the first doctor was bloody awful, i was going to put in a complaint once i found out that i was pregnant but i also couldn't be bothered / didn't want to waste my time / didn't want the pregnancy to seem negative etc. but honestly, he really did screw me over, i could have been making much healthier choices for myself and the baby from month 2 x
honestly this sounds like an adventure and a half. im so happy that everything worked out for you and you got a result. This is such a helpful video for people everywhere so props on you for making it!! ALSO I've never acc understood the term pregnancy glow till you made this video. You're glowing it's so amazing!!!
honestly i dont remember subscribing to your channel but i have binged your videos after watching this and LOVED THEM! Congrats on the pregnancy, i hope that you and the baby are happy and healthy! xxxx
I can relate I’m currently going through the same thing! We always know our bodies and we’re so correct. Just because the doctors have been educated it shouldn’t make them so closed minded to unusual occurrences. It’s called a Stealth pregnancy/ Cyptic Pregnancy.
That first dr was so crap omg, I’m in shock. I can totally remember you talking on twitter about being like tired and vitamin/iron deficient and stuff. I’m so sorry you had such a time! What an ordeal oh my gosh, I can totally understand why you felt overwhelmed when you first found out. I’m so impressed with how well you seem to have taken such a big shock in your stride! I’m so glad you’re happy and that this has worked out so well for you, you deserve it (and I’m sure Danny does too)
i did! you can check out my twitter or instagram, both yasminjohalx, if you'd like to see any updates but if not then yes i can confirm i had an ok delivery and we are both now healthy and happy :) i'm going to be back filming videos soon regarding the labour/delivery, and just general other videos x
Oh gosh, that sounds like some journey you took to find out you were pregnant! Congratulations, I hope the rest of your pregnancy journey continues to be healthy xx
You should report these doctors! At the very least the first one. Who knows how many other women may benefit from it in the future if they happen to find themselves in the same situation. I fully understand your disappointment and uncertainty in the way you found out and the unexpectedness of it all! I’m so happy that things have worked out, though, and that things are going so well, despite the unexpected circumstances! ❤️
we tried to report it and it didn't work, the surgery didn't care and sided with the doctor saying he did the right thing and couldn't have done anything more. lol! i don't mind too much though, like what's done is done i suppose x
I'm rewatching this while 12 weeks along and I can't believe it! It's incredible that doctors were so dismissive but amazing how it's all turned out. Remy is a gem :)
i know! to be fair i didn't actually know blood pregnancy tests were a thing until after i found out i was pregnant, but if i had known at the time i definitely would have asked for it x
Dr's care these days has become garbage.. Patient's do more research and know more about their symptoms and body than Dr's.. Dr's don't listen and think they know it all..
I’m going through the same thing right now and the doctors keep saying it’s your body getting back to normal. Even though I’ve taken test that we’re faded but with them it was a negative. I would ask them for a ultrasound but the only way they do it is if my pregnancy was confirmed.so I’m going through the same thing body change and nauseous and heartburn was the first thing.
this is so crazy i’ve been feeling pregnant since february and every time i take a test it’s negative, even at the doctor the test was negative and every time i went to doctor for it they would say i am having a vitamin D deficiency!!!
I think I’m pregnant I’m always tired and I’m gaining weight I missed my period and I have a negative test but something just doesn’t feel right. This is completely not normal for me. I’m regularly 133 pounds now I’m close to 145, super energetic, and not usually tired.
wow. it's really shitty that doctors rely on pregnancy tests so much that they won't even perform a check-up themselves even though you clearly had pregnancy symptoms (no period, nausea, low iron? classic!). I understand the tests work on almost everyone but the doctors could still have done an ultrasound just to make sure. I'm sorry you had to find out like that, but at the same time I'm so happy for you both that you look forward to having this baby.
no worries, it doesn't sound too negative. i completely agree! i love our nhs and i'm so grateful for not having to pay much for health care, but god it bloody shows sometimes with the lack of care and attention you actually get when you're in need. blood pregnancy tests are often more accurate than urine ones i believe, so they should've done one of those on me, ideally. pretty sure it would've shown up then. the last doctor, the one who took the positive pregnancy test and felt my tummy etc, had also scheduled me in for an ultrasound, but that was to check my ovaries out i believe, not whether or not i was pregnant. either way, big old shambles. thank you though! x
I actually found out I was pregnant after demanding a ultrasound because tests kept coming up negitive and I said something was wrong for 8 times straight finally they did an ulrasound and found out I was 3 months.
