Grief Update - Beginning of The End - First Year!

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Komentáře • 198

  • @goren_flaxovich
    @goren_flaxovich Před 17 dny +20

    pretty crazy to introduce a new woman and her kids to your kids so quickly

    • @POGGrief
      @POGGrief  Před 17 dny +1

      They all know each other already and get along. So not really. 🤷

    • @ginnypowell8324
      @ginnypowell8324 Před 13 dny +1

      My sister met her partner 6 months after his partner died of cancer , that was 20 years ago. They got married last month hurrah 🥳..... He loved and still loves his first wife very much and she always comes up in conversation. Good luck to you all . X x x

    • @victoriariley7490
      @victoriariley7490 Před 10 dny +7

      I've noticed men tend to move on quicker than women.No judgement, just what I've noticed

    • @mary-lp5xt
      @mary-lp5xt Před 4 dny +2

      You moved on very quick.

  • @colinnz
    @colinnz Před 24 dny +13

    There will never be another beautiful sweet kind lady like sarah

  • @raedarden9830
    @raedarden9830 Před 22 dny +5

    When we make it through that first year without our loved one, we can give a huge, spiritual and grateful sigh of relief and say, "A year ago I didn't think I'd make it. BUT I DID!" And...YOU ARE ALMOST THERE! God bless you.

  • @cindiegrimm5983
    @cindiegrimm5983 Před 25 dny +42

    No one understands like someone who has also walked in these shoes. It's good to see you.

  • @debroahisaacs2452
    @debroahisaacs2452 Před 22 dny +6

    I got some blue nail polish and thought of Sarah. It's been going on 3 years since my husband went home. It hurts. I go day to day.

  • @marytindall2305
    @marytindall2305 Před 8 dny +7

    I think it's a little too soon. I think you are going to get your heart broken and you haven't healed enough to stand the pain again.

  • @tmaffeo
    @tmaffeo Před 24 dny +5

    Oh Josh I’m so happy that you found a companion that you can share your time with I cannot believe it’s almost a year already 🌻🌻🌻

  • @helenbotelho285
    @helenbotelho285 Před 24 dny +5

    I'm so happy you found someone to navigate through this difficult time and life. You are so young
    and should continue living as best you can.

  • @valeriehill6382
    @valeriehill6382 Před 25 dny +8

    It’s so good to see you, I’m so pleased that you have met someone that you can lean on when the going gets tough. Sending my best wishes to you all and will be thinking about you all as your first year anniversary approaches, take care 👍😘

  • @karendavidson6272
    @karendavidson6272 Před 19 dny +19

    Tread lightly with new relationships. It gets extremely complicated especially with children. Children are very unlikely to accept a new partner even in just divorce but in death it’s even less likely. Trust me, kids will be very resentful at a certain point. They will mainly be sad at the time you spend with the new lady and see it as time with Dad is stolen by the new love interest. Sorry to put out the cautionary tale but I lived it and my daughter was really hurt.

  • @jeneinstein
    @jeneinstein Před 25 dny +7

    I am so glad that you found someone who understands you, can help you celebrate Sarah while also building a relationship. Thats nothing but a wonderful thing. It was good to hear an update!!

  • @tinaandre9905
    @tinaandre9905 Před 25 dny +7

    Very VERY happy for you in this time, Josh! Sarah would be happy for you. We know she wants you to "live" and be happy.

  • @dawnclevenger6617
    @dawnclevenger6617 Před 25 dny +8

    When you have been to heck and back caring for a terminal individual that you love dearly ,you have already done alot of grieving when God calls them home, I think it's great you have someone new that can relate😊

  • @MikkiGray
    @MikkiGray Před 25 dny +6

    Thanks for the update Josh, great to see you! Glad everyone is doing well.

  • @carmelaburrone5029
    @carmelaburrone5029 Před 23 dny +4

    Happy to hear you and the children are doing well. God Bless..

  • @freelancerjourn
    @freelancerjourn Před 25 dny +5

    it’s good to see you, Josh, and hear your updates. Continued blessings to all of you.

  • @karenfitzpatrick6256
    @karenfitzpatrick6256 Před 25 dny +7

    I'm so pleased how you have walked through the fire. With love, compassion and patience your lives are moving along with hope and strength.
    I hope you find some joy in every single day. I've used your Sarah's wise saying so often. "Be Kind and Make Good Choices." That is her legacy that will always be a gift she gave to all of us. Love to you and the kids from Vermont ❤

  • @patriciaanzelc5386
    @patriciaanzelc5386 Před 25 dny +8

    You and your family have so much love in your hearts, so glad that your can share it. Best of luck.

