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  • Teal Swan's video on Integrity explores Integrity and how to communicate with your own conscience to stay in alignment with your own morals and principles. Teal shows us examples of how to recognize incongruences in our own integrity and morality, which include recognizing lies, lying, and why people act the way they do in a crisis.
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Komentáře • 206

  • @devinroy799
    @devinroy799 Před 3 lety +24

    ‪1. Define right vs wrong.‬
    ‪2. Integrate your sides.‬
    ‪3. Keep your word.‬
    ‪4. Don't promise impossibilities.‬
    ‪5. Resolve internal discord.‬
    ‪6. Get authentic.‬
    ‪7. Avoid impulsivity.‬
    ‪8. Admit incongruity.‬
    ‪9. Be brave in fear.‬

    • @bluwater1422
      @bluwater1422 Před 3 lety +1

      I agree & also taking responsibility 4 ones actions is part of having some sort of integrity

  • @emilyrainbowglo
    @emilyrainbowglo Před 7 lety +223

    Teal is an epic example of living in integrity. Despite incessant attacks from spiritually misaligned people, she remains true to her message. Never watered down. Never silenced. A Braveheart Queen indeed.

    • @ChezzaOuttaNowhere
      @ChezzaOuttaNowhere Před 7 lety +8

      Emily Norwood true and I've stuck it out watching her because of this.

    • @melissakemp2741
      @melissakemp2741 Před 7 lety +6

      Very true.

    • @PlatinumRatio
      @PlatinumRatio Před 7 lety +6

      Emily Norwood yes, a vision of purest courage, make no mistake.

    • @Dankyderp420
      @Dankyderp420 Před 7 lety +2

      How does she shame sexuality? She has videos on how to use orgasms for manifestations, she's even said in her shadow work videos how she LOVES sex. Can you link me to some videos or places where she has said what you're saying she said? I'm not trying to be a dick or anything, I'm legitimately curious. It would make sense though, given her sexual abuse as a kid. I don't think any human is perfect, and how she healed from the childhood she had is pretty amazing in and of itself.

    • @emilyrainbowglo
      @emilyrainbowglo Před 7 lety +1

      Bianca-Rose Woods I've been sober for almost 7 years. Our addictions are just a symptom of deeper problems but after we stop using/drinking things get clearer and we begin to heal. Good luck on your journey! Sending so much love your way!

  • @Yasumi_Hoshikawa
    @Yasumi_Hoshikawa Před 7 lety +38

    it's like integrity sometimes is the opposite of survival instinct. We avoid whatever's detrimental to our survival, which is why we lie, steal, play the victim, etc. Integrity is recognizing that preserving and perpetuating our moral standards, maybe in the hopes they'll abolish corruption in future generations or clean up the genepool, takes precedence over our self preservation. which is hard enough without others condemning you for it.

    • @HBC26
      @HBC26 Před rokem

      I'd say integrity aligns with survival instinct. The difference is, it's the survival as a whole, not as the individual. Living in integrity is living in the highest good for society because you truly believe in what you are saying and you acknowledge that will contribute to the highest good of society, it will contribute to the evolution and well being of others. You are aware that everyone is connected, so if the whole crumbles you crumble along with them. If you crumble it's ok, the whole didn't crumble. If there's no one to defend something different things will stagnate and the whole will go on a downward loop to destruction.

  • @sergioin3D
    @sergioin3D Před 7 lety +12

    My heart is so content that you are alive, it's the feeling where it hurts and I get tearie eyed but not because of sadness because of relief

  • @johndurham7957
    @johndurham7957 Před 6 lety +13

    believe it or not guys, teal saved me from suicide on one occasion few years ago.
    thank you Teal!...

  • @HarryWebb46
    @HarryWebb46 Před 7 lety +13

    Forget public opinion! Speak your truth. Even when time and experience change it, speak your truth boys and girls, however awkward it may be! 🌟

  • @noeliag.8545
    @noeliag.8545 Před 7 lety +15

    Thank you so much Teal for covering this! This is something I'm currently working on for myself.

