My C-Section Experience in india | I was scared of normal delivery
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- čas přidán 20. 08. 2024
- I had an elective c section as I was scared of having a normal delivery. This video is about my caesarean experience in india and also about prons and cons of having a normal delivery and c section,so that you can decide for yourself what kind of childbirth do you want.
I had a normal delivery five years back .Now i am planning and the next one i will go with c section.Because i went through a hard time and I struggled with the pain for two days and its a nightmare for me now.The fact is true normal delivery is natural but my mental health is very important during pregnancy rather than impressing others with my pain bearing talent.And people are talking about the pain after c section but no body is talking about the pain of normal delivery which is 1000 more than c section pain.I am not promoting c section just writing my experience .Because i already experienced vaginal delivery with epidural and don’t want to experience it again.The final thing is we want healthy baby thats it.And again with normal delivery vaginal stitch pain was horrible i couldn’t sit properly for 2 weeks.So im thinking of c section for the next one.Even my husband and mother is also supporting me since they were with me during my first delivery and the saw howmuch is struggled.And one fact nobody knows howmuch pain I experienced and nobody can compare their pain with anyone’s else.
I had same experience
Will doctors agree easily for planned c section
@@jyotisharma-er5hh they try to council u but if you don't want it than they do it, in Pakistan government hospitals don't do elective c-section even they don't give epidural, but same doctors can do elective c-section in private practice and they don't force you for vgnl delivery..... This is what my doctor told me....
Apki dilivery ho gai kya
Ho gai kya apki dilivery
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am 35 weeks pregnant today and going for c section. Feeling anxious and overthinking a lot. This video made me calm and better 😊
Jaimy, i went for an elective c section 20 days before. I was also scared about normal delivry and yeah, its not the best, and after learing about the possible risk factors for both Normal and C section deliveries, i requested for c section to my doctor and had the same. Trust me, i consider it as the best decision, i was stress free, it took 15 mins, to see my baby, all went well, the after pains was bearable and it went in 3 days, in my case. Time had changed and a surgery is not a nightmare..
And i watched ur video before my delivery, and felt confident. Thats why i came back here to say this.. thank you 😊
Are you serious 😐😒😑😳
R u serious, if u can giv virginal delivery then why c section......today's girls are so weak thy even not try ........tavi to rape karte he kuch long
Omg. I am feeling like u r reading my mind. I too did the same and there was a mixed feelings of guilt and regret in my head all these days and finally i found ur video. And i am relaxed now.. thank u 💓 💗 💖 💛
Sending you lots of love ❤️
I m having same problem
Thank u so much for making this video. Its so damn relatable with my experience, I was unable to deliver normally and so opted for C-section but till I get to hear abt y u went for c-section. Uptil now I was lyk there must be some problem with me as all are able to deliver naturally except me. It just so good to hear that it is okay to feel scared of natural birth ❤️❤️
I went for c section too....people are torturing me with this question why i didnt go for natural birth....
Same prblm for mee
Always beat the person who ask this question
Oh.. Don't you worry girl. I am also on same boat. And experience was super.
This video helped me a lot. I was soooo stressed. Thank you so much. Pray for me. I wish I too can have a smooth delivery 🧿🙏❤️
Please tell me is there unbearable pain after delivery in C - section???
I fell I love with your mindset. I really was going through a tough time about this and thank you for clearing my doubt.
Thank you soo much ananya..M really happy i was able to be of atleast one bit help to you:)..I knew how i felt back then..It was a big emotional turmoil..And i really felt it was important to put this feeling out there ...U take care:)..Lots of love:)
People don't talk about these things on air but You are educating women I really appreciate your effort😃
Thank you soo much Ayesha.. yea..I took some time for me also to let it out...that's u I wanted to talk abt this
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@Raji Radhakrishna didi believe me surgical delivery may sometime become more complicated than normal.
Its perfectly normal to have such thoughts, love. Have an amazing parental life.
I am glad that you take all the major decisions by thinking about them yourself and dont follow the norms. Please, make a video on how you gather the strength to make a decision and stand by it.
