Dear Ex | Official Trailer [HD] Netflix
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- čas přidán 22. 01. 2019
- When Sanlian's ex-husband dies, she learns he cut their son from his insurance in favor of a stranger, Jay. Mysteriously, her son moves in with him. Dear Ex premiers on Netflix 1 February
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FYI, this film was originally called "誰先愛上他的" in Taiwan. And if you translate the title directly, it should be "who loved him first."
Much better. Thanks
Now it makes sense
This is better but sadder
:( chien love him first?
Thank you! 👌
One of the most tear jerking and stunning films I’ve seen... the characters are human, the dialogue is amazing and the plot is so real
Thank you, I thought they were aliens
@@mahdiabderraouf5795 😂😂😂😂
@@mahdiabderraouf5795 hahahahahahahahh
That's Asia for you,
That whole dialogue with the mom and kid about why are u my mom.. Is soo REAL
“ A million years is when someone you love tells you he wants to be a normal person, then he leaves you. From that day on, everyday, is a million years”
There is one scene where he was sitting & playing guitar, reminiscing the past time he had with his lover.
The expression when his eyes got watery is just out of this world. You could feel his sadness that he kept only to himself throughout so many years of enduring the loss.
I already knew that scene alone is an award-winning performance. Guess what, he won Best Actor at Taipei Film Festival for the role.
Watch Hollywood remake this cos apparently they're running out of ideas.
They acquired this to add to their service :/
They've been running out of ideas, everything is based off books or remakes
@Much Love N Hugz you know it won't. Look at everything they remade. I'm still angry about Death Note
And the Good Doctor
Burn Hollywood burn!! Lmafao
this movie is a masterpiece. the acting, the story, and even the colour palette was spot on. not to mention the raw emotions!! just finished watching n i couldnt stop crying. definitely one of the best movies ive ever watched. everything was just beautiful !! 10000/10 would recommend!
edd castro a boy's dad signed his insurance money to his lover instead of the son. the movie mostly shows his mom tryin to get the money back for the son's education n the son arguing with the mother a lot, also the past of the dad n his lover. overall its very heartwarming and the ending is very satisfying too!
I absolutely agree. I just finished watching this as well and all I could think about was how I'm only hearing about this movie now. It's sad that this movie is being slept on. It's truly a masterpiece
Oh God I only started watching it because I got bored by another movie on netflix... But this movie doesn't deserve this kind of visibility! I'm blown away by how good it was, probably in my top 10 or even 5 movies I've ever seen
can you remember if it has a happy ending?
@@ex8290 i’d say bittersweet, given the circumstances already set in the movie prior. it ends really well though!
I am probably one of the few people who felt for the mother the most. Especially when she asked the therapist that last question.
I know !! I felt so sorry for her. I understood the confusion of the father but I couldn't help but feel that somewhere along the lines he used everybody for his selfishness. Sure he loved the guy but when he wanted to be normal he decided to marry a woman and break the guy's heart but once he found out that he was going to die he decided to come back to his love and destroy his wife's life. I think all these three struggled so much because of one person's selfishness
@@archeiafaith you worded it so perfect !
@@archeiafaith agree
@@archeiafaith i think .. i hesitate to call it outright selfishness. he denied himself his sexuality all his life - albeit it was of his own doing. he definitely added a lot of grief and emotional stress and trauma to his wife's life.. but i understand his choices. im just not sure if i would or wouldnt pursue my last chance at love if i knew i was dying soon. i dont know. i find it's hard to judge him for his actions in the end. i feel sympathy for all of them, including him. his flaws didnt make him a bad person - to me at least. just.. you know. a flawed one.
My eyes went wet when she said the question in a fainting voice.
This is a really "Taiwanese" movie and I can't be more proud of the recognition it get! It authentically depicts Taiwanese's daily life through the way actors talk and the music.
Can you recommend any other similar movie available on Netflix ??
@@roadhouse_blues8081 hi, i would recommend you "us and them"...there is not bl story but you find the same bittersweet vibes. always on Netflix.
@@jbgyondl9684 Your name engraved herein is a masterpiece
lol we are all bl fans ig 😂
@@roadhouse_blues8081 your name engraved herein
This movie should be a lesson to all those people still in the closet and taking on a lover of the opposite gender as a shield. We always feel sorry for those in the closet and celebrate their coming out yet we forget those pitiful spouses who devoted years of their lives to forgeries of a marriage and spouses who only ever saw them as a way to be "normal". It's better to remain single and known as a crazy hermit than pull someone into your hell because you are too afraid.
