I Suck at Making Friends
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- čas přidán 30. 05. 2022
- Listen to me very closely. School is one of the best opportunities to make friends that you will ever get in your entire life. I hated going to school, but think of it this way: You and a ton of people your age are all forced to hang out every. single. day. That's an incredible opportunity! Once you graduate, it'll get 100x more difficult to make friends, so make the most of it while you can.
And don't forget: People won't remember what you said, they only remember how you made them feel. So above all, be kind.
Sorry for taking so long to post this! I really think it's our highest quality video though, so hopefully the wait was worth it! See you soon. :)
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My friend from the end of the video is mad that some of you are skipping her part. Scroll back up and watch the whole thing or she won’t be my friend any more. 👿
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lol
I c e c r e a m
Subway I don't have Twitter but yeah I don't even have Minecraft on any newer devices still have it on the Xbox 360
done, I think
I spent SO long trying to make friends.... like I would literally just ask ‘will you be my friend’ and I failed at that until one day I was avoiding all the people by hiding behind a tree and being lonely and one girl said ‘hey get out from behind that tree you weirdo!’ and now we’re best friends :D
Cool story
scribbles notes frantically
Online I just told someone, “you’re my friend now” and it worked
ahaha
Why so hard 😐
7:33 At first I was impressed by Tim's insane acrobatic skills, but then...
Then I saw the frog. *A true specimen.*
lol
Oh hey Jess
Jess!
I was watching ur channel today
I find the frog to be very datable, in fact we are dating as we speak
LOL WHAT THE HECK XD
as a homeschooler, i wholeheartedly agree with the description. I like my education but it sure is more difficult to meet new ppl. making friends is a piece of cake in school, don't waste it.
Its alot harder when people have accused you 3 times of saying racial slurs and start rumours about you.. (defo aint speaking from experience)
I'm in school and well making friend isn't easy. Maybe I'm just not great to be aroud
I’m also a homeschooler but I have a bestie right down the road and he goes to public school sooo I’ve basically befriended all of his friends so I’m a very lucky person and I thank god for it I just wanted to tell you I fell you my dear friend
I agree that is hard to make friends when homeschooling
Statistically, most people spend most of their time thinking about themselves. Even if you did completely embarrass yourself, and even if they did notice, they still don't care and will forget about it promptly unless you are already friends or siblings.
Take comfort in the knowledge that no one is paying any attention to you 90% of the time.
Knowing what the problem is doesn’t make it disappear. It just makes it possible to deal with the problem.
the beginning made me laugh WAY more than it should’ve
It hit harder than that car
In all honesty, I can say with confidence that I have never gone up to somebody and asked if they wanted to be my friend. Usually I would get friends by just waiting for somebody to talk to be, and one day kids did start talking to me. Ever since I have been less shy. I still have social anxiety and 100% agree with him still
This made me think of how social environment can have a big impact of social skills, for example for my last year of I think elementary school (don't know the school system translate, about age 11 to 12 ) I went to a special ed school while it was not necessary and this impacted my social skills extremely, nothing wrong with those kids but if you're around them 7 hours (and I'm talking severe adhd, autism, down syndrome and other things) and the teacher treat you as less capable you really start to doubt yourself and then you start to talk less and less to people and then you start to isolated yourself cuz you feel inferior and then you need a year of psychologist appointments and then another 2 years of middle school ( age 13 to 15) to come out your shell and even then your social skills are still under developed, so yeah just know you have to try to get good at social things
When the world needed him the most,
He came back and tried to make new friends…
Please stop with the "when the world needed him most" bull shit it's getting old dude
@@ANXreflex Who the hell cares
@@playplaceproductions.church you literally are the 6th person to say this shit and only have one person on your side go to the other comments that say the same shit everyone else saying the same thing as me it's dead let it die
@@ANXreflex when the world needed ANXreflex the most they stabed us in the back
@@ANXreflex its different, i know we both are tired of these comment, but, this comment is more different and unique.
I cannot express in words how relatable this is... minus shaking hands over chess. You're on your own with that one unfortunately.
Your videos make me feel normal because now I know that I'm not overthinking and I thought I was being dramatic but now I know that I'm not the only one who's like this :)
This is why you are my favorite youtuber. You are so relatable and so entertaining and funny at the same time.
