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  • čas přidán 7. 06. 2023
  • The plaintiff claims the defendant, her daughter, doesn’t take care of her children, so the plaintiff has had to step in. The plaintiff is suing for child expenses and insurance. The defendant admits that she and her children live with the plaintiff but denies owing her anything.
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Komentáře • 424

  • @shaniya7558
    @shaniya7558 Před rokem +337

    choosing men over your children is top tier disgusting…

  • @plot4revenge1
    @plot4revenge1 Před rokem +262

    My mom has always taught me that two queens can't live in one castle. Get yo own spot and raise your kids your way.

  • @mrshappilymarried1
    @mrshappilymarried1 Před rokem +55

    This is sad.. the daughter mentioned she had problems reading growing up. If she had a learning disability she may have other issues developmentally. Parents like the plaintiff should Speak Life into their children..for the sake of the Grandchildren.

    • @deetheefoodie
      @deetheefoodie Před rokem

      I agree.

    • @IWeasel
      @IWeasel Před rokem +3

      I agree she has 7 fingers and her mom didn’t try to get them fix and if she had difficulties reading she probably had other problems as stated but mother is controlling asf

  • @sereneamani1713
    @sereneamani1713 Před rokem +58

    When you are an adult and you live with your "controlling" parents and you don't like it, my advice is MOVE! Simple as that. You may have to suffer adverse consequences. Then you choose which set of consequences you can better deal with.

  • @unclecell
    @unclecell Před rokem +40

    Why is every one making excuses for this grown woman because she cried at the end. She had 3 kids with a bum then leave her kids with the so called evil mom to be with another bum. All she did was make excuses for why she couldn't do everything.

    • @Shellygrrl2573
      @Shellygrrl2573 Před rokem +7

      That's what IM wondering. If you noticed though it's mostly women. There's actually a few women other than myself that agree with u. You know women can't hold other women accountable for being a deadbeat mother. As a mom I can see the plaintiffs frustration.

    • @unclecell
      @unclecell Před rokem +3

      @michellebaker2573 yes exactly! Her mother clearly frustrated with the bad decisions she's making. If she's not made to be accountable she will come to her mom with baby number 4.

    • @Bellydaughter
      @Bellydaughter Před rokem +1

      I agree 100% the mom kept trying to let her do better but she didn’t want to

    • @jefeholmess
      @jefeholmess Před rokem

      Faxxxx !

    • @ShineForlyn777
      @ShineForlyn777 Před rokem +1

      We got one in our family with several different baby daddy's, and grandma raising the kids while she run the streets. Poor baby's love her, cry for her and everything and she just walk away like they are nothing, so sad!!

  • @karondalittlejohn
    @karondalittlejohn Před rokem +121

    The daughter should NOT have been called out her name by her own mommy (I’ve been there I know how it feels)!!!! It’s also safe to say the daughter should have put the box on lock until the right man found her, but we all have a life & a story to tell❤️

    • @tmston2
      @tmston2 Před rokem

      thats what i dont understand about women, yhea everyone makes mistakes, but after you have the first kid and see the dad or relationship is not progressing or stable why have more kids until you get in a stable situation. you jus digging yourself in a whole mentally, emotionally, financially, spiritually, etc all you probably getting is a good nut here and there & thats not a equal trade off

    • @TopherGrant
      @TopherGrant Před rokem

      The daughter is a user and loser. Can't even stand on her own, but can make a family with a wannabe rapper.

    • @lola-dn6zj
      @lola-dn6zj Před rokem +10

      I agree but when it comes to watching a woman and not just any woman but your daughter choose a man over her children while u raise them, the frustration and disappointment probably took over bc at that point it’s not about mommy being the victim, it’s about her being a burden to her own children. So while I wouldn’t call my child a b*****, I understand the mothers frustration and fear.

    • @Passion85031
      @Passion85031 Před rokem +2

      Exactly you should never call a child out of their name it sticks with them

    • @KINGDOMDAUGHTER
      @KINGDOMDAUGHTER Před rokem +3

      All that legions spirits running rampant in their lives and their family lineage and bloodline
      Speak life in and over your own life, your children, and family. Remember your choice to Proverbs 18:21

  • @chocolategirlblushing4791
    @chocolategirlblushing4791 Před rokem +290

    I feel what the daughter is saying about the mom basically micromanaging how she parents her children. I went through the same thing with my dad, the difference is I got my children and moved out … WITH MY CHILDREN. No reason to leave your kids behind. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Shellygrrl2573
      @Shellygrrl2573 Před rokem

      Well how about she doesn't keep getting pregnant by losers that can't support her OR pay child support so now SHE and HER kids have to live with HER mama? Like the judge said she kept choosing losers. And now her mom is raising her kids because she would rather choose a man over them🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @Passion85031
      @Passion85031 Před rokem +10

      My family tries to do that no matter who you live with but I don’t allow that with my children. My mother allowed that with my grandmother but I will not do the same. Because that doesn’t work for me and mine

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 Před rokem +2

      Bravo!!!

