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0:00 Entitled Father claims that I am the reason his con flunked out of college, demanding that I should now be kicked out of University as well as punishment. (u/TChalllaUdaku)
7:36 My Entitled Dad demands $3,000 so that he can travel through Europe, claiming that he deserves it simply because he raised me. (u/RamenNoodles620)
10:43 An Entitled Karen demands that I move my seat so that her friends can have it, despite the fact that I bought this seat for me specifically. (u/cmurf1960)
15:00 My boyfriend refuses to brush his teeth, even though I’ve been bothering him about this for such a long time. (u/ChampionshipWeak4653)
18:12 Am I the Jerk for not wanting to give my college money to my brother who is going through intensive medical treatments? (u/ThrowRA77474)
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On the up side, John seems grown-up enough to have realized it was his fault, even if his parents didn't. This is better than my freshman roommate, who flunked out with a 0.0. One of us realized it was his fault. One of us went on to graduate from that University.
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I mean you gotta understand that John did all this mostly because of the life his parents made him live
And he never instigated his parents against OP
And he was mad respectful to the op he didn't drag the op with him😌
You see this kind of thing all the time when kids grown up in a strict and dictated household, once they get freedom they basically self-destruct because they begin doing everything they want to do and also tend to have not a whole lot of self-control because they never really needed it before.
The most famous examples are almost always child stars.
story 1: I actually feel pretty sorry for John here. Yeah, he screwed up his first year, but his parents made the monster and then are so messed up they didn't even allow John to learn and grow and try to fix his mistakes. At least John apparently didn't get his father's complete inability to take responsibility for himself.
Story 1: While John was personally irresponsible, at least he didn’t try to shift blame to the OP. The father just didn’t want to accept that his son was just a screw-up on his own and was trying to scapegoat the OP.
Story 4: This boyfriend is an immature manchild. What civilized grown adult doesn’t brush their teeth twice a day? That’s just gross.
Mad respect for John, he fucked up, but didn't want to drag down OP with him. At least he learned.
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I brush mine only once- not a grown adult but still. My teeth are literally almost glowing somehow, I don’t do anything special, water,toothpaste,water mouthwash (it’s usually out tho)
@@Undercoverheroine Yeah, I brush my teeth only once a day, and usually after dinner or dessert. The only time I would brush mine twice is if I was visiting a dentist or if I forgot to the other night and do it after breakfast.
They should have called campus security to kick the dad out and the OP should have alerted the college about what the dad was trying to do, John should have focused more on his life than partying and not studying.
I can understand wanting to cut loose after being forced to follow his parents' wants for so long, but John failed to understand life doesn't work like that. It's hard work being an adult.
John’s story: That’s what happens when you don’t let your kid be a kid when they have the chance.
More specifically, this is what happens to kids of overly controlling parents when they finally get a little freedom.
John is a brave man he was willing to defend there roommate even tho if he didn't it would help his bond with his dad😢
to be fair john never blamed op for anything, john luckily dosnt seem entitled.
Spoiled to be sure, but he's showing he's aware of it once the threat of his parents coming back to rule his life hit him.
@@girl1213 and he just seems like a nice guy.
he´s even defending op because op did nothing wrong and he knows it
Kinda sympathize with “John”, he probably never had a childhood due to his parents making him the “star” child.
Sadly he has found he can never get his childhood back. He's an adult now and has to live in the adult world.
Well, props to John that he at least tried to protect his friend from his parents bs.
Story 1: Wow, i actually feel bad for John here to a degree. While John failing in the university is largely because of his partying and poor decisions, he 100% accepted it and wasn't throwing the OP under the bus for anything. I can't believe John's dad would keep blaming the OP for everything, even when John kept defending the OP. Some parents like that just cannot accept that their children are not perfect. Too bad security or the police weren't called on the dad, he is totally nuts. Hopefully John can learn from all of this and do better for himself after.