All hearts for this. I know no other way to put it better than this.
On top of that, society should understand how many people they're f-ing over if they convince gay people to "just be normal." It's more thqa just that individual. People who claim to be ex-gay are convincing gay/lesbian people to "fake it till they make it" but they'll never make it!
Best Comment.
So true...well said
Well said this is what is actually happening in many countries someone else suffers in this better if u r too afraid than don't Marry only that's much better than ruining someone else's life
Is this Netflix giving us better content? 😭
Lol. No more Netflix and chill cause we are actually watching the super improved content🍷
Instead of Netflix and chill, it’s Netflix wine and dine lol
@@commanderhedgehog590 yes to that! it's about to become a weekend plan for sure instead of going clubbing, wait and see lmao
But this is a good movie.
@Blue he never meant to hurt his wife's feelings, you have to understand the context of being homosexual in a society where you're repressed. it wouldn't be the same if he cheated on his wife with other woman.
Just finished watching 'Dear Ex' on Netflix. My heart feels shattered, wrung out, heavy, struggling to contain a mountain of emotions. One of the most most beautiful films and great performances and I just wanna hug everybody involved in the making of this film. Thank you! And I'll be watching it everytime I wanna feel.. anything.
where i can watching it?
What is it about?
@@auliaz255 er... Netflix?
@@auliaz255 on Netflix
@@tmd-w1552 a son who trying to come to terms with his father's death and part of his life he didn't know about, a wife who holds a grudge against life and her husband who divorced her left all his property n savings to her except the insurance, a lover who refuses to grieve the death of his lover until it finally breaks him down.
Honestly, the mother deserve oscar for her acting skill in this movie.. her perfomance is so mindblowing she is too talented for this
Hsieh Ying-hsuan, the actress who plays the mother, did win a Golden Horse Award for Best Leading Actress. The Golden Horse Awards are basically called the "Oscars of Taiwan" due to how highly coveted it is in the Chinese-speaking film world.
i cried watching this, but not just because of the storyline with the father and his lover, but also because the mother-son relationship is so detailed in its crafting. i haven't seen a scene like that in a while where i could see myself at that table, where i have had that very conversation.
I just finished this movie and it was SUCH a heartfelt story. I felt so much sadness for the mother. Cried when she asked the therapist the last question. If there was ever any love for her. I understand the need to be "normal" in society but it breaks both the parties involved in a marriage. The dad, who denied his own sexuality his whole life, tried to hide against the world by marrying a woman n using her as a shield. The son who really had no fucking clue about the emotional trauma both their parents went through n thus doesn't know where to place himself. The lover who got his heartbroken by the dad. The mother who was ultimately the most pitiful out of the three. My heart goes out for those spouses who are just caught up in the middle of a doomed relationship. It's such a pity that the society forces people to conform to the so called norms, ultimately denying their basic rights to live freely.
the mom's deep sorrow had me such a weeping mess, like that moment with the therapist and the way she was holding in her tears while asking that question truly hurt me. and let's not get into the lover's quiet pain, his loyalty, care and love. his affection and adoration for the dad were portrayed so clearly in his eyes, such talented actors. holy hell, my heart was not the same after this movie.
This movie is like an emotional declaration of love from all the characters. I saw it without wanting to and ended up crying. Totally recommended!
bruh the "why are you my mom? i also wonder that" line hurt
I’m crying. 😢
This is one of the most beautiful movies I have ever watched. It's a rollercoaster ride of tears and laughter throughout the movie. All the characters were so beautifully portrayed but the mother's character literally stole the show for me. What a beautiful movie! I highly recommend it to everybody.
@@emmanuelsandoval1870 she really is an amazing actress! Loved her
Great movie. Has it all: comedy, tragedy, drama, great characters, amazing actors (all of them, but the mother is phenomenal).
Just finished watching this movie at 3.28 am. Idk how to describe it, but please this movie deserved an oscar. All the raw emotions, amazing cinematography, deep values hidden, great story line and scripts had me bawled my eyes. What a beautiful story this movie portrayed. These actors and actresses really did an amazing job in delivering this masterpiece to us. If you haven’t watch this yet, please do so. You won’t regret it at all. Highly recommended! 💯
This movie when you watch it you just feel familiar. The mood feels so real because the story it tells and the characters that we discover watching it are actually real, and the pain and the love, everything. I just watched a masterpiece that it's difficult to found these days, and I watch it on Netflix, just wow. Definitely it's a great work, thanks Netflix, you did it very well.
