortunately there's a lot who can't say the same for people they've lost, but you need to keep your head high and keep going forward, people truly die when they're forgotten, they may be gone but you can carry forward who they were and what they stood for, its the best any of us can do, but its better than losing hope, you need to stay positive in this world, or you'll lose yourself. I know a lot of that is cliche but someone out there might've needed to hear it ❤, stay safe
Xxxtentacion was my cousin, we were really close he used to love this song when we were younger he showed me this master piece. I will always cherish that moment I love you all
Wow really?
This song is proof that music is life-changing/ life- saving.
Actually true. I’m 13 I rlly don’t like the upcoming music
Lmao
@@alexamelchor2787 I’m not much older than you are but you’ll be glad you found this song at 13. I wish I found this song sooner, I’m sure everyone else feels the same.
LYRICS
Step one, you say we need to talk
He walks, you say sit down, it's just a talk
He smiles politely back at you
You stare politely right on through
Some sort of window to your right
As he goes left, and you stay right
Between the lines of fear and blame
You begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Let him know that you know best
'Cause after all, you do know best
Try to slip past his defense
Without granting innocence
Lay down a list of what is wrong
The things you've told him all along
And pray to God he hears you
And I pray to God he hears you
And where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
As he begins to raise his voice
You lower yours and grant him one last choice
Drive until you lose the road
Or break with the ones you've followed
He will do one of two things
He will admit to everything
Or he'll say he's just not the same
And you'll begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
How to save a life
How to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
How to save a life
How to save a life
Thanks president
@@David-xz6cs *Left knee
Thanks Mr Biden
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@Yare Yare how dare u rickrolled me?🤣
Fray, when this came out I was homeless, on drugs, and in jail. Now I have a good job, a husband, and I’m healthy. This song and “Clover Cage - Miraculous” are the two songs that helped with my depression. I just want everyone to know that things will get better. We are in this together. I love you ❤😊
some call it depression, I call it seeing the truth, something I can't ignore
I'm a psychologist who works mainly with teenagers with severe behavioural, emotional, and addiction issues. The lines about 'staring right on through' and 'pray to god he hears you' always hit hardest for me. Kids with a life of trauma; their whole perception of reality is warped. Whatever you say, they hear it differently. Whatever you point out, they'll have an excuse. The more you push, the harder they lash out. Some will become violent, some will act dumb and distract, some will cry, some just stare numbly at you and those are the hardest because they are the ones who learned nothing they do has power and they've given up. It can take years to get to the point that they trust you enough to even hear the words you say and believe them. I had one former client bring me a shotgun shell and tell me it was the one they were going to use to kill themselves after a really bad day. I didn't know it, but the thing that stopped them was me asking them to give themselves 24 hours before making any decisions. I keep that shell on my desk as a reminder that sometimes I can make a difference because too often I can't.
Thank you for helping them..helping them understand what they are feeling..
Youve just made me realise how fucked up i am im 17 with numerous addictions i cant take advice bc i see it as threatening i had a gd childhood but it was very traumatising at the same time and its completely fucked me up now
@@itzdepict633 hey friend. I'm glad my perspective can help. I get what you mean when you say advice can be threatening, and sometimes you will have to trust yourself over others. But if you could take some advice from an internet stranger haha, its my experience people almost always have good jntentions with advice, they just don't always know how to give it well. But trust when the people in your life say they love you, they do. They won't always jave the answers, even when they think they do. They won't always know how to show they love you, but they want to. So talk to them, say what you need, and when they mess up, forgive. I hope you have a great life where you're in the driver's seat, not addiction!
Kids these days
I grew up one of those kids blesses I found football but that only made it easier to hide my emotional trauma I eventually had a daughter I doted on but still had one foot in them streets well I went on to get custody of my daughter and son@8 and 6 my son is amazing but my daughter is exactly how u describe u made me cry and I thank u cause I needed it…. 🙏🏾 thank you
The older we got the more we realized how deep the meaning of this song was.