Story 2: Yeah i can see why the OP is no contact with their dad. I always hate the attitude of "I raised you, therefore you owe me!" That just screams entitlement and that you are a bad parent. It would be one thing if that dad asked for a loan if he needed it to go, but to demand it like that was just wrong.
Story 3: If you all want to sit together, then make 100% sure that all of your tickets are for the same row and same section. This is a reason wy you always have your ticket with you at all times. Staff like that are always going to take more care of the season ticket holders, so i dont really get why this Karen thought she could make the OP move, and im sure the whole thing with the folding chairs was some sort of cheap intimidation tactic as well. If i were the OP, i would've asked an usher or security person to stay nearby. You never know what other crap that Karen could've tried to pull.
Story 4: The bf here is just a lazy slob, period. This isn't a matter of forgetting or being very busy, it just sounds like he doesnt care at all.... even with the OP getting him some dental care products.
Story 5: OP isn't the jerk here. He's right the money still belongs to the OP's mom until the OP can actually go to college. While i do feel bad for the brothers medical situation, kidney disease sure sucks, but the dad and new wife's attitude is just wrong. Asking is one thing, but then trying to guilt trip them is another. Sounds to me that they need better insurance if their current insurance isn't covering it.
what I got was "I suffered to bring you into the world, so do what I say now."
I agree with story 5 but this is probably one of the harder choices and I would probably have to default to "Give them the money because it will help someone who needs it more then i do."
If all options suck then the best one to choose is usually the choice that will help someone who needs it more then you.
Still isn't great and the parents aren't good since they feel entitled to it, but it's not the brother's fault he was dealt a shit hand and the money to pay for his treatments doesn't exist at the moment, and without that money he'll probably die.
So yeah as much as it doesn't feel great, I would probably have to go with giving up the money.
I can always tell if a person had controlling parents growing up. They always get to college and get that first taste of true freedom, and they’re off and running to every kegger in the neighbourhood and failing classes. I watched so many do that, including my BFF who had a mother who treated her like a housemaid. That girl went wild her first semesters at school. Luckily she didn’t fail all her classes, but the partying was way outta control.
I have a hard time blaming John here, for one particular reason: I've seen this happen so many times, and it's always because the parents decided to allow the kid absolute no freedom, no room to fail safely, no toolbox to moderate themselves... usually results in a kid and at least one drop out.
Story 4: As someone who struggles with mental health, as much as I feel guilty about it, sometimes I just don't have the mental energy to brush my teeth and even I'm disgusted in myself by it. Mental illness sucks, it can make even simple tasks really difficult. That said, I still try to do my best. The fact that he doesn't even consider it is gross. I don't really blame OP for not wanting to be intimate but maybe she talk to him about what's going on his life and should push for him to go to therapy. There may be an underlying issue there.
@@DaShikuXIis it a specific kind of floss? I ask because if he only ever flosses then it’s gotta be coated with something to also help clean those areas.
This is not a bad idea at all and I wanna try just leaving floss next to my bed to make it easier. I already brush regularly but it isn’t as often as I’d like so this is genius
Story 2 you don't owe your father nothing. When the parents decided to have you they take the responsibility of taking care of you with their own money and you don't own them anything
To story 4. You also have to consider the mans mental health. There was a time in my life where i barely had motivation to get up and do something to the point i didnt brush my teeth for days or even weeks. It was horrible. My mental health was very bad then, even tho i looked rather happy most of the time or lazy rather than feeling bad. So i can understand where the boyfriend is coming from. BUT if there wasn't anything happening with him mentally, then i can agree with others judgement, that its immature.
Exactly! I don't like to admit it but sometimes I struggle with having the energy to brush my teeth because I'm just depressed. That said, I don't think OP is wrong for being grossed out but I think people should be a little more sympathetic unless it's literally just a case of "I don't want to do it" vs "I want to do it but I struggle to."
John's parents probably destroyed his acting career with their behavior, it wouldn't be the first child actor whose parents destroyed their careers!