I have to search his name after the movie. Roy Chiu. I have lived on this planet for more than 30 years and he is the best actor I ever known. Roy Chiu, thank you so much for such a out-of-this-world performance.
There is another Taiwanese movie on the Netflix called “A Sun”
Highly recommended
“A Sun” 9/10. I cried like a little girl at the end 😂
Isnt that korean
@@pstt10
maybe there is another movie in Korea called A Sun.
I don’t know
But I’m saying the Taiwanese one
I cried a lot watching this movie. it's been a long time that a movie affects me this much.
Me too! I get chest pains when I cry so I try not to but this movie had me whining and moaning and I was just drenched with tears. I cried for a long time lol! The only other movie that made me cry this hard was A star is born towards the end! I cried for a week straight, I was so broken.
I feel in love with this movie. I watched it by chance one day and it was the best decision ever! I cried I laugh I enjoyed every moment. I think one of my favorite aspects of the movie is the gay characters are played respectively in this movie without doing the Hollywood thing of making them too promiscuous or them straight out saying "I'm gay". It's just kind of introduced nonchalantly. I really appreciated that. :) Also the mother character!! I was going through so much around the time this movie came out on Netflix and in between this movie and the show "Love is a bonus book" I had a crying marathon with the mother figures in both of these. lol! If you still haven't seen this movie, I definitely recommend it!
@Blue he didn't have an affair with the man. The man was his first love. He left the guy to be with the woman because he wanted to trying to have a normal heterosexual life. There are many man in asia that still do this. He loved her but not in the same way he loved the man that's why he went back to him. It's a good movie. Give it a chance.
@@emmanuelsandoval1870 me too!!! She really was amazing! the all were!
Three gems of taiwanese cinema I have watched
1 - dear ex
2 - your name engraved herein
3 - man in love
Love all three movies.. Great acting, cinematography, music all were fantastic..
Maybe you can go with Dear tenant, that's a great Taiwanese movie as well.
As soon as he lit the cigarette in the guitar scene I knew I was gonna cry a lot😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
Me too 😭
That was a beautiful scene!
Alisha Robinson I didn’t expect that scene at all. It was great!
ME TOO OMG
"my heart is with you, i don't have it anymore" 😭😭😭
I saw the entire movie just with the help of subtitles yet felt each and every emotion , the acting was so authentic, just love this movie.
Impossible not to cry watching this movie 😢
This is the best movie I have seen on netflix so far. I have been trying to find the soundtrack which is amazing and I've had no luck so far. Made me cry in that scene where the old grandma came to see her son with the flowers ,it was so emotional. I love the colors and the vibe of the environment that the movie makes us feel. This movie is a must watch and now I'm trying to find something similar
one of the soundtrack czcams.com/video/i4j8axs9Q1Q/video.html
And here is another one (the background music in the beginning of this trailer) czcams.com/video/H1ZF9lTEi5k/video.html
I cried in that scene too. Such unconditional love! During the whole movie I kept thinking damn this movie is so bleak but that scene really got me good.
I was going to be all exciting and all that about release until I realised that it's been a year and CZcams is suddenly recommending me this only now
SAME! 😅
Dang u made me realise that
Same.
Same here 😂😂
I’m happy because this is in Netflix LatinAmerica, usually they don’t put a lot of Asian movies.
"Llevo tu nombre grabado" es otra película muy buena. Nosotros y ellos también :)
Even a 5 star would be an understatement for what this movie does to you.. at every level. Incredibly well made and performance par excellence!! Discovering this in 2021..
Sad part is All Good Asian movies are underrated uffffffffffff !!!
Just like this masterpiece I recently watched BETTER DAYS (Chinese movie) and i cried like river because everything about that movie is Amazing and was worth my time. Hope whoever reads this gives a shot !
@@Aklmnopqrs „better days” is amazing.
@@enenka7 yes yes
any other masterpiece you can recommend?
@@Alex-qj3wp umm i would suggest Minari, Commitment, Tazza, forgotten, the witch, tune in for love, negotiation, fabricated city!
(Oops seems like many)
I’m simple person, If it’s gay, I watched it.
I will also
Whether it is good or bad series since m a fujoshi
Sameee
Why is this literally me.
Y'all that's so weird don't bring that fujoshi shit here
@@katherineerowele5957 why
Cant i?
