I Brought My Husband From Ghana To Belgium, & A Stranger Ruined Out Marriage -Belgium Based Ghanaian
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Try to interview this woman again. She’s a strong willed and hardworking woman. Some men don’t know how to love and appreciate these type of women. She’s fantastic woman who can give a man so many ideas to be successful in life and marriage.
Say that again hmmmm,is seems like ur talking about me. We the good women don't get a good men. God should help us
Strong woman 😊. I like how she keeps a straight face when the host is laughing 😃
If she doesn't want to teach her children the Ghanaian language it's her choice and we all have to respect that.
This lady is 100% about Ghanaians in abroad . When I came to The U S , I mingled with many Ghanaians and I had a big problem . Gossip is food for Ghanaians in abroad . If you are not careful you can be depressed out of gossip .
Hmmm my boss same thing here bro. Normally we should be happy abroad but jealousy and competition steals our peace.
U said it all, I do hair so I know what you r talking about, so true
Well spoken Sis ! l was in London for thirty yrs I never had any party or bought any car but I have now moved back to Ghana doing very well.
It is her way, her experience and her life!
Let's live our life and allow others to live their life in a way they like without judgment.
Strong woman, ambitious and a go getter.
Hate her or love her!
This Beautiful lady or a woman is speaking through experience but she has a lot of Pain in her heart,Lord have mercy on us 🙏 🙏🙏😭😭she Loves her peoples Ghanaian ❤️ that's why she speaking like that ❤️
Yes she has a lot of pain in her heart. Hmm
And her pain is reflecting in how she is bringing up her kids.its really sad😔
Thank you DJ Nyame for bringing us these interviews it makes us hear what others have been through.
There's absolutely no downside to you or your kids learning their native language whether twi, ga, ewe, dagbani or other languages. It MAY (emphasis on the may) actually make them feel isolated from Ghanaians when they grow up. They also might resent the parent for not teaching them. This not a good thing at all in my opinion but to each their own I guess 🤷🏿♂️
I meet a lot of people in Europe with African parents who now wish they were more connected to their roots but they feel lost. Most of them don’t feel fully accepted by the Europeans even if they were born there .
It’s only our people who have this mentality, I’ve never met a German, French, Chinese (whatever) living in another country who will say they won’t speak their language with their kids . It’s not something to be proud of in my opinion
You are right. They will blame their mother when they grow up. In this global world that we live in, it's an advantage to speak multiple languages, and it's even easier when young. She is using her emotions to deny her kids education
She is making a big mistake 😂
Your absolutely spot on! It's always best to teach your children(foreign Ghanian borns)the Mother language.Because they where born in the western world,you need to learn them the Ghanian language so they can get grips & be aquainted with the culture.
Ghanaians de3..the way some fool paa
Her situation is crazy and I feels sad for those children
I salute this lady 👏, if you have seen hunger before, you don't fear any obstacles, you will do it for survival, not in a bad way but the good way.
I don't know what to say to this woman. She is soooooooo power power power powerful!!!!!!!
My people the lady is telling us the truth trust me , we Ghanaians are somehow
Hatred is our hallmark 😢
We don’t wanna see our natives growing in life
It’s better u get away from them or be very wise with them coz it’s not easy among us out here
A case of lost cause. Self hate is real. Ashamed of her identity and just giving excuses to mask it.
Identity crises...
Nice interview and I really second his views and opinions
This is nonsense we all have kids here in Europe am not an Akan but my kids do speak than me am an hausa everywhere they goes they will say they are Ghanaians show the proofs they speak the language Name does not matter
My children speak Twi, but will not force them to learn the Twi. What's it for in Europe? I speak only English with my daughter 😜
Not everyone has children because an one of those people, who hasn't got any children.
Some of them are abroad ask them the fun places in that city they don't know, they give birth to their children there but they will never take them to Chuckie cheese,sesame park,dorney, and Disney, all they know is building 2,3,4 houses in Ghana at the expense of their children happiness so when they see your children happy because you make life fun for them then they will start asking, do you have a house in Ghana if you say No then know that you going to be the topic for discussion, and if you say I have one they will tell you one is not enough, why? don't you have family back home who are living in there so you have to build another,so most of our children are miserable like ourselves and jealous like their parents, sometimes even when I take my children to fun places I have to warn them not discuss it with their cousins at church because their moms will start gossiping, that all she knows (won bo bra) even when I go to the salon someone intentionally come and ask you how much you spent ,woe onto you if you tell them the price,hmmmmm ,one thing they don't realize is that not every one comes from a poor family in Ghana is not everyone who is desperate, some of us just want to be happy and enjoy life, and the little we can we do.God is also Blessing me.and very content I don't need 5 houses to prove anything to anybody.
