I Had A Miscarriage
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- čas přidán 2. 07. 2024
- Hannah Williams shares the story of her recent miscarriage.
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When he said “ Can you say it ? “
And she said “no” . I broke down with her .
Some of the comments on here are disgusting. Have a word with yourselves.
Some people just weren't raised right by their parents I swear. Empathy people!
Sounds like a personal problem to me
Darth Hatchet this is not funny at all.
Darth Hatchet There’s a time and place for dark jokes, and this isn’t it.
@Darth Hatchet bruh moment
When her husband said “you know you didn’t do anything wrong right?” And then asked her to say it.... my heart
jayden f 🥺😭
Kýs
10:38 completely broke me. u can hear how much matt wants her to be okay again in his voice
that's actually her producer Kevin McShane!!
My first pregnancy was a miscarriage. I blamed myself and never thought I’d be pregnant again. Less than 2 years later I’m pregnant with my rainbow baby. You’ll get your rainbow baby I know it
What's a rainbow baby?
@Flower Friend :D OHHH
Congratulations heathermakeup18!
heathermakeup18 a gay baby?
PugParty a rainbow baby is a baby born after a miscarriage or a loss of a child...
heathermakeup18
Oooo yay!!
The amount of trolls in this comment sections makes me lost hope in humanity. Go somewhere else if you want attention.
There's no need to lose hope in humanity..it's already gone at this point.
We already lost hope because of these feminists
@@brandysmith3656 lol
Fearless Dreamer Your spelling made me lose hope
percinbody what because he put a “s” after section?
"You know you did nothing wrong right?"
"Yeah"
"Can you say it?"
"No..."
My heart still shatters hearing this Hannah, even though you are having your little boy soon, it still hits hard 💔💔
This exchange made me cry and brought back memories
Is anyone watching this after she announced her newest pregnancy? So happy for her!
Caitlin Gower I’m super happy for her as well!!
Y'all. Buzzfeed didn't force her to make this video. She did it because she felt it was important to speak publicly about it.
This 💯
This is a COMMON subject for men and women, its something we cannot control 😪
I feel like people don’t realise that miscarriage emotionally hurts a lot
Cloudy
My mom has had 3! And people don’t realize how much it effect the mom. Knowing they were expecting a beautiful baby and moms sometimes think it’s their fault
I wonder how it’s like for moms to let go of their child
chloe yeah, everyone just ignores this i feel. like it doesn’t mean anything like Oh you’ll have better luck next time
I’m here after just seeing you post about your birth... I’m so happy you’re happy now. You are beautiful and I hope you’re doing well.
Same.
It's her rainbow 🌈 baby
How did she gave birth when her baby is miscarried?
@@romanmichaelcordero5718 she actually got pregnant not too long after she had a miscarriage
When he said "you know its not youre fault right?" and she goes yeah and he says "can you say that?" and Hannah didn't say anything and started to choke up.. It literally broke me..
You always feel like it's your fault even when it's not. I feel like I failed at protecting them and it kills you. My doctor just kept saying it's not your fault like 10 times to me and I still was like there could have been more I could've done to save him.
My mother had six miscarriages in ten years trying to have me. So I just want to say Happy Mothers Day to all of the women who have gone through this.
when he said “can you say that” after she said yes to knowing she did nothing wrong, i started crying with her. my heart goes out to you 🤍
miscarriages are literally something nobody talks about . I had one back in April & literally felt so alone because no one understood . I cried for a month straight , maybe more , just thinking about it . here I am , pregnant again & I just continue to pray everything goes well . I pray you receive your rainbow baby & have a healthy pregnancy
I will pray that everything will be ok for you guys best of luck 🙏
Andrea Walker i recently went thru one I have hope I trust gods plan for me praying for you sending you love ,hope n happiness 💙
"i really don't want to make this video" then don't, seriously, you're the most important person in this context so please don't feel forced into doing something you don't want to do because you think you're supposed to
bea i think she means that she wishes this video didn’t have any reason to happen :(
yeah kinda a dick move on part of Buzzfeed
everyone who keeps saying “it’s part of life” so is someone dying, and so is getting cancer, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be upset or grieve. I can’t believe some of the comments I’m reading. People should really think before they write. It’s disgusting.
