From Attempted Murder To Naseeha Sessions: Abubakr’s Story || Ramadan With The Mandem
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Who’s crying this podcast don’t tell me the step dad makes appearance
If Abu Bakr ever wrote a biography it should be called One Sajdah
Please do a part 2, would love to see more on how he fixed his relationships with his family member, and also the journey of him becoming more practicing. Jazakallah khair
I’m glad Imran just let Abu Bakr speak without interrupting. Don’t think he said anything apart from asking the first question.
That's how a podcast should be.. if the guest is in flow you don't interrupt.
This is the only episode that made me cry. SubhanAllah never knew the extent of Abubakr's childhood and teenage years, he's truly been through so much and look at him now Allahuma barik. Allah swt tests those He loves. May Allah protect him, preserve him and keep him steadfast. Allahuma Ameeeen.
Ameen ya rabb
I was just thinking how can someone cry from watching someone talk about their own struggles, I've always hated the sound of being a fan of someone but I am a fan of abubakrbut I didn't really get it. I was thinking this person must be a sister, after watching I was proven wrong. 😅
This episode made me cry😭 all i could think of is imagine my kids didn’t have their dad- this is what they would go through to. Honestly in the fickle world we live in we should always try to save our marriages for our children’s sake. These days marriages break over the dumbest things- egos- petty fights. May Allah swt protect us from this and protect our children from this sadness this brother saw and protect our marriages AMEEN summa ameen! 😭💔
there was a lot of pain in this سبحان الله but it’s testament to how Allah سبحانه و تعالى suffices us, no matter what pain we go through. بارك الله فيك
. جزاك اللهُ خيرً.
Brother I was shocked at how Allah guided you considering u said u used to even mock other believers but when u talked about ur mom crying n making sis for you I was like aha it was a mother s dua that got accepted n Allah guided you subhan Allah. We mothers should never give up making dua for our children even those who have gone far astray like this brother
The dua of the mother for her child is honestly something else
other peoples duas might have come trur for him
I would like to take a moment, and appreciate brother imran’s that long silence and let him speak without distracting at all, jazakallah khair. Appreciate it. It was funny when Abu bkr said it was a therapy😂😂 very true but very nice it must have been like that.
So beneficial alhamdulilah
we are all proud of you brother abu baakr. there was so much to learn. and so much to do after hearing your words. pray for me please. May Allah allow me to let go of those burdens too ameen.
Ameen!
This episode has been the best throughout this series, along with Imran's episode with CEOCAST may allah bless you guys
This is a similar upbringing teenagers in england have growing up in regards to peer pressure. Choose your friends wisely and need to learn lessons as we are a generation where parents maybe are first generation and dont really know what goes on. Be a guidance and mentor for your children so they dont feel they need to get involved in these situations growing up. May allah bless this brother and forgive his sins..ameen
Ameen appreciate the dua habibi, may Allah give you the same and more
SubxaanAllah, this episode got me emotional, what a beautiful story!
I didn’t know anything about your past Abubakr, but whenever I’d watch you in previous videos I’ve always had this natural love for you, like you’d gladden my heart, I honestly feel this was from Allah. But after watching this video my compassion and love for you increased. I pray that Allah blesses you and your family and friends and keep you all on the right path and people of jannah.
Ameen, appreciate the kind words
Surah Yusuf 🎯 I felt it when he said it I know exactly what he means & the love imran has for him increased, it always hurts more when you’re with someone that you don’t know has been hurting or what they’ve been carrying around with them & when you do it hurts like words can’t explain. So when you see ppl like Abu bakr the ones that don’t complain much or hide their emotions know that these type of people carry mountains with them everyday & usually are out just fulfilling other people’s needs.