Fr it's crazy it's been 10 yours😭😭😭
Fax tho
@@thedarkhamster9691 😭😭😭😭 back the you could walk anywhere with no worrys now you got to worry about gitting killed or just jumped sad world i want that all back
@Temptation Gaming hi son
I use to listen before I knew the meaning it really helped me I was suicidal
All I wish for right now is strength for all those who has something heavy going on. You're life is worth fighting for. I hope you choose to love your self when no one does.
RIP to my best friend Sammy🕊️ i love you........fly with the angels 🥺❤️you'll be remembered.....29.04.24......Chao and Steph 😊
Every year i came back And every year this song hits harder.
Same here man. Hope you're doing well x
Its acc crazy
Be well my love x
Stay up my guyz we got this 💯
Mood
Yes.
Same here man
Same man
13* & 28* but still so painfully accurate
Same..
This song came out when I was 21. Just wait until your 30s.
I had a lovely aunt which loved me a lot and I loved her a lot. She had a big house and as a kid I was always there with my cousins playing with her in her room.
She was always patient with us and always gave me money, so I can buy me some things. We were always up early in the morning, so we can watch movies together. And always when we were with her, she gave us a cup of tea and she would put so much sugar in that the tea always leaked out of the glass. It was just hilarious.
By time the family left her for a new house and she stayed there alone. A sad old lady who was just by herself and hoping for someone to knock on her door. I had the honor to knock every summer on her door because she lived in my parent’s homeland, so I was there for holidays. When my brother had his wedding our house was too crowded, so i went to her house, sleeping there for 2 weeks.
This was one of the funniest times of my life and also one of the sad times because I was sleeping every night alone in the room where we all used to play and where we all used to laugh and spend time with each other. It was just a depressing silence. Anyways I would go downstairs to her always and make jokes with her.
As the holidays ended I knew that this will be the last time I would see her alive, because she was very old and sick. She just had one eye due to an accident, so it was more difficult for her, but this handicap made me love her more and take care of her more. She was just happy someone was in the same house with her and that’s all. As I left the house we hugged each other the last time and I knew that’s going to be the last time we are going to see each other. I said “don’t forget me” and she laughed and said “make sure you don’t forget me” :). As I walked to my house I looked at the ground all the time because tears were just going down my face and I couldn’t withhold them. I am a young man and it’s very difficult to speak about my feelings because everyone will perceive it as weakness, but I think that you understand me. I loved her and I hope she is in heaven :)
That's a beautiful story
Who’s here in April 2024
I am 👋🏼 😂
Me😢😢😢😢😢
MEEEE
Me😂
🎉
"It's a beautiful day to save lives people" -Derek Shepherd R.I.P Derek😭😭. "The man who has no imagination has no wings" - Muhammad Ali R.I.P Muhammad😔
RIP Mohamed ali😭😭😭😢😓
+Idiot Savant Incarnate Damn
FUCK YOU FUCK YOU IM AT SEASON 3 AND YOU SPOILED DEREKS DEATH !!!!!!
WHAT HE DIES WHAT I'M AT SEASON 2 YOU CANNOT BE SERIOUS
I watch this video because of the death of Derek Shepherd :(
Reading all these comments with the song in the background really hits different...
Simularbre Ikr
don't it ever.
im just here to ask people are they dead yet
Yes...😞😭❌🤔🙂 Never Give Up❌🏳 even if we are sad💦💧, we must get & take Happyness😀😃😄 and Serenity🚀🌅❗
Simularbre boomer
Knowing the meaning behind this song makes it sting even more
i used to listen to this song around 2014 when i was a depressed teenager, and by the time i turned 18 i didn't even remember it's existance. i had a cousin who commited suicide in 2020. today i randomly remembered about this song and i am now watching this video on repeat and singing along while crying and i just miss him so much
1. Love
2. Breathe
3. Fear
4. Release
5. Have faith
6. Dream
7. Forgive
8. Hold still
9. Lost
10. Run
11. Remember
12. Learn
13. Fun
14. Surrender
15. Let it go
16. Family
17. Leave
18. Talk to someone
19. Forget
20. Live
21. Listen
22. Cry
23. Accept
24. Keep your memories
25. Be kind
26. Question
27. Don't forget
28. Kiss
29. Touch
30. Open up
31. Don't get scared
32. Music
33. Lust
34. Trust
35. Say goodbye
I got most of em.
