7 DUMB Ways People WASTE Their Vacation

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  • čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
  • We sleep in, we have too many, we don't do our research, there are many ways people can waste time on their vacation or holiday. Here we go through some of the big mistakes that tourists make when they go on vacation that really wastes their vacation and zaps the energy of the day.
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Komentáře • 828

  • @gary860
    @gary860 Před 16 dny +733

    The biggest waste of time that I see people doing is trying to cram in too many sites in a day just to check it off their bucket list.

    • @peofilm7654
      @peofilm7654 Před 16 dny +44

      @@gary860 Agree 100%. Ticking off boxes without experiencing the vacation site, just stupid.

    • @absolutezeronow7928
      @absolutezeronow7928 Před 16 dny +21

      Agreed. Sometimes the random strolls through cities is worth doing on its own. I definitely now love Krakow. And there are definitely more I could see in Katowice and Wroclaw if I return to Poland in the next 5-10 years. I've also started thinking about what I want to do in 2 years (Paris and the Loire Valley, and maybe Nouvelle Aquitaine if I have enough time to properly see it).

    • @hassanalihusseini1717
      @hassanalihusseini1717 Před 16 dny +11

      I agree. It gives you a mental overload error. Less is more.
      There are CZcamsrs who fx. say that it is enough to spend two days here in Bangkok. In February 2024 I kept my Mum and my brother busy for more than two weeks in that town when they were visiting me. And we even did not see everything.

    • @mrnarason
      @mrnarason Před 16 dny +35

      By definition, that's the opposite of wasting time, it's maximizing time. Wasting time is whne you don't plan anything and idling around waiting or searching for things to do.

    • @hassanalihusseini1717
      @hassanalihusseini1717 Před 16 dny +3

      @@mrnarason On holidays I do not want to spend planning all the days. I want to decide what to do freely.

  • @justinanderson2129
    @justinanderson2129 Před 16 dny +304

    Don’t try to do too much either! I’ve made that mistake before. Rushing from one place to the next because I had FOMO. Don’t miss the forest through the trees. Slow down and live in the moment.

    • @andrewh4026
      @andrewh4026 Před 16 dny +8

      Yeah that's a personal preference.
      Usually I bring an outline and say book one or two things that day, but otherwise I leave it flexible to spend more (or less) time based on how things are going that day. E.g. I'll be flexbile with museum visits and time those to be on a rainy day, so those days aren't wasted if there's bad weather.

    • @mrnarason
      @mrnarason Před 16 dny +3

      I been a trip recently, I felt like we could have done more things and been more efficient. Too much idle time, did not get to see enough things.

    • @stuartross282
      @stuartross282 Před 16 dny

      @@justinanderson2129 done that and my feet paid the price the day afterwards

    • @pollyduron674
      @pollyduron674 Před 16 dny +2

      I had a general idea of things I wanted to show my kids because I've been before. I also added a few I missed last visit. We just took our time and skipped some things if we were having a good time elsewhere. That is the key. If you are enjoying something...it's not a big deal to miss something else. It just gives me more reason to visit again ❤

    • @Farbar1955
      @Farbar1955 Před 16 dny +3

      If we're somewhere for multiple days we will build in a "rest day" where we don't plan anything and we go outside to wander around aimlessly. We've actually found some great views, buildings, restaurants, etc., by accident that we'd have never found otherwise. But it's also okay to just relax inside your BnB or hotel or go hang out at a nice coffee shop or park. Regain some of that energy you spent earlier in the trip.

  • @SuperEndersgame
    @SuperEndersgame Před 16 dny +213

    one way of wasting your vacation is booking a luxury hotel. unless you plan to stay in the hotel the entire time, there's no point to spend thousands a night just to sleep in a bed and leave the room early the entire day..

    • @user-nb9jm3xo8u
      @user-nb9jm3xo8u Před 14 dny +12

      I TOTALLY AGREE!!!
      I apply the same logic to cruiseships. I book interior staterooms because the only time I spend inside my stateroom is for showering and changing clothes, or unpacking/packing. 🚢

    • @luvzfrance24
      @luvzfrance24 Před 11 dny +1

      I absolutely agree! I once thought of staying in a luxury hotel in Paris until I realized that all I needed was a bed and toilet. Luxury hotels are a waste of money.

    • @Diego9806
      @Diego9806 Před 11 dny

      I agree. But some people love just relaxing at the hotel. Personally not my style at all. Once in a while I don't mind that vacation, but very seldom. When I go on vacation I'm there to see the culture and history of the place I'm at. But everyone is different.

    • @Kell4088
      @Kell4088 Před 11 dny +10

      It basically comes down to money. My wife and I do 1 major vacation per year and we do it up large, because we can. So we do luxury hotels, Michelin Star Restaurants and still get in lots of the major attractions and “things to do”. We UBER/Lyft everywhere so we don’t waste time with public transportation. YOLO 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @SuperEndersgame
      @SuperEndersgame Před 11 dny +2

      @@Kell4088 i think its ok once in a while, like flying first class. but first class is so not worth it on a regular basis..

  • @suem.1392
    @suem.1392 Před 16 dny +176

    Wasting time getting the perfect Instagram shot - "I'm an influencer, I'm telling you, nobody cares..." HAHAHA 😂

  • @albedo0point39
    @albedo0point39 Před 16 dny +223

    Be you. If you never visit museums at home, you don’t need to suddenly get interested in them on vacation.
    If you’re into music, book to see a concert. Food? Take a cookery class. Hiking? Find a local walking club.
    Do things that locals do that interest you. It’s a good ‘in’ to how things are different to home… and if you share a common interest, then it’s an easy way to strike up a conversation.
    Great topic as always Mark!

    • @haleighc3859
      @haleighc3859 Před 15 dny +18

      Couldn't agree more with this. One of the things my husband and I do abroad is go to local supermarkets, food markets cause we want to see new snacks and food we haven't had before!

    • @jaymzx0
      @jaymzx0 Před 15 dny +13

      This is very true. I like beer, so in Germany, I spent a lot of time with my friends drinking beer! I was told I had a good time.

    • @RetNemmoc555
      @RetNemmoc555 Před 15 dny +10

      So true. Never been in a cathedral at home, so not interested in any abroad, except I do like cemeteries and graves of people I'm interested in like authors or artists, political leaders and film actors. I also like touring historic homes and filming locations. I also do like museums, but it's tiring to spend hours, so I only go into museums that have specific things that I've alway wanted to see and can't find at home. But I can only be so energetic, so sitting in an outdoor cafe or by a window doing absolutely nothing except people watching is one thing I'll do _anywhere_ - at home or abroad.

    • @newagain9964
      @newagain9964 Před 13 dny +1

      Fax. This one should get out their comfort zone a lil. Both on vacation and in everyday life.

    • @robertpavey5615
      @robertpavey5615 Před 12 dny +2

      Wholeheartedly agree! If you are like me and you like football, then try to get to a game or go on a stadium tour..or perhaps find the ruins of an old stadium or visit the location of a former stadium and see what is there now. It'll sound mad to some people but I plan to visit the stadium of a lower league Polish football team near Warsaw when I visit Poland in September, purely because the fans of the away team are effectively housed in what looks like a cage!