  • @nycfinest4182
    @nycfinest4182 Před 25 dny +6

    Almost a year wow 😢 Josh and the children! Love ❤️ you guys !! ❤❤❤Also im glad you found someone that can hear you out & you do the same. Glad all the children get along!!😁💕

  • @22lilac57
    @22lilac57 Před 25 dny +6

    Thank you for checking in with us all, Josh. Yes, I recall last year at this time was a rough time indeed for you all. A rough journey for you all. I’m glad you are finding comfort with each other and always honoring all your feels. Grieving is such a hard rocky road, and you are always doing your best. Sending you best, warm wishes from New York! ❤️‍🩹☺️💕

  • @lamlam1969
    @lamlam1969 Před 25 dny +5

    Josh! it’s so good to hear from you! I’m glad you found someone who you can lean on and understands grief like you ❤

  • @kellygulnick3960
    @kellygulnick3960 Před 25 dny +5

    Happy for you and the fam Josh. And thinking of you during the hard days.

  • @naomijones8564
    @naomijones8564 Před 25 dny +7

    Wow you look great josh, so good to see you and have an update to know your all doing good, so pleased you have met someone who you can be yourself with and you both can share emotions on the same level, keep popping on when you can so we can see how your doing, I'm so happy for you, much love as always from the uk xx

  • @joangaither3871
    @joangaither3871 Před 25 dny +7

    It's so wonderful to see you!! I'm so happy you have someone in your life that understands what you are going through and t helps you get through really difficult times 🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Sumwherein
    @Sumwherein Před 25 dny +5

    Joshhhhh good to see you again, hope all is well with you and your family, lots of love and air hugs from Houston Texas 💕💞💕💕💞💞

  • @tracymayer-hv6rb
    @tracymayer-hv6rb Před 25 dny +4

    It’s so great to see you and hear how you are all doing.

  • @kellybonner1439
    @kellybonner1439 Před 25 dny +6

    So good to hear that you have met someone connect with!

  • @vvelasco54
    @vvelasco54 Před 23 dny +3

    You and your family deserve to be happy no matter what.

  • @patchaput9461
    @patchaput9461 Před 25 dny +6

    Good to see you Josh. Glad to hear that Breadan had a breakthrough with his grief. I was worried for him. It's not natural to keep it inside.
    I am glad you met someone to talk to and spend time with. My two cents - guard your heart. You are both very vulnerable and will be for a while. I'm sorry for her loss as well. It's a horrible journey to go through. Just be careful.
    I wish you nothing but the best for you and the kiddos! ❤

  • @trudyramgren8817
    @trudyramgren8817 Před 25 dny +5

    Hey Josh!! Good to see you. I'm happy for you that your life is going well. We all grieve differently and you've had your share. You stuck by Sarah through thick and thin, taking good care of your kids and much more. You do you . Make yourself happy with your new companion. Life goes on Josh even if we lose the love of our lives. Keep in touch with all of us who support you! Hugs and❤

  • @lorib.8605
    @lorib.8605 Před 24 dny +3

    Thank you for the update. Thinking about you and your family all the time. God bless you all❤

  • @lynnduckworth5361
    @lynnduckworth5361 Před 24 dny +3

    Lovely to see you Josh, grab life and be happy. Thank you for sharing I wish you well xx

  • @conniejenkins4622
    @conniejenkins4622 Před 25 dny +4

    So happy to see you Josh, I’m really happy for you.. Thank you for the update.. 💪🏼💌🙏🏼

  • @MrsSherrymcm
    @MrsSherrymcm Před 24 dny +3

    Sunshine is good for the soul ❤ I think you’re doing a wonderful job. Sarah is with you every step of the way. ( I believe that) Keep taking one day at a time. God bless you 🙏🏻♥️

  • @marjoha76
    @marjoha76 Před 24 dny +4

    So happy for you and your family ❤

  • @jillybear6007
    @jillybear6007 Před 25 dny +6

    I had just been sitting here thinking about the POG Family and how everyone is doing and there you are! Thank you for the update so much. Still sending positive thoughts for you and your whole family. The very best advice that the hospice nurse who was assigned to my Dad back several years ago was to not make any really important either life-changing or drastic changes in your life until you have grieved the loss for at least one year. That stuck with me through the next loss - my Mom 3 yrs ago and then my only sibling's passing/my brother 1-1/2 years ago. Then, a little less than a month after my brother passed of cancer, I lost my very best friend/ride-or-die friend since we were both 17 years old to an unexpected and undiagnosed massive heart attack - after 3 losses in my immediate family within a just short of time, this loss literally nearly knocked me off my feet completely because it was completely unexpected and so shocking. And, I held the line and didn't make any drastic changes in my life with each loss. Funny how just one piece of advice did seem to be quite helpful and I was able to use it yet again and try and work through all my grief and losses.