M just stating it
Literal translation of this movie is " Who fell in love with him first."
when i watched the trailer i was like "yeah i have to watch that but i just know it's gonna hurt" and i just finished watching it yesterday and let me tell you... this movie is a fucking masterpiece and i cried so much (my eyes are literally kinda puffy rn pls:')) my heart shattered and i just felt so many things during and after the movie. everything about it is beautiful and it's definitely one of the best movies i've ever watched.
@Blue you’re right. I also felt bad for her idk where I said I didn’t feel bad for her??? But everyone was hurting as well so I get where you’re coming from. I don’t know why you’re mad at me like I made the movie but if you just watch it you might understand a lot better.
@Blue I get it. it’s okay
The story is well written, I cried so much. 😭
Already finish this movie and I’ll definetly say Yes to the Main actress. She deserves an oscar and recognition her acting was so amazing and natural
When the mum hit her head with the hairbrush, I thought I was going to burst out crying from that scene alone
A script that was written beautifully + amazing directing + top tier acting. This movie is just a masterpiece.
Phenomenal acting, great score, amazing plot. This movie is the best one I’ve seen for a while
Usually I am not a big fan of Asian movies, but this one really out of this world. Amazing character details and I can't help but fall in love with the mother's character. It made me tear up so much! What a beautiful movie.
1:14 I choked on my fork. WHO IS HE???
Shannon Mc please tell me when you found out....
didifunny95 I will 👍🏾
His name is 邱澤
李沛澐 can’t you romanize it for me?
Shannon Mc his name is roy chiu
Roy chiu the guy is a hidden gem i said that since years but the guy is a just hidden... He is one of the best actors out there... Hope he get casted in more m9vies and drama
i just watched this and cried. i honestly cant think of words how to explain how great it is. just watch the film and learn yourself.
i;m so proud this Taiwainese film!
This is a great movie! Touching story and amazing character development. 10/10 would recommend
I fucking cried like a 14 yr old girl crying over her first break up. That scene with the lover’s mom at the end killed me on the inside and out.
This movie is really good. Not just about gay, but also very deep meaning about family overall. Must watch.
i really appreciate Roy Chiu. He is definitely a skilled Taiwanese actor. I can't wait to see this film.
Yesss!
The heroine's acting is so great. I cried after her the whole time
very few movies make me bawl my eyes out and jump online to rave about how good it is. so glad I watched this
I watched this movie a few days ago, and a sound track is still in my mind
Super good movie, amazing editing!
I didn't expect anything from this film. The acting, cinematography, story, and production are all perfect. This is a must watch!
I just finished watching and didn’t expect tears falling 😭 too much for my poor 💔
I love this movie sm. everyone deals with their grief differently
This film
Is worth watching.
Don’t let the gay theme make you not watch. It’s really good. Am sure many of us can relate. I was used as a beard as well. I knew. I pretended all was okay. Eventually we’re now best of friends and she’s happy😊😊
Oh but actually the gay theme calls me lol. Anyways I think it's worth it, so I can't wait to watch it. :)
The gay theme that will make people watch it
Why should 'the gay theme' hinder anyone from watching it tf? It's 2019 seriously.
I just watched this few days ago and I can say this movie is excellent. The acting, the plot, the setting, the narration - everything's well done. Extra points for the female lead, her acting was superb. I feel like asian can relate even better with this film. I don't see this as those usual try-to-make-you-cry taiwanese film but it moves your emotion.
A masterpiece. Masterpiece. I cried so much, definitely a movie that will forever be in my heart.
This looks fantastic! I really like the lighting and color palate!
Sayak Choudhury welcome to south east asia lol
This movie was really good. The characters, the plot and the actors who portrayed them were amazing.
damn this move is a masterpiece. I literally cried a lot during watching it. Highly recommended!
can you spoil it for me
Just finished from watching this masterpiece, I really loved everything about this movie, from the actors, the plot, the dialogues, cinematography to the colour palette . I really reccomend you guys to watch it, is super amazing and the acting is on point. 😍 10/10
Okokokok!!! This was amazing!!! Like I cried so much...and was so hooked...the main actor "the man lover" is one of the best actors I have ever watched. The eay he ised his eyes... for exemple when he stares at his lover or the memory of him, was so fkn intense. GREAT MOVIE
Jessica Nunzella Same. His eyes says it all! I can’t believe it was all a movie when he was reminiscing
Still one of the best movies out there. 4th time watching and I am still amazed.
