ഒരു പ്രശ്നവുമില്ലെങ്കിൽ പിന്നെ എന്തിന്...? Gauthami Nair Part-1 |
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- čas přidán 28. 07. 2024
- About our guest :
Gauthami Nair is a Neuroscientist, Indian actor and director who is associated with Malayalam films. She made her silver screen debut in the 2012 movie Second Show opposite Dulqar Salman. Her second film was Diamond Necklace in Malayalam, in which she starred with Fahad Faasil and Samvrutha Sunil, as a nurse. She won the Filmfare Award for Best Supporting Actress - Malayalam for Diamond Necklace. Her role as a Tamil girl in the film was very much appreciated. She later married film-maker Srinath Rajendran in 2017. She recently made a comeback with the Manju Warrier movie Meri Awaz Suno, in which she played the role of RJ.
She has continued pursuing the education all along in are of psychology. She has studied MSc Clinical Psychology at the Women’s College in Thiruvananthapuram. She is currently working at the Sree Chitra Hospital in Thiruvananthapuram as a research fellow in the area of Neuroscience.
In this two part conversation, Gauthami shares her thoughts on the major decisons like Divorce that she had to take in the recent past. She shares how every divorce need not be difficult and devoid of respect. She shares her reason for her separation. She states why it is important for women to marry late. She shares her difficulty with ADHD, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder and how growing up focusing on a task has been mighty difficult. She shares many valuable ideas that could help with mental health awareness. She shares how she deals with anxiety and the recurring thoughts that invade her mind. This conversation shares a lot of valuable insights on mental health struggles that all of us go through. As a clinical psychologist herself she shares why therapy is so important and can help us navigate difficult situations in life. She talks about how she motivates herself even when things are rough for her.
This is an episode that can inspire each one of us to be a better human and be kinder to other people, because we don`t know what they are going through.
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Pls watch the video and do share and subscribe to the channel...do remember to leave a like ..thanks so much
Mam plz invite bhavana...
Can you please find someone who have more to say about NPD and other psychological topics...
I believe it will help lot of your viewers , people like me are having a very difficult time in going through this awkward situation , I'm unable to convince others about my situation because they don't know what is NPD and how the abuser makes you a puppet for his/her play 😔
Avarude personal matters share cheyan thathparyamilla enn paranjittum , ningal irritate cheyunnathu.
Somewhere the interviewer tried to invad the boundaries , but Goutami managed to be on her grounds.
If more people talk about these things we will get to know the values of keeping our boundaries 👍🤠
Life is all about learning how vulnerable we all are in a situation that we don't expect in our life , some people will make narrow escape for such situations, some people will learn their mistakes and re write their paths 🌱
30's നോട് അടുക്കുമ്പോളാണ് ജീവിതത്തെ പറ്റി ഒരു ക്ലാരിറ്റി കിട്ടുന്നത്.... Just awesome. I wanna show this to those people who blamed me of getting married at my 30's. Nailed it!👏🏻
നിങ്ങൾ പറഞ്ഞത് കിറുകൃത്യം 😊
Truth
True
sathyamanu
The idea about life keeps changing every 10 years, as long as your situations are changing. Marrying in 30's means struggling to raise your children till mid 50's. That's too difficult. Instead, get married and have kids(if you wish to) between 25-30. You will be almost free of responsibilities towards 50. God willing, there is a scope for peaceful retirement life.
This advice is based on my personal experience. I pursued studies and concentrated in career till 30, while my sister got married after her master's. Now, in my forties, I am still struggling with two small kids (10 & 6) while my sister's kids are in college. She spends her forties much more effortlessly. Of course, her career suffered. So, there are merits and demerits for both these choices.
12.20 to 12.40 💯 സത്യമാണ്. 30s നോട് അടുക്കുമ്പോഴാണ് ജീവിതത്തെ പറ്റി ഒരു ക്ലാരിട്ടി കിട്ടുന്നത്. Generalise ചെയ്തതല്ല. പക്ഷേ എനിക്ക് അങ്ങനെ ആയിരുന്നു
Sathyam
Sooo true
Very true
very true ❤
Such A Lovely Interview.. You are so warm.. Everyone should get a friend Like Gautami💖 Wish to see you more in Cinema... Also my favrt is you in diamond necklace...
You are doing great work Dhanya. A very stigma ayitila karyam, you were able to make comfortable from most of all celebrities to talk about their mental health problem, and make us all aware it's not a big deal , most of all great personalities are dealing with these kind issues in their personal life. It gives confidence to normal people tht it s not a disease and anyone can go through this. And we are getting tops also how to deal with .