  • @curiosity_saved_the_cat
    @curiosity_saved_the_cat Před 7 lety +30

    Step 7 Don't act impulsively. Good one! Often I've felt lack of integrity for not lashing out when someone crossed my boundary. I confused being impulsive for integrity. This video might've prevented a criminal record.

    • @DivineUnionTV
      @DivineUnionTV Před 7 lety +3

      I feel the same thing ... but I had rage issues and didn't want to be a slave to those either, and I found a way to wait to see ... even just a few seconds, to see what is the most minimal reaction I could give to still feel aligned

  • @jim6235
    @jim6235 Před 7 lety +4

    When I was a child it was my understanding that a person would act with integrity, because of having a conscience and to act otherwise meant having no conscience. Now I think of lacking conscience as being immature, or unaware, or not awake.

  • @joeldavidleath5066
    @joeldavidleath5066 Před 7 lety +8

    As these years roll by, you truly demonstrate what it looks like to be continuously rising to a better version of oneself. I always ask myself, " Now how the hell is she gonna top that one." you continue to amaze again and again. Always popping up at the craziest of times with exactly what I need to hear...like the missing piece of the super-puzzle in which I call my day. Sending yet another virtual "hats off" from the soul.

  • @JM-vs9wf
    @JM-vs9wf Před 7 lety +40

    Teal, thank you for giving me a few minutes of relief every week.

  • @00sassbot
    @00sassbot Před 6 měsíci

    The most inspiring line: “the good news is integrity can be built no matter how degraded your integrity has been in the past.” What a game changer. When you’re low, and you hate yourself and your circumstances, there’s nothing like focusing on the smear of your history to lead you into. downward spiral of further destruction. Thank you, Teal!

  • @Lola23mfam
    @Lola23mfam Před 7 lety +1

    "A true apology should not come with a justification..." Well said.

    • @beesdreams
      @beesdreams Před 7 lety

      (Maybe meant at least in part for the ears of Jordan Duchnycz???)

    • @bluwater1422
      @bluwater1422 Před 3 lety

      That's a fact besides a true apology should b legit & no justifications & own up & take responsibility 4 actions that was taken that's how I look @ it now

  • @katatarot597
    @katatarot597 Před 7 lety +3

    This is the reason why people tell you one thing and really mean something else, as a result of this, I end up feeling really confused about people and similarly, people get confused by me, cause I don't know how to react to their absolute dishonesty haha.

  • @Litgator
    @Litgator Před rokem

    I appreciate that she made this video. There is not a lot of content on this subject. But I have to point out that she conflates honesty and integrity, e.g. 2:34. Integrity is about the consistency of a person's behavior. A person can be consistent but still dishonest.

  • @stephaniepappas5240
    @stephaniepappas5240 Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you again, Teal. These videos truly do help some (probably many) of us work through some severe traumas of our past. (And probably past lives, too.) I really can't thank you enough. Only good words. Only good thoughts towards you. You are doing exactly as I dream of doing. Turning my experiences into keys and tools to help others through their own issues. As well as open the eyes of others who maybe aren't as aware of their own humanity and spirit. I will always look back on my life and remember you as one of the ones who helped me through my own issues with your insight and honesty.

  • @mwaminakihimba
    @mwaminakihimba Před 5 lety +1

    Teal Swan, I am impressed by the ways you have explained this Solar Plexus. The explanation allows me to expand and further understanding and endeavor towards becoming in a alignment!

  • @superbobor
    @superbobor Před 7 lety +1

    12:54 "A true apology should never come with a justification about why you did it."
    I very much agree.

  • @teatimelupine9193
    @teatimelupine9193 Před 7 lety

    Thank you, Teal. I really appreciate your guidance and support that you offered today (and every video). This video in particular is directly in alignment at this point in time to what I personally needed to hear. Thank you.