I haven’t watched naseeha sessions for a minute but watch shaheeds, Adam’s & this one & I was reminded to say JazakAllah khyr had it not been for Allah guiding me to this channel a few years ago, I’d still be in the slums with the bums. These relatable stories give me a sign of hope & a nearness, though I’m a women, being an outsider wherever you go is painful, whether it be the hood, family the this the that, but finding your way back to Allah with a stack of wisdom & contentment there’s nothing like it
May Allah keep you all steadfast & may you accomplish to call to Tawheed in your viewers hearts & may your blessing be sacrificed for His cause & His alone, whilst in a state of wellness. Ameen
Ameen ya rabb
Finally, Abu Bakr's turn!!!
May Allah bless him
Allahumma baarik. MashaAllah. May Allah Rabbul lzzah bless you Abubakr....aameen. Please pray my child returns back to me. JazakAllahuhairun
Ameen, will do inshallah, never despair in the power of Allah, He is capable of anything and everything. Some of the most righteous people I know personally had some of the worst pasts, may Allah make it easy for you
@AbubakrTheMusaafir yes indeed, He swt is the most Merciful, most Compassionate. InshaAllah l will never lose hope, hearing your story truly touched and affected us deeply. May Allah Rabbul lzzah bless you and keep you on the right path. Your Mother must be amazing, the duaas she made for you. Yaa Rabb
This was truly truly inspiring! Part 2 please before next رمضان
I could never relate such situations and pain to Abu Bakr. May Allah swt bless you immensely and replace all of the heart ache with blessings and the best
Ameen ya rabb
Allahumma aameen ❤
No matter what our circumstances, Allah is near.
He is so inspiring. I cried with him as he recalled how he made up with his stepdad.
Abu bakr told his story in such a beautiful way. Made me tear up so much
We are proud of you brother Abu Bakr you told your story in a beautiful manner Allahumma baarik.
The change is really inspiring, Allahumma baarik. May people benefit from this!
Allah is sufficient for everyone!
Appreciate that habibi, glad you benefitted
Verily in the remembrance of Allah SWT do hearts find rest
Surah Ar-Ra'd Ayah 28
May Allah SWT grant you two brothers and the team khayr and barakah 🤲🏾 emotional one in which we hopefully take benefits
This one brought tears to my eyes, may Allah bless you
Thank you for sharing your story may Allah bless you it’s we go through all these problems were we don’t think we fit in
Subhanallah this was needed
Wallah I've been emotionally touch in a lot of videos lately... BUT THIS!!! Really, made me feel so emotional ...Makes me look at Abubakr completely different, and made me feel secure about my own flaws... that people can change... Even if you come from real Jahiliya times.. May Allah bless you brother!
Ameen, you’re never too far gone my bro, every sinner has a future and every righteous person has a past don’t forget ❤️
What a message! This story was so beautiful. May Allah grant you both success
Ameen
Are we allowed to expose sins if it’s to try to help others not do it? The other side of the coin is: some sinners may hear this and think “oh look he sinned and he’s ok now. So I can sin for a bit more and then I’ll clean up. There’s still hope”
This isn’t a knock to you brothers. I love you for the sake of Allah
I haven’t even watched it yet but I’m super excited to listen..
Opposite for me. I think these guys are super religious I’m not so I can’t be like them. We were born different. Turns out not the case. Inspire me to change
Yes this is absolutely allowed to share for the intention of helping others scholars agree
I don’t think we are allowed to expose past sins esp if Allah swt hasn’t exposed them, but I think these guys are telling people past stories so they can attract the audience who are watching that they can change and it’s not to late, Allah swt knows best!
@@Humaaxxx This is before they reverted to Allah's obedience, so it is permissible as the Sahabah used to share their life experiences in Jahiliyyah and Allah knows best.
Not allowed to expose sins
SubhanAllah. This was so touching :'(
This was beautiful. Allahuma barik
The brotherhood is beautiful.