For story 4 maybe there might be something more going on. I brush my teeth only once a day because the feel of the bush on my teeth sets me off. It feels worng. I need to have people remind me about things i need to do. Just because someone acts like a nerotypical person doesnt mean there isnt something worng.
Story 1 Roommate is in no way the A-HOLE. I only wish the kid would have realized the best way to stay away from his crazy parents and then get his own life is to stay in school and work hard like always and get his degrees and dissolve into thin air.
Story one would have telecommunications harassment charges and at bare minimum, probation.
"John" sounds like he never wanted to be at that university, and his parents hopefully have no access to the money he made as an actor.
2. As a mother with adult children it is so weird to me when I hear about parents that act like their children owe them anything. I am not rich but I don't ask my kids for anything because they are living their lives and that's not cheap. Why would I away from them? And two of them have their own kids now! I am definitely not going to take money from my grand babies! I don't care that my kids "can afford it".
It is just weird to me that parents expect money from their children!
Parents: "You OWE ME!!"
Child: "For doing the bare MINIMUM it takes to keep from going to PRISON for CHILD NEGLECT?"
@@daynechastant Seriously! It seems it is always the parents that did the bare minimum that what money from their kids! I will never understand it!
The third story. For anyone like me who is disabled wishes we weren't just so that we can be as normal as the rest of the people. Hopefully OP will have a great time there for the rest of the season.
man i feel bad for john like obviously he should have been going to classes but the one chance he gets to go away from his parents turns out to be the only chance
Poor dental care leads to very serious health problems, including cardiovascular issues. That means heart disease and kidney issues.
This guys voice is so calming that i cant listen to anyone else
This is what I would say: Is that my problem? Make me drop out and I'll call the manager of the university, and I'll call my attorney sister and sue you for tuition, fees, and emotional stress!
For the first story, all that guy has to do is show the parents what kind of grades he gets.
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That story at 18:12 hurts
Why in heavens should anyone have to pay for that kind of medical care?
It’s ridiculous. I assume this story takes place in America, where people will avoid calling an ambulance because of the cost.
It is RIDICULOUS and I hate living here. Expenses for any kind of medical or in general health care is insane.
My grandma paid a little over 100 dollars for an inhaler my grandpa NEEDS, and our regular prescriptions would likely be hundreds of dollars if insurance didn’t cover it. I think even getting an epidural for pregnancy is like 2000 dollars (I could be wrong on that number but it’s up there). Here, it’s advised to ask for an itemized bill after hospital visits lest they try to overcharge you (I haven’t done that personally but I’ve heard people save thousands by asking for an itemized bill).
It’s absolutely insane and stuff like in the story are especially expensive.
Can we just appreciate john he may be spoiled but hes not entiled and has a good heart unlike his father
Story one: I would've broken his nose if he was harassing me like that. Make him get the point across that he's not gonna ruin my life for what his son did. He tries to talk back, broken leg. I tell him to get lost or he'll be in the hospital.
Even better broken bones and never ending blood flow
So, I'm ten yrs old and sometimes my mom asks me for money (that she gave me) and willingly gives me it back + sometimes even more since, well, she's the best but that dad in the 2nd story is absolute TRASH how could you think that your kids owe you anything??
When i was in secondary school, i had a classmate whose parents thinks i'm a bad influence on their son.
Yes, i drink, i smoke, skateboards, has a girlfriend that stays over most times.
But i had good grades & even tutors my friend sometimes.
I had not a single clue why his parents hated me so much & thinks i'm a bad influence.
Story 3 don't bend to her weird demands good OP for standing your ground and you are definitely not the jerk.
