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- čas přidán 1. 08. 2024
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2:21protein brownies, morning tidy + working out
3:56 trying some tiktok makeup looks
6:17 next project - elevate the bathrooms!
8:49 I have a crazy idea for a lantern diy
10:48 pottery update!
12:04 I caved in and now I'm basic
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15:23 being a third wheel for a skate date!
16:26 my current watch on netflix
18:11 try amaretto in your lattes ok!
19:32 home depot run to get diy supplies
20:47 let's talk about codependency
26:40 final few errands!
27:38 new mic new mic new mic! (+ ILYSM)
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~How old am I? 25 (born in '97)
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New mic works well! Nice & clear here in New Zealand on a Sunday am 😊
New mic works great 👍 Good luck using it😀
YAY!!!🎉🎉
Your car chat melted my heart and I totally get it going through the same timeline as you with marriage and divorce just 6 months ahead. In a LDR with a stellar human bean and having that space to personally grow resettle and recenter with the privilege of dating someone so upstanding. Thank you for your vulnerability and realness. Always here for you authentically when you can present that side. Your life is not for our entertainment but it's a honour to share in what we can. 🌸🌻
Thank you for sharing your story friend!!! I am so honored that you are apart of this community!!! 🤍🤍🤍 your kind words mean a lot to me! 🫶🏼
well said and ty for your vulnerability, it's admirable how you're able to speak freely on your experiences.. please keep sharing on the codependency-conditioned behaviors aspects
Loved the car chat on codependency! A previous therapist of mine once told me that codependency is the inability to sit with the discomfort of others. As someone who takes responsibility for other people’s feelings, and assumes that I’ve done something wrong this really resonated with me and has really changed the way that I look at my relationships and how I react to others!
I'm finally gonna say it since you mentioned the toilet ... Close the lid. Close the lid. Close the lid. Keep it closed. Germs.
Loved this vlog.
She can use the rack over the toilet and make a shelve for something - maybe a photo or some candles, a plant.......it would be lovely.
Open toilets are so gross to me but I know most people do it
@@ChessieChess there is scientific research that shows specific germs on things when toilet seat open.
People exposed to more germs have better immune systems. There is scientific research on that too. :) - with that said, as long as you flush with it closed - it's fine.
@@EM-is9ti it cracks me up there is a thread about toilets. I just love this group!
Hi Michel, wanted to say that you are very wise for your age & you deserve more credit for your own self realizations, insights and honesty. Take this compliment In & wear it Bravely 🙏❤
This vlog saves my saturday night. 💖 I'm lying in bed with severe period pain and the vlog distracts me very well. Thanks for ur positivity and your honest words in the car!
Awe, I hope you start to feel better friend!! I am glad I could bring a distraction!! 🤍🤍
The new mic sounded great! Watching your growth is so nice. I’m an OG from way back and this version of our girl is the best yet. Thank you.
You are so epic and I am so glad I found you. I’ve been a fan for a while when I lived in LA and was lonely I found comfort in your blogs. Thanks for sharing your life with us. I really appreciate it
Thank you for being honest and open about your body changing and the fact that it’s a POSITIVE thing! You go!
Brilliant car chat! Keep them coming. So valuable...a really important topic to explore.
I am so happy she shared this with you and that you could share this with us! I think its a very underrated part of a young relationship. Thanks for sharing!
Thanks, Michel! I love your heart-to-heart chats:) I am going though a similar life situation to you and your openness to talk about your journey has helped me not feel so alone.
Codependency is so sneaky, I am glad you have a therapist that you feel comfortable with, and open to her suggestions. Lots of love, I hope your neighbor party was fun. ❤❤❤
The new mic is perfect! Thank you for that car chat! You help more people than you know, including me!
So happy to see your growth! I always look forward to your videos as you are uplifting and kind!
Enjoyed the car chat. Getting the codependency diagnosis can be a game changer. I'm so glad you're on the journey and doing the work. A must-read is the book Codependent no more by Melody Beattty. A wise counselor I once had said that she believes around 75% of all Americans are codependent. Walking out of it is a journey and takes time. It's so rewarding and life-giving. You're doing it!
Melody is an amazing person and has changed so many lives including mine
Michel -- thank you for this community you have created and continuing to find ways to make it work for YOU and your purpose. Due to the busyness of day-to-day life, I find myself ignoring most of the vlogs that come across my feed except for one account... yours. Thank you for constantly showing up for your viewers and modeling how vulnerability and awareness are traits we can all benefit from having more of. What can I say, I am just so grateful for the career path you chose!