+Shock Puls release the fear is one but it goes by really fast
Little bit gay that is LOL
i thought 29 was surrender. idk.
i got 22 :^)
My grandpa passed away on Monday. I was going to see him on Tuesday. I didn't realize he had gotten cancer and it rapidly spread. I regret not seeing him earlier, because I didn't get to say goodbye, and now that chance will never come back. I'm really sorry grandpa, I'm really missing you right now... Rest In Peace.
thegreatcalvinio my grandmother passed in 2013 so I understand
thegreatcalvinio same situation for me, mine passed away this friday. I never got to say goodbye to him.
same thing happened to me later last year my grandmother had cancer all out her body and when I she was put into our house to pass away and she died from kidney failure and i didnt even get to say goodbyd
thegreatcalvinio why the fuck did you write that? I'm crying so hard my mum probably thinks I have cripling depression
Morgan cakes wtf
2024 this song still breaking my heart...If we only knew how much we needed to be there...God rest you cuz I miss you always 💔
I hope someone on my family notices how hard to deal what I'm dealing with. I've been fighting for 5years with this and its getting hard
There will be better times
No te desanimes platicar con alguien te hará bien nunca estarás solo pide ayuda busca amigos si tú familia no te apoya hazlo por ti mismo, siempre se puede y verás que saldrás de eso te lo que he pasado por muchas cosas difíciles en esta vida
I'm not depressed. I just liked this song for years.
Right brother
Wish I could relate
@@dizzee6089 Yo, it aint that easy... People are different and it's hard for some people to even say anything at times... that comment is really insensitive regardless joking or not. Even with the new gen being "soft" this isn't a topic to joke about. Sorry if I triggered anything, didn't mean too. Just explaining
@@100PercentBudder I was initially trying to troll but... that really opened my eye tbh. I see the error or my ways and I'll delete the comment. Sorry
@@dizzee6089 That's really big of you. I don't speak for everyone in the comment section, but I did feel people would have gotten hurt reading that. Thank you for deleting that comment! Most people would have just kept it to be "funny". I'm glad that you understand.
this song never fails to give me chills
Me too.
August 1st
ikr... still one of my favs
The drummer (Ben Wysocki) my moms bf nephew!! So cool right?
yeah wow. "if it makes you feel any better, you *are* the illegitimate half brother of the guy we actually do care about"
i remember hearing this at 10 and thinking of my mom and breaking down; now i’m 20 and i don’t think of her often or have a good memory, but tonight, i’m remembering her and the little girl that lost her mom to addiction. and im crying a lot
hearing this as an adult, comprehending all of the lyrics, it completely hit harder
⚠️your life is very important some of you guys dont even realize how important to someone you could be the most important person in the world to someone but you wont be able to see that because you dont think your important even tho you are everyone had importance and we all have purpose even if you dont know yours yet. remember you didnt come this far just to come this far❤⚠️
"The second you start blaming yourself for other people's deaths...there's no coming back."
"Yeah...you're right."
Scrubs. Sigh.
I miss this show.
I wish scrubs was still on the air.
Thanks Ted for making us all laugh.. R.I.P. Sam
Yes that's right. As a sentient being, you make the choice.
Is it correct or incorrect? Leave emotion out of it (if possible) & trust your instincts, (no one trusts themselves anymore) and own up or breathe a sigh of relief. Four.
I own four. Caused directly or indirectly.
Yeah, you can't come back.
Scrubs was the best medical show and thats fax
When I was little, I thought he was saying “sit down, we need a dog. He walks, sit down it’s just a dog” and I was just vibing to it
OMG LMMMFAOOOO
LOOOOOL I WAS SOBBING UNTIL I SAW THIS
nice
Did you got a dog?
