STORY TIME: How We Met | An Indian & Nigerian Love Story (Part 1)
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- čas přidán 11. 09. 2024
- Hey guys! In this video, we share our unique interracial blindian love story. From our first days in university till the life-changing decisions that brought us on the same path - we reflect on the journey that got us to where we are now.
Connect with us on Instagram:
Chennai to Lagos: / chennaitola. .
Kalpa: / kalppzz
Tomide: / tomideakinyemi
Music: Original composition by Tòmídé
This guy is not only cute and handsome, but also wellmannered and respectful. I totally think you have made a good choice.
He is so handsome
Yup
@@cartoon4191 Yeah her comment meant that only .
Yes he looks pakka gentleman and smart
Who said he is not cute😒 ...he is such damm cute...😍😘
You guys are beautiful together 🥰.
I am also Indian. I am married to a Nigerian man, we have four children together and live in UK London.
Wow! How amazing. Regards to the fam 😊
@@ChennaitoLagos ,
Lucky you guys, I am in the UK too but my experience has been totally different. Still looking through.
@@VWApachey I know it can be hard here at times to mix. You'll find the one... best of luck, perseverance and positivity !
@@sweetlifenzekwe4141, thanks a lot. I appreciate it. I have 2 friends that dated Asian women but their girlfriends couldn't take them home or marry them. I had a Sri Lankan girlfriend and her Father told me that he only wanted his daughter to be with a Sri Lankan. Oh well.
An Indian here. I love them both. So respectful and well spoken.
The way he looks at her with so much love and grace wow❤️
I don't know how I got here or why youtube recommended this to me, but I am so invested in your story 😂😂😂😂. You two are both so beautiful to look at as well!! - Love, a fellow Nigerian!!
I think CZcams really do well with this 'recommendations' . I also landed here by chance and loved them❤
Same here I open this video by chance
Me too
Tom is spiritually brought up, younger people may learn from him how to be reverent to God.
Exactly
I like the way Tom pay attention to Kalpa when she talked. Wishing them longevity. Always put God first, family second. 🙏🏿🙏🏿
Quick story: 2009 i arrived in England to study my undergraduate degree. I met this pretty punjabi girl studying dentistry. We fell for each other hard and begun dating. We lasted almost 2 years until i had to let her go because of the underlying high risk of her parents disowning her if thye found out about me. You see, i am black. I realised that she loved her family so much and I couldn't bear the guilt of having her chose me over her family. Moreover, we were only in our early 20's - what did we know about love and life. This was 7 years ago.
She is married to someone now and i recall that her husband is the kind of guy that ticks all the boxes - just not hers but her parents.
I think about her from time to time.
Great video and wish you both luck!
Thanks for sharing your story with us. It’s because of stories like yours we are encouraged to keep putting content out.
We’re hopeful a day will come when couples like us won’t have their journey’s abruptly interrupted. We’re hopeful a day will come when blindian love stories can see the full light of day.
We wish you nothing but happiness down the road. May God give you an abundance of the love you lost.
Exactly I just commented about the inherent obstacles dating ladies from their community. Funny enough i never knew east asian ladies were attracted to black men at all. I knew of a Nigerian guy dating one them discreetly, obviously during those more conservative times when I used to work with the post office in London in the 90's.
Awww sad I’m also Indian and fell in love with a black man but couldn’t take him home to meet my parents
I have the same exact story as yours except I'm Arab she was Punjabi had to let her go for the same exact reason.. dated her for 4 years.. she still crosses my mind every now and then..
@@anitasimeon9000 yeah i am a Nigerian woman and wouldn't even try to date an Indian person because of the culture clash. A Pakistani woman tried to get me to marry her son so i dont think they are as strict about it. I sad no of course lol
Kenya gave birth to this beautiful thing called love...that's amazing,may your marriage be blessed and protected by God....We love you all the way from Kenya 😘
their accents are 90% kenyan especially the girl. Beautiful couple. they're going to have most beautiful kids. congratulations. me too went to USIU but fail then quit now hustler. pbhooo! hoo!
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I'm from South Africa and my husband is from India. We get so much heat from his family😢🇮🇳🇿🇦 I'm so happy I can relate to you guys
Sorry to hear that 🙁. We hope through our content we can play a little role in spreading more awareness so relationships like ours can be normalized.
Indians r like that they preferred whites dont ever visit india as a blak person
Get away from that toxicity...don't fight to be liked or accepted by haters!
Be careful and watch your back sweetie
His family can come after you with violence
Yekana lokufeba nawe. Buyela ekhaya sisi.
This is definitely an act of God. I pray that this friendship and love continue to blossom. Always seek the same God that binded you together, in every area of your lives. May the blessings and favour of God run you down light a river.
Amen and amen! Thank you ❤️
Bro, she's very beautiful please take good care of her.