Sidebar: I am needing a new daily cleanser, but I am nervous about the Algae Extract and Sesame listed in the ingredients' list for the OSEA cleanser you use since these are pore-clogging ingredients. Are you still loving the OSEA ocean cleanser as your daily cleanser?
Also, new mic FTW!
This car chat was sooo inspiring! I have never gone through anything like that, but I have several friends who have experienced rough relationships. Your words put so much wisdom and knowledge about things that many have never been able to put into words. Thank you so much for sharing!
Thanks for sharing! On the lanterns you could’ve used remote controlled candles. They flicker and change colors. You really are growing right before our eyes!
Thank you for sharing on codependency. That really resonated with me and was something I needed to hear. Thank you!!! XXOO
Slow morning are fantastic I have every Friday off for myself day. I make it a point to have a slow morning on that day coffee and breakfast time to watch something I love it's the best thing I have done for myself. You have been doing great with the apartment.
Thank you for sharing the topic of codependency ❤
I think the soft eyeshadow liner look is beautiful on you!
Love the car chat, felt really called out on that, never realized that full definition and how it applies to me after leaving my relationship with my family. Thank you for being so open and explaining it so well and clearly 😊❤
Wow I absolutely love your new rug! ❤
Hi Michele! Im a greasy lady at times too, my go-to is the half-do, where you put the top part in a pony, and tie it on the top of your hair. I also do a slick higher bun!
(Lately the higher bun is my signature late 20s look)
Completely relate to your chat about NPD and codependency. I'm so sorry that was your experience. I wouldn't wish it on anyone.
Lanterns can be found at craft stores. Also check at target. In the dollar spot. Plus you can get remote control candles😊
Hi, Michel and Happy Saturday!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙🌷💖💖💖💖💖🎇👍
Hi Michel. Thank you for the car chat. It's very humbling how you willingly expose vulnerable parts of yourself for the sake of helping others, especially when most partners of a narcissist are unaware. The sound quality was good to me. Take care!
Wow I’ve been working through something so similar and that makes so much sense. Definitely was co dependent in the past and now I’m hyper independent and learning who I am along the way.
I love how organised you are so would really like to see how you manage your computer work. I’m not super organised so like to learn new methods and your planning by the hour sounds good inspiration! Great mic. Much clearer sound! Thanks for the car chat. I can see my own patterns so great myth buster! X Learning this can mean you make healthier choices and growth ❤ x
Hi Michel good morning happy Sunday morning and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you
So sweet Michel, loved the vlog ❤ can’t wait to hear about neighbor party! Pants looked great and mic sounded awesome!
Michel!! I’ve been watching your videos forever and my whole job is revolved around Home Depot lighting products so this was such a funny surprise and I really appreciate the insights you shared in this video😂
I would love more videos on things you have learned from therapy or things like that. I was also in a 6 year relationship (same age as you) and it's been hard to break through those patterns
Oh yes, from the little I know it was obvious you were putting 100% and more of the effort, that unhealthy frame can be seen through the lens of co-dependency for sure. One of the most liberating thing about my relationship with my husband is that I genuinely never have to people please him. The good things we do for each other come from the heart.
Sony mic sounds great, less background noise and less echo!! Your doing great!
I love the new mic it sound clear and no echo!
I like your new mike better very clear, Thanks for your car chat your helping lots people with your honesty.🙏
Your car chat gave me so much to think about, and research. I love my fiance so much, and am so happy with him, but we are definitely in a codependent relationship and it's on me, so I wanna see what I can do to help that. Also, the new mic sounds great. 💜
Thank you Michel, I really needed this car chat today.
Thank you for the car chat 💘 I talked about codependency too in therapy and it’s amazing how uneducated I was about it. It’s hard to share what we talk about in therapy too, so sending love for this video. Also I just got the ECM G1 too for my Sony ZV-1 and it’s amazing, I’m so glad you got it too💕 wireless, compact, what more can you ask for!
Thank you friend!! 🤍🤍Yeah so far it is pretttty great!!
Please do more videos on psychology and God. You had so much faith during one of the most difficult times anyone can go through. That’s what brought me to here after your divorce. I find your mental strength very inspiring
New mic sounds amazing!!! ❤
We totally need that recipe for protein zucchini muffins !!!
Also ikea has some great lantern options !
When you said you were getting lanterns I immediately envisioned three of them, but all at different cord lengths/heights as I think that would be more elegant, add more visual interest, and capture those spa vibes you were after. Just a thought! Also re: codependency - there's nothing to be ashamed of there. I definitely have those tendencies as well, and the power of recognizing that situation when it's happening and evaluating what that means for the future of that relationship is invaluable. The old cliche knowledge is power is so pertinent there. So happy for you for all of your personal growth!