It's part of life
I miscarriaged with my first pregnancy. Same symptoms as hers, spotting that progressed to bleeding. It was the worst feeling ever because you kinda know that you're losing the baby. What made it worst was one of my coworkers told me "lesson learned" after she heard of my miscarriage like it was my fault and i had to learn from my mistake. People can be so mean to others.
I am so so sorry that happened to you. ):
so a 12 year old had intercourse?????????
@@ahmadadeebmasalmah7648 what do u mean?
@@AetherialZ im okay now, thank you :)
@@ahmadadeebmasalmah7648 I'm sorry but that's just rude. I know EXACTLY what you're talking about and let me tell you, most of us are grown up. 🙃
Edit: also the fact that we both joined CZcams earlier than you and you just joined like 4 years ago really sends lol
I’m so sorry. I know I’m late, but I’m still so sorry. It is tough. My best friend? Eleanor, married at 20, had triplet girls at 21 and got pregnant with her last child about a year and a half after the triplets were born. Late one night, she called me, in tears. Her husband was working late and she was alone with the girls. I went down to her house 10 minutes later and found her in the bathroom vomiting. “Rose, I think I’m in labor.” I told her she couldn’t be, she was only 26 weeks. I brought the girls to my other friends house who has 2 kids of her own and took Eleanor to the hospital. They confirmed she was indeed in labor. Her husband got there and by the next night, their son was born, but he wasn’t alive. Eleanor hadn’t cried until she held him. She and her husband both were crying so hard, I had to tell the doctor what they wanted to name him. I have so much respect for all mothers.
OMG I’m so sorry for Eleanor.
For those of you making jokes/spreading hate on this video: your lack of empathy is absolutely shocking. Hannah lost a baby that she loved and wanted, and has gone through tremendous pain both mentally and physically. Miscarriage is not uncommon, but that does not make it any less traumatic. Just know that you are poking fun at something that very well could’ve happened to your own mother, your sister, or your friends. Hannah deserves love and support. If this video makes you uncomfortable, don’t watch it. If you hate buzzfeed, stop wasting time commenting on their videos. The purpose of this video is to raise awareness towards women’s health and support others who have also gone through the same thing. Maybe consider what you are doing when you make immature and ignorant comments on such a serious issue.
tears literally streamed down my face when you couldn’t say “I didn’t do anything wrong”.
McKenize Martin I had literally just saw your comment right before that happened and I absolutely bawled...
Whoever disliked this has absolutely NO soul.
Star- Light yeah they probably disliked only because it’s buzzfeed or whatever
Most heartbreaking part is she blamed herself for miscarriage.
When Matt said... "you know you didn't do anything wrong, right?" and she just broke down in tears... The pain felt so deep in her heart... I'm so so sorry for what happened to you. And I'm happy that you have such an amazing family already! Love from UK 💜
fetus deletus that’s cruel and disgusting
@@kermitssofachair1658 Awww thanks it makes me happy to hear that and encourages me to say more stuff like that 😄
@@stinkytoes3784 bruh momento
"I don't know why I'm crying so much."
"I don't know what I did wrong."
Oh my god Hannah you don't need to apologise for crying over a loss of a baby you so badly wanted and wanted to do everything right for. And you would've loved the baby so much. You did nothing wrong, miscarriages are so common, no one knows if they'll miscarry, it all just comes down to odds. Wishing you all the best Hannah x
“You know you didn’t do anything wrong, right?”
“Yeah...”
“Can you say it?”
“....No......not yet.”
This struck something deep within my soul. I miscarried my first baby April of 2018 at 8 weeks. We had made the mistake of telling everyone when we first found out because we were SO excited. When I miscarried, I blamed and questioned myself and my choices for those two months for so long; my husband would tell me that I did nothing wrong. My OB told me that there was nothing I did or could do. However, you can’t help thinking, “It was my body, how is it not my fault?” My body healed so much quicker than my heart, but we are now expecting again, and I am almost five months along. Thank you so much for being vulnerable, and for being willing to share such a painful, deeply personal experience. ❤️
Aww thats so sad...I hope your next baby comes out healthy! Stay strong!