You are a gem 💎. Keep doing great things, inspire people ❤️
I like the way you choose the guests❤️❤️after watching every episode, there is something that I need and try to learn from them 😇😇
She is my senior. She is very kind and lovable. She is very intelligent too...
Multi-faceted personality. Good to see the different sides of Gautami
Supriya, Guatami..... expecting more such personalities in the new episodes...
They are really an inspiration for those who are going through a similar situation.. ❤❤❤
Thanks DV..
Brilliant conversation. What Gautami said is TRUE, people doesn't know what's going on in ones house , yet people tend to judge and assume.
Gauthami❤️❤️❤️ I was completely able to relate with your thoughts 😘😘😘 you are an amazing soul and have clarity on your words
Most couples are not compatible , many of them still compromise and live together because of many reasons , from child to society etc by sacrificing their lives and happiness. Only bold could come out… congratulations for listening to your inner self Gauthami!
Such a thought provoking perspective ,you need to regulate ur emotions first to be therapist. So true may be not only as a therapist also as a human ,so deep perspectives ! A beautiful conversation!!
Thanks so much.do share and support
I totally agree with gauthami s views. I married at 28 but still i feel if i was given more time i would have been happier.yes 28 is old but may be i did not have the emotional maturity of a 28 year old. However there are girls who are 23 who get married and take forward their marital life so beautifully so I feel it's not about the age but about the person, the circumstances and so many factors . Being forced to marry /make a decision just because your parents are getting old is wrong .
Ive seen plenty of 23 year olds who are happily married as well, but I see the conditions that make them need to be happy also.. it’s a very complicated subject and space because like you said, circumstances play a major role
Very true age doesn't matter here....marry when you are ready
Exactly..
I married at 25, it was a mess..oh God..I just dunno how I did n faced alone!
Marriage is not just whole purpose of life ... Just my opinion..
Oh I love this woman , the clarity she has and the perspectives are just on point. Loved every bit of this Interview .wishing you a great life ahead gouthami
The most important part is that Gauthami talks openly about so many things that are easily brushed under the carpet in our society ..
@@iamwithdhanyavarma absolutely. Most importantly you make the guest feel comfortable and the warmth in your conversations makes them talk their heart out. Great work Dhanya Chechy
Can't wait for Part 2. Apart from being a really good actress, I always loved her outlook on different topics that she would share on IG♥️
Part 2 is very good you must watch..she talks about so many things that need pir attention
Thank you ❤
Its quite deep! I like Gauthami from the beginning of her acting career. There is a spark in her eyes while talking.. Keep Going! Btw Dhanya Ma'am is the best host ever❤️
Thanks so much..do share and support
Thank you for your kind words ❤
I could relate to Gautami's anxiety and overthinking situation. For me, it could be a valid or a hypothetical scenario triggered by whatever happened at some point in the day. I get anxious, overwhelmed, I go into worst case scenario..blah blah. The way I am dealing with it now is, I will go through that emotion, finally I come to "is there something that I can do about-yes/no-then why worry". sometimes if that won't help, I just cry my heart out. Then I calm down. ✌🏽
Thanks for sharing your thoughts
Pls upload the second part ASAP...waiting..u r a vrry practical and genuine person Gauthami.
Usually no body talks about ideological differences that can lead to a separation... but I have seen people go through that.... and elders complaining about " immaturity " of the couple for their separation. It is indeed very difficult to figure out things if your paths are parallel ....and when you understand that it will never meet .... it always better to leave happily
Super. Waiting for 2 nd part😍
Dhanya Chechi - you can create this same as a podcast(Spotify)
Like jayshetty. And The Korean Vegan
So that many can listen to this while commuting
pS - suggestion 😊😊
I listen to all your interviews
Yes. Listing it on Spotify will be very helpful. I like to listen to conversations while i am commuting, watering my plants or doing some other works. Its difficult to do it on youtube while doing all these.
Thanks for this interesting conversation.
Liked Gauthami in Diamond Necklace..then somewhere you just disappeared. Happy to see you back ...all the best
കണ്ണുകൾ പോലെ തന്നെ മനോഹരമായ ചിന്തകളും 😍
A few days ago, I saw that one song from diamond necklace where gauthami and Fahad starred and wondered where she is now. Some days later i saw her on chooral's vlog and then now here. She is on my recommendation for a few days now 😂.