Thank you for that definition. It's a difficult concept to accept for sure. Harder to get through when inside the relationship. 🥴 love watching your videos 👐
Yes, remove that towel rack above toilet and put up a shelf or two. Can't wait to see what you work out for the lighting situation in bath.
For a slick pony all you need is a boar bristle brush and whatever hairspray/gel/hair oil/Shea butter/product to hold the smooth hair.
Love your channel 💕
I really loved this video's car chat. and I am going through something similar. I was very codependent and now i'm daing someone that will be moving long distance soon and I think it will really help me. Thank you for sharing your experience on this topic and please share other things you learn over time on this topic if you feel comfortable :)
Here for the car chat and organizing vlogs! Yay for growth and vulnerability!
i think the pony looked super cute!
the new mic sounds amazing!! I'm actually so impressed
Use those battery remote candles, the Flickr is so relaxing and safe.
Sound is great
I can recommend lanterns with candles for your bathroom. You can get really nice hanging shades moroccan style that would give a beautiful atmosphere in that area.
I L O V E the View from your apt.. OMG my favorite of all your places.. ❤❤❤ Enjoy your videos.. HAPPY looks good on YOU
Appetizer from DC restaurant I have served many times.
Chopped liver pate (buy at most deli's), cream cheese, chopped onion, caviar, chopped hard boiled egg. Serve with melba toast.
Arrange each ingredient on a single platter in a mound and serve with melba toast. Or for dinner party arrange on a salad plate for each guest. They can make their own combinations on toast.
Your therapist has probably already recommended Codependent No More… but I second that recommendation! ❤
Melody Beattie was life changing for me
Yes i have co dependency. Th devotional book help me a lot and book too. Lily Collins uses devotional book and gratitude journal. My friendship and relationship are healthy now. I want to go back therapy.
My husband and I were long distance before we got married, I feel the same way, I had been in a bad relationship earlier in life and I believe us being long distance was what I needed at the time for our relationship to succeed
The new mic works Fine 😊 have a Good weekend 🥰
The mic sounds nice and clear! In regards to trying new eyeliner techniques, I’ve seen one on TikTok where you tab some mascara onto your nail and swipe it where you want it and then it helps when you join it up to create a nice neat line. The application I’ve tried and it worked surprisingly well, however, my technique for joining it up isn’t the best but you might have a better shot at it than me 😂
Hi, Michel! The new mic sounds fine. Thanks for talking about co-dependency. It made me realize I do some of the things you mentioned. I need to research the subject. On a different note, try looking at craft stores for ideas for the tub space. Hobby Lobby has tons of baskets and items for the home- at great prices, too! They carry Christian books, too. There is also Michael's craft store. Have a good week! 🌞
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Hi so glad you are doing pottery and can't wait to see new projects. You can find some great items on QVC they always have lanterns and battery operated lanterns and great stuff . Max is cute as ever so more kisses from me please.
Mic sounds great👏🏽👏🏽
I am a RN and my Stanley cup is a life changer! I drink so much water now!!!! I love those jeans you got!!!! They look great on you!!!! Nothing like getting a great pair of comfy jeans! I am totally a Jean girl!!!
I don’t understand how they make you drink more water? I’ve been debating because I feel like I’m not cool if I don’t have one and every single influencer has the white one but they are ridiculously expensive and I don’t get the hype. Please enlighten me 😂😊 💦
1.) I will gladly help you with eyeshadow and using eyeshadow as liner! 2.) For a slicked hairstyle (I go bun instead of pony) I use my brush and a little bit of gel, so I don't have to buy another product!
Omgoodness, we need that muffin recipe. Will you add it to your new or revised website? ❤ thank YOU
Great car chat. You got this. We got this!
Michel, you are giving such a joyful and comfy energy in this vlog 😳❤ love that for you!!
Awe, thank you sweet friend!!🫶🏼🫶🏼🤍
I am SO SO SO a big fan of "You" and adore it all. I do tend to like darker things, but overall, I just love how it shows the different dimensions of a stalker and how our perceptions of people aren't always right. Also, LOVE your jeans! Furthermore, I thought the new mic provided a richer sound but wasn't too drastically different either. I say go for it!
Michel, i dont know if you have a hobbylobby near but i bought 3 outdoor glass laterns. 2 things to think of is the fake candles that have a remote work great and another thing to look at is amazon they have some has small puck lights that are stick on that are to go under cabinet wireless and have a remote. So there are 2 options you might check instead of the lighting with the pucks be shooting down turn them up toward the ceiling for a relaxing light while relaxing in the tub....oh and p.s. you can put a picture over your tub or even a cute little shelf with maybe some litle fake green cuculllents. Oh and to the other day the had the candles in a nice cset on amazon for very cheap. I think there were like maybe 6 in a package for 19.00 but it might of been on of those deals.Good luck!
