My Struggle Raising a 5-Month-Old Baby Alone : My Wife Left Me When I Needed Her Most
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In this heartfelt and personal video, WALOJA KIPOKO from Goma, DRC, shares his challenging journey of single fatherhood.
After a devastating volcanic eruption led to the loss of his job, Waloja faced the ultimate betrayal when his wife left him, leaving behind their 5-month-old baby and another 3-year-old boy.
Now, struggling to raise two young children alone, with no stable job and no one to turn to for help, Waloja opens up about his daily hardships, his fears, and the strength he finds in the smiles of his children.
Join him as he navigates the tough path of providing and caring for his sons against all odds, showcasing the resilience of a father's love.
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Great to see he's a dedicated father for a wee baby and another lil un left behind for whatever reasons their mother left he's totally dedicated to his kids which for so many worldwide isn't so ,(I'd have liked even one dedicated parent ) 🙄🙏 well maybe if and when he goes and meets her where she lives they may reconcile ,and if not at least those children are lived and cared for unconditionally which is priceless in itself 🙏❤️🙏
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Be strong my brother bcz singles ladies also taking care for their kids alone.
How can you say this, you are talking human talking, but in the presence of God, women are suppose to care for their children, not men , men are suppose to work and take care of their families, how can a woman be pregnant and live her five months old baby, and you are there saying he should take care of the baby, five months old, do you have children. am surprised this comments came from a woman
Its a different status....women's are naturally made to take care children from scratch to end....while mens are here to provide shelter for the family 😢😢😢
Xactly !
Women do it evryday !
Currently, I'm tryna help a 20yr old girl who is 5 months pregnant and abandoned by her fiance.
Her family has also rejected her.
Women face diz tins everyday and it doesn't make d news
Even married women. You van be a married single woman. Not to take sympathy away its not easy and i applaud you
@@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767 imagine... well done sister & God bless you more & more
Women do this every day.. there are millions of single mothers I’m sure
Xactly !
Women do it evryday !
Currently, I'm tryna help a 20yr old girl who is 5 months pregnant and abandoned by her fiance.
Her family has also rejected her.
Women face diz tins everyday and it doesn't make d news
I understand u well but it does not justify u as a mother leaving child as young as this one it’s a no for rather take he where a care centre at that age
So
God Bless this man with His Grace's
He is a very hardworking man
The man is very smart more than other women
Nothing extraordinary here. Women go through that everyday
😅😅
Xactly !
Dis is almost a normal tin 4 women.
Wot's d big deal ? 🤷🏾♀️
If women who r d weaker vessel can cope, men shud not hv any complain at all 😂
Dis is main reason men should never take their wife 4 granted
It IS extraordinary. How many mothers get away with taking their kids to work with them? 😂
Very true, 😂😂😂😂 why not ladies to be extra ordinary?
@@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767cry
God bless him, and his children, such a caring and good father may the Lord intervene and send helpers Amen
Is this really for real? How do women really leave their young children or babies. I'm a person who was thrown away at 1 year leaving 1700 km from the place she used to leave behind the house of her long distance Family. I'm now 55 but rejection has failed to leave me despite trying to move forward. Rejection is a deep wound illness without a cure. It's a sore on the heart that someone will go with to the grave. I'm wishing you and your children healing and peace. It won't be easy, but God will see you through.
I THINK REJECTION IS CURABLE. IT DEPENDS ON THE PERSON, & THEIR SOCIETY. IS SOME SOCIETIES PEOPLE NEVER FORGIVE & NEVER FORGET BAD THINGS. THEY'RE EXTREMELY REVENGEFUL. BUT IN OTHER SOCIETIES PEOPLE COULD EASILY FORGIVE & COULD ALSO FORGET BAD THINGS. THEY'RE NOT REVENGEFUL.
May you may find some healing and peace at some stage. So sorry this happened to you. Until we experience something ourselves we can never know how painful something really is. Hope your future is filled with love ❤
@@whitneyhill5586 we are NOT suppose to forget the bad things. We are suppose to forgive the people that does us wrong and use the experience as life's lesson. Not let it dictates our lives. Every trials we face has a positive lesson for us. We are suppose to be BETTER not BITTER!!!❤
This sinks deep into the phycsi of ones soul.
Please tell orhers.... Unless you have felt the painnnn. I have been there. Still faces my own struggle. Dealing with rejection. I have hurt some loved ones along the way. I guess the saying is right. Hurt people hurt people. God is truly able.
You making it seem like he's doing this extremely fantastic thing. He's raising his, his children. Women have been raising children without the fathers for generations.
My thoughts are, oh well. How many men right there in his village have left their wives. Good job father. Keep it up.
