Wow Benjamin, I needed this. Grew up without my Father, met him at age 21. Had no picture and nothing to give me an idea of what he looked like, to make matters worse, my Mother came to her Mother's relatives from another country, had no citizen rights, had no place to house us. So for the most part of our young life, we were moving from one Relative's house to another until we were taken in by my Mother's Uncle, who also ill-treated us, his Wife called us Bastards, reminded us that we would not amount to anything in life. I know the pain of not belonging anywhere but have learned to forgive all these authority figures. That's it's nothing personal. People do whatever they do with the little information they have under whatever circumstances. It took me a very long time but I now perceive my Parents to be human first, fact that they have personal/secret battles they are facing, things I know nothing about. Goes back to what you always reiterate on, a Woman must secure herself first, have education, finances and back up plan to fall back on and be in a position to can take care of themselves and their children should marriages not work.
Benjamin thank you for being intune with our African and Kenyan situation. Its one thing to hear from coaches from other places in the world but when the language connects to our home setups it really speaks to us. Thank you for doing your work exceptionally. It is unique, impactful and timely. Shukran and more grace to you
You have really describe me. Grow up with a totally absent father. Started marriage immediately after college. Married a physically present husband and emotionally absent husband and father. Now am just stuck. Personal help and advice needed.
Wow Benjamin, I needed this. Grew up without my Father, met him at age 21. Had no picture and nothing to give me an idea of what he looked like, to make matters worse, my Mother came to her Mother's relatives from another country, had no citizen rights, had no place to house us. So for the most part of our young life, we were moving from one Relative's house to another until we were taken in by my Mother's Uncle, who also ill-treated us, his Wife called us Bastards, reminded us that we would not amount to anything in life. I know the pain of not belonging anywhere but have learned to forgive all these authority figures. That's it's nothing personal. People do whatever they do with the little information they have under whatever circumstances. It took me a very long time but I now perceive my Parents to be human first, fact that they have personal/secret battles they are facing, things I know nothing about. Goes back to what you always reiterate on, a Woman must secure herself first, have education, finances and back up plan to fall back on and be in a position to can take care of themselves and their children should marriages not work.
Am just 20years..and knowing this now ...is a paveway to greatness😊thanks zulu
Benjamin thank you for being intune with our African and Kenyan situation. Its one thing to hear from coaches from other places in the world but when the language connects to our home setups it really speaks to us. Thank you for doing your work exceptionally. It is unique, impactful and timely. Shukran and more grace to you
Thank you Sir. Next time please talk about step Dads to boys and how to make the relationship great! I know it's possible. God bless you.
This world has energies 🙄,I felt that..
Wow! This is what we all need healing from our past wounds.Thanks for saving generation.
You have really describe me. Grow up with a totally absent father.
Started marriage immediately after college.
Married a physically present husband and emotionally absent husband and father.
Now am just stuck. Personal help and advice needed.
Moi Shadrack! Wewe unakuwanga funny funny tu! 😂😂😂
Where have you been all the time Benjamin?
Yes some Human beings behave like animals..some animals are even better.
When your are sick and your sickness is normal to you. Oh dear the level of sickness outhere and we think its normal.
Wow that's very powerful
BLESSINGS MAHN
Shut up and listen!
Thanks Benjamin Zulu.
Thank you Mr Zulu
Where did Bramwell go?
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Professional single mother 🤣🤣🤣