Michel, you’ve come SO FAR 🥹🙌‼️ Finding a Therapist that talks BACK honestly is SO important and Life changing when you listen and put into action how you can get where you want to go in your Life 💯💪
And you’re absolutely right about God bringing to you EXACTLY what you need 🥹🙄🙏✝️
I love when you talk about how important God is in your Life! I would love to know what your week is like as far as your Spiritual Life. I’m reconnecting to God through the darkest days I’ve ever experienced. Just full of anxiety and fear. So anything you could share would be greatly appreciated (IF you’re comfortable discussing this topic sometime)
Sending Hugs & Blessings to you, your Family (including the puppy 🐶), and of course Jordy‼️❤️🥰💋
Thank you Gina🥹 I think it’s really special that you are intentionally connecting with Him - that really helped me through the darkest times too. And I’m sorry you’re experiencing anxiety, I know how crushing that can be. I actually just recently recorded a video on the habits I’ve implemented to help reduce anxious feelings (at least the things that have worked for me) and that should be out within the next couple weeks. Hopefully it has some value! Sending you love🤍
@@MichelJanse TYSM for taking the time to reply 🥹🙏🙏❤️❤️🩹 You made my day 🙌✨😍 I watch ALL your videos so CANT WAIT to hear your thoughts and recommendations for paralyzing anxiety (Fear is the driving force for me)! I can only give it ALL to God and function in small increments when it is creeping up on me… Trying soooo hard to get another job post massive layoff (I’m 6 months into this nightmare & all resources are gone), so I’m ready to get on with my Life under Gods plan for me vs me driving! Lord knows it’ll come out 1000 x better than if I solo the rest of my Life 🙄🙏✝️❤️🩹
Blessings To You Michel x ♾️ 🥹💯
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@@outoftheklosset Hi & TYSM 🙏 But I already took that step @ the beginning & spent $395 with Top Resume to ensure not only my resume was in excellent shape but Also my Linkedin Profile, so getting laid off in Q3 is disastrous for anyone (since Companies are generally not technically hiring until Q1 of the new year due to evaluations of previous year’s performance/new budgets) etc.. I need Prayers lifted up & Praying HARD I get good news today🙄🙏♥️✝️❤️🩹💯🙌
You can Putin a Little shell on that wierd Tower raczej. Put there some candles or this fragrance bamboo thing, nice place for perfume or an art piece
Oops 😬 The new 🎤 sounds great 👍 And those new jeans look amazing on you 🥰🙌
Michel- they sell light bulbs that screw into fixtures and pendants or wallsconcws that can be turned off/on w a wireless remote.
the new mic is great!😍
Thank you for sharing
Hey Michel🤗May U post those morning muffin recipe they look yummy! Really enjoying ur new apartment bvogs keep em coming! I'd love to see some more decor items that you recommend for a small apartment! Thxs LUV Dani from Boston
Oh need U to try the Makeup Revolution eye palettes. U can get em @Target, they're amazing I've been using them for 4 years now the only eyeshadows that I will wear!
The mic works perfect😊
Michel try using a fine tooth comb to slick back your hair into your ponytail hopefully this helps 🙂
Hey Michel! Still watching but for a slick back pony/bun I have found using a boar bristle brush is best. I also recommend brushing back instead of down towards your ears (hopefully that makes sense) 😊
I have the same towel bar over my toilet. I hang a hand towel there for drying my hands
New mic is crystal clear!!!!
Your new mic sounds the same! Go for it!!
I’m going to binge on your channel today
Love your videos always!! The old and new mic sounds exactly the same lol didn't know it was different until you showed the old one 😅
There are rechargeable light bulbs that people normally use for lamps in the middle of the room that are remote control.. just make sure the bulbs come in the size the lantern you pick needs.. maybe find the bulbs first :)
Hi Michel! Amazon sells battery/remote control light bulbs😊
i feel u on ur car chat. im going through all of that right now with my divorce and realizing that was what i was going through as well.
That 🎤 is awesome!!
Mic sounds great!
The new mic sounds good!
New mic sounds great!
new mic sounds even better!
new mic sounds great!
Your new Mic sounds great 🎉
I love you, the way u keep so busy. When it warms up I hope to find a gym to work out. Plus we all need a therapist. EVEN IF ITS FRIENDS. You are awesome 🙂🙂👍👍🤍🤍🌼🌼
Thank you sweet friend!! 🤍🤍
Those muffins looked great. What is that bread? I have non celiac gluten sensitivity. Enjoy your videos!
The new mic sounds great.
The new season of You is really good and different.