I Don’t Like My Husband Anymore | Paul Friedman

I don’t like my husband anymore.
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[@moonrain85]

I need your help desperately. I don't know who else to ask and your videos are so specific I feel to try here. My husband and I have been together 21 years, 3 children and a 4th on the way. For the past 4-5 years he has gotten so wrapped up in the world and the evils happening and potential wars that he is in seemingly constant fight or flight. He seems to check in with the kids but they know he's not himself and he doesn't check in with me at all. I feel anything in regards to nurturing our marriage is just not priority when there are potentially awful things around the corner. Tonight it was the draft in the Russia. I know how important it is for him as the man to be the protector and to be alert to dangers but while he's looking at the forest, I'm looking at the trees. We have to work, we have to pay bills, grocery shop, tend to the kids needs, clean the house, because of the state he's in again those things aren't priority (except the kids, he makes time for them always and talks and listens) When you think the world's ending or is soon,.you don't care about fixing a doorbell or that you and your wife are doing nothing to connect ( he sleeps on the couch) I am a silver lining person. I try to be hopeful and positive and even find the benefit in what he looks into, but I'm slipping away and becoming more angry, bitter, and resentful. Please pray for us anyone that reads this. I need my husband and my best friend and we're in different worlds right now.

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You might consider the course for women that we offer. Go to the website themarriagefoundation.org/

[@t.shurid2042]

You sound like you love your husband so much ma'am. It sounds like you long for him. The war in Russia is the thing that is putting a strain in your relationship.😢

[@Adrian-ne3dv]

@@TheMarriageFoundation - Maybe the course indeed would be beneficial for this woman - and - her thoughtful comment deserves more of a reply than just a sales pitch. Paul requests that viewers like, subscribe and comment - and here you have a viewer who has poured her heart out and indicated sincere interest in his work. While I realize that the comment section is not the place for a counseling session - perhaps it is a place where a brief but thoughtful, considerate response could be shared.