Anyways, Nice interactive session. Love to see more quality interviews like this! ❤️
Yes, every interview done by Dhanya Chechii has a unique touch. She definitely gives space for the guest and never overdo it. 😊😊
Thanks so much..do share and support
Clear thoughts💞
She s exactly me, i do over think and watch friends one whole episode from Netflix to distract from everything.. also it's s damn true, we realise what we want and what is right and wrong, everything near to 30.. i married when 29 and just after that things changed . I am grateful for the companionship i have with my best friend but the rest when it comes to responsibility and shits wth family and in laws and society, that's ridiculous and cannot accept at all, gradually it's raising the anxiety to a worse condition! I blame the system we follow here.. it sucks.
Great thanks to Dhanya for another amazing interview..love yu for what you do 💓
Such a well-read woman! More power to you Gauthami❤
🙏🏻 🙏🏻 ❤️🤗
Chechii iit yil padikuvayrnile course kazinjoo??I like ur eyes very much
ഞാനും ആദ്യം സിനിമ കണ്ട് നോർമൽ ആകാൻ ശ്രമിക്കുമായിരുന്നു. പക്ഷെ ഇപ്പോ ആ സിനിമയിലെ പോലെയൊക്കെ സിറ്റുവേഷൻ വന്നാൽ ചുറ്റുമുള്ള മനുഷ്യർ എങ്ങനെ പ്രതികരിക്കും എന്നൊക്കെ ചിന്തിച്ചു പിന്നേം പഴയ പ്രശ്നങ്ങളിലേക്ക് മനസ്സ് ചെല്ലും. കാരണം എനിക്കിത്പോലെ 20 മിനിറ്റ് കണ്ടാൽ അതിൽ ലയിച്ചുപോകാതിരിക്കാൻ കഴിയില്ല
ഇപ്പോ ഞാൻ സിനിമ കാണൽ തന്നെ കുറച്ചു. കോമഡി പരിപാടി ഒക്കെ ഓക്കേ ആയിരുന്നു. മൂഡ് റെഡി ആകുമ്പോ തീരും.
ഇപ്പോ അതുമില്ല. ഇപ്പോ എനിക്ക് ടെൻഷൻ വന്നാ ഞാൻ ആ വാ ആയ്കോട്ടെ ലൈൻ ആണ്. എന്ത് വേണേലും ചിന്തിപ്പിച്ചോ എനിക്ക് ഒരു കുന്തവുമില്ല. കാരണം നന്മയുള്ളത് മാത്രമേ ദൈവത്തിൽ നിന്നുണ്ടാകൂ.. ചീത്ത ചിന്തകൾ പൈശാചികമാണ്. പിശാചിനെ ഞാൻ കേൾക്കേണ്ട കാര്യമെന്താ.. അൽഹംദുലില്ലാഹ് ഫീ കുല്ലി ഹാൽ..
🤲🤲🤲
എനിക്ക് ഇപ്പോ നാല് ദിക്റുകൾ കൊണ്ടോ എന്തേലും ദുആ അർത്ഥ സഹിതം കണ്ടാലോ അപ്പോൾ ഞാൻ ഓക്കേ ആകും.. ഖുർആൻ ആയത് കണ്ട് ഞാൻ അതിന്റെ അർത്ഥം എന്താണെന്ന് ചിന്തിക്കും.. അങ്ങനെ ചിന്തിച്ചു ചെല്ലുമ്പോ എനിക്ക് അള്ളാഹു കൂടെയുണ്ട് എന്നെ കൈവെടിയില്ല. അല്ലാഹുവിന് എല്ലാ പ്രശ്നങ്ങൾക്കും പരിഹാരം ഈസി ആണ് ഇങ്ങനെ ചിന്തിച്ചു എനിക്ക് വിശ്വാസവും ഒപ്പം സമാധാനവും വന്നെത്തുന്നു. അത് നിലനിൽക്കുന്നുമുണ്ട്. ഞാൻ ആലോചിച്ചു ആ സിറ്റുവേഷനിലേക്ക് മനസ്സിനെ എത്തിക്കാൻ ശ്രമിച്ചാൽ അല്ലാതെ ഇപ്പോ മനസ്സിൽ ഒന്നും വേണ്ടാത്തത് കടന്നുകൂടുന്നില്ല. മുൻപ് എന്തേലും കേൾക്കുമ്പോഴേക്ക് ടെൻഷൻ ആയിരുന്നു. മരണം രോഗം ഒന്നും കേൾക്കാൻ എനിക്ക് ത്രാണിയില്ലായിരുന്നു. അൽഹംദുലില്ലാഹ് എനിക്ക് സുഖം ലഭിച്ചിരിക്കുന്നു.