OP should’ve called campus security really early in the conversation with John’s father.
story 1: the thing is... that john in this case is just a guy, who screwed up by living his lifestyle during college, but he is a good guy because he acknowledged he was at fault for it
also what the heck file a police report for harassment against that balding idiot of john's dad
also... the dad was trying to blame OP... but if you think about it both when john called his dad to tell him the bad news and when he came to pick up his son, OP was studying... it's not like he was playing or whatever, he was studying
Its ironic how john is both irresponsible and completely responsible at the same time
The last story had an update.. Well op talked with their mom about it and while she gave op the option of giving it all to to the father but op said no so mom decided to give the father back all of the child support money he already paid and his contribution of the college fund and told that's the only money he'll get from them which he threw a fit about it mot being enough but she put her fiit down
It’s easy to never have a cavity if you don’t go to the dentist
I use a walker, crutches, or a wheelchair based on need that day & at 20 was mistaken for 12. Well meaning people ask how long till I heal, & others think I have a intellectual disabilities, but are kind, or curious. Many others get angry about parking, wheelchair, seat, or belongings for their comfort & are far more deserving. When there's multi, it's like a game, & weird, like bus driver demanding I give my seat in the handicap area, so a woman he knew could put her small bag there. It was almost empty, & she said she had no disability, & so had options, but wanted mine. Driver said a polite young lady, should always stand giving their seat up if it could help someone older. He started hitting my leg till I got off to ride the next, but he clearly hurt his hand when he hit the metal in my leg braces. I think at least he might not hit a girl anytime soon. There's nothing that attracts entitled people like mobility or medical equipment
John was able to get his first sense of freedom and abused it but he did takw responsiblity and i hope he does better
Story 1: John needs to go no contact with his parents and therapy.
Story 2:OP’s mom needs to DIVORCE that POS of a manchild. Reading that him being away is a vacation to her is a HUGE red flag to me.
The dad tries to ruin the op's future, he needs to get lost.
Honestly, I feel bad for both the OP and John. John's parents were way too controlling of him, and as a result caused John's poor decision making. If you have parents that are way too controlling of their kid, once you've given them the freedom they need, that kid is going to make piss-poor decisions in life. The fact that he stands up for OP and doesn't blame her for everything PLUS accepts that its his fault and not theirs is very respectful of him.
As for OP, they literally did nothing! I mean, John's crazy dad could literally SEE them trying to study, so what reason do you have to blame them? Unless you truly can't accept that your "oh so perfect" child really failed because of his own mistakes, that father should've been more mature like the man he's supposed to be and not point fingers.
GROOOSSSS!! DONT KISS HIM ANYMORE!!!!
For story 4, I feel like that guy needs a therapist or some other kind of doctor. Not brushing your teeth like that is a problem and if he gets embarrassed whenever it’s brought up that means he KNOWS, but something isn’t working. Things aren’t always easy for everyone.
OP needs to sit him down and have a talk. Express feelings on both sides, establish some boundaries, and work together to find a solution.
Because if he IS struggling with something, it must be pretty bad if his teeth are yellow. I agree he needs to go see a dentist but I ALSO think that something else might be going on that needs attention so he can get the help he needs.
Regarding the guy who doesn't brush his teeth: it could be a sign of depression and low self esteem. It could be a vitamine c deficiency. I have suffered through severe depression and low self esteem which st points I couldn't veg out of bed let alone brush my teeth as I didn't care about myself never the less care about someone else. I couldn't get out of bed and I definitely couldn't bring myself to take care of myself in any way. I now am a lot better than I was but I'm still not great mentally. My teeth are still yellow and no matter how bad I get, these days I brush my teeth at LEAST once a day. This guy could have been through something similar and he is probably embarrassed and just needs support
Agreed and I struggle with it to. That said, I don't blame OP for finding it gross. When dating, I'm more strict with myself and make a point to do it as much as possible because it gives me more of a reason to actually do it. Even I'm grossed out by it even when I skip doing it. I think he may be going through sometjing and he probably needs therapy or help in some way.
no it's john's fault for partying all night, failing college classes instead of the father owning up to anything, but i'm glad that john defended op since it's not op's fault but john's own fault.
nice job john for defending your roommate from your crazy father.
I would laugh in my dads face if he ever asked me to pay for medical bills for his son he created out of adultery and his mistress doesn’t even work. Please…
I do kind of feel bad for him because when you have parents like that, as soon as you get the college and you see all of this, you’re tempted to do it
To the narrator on story 4.