  • @cassandrahamilton7290
    @cassandrahamilton7290 Před 16 dny +75

    If you travel with friends, make sure they have the same idea of fun. How much shopping, drinking, selfie taking do they do? How much walking do they want to do? How often do they want to go to a very expensive restaurant? Some chuches, museums, castles, or all of them? A good friend in day to day life might not be the best travel companion.

    • @ZForce5496
      @ZForce5496 Před 15 dny +7

      I am the kind of person who likes to spend my vacation doing and seeing as much as possible. I want to go go go, explore explore. I learned I was in a wrong relationship when I was on vacation in a beach town with my ex boyfriend. I was ready to hit the beach, ride the bike trails, go kayaking, whatever. He wanted to sleep in. It’s vacation and it’s for relaxing and getting sleep. My thought is I can sleep anywhere. Why pay money to do little more than sleep? The relationship was over before we got home.

    • @torstikinnunen3801
      @torstikinnunen3801 Před 15 dny +3

      Traveling with friends is often a pain. Traveling with a friend can be great. Especially if they share the same interests and also bring new ideas on what to do. Listening on their ideas on what to visit can make the trip better than what you'd come up on your own. But it's usually best to keep the traveling companions to one.

    • @patchso
      @patchso Před 13 dny

      Spot on. Everyone has a different idea of what constitutes a good hol. You may love your friends to bits, but don’t share a holiday with them if you like different things. You may come away not friends anymore!

    • @morgankWyatt
      @morgankWyatt Před 11 dny +1

      This sounds like traveling with my sister who wants to shop, shop, and shop. I'd prefer parks, waterfall, local flora and fauna, and folktales.

    • @oooh19
      @oooh19 Před 11 dny +2

      Yea but you and whoever you travel with need to compromise it’s not just their trip it’s your trip as well

  • @kazeryu17
    @kazeryu17 Před 16 dny +51

    Personally, the three biggest ways to waste your vacation are 1: cramming in too many activities and trying to do Everything. One of the biggest reasons for a vacation is to cure yourself from the burnout. At least, that is why I take my Vacations. The last thing i want is more burnout. 2: not making rain plans. Its good to make alternate plans incase your plans do not work out. 3: not budgeting. The last thing you want to think of while on vacation besides work is money.

    • @mercedeswilkins9085
      @mercedeswilkins9085 Před 10 dny +1

      In eve think of work when I’m vacay, but I understand what you’re saying

  • @DouglasQuattrochi
    @DouglasQuattrochi Před 16 dny +34

    If you do want to travel with a group, get smaller separate but close-by accommodations instead of one big one. It can be stressful to suddenly spend every minute of the day with people you don’t normally live with. Having your own space to go to at the end of the day gives you a personal recharge, keeps nerves from getting frayed and makes it feel like suddenly you’re living walking distance to your friends and family. A rare treat for US tourists!

  • @jerrytolzman1048
    @jerrytolzman1048 Před 16 dny +103

    Spending time going from souvenir shop to souvenir shop to see the same mass-produced junk.

    • @geirmyrvagnes8718
      @geirmyrvagnes8718 Před 16 dny +9

      I was recently in San Marino, they had an excellent selection of plastic trolls holding Norwegian flags. What's not to like?

    • @jumpman366
      @jumpman366 Před 16 dny +4

      You sound extremely fun

    • @forrestaustin7050
      @forrestaustin7050 Před 7 dny

      I kind of agree however if it's like local crafts and what not I'll support those.

  • @Aphixx
    @Aphixx Před 16 dny +95

    Waiting in any lines feels like a sin while on vacation to me. Just book a good guide or prebook any tickets. You'll end up learning and seeing more in a shorter amount of time and will often walk right past any lines when you're with your guide.

    • @phnex6913
      @phnex6913 Před 16 dny +5

      There's so many young people walking in lines to get "an X product" or "X pastry" because of TikTok.
      In Amsterdam there's so many of these places that someone had to do a video telling people there's better choices or equal quality choices of those they saw on TikTok.

  • @Goalier95
    @Goalier95 Před 15 dny +25

    "Enjoy your life, enjoy your family" love this Mark, thank you for reminding everyone what matters.

  • @sk8terboy64
    @sk8terboy64 Před 14 dny +18

    One thing I learned while travelling is to listen to your body. Rest when you feels sick, sore, or just need a quiet evening in. Granted, everyone is different, and there are people who can be go go go for two straight weeks while exploring. But resting when tired can go a long way towards enjoying your vacation to the max instead of pushing yourself too far and getting sick and missing out even more on vacation.

    • @maidahaltrecht6577
      @maidahaltrecht6577 Před 7 dny +1

      I agree. What I do is go out in the morning and then return mid afternoon around 3 pm and rest for a couple of hours. I then go back out in the evening for dinner and to walk around or see a live music show. Doesn't mean I don't get sick sometimes but this works best for me at this stage of my life.

  • @sunflowerfields4409
    @sunflowerfields4409 Před 16 dny +137

    Solo travel is the best! You can do what you want when you want and for how long you want.
    Deciding exactly what you want to do and planning things that make sense for a day so you don't waste your time going back and forth in the city.

    • @Jesus_Zendejas
      @Jesus_Zendejas Před 15 dny +8

      Thats me. My itineraries are never set so I'll always make up shit as I go.

    • @sunflowerfields4409
      @sunflowerfields4409 Před 15 dny +1

      @@Jesus_Zendejas That's often me too! I figure if we have fun, that's all that counts!

    • @lawrencelewis2592
      @lawrencelewis2592 Před 15 dny +1

      That is true- But, I like to be on my own during the day and meet up with friends in the evening for drinks and dinner.

    • @sunflowerfields4409
      @sunflowerfields4409 Před 15 dny +2

      @@lawrencelewis2592 If I went with a friend (or friends) who could agree to that, I'd be totally in. I think it's important to set ground rules so to speak so everyone agrees on what the trip will look like as you're planning.

    • @ElaborateTiger
      @ElaborateTiger Před 14 dny +4

      I barely do any research before I go places. I prefer to just turn up and explore the city myself. I find it a lot more relaxing that way.

  • @DenverDave98
    @DenverDave98 Před 16 dny +131

    My tip is to do whatever feels right. Don‘t let socials and others tell you what to do. For example I didn‘t go into the Louvre in Paris or into the Vatican in Rome. I don‘t like crowded places and prefered to find a good local café to enjoy a book there with a view. I look back and I‘d do it the same way again. I don‘t need a special pic of a sight etc., because the vacation is for me, not the socials. Always keep that in mind: It‘s your free time, it should be fun and feel right, you work hard the rest of the year! :)

    • @hassanalihusseini1717
      @hassanalihusseini1717 Před 16 dny +5

      Yes, I fully understand you. When I go on holidays nowadays I do not need to visit every sight recommended (OK... Vatican city and the Louvre is a must at least once).
      Yes, finding a café, reading a book (and smoking a shiisha for me 🙂) is also a thing nowadays much more than when I was younger.
      You have a nice way of travelling.