Join the Shrek Religion today Thank you so much; that is what we are hoping for! We just have to get through the next five months. That’s what I keep telling myself. :)
Omg this is like my story, I had a miscarriage on may 2018, at 8 weeks, and at that time everybody knew about my pregnancy. Now I'm 5 months pregnant 🌈
Wish you the best 👶🏻
itseslyloraine I am so, so sorry for your loss; congratulations on your rainbow baby, though!! Just a few more months to go, and we get to hold them in our arms! ❤️🌈
@@laceyreitz4289 I hope you and baby are happy and healthy!
my parents had a miscarriage before they had me and they always have said 'its so common, you never hear about other people having miscarriages until you have one then almost everyone you talk to about it has had one, and it's so normal and people should talk about it more'
My cousin had actually given birth earlier this week to a premature baby. The baby died the next day. She lived for only a few hours. Today is Sunday, Mother's day. Today is the day we cremate her baby.
Kinda sad how things turned out like this. For her, and for you. I could only imagine what you both are going through.
About 25% of pregnancies end in miscarriage. This is something people need to know. People should talk about this.
Ahahaha good the more miscarriages the more food I get yum!😋😋
@@stinkytoes3784 FBI OPEN UP
Hi everyone I just want to start off saying there is someone posting on here going by the name of AGESI. They’ve been posting some horrible things on others comments. Please don’t fight with them your never going to win, just report and ignore them. If we don’t give them what they want,a reaction,they will eventually stop or get kicked off CZcams . Don’t waist your time and effort on someone who is truly doesn’t care and just wants to hurt people ,I’m assuming their either hurting or have a mental issue going on. Just repot and ignore
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I also want to say thank you to anyone who has shared their story, I know it’s hard to voice these heartbreaking experiences but know that there are so many people who love and support you.
@@ageis3250 oh my god,You need counselling
@@ageis3250it sounds like YOU are unhappy in this world. Perhaps you’re going through something, or something has happened to you that has turned you into a spiteful cynic, who sees the world as an awful place and nothing more. But not all of us see the world the way you do. Some of us are happy with our lives. Yes, sure there are awful things in the world and a lot of issues that need to be resolved. But I truly hope you come to recognise that life truly is beautiful, and miraculous and special. It is a gift to exist in this world. Life can be messy and awful as well, but that’s what it means to be human. Humanity means to evolve and learn through the good and the bad.
I truly hope you come to see goodness in the world, and recognise that life is worth living. People are not selfish for bringing children into the world. Your joy at someone’s miscarriage is disturbing. Maybe I can’t convince you not to be happy about it, but I hope you can understand why Hannah and other people are sad about it, and maybe conduct yourself more respectfully in these comment sections. And if you can’t do that, maybe refrain from commenting at all.
You describe the world as being a terrible place, and yet you’re actively making it a worse place by harassing and bullying other people. Get off the internet and reflect on your actions.
"I don't know why I keep crying"
Love, you just lost your own child. A person that was someone very special to you. When loosing someone you love, regardless of ever seeing them in or outside the womb, it's absolutely okay to cry. Cry all you need, we're here for you!
Some of these comments are so disgusting I can’t even . Please disable these comments I don’t want her to feel worse .
Normita Cruz I know. People saying “this happens to everybody, what makes you special.” Shame on them for even calling them self human. You don’t have to watch the video or comment if you aren’t going to be supportive. Just leave
No opinions matter, voices matter if you shut the comments down you shut the entirety of this video down. Don't hide the pain. We all need to learn a little from this 💯
same these trolls must be living a SAD SAD life
I literally saw someone that said: "I don't care that you had a miscarriage."
Witch ones. Because im going to disowne them
when she was talking to her husband behind the camera, and he told her to say she did nothing wrong, and she said “not yet” it broke my heart
I lost my daughter at 34 weeks. I spent years blaming myself. Thank you for your vulnerability. You are an amazing woman. Thank you for sharing that loss happens.