Much love!
Hi Aditi... thank u soo much😘...that means a lot🤗
Girl you’re right, our society can’t mind their own business. Everyone has some shitty comment, good on you for making a choice that you were happy with! It’s your body, I had an emergency c section as my water broke and they give only 24 hours to dilate. Epidurals are mostly safe and doctors in Canada are amazing! No scars for life or anything, I can’t even see my scar lol The next one I’m thinking of planned, not vbac. Let’s see! Who knows hun? Thanks for sharing! And you do you!
Even I had c section how there is no scar
@@nathanialsherveen1310 the scar is there obviously but it’s barely noticeable, my doctor did an amazing job of stitching me up really nicely. I can’t even tell where it is!
@@nathanialsherveen1310 whats ur experience ?is it painfull pls reply
Wow....very motivating n honest video...m too goin thru d same....i have elective c section day after tomorrow...it ws my decision coz i too am scared of the normal delivery pain...so planned for c sec...hope its gonna b ok....luved ur video ❤
Thank you soo much jyoti....hope you and baby are keeping well.lots of love😘
Whats ur experience ?is it painfull pls reply
@@bandbajaweddings Hi jaimi .You didnt feel any pain at stiches after anesthesia?Is there any pain when we try to sit first time and walk pls tell I have same phobia like u
I had a c- section, and has no pain at all. I'm afraid of normal delivery.
You didnt feel any pain at stiches?
@@crazyatthings yes stich has pain and discomfort.but that is tolerable
@@parvathyp4152 will spinal injection hurt
@@crazyatthings no.
@@parvathyp4152 do u have any patch on u after surgery means did they put any patch at ur shoulder after surgery I heard from someone
I'm a c-section mom and I have a fear of both c-sections and natural delivery ahahah I just want the baby. I'm on my third baby and still scared preparing for my planned c-section. I have c-sections because the first baby was emergency c-section so the following births I did planned c-sections. BUT forever either option is scary :*( ahaha
how are you ? do you have any bowel movemrnt problem or pain ?
C section long run mein disturb krta hai kya pls tell ?
If you have a fear, how did u manage to plan kids?
I was scared ..but my c.section was not pain full🙏
At stiches you didn't feel pain plss tell me
@@crazyatthings well I didn't know that would happen coz I did expect pain ... that's unexplainable
Sorry I wont understand what u are saying.u feel pain in stiches or not
@@Remaz_r5 sorry I wont understand what u are saying u feel pain or not
@@crazyatthings I did not feel pain at the stiches
Who was your doctor? Which hospital and city?? He or she gave you a painless experience. That in itself is a Miracle.
Thank you so much for making this video. I am 5 weeks and ALREADY terrified of natural birth. My mom and husband didn't understand. I did think I was alone!
Every doctor or research will say that a natural delivery is better for both the mother and the baby if everything is ok. Do you even know that because the baby goes through vagina it gets coated with microbes which provide immunity to the baby. Mothers like you are really a shame
I had face the same problem, but opted c- section. Now I am happy.
You are so honest and ur reviews gave me more confidence THANKYOU❤
Thank you nazia...lots of love♥️
I used to cry because I got c sec,but after seeing this video....Iam feeling happy,thanku mam
Why u cried mam.Is it painfull?
Even i cried for days after c section
Meri behena, aapko full support and respect, thanks for sharing the information with us.
Thank you soo much
I am not married yet, and for the fact I know , I will marry after 6,7 year ( because of graduation and post graduation 4+2).
And I am so scared of having a baby after marrage. I have seen some videos on the internet how baby born normally , and its so scary. And in normal process also, there are a cut done near the vagina. So I am totally mentally prepared for a C section.
Same😂
No go for normal, after c-section delivery pain is immense.🙄
Me too
Same feeling I am having ..even I am feeling as you....I can't prepare mentally for normal delivery...So am deciding to go for c section delivery.
Meee aslo dr...