Omg what a twist😂😂😂
Just lost a friend a month ago after confessing my feelings to her now this song just hurts
Bottom line is you never know what’s going on behind closed doors with certain or most people always try to make life for people love care and cherish even in so little time at some point we’re all on the virge I’m doing something to ourselves or other people all because the life we had or how we’ve been treated most of our lives so just try to do your best with yourself other people
almost 10 years ago, when i was still a teenager in highschool, being bullied by classmates was part of a usual day so i would make myself small and silent. All of this made a depressive teenager and it was getting darker as it went. I was losing interest in going to school. One day out of no where two people came and sat next to me (where i would always go during breaks) they sat next to me and lightly tried to engage a conversation, not wanting to engage i would continue reading. so they sat next to me and continued talking together. everyday they came and sat at the same spot, next to me, and they would talk together. After some time i slowly started talking to them, and in no time i had made new friends and my days were starting to become brighter. By doing this simple action they might have actually saved a life! one of the two became a very good friend. I am glad she was there for me, and to this day she does not know how her actions affected me in a positive way.
Great to read 😀💛
That hit me, I was bullied alot and broke down alot at home, I'm 22 now but awhile ago I overdosed because of how heavy the weight of the world got, but my mum was there for me and still is, if it wasn't for her ringing an ambulance wouldn't be here, something inside of me wanted to just sit there and let it happen but there was no way I could leave my family with that pain, and i may not know you but it'd great you're still here on this earth, keep your chin up
Wow bro.
I'm really shocked.
U are so strong my man
Proud of you
god bless you
awww, God bless u
This goes out to my best friend Jordan who lost his battle to depression and took his life last summer
Radioactive Skull
Im so sorry for your loss. But he’s in a better place now.
Sorry for your loss buddy
We are here for you
sad ,im healing the same illness since 17 years ago with a part of paranoïa, i feel better now but i know how hard is to live with depression troubles..
I didn't know depression was a battle
@@Walter-white891 what is it then?
My best friend in high school committed suicide when we were both 17. She came from a rough home life and had an abusive early childhood and suffered from severe depression and PTSD as a result. She was my very best friend and the only person who truly accepted me for who I am (I’m learning disabled and got bullied relentlessly). I always told her I loved her and was always there for her. I also stayed up with her all night over the phone multiple times a week but I guess it wasn’t enough unfortunately. Her death really affected my mental health for a long time and I became suicidal myself. Thankfully, I am better now though. I will always love you and miss you Jessica. I’m sorry I couldn’t do more to help you. 😢❤
I miss you Son ! The day your heart stopped is the day my heart broke.RIP Michael Allen Jacob Baron 03/03/95~02/20/24.
I am 31 years old and I have lost many close people from suicide, drugs, drinking n driving, war, deceases i have seen kids cry for a parent and I've seen parents cry over the loss of a child all this has changed me and has made me a better man not to take life for granted we only have a certain amount of time here on this earth and we should all cherish every single second of it yes our anger sometimes gets the best of us but we learn to let go of bad issues be happy, live life, and have fun 😃
you're right, but it can be so hard to just live life, and have fun, when everything you do is sorrounded by thoughts of unfullfilled love... and you're just lonely.
And yeah, i tried to go out alone and have fun, but it just doesn't work for me, it's not possible. Yeah, sure, i can be alone, and to things on my own, but i just need friends in my life.
+OriginalLappen idk how old your really are but for every person there is a friend the hard part is finding your type of friends but now a days it shouldn't be that hard just be an open type person or be willing of trying new things but hope u do find some good friends I'm sure u will 😃
Easier said then done
What is stopping you?
Nixk490 nobody wants to be friends with me :D that's the sad truth, i already tried so much
“If you love someone, you tell them. Even if you’re scared that it’s not the right thing. Even if you’re scared that it’ll cause problems. Even if you’re scared that it will burn your life to the ground, you say it, and you say it loud and you go from there.” -Mark Sloan
Thank you for sharing this! Stand up straight with your shoulders back :)
Hmmmm neat
I have major depression and anxiety and I can't even do any of that and been trying for years to even feel love at and ask myself why what's the point of anything
@@tylersoto7465 yo tyler my guy. I'm here if you need to talk. Lets run some among us or something, fuck it.
Yes
Omg. I've loved this song for years, and tonight I just got what the song means as I'm listening to it and it's speaking to me about forgiving a person I'm dating. So beautifully done you guys. The words of this song are universal and transcendent. Forgive, talk, open up, love, release... They're in the video.