May Allah keep the brotherhood strong and reunite you in Jannatul Firdaws
Allahuma’barik to you guys. My mum and dad divorced when I was 6 months old. My mum remarried when I was 12 and I also have two younger siblings from that. I gone through similar situation with my younger siblings dad and when my parents separated. Akh I feel your pain. It’s true when you say that you can see the pain in your mother’s eyes. Alhamdulilah nevertheless.
Imran you have a quality Allahumma Baarik… what a great listener
May Allah bless Abu barak and May Allah be pleased and happy with him ameen. Please do a part 2 !
Mashaa Allah Allah yabarik ❤❤❤❤❤
ramadan with the mandem finale with abu bakr much respect bro
Essence of this name entered in life of our brother. Allah humma baarik.
This was the best one!!!!
Best episode!!!
Akhi I saw you outside seven sisters station we both were in uniforms you gave me sallams and showed good conduct towards me I wish we could have talked even for a few mins.
We are both away from London now may Allah bless you with goodness.
Subhanallah, I don’t quite recall but yes used to be a train driver for TFL, Ameen and you too my bro ❤️
Subhannallah
Interesting to hear.
I have children , may Allah help us
Ameen
This video was truly inspiring. Allah had better plans for our brother Abu bakr. May Allah increase you in goodness.
Ameen wa iyyak habibi ❤️
Allahoemma baarik. What a story.
Really touching.
Assalaamu alaykum warah matulaahe wabarakatu
Subhan Allaah, wallaahe this was inspiring, need part 2 please. May Allaah subhanu wata ala bless bless you all aameen
May Allah never allow him to return to his past and grant him the attainment of His highest paradise. Aameen
Allahuma barik akhi, your story was heart touching! We NEED to hear akhi Imran's now Insha'Allah.
You talk about psychology, I will add that people who have been through trauma like that tend to make religious changes like this. Tends to be from one extreme to another. Except that is extreme evil and deen is extreme khair. May allah bless you.
We need Ali dawah on.
Would love to see Ali on the podcast
1 day in sha Allah
No
@@Fulaan7 🤫
سبحان الله… اللهم بارك يا أبكر
SubhānAllāh
Oh Allah forgive all of our sins and grant us all Jannat al-Firdaus!!!
Allahumma aameen
best podcast ever. Allahuma Barik brothers
You explained my whole life
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Believers are eager to learn from disbelievers when they are amongst us. Its not easy to learn, Sometimes very painful.. but pain makes man think! thoughts makes man wise and wisdom makes life endurable.
May Allah grant Abubakr everything he wants and give him ease on his journey to paradise Ameen
powerful
How u gonna add ur advertisement during this serious conversation 😂 no way is danyone gonna listen straight up forwarding maybe at the beginning or at the end with serious story ❤😂
We want to hear the second part!!!
❤
Some guests and stories have potential to inspire others, In Sha Allah. i like hearing that it's possible for people to turn their life around with the permission and aid of Allah. That being said, there's a lot of exposing of personal sins on this podcast recently. there needs to be a better way to deliver these inspirational messages without directly exposing personal sins/situations
Agree a lot
This is before they reverted to Allah's obedience, so it is permissible and the evidence for it is the fact that the Sahabah shared their own life experiences when they were in Jahiliyyah and Allah knows best.
@@therussianemirati why do we need new examples if we have the sahaba? We should learn from them. If the brother wants to explain issues with being in the UK, that's fine but why do we need to know he specifically was smoking, drinking, robbing people, gambling, sellings drugs or mocking Muslims?
@@therussianemirati During the time of the Sahaba when the Qur’an was still being revealed, Islam was still being completed. We are aware that prior to their acceptance of Islam the Sahaba lived a life of jahiliyyah which was the norm before the message of Islam was revealed, but once they submitted and rulings were being revealed they responded accordingly each time.
They didn’t continue to reveal their sins publicly as Muslims. Also Allah chose them specifically to be an example for our ummah today. There’s hikmah behind us learning that even Umar رضي الله عنه embraced Islam and became one of the most virtuous men of our ummah despite being one of its enemies and plotting to kill the Prophet ﷺ before.