I would recommend that you do your research and quit making crude assumptions about people's strange behaviors. There are legitimate reasons as to why someone may not feel comfortable brushing their teeth. For instance, I have a nerve disorder called Sensory Processing Disorder which like the name suggests means that my nerves have trouble processing certain textures or sensations. Case in point my nerve endings in my teeth reacting badly to the Brussels of a tooth brush. This was honestly why I struggled brushing my teeth as a child and even still have difficulty to this day brushing my teeth regularly. And no before you say anything, it's not simply a matter to learning to deal with the discomfort or going to a doctor for some kind of cure. Nerve disorders, just like nerve damage are impossible to fix (at least in today's scientific world).
So, in the future, I would appreciate if you could get off your damn high horse and show some f*cking compassion for people when you don't know the full story for their odd behaviors.
I completely agree. I'm autistic so hygiene is not easy for me to remember. I bathe often but brushing my teeth and hair. I try to remember.
I have the same disorder +autism diagnosis and I use soft toothbrushes to brush my teeth so it doesn't hurt.
You should probably try those.
If they sell any in your country
While yellow teeth in and of themselves aren't inherently a problem, they naturally yellow with age, not brushing your teeth is a problem.
What is it is some parents that feel like kids owe them after they grow up? Well I’m sorry but I never gave you my consent to have me so why do you think I need to pay you anything?
story three, some peoples enamel is naturally yellow, so don't judge someone on that unless you know they don't brush, or if there teethy are naturally yellow
Story 2: ops dad wanted to have kids so op doesnt owe him a shit.
In the event of an emergency, the people with the folding seats would have been a hazard. They should have been escorted out by security.
Toothbrush story: I'd be asking myself, "What else am I going to have to nag this person to do if we get married?" "If he can't take care of himself regularly, how is he going to be responsible for a family?"
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Story 1: Feeling bad for John that he has got a parent like that and that weirdly the dad forced him to quit uni before he could even do the 4 exams. Maybe he would have passed but no the dad knows better 🤷♀️ honestly the way the dad acted towards op, a random kid, you can only imagine how controlling he is with john
Re: not brushing teeth, that OP should tell her boyfriend gum disease leads to erectile dysfunction.
These last two stories with the boyfriend not brushing his teeth and the dad asking for his son’s college money to help fund his other son’s medical treatment I feel the Narrator was very harsh and too readily agreed to the OPs opinion. Normally I can agree or at least understand the narrators comments on the story but this time I think he just went to far without considering any other factors that could be playing into this. Try not to be so quick in passing judgement.
Well if you never go to the dentist you can never have a cavity. At the rate he is going he’s going to need and while new set of teeth by the time he’s 30
You're right she twisted his arm and made him goof-off in college and party all night and sleep all day I don't think so that was on him he even said so
Bruh sue johns parents for harrassment. Wow
Story 2- Flatly refuse.
Story 3- If he can't be bothered to do the basics, such as hygiene. Then, for me, it would be a deal breaker. I would not like that mouth on any intimate parts, including my mouth. If you want to stay with him, go on strike. If he hasn't thoroughly brushed, he doesn't get to bring his mouth within a full metre of me (yard). If he says he already has, then tell him it's only three minutes out of his day,so he can do ut again,in front of you.
There's a funny story about a man who hadn't washed in decades so he really had crusts on his skin from dirt and stuff and he was checked out by a doctor And guess what the doctor said the guy was perfectly healthy And do you know what happened when he took a bath towards the end, but unfortunately he died shortly afterwards
I find it odd that your dads taking this extraordinary vacation and your mother's not going with them I hope she was at least invited and chose to stay home to get away from him
I don’t blame John or the op at all. I blame Johns parents. They are helicopter parents and as sad as it is that’s what normally happens when their kids move out the party like it’s new years evae
I dont get these parents that think their kids owe them for raising them. Like they made the choice not to wear a condom, not the kids.