Could we all take a moment to appreciate Tim Tom's fun, chill animation style? It's so laid back and comfortable, I love it! :D
You are such a legend in the animation community Tim Tom, I hope I can make half as entertaining videos as yours one day! :)
first step to making good videos, is making videos!
@@BoiseFreerunner You're very right! Working hard on videos every day! :)
Hello There
@@CopperStarToons Yes, but don't overwork.
@CopperStarToons i found you here😊🤣
It's okay, TimTom. Many people suck at making friends. Many others suck at friends. I know I for one suck friends. We all go through similar ordeals.
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ayo?????
U what!?
😭
Bro?
I was real quite at high school. I was awkward and loved tech. I made 3 friends in the first year, the first vanished (like GONE!) The second moved away, and the 3rd started driftin away, to a new group. I didnt make propper friends till the final years. We played dnd, played games and hanged out. It took awhile but i did it, i also apparently became popular during those years.....
I had a couple friends as a kid. Children are just more open to new experiences. Making adult friends is super hard since everyone is on a different schedule and have trauma from past friendships. I literally havent made a single new friend since I left high school like 6 years ago.
I laughed so hard at “one guy brought his mom’s spaghetti. I was nervous” 😂
But on the surface
He was calm and ready to drop bombs,
he looks calm and ready
@@greenisnotprimary to drop bombs, but he keeps on forgetting what he wrote down, the whole crowd goes so loud, he opens his mouth but the words won’t go out
@@IamJosh26 he’s choking now, everybody’s joking now, the clock’s run out, times up over BLOW!
You are 1 of the few youtubers that continually make me laugh With every single video that I watch of yours.
0:00 TIMTOM. THE ONE PIECE REFERENCE. RESPECT. Zoro, Sanji and Luffy. Amazing. Thanks for the advice as well!
I love that the intro people made it out okay! I was worried about them the whole time!! Now we just need a bonus seen of the kitties all finding their respective owners 😹
I feel like making friends as a kid was so much easier lmao
Because you just get put in a group and are forced to spend ~8 hours a day together. Very effective
Also you only need to say "Do you like puppies?" and make friends with the first person who says/yells "Yes!"
It isn’t. Lmao. Can confirm
It isn't
-a homeschooled kid
Haha...no...just no
I could go on and on about my failed attempts at making friends in college.
You know the parties good when you see the straw hats and Zoro didn’t get them lost
XD
You know its gonna be a good day when tim tom uploads!
Yes
People like people who take interest in them. Be the friend to others that you want then to be to you. Make an effort to properly communicate. Check on them. Show them they are valued. Just like you would want to be. You are a great person, with a great personality, great spirit, and great sense of humor. Most of these people here are interested in who you are. Take interest in them. You’ll have plenty of great friends. You’ve got this!
SN: Social media is not proper communication. Pick up the phone and call more often or at least as much as text.
For the first time for me, I’m having trouble making friends but my brother helped me and we been making friends :)
For the first time for me, I'm having trouble making friends but my brother helped me and we been making friends :)
I have this problem, told it to my brother so he can help, you know what he said? “Maybe youre the problem”
@@MOMAZOSPATO classic sibling moment
Til Tok, you've inspired me so much lately and I wanted you to know that:) I love your videos and they make me laugh. I always relate to your videos. And your one of my favorite CZcams's
This is so relatable for me. I suck at making friends due to my social anxiety and my painful shyness lol
It's okay,I too can relate on that path. I used to have some friends back in primary,but now it's much harder in high school.
@@mikewapowski yep to be honest I'm better friends with my rabbits than humans lol
What's funny about that?
Yeah me too
Ahh this is so relatable! Someone having anxiety and being a pure introvert at heart, it was super hard for me to make friends. I usually was awkward and embarrassed when it came to interacting with someone.
I feel ya. At this point, I don't even wanna make any friends
When the world needed him most,he returned.
BRO... THE FROG THOUGH 🐸
YASSS
What frog
That was a sad part
As a person who hasn't had a friend for a long time, I'm glad you at least made some friends in your life that you still hang out with. 🙂
Your lying if you don’t have a single friend
@@IsaiahPicks I don’t know if that person is lying.
But it is very possible to have zero friends, I’m the perfect example.
@@Sergio-wc1wn do you have a family member or pet your close with
I did Make Some Friends At Gym And School and It has Been Nice...
We can be friends bro
2:40 noo
Help I'm dead on the floor 🤣
Hahahaha!
“We need surgery.” Was so innocent and I love it.