    • @MsDale1976
      @MsDale1976 Před 25 dny

      No big decisions for at least the first year. Happy to hear from you, Josh. The few days before the first deathaversy, is the hardest. The day of, I found was not. She will always be in your heart and be happy you found someone to be with and talk to but no rushing, please. Love you all💕

    • @nannysquid4982
      @nannysquid4982 Před 22 dny

      Yes it knocks you off your feet..I looked after my family members, mum n dad both cancer n my uncle we buried 5 weeks after my mum, he also had cancer...when feeling down that's when u need to dial a friend or helpline

  • @user-zg6in4hg3s
    @user-zg6in4hg3s Před 25 dny +8

    I loved your cooking shows !!!

    • @POGGrief
      @POGGrief  Před 25 dny +4

      Not off the table, I still want to do more. I miss making those videos.

  • @nannysquid4982
    @nannysquid4982 Před 23 dny +4

    Hi looks like u all r heading in the right direction for a happier future 😊...yes it's sad when it comes to time frame of your loved one passing. For me as I've lost a lot of family members to cancer n it's something that sticks in your head forever...but for me I try to celebrate their birthdays, cause to me this is that day that everyone was so lucky to have them in their lives, the day they were born...but I'm glad u all had a little break n have had time to find happier days 😊

  • @kathyhelmold7358
    @kathyhelmold7358 Před 25 dny +6

    Josh it is so good to see your smiling face. You look good!! Relaxed and happy. Glad you have met someone you can connect with. Life is short as you well know so be happy young man. Follow your heart it won’t steer you wrong❤❤
    Happy to hear the kiddos are thriving 💕💕 Hope to see you soon

  • @pamjarvis6199
    @pamjarvis6199 Před 25 dny +6

    Good to see you and hear y'all are moving forward and doing okay god bless ❤

  • @pacoandellie
    @pacoandellie Před 24 dny +2

    So happy to hear that life is going a little better for you. You and your friend can lean on each other which will give you a sense of relief during those incredibly difficult times. Very happy for you and praying that things continue to get better.

  • @threeqtrtime
    @threeqtrtime Před 25 dny +4

    Wow it has been 9 months already… seems unreal. It’s good to see you Josh and glad you and the family are doing well.❤

  • @jenl8776
    @jenl8776 Před 25 dny +3

    Oh! It’s so good to hear from you! Thank you for the update. You look well - your face is relaxed and reflects less pain! Regarding the upcoming “last year was this, last year this happened, etc” I found thru my own loss/es that worrying about how you’re going to feel or what’s going to happen are worse than the actual days when they come. Just let them come and soon they’ll be gone by. Much love! ❤️❤️🙏🏻

  • @hilarymccarthy1011
    @hilarymccarthy1011 Před 24 dny +3

    Beautiful update, Josh. Thank you. 🤗

  • @kimberlyhendren2097
    @kimberlyhendren2097 Před 25 dny +6

    Soooo happy to hear from you! Glad you all are doing ok! Navigating life is never easy. I'm happy you met someone who understands your path and has experienced it. What a gift.

  • @jodil1209
    @jodil1209 Před 25 dny +9

    I am so happy that you posted. It's good to see you. I am happy that you have found someone who you can share this with.

  • @marieyttreness9000
    @marieyttreness9000 Před 25 dny +4

    I'm happy you are living. We all need love. You have an amazing family

  • @annamariegrabski1148
    @annamariegrabski1148 Před 24 dny +3

    Was honestly just thinking about you and your family. Glad you are doing well

  • @laurachard8961
    @laurachard8961 Před 25 dny +8

    Good for you, friend. I am glad that you have the perspective of allowing somebody in your life to help support you. They could never be a replacement for you or your children, but they can bring more joy and friendship and love to the equations. Respect is key.

  • @betsybabf748
    @betsybabf748 Před 25 dny +3

    I was warned by many widows and widowers in my support groups that the first anniversary often hits hard. After the 11 month mark, I felt it hitting me hard and was very difficult for me through the 1st anniversary mark. I started to spiral, but knowing it was normal and being prepared helped me a lot.