Nah if your partner doesn't brush their teeth it's off.
S1: Should be happy he wasn't glaring hissing in my face. I would and have headbutted people for that.
If you are in united ststes you can apply for medicare after a few months on dialysis. It also covers transplant. Kidney failure will also get you income assistance. Talk to your social worker. You shouldnt be drowning in medical debt. Also most private insurance pays some costs. Theres also the american kidney fund that can help with some kidney related costs. Theres a lot of options
If he won't brush his teeth, don't kiss him. Seems simple to try.
the guy in story 1 seems nice
" The dad " it's your fault for my kid faling! " the op " no it's not!!!!!!!!😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
idk what place i am in here but u should know u understand these stories very well
11th and early
Story #1: That dad is such a pretentious asshole. Such heinous presumptions and borderline stalking behavior it's such an egregious violation of privacy. I would feel bad for my roommate, but I would've pressed charges for that stupidity.
I agree on the last story but on top of that, I understand the brother is going through a tough time and needing stuff with medical attention however you can live with just one kidney. You don't need both kidneys to function. Sure it's going to be an adjustment but they can actually remove the bad kidney and just keep the good one unless it's just both of them are going bad but from the sounds of it it's just one although we don't know that for a fact. Still, he can go without one kidney.
To all the parents that think your kids owe you cuz you raised them, they didn't ask to be born and raised, that's aaall on you. You're all square when they urn 18.
Story 4: struggling with basic hygiene can and is often a sign of various mental disorders such as depression, ADHD, and autism. Keep in mind that not everyone with these conditions will blatantly display them or even realize they have them. I struggle to form routines which includes brushing my teeth because of my ADHD. I have object permanence issues so whenever I don't see my toothbrush or toothpaste, aka as soon as I leave the bathroom, I forget about them and then forget about brushing my teeth. "Just brush them before you leave the bathroom after a shower" I'm sure that'd work great for someone who doesn't get distracted by every little thing and completely forget about whatever task they were in the middle of doing two seconds ago. Other times it's because I don't have the motivation to get up and take care of myself, usually as a result of ADHD paralysis or depressive episodes. I am on track to seek help for my issues since I am aware of them, but for his situation, there's definitely something deeper going on. Honestly hearing the narrator say, "there's literally no excuse other then 'hE jUsT DOeSn'T WaNT tO!' Is extremely hard to hear. For years I constantly beat myself up over not understanding why I couldn't perform even the most basic of tasks, which in turn only made everything worse. I wanted to take care of myself and would repeatedly try to set routines but I would always ultimately stop doing the routine and stop taking care of myself no matter what techniques I tried to remember and stay motivated to do it. Even if this guy specifically just genuinely doesn't want to do it, it's so incredibly hurtful to people who are or have struggled with things like this and honestly doesn't help anyone at all. Please be more considerate of your tone and how you address stuff like this while on a public platform because a statement as simple as that is often enough to really cause people to breakdown. Especially if they're confused and still trying to figure out why they are struggling so much with a 'basic task'.
You have such a good impression of a Karen voice
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Me checking the comments to see if anyone knows who the said child star is
2nd story: well the answer is simple, give him the 3k... from his own account.
Story 3 Karen genuinely makes me lose faith in the human race
The first thing she said to the disabled person was “Move!”
When she found out it wasn’t one of her seats she was still resentful
Proceeded to have her friends crowd around the man to be more of an ahole
She has some serious problems and might never change
Im also disabled and use a wheelchair and you wont believe how many people there are like this. At a zoo some dude told his kid at a very crowded exibit after people wouldnt let.them push there way to the front to stand on my FEET. even the kid knew this was wrong and refused.
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Well, I'll say it like that when things are finally going well and you don't feel well, so if you're sick, I understand you don't necessarily want to put anything in your mouth, but I mean at least Working is also possible interacting with other people, you should still pay attention to your body
And you, as the parents not check with the instructors to prove your point about the roommate corrupting their son?