Love This
Well said oo she is just building funeral homes in Ghana .3 houses and you not even going to live there?it's crazy 😒
Love your comment dear. I’m a newbie in Europe and I’m learning a lot. Thanks so much
Well said....love this
Beautiful comment as someone birn to gh parents in London we were talking about it that alot of gh and naij parents have no social life just work home and occasional gossip from church
I love this interview and love what she said
In my opinion there's no way I will give my children to nursery and return back to work in 3 months in abroad. There's more to life than chasing money. I remember working 8am-10pm every day until I realised my son knows his nanny more than me and paying expensive nursery fees using the same money, that's when I said never again. Not to be rude but she looks older than 36 and I believe it all down to running around and having so many children within short spaces of time. Our body needs to recover as women.
I have met some Amazing Ghanaians in UK, same as worse ones. Sometimes it get lonely and you need your little community to be by your side. I remember when my mum died, although I live in all white community, my Ghanaian folks drove almost 3 hours to come and see me.
She is working more than her strength.
But don't forget she has given birth to Nine (9) Children!Wow!!
@Sam Sung yes that what I meant. The body worn out as you overuse it.
@@goddessgh8770 That's true though, but it's still incredible at this time and age nine kids at 36years 😲
Black mentality that is what always keep as poor there is nothing wrong to work three months after giving birth
This lady is excellence, bold focus and determined
You are 💯 right and truthful sister 👍 stay bless (mooi dag )
I wish I can have Ghanaian friends but my experience with them hasn’t been good, so I’m scared 😢
Not only you. I also felt the same way during my school days.
Lol that’s sad. But don’t give up.
@@mohmmedapprey3787 🤣😂😂😂 say it again
@@Fabuloushere.. hmmm is not easy oooh
I keep on watching this video over and over. She is very very very GREAT !!!!
What she’s saying is very true about Ghanaians. The percentage she gave kraa she’s done well mpo. They are very quick to judge. Am also in Belgium,gent to be precise
I love this woman. She is honest.
My cousin and her family live in Austria. All the four children were born in Austria and the kids were taught and speak impeccable Fante. Thus, they feel at home when they come down for holidays. There are some Ghanaian children born and living in Ghana who can only speak English. We shouldn't make mistakes that we may regret in future. As our children grow their perspective about life changes and they would wish their parents had taught them their native language.
It's ridiculous that some Ghanaians living in Ghana don't want their children to speak their own language, Some don't even know where they're from or their heritage, Ghanaians are lost
Very true
This woman make sense on some of the issues,but others enko yie koraaaa. The stress syndrome is over displayed. Hmmm God have mercy
Nice interview, very educated. God bless you Mummy
My son is 6yrs and he’s very brilliant in school and he loves to speak Twi even in front of his American friends. It’s not bad to teach your kids an African language.
She's a pure ❤️ person
Strong and wise lady.
Wish the very best for you.
I love you from a far Vida . You er my idol as a young woman in Belgium but you don’t knw enpo. Well done mama👌🏾⚡️⚡️😍
Ei Vida you are brave oo. I really like you. God bless you for the hard work.
I like to hear true stories like her story. She's a strong woman. I hope her husband returns and she accepts him back.
I like how strong she is & hard working 💪. I love hard working & forceful ladies. Eight kids overseas hmmmmmm, she ve done well ooo, cos its definitely not easy. But she ve lots of bitterness in her but is good to becareful though.
This lady is 💯 correct. God bless her sister for the sacrifice. I thank God for my brother to ❤.
God bless you Vida ❤❤❤
I like her vibes and confidence😂
I know this lady n I seriously respect her. She is really brave
My dear, it’s good to teach your children how to speak your local language. Even if they can’t speak , let them understand the language when someone speaks it
One day they’ll blame you for not teaching them
This woman 🌹 is leading the videos . Just 1 day over 13 thousand views. Wowwwww bring her again on. Another topic.
Well noted sister advise Well taken
That’s horrible to bring your kids in to social media fight and to go as far as to give out the children’s phone number is ridiculous. Shame on anyone who called your children
The reason why I think people get jealous of others is because others give too much information to other people about themselves esp information about the things they have achieved and other things they are about to achieve. Such information is supposed to be confidential. Otherwise, jealousy and envy.
You’re right
i love her principle and lifestyle
Being able to speak many languages is an advantage, and it opens doors. Her kids might, one day, may blame her for denying them the chance to learn other languages. And it's easier when learned at a younger age. She should not allow her emotions to make her deny her kids the chance to learn. Some white people are learning twi and other African dialects. Imagine your kid getting an international appointment in ghana and not being able to relate to his people. And for their own safety, it's better to understand twi so that they can listen to what's going on around them.