For more information about c section watch this video here czcams.com/video/5-sxnoQUAhA/video.html
I am pregnant n this is how i feel all the tym n i am planning for a c section.
When is ur due date?
Thank you yes even i could not manage normal delivery. I had this fobia after c section that my entire body will face issues. Lets see its been 2 days . I hope everything goes well. Thank you for making this vedio. Waheguru jee sab theek kar de.
How do you feel now
How u feel after c section?
@@TheSaggiGirlsTarot
Normal delivery or c section
In our side there is a very common misconception that if a girl had c section,it means she is not strong enough for normal delivery. People never support you. I'm in my 38 week and don't know what will happen at delivery but I'm ready for both.
I wanted to have a natural birth but instead I ended up having a c section two months ago , everything went well but because I delivered a daughter , it shook my inlaws and I had to go through a lot of mental and physical stress but I believe this hard phase will soon end in my life and yes I too believe if mother is happy , satisfied with c section birth then she will heal quicker unlike me who had to go through a lot of mental stress 😭
First of all you have married in the wrong family. Love should not be gender based. It’s your child. Your love for the kid is divine. Don’t give a damn to you in laws, they should have gotten married their son to a man instead of a girl if they never liked girl in the first place. Also a woman only gives birth, but the sex is determined by the man who transfers the X or Y chromosome into the woman. They don’t seem to be educated hence better educate them or just leave those illiterate foolish people and enjoy your phase and live your life to the fullest and be happy. Your happy should be based solely on yourself which you would be getting from your kid. Your happiness should not be based on their happiness.
@@dipsy241 Now everything is Ok . My husband supports me but he wasn't present at the delivery time due to his job
My mother in law made a blunder mistake and now she realized that how wrong was she .
Thankyou for this video:)Even i have such great phobia of having a normal delivery..I have very less threshold to pain. This video really helped.
Same
Yes true. Normal delivery is much better than c section. Bt no pain in c section. You said it all true things. I also had c section 3 mnths ago.and its quite normal.everything is good with me .except my belle is still fluffy thats the only part i dont like it. I also had suppose to birth by normal,bt pain was unbearable 😫.and my baby goes up.
God bless you girl.All mothers are brave 🙏 More power to girls 💕
I had previously normal delivery and all was don with artificial pains whicg was unbearable. Now i want to have C section but my family will not support me i think😢
Me first
Before watching I put ☺🤗
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This vedio in soo mind relaxing ..bcz I'm due in Dec but cannot mentally prepare for normal delivery
Dear you can watch this video here czcams.com/video/5-sxnoQUAhA/video.html
It would help more for taking mental preparation of your delivery.
Have a nice day 😊
Normally or c section
Normal delivery but very bad experience.. suffering a lot after delivery .my pelvic muscles become weak and have severe pain ..hope to become well soon 😔😔
Congratulations sis
Mine 2 also c section emergency im feeling guilty that c section done .but so many people normal people bcom normal how is ur health now
All this happened with me..I scared from normal delivery.so I decided for C-section...now my baby 6 month old..but after c section I have back pain problem 🙂🙂🙂🙂
Do u feel any pain after anesthesia at stiches pls reply
Its coz of ur sitting posture post birth
Simply kill your partner
If he objects
@@crazyatthings no pain at all
Most relaxing video.. Thank you for making it.. ❤️
My time is coming on next month and this video is soooo good 👍.. Because i feel in the same way..
Thank you for the vedio, yes as you said there are many people out there wanting to know if it is ok to make a choice, particularly in India where women often do not have a birth plan unlike in Foreign countries, and where Doctors refuse to do it stating it to be risky. Making an informed Choice is essential irrespective of the mode of delivery.