I'm also five months, but i prayed long and hard for this baby, but a lot of people would say on the surface it's not ideal bc the father and i are not married and will never be married so i had relatives tell me i'm going to hell, like what are you talking about, allah swt gave me this baby and i've been tested for it longer and harder than anyone else on the planet and i'm chosen to be his mother bc of who i am and the love i have in my heart and the understanding i have of life because of the quran, i was so scared to tell my dad and he did freak out at first bc he loves me and saw things on the surface like money and marriage, but i finally opened up to him about my feelings and now we're closer than ever and i don't have to do anything to make him happy any longer, so long as i pray and make god happy, the love around me is just growing and growing, hamdulillah, i can't believe it, after all this time being told i couldn't have children, every prayer i feel him kick when i say subhanerabilallah, and i mean it from my soul, we love each other so much
We found out early on but similair to you, soon as we found out it was as if the symptoms just came on just like that. Bonkers isn’t it! Human body is incredible isn’t it 💗 ours is very unplanned too so pretty much winging it!
I’m having a similar situation, this is the third month I have missed my period, ( I’m not irregular and I’ve never missed 3 periods) I’ve taken 5 at home pregnancy tests, and all were negative. I don’t know if I could be pregnant I have had some symptoms for example: nausea with out vomiting, extremely hungry, and swollen breasts. I don’t know what to think should I be worried ?
oh my gosh! very similar sounding symptoms. i would advise getting a pregnancy test at your doctors, via blood test if possible? sometimes it doesn't show up on urine tests but i think it's a lot more reliable using blood tests so maybe try that. or just generally go to your doctors and see if there's anything they can do x
When I was pregnant with my 1st daughter. I suspected I was pregnant. I went to a doctor for a pregnancy test and all she did was feel my stomach and said I wasn't pregnant!! And prescribed me a pill to get my period. I went home and told my best friend that I wasn't pregnant. She's like "no you are pregnant"! So we went to another doctor and he did an actual pregnancy test and it came out positive! Imagine if I would have taken that pill! My daughter wouldn't be here! This was 22 years ago.
I went in to the obgyn and was actually trying to get pregnant. I had horribly irregular periods. I had gone 4 months without a period and still tested negative. They put me on meds to force my period to start, planning to start Clomid after a cycle. And it STILL didn't start and I tested positive at that point. They assured me at that point that the meds they had me on wouldn't affect the baby.
I also found out at 5 months and they did ultrasound thinking I was barely pregnant but having a lot pain thought it was a ectopic pregnancy boy were we wrong it was a full grown baby boy 5 month pregnant I also got negative test life just played us !!
wow this makes me nervous lol... I've put on some weight, boobs are growing, been nauseated quite frequently, not had a period since February (i am on the implant so my periods are usually every other month - this is the longest my period has gone missing since I started on the implant 3 years ago) but all my tests say negative. I'm reeeeeeally not a in a position to have kid rn so I'm really on it however i've just got all these symptoms and no explanation..
ah man that sucks! have you been to the doctors yet? i would just advise keep taking tests every few weeks and see! and definitely try visiting the doctors x
HEY I am actually going through something similar and so I wanted to know if you were having your period while you didnt know you were pregnant. So for those 5 months did your period ever stop?
Congrats! I had a surprise pregnancy at age 20 with a man that I'd been seeing for a few months, and we've now been married for 10 years (and that kiddo will be 10 in a few weeks!). Though lots of bits of our experiences are different of course, I relate to surprise pregnancy and just being pregnant in general, and I wish you and yours all the happiness and smooth transitions and love and pampering that you deserve! I also JUST found your channel (it was mentioned by another feminist youtuber I love, Hannah Witton), and I love all your general channel topics (feminism, pregnancy and baby, lifestyle). Happy pregnancy to you!
i am in the same stage right now..im 4 months delayed but all test came negaltive..everybody said it wlals just due to your thyroid problem,i feel i am pegnant.waiting to halve an ultrasound..hopefully that it eould show something posetive..im in so much stressed now..tnk u i found your video...
i went to a doctor.they said maybe its mayoma..and it made me go blank.. coz my test still goes negative,, but when they check me 1 doctor said it is 16 to 18 weeks.. but the other doctor said all my test came negative.. and they gave me a request for a ultrasound to be sure.. ill have it next week... im positively pregnant..my belly is getting bigger every week..