I find making friends super hard. Like I was hated in school so I never learned to make friends so now that I am an adult I have like no idea. Lucky for me my husband already had friends from high school so I squeezed myself in there... (really he felt bad because they made a D&D group and he knew how much I loved D&D so once they did the 'Wife's can join' he came running home to tell me. Now they consider me a friend). Something weird about me is like I am happy to talk to a random person in like a long line or something as if we are friends and I will even think about how I totally want to hang out with this person, but once we reach our destination I get too nervous and start to think "Nah, she probably only talked to me because she felt like she had to" "I bet she hated talking to me" so I just shut up and never see them again.
So would you be my friend
@@marya60 ehhhhhhhhhhhh
i have friends but can’t make new ones sadly
this is relatable for me 🥲
“Everyone from the intro was fine. The only thing that got hurt was my feelings”
basically me when I try to make friends
Tips on how to make friends
(On a bus or public transportations)
Start by starting a conversation about your favourite topics (example:radios) and sometimes ask where their destination is. Or ask for their opinion on your topic! Talking about jokes too can intrest them in joining your topic
0:00-0:28 this happens to me every time I try to make a friend.
Its actually kinda funny that this came out at this time when I had a terrible social anxiety relapse. I spend a few days hating being around some of my best friends bc it felt like every time I said something, I was being judged because people would give me those looks. I honestly don't think I was being that irrational until I locked myself in the bathroom bc I was so sick of one person. And so I set out to just...find a new friend. No sh-t, I was like, Imma find me a new and true bestie so I can feel better about myself. It's going great, guys. I started talking to my brother's friend and things are going well.
sucks that u went/goin thru such tough shit, great that u found a new frond! Hope it all goes well!! YAYYY take care!!
You haven’t even posted and seven years
This video really means a lot to me. I started the next stage of my life journey at a new school where I was the only newcomer and most everyone else had been there for years. I have ADHD and probably social anxiety too, and I'm always worried that I messed up after every single conversation. My social skills aren't the best, and I feel like I've been struggling to make friends and arrange things outside of school. My hobbies aren't the most common either (drawing, animation, writing, et cetera). Knowing that people I admire (read: most anyone who can draw) struggle with the same things is pretty inspiring. Thanks for that.
Edit: you call that thing at 2:50 an icecream cone-? XD
Nope! That's a torch.
@@TimTom yes
how has it been going now? I moved schools a few years ago feeling really confident and made some awesome friends but got into some stuff with one of them and really lost some of that confidence thinking everyone hated me. Until my last day at school alot of my other friends was saying theyd miss me and how much fun we had... I realise I was doubting myself that whole time 🥲 anxiety just sucks fr
@@flounks2494 Just went to a social event and felt like a trapped animal for the first 15 minutes or so. Talked to one person and felt a bit better, but still am just really bad at socializing, even compared to other new students with ADHD. I think it's a me problem.
making friends in setting where everyone else is already established is super intimidating and difficult. don't get on yourself too much about it. Just be yourself is such an over done cliché, but for good reason. Being yourself won't get you friends right away, but it will get you friends. and they will be true friends and you'll have a much deeper connection. maybe the school or even community center in your town have writing clubs or something you can check out!
As a guy with a strong social anxiety I can agree to every single second of this video, last year I moved homes and it was my first year in a new school and someone from another class turned out to be my neighbour next door so we usually go to and from school in the same way which is kinda long specially when you're alone and not talking to anyone, and still yet I haven't figured out a way to start a conversation or talk with him.
0:37 😂 was not expecting that 😂
Yay!! Another Tim Tom video! I always love watching your videos Tim, you and your team are incredibly talented! I really like the smooth transitions, the animation, the backgrounds (I had to keep pausing the video to look at the backgrounds because gosh some of them are stunning! Like the misty forest scene at 0:13 the cafe scene at 6:50 and so many other backgrounds, the amount of detail in each different background is really impressive) The way you tell your stories is super engaging and makes the video so fun and interesting! As a fellow victim of social anxiety I can definitely relate to a lot of what you said in the video and the amount of relief I felt on your behalf at 7:05 is immense!
But seriously you and you team should be really proud of this video, your amazing!
Also spoiler alert for the people who haven’t watched till the end yet:
I love that ending! The climber and frog being fine has 100% just made my day :)
You made my day! I sent this to the team. Thank you so much for the kind words :)
@@TimTom Gosh I’m so honoured! Thank you Tim! You really are wonderful!