This! movie! is! criminally! underrated!
This film is in my top 3 favourite films of all time. I love it so much, it's so good. It's quirky without losing the emotional grit, both sad and funny, edited beautifully, acted beautifully, directed beautifully - I loved everything about it.
What are the other 2 of your favourite movies? Please reply back if possible. I would like to put them in my list.
@@sbal3463 Amélie, which is kind of similar to this one in terms of vibes but the story is quite different and it's French and hetero. And also Donnie Darko, which is completely different but I loved it!
I am in awe of how great tjis mpbie is. The actors were so amazing. They made me feel the emotions that they want to portray. It is complicated, yet universal. 10/10
I'm an idiot for putting this movie off for weeks. Hands down, THE BEST gay home-wrecker movie!!! and their acting skills was just 👌🙌
You should watch you heart engraved herein as well. It's Taiwanese, a gay film and very well acted! I loved it.
Netflix knows how to destroy me and keep me loyally subscribed
This was such a great movie. I am still tearing up as I am writing this. It was beautiful.
Omg I didn't know this movie existed! I know it's Taiwan, but the homey feeling it gives is so nice. Both heart wrenching and beautiful ♥
Magnificient
Captivating when she says..i don't even know too.
I really like the movie as well. I just saw yesterday. It was interesting as the movie progressed how you saw how much love he had for the husband. You went from not being sure of his intentions to see how much you cared for the husband how he sacrificed for him and how he ultimately completed a play in his honor. It did make me cry.
Thanks for the spoiler...😣
@@afoy550 still a good movie you can enjoy. I can't apologize about the comments that I make as you take that chance anytime you read the comments on a film or trailer., but it's still a good film and you might still enjoy it.
Next time, do everyone a favour and start with a spoiler alert.
Like seriously.
I hate people like you.
@@z0ara1 well I can't say I'm liking you too much either.
@@philliprumans753 they have point, you know. You really spoiled a good movie for them. Atleast edit your comment and put a spoiler warning.
I usually non-English movies for the inconvenience of having to read subtitles but then i ended up watching this and i was so moved by it that i couldn't stop telling everyone i know to watch it.
I just love that I was just able to understand every characters motivations, they're not perfect but I was moved by their acting especially the mother and the "step mother". It is really good
since Netflex doesn't have a comment section, I feel like this is the best place to express how tear-jerking the movie was. one of the best. I'm still sobbing right now
absolutely love this movie ♥️😭 Keep up the great work, Netflix!
just watched it. looooved it. Netflix please come up with Asian gems like this
Recién termino de ver ésta joyita. Ah, las lágrimas no se detienen. Excelente historia, elenco, ¡aguante Roy Chiu!. ❤
Glad I stumbled on this trailer, otherwise I'd never find out about this movie. I totally recommend this movie, its touching, well written, you'd sympathize with the characters easily.
Just finished this movie and it’s amazing wow the acting and cinematography was excellent
This movie was perfection. I wanted to watch it again right after finishing it.
Watched it yesterday. It was really good!! (It made my eyes rained heavily)
This was so worth the time ! Watch it and appreciate the lighting, script, character and story ! Grab some tissues you’re gonna need them ;-;
the scene where the mom's crying is making me cry too.. huhuhu
I just watched this and actually it makes me cry because this movie tells the reality , how people easily judge gay people without knowing it first and easily to make a bad assumption to it , how hard to be a gay, all of the insecurities especially to tells the truth and how hard to live to be yourself and be with your partner forever without agony in your life. Which you just want to love and to be loved as human like normal(straight) people do and not just to live on pretending
Well written story with great acting, will surely watch this!
This movie made me really drown with tears 😭😭😭 The actors were on point! Overall a masterpiece!
Just watched the trailer and already I feel so emotionally overwhelmed... I’m definitely gonna watch this film
This movie is so impressive.. i'm crying now..
it's so,,,,, beautiful in it's realness, it never goes overboard, and you're with the characters till the very end, and even after.
Just finished watching it. THAT WAS AN AMAZING MOVIE GODD
I thought it was a comedy movie at first, I think even the IMDb says that the genre is comedy...but there I was crying after the first flashback scene.. loved the movie, loved the Bali whistle song too. It was good to watch a good LGBTQ movie after a long time
So happy to see more Asian films on Netflix! Win!
Acting , soundtrack , costumes everything looks really promising !! Cant wait
This is an amazing movie!
finally a movie worth watchin'