Although it’s well intentioned, discussing your past sins publicly on podcasts to inspire people is not the same. Allah has already given examples for us to follow and learn from in the Qur’an and the Sunnah.
Abu bakr💔💔
“This wasn’t a podcast, this was therapy” 🤣
Don’t make us wait till next ramadhan for part 2 😫
Big up Walthamstow!!!
Imran next!
That's why asking about a potential spouses upbringing is important, if they haven't had therapy then these traumas can effect marriage
Asalamalaikum brothers. I have been in this situation for a while now that's why i am asking for help in this manner. I am a 20 year Muslim who wants to learn Shaafi fiqh but cant find a trustworthy shaafi scholar. Can anyone please tell me of a trustworthy shaafi scholar in Pakistan or otherwise. THANK YOU
أَفَمَن زُیِّنَ لَهُۥ سُوۤءُ عَمَلِهِۦ فَرَءَاهُ حَسَنࣰاۖ فَإِنَّ ٱللَّهَ یُضِلُّ مَن یَشَاۤءُ وَیَهۡدِی مَن یَشَاۤءُۖ فَلَا تَذۡهَبۡ نَفۡسُكَ عَلَیۡهِمۡ حَسَرَ ٰتٍۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ عَلِیمُۢ بِمَا یَصۡنَعُونَ﴿ ٨ ﴾
“What about those whose evil deeds are made alluring to them so that they think they are good? God leaves whoever He will to stray and guides whoever He will. [Prophet], do not waste your soul away with regret for them: God knows exactly what they do.”
Fāṭir, Ayah 8
Who is this new editor
It is heartbreaking to listen to this brother.Divorce should not be as easy as it is in Islam .
And there is a lot of youth like that without father or with stepfather.
Look what it does to children.
Why man needs to have second or third wife but not care wellbeing of children
For alghorithm
The guest speaking too fast..im sorry to say v hard to understandhis accent ...i cant connect his sentences...jazak Allah kher to him for sharing his story
How is going to the cinema haram?
Trying to get that Ramadan drama to get those views, nice. GTA Dawah vibes.
Stop hating
@@Immortalus98 No hate, I love the channel and the brothers. Just the beginning part is funny.
Why is there need to expose sins when its between him n god
But now whole world irony
Stop hating
This is before they reverted to Allah's obedience, so it is permissible and the evidence for it is the fact that the Sahabah shared their own life experiences when they were in Jahiliyyah and Allah knows best.
@@therussianemirati we have their examples to learn from. The hadith tells people not to disclose their sins
Don't expose your sins like this. You can refer without being detailed.
agreed
He wasn’t Muslim while he was doing these things.
السلام عليكم
Ikhwa after watching the whole podcast, I, personally didn't take a single benefit from you talking about your specific sins publicly. You could of still gotten the same point across by merely saying I sinned instead of going into detail like that
الله اعلم
The hate they are getting from you guys is mind boggling, i personally can relate with him 100% and sometimes one needs to just let everything out, but it seems like many people are just being hateful for no reason
@@al-albani6582 "letting everything out" isn't an excuse to expose all your deepest sins publicly. hadith warns against exposing your sins
@@al-albani6582it's not hate it's advice. It's haram to expose sins and the ends don't justify the means.
Get up and give your friend a hug mate or a tissue at least 😅
Dear brother, Allah covered your sins, dont expose them to the world. Its just an advise from a brother.
the sahaba used to talk about their sins they commited in the past. There's nothing wrong with this if it is done as a reminder for the muslims.
brother it’s a reminder he’s not glorifying his sins by any means
I was in a halaqa of the Sheikh Ruhaily and he talked about this. He said do not expose your sins even when u see it can help others. These are not my words but the words of a known scholar.
Yeah this is an issue it's haram to use haram means
@@bijlmythey are talking about something from the past that they don’t do anymore. Not a sin that they’re still committing.