    • @goldbar9863
      @goldbar9863 Před rokem +11

      Why has adult you move out your parents house if you don't want their big input in your life simple

    • @mimseyrenee2217
      @mimseyrenee2217 Před rokem

      How are you feeling anything when she’s not even raising her kids. You must be a bum collector too, 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @marskeins
    @marskeins Před rokem +213

    Calling your own child out their name is completely disgusting i will say. But when you have kids you gotta grow up or dont have kids. That simple!!

    • @michaelmack3812
      @michaelmack3812 Před rokem +4

      Mom raised her so putting her daughter down is putting herself down.

    • @konandadestroyer2485
      @konandadestroyer2485 Před rokem +20

      That's a weak mindset far as I'm concerned. I didn't do well cause you called me names.... Good luck surviving then.

    • @mel...s
      @mel...s Před rokem +4

      Huge pet peeve. Those type of women will allow a bf to do whatever. I stay far away from those evil ppl

    • @Eltown33
      @Eltown33 Před rokem +19

      Being called a name does not stop u from being a successful person this soft world we live in. Plus, She said that was said to her as an adult.

    • @TopherGrant
      @TopherGrant Před rokem +4

      Babies having babies and no one taught ANY of them how to be a grown up

  • @pumpkinspice1478
    @pumpkinspice1478 Před rokem +13

    She thinks she has to settle for less because her mom berated her and her confidence is low. She has a learning disability and a physical handicap. She needs help. Hopefully she’ll go back home and learn a skill that will provide for her children. I’m surprised the judge didn’t offer her assistance.

  • @tnicoletnicole
    @tnicoletnicole Před rokem +65

    Judge Mathis caught on to the fact the mother wants to control the daughter and make decisions for her kid and I’m glad he did. The mom is a trip.

    • @itscollysworld1389
      @itscollysworld1389 Před rokem +1

      she cant even financially catch up to move and when she does her mom sabotages her

    • @kay8322
      @kay8322 Před rokem +10

      So why did she leave the kids with the mom for a man. If you feel this way why not take your children

    • @neisci
      @neisci Před rokem +3

      It wouldn't a issue if the daughter picked her children and left.

  • @ericgatling3935
    @ericgatling3935 Před rokem +30

    Man over kids happens too often

  • @ABDULLAH-AKHMAD
    @ABDULLAH-AKHMAD Před rokem +7

    Mom's punishing her grandchildren
    because her adult daughter refuses to
    obey her .... Lady, you ain't no better!!!

  • @PrincessZaire100
    @PrincessZaire100 Před rokem +100

    “If I wasn’t your daughter, you’d hate me.” That’s deep right there. I believe the defendant when she says she never got the same love her brothers got. I believe that the mom takes the kids when she doesn’t like who the defendants is dating. I believe that she tries to parent over the defendant. The fact that she tried to sue her for gifts, speaks to the mother’s character

    • @LeshaFBaby
      @LeshaFBaby Před rokem +17

      May all be true but the mom is also tired she has not 1 but 3 of her kids she is raising while she lives with her boyfriend..she is not giving her financial support for the kids

    • @tpslando
      @tpslando Před rokem +2

      @@LeshaFBaby true

    • @rondaallen7211
      @rondaallen7211 Před rokem +8

      I think the love was tough because Mom saw herself in the daughter. that's just how it is.

    • @krystala17
      @krystala17 Před rokem +10

      Did y’all here the mom said stop choosing a man over your kids… that is the problem right there!!!

    • @PrincessZaire100
      @PrincessZaire100 Před rokem

      @@rondaallen7211 nope. I’m tired of that excuse. These mothers will coddle their sons, and make their daughters feel like shit

  • @samanthac.7965
    @samanthac.7965 Před rokem +20

    I get being stern as a mother and grandmother but I see a lot of control and belittlement.

  • @dannielleyelder
    @dannielleyelder Před rokem +14

    Daughter has a lot of excuses. Regardless of the past, once you have kids you have to get out in gear and do better period

  • @madmaxofspokane1691
    @madmaxofspokane1691 Před rokem +56

    I have to go with the mother on this one. The daughter is determined to keep heading down the path of a complete loser, and at the expense of her children and her relationship with her mother...