Loved the interview👍
Now that you mention and that I try to recollect, yes You were hyper active in our childhood. I have a particular memory about a day in Nayakkanaparambu, where we both were exhibiting some traits of hyperactivity. Happy for everything that has and is happening with you ❤
Nice and informative interview 😍
Thanks a ton
There is something so charming about Gautami...always loved your work.enjoyed hearing u talk today.really hoping to see u in many good roles in the Future.Wish u good luck!!
Good job with the interview Dhanya as always
An interview worth listening....
Thank you Dhanya Mam and thank you Gauthami
I have always admired her personality and liked the stories and thoughts she shared on instagram and also the blogs she used to write ...At some point you might feel that there is a lot going on in her mind but really can't share as this is a public platform..Always loved hearing her interviews...She deserves more work and attention.. Thank you for bringing her to the show❤️
Thank you ! There’s so much I would like to sit and talk about but sadly you know how social media works so 🙇🏻♀️
@@Gauthaminair13 same i also feel like this when i see your insta stories ☺️😊
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One can prevent hazards to only a certain extent, but one can always strive towards not making it a disaster. What will it take the world to overcome a mental health pandemic? Definitely more conversations with role models, but I am sure people like Dhanya can do much more to sensitize the society through powerful communication channels. It is good to put some metric to see the real impact of these conversation... what changes does it bring to the society , beyond the social media views!!!
6:21 adding, "an added privilege to judge" maybe I feel, right? 7:02 you are nobody to judge anybody 👏
As I'm also a mental health professional..I respect all her personal affairs and things she had come across...but still It's not fair to term a person Clinical Psychologist without completing MPhil in Clinical Psychology, and if she has completed that, it's totally fine...and also talking about neuroscientist the one who completed PhD in a particular field namely of neuroscience can only be termed as neuroscientist.. it's not that just googling what I'm doing is considered as a neuroscientist....Also every kind of things she had spoken in this first part ...about ADHD....is not complete, somebody scrolling into social media for a longer period of time is not labelled as ADHD. ADHD as a disorder is more into inattention, hyperactivity and impulsivity with lot more symptoms ( varies with individuals)...and also a person with overthinking should never try of scrolling into social media or Netflix as it is a negative coping mechanism and overthinking can take place due to various psychological issues, a person should be given therapy if needed for the underlying cause rather than talking about it in more lighter way, it is also a thing to be considered more intensively..
Im not sure whether the second part will be covering the complete picture and clarifies all those mentioned biases in the first part...but at the present phase no false information should be conveyed to the public...
Thank you ☺️
@iamwithdhanyavarma
The clinical psychologist and neuroscientist definitions... yep 👍. I was laughing at the silliness.
Completely agree! The exact thoughts I had while watching this. It's not just therapy which is sensitive. When a public figure who happens to be an 'aspiring' Neuroscientist/Clinical Psychologist discusses such serious stuff so lightly, there are high chances of people getting influenced and misled, even if it is unintended. So there should have been extra caution and clarity, according to my opinion. I feel Dhanya even prompted some questions to bring better clarity, but didn't seem like working well. People already have a lot of misconception regarding mental illnesses. Serious conditions like Depression and OCD have already become silly casual usages for many. Let's not bring in more of such blunders please!