You're also amazing!
We just buried my unborn baby brother (Noah Benjamin) a couple of weeks ago. He died of sepsis at 24 weeks of being in the womb. Your story has brought inspiration and hope that there are other people out there who know what it's like to lose a baby. Things like this are not brought up enough times in this world. Thank you for sharing.
I'm sorry
I'm so sorry for your loss..may God give your family the strength and bless your little brother's soul..Forgive me if I said something that might hurt you in some way..
I'm so sorry for your loss god bless you and your family
Thank you, everyone, so much. It means a lot. 😢💛💙
I'm so sorry for your loss! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers ❤
Saw Hannah cried and when Matt asked her whether she can say it out loud that it is not her fault... but she said no... broke my heart completely...
I had 2 miscarriages before i conceived my rainbow baby. I miscarried a month before i got pregnant with my daughter and shes now 2 and a half months. Sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is.
When her husband asked if she can say if she knows that she did nothing wrong and she said no, my heart completely dropped and I bawled even more then I was. I’m young and have never had kids so I do not understand the pain, but I can see that it’s something that does take a toll on someone. I’m so sorry that that’s happened to you. I’ve never talked to my mother about whether she’s had a miscarriage or not or if it’s a high thing in my family line. I’m scared that it may be and I have to go through what you’ve gone through. You are strong and loved Hannah💗💗
LW // Really? I honestly thought that was her husband who said that
LW // hmm. Weird
I watched this video when it came out, but I never knew that it would later become my story too. It just happened and I’m so heartbroken.
❤❤❤
I feel so sorry for you.
I'm so sorry for your loss. grief and loss are some of the worst things to have to live through. I hope you have a good support system around you.
Sarah Seeliger Thank you for your condolences 💖 I’m lucky to have a solid support system which is definitely very helpful.
Im so sorry may god bless your soul
the “i just wanna know what i did wrong” made me start crying
Some of these comments are disgusting, yes miscarriages happen often but that doesn’t mean they aren’t painful to go through and everyone who is going through a miscarriage deserves a bunch of love and support
It's crazy to think that she was pregnant during this video.
She said it happened late last year. She wasnt pregnant. Also buzzfeed records earlier than they post.
Yesterday, I had a D&E to remove the baby. I was 9weeks pregnant.
Was... that's so strange to say. Not even 48 hours ago, my fiance and I were so excited because we would be able to see our baby and finally get ultrasound pictures.
We saw the baby... but there wasn't a heartbeat. I cant verbalize the kind of emptiness I feel. It was our first pregnancy and for it to be over so quickly... its heartbreaking.
Thank you for sharing your story. While I didnt experience the miscarriage the same way as you did, I appreciate your courage to talk about it.
It's something I cant and dont want to do right now...
i am so sorry
@@skylerhamlyn8454 ❤ thank you. We're trying to optimistic Nd try again. 🤷♀️
So sorry, I had a miscarriage a few months ago, I understand how you feel. Hugs
We are here for you love. Know that it’s not your fault. Much love
my mum had 11 miscarriages to get me. this made me cry. because i understood and felt her pain. all my love goes out to her
Mabel Erin wow that’s a lot
Those who say that she shouldn’t have made this video don’t understand that it’s important to speak up about these issues. Women should be able to talk about their grief and experiences without feeling shamed. We as women should empower each other and be there for each other.
It's so brave And strong that she made this video it's not talked about enough
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I like her videos. It is just that, this stuff is personal. U don't want everyone to know about ur personal life. I know it's a hard time for her. Something are needed to stay just in family.
A reply would be appreciated
@@shefinmathew1849 I was adding a plus, because I didn't have anything specific to say, but I also wanted this comment to be further up the page, so it's more visible to others.
It's a gesture that is more meaningful than a like. Watch Hank's video about gaming the comment algorithm and you'll get it.