  • @jaileader
    @jaileader Před 7 lety +1

    Very Clear Explanation.......Thank you

  • @ymearth
    @ymearth Před 6 lety

    Love it❤️ Thank you so much, Teal💝

  • @venture2excel
    @venture2excel Před 5 lety +1

    What?....Awesome. Side-note, I think that often we believe that we have integrity when we say the truth. I have found that we use the truth, that we exploit the truth and we can manipulate with it...so there are three stages or levels; one is to be truthful, then be honest, and then to have integrity. Integrity is the highest level of behavior. When someone applies integrity to their truth through honesty the opinion and respect of oneself becomes to him/herself the standard by which we measure what we do, what we say, and the how, thus these principles become ever more exigent and the pursuit of happiness becomes a reality if not the acquisition of it.

  • @joshuahonasan3164
    @joshuahonasan3164 Před 3 lety

    I am working on my integrity and this has been extremely helpful. Thank you!

  • @pinkscrooge
    @pinkscrooge Před 7 lety +1

    Thanks always. I have been struggling with hiding an addiction from everyone I love because I am afraid of their reaction to my lack of integrity. I tell myself its under control as a result, and so I do not reach out for help when all other parts of me are in agreement with their concern for my health.

  • @gottalovetacos420
    @gottalovetacos420 Před 5 lety

    Amazing and thorough video as always

  • @joelkaiser6088
    @joelkaiser6088 Před 7 lety +2

    You're so great I read your book, I'm thrilled
    Thank you very much!!!

  • @suiterbug
    @suiterbug Před 6 lety

    Thanks Teal.. this should get the conscience ball rolling very nicely!

  • @SujaaniPrem
    @SujaaniPrem Před 7 lety

    I love you, your voice, the rhythm of your soul in it is a rich water fall, a cascade that resonates in my heart and vibrates vividly, it has become part of my life through the years, listening to you and the vision.
    What a blessing to have you right now on earth, making a way to be near you or a way to pass your divine waters to flow, to shower us with bliss and joy.
    Integrity is the greatest, when I was at my best in life I used to breathe, what is the best that this is the best, how to describe it and this is the word you mention, Integrity, Completeness.
    Thank you for letting me move on and understand... thank you.

  • @desireeluciano
    @desireeluciano Před 7 lety +1

    Love this 💖 literally the day this came out I had a situation/conflict that this was relevant to.

  • @SofiaMB
    @SofiaMB Před 7 lety +1

    This is powerful...Thank you

  • @Nickodecadence
    @Nickodecadence Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you Teal

  • @GrayTapeMaker
    @GrayTapeMaker Před 5 lety

    Great video! Really helped me understand, and can now further build my integrity!

  • @ElizaRomanEcho
    @ElizaRomanEcho Před 5 lety

    Thank you for your time and consideration

  • @zephyrkhambatta
    @zephyrkhambatta Před 3 lety +1

    Omg Teal that was a game changer. Thank You

  • @christyamar
    @christyamar Před 5 lety

    Integrity!!!! So good, I'm taking notes. I realized my solar plexus is really off and your videos are helping, massaging my diaphragm and tummy too... Namaste, your so purty.

  • @k.6072
    @k.6072 Před 3 lety

    The first 5 secs gave me life. And in 27 seconds, I was reborn like the Phoenix 🔥.
    I💜T.S.

  • @macoeur1122
    @macoeur1122 Před 7 lety +1

    Beautiful!!!!...and "spot on"!

  • @IMe7x
    @IMe7x Před 7 lety

    That's what i was looking for & Teal got straight to the point. Have a good weekend everyone :)

  • @decemberflower9801
    @decemberflower9801 Před 7 lety +1

    Integrity! Girl! Keep doing these strong topics! Also, you seem extremely stable in this video, in a good way. This is actually one of my favorite vids you did. No seriously, best video, love the stable grounded vibe.