It’s happens to both genders- No difference- just have to keep pushing through ❤
Women- do get hit hard though- No judgement here- This is real life- ❤❤❤ for those babies
A wonderful husband
If this can get to him he should kindly move on forgive his wife but shouldnt accept her back bcos after going thru all these n getting a sickness from her will be more heartbreaking what he is facing. Stay strong u will definitely make it and probably get someone who really loves you and your children genuinely
Please help this father ❤❤😢
A woman does not leave her children lightly. Maybe she had a breakdown and is not mentally able to cope with life. Maybe he didnt help her with her mental struggles . He is doing a great job , but it’s no more than most women do. A happy woman does not walk away from her home and children. There’s more to this story than he is saying and she may be in great danger . Why hasnt he tried to rescue her?
Agree. She may be suffering from postpartum depression. It’s a real thing, I don’t think a lot of people believe it.
@@catsnpeacocksu must be serious 😂😂😂
This man he doesn't deserve all this he has never been a bad father to his wife 😢😢
Are you living in the same house?
You can't know what that woman went through 😢 to reach a point of leaving her small baby
please dont bring her back!!! maybe she is sick and you will regrate just forget her your doing better without her!!! ,ur one of kind
Single ladies do this everyday...that's his baby it's not a big deal he can take care of him/her like ladies normally do.
May God send him help
Fathers do this everyday ..leave mothers to struggle alone.....until its like a normal thing however this man is to be celebrated cuz he stays with his kids and tries to be the best he can be
Salute ❤
Yes this is what we do when men left us , or denied their pregnancy.
Do it br😢
Life is full of surprises indeed
Live your children with amen
What a stud and man Im touched.
Bless you sir. Keep going. One day these children will be even more of a blessing to you.
If she has gone into prostitution leave her there, I know you are depressed but life will improve in time at least you have a job and you are doing right for your children ignore the nasty cold comments they are not worth your time.
Take care of your children God will bless you children are blessing in our lives love them
Thank you, We love you 💕💕🙏🙏🙏
It's too bad, because strong my brother 😢
And to think ! He gets attention , but men do it everyday and no one says anything ?
Exactly
Stop being mean, If one gets a chance to be aired out let it be .There's a time for everything.
A five-month old baby would probably still be breastfeeding, don't you think? That means she left the child to die. Women who do such are rare, and that is why the man is being hailed. By the way, are you the runaway mother?
@@samueldareekohimi3261 ~ not all babies are breastfed ~ that’s something I personally couldn’t do ~
@@Veronica-dc5msstfu
U get support system from government
he is a good blessed father he take good care of his children it is hard on him to take care of his children if he could afford he could get someinwho love children to look after them
Well done man God will see through
what a great father big lesson for humanity
Women raise kids all the time by themselves. You’ll be fine.
Trust God bro,god is preparing a good table for you, you have life bro 🙏 he's gonna send u destiny helpers
God will send you,helper Sir,so that you can give your 2 innocent kids good future.
Lord help the man and his children
I would love to see them.😮
No matter what that woman is heartless 💔 😢
Damn ❤so sorry
A man from heaven
And this is normal for women, to care alone for their kids....but a big deal if it's a man. Well, anyways after I too was a single parent, I wish him strength and the best!
It is well my brother just never abandon your beautiful children keep going God will make a way .. u are a wonderful father to ur kids and don’t take her back but instead if ur mom is still alive see if she can help u babysitting ur children while u go out to work stay blessed
A very touching story
Its so hard.
Good job
5.05 men do that everytime they leave their children and never return 😢
😅😅
Xactly !
Dis is almost a normal tin 4 women.
Wot's d big deal ? 🤷🏾♀️
If women who r d weaker vessel can cope, men shud not hv any complain at all 😂
No
Be encourage my brother God will make a way stay strong
Good excersize how I wish he can come to South Africa and teach these irresponsible man of South AFRICA❤
She probably was going through postpartum depression...
This man is just looking for attention women go through this but they don’t look for attention like he is
😂😂
Don't mind him.
Women face such everyday and nobody hears of it.
Good god.
If he's the father he should take care of his kids if the mother is not available for whatever reason. Its hard work. God bless you for that but they are your responsibility if the mother is not well because she can't be well to abandon her kids. Maybe she has post natal depression.
Nzambe aza nayo❤️ courage
This is extra ordinary bcos it's a man doing this kind of thing. Yes we know women go through this all the time but we were moulded to be able to cope in such situations but not for a man. A man doesn't have that strength of a woman to cope so I pray for God to be his strength and see him through
Dis is almost a normal tin 4 women.
Wot's d big deal ? 🤷🏾♀️
If women who r d weaker vessel can cope, men shud not hv any complain at all 😂
Thanks for your understanding.
I salute him 👏, at least he is experiencing the challenges many women encountered everyday around the world. I'm not sure if it has to be normal to women not men😊
Man also do the same but we do it what so speciall about man that it needs to be seen or heard
Please stop saying such cold words to this man. So heartless.