EXCELLENT!!
Very much true sad song don't exist in this era😢
This song reminds me of an old friend who died of an overdose while we were on the outs. I often wonder if he'd still be here had I made different choices. The ones who pass on are released from pain, but we are left behind to live with the guilt.
"It's a beautiful day to save lives people" ~Derek Shepard
MzQueen Lee Let's have some fun ❤
MzQueen Lee 😭😭
UR COMMENT GAVE ME CHILLS
MzQueen Lee OMG WHYYYY
=,(
My dad went to sleep.. and never wake up... "and I would have stayed up with you all night"
I miss you always daddy.. I love you..
I wish you the best, R.I.P
Your comment made me cry 😢 i feel bad for you
You brought tears to my eyes. I'll be remembering you in my prayers.
Be strong my love xx
Omg I’m so sorry
Rip
I love you stay strong 💔
I’m sorry
Rest in paradise i will forever love you miss you ❤
I do the same thing I told you that I never would
I told you I'd change, even when I knew I never could
I know that I can't find nobody else as good as you
I need you to stay, need you to stay, hey (oh)
I get drunk, wake up, I'm wasted still
I realize the time that I wasted here
I feel like you can't feel the way I feel
Oh, I'll be f- up if you can't be right here
Oh, ooh-woah (oh, ooh-woah, ooh-woah)
Oh, ooh-woah (oh, ooh-woah, ooh-woah)
Oh, ooh-woah (Oh, ooh-woah, ooh-woah)
Oh, I'll be f- up if you can't be right here
I do the same thing I told you that I never would
I told you I'd change, even when I knew I never could
I know that I can't find nobody else as good as you
I need you to stay, need you to stay, hey
I do the same thing I told you that I never would
I told you I'd change, even when I knew I never could
I know that I can't find nobody else as good as you
I need you to stay, need you to stay, hey
When I'm away from you, I miss your touch (ooh)
You're the reason I believe in love
It's been difficult for me to trust (ooh)
And I'm afraid that I'ma f- it up
Ain't no way that I can leave you stranded
'Cause you ain't ever left me empty-handed
And you know that I know that I can't live without you
So, baby, stay
Oh, ooh-woah (oh, ooh-woah, ooh-woah)
Oh, ooh-woah (oh, ooh-woah, ooh-woah)
Oh, ooh-woah (oh, ooh-woah, ooh-woah)
I'll be f- up if you can't be right here
I do the same thing I told you that I never would
I told you I'd change, even when I knew I never could
I know that I can't find nobody else as good as you
I need you to stay, need you to stay, hey
I do the same thing I told you that I never would
I told you I'd change, even when I knew I never could
I know that I can't find nobody else as good as you
I need you to stay, need you to stay, hey
Woah-oh
I need you to stay, need you to stay, hey
Teachers: “get in groups of 3”
The 4th homie:
lmao imma make this a meme
Literally just saw this on insta
I CHONKED
I am the 4th homie everytime 😂😭
This hits a little to close to home
I lost my brother to suicide on December 31st, I found him with my mom. It was so shocking I saw him that morning but I didn't even say hi and stayed on my laptop. He had schizophrenia and got new meds so I thought maybe give him time to rest. i don't know. He was 26 turning 27. If I could give half of my life to bring him back I would. All my friends didn't really know how to comfort me so I got mad and now I have no friends anymore. I don't do anything and sometimes I wonder if I should even exist. I have faith things will change but what's the point? But I know how much pain and suffering and heartbreak my mom got when he died because he cared for her so much they were best friends. I try my best to go out and be ok but I can't afford a therapist or to even do things by myself so I just end up watching tv wasting my life and crying.
So sorry bro... Know that your brother is in a better place and that you and your mom are strong. Things WILL get better. Letting everything out is ok❤️
hafsa ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I think going to a therapist is insured by your health insurance, you need that shit bro bc remember it was never your brothers intention to have such an affect on your life. Stay strong and life will be waiting for you til you can stand on your own feet again❤️
try to talk to your friends again they will understand it's hard i battle with suicidal thoughts everyday too stay strong man and talk to your mom together you can do it i'm cheering you on
It seems you have a passion for writing.. keep it up
It screams adult me reminiscing about my childhood days and how I've come this far in the game of life.
