Cyber Bully | How to Get Over the Haters

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  • čas přidán 23. 07. 2024
  • Here's how to not let the negativity of online trolls affect you personally and the work that you're putting out there.
    Online bullying, internet bullying, social media bullying - whatever you want to call it - simply is not cool! Yet it's happened to most of us, including myself. My goal here is to let you know that you're not alone, buddy!
    As Gary Vaynerchuk so eloquently stated, "keep that sh*t in high school!"
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Komentáře • 102

  • @KingaGorski
    @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety +3

    Thanks for watching! How do YOU get over the haters in your life, whether in person or online?
    Let me know in the comments below! (Your advice might really help someone too!)
    PS, remember to be kind to one another xx

    • @SunnyLenarduzzi
      @SunnyLenarduzzi Před 7 lety +3

      Such an informative video, Kinga! Nice job!! I always remember "what Sally says about Susan says more about Sally than Susan" :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Thanks a million Sunny D! Haha that's cute, I've never heard that saying before. But I do say all the time that a hater's words will always show more about THEIR character than it ever will about the person they are hating on! Same idea :-)

    • @DutchNomadFamily
      @DutchNomadFamily Před 7 lety +1

      Haters, hmmm just like Phil Knight stated in his book Shoe Dog, it's a natural dynamic. You have some entrepreneurs and once you're part of this group you immediately get a bull eye on your back.. It's nature, so apparently it is part of life. But it isn't easy to just let it go although we feel strength by thinking about that at least we stick our neck out of the average isn't it.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Interesting - I haven't read that book but definitely thought-provoking about how it's a part of a natural dynamic that happens. Thanks for sharing.

  • @healthyvoicetips
    @healthyvoicetips Před 7 lety +1

    I ignore rude messages. Exactly, I am too busy to pay attention to these kind of people. Thanks for this video.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Thanks for checking it out Katarina! :-) That's great that you have the ability to ignore them - I know how hard it can be! But the more we do it, the easier it'll become for us. x

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Katarina! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @NickyPasquier
    @NickyPasquier Před 7 lety +1

    Hi Kinga: great video & very timely! Although hateful words & actions can hurt I always believe that karma eventually catches up on these people 🤗💟

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Nicky Pasquier Hi Nicki, thanks for sharing your thoughts! I agree, what goes around comes around.. you gotta put out into the universe what you would like to receive back!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Nicky! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @SaroDogTraining
    @SaroDogTraining Před 7 lety +1

    Loved the message and the video. Very important for everyone to know how to deal with bullies in these day and age. Thank you.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety +1

      Hi Saro, thank you for your positive feedback! I share the same perspective as you - this is always a conversation that needs to rise to the surface. My pleasure!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Saro! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @Drostvideo
    @Drostvideo Před 7 lety +1

    Thanks for sharing these tips

  • @MartinesPastries
    @MartinesPastries Před 7 lety +1

    Yes, being polite with everyone, is one of our ongoing intentions.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety +1

      And what a simple yet valuable intention it is! You get back what you put out into the universe. :-)

    • @MartinesPastries
      @MartinesPastries Před 7 lety +1

      🙏

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      :-)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Martine's Pastries! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @Monashee
    @Monashee Před 7 lety +1

    Great video Kinga. I haven't encountered a ton of online haters yet, but I know in life when people make me feel like crap and suck my energy, rather than feed it, I know it's time to take an internal step away from them. Disengage, retract and move onto brighter things that uplift. Sorry that you had a hateful encounter. Way to push through and make it into something productive.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Thanks Monashee! I too haven't encountered a ton, but ONE hater is enough to start the conversation, in my opinion. I love that "internal step away from them" - you really have to look inside yourself and realize that you're not in the wrong when someone else is on the offence! Thanks for the kind words :-) x

  • @CoralJoyTravel
    @CoralJoyTravel Před 7 lety +1

    I love it when you said "It is one them, not on you" and you're right you do have to just "let it go"...Sometimes it is easy for me to let it go, but other days it does sting a little...but I'm going to remember what you said, "It is on them, not on me"...FANTASTIC video...one that will help many youtubers! Thanks Kinga for sharing!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety +1