My sister was pregnant with twins, had one at 21 weeks. He didn't make it. Could keep baby #2 in another month miraculously..she is turning 3 in December. She's my sweet angel miracle niece. I still mourn my nephew. Still sad that one day my niece will know she had a twin brother that she never got to meet
I had a miscarriage last weekend. My first thought went to everything I regretted doing like an AB workout or the coffee before I knew I was pregnant... nothing that would have made a miscarriage happen. Thankfully my doctor explained that IT JUST HAPPENED. It was nothing I did and I will always be grateful to her for those words. I know our rainbow baby will come when it is meant to happen. Thank you for sharing this story. You are right, it needs to be talked about ❤️💜💙💚💛🧡🤎🤍💖
it seems you're recovering well but I wish you luck anyway
Angie Jones thank you 🤗 We are but I know there will be bumps along the way so thank you!
If you see a hateful comment, report it. You don't have to engage the bullies. Just report them. As a woman who has struggled with infertility (PCOS raises your chance of a miscarriage), I have been extremely fortunate to never have had a miscarriage. But I know this can help SO many people. The hate is unnecessary but some people truly do not understand how painful this type of thing can be or how freeing it feels to know that you aren't alone.
Ok, you can hate buzzfeed all you want, but this is a woman who lost a child. You could at least be respectful to a woman who is undergoing one of the worst moments in her life.
Birb L I agree
making a spectacle of things such as this for views and likes is messed up....
Birb L 100% agree!
@@GelatinSpacecraft You're an idiot
@@GelatinSpacecraft A spectacle? So many women have had miscarriages and don't ever speak about it, mostly out of fear.
People like you are part of the problem.
Shame on you.
who is watching this after her son henry
Lol me
I was rlly confused
When I was growing up I thought miscarriage was this really rare, tragic thing. No one talked about it with me. People whispered about it and if you knew someone who’d had one, you were to keep it a secret and never mention it. It turned out people extremely close to me had lost a baby and had never spoken about it. A woman I knew with a young baby spoke about her previous miscarriage and I couldn’t believe it when two other women in the room said they had experienced one too. I never realized how often it happens. I was probably 17 at the time. I couldn’t believe it. People really need to discuss it more and not treat it like a dirty secret a woman should be ashamed of.
“You know you didn’t do anything wrong right?”
“Yeah”
“Can you say that?”
“Not yet”
If my heart didn’t break before, it did there. I saw her pain. What an incredibly strong woman.
I can't believe they left her in the hallways like that and no explanation! I hope she gets a chance to have a happy beautiful baby.
Im currently going through my miscarriage thank you for posting this it makes me feel less alone
Had to have mine at home last friday. xxxxxxxx finding this video helps so much xxxxxxxxx sending you hope
You know she's got the best husband, he sat with her and told her she didn't do anything wrong. Support
actually that's her producer Kevin McShane, he was indeed very sweet
You can see the pain in her eyes heartbreaking
I never realised how real and devastating miscarriages were until this video...
annebutnotreally that’s exactly why it’s important that women talk to each other about this. Cuz this video is the sad reality ❤️
Watching this with Henry already existing moved me so much😭. You are so brave and so strong, honey❤️
Me seeing this video, after like a year and a half. I'm like girl don't cry and I just realized that Henry was THE light, the escape that she needed. I feel you Hanna.
It breaks my heart to see so many bad comments on such a sensitive video. I wanted nothing more than to reach through the screen and hug her 😢
Ugh seeing her start sobbing and not be able to say she didn’t do anything wrong made me start crying. I’m so sorry for your loss 😔
I just had a miscarraige yesterday. This was my first pregnancy after trying for almost 2 years. I found out the baby wasn't growing the day before mothers day. I work at a grocery store and all day on mother's day people were asking me if I am a mother. It took everything in me not to cry that entire day. Yesterday I started having contractions and went to the ER, waited so long and passed it in the waiting room bathroom and left. It's the most traumatic experience I've ever been through.
also thank you for posting this. ❤
Be strong Nd wish the best for your future may God give u enough strength to go through this nd try to be positive as much as u can may God bless u and Ur family
im so sorry ): your rainbow baby will always be with you❤️ you’re not alone, definitely look into some support groups for women that have gone through miscarriages, it can be nice just knowing you’re not alone. wishing you all the best❤️
So sorry 😭😭
I'm so sorry for you, please don't blame urself. It's not ur fault. I know you'll get through this ❤
Hannah deserves the entire world. Seeing her cry like that broke my entire heart. But now she has her beautiful baby boy Henry!!!