    • @cookiemonster-20
      @cookiemonster-20 Před 16 dny +4

      100% agree

    • @classics39
      @classics39 Před 16 dny +4

      This! And discover a place your own way...

    • @stephen6307
      @stephen6307 Před 16 dny +5

      Just buy buy postcards they have the best shots. LOL

    • @RainbowYak
      @RainbowYak Před 16 dny +15

      I mostly agree, though I'm of the opinion that everyone who's at least slightly interested in art should visit the Louvre if they happen to be in Paris. It's not even about the socials. There are places you just gotta check out. The Eiffel Tower can be cool if you're into high structures but at the end of the day, it's a metal tower. The Louvre on the other hand is a giant collection of some of the world's most prolific art. I've lost my eyesight a few years ago and I'm really thankful I visited the Louvre when I was still able to see and appreciate those paintings and sculptures. Also, in my experience the crowds distribute really well. The only truly crowded place is the front hall where you buy your ticket. After that, it gets much better. There were sections within the Louvre that were completely empty when I was there. It's a huge building and 95% of people only want to see the most famous exhibits. There's an entire hall dedicated to sculptures from Ancient Greece and another hall dedicated to native African art and practically no one goes there.

  • @BaronTomR
    @BaronTomR Před 16 dny +32

    Get tickets in advance for places you really want to go to. You can almost always go online and get a ticket(s) through their website before you leave. You can walk in past the people waiting an hour just to get tickets at the location.

    • @lindanekola798
      @lindanekola798 Před 11 dny +2

      Ying to make everybody happy all the time....ex. " Where to go for dinner." If you can't compromise....go your separate ways and meet up again later.

  • @larryleach4950
    @larryleach4950 Před 16 dny +35

    Adding on to pre trip planning, plan alternative activities if weather wipes out your original schedule for the day. Instead of wasting time trying to solve “what now”.

  • @cijmo
    @cijmo Před 16 dny +27

    If you travel with someone, make it someone who is okay to do a few things of their own and let you do a few things of your own. I'm not a shopper, my friend had NEVER traveled before so she wanted to look at every souvenir shop. So I said I was going to go to a museum for an afternoon so she could go through all the stores and didn't worry that she was holding me up. Likewise if one is an early bird and the other a night owl. Early bird, take a few hours in the morning, let your friend sleep in, go for a quiet coffee or walk. Night owl, let your friend get their early night. Take your evening walk, hit the clubs, whatever you do, and just be quiet when you come back.

  • @georgefoord7087
    @georgefoord7087 Před 16 dny +62

    Get up early have a midday break and then visit in the afternoon to avoid heat and crowds

    • @stevebalestreri7427
      @stevebalestreri7427 Před 14 dny +1

      Traveling to Europe when it's super hot in July/August will really Zap you and take your energy. You feel much more energetic in May and mid September as to July/August

    • @vkdrk
      @vkdrk Před 12 dny +1

      That's what I do when I'm in places like Miami. That midday break/nap is priceless and it feels like having 2 different days every day. Mornings are completely different than evenings.

    • @sina9541
      @sina9541 Před 10 dny

      @@georgefoord7087 That doesn't make any sense: cities like Florence or Lisbon have tourist waves all the time during the day. As a matter of fact also restaurants.

  • @karrihart1
    @karrihart1 Před 16 dny +164

    Don’t forget eating at chain restaurants instead of trying local restaurants/food.

    • @picobello99
      @picobello99 Před 16 dny +17

      With the exception of local chain restaurants. I think those get a pass.

    • @christinebradshaw274
      @christinebradshaw274 Před 16 dny +1

      Yes! I think of my trips in terms of how many meals I'll have in each place. If I'm somewhere for 2 days, that's 6 meals. Do I really want to spend one of those meals at this restaurant, or on this food? I don't have to have the perfect experience for every meal, but I don't want to waste any opportunities either if I can help it.

    • @laceyfaulkner9029
      @laceyfaulkner9029 Před 16 dny +7

      I always find it funny when people make a big deal about wanting to try American fast food in another country. If you have plenty of time, sure I guess, but I would not want that taking up a whole slot of time on a big vacation for me.

    • @joesmith4388
      @joesmith4388 Před 16 dny +4

      Add an * to that. I just had Greggs and Nandos in the UK a couple times because it’s something we don’t get in USA. Also delicious and cheap

    • @kevlarcardhouse252
      @kevlarcardhouse252 Před 16 dny +2

      ​@@laceyfaulkner9029Exactly. Even if you want a break from the country's cuisine for a night, it makes more sense to check out a local option of a different cuisine than a slightly different version of a fast food meal you can have any day back home.

  • @ms.j599
    @ms.j599 Před 16 dny +20

    Plan to wake up early to see the things! The earlier you go, the less crowds you have to deal with. I learned that in Pula Croatia, mid afternoon we could barely walk the roads with the mass amount of people out and about. The next day we woke up earlier and had next to no crowds, all the roads were empty so prime picture taking time, and no crowds in the stores. Do Not Sleep In!

  • @ShawnKDooley
    @ShawnKDooley Před 16 dny +15

    I'd say stay fluid in your expectations. While it's good to have a plan and itinerary, not everything goes to plan. Roll with it and if something you had wanted to see or do doesn't work out, don't let it ruin your day or trip.

  • @jamesv9221
    @jamesv9221 Před 16 dny +10

    I know people who went to Iceland, they had to see every single waterfall and glacier. Those things are important but my favorite thing about Iceland was experiencing their culture.

  • @RuRaynor
    @RuRaynor Před 15 dny +12

    Don't waste your vacation just *seeing* things. Book a workshop and DO something. It's really fun

  • @kevlarcardhouse252
    @kevlarcardhouse252 Před 16 dny +21

    Agree with a lot of this video.
    Another benefit of staying close to the downtown area is the ease of popping back in whenever you want to put your feet up for an hour or to get away from the crowds for a bit so you don't burn out.
    The restaurant thing is crazy. There can be a dozen restaurants serving similar cuisines with plenty of locals clearly thinking they are worth spending money on, but all the tourists are waiting in line for the one they saw on social media.
    My parents keep pushing me to go on a cruise with them and I keep resisting because being stuck on a boat with my parents will not feel like a vacation to me!

    • @anthonykaiser974
      @anthonykaiser974 Před 15 dny +1

      Yes! I had a rule. If I took the train, I didn't lodge too far from the train station unless there was a tram or other transport stop nearby. Many German cities the main stations (Hbf) are at the edge of the old city, but some like Karlsruhe (a literal modern-era city where there is no "Altstadt") "downtown" is by trams and U-Bahns. There are a few decent hotels and restaurants near the Hbf there, but all the action is 20+ min away walking. Not unreasonable unless you have much baggage.

    • @samanthafox3124
      @samanthafox3124 Před 12 dny +1

      Wow. My mother died from an unexpected illness when she was only 64, and growing up we didn't have enough money for travels. Only ONCE in my life we took a trip together and we were looking forward to more trips after her retirement. Never got the chance again. My dad is 80 and not in good shape anymore for travels. You have your folks and cringe at the thought of going on a trip with them. Life is so unfair and some people are so ungrateful.