      CoralJoyTravel Hi Coral! Really appreciate you joining the conversation! You're totally right - the words can definitely sting. We are all human, after all. But it's important to take a moment to look inward and KNOW that you are not in the wrong. Glad this resonated with you! x

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Coral! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @VideoCashflow
    @VideoCashflow Před 7 lety +2

    Great video. "How do YOU get over the haters in your life, whether in person or online?" Ignore and/or delete.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Thank you! That's the way to do it - do *not* give them any of your precious time and energy!

    • @VideoCashflow
      @VideoCashflow Před 7 lety +1

      You're welcome. Looking forward to the next video.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      I appreciate the support!

  • @RomanRyder
    @RomanRyder Před 7 lety +1

    Great video! I always say "you can't lift yourself up by putting other people down".

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Cheers Roman! I wholeheartedly agree!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Roman! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @BoomerBenefits
    @BoomerBenefits Před 7 lety +1

    I love your mission against negativity. Keep up the good work!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Thank you so much! Indeed it is a mission! Optimism & positivity will always prevail in the end :-) x

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Boomer Benefits! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @haleyknudson4223
    @haleyknudson4223 Před 7 lety +1

    Solid advice - I'll try this out next time my gf tries to troll me! Thanks!!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Haha, she sounds like a very patient girlfriend!

  • @biteawaytvinternational38

    Love this video! So true and I'll remind that next time when I feel negativity of people! Thanks for sharing and keep up the great work! Namaste xoxo Nora

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Thanks for watching Nora! For sure we all need reminders sometimes, including myself! Namaste lovely xx

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Nora! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @elizabethmacleod7085
    @elizabethmacleod7085 Před 7 lety +1

    oh such important work you are doing Kinga. Yes... it's on them ... not on you ... Great video. Thank you for the work you are doing. :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Thank you so much for the kind words Elizabeth! Happy to spread the light :-)

    • @elizabethmacleod7085
      @elizabethmacleod7085 Před 7 lety +1

      :) yes... let's do that... spread the light :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety +1

      You got a deal ;-) xx

  • @GoldenGoddessAlchemy
    @GoldenGoddessAlchemy Před 7 lety +1

    Luckily I haven't been exposed to this side of the online communities yet. Thank you for posting this as sometimes we need to be reminded to not let the haters get to us. Lovely channel! I just subbed and liked and I hope to see more.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Hey girl! Definitely not a bad thing if you haven't been trolled yet hah - I hope it stays that way for as long as possible for you ;-) Thanks so much for the kind words, I'm excited to create more videos for you & for the rest of the community! xx

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Golden Goddess Alchemy! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @VeroSweetHobby
    @VeroSweetHobby Před 7 lety +1

    I'm also a strong believer that kindness inspires kindness and we need so much of that specially these days. Your video is very inspirational!!! Great job Kinga!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Thanks so much for the compliments Vero! I couldn't agree more - we need kindness & positivity now more than ever.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @VeroSweetHobby! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @largehopeseo
    @largehopeseo Před 7 lety +1

    Thanks Kinga always good to hear advice like this to be prepared for any haters

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      I'm glad you found it informative! :-)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Georgie! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @StreamlineSeamstress
    @StreamlineSeamstress Před 4 lety +1

    Bravo Bravo Bravo!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 4 lety

      Dawn Takacs Thank you! I’m glad you enjoyed!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Dawn! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @Beautyandthefoodie67
    @Beautyandthefoodie67 Před 7 lety +1

    Only my content that does really well or goes viral gets trolled, so I take it as a sign of success when I get trolled :) Great video & new sub.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      It's interesting how that happens, hey? The more traction you get, the more some people feel the need to try to bring you down.. Thanks very much for sharing & wish you continued success as well!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @beautyandthefoodie.com! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @AngieSanchez
    @AngieSanchez Před 7 lety +1

    Great video!! I love it :)

  • @Kajanaclub
    @Kajanaclub Před 7 lety +1

    thanks for this video

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety +1

      Hey girl! My pleasure. Thanks for swinging by.