Being pregnant in the third year of University would be super stressful. It is great your boyfriend was so supportive and I hope your families were as well. Dang, those doctors dropped the ball. BTW you were just meant to have that baby now.
yeah my boyfriend and family were so great i’m very lucky!! i agree, i honestly think it was just meant to be. the circumstances seemed wrong at the time but everything is so right and perfect now x
I’m 46 days late BUT July and August I didn’t have a period. at the end of September I only bleed for 3 days (very light) now I’m 46 days late (lash period was end of September) I’ve taken 4 tests and still negative ☹️
I can't believe they didn't do a blood test for pregnancy?! Don't they do those in the UK? Can't imagine how this uncertainty felt like for you. Well done you for keeping so calm, at least how it comes across... your story sounds too crazy to make up. And you come across as super cool and lovely! 23 weeks!!!!!!!!!!! WOW I'm almost speechless myself!
nope! i didn't know blood tests for pregnancy existed at that point, or i definitely would have asked for one. they should have used their initiative and done one regardless, but i don't mind now, at least i got through it all safe and that :) haha thank you x
I had sex 3 months ago I had my periods but this month its late and I was nauseous for a week had lots of cramps but now it went away. What does this mean?
most people don’t feel the baby kicking very strongly til around 5/6 months so no! i gained a little weight but so do most 20 year olds when they’re at uni haha
thanks! their feelings pretty much reflected mine, so immediately when i was stressed/scared, so were my sisters. but after a few hours when i got excited and started figuring my life out, they started getting hyped too. my mum was just really shocked, which is understandable, but very supportive. i think it all helps that i'm in a very loving relationship, and all my family love danny x
This is what is happening to me. I’m late for my period and have been having symptoms but all my tests are negative. So hopefully I will get a positive sometime soon. Because my boyfriend and I are trying
@@jayelite3399 same same me too ... my fiancé is so worried about me and I’m like well idk what else to do... my blood work was negative too 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@@jayelite3399 right everything is the same for me too... they gave me a shot and prescribed me anti nausea medicine but that’s it! My flow has been regular since I got off my birth control in July of last year ... it was still a little weird in December as it was only 4 days when it’s usually 5 days and it was a day late .... right at the end of the month...
kind of - I was a size 16 at the time so already was fairly chubby, my tummy had changed shape slightly but not necessarily gotten bigger. it was only once I found out I was pregnant that I could kinda see the bump. but around 6 months pregnant was when my bump started growing properly and FAST
First of all Congratulations ❣️ Second of all, everything happens for a reason, the baby was not ready to be revealed in any way, only you knew and felt it. Now you know and confirmed it. Enjoy it, everything will work out as is supposed to. 👏🎉
nope by the end of the pregnancy i has only gained the equivalent of remy’s weight, whereas a lot of women gain tons of extra weight too. my bump was all baby basically. so i gained 10lbs and lost it immediately after i gave birth
Awww that is an awful way to find out! I hate that you were dismissed....you know your body best and Drs should try to listen more to patients and work with them in coming up with a Diagnosis.
i very much agree! even if i wasn't pregnant, they should have tried to figure out what was wrong with me instead of just acting like i was an inconvenience x
i know! we still don't know why it wasn't showing up, my GP just said it could be because i wasn't taking them at the right time of day....? super weird
Yasmin Johal they say that because first morning urine is less diluted. Other times of the day the urine can be diluted and not give a proper test. But that's only really acceptable or reasonable if you are like 4 weeks along and don't have much hcg(Pregnancy hormone) in your body. At 5 months along and a viable child within you, you should have enough hcg in your body to test any time of the day and get a positive whether it's diluted or not.
can’t believe all those doctors were so dismissive of your symptoms, especially the first one.
the first doctor was bloody awful, i was going to put in a complaint once i found out that i was pregnant but i also couldn't be bothered / didn't want to waste my time / didn't want the pregnancy to seem negative etc. but honestly, he really did screw me over, i could have been making much healthier choices for myself and the baby from month 2 x
honestly this sounds like an adventure and a half. im so happy that everything worked out for you and you got a result. This is such a helpful video for people everywhere so props on you for making it!! ALSO I've never acc understood the term pregnancy glow till you made this video. You're glowing it's so amazing!!!
omg thank you x
honestly i dont remember subscribing to your channel but i have binged your videos after watching this and LOVED THEM! Congrats on the pregnancy, i hope that you and the baby are happy and healthy! xxxx
haha that's ok, thanks so much xx
congrats Yasmin!! this is such an amazing story, & you'll make amazing parents x
thank you!