Story: I don’t the dude was actually a child actor .
story 1 john didn't do anything to deserve the parents he got he was defending the original poster and had to drop out because his dads a moron and doesn't know an apple from a banana
Bro posts twice a day
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I can kinda relate to story four I’m kinda like the boyfriend I forget to brush more often then not but I’ve never had any cavities or gum disease or anything at all really I do floss and it’s not that i don’t want to take care of it more that I’m to easy to distract and forget
The last story, dude's probably British. The jokes of biritish's teeth😂😂
Don't take it seriously, it's just a joke😅
I think you might wanna edit your comment, that's the 4th story, not the last story
For the last story, that situation is kind of shit all around, but to be honest, no option is good, so I would have to learn toward giving the money, because if all options suck then the best choice is usually picking the option that helps someone who needs it more.
While it sucks that the parents feel entitled to it the brother can't help he was dealt a shit hand and without the money for his treatment he would probably die, as the money for his treatment doesn't currently exist.
It sucks all around because we can assume the parents won't pay the OP back and they may miss out of college if they do it, but it seems like there's a decent chance the brother won't get the money he needs to pay for his treatment, so I have to default to the option that helps him.
story 4 - I don't think dental hygiene is big of an issue, if he brushes here and there you can't get mad at him. Get mad at his parents for not making it a habit of brushing. My parents never gave us the habit either and I brush every now an then because I have sensitive teeth and sensitive taste. Meaning the only thing that works for my teeth is children toothpaste. I can't use stuff that will make me hurl otherwise I have this issue where I want to throw up just because of the lingering taste in my mouth. As a 27 year old I hardly brush my teeth, and you know what, my teeth are fine, only had 2 cavities. My entire family was shocked.
So don't go blaming the guy for not wanting to brush his teeth. It requires more motivation to even think about doing it. Plus the thing we never got in the story is if he's suffering from depression. Depression can cause many things to go undone. I know it's gross to not brush your teeth but it still requires motivation to get it done, just like everything else.
Dental hygiene is not big of an issue for you but it is for people you facing and talking to.
You are only 27, you have no idea if your teeth are fine nor the state of your mouth, cavities are not visible until they have destroyed a big part of the tooth.
And blaming parents when you are a grown up is lame, you did not know better growing up but you do now so get your act together.
@@dobiqwolf Yea for me, but my family hasn't said anything about my breath, meanwhile my father who is brushing his teeth once a day has constant bad breath, and we all tell him at least once a day. So if my family hasn't said anything then it's not that big of an issue.
Blaming the parents isn't lame, they are the ones who is supposed to take care of you while you grow up, without good habits instilled in you you go through life struggling to get into good habits. I have many MANY bad habit that I started when I was a child and no one told me to stop or not to do that. My sides of my fingers are constantly damaged because of this habit. So shove off about getting my act together when you don't stop and think about how others are going through life thinking about more than just brushing their god damn teeth.
I am 15 and even when I brushed my teeth properly twice a day, I had a start of a cavity (that could be easily fixed by brushing that particular tooth more) TWICE.
Now I've recently had more difficulties doing that due to burnout so I have one cavity in my tooth but that is also because of constantly eating candy and chocolate to my depression 🫠
Girl, if he can't brush his teeth without you nagging him, then you need to break up with him, ASAP. Because teeth is like the most hygienic thing that you could do for yourself, on a regular basis, and if you're not being hygienic for your teeth on a regular basis, then what else are you not washing or brushing properly? It's so disgusting to not brush on the reg. You need to be with someone who's definitely more hygienic and let him be with a girl who don't like to brush her teeth either. They can just be non brushing mofos together.
10th! Still good
I wouldn’t cover for John at all, he didn’t study or go to class then he definitely deserves to fail. His father is just a pathetic man-child that also needs to grow up and instead of blaming op, he should be punishing John for not studying. OP needs to inform the police with the harassment and defamation from John’s parents plus they’re social media stalking op as well.
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