    • @fentonkat
      @fentonkat Před 12 dny

      ​@@samanthafox3124Grow up.

    • @kevlarcardhouse252
      @kevlarcardhouse252 Před 12 dny

      ​@@samanthafox3124Thanks for the sanctimonious and solipsistic response. I'm sure your mother would be proud.

  • @msdisco85
    @msdisco85 Před 15 dny +7

    I like staying further out because you see more non-tourist parts of the city.

  • @ESUSAMEX
    @ESUSAMEX Před 12 dny +1

    I worked with a guy who never took time off and saved all his days. One day, the head of HR told him he needed to start taking some days. He took them all at once and then filed for retirement. He got a year and half off before his retirement kicked in. He and wife traveled the world for the year and a half, and then traveled the US once he was retired.
    I would not follow his plan but it paid off for him.

  • @SabinePrather
    @SabinePrather Před 16 dny +10

    One waste of time is seeing a museum or other site because you're supposed to. For example, I'm not so interested in sights in London and planned a trip to see England's natural landscapes. Make your own memories.

    • @kazeryu17
      @kazeryu17 Před 16 dny +1

      Exactly! If I ever go to London, I could care less about seeing Big Ben or Buckingham Palace. I just want to go to a nice pub and have some pints while admiring the buildings craftsmanship and listening to everyone around me speak in a British accent, before walking down a random cobble stone street until I find a place where I can get some fish and chips.

  • @RIANDOA
    @RIANDOA Před 7 dny +2

    Solo trips are SO underrated! I enjoy travelling with another person, but the freedom of a solo trip is really something. Highly recommend doing at least one solo trip, even if you're a bit uncomfortable with it. Once you're there, that will likely change very quickly. :)

  • @sarahmedearis9578
    @sarahmedearis9578 Před 2 dny +1

    This is HANDS DOWN my favorite video of yours yet! You had me cracking up! I love your passion and common sense in this video! Thanks!

  • @myvillagelifeintheupperhar607

    One of the best walking tours I have taken is the Jack the Ripper tour in London. It was done in the evening, and it was incredible. The tour guide even dressed the part and snuck up on our group at the beginning of the tour. I agree about planning. My family came to visit us in Germany, and they had no plan of what to see. My sister wanted to take day trips to Switzerland, France, and the Netherlands. I have never been so worn out. I felt like I was on a speed tour.

  • @blackbeardsadventures
    @blackbeardsadventures Před 16 dny +23

    location is key, I see so many people trying to save on hotels but end up ubering everywhere and spending the same money they saved. Great video again with solid information

    • @picobello99
      @picobello99 Před 16 dny +2

      Exactly. Yes, you saved $45 a night on your accommodation, but you're also spending $10 on public transit or taxis per person everyday. The same thing goes for budget airlines that don't fly into the main airport.

    • @reginabillotti
      @reginabillotti Před 16 dny

      @blackbeardsadventures on my last vacations, I only took a cab or to and from the airport. On one of those trips, I walked nearly everywhere, and on the second, I relied heavily on public transportation. (The second city had much better transportation than the first one).

    • @davidpitkin9352
      @davidpitkin9352 Před 9 dny

      What were the 2 cities?

    • @reginabillotti
      @reginabillotti Před 9 dny

      @@davidpitkin9352 New Orleans and Montreal, respectively. (To be fair to New Orleans, part of the problem was that there was construction on Canal Street during my stay, which caused delays and need for extra transfers. But I also found the bus drivers a little rude and unhelpful when asking questions.)

  • @whooooaa1
    @whooooaa1 Před 16 dny +8

    Very good Mark! I try to tell people these things all the time. However, I do enjoy group trips. All my international trips are a group of 6. But, here's the key. It's the same people and we enjoy the same type things and have been great friends for over a decade, so it works. We never invite others though for your exact reasoning. It's so much fun with a group, but just with the right group.

  • @edwardjones7065
    @edwardjones7065 Před 16 dny +18

    Great video Mark, one of your best. Time is such a precious commodity, even more so on holiday. Another is not booking on-line prior to your trip. Also never pass up the chance of interacting with locals in a bar or coffee shop. They live there and will gladly help with your travel experience. Use food trucks during the day, so much quicker than queueing for a restaurant. Going with my wife to Melbourne, Sydney and Perth at the end of the year from the uk. All flights, hotels and excursions booked up front.
    Keep it up Mark.

    • @hassanalihusseini1717
      @hassanalihusseini1717 Před 16 dny +1

      Good advice! But even a chain restaurant can have different offers in different countries sometimes.

    • @robertdullnig3625
      @robertdullnig3625 Před 16 dny +1

      Not sure where you're coming from, the food trucks where I am are super slow.

  • @PCthechef
    @PCthechef Před 16 dny +8

    That last bit! Hard pass on group trips. I'm a huge fan of solo travel and have come to prefer it most of the time. I've taken myself on some pretty amazing trips and hope to take many more.

  • @margsangster8994
    @margsangster8994 Před 16 dny +8

    Fabulous content thank you! And wholeheartedly agree. My biggest disappointment for people when they travel is if they don’t do any research, obviously as you say they are going to waste time, but also a huge disadvantage of this is that they miss out on learning lots about that country and culture. I am an avid solo traveller and a huge part of the buzz for me IS doing the research and planning, so I can get the most from my trip. I cringe when I watch these CZcamsrs shooting videos marvelling at some incredible building or statue, but they actually know nothing about it or its significance. I’m not saying you need to do a university degree level of study on each destination, but it makes your trip so much more interesting and fun if you have some prior knowledge of things pertinent to that country. I can highly recommend it!! Safe travels everyone! Cheers from Australia

  • @BlacqueJacqueShellacque_
    @BlacqueJacqueShellacque_ Před 16 dny +74

    Agree with staying far away...but also staying *slightly* outside of the main area of a city may put you in an area where you get to experience the "real" city. Example: Stay in Brooklyn vs. Manhattan. 20 minute subway ride to where most people stay and you get to experience a more tourist free area. One you missed: NEVER EVER go to a chain restaurant (or other shops) while on vacation. Local businesses only.

    • @nomadr1349
      @nomadr1349 Před 16 dny +6

      Absolutely. Also, in Europe at least, outside touristy areas you'l get MUCH better restaurants for less (some places significantly less).

    • @bordaz1
      @bordaz1 Před 16 dny +7

      disagree with chain restaurants if they're outside your home country. Trying McDonald's in different countries is, ironically, a good way to compare tastes across borders. But I agree with staying in a less touristy/crowded place

    • @stephen6307
      @stephen6307 Před 16 dny +4

      disagree totally about Brooklyn and Manhattan. The only reason I go to Brooklyn is that I have a friend who lives there.

    • @Warriorcats64
      @Warriorcats64 Před 16 dny +1

      Nah, Cook-Out in quintessential Upper South, Texas needs Whataburger, Wisconsin needs Culver's, California without In-N-Out is just wrong.

    • @Carl2988carl
      @Carl2988carl Před 16 dny +3

      Manhattan is the real NYC as well.