I’m seeing so many people comment, “Why is this a video” and it is disgusting . Miscarriage is so common in pregnancies and it isn’t talked about enough. You are so brave to discuss this with the world. I hope that you are your family can get through this sad time ♥️
Google my miscarriage you will find that it is talked about alot. they just dont have a big following.
I don’t know why people are posting mean comments saying that it wasn’t a big deal that she had a miscarriage. It is a HUGE deal! She’s really upset and you can see that, some people are nice and are offering support from behind the screen. Instead of being rude and awful, offer support for her. Would you like someone to laugh and be mean to you when you lost someone you love?
My mom had gone through three miscarriages before giving birth to me ( I was extremely premature and was born @ 5.5 months and gone thu sooooooo many surgeries) I'm 15 now. THANKS MOM. I LOVE YOU AND A BIG SALUTE TO ALL MOTHERS ❤️
The 2.2K ppl who disliked the video have ABSOLUTELY no hearts.
i read the title and my heart broke.
(Edited) Although majority are supportive comments, I still believe that their are still some concerns about the comment section, but if Hannah believes that this video can help other women be aware about miscarriages then I’ll respect her choice. This doesn’t mean that I completely agree with not disabling comments, but luckily those who replied to my comments at made me see a whole new side of this video. I hope this video can be educational like Hannah wanted. :) I wish to all future parents well.
Bubble Bunz totally agree
No opinions matter voices matter if you shut the comments down you shut the entirety of this video down. Don't hide the pain. We all need to learn a little from this 💯
Hannah has already said in reply to another comment that she wants to keep it open for other women to share their experiences. If you already know that the negative comments are going to affect you, then don’t? read? the comment section????
Jenny Marie
Maybe they didn’t see that reply
Censorship is amazing
I hope your job didn't pressure you to talk about your loss but thank you for sharing a personal grief 💔😭
watching this after watching your recent difficult birth story and knowing that you do have a happy ending is hopeful for the rest of us < 3
I’m 16, my brother is 3. Everyone always mentions something about our age gap but what they don’t know is that I have 6 other siblings watching over me. Losing a baby at any point in the pregnancy is heartbreaking and it’s terrible that people dont talk about it.
You did nothing wrong and if you need to talk my family and I are always available 💕
Oh wow! That must of been horrible to go through. I hope everything is okay! And you and your Brother are having great lives! 💕
oh my gosh, that's so heartbreaking.
Savvy_ Gacha thank you so much💕
Faithe-Marie H your welcome!
People need to stop asking “when are you having a child or another child?”
DB Right?!?
Losing a child no matter in what way... Is a pain that is unexplainable
Ok is that a normal thing in your country to treat pregnant women in ER like this?? In my country (and it’s fricking eastern europe) pregnant lady with bleeding or strange pain is PRIORITY and you are admitted to the hospital right away, doesn’t matter if there are 50 or 100 people waiting. Seriously i’m in shock like i thought medical help in the US is better
a couple years ago i had a hole in my stomach and was throwing up blood, no priority, and I was 17. I had a hallway bed like Hannah mentioned because i didn't have insurance at the time. Eventually I demanded a room because I was in so much pain. I was all on my own and it sucked
No its just more expensive.
Doro Roro sadly in most places here it is. Another example is that my grandfather had a heart attack and we brought him in for chest pains and that we think that was what was going on and they had us waiting for like 20 minutes before my grandma marched up and said something about it. Within minutes of being hooked up to a machine they were calling code blue and we (my grandmother & I) were pushed into the hallway. And the er wasn’t even busy and we waited so long. It’s can be very frustrating how the system works here.
In my state we have an emergency room made just for pregnant women.