Agree...Appreciate the effort taken to explain these points 👏
@@aparnaps4873 🤍
Same thought came across while watching. 👏
Goutami truly deserves a lot more space not in just film industry but in all those areas where she puts her handz in as she can dfntly bring d best output using her well acquired knwldge..She has got a lot more on her plate to offer to this society..She is clear, smart and truthful 💖
Am sure ..she is wonderful
Thank you ❤
She is such a strong girl.. 😊
Out of the the interviewers I've seen in malayalam, i must say you're the classiest. The way you put forward your questions and let the interviewee present their ideas, pushing the audience to think and relate is just awesome. Most CZcams interviews are just trash loaded with clickbait questions and nonsense. I've even seen interviews where directors were asked funny and nonsensical questions. Kudos to you anyway❤
Dhanya mam videos kurachoode volume undayirunnenkil enikkoru suggestion und karanam njanoru veetujoli cheyyumbolayirikkum ithu kelkkunnathum kanunnathum appol joli cheyyumbol full volume ittalum struggling to hear. Unfortunately no time to sit and watch. May be some of them feel silly but this is what I felt when i watch your videos😊 I like your all videos and especially you. God bless you
Waiting for part 2
Thanks for the last statements of Dhanya. I have soooo many problems and don't know what all are they. Overthinking gives me pain and frustration every day. And the response I get from husband is, why are you over reacting to a small thing (wherein my reaction is result of the 10 things I thought in that situation, in that few secs) and the second thing he ask is why don't think of the blessings you have (like she said in ur interview with Supriya). So I'm stamped as a person with negative thoughts. They can't understand minds like mine exist and it is out of my control and might get fix with therapy or might not 🙄
May be you have bpd
2nd part evidee♥️
It's important to bring personalities who have been through hardships and an inspiration to others... creativity is flourishing amidst the common man these days!!!! There is nothing as safe space , people are toxically expostulated now in some way or the other so assumptions don't play a major role atleast amidst the wise..
Thanks so much
Im not sure what to make of this comment but thanks anyway 😅😊
Anthonnu dey.....English ariyam ennu manasilayee
@@Gauthaminair13 its a good intrvw dear😍
Gauthami, I m glad that atleast a few could make out something from the comment...best wishes 🤠
Dhanya chechi's interview kandal ket irikane tonuullu. She makes everyone comfortable and literally a sweet person ♥️
~Ancy
Perfect interview..
I wonder how life makes people bold and mature. I'm sure they might have traveled the hardest pathways.
Everyone suffers, im just in a privileged space to be able to speak about it 🤗
So nice to listen to her ❤️❤️
Please bring Parvathy Thiruvath
Good One ❤
Hi mam.. I have a small suggestion .. Please change the logo of IAM with Dhanya Varma from the centre to the corner and make it more visible
We would love to see Dhanya having deep conversations on experiences and perspectives of people rather than asking about their personal lives. Personal space should be kept personal, if some one needs to talk about it, they would talk.
This is a space for people to share their lives... whoever is willing to they do...only what the guest is comfortable speaking about is spoken about and asked ..even aired .it is always what the guest is comfortable talking about
Best best besttt the best .point by point
"We all have our own dirty laundry" 💯
Very much true!!!
🤗
@@Gauthaminair13 aww.. Its so precious dr.. 🫂♥️ we all have been through a lot, a lot of ups n downs.. A lot of struggles and an absolute roller coaster ride!! ♥️ We shall overcome some day!!!!🫂
True❤️
I can relate with her on some level, especially regarding overthinking, it's so difficult to deal with.
I can see shes still recovering from her disturbed phase of life.. One thing i felt is the point where she spoke abt watching netflix when shes anxious... Its not a very safe ideal way i feel...coz its a vicious circle... Bt its what everybody does 😊.. Am glad she was honest on that... Bt as a psychologist not an ideal solution.. Bt other than that bravo for her fearless and open attitude to life❤more power to u dear❤Loved the way she and her ex husband amicably split, not badmouthing each other and still friendly. which is to be taken as a good lesson for all of us❤
And bravo dhanya chechi❤youve done it again!!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
🙏🏻 🙇🏻♀️ ❤ thank you 🤗
Expecting stronger women personalities like this dhanya mam...really can emotionally connect with Supriya and Gauthami.. nice interview..
@Gauthami - Could u pls suggest a good clinical psychologist in Trivandrum to consult..
Sure. Please contact Dr. Krishna Prasad Sreedhar.. he is hands down always my favourite !
@gautami Can you suggest how to take an online appointment with him.
Checheee.thudakkathile bites vendaanne..please directly start the interview..you may put it as separate shorts but can avoid it in the beginning of the program?
Diamond Necklace is the only movie that comes to my mind when I think of her. Has she acted in more?And I just felt like she spoke only about her D rather than movies/ more
Ive acted in 7 movies and directed one.. and btw this isn’t my fake account.. 😉
Hi Dhanya, for your kind information In India required qualification for a clinical psychologist is Mphil in Clinical psychology and you need a licence (by the Rehabilitation Council of India RCI)to practice as a Clinical Psychologist. Someone with a master's degree in psychology is a psychologist. Not a Clinical psychologist. Both are different.
Glad someone pointed it out here .
I wanted to say that too.