  • @aszechy
    @aszechy Před 16 dny +5

    Great points. The ones I don't get are the people who take photos of absolutely everything and that's all they care about, take the picture and go on to the next thing, without actually looking at the sites or experiencing the places they're at.

  • @karinbinnie1862
    @karinbinnie1862 Před 14 dny +4

    When I went to Europe I got home on Sunday evening and went to work the next morning. Several of my co-workers said I should have come home on Friday so I would have the weekend to clean the house. What??? Miss two days in Europe to clean the house??? Of course, they had never been to Europe.

  • @Fakewokeagenda
    @Fakewokeagenda Před 13 dny +4

    I think that worrying about wasting time is in itself a waste of time. Just go with the flow, see what you want to see, relax and don’t worry about what you’re missing out on

    • @renanmarcondess
      @renanmarcondess Před dnem

      That's what I struggle the most with, letting go of fomo, which is counter productive to me because I also hate planning and always go to my trips with only 2 nights booked and the rest to be planned.

  • @ingi2785
    @ingi2785 Před 16 dny +15

    I work in Germany. Actually if I don't use all my vacation days for the year, they will be gone... It will reset in the next year. But I'm ain't nobody you have to force to take it anyway 😃 And you have to take them. It is the law ☝

  • @rckoala8838
    @rckoala8838 Před 16 dny +6

    Back in the regular camera days, on our honeymoon in Greece my husband bought professional slides of the important sites and monuments instead of trying to photograph everything himself. He still took pictures but they were personal ones of the two of us.

  • @sandiandgregh
    @sandiandgregh Před 16 dny +2

    We live in Canada and have explored some other provinces besides our own over the years (so beautiful) however, we follow my Dads vacation advice. If you want to travel overseas, do that while you’re healthy and young-ish. At some point in life you may not want to do (or can’t do) those long haul trips anymore or won’t be able to get travel insurance. At that time, then explore even more closer to home. Happy travels all!

  • @TripHacksDC
    @TripHacksDC Před 16 dny +35

    Jocelyn brawling with a bad tour guide 👀

    • @timmmahhhh
      @timmmahhhh Před 16 dny +10

      I want that video!

    • @WoltersWorldEats
      @WoltersWorldEats Před 16 dny

      Dude, i was holding her back... the guide was BAD like... BAAAAAD. Half the tour was her talking about how she lived in New York... it was a tour of Savannah, Georgia :)

    • @joehoe222
      @joehoe222 Před 16 dny +1

      Aaaaaaaaand in the Red corner! Etc...

  • @coolpiraterapstar
    @coolpiraterapstar Před 16 dny +17

    I think over scheduling and cramming too much stuff makes the vacation worse. You get tired and overwhelmed.

  • @daves5716
    @daves5716 Před 16 dny +6

    We ate dinner at one of the most popular restaurants in Vienna last month and avoided the long line out front by simply having our hotel make a reservation for us.

  • @jasonbarney5587
    @jasonbarney5587 Před 16 dny +3

    Wolter is crushing it these days with these vids. Lots of travel wisdom in this video. So much truth about things I think we all do to some extent. I'm guilty of the waiting to get that perfect shot. Many hours wasted. 😂

  • @Mainerinrancho
    @Mainerinrancho Před 16 dny +13

    Totally agree on that not waiting in line for photos 🙌 We do the same… take a pic from a different angle. 😆

  • @JenB-qn2jk
    @JenB-qn2jk Před 15 dny +1

    That last one really hit home for me!! Mark, thank you for all the great tips, some of which should be obvious but aren't, and especially for the validation regarding the PTO, the "sleeping in" issue, the lack of research, and especially the "group trip"... I've learned from experience that solo (or with my partner) trips are the best for me. I always look forward to your videos!

  • @toilettduckk
    @toilettduckk Před 16 dny +5

    What some of this boils down to is, don't spend a lot of time trying to get pictures that you can impress everyone with back home. I definitely agree---how many people are really that excited to see someone else's vacation photos?

  • @tammyn
    @tammyn Před 16 dny +29

    Laundry because you want to go carry-on only. I spent over 8 hours in Italy doing laundry. What a waste of time. Pay the $150 for the checked bag both ways and get a whole extra day in Italy - that is a good deal.

    • @anthonykaiser974
      @anthonykaiser974 Před 15 dny +8

      Get clothes you can wash easily in the sink, that will dry overnight, like synthetics, and just wash with shampoo. Only thing you need 1/day of is cotton underwear. That takes next to zero space.

    • @leebridges1674
      @leebridges1674 Před 15 dny +8

      Sometimes you can drop off laundry at a wash-and-fold in the morning, go touring, and pick it up before dinner. This worked fine for our trip to Britain; think we spent about 20 minutes on the whole laundry project in ten days.

    • @grassytramtracks
      @grassytramtracks Před 13 dny

      ​@@leebridges1674 how did the cost compare to paying for a bigger bag?

    • @joaniedallaire4352
      @joaniedallaire4352 Před 13 dny +4

      How did it take you 8 hours for doing laundry? Usually, I book one hotel that offers laundry service and I put my clothes in the wash machine at the end of the day when I am gonna rest anyway after a long day and recharge my phone at the same time. Then, the clothes can dry during my dinner or during the night. No time lost. I only need to wash my clothes once for a two weeks vacation. What is a waste of time is waiting in line for checking the bag or waiting for the bag after your arrival. (And don't get me started about the risk of having your bags lost)

    • @leebridges1674
      @leebridges1674 Před 13 dny +1

      @@grassytramtracks Much cheaper. If memory serves it cost maybe $25 to wash all our stuff. This was in 2019.

  • @koenven7012
    @koenven7012 Před 16 dny +5

    On the PTO, I can fully agree. My parents had these huge plans on doing a lot of far travels when my dad retired but my mom died of cancer before they got to that point (and my dad had a CVA and is in a wheelchair now). That was a wake-up call for me. I'll do my traveling now, not some point in the future I might not even reach.
    Planning is something I do too (especially if I travel with my dad and his wheelchair, as then you have to take accessibility into account). I mostly have a list of things I would like to see and the day before I plan them in, depending on location, weather, etc. Unless it's that one big something that you have to book in way in advance, then that gets assigned a day and we plan around that. Another thing to be careful about and check up front, or you might not be able to do the thing you really wanted to do.
    As to wasting time, do your research on the location of things you want to see and plan to do each day a few that are close together, so you don't waste time traveling through a city three times because the things you planned for that day are on different sides of the city. As my dad is in a wheelchair, when I was in London and we had to take the bus as not all subway stations are accessible (and therefore we got stuck in traffic), each day we went out from the hotel to an area in the city, did the stuff in that area we wanted to do (mostly on foot), and then went back with the bus. Repeat next day with a different area.

  • @whitejade1000
    @whitejade1000 Před 16 dny +2

    👍💯 EXCELLENT TIPS, as always! The one about taking just 2 photos is gold! We’ve all become convinced we need to take a zillion photos and still we’re not satisfied.