I can relate I’m currently going through the same thing! We always know our bodies and we’re so correct. Just because the doctors have been educated it shouldn’t make them so closed minded to unusual occurrences. It’s called a Stealth pregnancy/ Cyptic Pregnancy.
You mean, "just because the doctors are so uneducated...?"
hope the rest of your pregnancy is as healthy and supportive as possible! sending good wishes!
thank you!
That first dr was so crap omg, I’m in shock.
I can totally remember you talking on twitter about being like tired and vitamin/iron deficient and stuff.
I’m so sorry you had such a time! What an ordeal oh my gosh, I can totally understand why you felt overwhelmed when you first found out.
I’m so impressed with how well you seem to have taken such a big shock in your stride!
I’m so glad you’re happy and that this has worked out so well for you, you deserve it (and I’m sure Danny does too)
i know haha, such a nightmare journey tbh but thank you! glad we're at a stable point now x
wowweee this sounds crazy as heck but I’m so happy for u guys now and wish u luck for the future!! xx
thank u! x
what a journey! glad u guys are doing so well now
thank you!
This was 4 months ago so I hope you had a safe delivery and everything is good with you and your baby ❤❤❤
i did! you can check out my twitter or instagram, both yasminjohalx, if you'd like to see any updates but if not then yes i can confirm i had an ok delivery and we are both now healthy and happy :) i'm going to be back filming videos soon regarding the labour/delivery, and just general other videos x
CONGRATSSSSSS ON YOUR BLESSING!!!!!!!!
THANKS x
Oh gosh, that sounds like some journey you took to find out you were pregnant! Congratulations, I hope the rest of your pregnancy journey continues to be healthy xx
haha it really was! thankfully it's been pretty smooth sailing since we found out. thank you xx
Achey muscles and ligaments are pregnancy symptoms!
omg yas you bloody trooper what a stress
thanks rowan! x
You should report these doctors! At the very least the first one. Who knows how many other women may benefit from it in the future if they happen to find themselves in the same situation.
I fully understand your disappointment and uncertainty in the way you found out and the unexpectedness of it all! I’m so happy that things have worked out, though, and that things are going so well, despite the unexpected circumstances! ❤️
we tried to report it and it didn't work, the surgery didn't care and sided with the doctor saying he did the right thing and couldn't have done anything more. lol! i don't mind too much though, like what's done is done i suppose x
I'm rewatching this while 12 weeks along and I can't believe it! It's incredible that doctors were so dismissive but amazing how it's all turned out. Remy is a gem :)
showing love to you!
This was gripping. I'm glad it's worked out in the end.
haha it felt very long winded but i needed people to know i didn't just ignore my body for six months. thanks mary x
Totally off topic but LOVE your posters and your makeup.
thank you!! most of the film posters are danny's (my partner) but i'll take the makeup compliment x
I don’t understand how no doctors did blood work for pregnancy test! Wow
i know! to be fair i didn't actually know blood pregnancy tests were a thing until after i found out i was pregnant, but if i had known at the time i definitely would have asked for it x
Dr's care these days has become garbage.. Patient's do more research and know more about their symptoms and body than Dr's.. Dr's don't listen and think they know it all..
And he is the cutest lil gorgeous baby ever
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Congratulations
Thank you for sharing I know this was difficult for you STRONG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN . Your truly a trooper ❤️❤️ sending love 💕 🦋
thank you so much!
I’m going through the same thing right now and the doctors keep saying it’s your body getting back to normal. Even though I’ve taken test that we’re faded but with them it was a negative. I would ask them for a ultrasound but the only way they do it is if my pregnancy was confirmed.so I’m going through the same thing body change and nauseous and heartburn was the first thing.
body getting back to normal from what?? just ask for a blood pregnancy test x
Thank You So Much For Sharing This ❤️💖❤️
no worries! glad you liked it x
this is so crazy i’ve been feeling pregnant since february and every time i take a test it’s negative, even at the doctor the test was negative and every time i went to doctor for it they would say i am having a vitamin D deficiency!!!