For more information u can have a look on this video czcams.com/video/5-sxnoQUAhA/video.html
Pls dont get motivated by such videos normal delivery is painfull but it is way safer dan the cesarean. My doctor made a forceful c section made me and my husband scared after 3 hours of me going into labour pain told us babys heart beat has gone low so v had to give him permission for c section. He just did it for money because my husband was suppose to get claim from his company. While cutting my belly and utrus they cut my urinary bladder and they dint know where i was bleeding from. It took 2 nd half hour to call the senior most doctor to find that cut all this time i was bleeding they dint even tell us after dis wat was the matter they kept me on bed sleeping position only with saline and no food for 6 days my veins of both hand had become hard, they put catheter and a half foot drain pipe into my stomach while taking out the drain pipe it was so horrible dat i cannot explain u'll doctor just pulled the drain pipe from the hole which they made in my tummy and i was screaming. Dan i had no feeling of passing urine at the time of discharge and dis continued for almost 2 years. Dan i was constipated because i dint eat for 6 days, gas dis dat it was hopeless situation for me. Constipation gave me piles problem which im suffering till today. So ladies think twice before going for cesarean if u dont have a choice dan only go for cesarean.
But after Norma delivery I also faced severe constipation and piles issue along with stitches healing issue, my stitches were opened my verginal cut was opened again
I suffered from constipation, piles and stitches issues after a long hours labour pain
Am an expecting mother, I too want a c section, am really scared of normal delivery
Same here
Me too
Ankita Soman don’t worry I had a c section 44 days ago.. now am absolutely fine.. my decision was right...🤩
@@shamiyahussain3776 and how many days it will take for recovery. I m 4 months pregnant. Normal delivery ka sun Kar dar jati h. It's my first baby
s sheikh actually recovery rate according to each person.. for me very next
day of surgery I started walking and capable to do my own activities.. for me the pain of incision was bearable. Soreness of incision will remain upto 2 weeks
Maine b 21 Dec ko meri choice se c section kraya h believe me mujhe b normal delivery se bhot darr lgta tha. And after c section mujhe b koi pain nhi hua same meri medicine b 5 days around chli thi lovely experience ❤️❤️
Hello abi aap,kesi,ho......mera b c secfion 20 days pehle hua...mujhe b pain se darr lagta hai
Which city and hospital?
very well explained ❤
Thank you for this video
M also very scared, will definitely go for a c section
For more information about c section u can watch this video here czcams.com/video/5-sxnoQUAhA/video.html
Hope it helps ☺️
Ladies I had two kids - 1) c section and 2) normal delivery.
Both options are correct - as a mother we have to make a choice to bring the baby. Both options are right.in India, lot of people encourage against c section and force you to do natural. Please do what’s right for you … I was so scared of normal delivery first - luckily my doctor was supportive and understood my fear of pain….
Be happy and do what’s best for you and please understand everybody has different pain tolerance … I had my normal with epidural.. I did not feel anything but stitches later was irritating …
Dont you feel pain at stiches after anesthesia?
@@crazyatthings so there was pain both times - both time manageable with medicines . With normal you recover faster and c section it took around 5 days -
Hello! Some people are saying that if you choose to have c section even if you had the ability to give birth normally next time you will not be able to give birth nornally ,is,this,true?! And what is epidural?! Please reply
@@kyipasbeautyminati4172 if it’s your first time c section, then going in for a normal after that is possible. Please don’t listen to others, speak to a doctor and find out. Epidural is given to reduce pain during normal delivery.
Ur so lucky 1 c and 2nd normal in mine case 1c 2nd time i try not normally pain is not start so induced internal swolling on scar so emergency c section everyday im regreating my self 😢😢but every one is dominating bcz c section
thank you for sharing.... m having my elecctive c-sec within 2 weeks..
How’s ur experience after c sec ?
Whats u r experience
@@PriyankaSharma-ii1cq what was ur experience after c section please tell there was a pain after anesthesia
Hey that was really nice and informative video. But please do make one more video regarding the scar and stretch mark topic after c section. Do share your experience.
You didn't lack Confidence ...you have fear of Pain.....but now you are a Mom ....wishing you a happy life ahead
Thank you so much ur experience because I suffered lot ofmy delivery, I have noraml delivery but I can't control the pain so I go to c section , evry one told y c section by that time suffered and thinking
I'm so happy for you. And one important thing - The guilt feeling shouldn't exist. It's YOUR BODY, YOUR CHOICE. You are carrying a new life, you are gonna breastfeed, you are ensuring the continuation of an entire species. No one else's bogus lectures should matter. Whether c-section or vaginal birth, the choice should be entirely the mother's.