@@TimTom Why not ask Friendship experts?
Like me🙂
I am the kind of person who does not ask the question "will you be my friend?" Instead I talk to someone for a little bit every chance I get until I realize they are enjoying the conversations and then that is when I consider someone "a friend"
Your not alone.
Tim: I WANNA MAKE A FRIEND
Tim Again: *eats himself*
Yes sometimes is hard to make friends, the thing that I do to make new friends is this steps:
Step 1 scan the room and see who are in groups and and who don’t.
Step 2 see that person that looks nervous or is just lonely you got it?.. great
Step 3 approach them with a smile and just say hi 👋🏻
Step 4 ask them the basics,their name,age,school, or the place that you are at the moment.
Step 5. Every time you see them talk to them don’t just stay standing there ask them about their day or week.
Bonus: every time you see someone new in the class or the place you are going) talk to them first then you will gain new friends
6:34: "But knowing that a feeling is irrational, doesn't magically make it go away, any more than knowing that you're colourblind would magically make you see colours."
This allegory was also used in Empty by Jaiden and Boyinaband, and it's a quote that's stuck with me ever since the song came out. It's such a good way to describe how difficult it can be to turn negative thought patterns around.
I used to live right next door to my granny, however. I moved to BSI at 2014 but my granny still lives with me today.
Thank you Tim you make me feel better 😊
As someone who recently talked to some of my school friends that i havent talked to since before the pandemic started i had nothing to say to my friend and just said "i have no idea about what we should to talk about" and i just sat there feeling very akward and went home hoping id never interact with someone in real life ever again :D
That's what youtube is for. You put on a "near death caught on camera" video and laugh.
It's not like your friends did anything in lockdown either. Everyone is starting from scratch
“Will I make any friends?”
“No, stupid!”
That had me laughing so hard!
I love how timtom added one piece in the background
0:00 that one girl twerking got me dying
Man this is so reliable. For some reason I always think that I am ruining a friendship with someone despite evidence to the contrary. Maybe I should do the same thing you did. Thanks man!👍
your one of my favourite animators keep up the incredible work
Lol! That scene at the very end, totally didn’t see that coming. XD
Great vid, way too relatable, though…. 😅
"We Need Surgery" TimTom- 2022
You know as a teenager that's also a introvert, sure it's sometimes hard to make friends. But, by using my social skills I work and my personality, I manage to have my first ever best friend (at school bc I had a cousin that's the same age as me but a few months older than me, but were best friends.) And will try to make more for my Sophomore year (got done with my freshman year.) And, If TimTom see this try to work on your social skills and conversating in order to make some cool lasting friendships, and I'll do the same to have some cool friends in the future.
Disappointingly relatable 😅
agrEEEEEED
Way to relatable,wayy to relatable
Disappointingly relatable 😅
Me too
same
0:15 honestly if someone climbed up a cliff with their bare hands just to be my friend I’d immediately become their freind
Yeah but why does that cliff look like a picture from botw
Its from i cliff bar (litterly)@@philipmcdonald8839
when i was little i only had like 3 good friends so on the little meet the teacher night they had before i started first grade i saw this girl and she looked pretty chill so i literally grabbed her and told my mom she was my friend. we’re still best friends so my advice for making friends is to just grab random people and tell your mom you’re friends with them.
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Thank you so very much for putting music credits in description. Common courtesy's like that make life worth living.
I’m so glad you made sure that everyone from the intro was fine.
I LOVED WHEN THAT FROG GOT RAN OVER OMG I AM CHOCKING RN OMGGGGGGG
“No pooping in the hallways” 😂😂
Amazing animation, TimTom!! Wow, as someone who also has a lot of social anxiety, this is SOOOO relatable haha!! Thanks so much for the video and for sharing!! Keep up the great work!😁👍
The first real conversation I remember having with my boyfriend was when we started talking to each other about our own lives and basically traumadumped for 3 hours x"D later i was super worried I made him feel uncomfortable, but then I thought "hey, crazy idea, maybe he felt like that too?" so I texted him and reassured him that it was fine that he told me a lot. And he texted back saying he was relieved that I'd sent that text!
Same just started secondary school and all my friends went to different schools so it's been really tough
"See everyone from the intro was fine, the only one that got hurt was my feelings."