I think I’m pregnant I’m always tired and I’m gaining weight I missed my period and I have a negative test but something just doesn’t feel right. This is completely not normal for me. I’m regularly 133 pounds now I’m close to 145, super energetic, and not usually tired.
We’re you pregnant?
wow congrats!!
thanks!
Congratulations!
cheers!
wow. it's really shitty that doctors rely on pregnancy tests so much that they won't even perform a check-up themselves even though you clearly had pregnancy symptoms (no period, nausea, low iron? classic!). I understand the tests work on almost everyone but the doctors could still have done an ultrasound just to make sure. I'm sorry you had to find out like that, but at the same time I'm so happy for you both that you look forward to having this baby.
hope this comment doesn't sound too negative, if it does I didn't mean it like that
no worries, it doesn't sound too negative. i completely agree! i love our nhs and i'm so grateful for not having to pay much for health care, but god it bloody shows sometimes with the lack of care and attention you actually get when you're in need. blood pregnancy tests are often more accurate than urine ones i believe, so they should've done one of those on me, ideally. pretty sure it would've shown up then.
the last doctor, the one who took the positive pregnancy test and felt my tummy etc, had also scheduled me in for an ultrasound, but that was to check my ovaries out i believe, not whether or not i was pregnant. either way, big old shambles. thank you though! x
Cornelia Dottir I
I actually found out I was pregnant after demanding a ultrasound because tests kept coming up negitive and I said something was wrong for 8 times straight finally they did an ulrasound and found out I was 3 months.
Ken Kaneki did you take a blood test at all?
I'm also five months, but i prayed long and hard for this baby, but a lot of people would say on the surface it's not ideal bc the father and i are not married and will never be married so i had relatives tell me i'm going to hell, like what are you talking about, allah swt gave me this baby and i've been tested for it longer and harder than anyone else on the planet and i'm chosen to be his mother bc of who i am and the love i have in my heart and the understanding i have of life because of the quran, i was so scared to tell my dad and he did freak out at first bc he loves me and saw things on the surface like money and marriage, but i finally opened up to him about my feelings and now we're closer than ever and i don't have to do anything to make him happy any longer, so long as i pray and make god happy, the love around me is just growing and growing, hamdulillah, i can't believe it, after all this time being told i couldn't have children, every prayer i feel him kick when i say subhanerabilallah, and i mean it from my soul, we love each other so much
amazing so happy for you! hope it all goes well and i'm glad your dad came around x
Faye blessings
Faye Rahman you are so blessed with this baby no matter the circumstances.
Correct spelling. Alhamdhulilah.
Many blessings to you guys
Thanks for sharing! I'm so confused, 3 weeks late and alllll negative tests. But I have symptoms and feel like it! ❤
We found out early on but similair to you, soon as we found out it was as if the symptoms just came on just like that. Bonkers isn’t it! Human body is incredible isn’t it 💗 ours is very unplanned too so pretty much winging it!
Same for me. I got 3 positives two weeks ago and right away more symptoms popped up.
Hey girl! just wondering if you were trying, or if you used any contraceptive methods before?
i wasn’t on the pill or anything no x
I’m having a similar situation, this is the third month I have missed my period, ( I’m not irregular and I’ve never missed 3 periods) I’ve taken 5 at home pregnancy tests, and all were negative. I don’t know if I could be pregnant I have had some symptoms for example: nausea with out vomiting, extremely hungry, and swollen breasts. I don’t know what to think should I be worried ?
oh my gosh! very similar sounding symptoms. i would advise getting a pregnancy test at your doctors, via blood test if possible? sometimes it doesn't show up on urine tests but i think it's a lot more reliable using blood tests so maybe try that. or just generally go to your doctors and see if there's anything they can do x
and good luck! hope you're ok x
Yasmin Johal thank you so much. Will be planning a visit soon
Snow Baby were u?
When I was pregnant with my 1st daughter. I suspected I was pregnant. I went to a doctor for a pregnancy test and all she did was feel my stomach and said I wasn't pregnant!! And prescribed me a pill to get my period. I went home and told my best friend that I wasn't pregnant. She's like "no you are pregnant"! So we went to another doctor and he did an actual pregnancy test and it came out positive! Imagine if I would have taken that pill! My daughter wouldn't be here! This was 22 years ago.