Battling with depression & anxiety. getting help ❤ this song it got me thru some hard times. 2024
If you're reading this, you're alive and I'm happy that you are
if your reading this, you are alive. you are an amazing unique person and i’m proud of you.
God bless you.
sometimes, you need that and it doesnt have to be because you dont want too live anymore you just need some one there fore you. even a complet stranger.
Thanks!
phong hoa awn thank you 🥺
Shut up
John Hayden why do people like you think you can shut out the positive 😐. I wish you could understand why people are like this 😕.
Should’ve seen the signs earlier. I’m so sorry I failed you. Rest easy I’ll see you again later friend.
RIP Varun 12.9.19
Piano Sounds rest up Varun
I'm so sorry sweetheart
Rest in Piece Varun
you didn't fail your friend. please don't blame yourself for what happened
Piano Sounds No disrespect, but people who commit suicide go to hell because of it.
The part that says" I would have stayed up with u all night had I known how to save a life" kills me every time..... RIP George Ace Garcia
Step one, you say we need to talk
He walks, you say sit down, it's just a talk
He smiles politely back at you
You stare politely right on through
Some sort of window to your right
As he goes left, and you stay right
Between the lines of fear and blame
You begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Let him know that you know best
'Cause after all, you do know best
Try to slip past his defense
Without granting innocence
Lay down a list of what is wrong
The things you've told him all along
And pray to God he hears you
And I pray to God he hears you
And where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
As he begins to raise his voice
You lower yours and grant him one last choice
Drive until you lose the road
Or break with the ones you've followed
He will do one of two things
He will admit to everything
Or he'll say he's just not the same
And you'll begin to wonder why you came
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
How to save a life
How to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Where did I go wrong?
I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
How to save a life
How to save a life
I lost my daughter when this song came out, it played on the radio ,while leaving the hospital with empty arms ..this song has always brought me to my knees
I'm so sorry, I can't begin to imagine that pain
So sorry for your loss.
i don't know what's goin on in your life, but please stay strong and keep your head up always...cause the stars are up there and not down there
stay strong so sorry for your loss
The life can Win for you this is just for restart Again..
Love
this song is so catchy but I get emotional listening to it ;-;
If you like anime you should watch attack on titan :p
+obey Doge you should also watch death note it's amazing
+obey Doge such sad very cry
I can't obey DOGE
same
Rest in peace Frags. Im sorry I wasn’t there for you. I love you.
There's nothing wrong with bringing back some of the best music of all time
This song makes me realize how hurtful this world is. I wish I could help everyone.
Hurtful yes, but how do you give anyone hope that things get better. Because it’s not a fact that things get better. For some people, it never gets better. At that point, the only hope you can give them is that this life isn’t all there is. At some point, the suffering does end, and then peace begins forever. That’s the symbolic message of Christ. The end of his life was suffering, but at last he could rest in Heaven. Hope can’t be given by small reassurances because often the suffering is too great. There wasn’t hope for Jesus on the cross, not in that moment, but there was hope after. So you want my advice, help people whenever practically possible, but when help isn’t possible, give them Christ.
@@godisgood201 Not to rain on the parade, but people will be eternally remorseful if they think they will just go to heaven when they die. Even though eternal life is a free gift, they need to understand the gospel of salvation found in the Bible and receive that free gift of eternal life by trusting completely in Christ and His finished work on the cross for them for salvation from eternal damnation. Once they truly do, then they are born anew, and then they know exactly where they're going when they die. Not because of any works of righteousness which they have done, and not because of any sins which they didn't do... or will ever do... but because of God's mercy to us in Christ, and the redemption that we have through His innocent blood, which He shed on the cross for the remission of our sins.
@Jesus is Lord everything is temporary my friend, even the universe is.
Welcome to the club bro
@@KS-nq8vo Everything physical in this world is, but not our souls. The most important thing that people need to settle is where they will be spending eternity.