    • @decemberflower9801
      @decemberflower9801 Před 7 lety +1

      Also, I believe topics like this one are *far more important* in the world we live in, than say how to astral project or something more vague like that.

  • @RaymondHogue1111
    @RaymondHogue1111 Před 7 lety

    thank you Teal

  • @karihuitt9754
    @karihuitt9754 Před rokem

    Wow! Most of understand integrity when it comes to the big decisions one needs to make in life. But this helped me to understand how integrity applies to the every day, seemingly unimportant things, that when it comes down to it are just as important.

  • @AbdelkaderBenRhouma
    @AbdelkaderBenRhouma Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you.

  • @thomasfrotton5273
    @thomasfrotton5273 Před 7 lety

    thank u for your awsome videos teal...

  • @Madhra2k24
    @Madhra2k24 Před 5 lety +1

    Well said ma'am, God bless you 🙏

  • @skoienman1445
    @skoienman1445 Před 4 lety

    Thank you

  • @garmrhatiskollmemofenrirfe3374

    Thanks Again Teal....
    Dera

  • @vmpage01
    @vmpage01 Před 3 lety

    Great video!

  • @gingerbreadsful
    @gingerbreadsful Před 7 lety

    this is gold

  • @agnesphuongart
    @agnesphuongart Před 7 lety

    I love you Teal !!!

  • @stevevondoom4140
    @stevevondoom4140 Před 7 lety +1

    i've seen it recommended to keep track of hydration levels throughout the day , that dehydration could trigger a bunch of physiological and subconscious reactions(usually impatient ones) with little chance for the conscious mind to calibrate for...

  • @rory1991
    @rory1991 Před 7 lety +1

    I haven't watched this yet, but I literally didn't even KNOW what integrity was before watching this vid (cant wait til the commercial ends)

  • @gehanrateb105
    @gehanrateb105 Před 7 lety

    Well done .. well said.. respect

  • @duckyduck4410
    @duckyduck4410 Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you^^

  • @grndragon7777777
    @grndragon7777777 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you. Well explained. The hardest part for me is the gray area. What is right and wrong exactly? When I am put in the a situation, I normally freeze. Also a lot of times I reacted to things instinctively and they're normally negitive. It's hard for me to catch myself before I react.

  • @user-sp6zq4fb8u
    @user-sp6zq4fb8u Před 6 lety

    Many great ideas in this video🤯

  • @dnnb99
    @dnnb99 Před 5 lety

    Great explanation

  • @lawsondraper961
    @lawsondraper961 Před 7 lety +1

    Love Teal

  • @natalieknight8695
    @natalieknight8695 Před 5 lety

    I appreciate this videp,, I will revisit it often..

  • @Di4B7O
    @Di4B7O Před 5 měsíci

    SHE MENTIONS BRAVEHEART I START TEARING UP

  • @ASMRWhisperingSpirit
    @ASMRWhisperingSpirit Před 7 lety

    Love you!

  • @charliem123321
    @charliem123321 Před 7 lety +1

    Good vibes. Nice vid :)

  • @mariaeinarsdottir1259
    @mariaeinarsdottir1259 Před 7 lety +1

    Love you, teal!

  • @Ruralset
    @Ruralset Před 7 lety +2

    Sacrificing and regaining your integrity is your favorite thing to do.

  • @bAa-xj3ut
    @bAa-xj3ut Před 7 lety +1

    love u teal..

  • @urirobinson9595
    @urirobinson9595 Před 7 lety

    I love Brave Heart!

  • @thaddeusmcdaniel8723
    @thaddeusmcdaniel8723 Před 7 lety

    love u Teal

  • @iam_grace_flow
    @iam_grace_flow Před 7 lety +11

    Love you teal

  • @raulbautista6400
    @raulbautista6400 Před 7 lety

    Your eyes are my Mantra... tks.

    • @beesdreams
      @beesdreams Před 7 lety +2

      The paint doesn't bother you? I'd like them better without. Easier to focus on the message. But then again I don't like seduction.