  • @HereIsMichaela
    @HereIsMichaela Před 25 dny +5

    It is so amazing when someone comes into your life and you expect nothing out of it. But suddenly there right in front of you, is everything you ever needed. ❤ I am so happy for you.❤ Love always finds its way ❤ Congratulations ❤

  • @cecilavi282
    @cecilavi282 Před 22 dny +2

    You deserve to be happy all of you ❤

  • @catherinelumley2817
    @catherinelumley2817 Před 20 dny +3

    A year today for me.i hope i can find a partner one day i dont want to be alone at 51.nobody can comment on death unless youve been through it and feel the loneliness and the sadness so good for you mate i hope it works out.x

  • @lauramaze5354
    @lauramaze5354 Před 24 dny +4

    Hi Josh, thank you for the update! I'm glad you've found someone you can share things with, who understands all too well, the feelings and emotions that come along with your situations. And the kids getting along is such a great bonus! You're doing such a good job navigating your new life! I hope we get to hear another update soon. Meanwhile, take care and enjoy life! ♥️🤗

  • @pris_pris
    @pris_pris Před 24 dny +2

    Love love love this update! Can’t wait to see what’s in store for you Josh. ❤

  • @jodeming5088
    @jodeming5088 Před 24 dny +1

    Happy to see and hear from you. You all were so mused. It’s hard to believe it’s been almost a year already. Thank you for the update and see you when it’s time for another take good care and love and hugs to you all!

  • @debj4life478
    @debj4life478 Před 24 dny +1

    Thanks for sharing.

  • @sarhamills584
    @sarhamills584 Před 24 dny +8

    Thats good news sara would be happy cause thats what she wanted for you n the kids to enjoy life n to have someone in your lives to enjoy with thats what i would want also

  • @colleencieszkowski
    @colleencieszkowski Před 24 dny +4

    Happy for you and the whole family. Cherish the memories and embrace the future. Lovely.❤

  • @marykatka7570
    @marykatka7570 Před 25 dny +3

    It was such a wonderful add to my day to see you pop up on my CZcams list. It was a great share and update and you were so kind to yourself and have chosen what would be healing to you.

  • @sherrieh2062
    @sherrieh2062 Před 25 dny +3

    So proud of your progress in moving forward and being the best dad to your kids this whole past year. So hard to grieve and also be present for your kids and you’ve done it so well. Also so glad you met someone also going through grief…someone that you can share and support each other’s feelings. That is so important on a healing journey. Glad to see you and happy you brought us up to date. Enjoy the summer with the kiddos! 💕

  • @bluffcitybounty2122
    @bluffcitybounty2122 Před 25 dny +6

    Good for you, Josh. Ignore the haters, per usual. ❤

  • @sheliajames4566
    @sheliajames4566 Před 25 dny +4

    I pray you find happiness.
    You and the kids deserve it.
    All of you have been sad for too long.
    It's time to live.
    I 🙏🙏🙏 for only good things for you down this new chapter!!
    Love and blessings to all!!
    Sam TN❤❤❤

  • @aprilm2664
    @aprilm2664 Před 25 dny +6

    Im happy you met someone. You deserve to be happy again with a partner. Uou still have to live your life

  • @ven0006
    @ven0006 Před 23 dny +2

    Hey Josh, great to see your post friend. So proud of you. Lots of love to you all xo

  • @shellcshells2902
    @shellcshells2902 Před 25 dny +3

    You look amazing and there's brightness in your eyes. My husband is a widower. I met him after his late wife had been gone for 3 years. I had my own grief journey with some losses. Having a special someone who understands is so incredibly helpful. I'm so happy for you. I keep you and your children in my thoughts often and it's so good to see you.

  • @carolschneider7375
    @carolschneider7375 Před 25 dny +3

    Josh so glad you and the kids are doing well. Updates are good and prayers for the next hurdle....also glad you met someone who has been where you are. Small steps lead to positive life to come ❤

  • @sandrawungluck9959
    @sandrawungluck9959 Před 25 dny +8

    Good you found someone who understands what you are going through

  • @kathleenmiller852
    @kathleenmiller852 Před 25 dny +2

    Good to see you doing so well! Thank you for updating us!

  • @lisamoroney3036
    @lisamoroney3036 Před 24 dny +1

    I am so happy for you ❤ that’s fantastic!

  • @mandyf.1168
    @mandyf.1168 Před 24 dny +2

    Good to hear from you!❤

  • @monanwright
    @monanwright Před 25 dny +4

    Good to see you and know that you are all doing OK. This all takes time .

  • @lorikean3405
    @lorikean3405 Před 25 dny +3

    Awesome to see you and hear that all is going well. Hugs to you and the kids.