Sadly yes, most doctors here shouldn’t be doctors
I am 15. I don’t have kids, I have never been pregnant. My mother has never had a miscarriage. I literally cannot relate in the slightest, but I sobbed watching this video. Hannah I am so sorry.
Had 2 miscarriages. What was the hardest thing was the whole " don't worry, you'll have another one". That was so hard for me. No one cared my baby was gone. It is hard I definitely agree. Glad you are speaking about it.
I’m so grateful you made this video. I had a missed miscarriage this past week, and it was the most physical and emotional pain I’ve ever experienced. I’ve watched this video like 6 times this week. Because it helps to know I’m not alone. As my friends who have miscarried told me, it’s the worst club ever.
I'm sorry to hear about you're miscarriage
I hate how ERs in this country are run, pretty much every person I know has a story of sitting in the waiting room for hours and then sitting in a bed in a hall for another hour. I remember crying in front of the nurse that was assessing me because of how long I'd been there and how tired I was and how much i just wanted to leave. It's absurd.
Frankly you don't often see the other side of it. I've asked the same question and found out it's because they're overworked and understaffed. Most of our GP's and nurses and Doctors don't event get lunch breaks and work 12 hour days treating us. And part of the problem is also people going into the emergency room for the common cold, taking up valuable time for other patients who need it more. From getting to know someone intimately who works in the healthcare system I can tell you they're just as frustrated as us about how bad the system seems to have become.
@@sourplumz7577 oh for sure! And one of the reasons people with colds go into the ER instead of doctor's offices is because of the state of healthcare and how expensive it is to have insurance. It's not good for either party :/
@@isabelpenn4887 its such a shame that both parties suffer!! :( I wish it wasn't this way
Please understand that doctors from every country are overworked and none of the hospitals have staff that aren't hard working. They do their best every minute of their day and you should be thankful to them especially around this time. You might feel sick but there are people in there who might be saved by just a fraction of a minute, because there was a doctor or a nurse in there at the right time. Personally as a student studying to become a doctor and having relatives who are doctors I have immense respect for every doctor out there. They deserve the best. Please put yourself in their pants before you start hating on them.
It breaks my heart that women feel like they can't call in sick for something like this. Being sick isn't only your body, but also your mind. She needed time to recover mentally. I feel like every women should have that (if she needs it) and shouldn't feel pressured or obligated to get back to work... Thank you for sharing
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“You know you didn’t do anything wrong, right?”
“Yeah”
“Can you say that”
“No”
That broke my heart. I’m praying for you Hannah 💜
My husband and I started trying for a baby a year ago and we got pregnant right away. We were over the moon and like you, we told people. We were just so excited.
And just like you, we got to see the heartbeat and we also thought that meant everything was going ok.
But 2 days later, I had a miscarriage on the way to work. I was 8 weeks along.
We were devastated and I blamed myself, no matter what anyone said, no matter how much the doctor told me there wasn't anything I could have done.
But I found out later just how common miscarriages are in first pregnancies and talking to others in the same situation really helped.
It's been a year and we are pregnant again, still not out of the woods yet but we are trying to stay positive.
So much love and strength to you for sharing your story
Man this tears me up so much. Especially when she mentions that maybe she wasn’t meant to have another child.. I can’t imagine how terrified she was when she got pregnant with Henry. I’m so happy there didn’t seem to be any problems with his pregnancy. 🖤
1. there is nothing you could have done or couldn't have done
2. Keep trying just because you had a miscarriage doesn't mean you should stop trying..
It's been 6 years now since my miscarriage and I'm still trying.
Hoping and praying for your rainbow baby 🌈
Defo keep trying! My parents told me they tried for 5years before having me so just keep going,best of luck!!💜
Gloria Camarena good luck💞💞💞
Thanks yall
Miscarriage happens so much more often than people think.. unfortunately 😢
All of you ladies who had to go through it, you are beautiful, you are powerful, you are not alone!🌺
It’s not our fault, we will be ok 🙂
watching this after seeing henry being born...hope little henry lives a healthy life
Oh my goodness. I feel for you sooo much. I had a miscarriage last year, I was 10w4d (this was my first and only pregnancy to date).