And coming to the point of 'natural-unnatural', it's again a baseless argument. Our entire civilization is itself an institution of diverting from the natural way. We aren't born with clothes yet wear them, we no longer live in jungles/caves but inside protective houses, we don't chew leaves to cure a disease but take proper meds. Everything's is technically unnatural. So, a woman shouldn't definitely bother what society says.
What is painless c section I had c section but it was painful after c section for 1 week
Pain bearable tha
Due date is 11 nov still very scared of c sec and catheter very tense
You just speak up my mind dear....thankyu so much for bringing up this topic..❤️
Thank you so much for this. I've got so much anxiety about giving birth. It's nice to hear of someone having a pain free birth after hearing so many horror stories.
...She may not have had to go through a painful labor and vaginal delivery, but do you really think getting 7 layers of fat on your abdomen cut through would be painless once the pain meds wear off? Come on...
Your baby is boy or girl? You are so clear in your thoughts, I really appreciate your attitude of thinking and focusing on yoyr self
Literally i am facing same situation…. Its my 8 month about to end… now i will go for c section
But normal delivery better than c section..
Doctor also suggested normal delivery ..or aap logo ko normal delivery k bare me or dara rahe ho
Did u feel any pressure while the c section was going on. Which anesthesia did you take??.. please reply I'm due in 2 weeks
Whats ur experience?
Thank you for sharing. Very comforting.
very well explained ..am also scared for normal delivery n go for c section
Jaimi... i accidently hit your channel... good one dear.. keep going..
Thank you ❤️😘😘😘 😘
How Ayurvedic recommend to take care after a c-section?
Very thanks for this video... I was very afraid of normal and c section also... But now I'm not afraid of c section.. Thank you so much 😊
Normal or c section
Iam watching your video for the first time I couldn't ignore your smile...similar to Preity Zinta ❤️😍 thanks for sharing your journey.
Thank you. Am going through the same mental struggle.
Duniya ka sbse Ganda kaam hai normal delivery...meri saas ne meri jbrdsti normal delivery krwai thi
Thanks for clearing my doubt thank you so much 👍
I got really scared after I saw your thumbnail 😂
Ooops...dint mean to scare 🙈🙈
😅😁
Given a cut & stitched up in normal delivery too?? H-How?
Episiotomy and/or 2nd, 3rd, 4th degree tear. Which is extremely painful for months.
I too have this fear of normal delivery
Wow this video ll help the moms to be having this kinda war in their mind. have you done something on the stretch marks after c section
🤦🏽♂️listening to her speak English brings the movie "SHORT CIRCUIT" to mind. 🤭 she so beautiful. Wish God blessed me with an Indian/Bangladeshi wife like her.
Mai b c section ka soch rhi hu apni family k against jaa kr per mere husband mere saath h.. but ab mooghe kisi ne btaya ki c section k baad wo dabba dabba kr check krte h stomach 😥😥 wo bhut painful hota h
Yes they do in order to check whether ur womb is contracting or not.. But it won't pain much bcoz u r under anesthesia but yes only 2 times u will feel it when the affect of anesthesia is over and and they check 4-5 times within a course of time
I had c section. Super easy experience. After surgery you might feel some pain, but medications does help a lot. I had dissolvable stitches, so they did not have to do anything after surgery.
Ur experience and my experience both are same
I'm also getting this phobea... Comin April 15th I have taken decission to go for C section ❤️
I'm very much tensed 🙄
And I am afraid of c section but my doc . Told me that there is no chance for normal delivery because my pelvic area is not open yet🙄
@@purnimasharma3688 my doc is pushing me for normal as I’m fit for it..but I’m way too afraid about the vaginal cut and stitches.. thats y I have opted for C section
@@purnimasharma3688 have u undergone c section whats ur experience pls tell me
Whats ur experience mam?