  • @billgosling2280
    @billgosling2280 Před 24 dny +6

    You’re looking really good Josh and so pleased that you have found a companion who has experienced a similar situation.

  • @lynne8844
    @lynne8844 Před 24 dny +3

    Great to see you doing well and appreciate the update 💕

  • @lavonneribera6913
    @lavonneribera6913 Před 25 dny +2

    Good to see you, and I'm very happy you have someone who truly understands your situation ❤❤❤

  • @dianeking6127
    @dianeking6127 Před 24 dny +3

    So awesome to see you again Josh, thanks for the update and I'm happy for you all 💜

  • @shirleynash8859
    @shirleynash8859 Před 25 dny +3

    So glad to hear all of this!

  • @lindadye4043
    @lindadye4043 Před 24 dny +5

    Miss seeing your updates 💐

  • @sekinatparry9883
    @sekinatparry9883 Před 24 dny +2

    So good to hear from you & I very happy to hear kids and you are happy. Sara will happy, you’re all at this place. Much love ❤

  • @kimp333-qc6cg
    @kimp333-qc6cg Před 25 dny +4

    Thanks josh....great to hear from you!!!

  • @kathycowan2221
    @kathycowan2221 Před 25 dny +3

    So good to hear from you. Hard to believe it's been that long.

  • @karenoatley8673
    @karenoatley8673 Před 25 dny +2

    So happy to see you Josh! You look so great! Glad everyone is doing well. There is alot to be said about companionship. Thanks for the update!❤

  • @hjcdormouse7337
    @hjcdormouse7337 Před 25 dny +3

    Great to see you "living" .The grief still there and acknowledged but moving forward with life and new shoots.

  • @marlamacmichael6115
    @marlamacmichael6115 Před 25 dny +4

    Hi Josh….it sure is nice to see you and hear how life has been going! I wish you much happiness and wonderful adventures in the coming days and months.
    Also, enjoy your new woman friend…she sounds like she has been through the grieving process and has children too.
    Glad to hear Braedan and Reylah get along with her children. So happy that you are doing so well.
    Hearing that Braedan had a breakdown in his grieving and had you there to support him must have been very emotional. Kudos to both of you to talk this out together. Hugs…
    I will keep my eyes open for your next vlog. Big hugs to all. Take care! ❤

  • @GenevieveWinkler-hi6um
    @GenevieveWinkler-hi6um Před 25 dny +2

    It looks beautiful out! So happy to hear you’re doing better :)) ♥️🌸♥️🌸♥️

  • @hts1443
    @hts1443 Před 25 dny +3

    Hi Josh, it's good to see you. I'm happy to hear that there are happy moments along this continued journey and that you've found a person that understands where both of you can just be there for each other and your families. Until we hear from you again, wishing all of you well 💙

  • @jlux6215
    @jlux6215 Před 23 dny +1

    Looks like a beautiful day there❤

  • @Alwaysherethere
    @Alwaysherethere Před 24 dny +2

    It's good to see you and happy you checked in with us! I'm glad you're doing good but just hang in there these next few months ❤😊

  • @angelamadas-um6wr
    @angelamadas-um6wr Před 25 dny +5

    So happy for you! Missed you!

  • @debraweikel4521
    @debraweikel4521 Před 24 dny +2

    You look well rested.

  • @marciaalmeida4867
    @marciaalmeida4867 Před 24 dny +1

    Good morning Josh its nice seeing back here, i understand the feeling. hope you have a good day and take your time, its not easy . hugs to all of you

  • @ditris69
    @ditris69 Před 25 dny +2

    Good to see you coming back!💯💜

  • @nancybrinegar9980
    @nancybrinegar9980 Před 24 dny +1

    I was thinking about you and the kids yesterday, wondering how you were doing. Good to see you back

  • @jenniferhawkins8169
    @jenniferhawkins8169 Před 24 dny +3

    Very happy for you guys ❤

  • @hannakrokos8319
    @hannakrokos8319 Před 24 dny +1

    Great to see you 😊

  • @missiris1234
    @missiris1234 Před 19 dny +5

    I am glad you met a nice person. We all need a companion in my opinion. Don’t listen to the negs. Nice seeing you Josh

  • @elainekissinger9277
    @elainekissinger9277 Před 24 dny +3

    Sending lots of Hugs and Love ❤️ prayers to everyone ❤❤❤

  • @jelkamikulic3311
    @jelkamikulic3311 Před 24 dny +3

    So happy for you Josh all the very best ❤

  • @tracysanders1829
    @tracysanders1829 Před 25 dny +2

    Glad to hear things are going well ❤