I told youtube to add the second LIKE button but unfortunately they didn't.
Now I have to press the same button several times until I express how big is my love for this couple🤔
When people say the stars align for two people to meet and fall in love, I think these two encapsulate that aphorism.
So true Sir.
Only God.
Why all this big grammar 🤔
rene dictionary is there for who don't understand. A short sentence with one word that might me unknown to many but the love for reading helps us to expand our vocabulary
@@sharmayeastmond4656 thank you prof.
Simply put. GOD brought you two together and nothing was going to be an obstacle. This is divine and it's miraculous.
A lovely story . When you give your desires to God Almighty,,he absolutely makes the way . Amen .
Just by watching them, ikr they’re a very peaceful and calm couple.
Exactly
They first fell in love with each other's minds before the other... good foundation
I accidently saw ur video and now am so much addicted ..u guys are the best ..godd yall are stealing my heart❤❤
Tomide and Kalpaaaa!!! How come no one told me about this channel??? 😡. This is sooo nice. For someone who knew the story from start to finish I was still totally awed!! Congrats again guys 😘😘😘😘
I love how she looks at him. Yes the stars were aligned.
Both of them how they look at each other
You guys are so beautiful together, nice to hear your story! we have similar story as well. well done!
Thank you so much! 🤗
I love you guys Ram and pie
Hey Ram and pie I found you channel yesterday it was recommended and I already watched so many of your videos.
@@monas Thank you!
For once I want to thank CZcams for recommending this channel to me🤗
I'm an Indian, I've been to both Kenya and Nigeria
You guys are a cute couple 👋✌
The CZcams algorithm works now , you can definitely reach more people, comming soon guys , love you lots ❤️, from Chennai 😍
I have been smiling all through listening to your story. you seem to have a very strong chemistry. God bless
Oh you guys are so articulate. Just love, love the way you interact. No one talking over each other both sooo respectful of each other as you patiently wait for each other to finish speaking with such grace. Thanks really enjoyed this chat.💯💯👍👍
We didn't even know we do that haha. Thanks for pointing out what you saw 😊
thats true. the flow the respect fr each other
articulate? What does that even mean? LOL
@@fredrickaboge4643 Do a Google search or go grab a dictionary. 🤔🤔 BYE FELICIA 😩😩😩
I wish to see much of India and Africa in union like this. Well done.
God bless you. India and Nigeria. Africa is the continent.
@@ritabridgethunter7932 who cares its all black anyway, that's what anyone means
Lovely couple. I must say... The boy really loves her very much. He's so cool and respectful to her. Nice.
This couple is conversant and speaks good English..their story makes a lot of sense.
When God writes your love story. He directed your paths to meet each other 💕💕
Your meeting was God ordained. Aren’t you both just happy fate brought you together. You are both beautiful beings of Light.
I can't wait to see your story as grand parents... Indians are very difficult people in dating people from other color n country..But thank God the world is changing..Good luck
I'm here for nerds falling for each other 🤓❤
You know it!
I love both of your energies. You can tell you have both come from good backgrounds
You look amazing together. Kalpa, Tom, may the Lord bless your union 🥰
so happy for you guys lots of love from Indian girl married to Greek.
Glad you guys were recommended to me, love your energy and pray you continue to grow together. You are such a stunning couple with beautiful individual spirits.
This Indian girl is so lucky and she will enjoy every moment happy with him
You guys are adorable couple much love from your 🇳🇬 brother ✊🏾
God has already joined you guys together even when you guys never know each other, Imagine how you guys first met each other? Staring at each other's ❤️❤️🔥
Okay guys...somehow CZcams recommended your channel to me yesterday...I've voraciously run through all of your videos...I need more! You are a great couple! You are a representation of God's Love. You are blessed!
She studied in my country usiu university in nairobi comrads piteni na likes hapa wakenya 😉😍congrats guys
Yaaass! We both studied in usiu actually 🇰🇪
Wangoi tumenote her English good Kenya my beautiful country I'm proud of her.
Am a Nigerian u two look good together.
Woooi lots of love from ma noble country 🇰🇪
@@rosemadungu577 nakwambia
just found you guys and i'm binge watching your videos. I love your story. I love how calm both of you are. Very soothing
I don't know how I'm just seeing this, wawuuuuuuuuu, I'm inspired, marriage is indeed a beautiful when you find the right person.
Beautiful love story. ❤ You guys are truly meant for each other. May you two last forever.
You are such a peaceful couple have connected with you guys even if this is the first time watching you ..I love you already ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Take pictures of your events, places and activities. It will add credits, creativity and fun to your videos.
Those two are beautiful with great accent just meet them but can't get over them speaking and looking at each another
Sweet couple India meets Africa.....keep up Africa would like to see more & more sweet couples like this one.....🌹🎉🌹
There are ALOT of couples like this in the British Carribean, ALOT from Trinidad to Guyana.