@@BarnaChowdhurylove What was ur c section experience?Do u get pain at stiches after anesthesia pls tell I too afraid of both normal and c section
This is helping new moms make decision. I m expecting n i m so scared
U r so positive 👍..thankss c section ka darr bhgane k liye
Thankyou so much i thougt im the only one !
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Mam i m also scared of normal delivery but my doctr n family is not ready for that..
Hi Monica...I know it's difficult ☹️...which month are u in now
😘
Hi, thanks for sharing your experiences..can you pls share the name of your hospital/ doctor. I’m interested
Can you suggest the doctor please
Hello dear ,which hospital and doctor you are referring.
Watching n listening u girl
Awwwieee. Thanks Preeti....that's soo sweeet🤗🤗🤗🤗
Mam doctor ne labor room Jane ko bola prescription laka tha admit the pt in obs a kya Hoti hai
Very helpful video.... Thank you for sharing your experience 🙏
Mam my gynaec is not giving me the date... she is just saying lets see .. what should i do m tensed
Hey Monica....how many weeks now?
Now 9th mnth runin mam ... how many days it take to heal fully mam .. because m afraid
Wow ...love you dear .... Dil khush ho gya
i m on the same boat.... i m choosing c sec deliberately
What was ur experience please tell?
Hi, can you please tell how many days after the delivery did you start wearing pants/pajamas. I had my c section 4 weeks back and still wearing gowns.
Please reply
What was u r c section experience does stiches cause pain after anesthesia pls reply
Hi.. I m scared the same way like u were n have planned a surgery but at 37th week.. Let me know when did u have your c sec n is it safe to have it at 37th week? Babys weight is 2.8 kg as on 36th week in usg.. Some people are saying weight is not accurate in usg and actual weight comes out to be less than usg weight. Pls guide
Whats ur experience mam?
Thank you so much for sharing this video.. So helpful 👍
Will the doctors allow to choose elective c section ? Is that possible in every city of India ? Some doctors start arguing with patients on this and they don’t agree
My doctor is not agreeing for c section and telling its always doctor decision
I faced a dreadful normal delivery after long labour pain , I got verginal cut which was very pain full for several months
My natural delivery was worse experience for me
I m again pregnant after 4 years but very very scared
Natural delivery is good for long term . its choice ! there is no good or bad
Hello diiii plz suggest how can I relief from back pain after c section.
This video is demotivating for those who thinks of normal delivery
So sweet of you
I am so sorry you are having to explain yourself so much for being scared of vaginal birth. But I must tell you one thing, similar dilemmas cross our mind when we WANT to have a vaginal delivery and people say tumse nahi ho paayega, ya Aaj kal kisi ka normal nahi hota etc etc. Society ka judgement kisi ke liye nahi rukta. Let's be open and confident about what we want. High time!!
Are you there in the film queen?
Yeaaa...that’s me☺️
I opt for c section,bcus I am scared of normal delivery...
I guess Cesarean or normal it can vary from one female to another?
Yeaa.. definitely..our body..our choice😀❤️
Very informative darling.. awesome..:)
Thank you soo much chakare🤗🤗🤗🤗
@@bandbajaweddings are you muslim ??sister plss rey
Ok....i agreed to what you said about making your choice...but the way you explained is not how normal delivery happens....your water doesn't broke so easily so it's a misinformation...you just start with your contractions..first they are tolerable and less frequent than the frequency and intensity increases its when you rush to the hospital there the intensify the contractions more with helps in dilation and after all these the doc broke your water bag mostly....
Tbh the contractions and pushing part wasn't hard for me but the most difficult part was when the doc insert their hands during contractions to check how much you've dilated....
I think I mostly spoke about c section and very less about normal delivery…may I know the time line where you felt it’s a misinformation
Which hospital you went to?
I glad you were given the choice. I feel fortunate to have the choice. Each woman should do research on both and make the best decision for her
Our bodies, our choice.
I hope we will all have the choice one day. Thank you for sharing
Mwahhh...love love❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️