Thank you for this. I have social anxiety even though I still go to social gatherings and it's more than just being afraid to meet people in person
Legend has it, that frog is still that dude's hood ornament to this day.
I’m a little extreme in the other direction One time I saw a guy on the subway with a Prostatic leg I thought he might not be a fan of it so I tried cheering him up by telling him he look like an epic cyborg. and looking back on it I don’t know if I did the right thing but hey what’s done is done.
I once, as a child, compared a brilliant classmate to an android. I was a socially awkward kid with a love of Star Trek TNG. He was so offended that he didn't speak to me again for years (that was literally our only actual conversation). I also didn't find out he was offended for years.
I lived in Europe and in Europe it's not that hard to make friends like on day there was a new guy in our class and no one was wanting to be his friend until I befriended him and one of my Friends
I feel this so hard I have autism and I act weirdly sometimes talk weirdly and I probably look kind of strange too. I can tell if people think I’m weird and a lot of people have no problem expressing it to me so at this time I just take it as a compliment. When I was younger used to be so easy but now it’s hard to make friends with people my age. Adults are surprised at how smart I am and how knowledgeable and talented I am and little kids also like me but people my own age just kind of outcast me. Eventually I just stopped caring or trying anytime they were group discussions I would avoid them simply because I didn’t know what to say I was just spend my time focusing on my studies my instruments my drawings and I was just spend time alone instead of with other people. I’ve always wanted to be cool and accepted but I don’t know when that’s going to happen. At least I’m getting slightly better so kind of proud of myself for that but hopefully sophomore year will be different and not to mention how sad being single is.
As another autistic person, I don’t make friends with people my age, I’m 12 and I’m friends with all my teachers, but no one my age.
I love your content it just keeps getting better and better!
Hello! About the cat thing when they were stuck in cages it's not as cruel as you think. Cats were probably angry because there is so many new smells and new cats and new people and cats are very territorial. It's actually good that the cages were so small (as long as they could stand up and turn around in them) because cats aren't 1 bit claustrophobic. They actually like small spaces and it calms then down is stressful situations.
The way the frog blinked😅
Is anyone going to talk about how he hasn’t posted for seven months!!!!!
We all need more TimTom!!!
yeah
Good animation takes time.
When he made his version of Eminem's song's lyrics I died of laughter
Edit : ITS GOOD TO HAVE U BACK TIMTOM!!!
Hey, I also sometimes have social anxiety when it come with friends. I’m not always worried about losing friends about if I screwed things up, but sometimes I still have lingering feelings like you did
Ah yes my favorite song “my palms were sweaty, knights are weak, my bishops ready, some guy brought some of his moms spaghetti. I was nervous, but in the surface, I also looked super nervous”
I literally walk up to random people at my school and try to start conversations with them and people still didn’t want to become friends. It can be frustrating due to being so involved in their friend groups they don’t want to welcome newcomers
I wish someone would walk up to me and just be friendly. I am introverted so I can only make like one friend a year as long as whoever sits next to me is friendly.
another great timtom video! now my day is better.
Every animator I've watched so far has done that 8mile joke
i like how the strawhats are chilling at the start of the video
Glad to see another one of your vids man! Can totally relate to the Social Anxiety dude, it sucks. But hey, I guess even with that problem, we still somehow managed to work through it and make friends of our own. Keep up the good work!
I’VE NEVER RELATED SO MUCH ON A SPIRITUALLY LEVEL THAN I HAVE AFTER WATCHING THIS VIDEO
Pirate hat puffy and his crew is here 😂, and the guy twerking😂😂😂😂😂😂
i suffer the same problem, but one thing i learnt is that saying "will you be my friend" is the worst way to make friends
Growing up i always had a basically infinite amount of hobbies and such a wide variety genres that i was into that i was able to make friends with literally anyone. It's to much dude you dont want this curse every where you go you see someone you know. IT HAUNTS ME
When the world needed him the most, he came back
facts
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Every video he posts someone says this it's getting really old come up with some new shit
Yay, froggo and climber guy are okay! I’ll be your friend TimTom
The part when he eats his self Is so funny I can’t stop laughing and putting it back
It took so long for him to upload this… but it was TOTALLY WORTH IT!!
And plus, of course timtom’s peanut brain is ALWAYS right!!
I dunno man you where pretty easy to talk to when we met XD
No pooping in the hallways😂
For me i always makde a new friend group every year because a leave the first group with one other person and slowly expand it