Shout out to Sam and Anita, bless up for setting this up 🙏🏾🙏🏾
God's workers 😁
Absolutely
God bless you both. Very good love story. Don't regret not being able to come to Canada. God will bless you right there in Kenya. I lived in Kenya for about 4 years and now leaving somewhere here. I love mama africa and missed it so much.
You both look honest and trust in each other which is very important in in relationship. You both have TV personalities. Wish you all the best in life
God 🙏 bless you
They are both cool/calm with GOD fearing mind
May The Good GOD Continue To Be with you All in the journey In Jesus Name AMEN!!!
I like to see this cross cultural love. We are all marinated people. Bless ❤
Wow never knew Indian ladies like African men ! What a beautiful couple. 👌👍👊
Women all over the world find black men attractive.
Now you know 😄
this is one we are seeing from the 1% whose family let them fall in love
@THE ZOLDICS ma bad🤭🤭 forgot they are in billions so 1% is too big. she is probably a kenyan or ugandan indian😂
we have them in Uganda but apart from doing business with us socially they hardly mix with us
So so happy for both of you ❤️is a wonderful thing🥰
All people need to go to the Caribbean these relationships are so common place no one thinks anything of them.
In 🇯🇲Jamaica no one blinks an eye eg my Grandparents were married in 1935 my grandfather was Irish & black and my grandmother Indian they were married for 65 years. These relationships are very common place.
Match made in heaven👏👏
Really!
Woow you guys are such a good story tellers !!! It was so beautiful listening to you two, you are meant for each other !!! 💓💓💓💓 keep doing great guys !👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Thanks! We didn't know we were good at this haha
He is so Handsome 😍
Sad,he is already taken
Love this couple ❤
@@Bhandarikame mai to bramhacharini hun abhi 2 n 1/2 years keliye....Prabhu apke Kripa pane keliye abhi thoda wait karna padega ...abhi apka ashirbad chahiye hume age life mai safal hone keliye....namaskaram Prabhu 🙏
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@@monalishanaik8192 apney comments dlt kar do. Devi, meiney kar diye😒
@@monalishanaik8192 in addition to that we r good at bed than any other race 😉😉
Namaste wahala brought me here again. Amazing love story. Tominde has such a strong kenyan accent which I find interesting
Really! He speaks just like a Nigerian
@@chinenyeodozi7677 Nope... definitely Kenya .accent. He must have lived in Kenya for long.
@@chinenyeodozi7677yeeeh he does speak like a Kenyan..
God bless you both. And I love you guys...my children will definitely learn a lot from this. I wish you well and look forward to more videos and your wedding.
Wow, to trust our videos to your children is something! Thank you 😊
@@ChennaitoLagosAnd why not? My eldest at 30 could find this useful and the siblings too
You two are so good looking and have such soothing voices lol 😆 god bless
I love the way he looks at her
Beautiful story guys. Well put together and love how you respect each other in the way you talk. I have see so many vlog of couples first meeting but I have to say this is the best. Stay happy and god bless
It is so great that this couple talks a lot. This is so good for the relationship.
I love all the culture, intellect, and all that melanin in the Vlog. Simply Beautiful!!!
🤣🤣Never heard a compliment put that way. Being Indian, we take melanin for granted 🤗.
For the first time I have seen an Indian - Nigerian couple... You guys are too adorable... Love from Sri Lanka...
Regards
Anita
You both are meant for each other.
Stay blessed...❤️ from India.
❤️❤️❤️❤️ from Kenya. Love the Kenyan accents btw
You guys a wonderful together. Do you guys know God or believe in Him. Your meeting was of God. Give Him the praise.
So proud of you two, talking about breaking cultural barriers! You two were made in heaven and I am so proud to see that you have broken the ceiling. I can resonate with your story!
Thanks Charles, that was the goal of us starting youtube and to hear this says we are doing something right 😊
Things didn't work out for you both because you were ment to be !! You wouldn't have see each other had things worked out for one of you... Great love story.
Wooow....I really love watching you guys...I was listening and creating a C2L movie in my head .👏👏
I ran across your vlog Saturday Night accidentally and binged watched your vlog till Sunday afternoon. Your story seems like a movie and I suggest that you write it and sell it before someone else does. I'm a writer and would never steal another's story. People enjoy love stories with a happy ending. Your story is very spiritual and has a lot of substance which makes it a great story. You've all ready written it, all you have to do is copy it off of your vlog and copyright it. As your vlog gets larger your story will become more marketable.
You are so right!