  • @stayinfitent7717
    @stayinfitent7717 Před rokem

    Nice one ☝️

  • @devika_25
    @devika_25 Před 2 lety

    Speechless ♡♡♡♡🌸🌸🌸♥️♥️♥️

  • @omgdatshim5153
    @omgdatshim5153 Před 4 lety +2

    Man I’ve been lying a lot and it sucks bc it ends in me pushing everyone I love away, I lied to my family I lied to the girl I love and I lie about little things and I really want to change I’m 18 years old about to be 19 and I hope it’s not too late. I want to be honest and stuff. I truly do but it’s gotten to the point where I don’t trust myself and idk if I should kill myself bc there is no chance in doing better or try

  • @Tuxnator
    @Tuxnator Před 7 lety

    Unilaterally and literally I love ya . Your so funny I see you laugh with yourself.

  • @nifehowls6899
    @nifehowls6899 Před 2 lety

    this one is 👌🏽

  • @Jessicah256
    @Jessicah256 Před 7 lety

    Teal, please make a video on the spiritual meaning of the solar eclipse happening this month and what the timeline split is about. I have been confused about it

  • @RGeraciOA5599
    @RGeraciOA5599 Před 7 lety

    Teal, I just wanted to take the time to say how much I really appreciate all that you do. I discovered you several years ago. Last year I read all three of your books. You've never said anything that I felt was out of alignment with my own internal guidance and belief systems. I pull up your videos and watch them over again on a regular basis. There's just so much to take in and let settle into your spirit. I put you up against the absolute truths that I've discovered and speak and live, you stand tall and in alignment with those truths. I use you as sort of a keel to help my balance and guidance systems to navigate through this life. I get up everyday and try my best to be all that I was created to be and I just want you to know that you play a big part in my life. Thanks for all that you do for us all.

  • @user-pz2qn9db1k
    @user-pz2qn9db1k Před 7 lety

    Something about your voice and face makes me keep connecting watching this video ...? 😂💜in the end I really loved the informations ! So thank you 😊

  • @followyourideas
    @followyourideas Před 3 lety

    To me this is the highest virtue of all.

  • @alejandrasalinas123
    @alejandrasalinas123 Před 4 lety

    you should make a video about bravery! loved the video btw :)

  • @lordmarshall1139
    @lordmarshall1139 Před 7 lety

    hi teal good stuff

  • @nikkorokkit
    @nikkorokkit Před 7 lety +1

    agree

  • @twopianomanGAB_D
    @twopianomanGAB_D Před 5 lety

    I love your brain ... I like the way you think.

  • @nathandunlap6957
    @nathandunlap6957 Před 7 lety +1

    I enjoy your videos not only are you intelengent and beautiful you say a lot of Truth

  • @DavidLandau
    @DavidLandau Před 7 lety +1

    Teal, you talk about all the ways to identify lack of integrity and the problems that can arise when we betray our true selves - but what about all the positive, joyful, flowing manifestation that occurs as we have more integrity? What about examples of people who maintain integrity and thrive, vs just the sole example linking full integrity to torture and death? Let's get more positive and inspirational, girl! :-D
    Love your work and brand. You have created such richly valuable content. Thank you for your teachings and your amazing artwork.

  • @carloscastanheiro2933
    @carloscastanheiro2933 Před 7 lety

    Amazing video, you look gorgeous. Love you x.

  • @sushidesperado9875
    @sushidesperado9875 Před 7 lety +1

    Awesome video Teal Swan! I love the way you explain things, it's so coherent. Thanks!

  • @DarrellHenderson
    @DarrellHenderson Před 7 lety

    Hey Teal, I've been following your channel for a few years, I just wanted to know what videos of yours would you recommend to watch pertaining releasing attachments and jealousy? Thank you -A.M.