  • @jimsimonetti2929
    @jimsimonetti2929 Před 16 dny +4

    Staying outside of the city center was really what undermined my trip to Ireland. Spent way too much time in a car and trying to find parking. Our hotel outside of dublin was like 40 minute train ride from the city. I've also done friend trips and we just set a meet up time. If someone wanted to tag along with the sightseeing we were doing that was fine but if you want to do something else thats cool too.

  • @well-blazeredman6187
    @well-blazeredman6187 Před 16 dny +2

    One good way of getting the most from a holiday is to keep a journal or write a book about your travels. Being faced with a dull page is a powerful motivator.
    Off to Greece today. I have a loose plan for every day.
    Good video.

  • @VampiraVonGhoulscout
    @VampiraVonGhoulscout Před 16 dny +25

    The only downside of travelling while being a night owl is that I have to wake up at stupid o clock in the morning.

  • @SharpBalisong
    @SharpBalisong Před 16 dny +4

    7:12 LMAO that top left one. omg I love this channel.

  • @mrnarason
    @mrnarason Před 16 dny +6

    Went to Las Vegas recently wit family, woke up early at 7 am. Ate breakfast at 8 am. Left by 9 am. Lunch at 2 pm. Went back to hotel and swam in pool. Left to go out again at 6:30. Slept at 1 am. Packed days the best, you can get so much done.

    • @leebridges1674
      @leebridges1674 Před 15 dny

      This is also a really great schedule for Disney parks.

  • @therealrajabell
    @therealrajabell Před 16 dny +10

    Take your pic and MOVE ON! Perfect.

  • @jc3885
    @jc3885 Před 16 dny +4

    Thanks for the reminder to actually go on vacation.

  • @MIEJ4
    @MIEJ4 Před 16 dny +11

    I do enjoy a nice sleep in. Wonderful. And miss out another boring museum…. Excellent!😎

    • @wickedwheezel
      @wickedwheezel Před 16 dny +2

      Plus the nightlife in some cities are amazing- you don't really know London, Berlin, Las Vegas, Miami or IBIZA without seeing the nightlife, so l will sleep in till 1pm 😅

    • @bethlori5545
      @bethlori5545 Před 16 dny

      @@wickedwheezel Right, it's all about what's important to the individual - if you love photography, it might be worth it to you to wait for a good shot.

    • @IvanPompa-lr7iy
      @IvanPompa-lr7iy Před 15 dny

      I mean, of course. If your trip includes clubbing, for sure it is worth it. But I dont think he is talking about that jajaj

  • @marsgal42
    @marsgal42 Před 16 dny +8

    The biggies for my last trip (San Antonio) were the Alamo and the Riverwalk. I bailed on the former when I saw the lineups and that it was all under construction anyway...
    When I went to London last year I allocated my days as Shopping, Touristy Stuff, Out of Town Side Trip, Contingency.

  • @mannerspleasecaninetrainin1007

    We were in Venice Italy and the people taking multiple pics at the same site were super annoying. Blocking walkways, holding up pedestrian traffic etc.

  • @Poorgeniu5
    @Poorgeniu5 Před 16 dny +5

    One of my biggest waste of time is walking very long distances around 1 mile (1.6km) or more in cities instead of taking public transit.

  • @tselinsky6452
    @tselinsky6452 Před 16 dny +6

    For Americans going to Europe jet lag is a main reason why people can't be up early without some pain. Breakfast is usually the big motivator!

  • @bruddahj3323
    @bruddahj3323 Před 16 dny +9

    Waste of time is packing to much luggage

  • @HannaAdi14
    @HannaAdi14 Před 15 dny +2

    Excellent points! A note about the free walking tours - I usually enjoy sticking it out, as sometimes you get to see cool places that you'd never get the chance to explore yourself, or you get a deeper dive into the city and culture (especially if it's a themed free walking tour, like architecture or dark history). If you do leave the tour early, don't forget to let your guide know, as they might waste everybody else's time waiting or searching for you! And tip them before you leave.

  • @bretaskinner3143
    @bretaskinner3143 Před 16 dny +6

    As an old fart who does NOT understand the selfie trend, your pictures don't waste time were hilarious! I like to get random people in my shots (always non-selfie) to show scale and how busy or not the place is. As introverted DINKs (now retired), we prefer shoulder season to reduce the chance of lines and crowds.

  • @jackybraun2705
    @jackybraun2705 Před 15 dny +3

    Another time waster is getting lost or losing each other. If you arrive at a crowded place, fix on a point where you can touch base if you split up or lose each other. Check the street map before you set out so you don't take unnecessary detours. this is not so much of a problem these days as everyone has a phone on them, but it's still better to be sure (What if a phone gets pickpocketed, or runs out of charge or simply loses GPS?)

  • @susanlueem8267
    @susanlueem8267 Před 15 dny +2

    I was in front of a cathedral in France and I overheard a couple with cameras say, „you get the inside, I‘ll get the outside - see you here in 15 minutes „. I couldn’t believe it!

  • @mssixty3426
    @mssixty3426 Před 16 dny +3

    You are so right about taking your PTO - there may have been a time when you were paid that back if you didn't use it, but those days are long gone, same with sick leave days.

  • @absolutezeronow7928
    @absolutezeronow7928 Před 16 dny +2

    I'll agree with those who say "don't try to do everything" while you're on vacation. I'm a solo traveler, I know that I have to accept my limitations. The unexpected will happen: sometimes flights get delayed and you spend the whole day in transit. Always have enough money to take a taxi if needed (otherwise walking or public transit in Europe will generally get the job done). Your time is precious, don't waste it waiting in lines if you're not passionate about the thing you're waiting for. Also avoid situations you'd feel pressured by time constraints. Try to eat at places where the menus are local language only (if it's an English speaking country). It's your vacation, experience it how you want.

  • @wncjan
    @wncjan Před 16 dny +10

    I try to visit rural areas where there's not too much to see so I can focus on what's actually there, and I don't mind waiting an hour or more for the right photo

    • @kazeryu17
      @kazeryu17 Před 16 dny +3

      As someone who lives in a somewhat large city, rural areas are a nice change of scenery. Tou can visit a quaint town and experience everything that town has to offer, and not feel like you missed out on anything.

  • @ljrigsbee
    @ljrigsbee Před 16 dny +3

    Getting out early in the morning isn’t always the best. It depends where you are going. In London, most museums and other attractions purposely don’t open until at least 10am due to the crowds of locals using the public transport to get to work. If you wait until late morning, it will be much less crowded. Have a leisurely breakfast near the hotel, and then head out.

    • @geheibel
      @geheibel Před 14 dny

      @@ljrigsbee The Road to Hana Hawaii is filled very early with folks who need to get there and back in a single day. Book a room in Hana (not easy I admit), get on the road in mid-morning, pull over often and let everyone pass you. It's a much more relaxing experience.