You right...I know some myself..they will insult her for that
Being multi lingual is a great advantage. It opens up one’s mind to think and problem solve using various forms of strategies. I had some Ghanaian children tell me that they regret that their parents didn’t teach them to speak Ghana language. I hope this lady sees these posts. In any case she seems very focused and hardworking.
@mountzion2018 there are ghanaians everywhere. Trust me there will be a time where they would want to relate to that ghanaian heritage. Africa is becoming cool again. From music to sports to movies to entertainment. When it hits them, they will blame their mother for shielding them and not allowing them to at least understand the language. To each its own
@@mountzion2018regardless it’s an advantage. Twi or Ga language is spoken in Belgium as well.
What appointment are u talking abt , mostly they don't wana involve themselves in Ghana stuffs cos of those criminalised and corruption and their work they do there gives them money more than here in Ghana
I respect her views
Wooow…Sexyvida,am proud of you 🥹🥰🤜🏽You are such a strong woman 💪🏾God Bless You And Keep You🙏🏼
I like this woman 👍I have really enjoyed this interview
Chale Chale I feel this woman waaaa. Brave enough. Hard woman
Very deep hmmm..🌿🌺🎄
She's right. Very wise woman and
smart.
This lady has no bitterness in her heart. God bless her.
It’s so true it’s every where
The most important thing is, she brings them to Ghana. It's just a matter of time, they will learn the language cos she speaks it. She doesn't need to teach them, they will learn.
This is a soul sister
Thank you madam
It's even worse in the UK.. about 2% Ghanaians are good.
God bless you
Keep up the good dear
She spoke so well of her siblings
Interesting ♥♥♥
DJ nyaami said nkwae no 😂😂😂😂. Hmmm
It’s well
Interesting interview
I have always believed that people that run away from their own and speak of such deep resentment hate themselves because they are not happy to be who they are.
This lady is saying the truth, fear your fellow black man
I like the way she talks
My boss one's advice me ..not to take advice from someone that's in pain or bitter.... let's wisdom speak
Blessed Vida
I have watched this video over and over.
It’s always advantageous to know many languages. Today Africans and African Americans are visiting and moving to Ghana and many wish they know or understand the language. The more you travel the more knowledgeable you become. But it’s true Ghanaians are quite judgmental and like to gossip too much. Christianity and religion also plays a role in Ghanaians being judgmental.
Very true, same in uk Germany jealousy is killing most of them.
The age got me rolling 😂 ei ewiase y3 hu oooo boi . 14 years pregnant to Europe 😂 ei mama 😂
Dycl
I was wondering 🤔
Does why we will be called slaves in someone's land. You have destroyed their culture and identity. Which german kid doesn't speak his language or which Japanese kids does speak his language. Let wise up blacks
We all the opportunity to make choices. But what we should remember is to what end is that decision gonna be. For we make decisions that benefits us today but not thinking of the future. Please I she should think about when she's dead and gone.🙏🙏🙏
Wow, she is great woman
What this LADY VIDA is saying is 100% TRUE!!! IF YOU WANT TO GO FAR, SHINE YOUR EYES
Hmmmmm Ey3 as3m
There's Mensah in every society
(Efie biara Mensah wom)
Gossip and jealous every where
People will talk about your glory but not your hustling. Tuaaaaa
Nice
I love this woman ❤
She is very eloquent with the Twi language but why is she denying her children the chance to speak Twi?Anyway, she has a reason for doing that
All what the lady is saying about most Africans abroad is very true. Jealousy, backbiting, Konkonsa etc. are things that spoil marriages in the white man’s country
She’s telling the truth paaaa
All languages belongs to God... Tut zin
She is soo sweet. ❤️❤️❤️
that's a strong woman
Ghanian pls use the social media to study, to learn to encourage to empower, to support, how to perform ed basic things
Well said o, lol.
Wow!!! this is a tough lady.
Try and teach them wai ...They are still from Africa
My sweet vida name baakope she’s strong 💪🏼 like me I like her ❤️❤️❤️
My major concern is her failure to teach the kids their mother tongue. These kids are innocent of what she has gone through.
I love this woman paa
Straight . Thats gospel .
Sister vida 💓
🔥🔥🔥My GEE 💪🏻
Is true sis even now i dont have Ghaneins freind here
Imagine working hard, building three houses you'll never live in.
Ghanaians and our default thinking, lol. Oh well, she said she bought one where she wants to live, so at least, it's a plus.
She is 100% you don't mix with GH people.
I rrally like this woma DJ nyame let her know from this side
THIS LADY IS VERY RIGHT. ABOUT GHANAIANS ABROAD.
Sis vida all the way
I can see the woman is really hurt 😭😭