  • @zillahmills8351
    @zillahmills8351 Před 7 lety

    Super video Teal I love the way you make us understand ourselves so easily! Can I ask do you believe in when someone close to you passes away do they come back as something else like a bird or something? I only ask because I lost my dad and my mum later and every time I'm upset over something silly or major a robin comes real close and looks at me hopping from bench to bench in the garden I was really close to my mum but I actually think this robin is my dad just by it's characteristics!!! Or am I talking rubbish. Thank you Teal 🌈🦋🍀

  • @alyssalucine
    @alyssalucine Před 7 lety +1

    You are so enlightening :) I enjoy your thoughts. Thank you for sharing so much with us.

  • @meenap9269
    @meenap9269 Před 7 lety +4

    Thank you Teal for all your words of wisdom in your videos, books and blog posts. You have helped me gain so much clarity in the past years. I am very thankful for you :) Hugs:)

  • @OurWorldShifted
    @OurWorldShifted Před 7 lety +1

    thank you for making these videos

  • @Justin7th
    @Justin7th Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you once again

  • @austinmontano5087
    @austinmontano5087 Před 7 lety

    Teal this was wonderful, thank you. At this time in life I needed to learn this very important lesson.

  • @gardeningnewearth3680
    @gardeningnewearth3680 Před 7 lety +1

    Hey Teal I just spent hours standing in the cold being stood up by a friend who promised he would meet me. I feel like ive been stung by his lack of integrity & I dont know how to deal with it in a constructive way...I really want to tell him how mean his is & express my feelings, but i also just want let it go & pretend he never existed...literally . I herd you mention not acting out untill all parts of you are taken into consideration... I feel torn 50/50 Do you have any idea's on what might be a good thing to do? Thanks Teal xxx

  • @thatsinpossible4967
    @thatsinpossible4967 Před 6 lety +1

    *What Teal Swan's Actual Twin Flame Thinks about Integrity*
    _PLEASE NOTE how my mind, like Teal's, basically just kicks 455 all day long._ ;)
    Your pure-consciousness is always flowing through filters of varying divine alignment (i.e. evolution or emotional_resolution) which affect the quality of your mental permutations.. including those regarding "integrity" itself. Therefore, *integrity is ultimately operating from heart intelligence which is a purer non-dualistic state of true action and awareness from your incarnational blueprint.*
    The moment you move into INTELLECTUALIZATION and BRAIN THOUGHT you regress into non-unity where judgment (like "integrity or not?") can occur. This also requires a reference point from which judgments can be made. In this particular "New Age" where many awakened are incorporating higher-dimensional concepts into one's 3D thinking.. mentally defining Integrity therefore becomes more difficult and elusive due to dimensional vacillation of the mental reference point from which integrity is defined.
    That explained.. due to Soul Contract w/Teal I am now obligated to mention this word EVERY post. (It also turns her on)
    *ONENESS!*
    ..
    ..
    bébé.

  • @George_uh_Glass
    @George_uh_Glass Před 7 lety

    You are absolutely amazing 💚

  • @SolarTwinLunarKing
    @SolarTwinLunarKing Před 7 lety +2

    Who does your After Effects?

  • @jamesbaker9677
    @jamesbaker9677 Před 7 lety +1

    Integrity must be measured or able to be measured. The rule of law from the age of 1066 and subsequent additions and alterations up to the time of Cromwell. The rule of law becomes vague and morphs into legalese. The Law is the measure of integrity for our contemporary age. Legislation is the measure of commonalities dealt with before the law but not under it. (ie no integrity). Morality is a common sense measure usually formed by historical mistakes of a group of people in economy.

  • @taniahino
    @taniahino Před 7 lety +1

  • @umeshkulkarni9687
    @umeshkulkarni9687 Před 5 lety

    Mother Teal Swan 🎎

  • @Tamashinoyume
    @Tamashinoyume Před 7 lety

    Dear Teal
    I get so much wellness from your videos, thank you so much for you...
    could you please do a video for getting over the fear of getting older?