  • @wickedwheezel
    @wickedwheezel Před 16 dny +4

    I agree with everything said in this video. I would however add to not over schedule what l will see and do on what day.... Remember its a holiday not Business meetings... I usually inform myself on trip advisor and CZcams about the places I am about to visit.... To get a rough framework of what I wish to see and what not... But l always live some space for spontaneous visits or excursions which pop up when I am there....
    Also sleeping in is sometimes the best way to get the most out of visiting places where there is a great and vast nightlife - im thinking of Berlin, IBIZA, Las Vegas, Miami, Cancun, London, so when you stumble to the hotel at 5am there will definitely be no Museum or Beach Day at 9am.
    Nightlife can be a big part to see the city/ destination so sleeping in goes with it 😅

  • @janefrost4267
    @janefrost4267 Před 16 dny +3

    One of my more enjoyable trips was when a chose a hotel with guided tours available. Each day they would have 3 or 4 tours available at a decent price. Before I arrived, I booked a morning tour for day 1, 2, and 3 of my stay for places I absolutely wanted to see. I ended up booking 2 more tours through the hotel during my 5 day stay and still had lots of time for solo adventuring. I got discounts on the tours because the hotel partnered with the tour company. I saved over $100.

  • @yolita21
    @yolita21 Před 14 dny +1

    Mark, I agree with you 100% on everything you said. I just got back from a two week vacation in Europe and didn’t waste time waiting or sleeping! The best vacation, got so much in!

  • @grizwoldphantasia5005
    @grizwoldphantasia5005 Před 16 dny +2

    One thing I discovered was that the more pictures I took, the less I remembered outside the pictures. The best camera I had on vacation was a dinky Minox -- no focus, no zoom, no nothing. Take the picture, or don't. Mobile phone cameras are almost as simple, but too many people fuss with the controls instead of looking at whatever they're trying to photograph. Take the picture, or don't, then look at whatever you took a picture of and enjoy it.

  • @JDizzledum
    @JDizzledum Před 16 dny +10

    I really like to get out at 7am or even earlier on vacation and see a city before it gets busy, you're not usually missing too much if you go to bed at 10pm instead of midnight.

  • @shanobian
    @shanobian Před 15 dny +2

    The only time I would disagree with the staying out of the area is London. It's so well connected the time lost is negligible. And it's not just a little but it's significantly cheaper.

  • @babsr8479
    @babsr8479 Před 16 dny +3

    I really do like traveling on my own because I'm on my own time schedule and not worrying about splitting bills all the time.

  • @krotenschemel8558
    @krotenschemel8558 Před 16 dny +9

    When I was a kid, we were doing a lot of caravan camping tours around Europe. So, it was a lot of driving around and that was okay. However, at some point during every other vacation, my father spotted a "shortcut" - which always resulted in a serious adventure that wasted the day. Things like getting lost in a swamp in Belgium, driving some slow almost off-road dirt track through winefields in Italy or having to take that 2m wide road with the steep cliff on either side around that mountain ... backwards... with a caravan in tow.
    As that film pointed it out once "Shortcut always involves danger, otherwise it would be the normal route"

    • @joannshorter127
      @joannshorter127 Před 15 dny

      Oh but the memories he created for his family. But seriously, I agree with you, even when it comes to walking around a city or town. Sometimes the shortest route is the hardest ... we live in Lisbon & the shortest route often involve hiking up a nearly verticle & often slippery sidealk or path.

  • @kimkohrt377
    @kimkohrt377 Před 14 dny +1

    Going only to the most touristy spots. When I went to Scotland, one of the locals asked about my vacation plans. After I told him all the things I planned to do, he said most tourists don’t see much off Princes’s Street & The Royal Mile.

  • @DavidNewmanDr
    @DavidNewmanDr Před 16 dny +3

    Just two points I disagree with.
    1. Getting up late is fine before an evning pub crawl followed by an all-night party.
    2. Group motorcycle rides can be better than individual travel, especially if someone else has done the planning to find the best routes.

  • @jimbo3860
    @jimbo3860 Před 16 dny +4

    Did a free walking tour in Berlin once. The 'guide' was an American student who seemed to speak no German and had only recently arrived in the city. I left the tour after she fumbled through some facts about the Berliner Dome that she was reading off her phone.

    • @kazeryu17
      @kazeryu17 Před 16 dny +3

      This reminds me of all the travel videos around CZcams, where they just read from Wikipedia, 2/3s of the photos aren't even from the city they mention, and they can't even pronounce the city name correctly. They're great if you need more cringe in your life.

  • @schink01
    @schink01 Před 16 dny +11

    On the topic of staying in the centre or on the outskirts of the city. Last year I booked a stay at the Hotel Bologna Center. You'd think it wouldn't be too far from the city centre, right? Well, as a seasoned traveler, I figured beforehand that it was about 20 minutes walk from the center. I was still able to sacrifice that, the hotel was cheap and looked good. It wasn't until I got there that I found out that you first had to get to the outskirts of the city where public transport still goes, and only THEN, you walked 20, more like 35 minutes between the fields and far beyond the industrial edge of the city to get to the hotel between the factory halls :-D

  • @onewhoisanonymous
    @onewhoisanonymous Před 16 dny +10

    My mom is very take pictures of EVERYTHING and then go person. She won't enjoy anything. Her plan is take a million pictures and not actually pause and just soak everything in. She is also very afraid to try anything local. She was in Vietnam for 4 weeks and barely ate anything local. She didn't know what bahn mi was or pho. She ate at sit down restaurants she was familiar with. I don't like traveling with her.
    I am very "get up and go" traveler. I mostly do solo traveling.
    As I have gotten older, I am less rigorous with my planning. Yeah, I will look up some places to see, but I do lot of exploring when I get there, and/or I will plan stuff when I am at the hotel.

    • @hassanalihusseini1717
      @hassanalihusseini1717 Před 16 dny +1

      I had a colleague when I worked in Denmark who changed the company. There he had sometimes to go to India, and when he had to go he packed his suitcase full of Danish food tins as he did not want to eat Indian Food.
      If I had that job I would have enjoyed every day eating Indian Food!

    • @jumpman366
      @jumpman366 Před 16 dny +1

      Loosen up jesus christ

  • @BH6242KCh
    @BH6242KCh Před 16 dny +15

    "... 5 hours is 2-3 more museums..." That's just checking boxes. 5 hours should be one museum.

  • @eddiebruv
    @eddiebruv Před 16 dny +7

    I’ve got expensive cameras and I have to admit that I very rarely take them on holiday now. Nobody ever looks at pictures anyway!

    • @patrickmaddy4611
      @patrickmaddy4611 Před 16 dny +1

      I have them too and I don't take them to Europe anymore. It's just bulky to carry a camera system that takes up a whole backpack to itself, especially when I'm trying to travel light with only a small backpack and carry on suitcase.
      For domestic trips, which are mostly national parks, I still take the nice camera though.

    • @geirmyrvagnes8718
      @geirmyrvagnes8718 Před 16 dny +1

      Modern phone cameras are more than good enough for most purposes. Some times a long lens or some other feature of a good camera is helpful, but I only bring it for a photo trip, I don't lug it around when I'm supposed to enjoy a city.

    • @kazeryu17
      @kazeryu17 Před 16 dny +2

      There was a time not long ago, when you could very well be the first person to get a specific shot of something, but today, you can just go to Google, and see someone else's photo of the exact thing you wanted to photograph.