I went in to the obgyn and was actually trying to get pregnant. I had horribly irregular periods. I had gone 4 months without a period and still tested negative. They put me on meds to force my period to start, planning to start Clomid after a cycle. And it STILL didn't start and I tested positive at that point. They assured me at that point that the meds they had me on wouldn't affect the baby.
Home pregnancy test how many days after missed period how many days positive home pregnancy test
is there any movement, hungry , ? weight gain ?
Love your story
I have low iron do that triggered yo hcg level urine and blood pregnancy test ?
I also found out at 5 months and they did ultrasound thinking I was barely pregnant but having a lot pain thought it was a ectopic pregnancy boy were we wrong it was a full grown baby boy 5 month pregnant I also got negative test life just played us !!
wow this makes me nervous lol... I've put on some weight, boobs are growing, been nauseated quite frequently, not had a period since February (i am on the implant so my periods are usually every other month - this is the longest my period has gone missing since I started on the implant 3 years ago) but all my tests say negative. I'm reeeeeeally not a in a position to have kid rn so I'm really on it however i've just got all these symptoms and no explanation..
ah man that sucks! have you been to the doctors yet? i would just advise keep taking tests every few weeks and see! and definitely try visiting the doctors x
HEY I am actually going through something similar and so I wanted to know if you were having your period while you didnt know you were pregnant. So for those 5 months did your period ever stop?
hi! yeah like i said in the video, i didn't have my period the whole time
Congrats! I had a surprise pregnancy at age 20 with a man that I'd been seeing for a few months, and we've now been married for 10 years (and that kiddo will be 10 in a few weeks!). Though lots of bits of our experiences are different of course, I relate to surprise pregnancy and just being pregnant in general, and I wish you and yours all the happiness and smooth transitions and love and pampering that you deserve! I also JUST found your channel (it was mentioned by another feminist youtuber I love, Hannah Witton), and I love all your general channel topics (feminism, pregnancy and baby, lifestyle). Happy pregnancy to you!
ah wonderful! congrats on your happy ten years together, and thank you :)
i am in the same stage right now..im 4 months delayed but all test came negaltive..everybody said it wlals just due to your thyroid problem,i feel i am pegnant.waiting to halve an ultrasound..hopefully that it eould show something posetive..im in so much stressed now..tnk u i found your video...
Did you find out anything?
i went to a doctor.they said maybe its mayoma..and it made me go blank.. coz my test still goes negative,, but when they check me 1 doctor said it is 16 to 18 weeks.. but the other doctor said all my test came negative.. and they gave me a request for a ultrasound to be sure.. ill have it next week... im positively pregnant..my belly is getting bigger every week..
Whats mayoma?? And so you are forsure pregnant? Congrats!!!🙌❤ May you have a healthy rest of your pregnancy!
Were you??
Did you end up pregnant?
Wow God bless you and your baby
Being pregnant in the third year of University would be super stressful. It is great your boyfriend was so supportive and I hope your families were as well. Dang, those doctors dropped the ball. BTW you were just meant to have that baby now.
yeah my boyfriend and family were so great i’m very lucky!! i agree, i honestly think it was just meant to be. the circumstances seemed wrong at the time but everything is so right and perfect now x
I’m 46 days late BUT July and August I didn’t have a period. at the end of September I only bleed for 3 days (very light) now I’m 46 days late (lash period was end of September) I’ve taken 4 tests and still negative ☹️
Megan Mila Rose you should see your doctor and they’ll check for you. Where I live they can do blood tests or exams to look for a baby 🙂
Kennedy Lee I’ve got emergency doctors on Saturday xx
Megan Mila Rose I’m glad! Good luck girl!
Megan Mila Rose what did the doctor say?
If you bled thats counted as a period
I can't believe they didn't do a blood test for pregnancy?! Don't they do those in the UK? Can't imagine how this uncertainty felt like for you. Well done you for keeping so calm, at least how it comes across... your story sounds too crazy to make up. And you come across as super cool and lovely! 23 weeks!!!!!!!!!!! WOW I'm almost speechless myself!
nope! i didn't know blood tests for pregnancy existed at that point, or i definitely would have asked for one. they should have used their initiative and done one regardless, but i don't mind now, at least i got through it all safe and that :)
haha thank you x
I had sex 3 months ago I had my periods but this month its late and I was nauseous for a week had lots of cramps but now it went away. What does this mean?