You are a strong woman, I am soo appreciative of this video. This video is literally EVERYTHING that I want to say to everyone. All of your feelings are so spot on.
I know how hard this video was to make, but thank you. You are much stronger than me.
There are reasons for miscarriages, it doesn't mean you shouldn't have another baby and it's absolutely not your fault. I feel for you and am grateful for people like you who open up about difficult topics. Much love
The fact that people are saying she is looking for attention is disgusting. She made this because it’s important to know this happens and it really affects people. Women aren’t alone when they go through this and they need to know it. They think they have to just move on.
shes posting it on buzzfeed which is a fuel for all the negative comments as buzzfeed has been deemed social justice warrior/feminist central with a pinch of ignorant sexism towards males for no validated reason but yes saying shes looking for attention is sad if she put this on her own channel instead it wouldnt be that way
My mom had 2 miscarriages and even I had a very big meltdown when I saw the death certificates.
I'm so sorry that you went through that. I just miscarried my first baby last week and it's been so incredibly hard. :(
I’m so sorry! You will get through this!
I'm so sorry! I hope you feel better soon 💜
I'm sorry
I'm so sorry for you, it must be hard, just now that we all are there for you! God bless you!
My mom had 3 miscarriages before having me and even giving birth was difficult. It is still sad for her, many years later. Big hug to you, be brave. Love from Honduras. 🖤🖤🖤
Using a horrible experience to raise awareness about something that is almost never talked about 👏👏👏U have made the world a better place
I just had my first miscarriage a few days ago. I remembered this video and just watched it again. Watching a video like this really helped me feel like I'm not alone. I know miscarriage is terribly common but there's not a lot of communication about it and people just dismiss it because it is common. But it's a loss and often it's devastating because the parents excited for that child.
If anyone is watching this and going through a miscarriage, you are not alone! Here is my story: My husband and I had been trying for 5 months before we finally got pregnant. We were SO excited! At our 7.5 week ultrasound the baby was only as big as 6 weeks and there was barely a heartbeat. I started spotting a few days later. I went to urgent care but they said I was fine. I had another ultrasound a week after the first (still was spotting) and there was no growth, no heartbeat at all. A few days later the actual miscarriage happened. It was terrible, so much pain, physically and emotionally. It's been 5 days since it started and I'm still bleeding but each day is getting better. But the emotions of losing my sweet, tiny baby is the worst. I know I'll be okay again, I know I might still go on to have a healthy pregnancy and new little baby but it doesn't make me feel any better right now. I feel broken but I have hope and I know I'm not alone.
Thanks to anyone that read this whole thing. I just want to be open about my experience. You never know who you might help when you're open and honest about difficulties you're going through ❤️
Hey, I don’t know you, but I believe you can do this! I know someone who’s had a miscarriage. It is very rough but I know you can do it!
@@Mars-bk7ke Thank you! I still feel bad but I have hope that it'll be okay eventually
Sorry for you lost ..I am currently going through this . How long did your bleeding last ?
I had a miscarriage yesterday and I feel everything that you just described. It was our first pregnancy after waiting four years. This is really hard to go through , but I’m so happy that people like you make videos and have these talks about what happened. So thank you for this , it was healing for my soul to watch this ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss♥️, you and your partner will get through this ♥️
Gabriana Brown thank you so much , we really appreciate that 💕
I’m sorry it unfortunate
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I'm so sorry for your loss
But God will give u strength to get over it
“Can you say that?”
“No. Not yet.”
That was the most heartbreaking thing. 😞
When she shook her head and can’t accept that it isn’t her fault. That broke my heart, love you Hannah. And I know it’s not processing rn BUT IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT, and you’re loved
I feel weird “liking” this video, but I really admire your honesty and vulnerability. I had a miss carriage in April, and fell pregnant again in July. This whole pregnancy I’ve been a ball of nerves, but now at 5 1/2 months it’s getting a little better.
I miscarried two months before I found out I was pregnant again. Currently six months 💓 can’t wait to meet my son