  • @jpbaley2016
    @jpbaley2016 Před 16 dny +2

    I used to rent a beach house with friends that was right on the beach. The 2nd night, a friend colleague came down to spend the night as we would be up early to do some things. At around 7am, as we were standing on the deck enjoying coffee, we saw a pod of dolphins cavorting in the waves. I went to let two of my friends, who were already up, know about the dolphins. They told me to go away because they were two busy playing an on-line game, something they could easily do and regularly do at home. In fact, that’s what they did almost the whole week we were there. I asked my one friend why she even bothered to pay to stay at a shore house if she was just going to stay indoors and game. Her response was so she could listen to the waves while she gamed. A sound app would have given her the same thing. My advice is; Don’t spend money to go someplace just to do exactly what you do at home. My vacation was ruined because going out and doing things alone is not as fun as enjoying it with friends.

  • @SometimesPerplexed
    @SometimesPerplexed Před 16 dny +2

    One waste of energy and time that I see a lot is people wrestling bulky luggage up and down stairways in city underground systems and other access to public transportation. There’s usually a lift, but they don’t know where it is.
    Unless you’re really young with energy to burn it’s probably better not to bring luggage into the metro unless it’s an express line to the airport or something similar, but if you do, find out in advance what stations have lifts, ramps and escalators, and where they are.

  • @johnzick8771
    @johnzick8771 Před 15 dny +1

    Mark, I love your videos, but this has got to be my favorite! I solo travel a lot because I want to take MY trip. I have vacationed with people who want to sleep until noon! I'm up at the crack of dawn and ready to go!

  • @russmeans
    @russmeans Před 14 dny +1

    I have enjoyed so much in travel at sunrise. No crowds, quiet and a coffee❤

  • @marcomarcon5802
    @marcomarcon5802 Před 16 dny +8

    I agree 100% with all your recommendations. I always plan my visits, if you spend 200 bucks a night for a bed you need to make your time out of bed count

    • @geirmyrvagnes8718
      @geirmyrvagnes8718 Před 16 dny +3

      I get centrally placed but cheap hotels in expensive cities. I don't want to be pampered, I want to be right next to whatever fun I have planned. I can sleep in and have an excellent cup of coffee at home any weekend.

    • @marcomarcon5802
      @marcomarcon5802 Před 16 dny

      @@geirmyrvagnes8718 I agree

    • @neilmurray7330
      @neilmurray7330 Před 16 dny +3

      I enjoy the planning almost as much as I enjoy the holiday itself.

  • @TMD3453
    @TMD3453 Před 10 dny

    Every last shred of research seems to help. I like to read up on cultural events either before I get there, or right away. Happy travels!

  • @donaldavis
    @donaldavis Před 16 dny +7

    As far as waiting for the picture--Why do YOU need to be in it? I love people standing in front of absolutely beautiful places, landscapes, etc. and the most important thing is THEM in the picture, not the sight (especially the mug shots with the duck face in front of the Grand Canyon or Notre Dame--REALLY?).

    • @profjohn9629
      @profjohn9629 Před 16 dny +3

      Agree 💯%
      If I want to remember the Colosseum, Big Ben, or the Parthenon, why do I need to see myself in the picture? To prove to my friends that I was there? If your friends don’t trust you, get new friends 😂
      My last vacation I was in Greece for three weeks. I only took one “selfie”, and that was for an inside joke with my sister 😉

    • @aszechy
      @aszechy Před 16 dny +3

      Ok, but then why take pictures at all? You can find plenty of pictures of Grand Canyon or the Notre Dame online (likely better than the ones you can take yourself).

    • @schrire39
      @schrire39 Před 14 dny +1

      @@donaldavis Disagree. Profoundly. The pictures that will be of most interest to you in years to come will be the ones with you and your loved ones.

  • @patfernandes7741
    @patfernandes7741 Před 16 dny +2

    I'm guilty of trying to do too much - Trying to accept that's it's ok to have at least one day where I do absolutely nothing.

  • @phackdaphish
    @phackdaphish Před 15 dny +1

    It is very thoughtful to be invited by friends and friends to vacation with. I've politely declined due to saving my money and PTO for my own travel goals. They understand.

  • @jamesvalenti9288
    @jamesvalenti9288 Před 16 dny +1

    From someone who just traveled to Europe for the first time (went to Normandy), DEFINITELY plan your trip. Also, DEFINITELY ANTICIPATE JET LAG! I landed in Paris at 130PM local time. My plan was to drive to my hotel in Bayuex with a stop in Rouen. You have to pass through Rouen anyway to get to Bayuex. So I figured it would be a smart move. And it was. The next day, however, I knew I was going to be exhausted...so everything I planned for my first full day was not only very close to my hotel, but close to each other. That worked out very well, because even though I went to sleep at 11PM, I did not wake up until 1130AM. That did put a small wrench into my plans, but not much. I basically skipped lunch that day. However, do not over plan. Sometimes, the best way to experience the area is to walk on your own. Go down that alley, walk on that beach, or talk with that stranger. My first full day in Normandy, I was walking on Omaha Beach by myself. One local was driving this WW2 vehicle called a duck, which is basically a boat shaped Jeep that could drive on land and water. The driver saw me, and said sir! Come please (in French). I walked over, and he jumped out, handed me his phone and said "you take photo of us, and you come swim with us." I just said "Hell fucking yes!" and took the picture, and we took the Duck 300 feet off the beach. It was absolutely incredible. Had I over planned, or gone on a tour guide, that would have never happened. Sometimes, it's best to just wing it.
    Lastly, Wolter is right. If you have time off, USE IT! I am fortunate enough to have a good boss who encourages us to take our time off. From November 2022-January 2023, I was stuck covering 2 territories at my job due to a colleague going out on medical leave. When he finally got back in February, my boss told me "That workload would stress the hell out of anyone. I do not care where you go, but next month, take a week off. That's an order." So I took a trip to Memphis, and loved it. It was a great time to unwind and relax. Compared to another colleague whom worked for the company for about 20-25 years, he NEVER took time off. He was always stressed out, and everyone always told him "take some time off, you earned it!" and he REFUSED. Now his territory is VERY ROUGH, and very stressful. Well, in March, he had a stroke. About 2 weeks after the stroke, he was in physical therapy. He checked himself out against medical advice. Now, he's probably in his last couple months of life. He was always stressed out all the time. Maybe had he taken his time that he earned, he might be doing better right now.

  • @Azog150
    @Azog150 Před 15 dny +2

    I think travelling with friends is fine, so long as you have the understanding that you don't have to do everything as a group. It's fine for people to split off to do whatever they want to do. If some friends want to sightsee on a fully planned schedule, others want to sleep in, and others want to go and sit in a plaza for a long leisurely lunch, that's fine. That way everyone gets to have their own holiday, but at the end of the day you still get to socialise together and go for a meal or a drink. Not to mention, it can work out very cost efficient when group booking accomodation.

  • @Nurichiri
    @Nurichiri Před 16 dny +2

    Don't always go back to the same place. We took a family vacation to Door County, Wisconsin 4 years running and this last year was not enjoyable for any of us. Been there, done that.
    Next year we're road tripping to Alabama to visit relatives.