  • @RetireCertain
    @RetireCertain Před 7 lety +1

    Great video, keep up the exceptional work :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety +1

      Financial Woman Thanks kindly! I surely will do my best ;-)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Retire Certain! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @c.a.a.p5389
    @c.a.a.p5389 Před 4 lety +1

    Thanks this girl got on a argument and she keeps trying to make me and my best friend break up and thanks

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 4 lety

      I’m glad you were able to find some of these insights helpful to your situation. True friendship always prevails :)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @C.A.A.P! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @lamajigmeg
    @lamajigmeg Před 5 lety +1

    oh how I love the thumbnail

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 5 lety

      Lama Jigme Gyatso: the Rational Contemplative Thank you, Lama!

  • @veronicanashfitness6132
    @veronicanashfitness6132 Před 7 lety +1

    Great information and inspirational!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Cheers Veronica, that's so great to hear you felt inspired! We need more of that these days, I think. :-) xx

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Veronica! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @StevenDeLosSantos
    @StevenDeLosSantos Před 7 lety +2

    Such a great video thank you so much for the value provided in your free download!! Keep on rocking it:)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety +1

      Thank you Steven - my pleasure! you never know who is really needing this message & information right now to help support them through a tough time.

    • @StevenDeLosSantos
      @StevenDeLosSantos Před 7 lety +1

      Your exactly right!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Great that we share the same perspective. Keep shining on :-)

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Steven! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @SocialMediaLove
    @SocialMediaLove Před 7 lety +1

    Thanks for your tips!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      You're so welcome! Hopefully they will help others too.

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Social Media Love! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @GetThePicture
    @GetThePicture Před 7 lety +1

    Great video. Thanks🙂

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 7 lety

      Appreciate it, thanks for watching!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey @Get The Picture?! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @christinalaura3832
    @christinalaura3832 Před 6 lety

    Great video!!! It’s so important to ignore the negativity and focus only on those who are lifting you up. As a Mental Health Counselor, I️ find myself constantly telling people that it’s up to you to chose whether you’re going to allow other peoples opinions to effect you, or whether you’re just going to let it slide right off because at the end of the day, it’s on them and not you. I️ share similar messages on my channel, and I’m always looking to support others spreading the positivity! Liked & subscribed! 😊

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 6 lety +1

      Christina Laura I appreciate that Christina! It’s true that we can’t help what others will do/say to us, but what IS within our control is our reaction. Thank you for your work as a mental health counselor!

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 3 lety

      Hey Christina! I'm looking to interview some folks [simply for market research] who are interested in having more confidence, consistent discipline, beneficial habits, better focus, and self-motivation, etc. If this is up your alley, you can book a Zoom call (audio only) with me at the following link. Thanks! calendly.com/kingagorski/zoom-call-with-kinga

  • @YuriDivine
    @YuriDivine Před 6 lety

    great video thanks i have just been a victim and found this video really helpful

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 6 lety +1

      I'm so sorry to hear of your experience. I'm glad you came across this video and found value in it. Stay strong!

    • @YuriDivine
      @YuriDivine Před 6 lety

      Thanks i found you through one of Sunny Lenarduzzi videos where she mentioned you :) by the way i want to make a video on the topic aswell. would it be ok to use clips from your video providing reference to you and your channel?

    • @KingaGorski
      @KingaGorski  Před 6 lety +1

      Hi Yuri, yes that's okay as long as credit and reference links are provided to my channel, please and thank you. :-) PS. awesome, I love Sunny's work!

    • @YuriDivine
      @YuriDivine Před 6 lety

      sure by the way are you in the boss facebook group? i am 😇

    • @YuriDivine
      @YuriDivine Před 6 lety

      Video Made thanks alot look foward to more collaborations in the futre enjoy czcams.com/video/YpTpgo0Mtts/video.html