Hope you both Live for God and Repent from wrongdoings Hell is real God Bless u put God first and he will provide Have Faith and Pray
Within the first few seconds of the video the narrator sounds like the story is a scandal while this happens to women every day… if it happens to a man it is suddenly a big deal…
This is exactly what im saying. Nothing new of shocking to see here....its just normalized when its a woman making it ok
@@sunmoonrising81 exactly!
Stay strong dad!
😳I hope that she is alive.
Nothing unusual for most women. If any woman/man shut up the door behind their back, you LOCK IT UP!!! and never open again. Better find a woman who will love you all along with your beautiful kids.
It is well
Dont search for her and dont take her back find someone else if she wanted to be with you she would have stayed😒if you go look for trouble trouble is what youll get.
You can leave a woman with a 5 year old becoz she can breastfeed the baby not a man. But hope he got through. Only with God he can
The are too much single mothers the husband just leave them same like this... the are the ones need to be helped
Its a big deal bcos it falls on a man when women are facing uncountable situations like this
I hope he meets a nice woman. I know a man who was left with a newborn. He was 18. The baby's mother took advantage of that man, moved him in with her(he was 16 and homeless at the time). She was sleeping with him until she gave birth. Then she put him out. Just wicked.
Ur comment is quite confusing.
He was 18, he 16.
He was left with a new born, she moved him in, she put him out....
Contradictory statements 😀
That is his story!!! What about the other side??
@afrimaxEnglish this is an insult to all single mother. This should be pulled down.
Then, why their couldn't understand, when single mothers need to bring their children to work. Why force their women, to give their children to perverted , childcare business or people in the world to work. Just shows, their could have been working with single women and giving them more support. Let's see how long , his sibgle fatherhood last in abled to raise the children alone. ❤
So sa
sad
😢😢😢😢
How to help him
What a wicked woman, God will prosper Ur ways and take care of Ur children amen
Maybe She does not feel good somehow. It is common that women after a birth of a child fall in a kind of mental dissorder. The whole family needs support but there are many families in a same situation. So sad. Dear Africa😘
Women do it so it not a new thing in the world
Better a child be with father then she take its somethings happen to them
Men do this all the time
This mother has no remorse for her children if a man work hard for you and kids and at some point loose his job can't you still love the man it's all about money for you people she never love him don't accept her back
In which of these Count
Countries in Africa did this happen.
Is not good leaving you wife
Maybe the baby doesn't belong to this man. He should check the DNA of the baby.
That must be a real restless woman. Carry a baby for 9 months, deliver and then dump them and walk away.
Mwn are always the one to question paternity as soon as things is wrong. Millions of babies get abondoned by thier dad at or even before birth. Its so shocking to people that he is a single dad. The poor woman probably was suffering from depression.
@sunmoonrising81
From the action of the mother, all things come to question. There is nothing wrong with checking anything in this case. Of course, who knows what the mother is going through, I guess that's what this man and all of us listening will want to know. A lot of children are abandoned everywhere by men or women, so it's not the guilt of men or women but by those involved in the case. So what are you insinuating?
@@leviticusemmanuel4421 im insunating that its normalized for the man to abondon the woman and now its scruntinized when she is the one who leave. For all we know the man took these kids and chased her away. He not on this platform to tell his story or vring awareness..he begging money...just the same as the single woman can get a job to care for her kids is the same way he can. Men on a hold abondon thier kids every day. Maybe we need to normalize women doing the same so the whole world can get overthis man complaining about being the sole parent of his baby.
I can't help but hope the mom is okay , something with this story just sound weird and off. Ik moms can do thisn sometimes but something seems off, not saying the guy is guilty he seem like a good guy.
The good thing he has a Job just move on and marry another wife
Yes , he has to forgive her and move on is not point in of bringing her back, knowingly that she is a prostitute.
Why do you make a big deal of man doing what woman does all the time
Cry about it
Like❤❤
The father needs to get a dna test of his children since his wife turned to prostitution. If she abandoned her whole family, especially her children who knows what secrets she holds.
so because the wife left ,it is the husband fault abi?
have you not seen women that doesn't want responsibility?
they just want to come to life and enjoy.
why is it that if a marriage has problems or crash it is the mans fault , nobody will also want to hold the woman accountable.
double standard will destroy this world it is just a matter of time.
i have told men before stop getting married if you want children use a surrogate it is as simple as that.
If she turned to prostitution n left coz of u losing the job never make a mistake of bringing her back she will become more worse than before coz personally am a victim of the circumstance
Are they not your children
You also should care for them why are you bringing it to the media to make it feel like it a big deal
There’s a woman on my street her husband left her with 2 children since over 8 years now and she’s has been the only one care for them and the thing is that this woman has a stroke one hand and one leg isn’t working good but still she never give up
You are a man please tighten up your belt and care for your children
Mk spare me all these long stories
😂😂😂
Women does that, everyday. Whats the big deal
Good job