You are so beautiful ❤️
thank you! that's so kind
So u didn’t gain weight or feel the baby move? Just curious cause that’s when people feel them usually
most people don’t feel the baby kicking very strongly til around 5/6 months so no! i gained a little weight but so do most 20 year olds when they’re at uni haha
Congrats! How did your family take the new?
thanks! their feelings pretty much reflected mine, so immediately when i was stressed/scared, so were my sisters. but after a few hours when i got excited and started figuring my life out, they started getting hyped too.
my mum was just really shocked, which is understandable, but very supportive. i think it all helps that i'm in a very loving relationship, and all my family love danny x
This is what is happening to me. I’m late for my period and have been having symptoms but all my tests are negative. So hopefully I will get a positive sometime soon. Because my boyfriend and I are trying
I’m going through the same thing! negative test but my period is 45 days late
same ... well 42 😳😳😳 uggggg I’m so confused... I have no idea what to do
@@sycoyahmassey9245 I’m so stress! I never missed a period. Took like 10 test all negative
@@sycoyahmassey9245 I even took a test at the doctors office it came back negative
@@jayelite3399 same same me too ... my fiancé is so worried about me and I’m like well idk what else to do... my blood work was negative too 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@@jayelite3399 right everything is the same for me too... they gave me a shot and prescribed me anti nausea medicine but that’s it! My flow has been regular since I got off my birth control in July of last year ... it was still a little weird in December as it was only 4 days when it’s usually 5 days and it was a day late .... right at the end of the month...
Did you get any cramps at all?
nope!
Were you seeing ur period as well??
no, not after the first month x
Coolest accents
cheers!
Didnt your belly show at 5 months?
nope it started showing around 6
I no hw it feel im 29 week n i dont even show n just started new job..:(
I know it’s been years. But can I guess the gender? Was this pregnancy with a boy?
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The doctors dint have a clue
darn! that doctor is not good
Did you not have a bump?
kind of - I was a size 16 at the time so already was fairly chubby, my tummy had changed shape slightly but not necessarily gotten bigger. it was only once I found out I was pregnant that I could kinda see the bump. but around 6 months pregnant was when my bump started growing properly and FAST
First of all Congratulations ❣️
Second of all, everything happens for a reason, the baby was not ready to be revealed in any way, only you knew and felt it. Now you know and confirmed it. Enjoy it, everything will work out as is supposed to. 👏🎉
thank you, this was several years ago and everything has worked out pretty well since! x
How old are you? Nothing against you being pregnant, but it’s just that you seem very young.
21! so not very young really x
In the Uk, underwear = Bra?
yeah bra and pants are both classed as underwear x
Yasmin Johal Hmm didn’t know lol learned something new
Did you gain a bunch of weight? Stay the same? So confused.
nope by the end of the pregnancy i has only gained the equivalent of remy’s weight, whereas a lot of women gain tons of extra weight too. my bump was all baby basically. so i gained 10lbs and lost it immediately after i gave birth
Don't get it, why did your pregnancy test came back negative, like all of them....
not sure!
😮 omg! Evil 👿 doctor!
Awww that is an awful way to find out! I hate that you were dismissed....you know your body best and Drs should try to listen more to patients and work with them in coming up with a Diagnosis.
i very much agree! even if i wasn't pregnant, they should have tried to figure out what was wrong with me instead of just acting like i was an inconvenience x
Missed period, morning sickness, and positive test..... you knew. You said the whole time you knew. ...
So strange like you hear of people not knowing they're pregnant but you took so much tests!!
i know! we still don't know why it wasn't showing up, my GP just said it could be because i wasn't taking them at the right time of day....? super weird
Yasmin Johal they say that because first morning urine is less diluted. Other times of the day the urine can be diluted and not give a proper test. But that's only really acceptable or reasonable if you are like 4 weeks along and don't have much hcg(Pregnancy hormone) in your body. At 5 months along and a viable child within you, you should have enough hcg in your body to test any time of the day and get a positive whether it's diluted or not.
Lol you were six months, pregnancy months are diffrent!