Gauthami😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️
Loved the clarity of her thoughts and the way she dissects simply why two people can’t go along together without any complaints. I completely understand how composed and how intelligent is her, to put forward her words with absolute clarity and simple vocabulary. Happy to see have brilliant people as actors or as neuroscientists 🥰✨👌
Very classy interview. Kudos to Dhanya. Gauthami is smart and communicates very well.
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It's just a normal question for you dhanya that why you have been holding your name of caste along with your surname. Could you please write down your opinions about such things that happening around...
Her wish!
If many can take privileges in the name of caste whether in education or in jobs in India she has not getting the same out of it. Then what's other peoples issue. Let her or any one who wishes to use their surname be free to use it. Caste name as Surname is not a taboo in our country. In Kerala only this much of unnecessary pressures to remove surname. In Other states not only general category but also every other reservation catagory put their surname with pride. No one mock on them. If anyone dared to question them they will give befitting reply also
Absolutely amazing CZcams channel ! Deepak Nambiar .
We wish to see you in more movies like Diamond Necklace. Wish you best!
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The movies n songs really help u to get out of your bad moods. I always depended on it.
Very much Relatable 🥺 Thankyou so much for this🫂❤️
Pls. Do share
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bavana chechiye kond varumo
Love Gauthami in Diamond Necklace.. Look forward to hear more .. (esp about ADHD which I am also identifying in introspection).. I am also a mom of twins and then a single child. I can somewhat relate with you Dhanya when you shared your story abt feeling like inside a laundromat 😂.. Happiness project was part of my journey out of postpartum depression. What Gauthami said abt movies is what I used to do with Happiness project yt fav episodes when my anxiety was unbearable. The channel How to ADHD has given me some tricks to navigate my struggles to strengths. love to you all..
Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts...this conversation amongst us also in our living rooms is what I hope to bring forth via this show...this gives me the strength to go on inspite of all odds..thanks so much and much love..keep moving ahead❤️
You are doing a great job Ms. Dhanya..
But here am so sorry for saying that I totally disagree with Gauthami what she explained about ADHD and dealing with overthinking… this is not what people expect from a psychologist… watching Netflix is not a clinical approach to deal with overthinking.. it is a kind of escapism from some disturbing thoughts… in fact people who are really going through overthinking cannot watch a movie peacefully or they cannot divert their thoughts easily.. that is why they have to seek a professional help… and Ms. Gauthami, kids disturbing their elder siblings while studying at home is a common thing.. it’s quite normal.. pls don’t tell it is what hyperactivity or symptoms of ADHD.. people who watch this may think their children have ADHD…Bcz this is something every baby does…it is really misleading
Anyway appreciating you the way you handled your divorce which is not easy for everyone..
U both 💜💜
I happened to see a couple of videos in which she says "I'm scared of therapy". She said she's scared to be a therapist for now. Taken out of context it sounds like something else.
Loved the episode. Waiting for Part 2
Ma'am waiting for an interview with "Navya 🥰"
Evdeyo enthokeyo clarity kuravu 🤔
Hi. Could you please have talk with Tamil actor Madhavan?
"We all have our dirty laundry" 👌
Hi madamm malikaa Sukumaran madathinaa koduvaranmm.. kadirikanumm kelkanumm orupadd inspiration kuttunaa talk idavumm.. depression ulavarkk oru mental releaf ayyirikumm plzz request 🙏
*waiting for gauthami's massive comeback🔥*
Dhanya is trying to get answers. Gautham I is going all over the place.
Because sometimes I have a lot of thoughts going through my head, and I want to put across a lot of things.. but I cannot because it’s thé not the space for me to say it..
Hey please bring paravathy thiruvoth, rima, nitya menon. Please. Can't wait
Have you tried journaling?
No discipline for that 😂
@@Gauthaminair13 I hear you..:)
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Rimi chechiye kondu varuo mam
Malayalam film industriyil kuduthal nal sustain cheyyan ee sensitive character vechu budhimuttanu....
I am also having overthinking. Too much of overthinking.
She is right...even my family my csns are married at 18 ( at her 18th bdy) ...They are pressuring me to get married am now 19..💔
I have always liked her from the beginning..donno..but there is something about her that intrigues me..but this interview helped me realise the reason. she has a clarity in her thoughts..other people might judge her because getting a divorce is still a sensitive issue in this society and people are still to accept tht term. When someone says tht they separated for their own sake in a very healthy manner, y can't people just accept and let them be!!
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May b live in is a better solution to guage married life compatibility
Yes 18 yrs..... she said correct age