We have talked copyrighting it and now that you too have brought it up - it is another reason why we need to do it. Thanks for caring and giving us your two sense on it. We appreciate you 😊
I disagree with you when you stated people should not marry because a person is of a different ethnicity. A person cannot help what ethnicity they find attractive or why. I'm attracted to Asian and white women and there is nothing wrong with this. This does not mean I want to become involved with the first Asian or White woman I meet or have a chance to date. Attraction is about variety and variety is the spice of life. However, there has to be a spiritual connection as well and mutual goals, but beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. We all have preferences some people prefer tulips to all other flowers. There is nothing wrong with that. I love reading and watching interracial relationships, does this make me a weird because I have no interest in watching relationships of the same ethnicity?
Where we seem to differ is that I see one race of many different ethnicities. I see flowers as a race and roses, tulips, daffodils, lilies and other flowers as simply ethnicities of flowers and we all have our favorites. Interracial relationships makes the most beautiful children to me it's a message from God that means pick what you like you can't go wrong. In fact, I see nothing wrong with a women using looks as "one" of her prerequisites when deciding a man to marry. If you both were not attracted to each other I think your relationship would have stopped at friendship. You all are going to have some really attractive children. I am a deep thinker, but at times there is nothing wrong with being shallow. We should not be overtly serious at all times or we miss out on beauty.
I was just watching Paul and Morgan video and now I am here 😅 .Nice story 👍
They are a beautiful couple. Their kids will be so beautiful. ❤❤❤
both have this cool and calming voice
Such a beautiful story! Both very good looking and articulate. Love brewed in my motherland Kenya! Wow!
Wow, lovely lovely I was glued to my laptop watching you two love birds till the end. Stay blessed!
Seen many Indian ladies that I studied with and liked but never went because I thought they didn't like black people, thanks for opening my eyes
IT IS NOT A MATTER OF SHOWING HIM THAT U THOUGHT OF HIM LIKE THAT, IT IS THE NIGERIAN CONFIDENCE, WHEN A NIGERIAN GUY SEES A PRETTY GIRL THAT HE LIKES HE MOVES, NO TIME WASTING TO BLAH BLAH
Fact that's us Lol 😂😅😆😆😎👌. I once worked with a stunning Bangladeshi lady in London quite friendly and chatty lady and she drop a bomb on me that her fiance is Nigerian 😲. I almost jump out of my chair in the office like how did my Naija Bro pull this off Lol 😂😂😂😆. Either he native jazz was potent or he is the slickest smooth charming guy in London that made her heart melt for him 😆. The reason I was baffled is because they are a conservative community and tend to stick to love n marriage within their own community.
This is an interesring story of you both. What an understating & maturity. God bless you both. Love frm Malaysia.
*Really so beautiful couple love from Dubai* 👩🍳😍
He is having good smile.he must be a good hearted person. Very cute.all the best.
There something gentle about Kalpa. I could listen to you all day...💖
Edit: Ok. Both of u...💖💖😁
Edit.edit: listening to this, I now believe that what you said in your vows is true. Not just some made up stuff to fill in the space. I now believe in love...❤️❤️
Really you are perfect couple both good looking and professionals….She’s fluent in English the way she’s talking like American and her husband too kind and very good man.
Thats why he has an East African accent. So cool!!!! Ugandan here
He doesn't have an East African Accent 🤔🤔🤔🤔. East Africans don't speak that way lol..
@@meilyn22 I am Ugandan. What do we sound like?
@@junenye Museveni 🤔🤔🤔
@@meilyn22 he definitely sounds like a nairobian. so does she, a bit
@@meilyn22 😂😂😂 I see. Yes I should have said one of many
Wow! Fantastic! I also recently shot a HOW WE MET story with my British wife in the UK 🥰
How I see it it's like God brought you two together 🥰🥰🥰❤️
They are such a good looking couple
Loved the video and the way it is presented. Great conversation!! 👌❤👏
I am Tamilan I congratulate you to a wonderful life வாழ்த்துக்கள் அக்கா
You guys made me watch the movie. I am fascinated and blessed by your story. 💕
I love the connection you guys have. You are really meant to be.
Such a beautiful and articulate couple 💑
You guys are just made for each other and can see you guys are living in heaven stay blessed where ever you guys come from India or Kenya both of you are god's children
Wow so sweet and pleasant couple💝 I'm married an Indian TN man, living gracefully here in Chennai. Couldn't leave this video in the middle..My pressure cooker is calling me urgently right now 🤣🤣👍👍
You guys are beautiful. Funny I was also a contestant🙈🙈
Thanks! Yassss!
True souls always both of respect &mannerful persons &made for each other blessing couple always ❤️✌️
I've always said that Nigeria is Africas India. The people are actually very much alike. A lot of similarities regarding how important education is to them, how hard working they are, how creative they are as immigrants, I could go on and on.
This love story can be put into a thrilling movie... Love you both.
They had such a recipe of a movie but Bollywood did not support it, Nigeria either so it flunked, bombed.