    • @1980tiffani
      @1980tiffani Před rokem +3

      Same… sad story and as parents we are supposed to sit back and let our grown children make their own choices, but also ALWAYS be there to pick up and clean up the mess.. not really fair. Mom has her grandkids, but can’t tell the daughter nothing.. living under the moms roof and can’t support yourself, but mom has no input.. sounds like a lose lose situation for the mom and the grandkids.

  • @urluvizmyluv1999
    @urluvizmyluv1999 Před rokem +5

    I left home at 18. I raised my son, and anything my mom did or any guidance was a bonus.

  • @nixonsneverendingthoughts2824

    I think a lot of y’all MISSED the whole dynamic of the case. The daughter getting pregnant at 17 was the first strike that set the mother off. The mom felt like the daughter was following in her footsteps. Notice the mother has what 6 kids? Anyway, the daughter got pregnant but also MARRIED the child’s father and bulit somewhat of a life with him for some time. She’s not out here sleeping with different men or partying too hard. The mother NEVER accepted the husband so instead of being supportive in her moving out- she grew resentful of the daughter waiting for her to fail so she could have her “I told you so moment”. How wasn’t the daughter taking care of her kids when she was living with her mom and paying bills thusly SUPPORTING THE HOUSE IN WHICH HER CHILDREN LIVE?! No body ever disputed that she paid. Her mom gets mad again that she wants to take her children to live in a situation that the grandmother doesn’t approve of so she sues her over GIFTS?! The daughter may make mistakes that WE ALL do but she tries her best to correct them and move forward. The grandmother is controlling, vindictive, and holds grudges. Then to admit to calling her daughter out of her name because she was with her bf (notice the mom NEVER said well she called me out of my name first or was disrespectful to me) is crazy.

    • @erikanicole1990
      @erikanicole1990 Před rokem

      Thank you! I thought I dreamed all of this.

    • @gatsinsingui7638
      @gatsinsingui7638 Před 3 měsíci

      Amen!!! We are not blind!! We know those types of mothers!!!

  • @candicelockhart5197
    @candicelockhart5197 Před rokem +24

    Just get out of your mother’s home and take your kids with you!

    • @itscollysworld1389
      @itscollysworld1389 Před rokem +1

      I think the issue is she cant even financially catch up and when she does her mom sabotages her

  • @kayn8252
    @kayn8252 Před rokem +23

    The daughter is pathetic. Whatever lifestyle she is living is clearly destructive. The mother is getting the grandkids and putting them in sports etc so they don’t have to see the bs first hand. The daughter does not care at all. Her daughter was probably very unruly, so she may have called her out of her name a time or two. Was it right, heck no. But ur mom calling u a name when u were a child should make u be MORE of a mother to your own children, instead of letting that same mother raise them too ALL WHILE LIVING IN YOUR MOTHERS HOUSE.
    The mother wanted her daughter to do better and be better, that’s why she sued. It wasn’t really over the swimming lessons. Prayers out to both of them and the children.

  • @akimat418
    @akimat418 Před rokem +5

    That mother wants to have total control over her daughter. The daughter needs counseling. She is hurting really bad. I wonder if the stepfather abused her?

  • @valeedadavidson678
    @valeedadavidson678 Před rokem +13

    THE MOTHER JUST STOOD THERE AND LIED AND JM DIDN'T CALL HER ON IT. THE DAUGHTER STATED THAT HER MOTHER STARTED CALLING HER OUT OF HER NAME WHEN SHE WAS A TEENAGER. WHEN JM ASKED THE MOTHER SHE SAID , " NO SHE WAS A PARENT". 🤔 YET, SHE STARTED OFF SAYING THAT THE DAUGHTER HAD HER FIRST CHILD WHEN SHE WAS A TEENAGER.

    • @isisdiamonique5481
      @isisdiamonique5481 Před rokem +1

      Exactly

    • @nellienellz9100
      @nellienellz9100 Před 4 měsíci

      She was a mother as a teenager she said she had her first child at 17 which means she was pregnant at 16..

  • @MsTootie
    @MsTootie Před rokem +27

    The daughter got her priorities screwed up choosing a man over her kids and now her mom has the responsibility of taking care of them smh! She should have had to pay her for child care bc why should the mom have to bear the responsibility of all the expenses for her kids. She might as well get custody and she the daughter for child support. She sound like a spoiled brat mad at the world bc she lit herself in that predicament based on the men she chooses. I have no sympathy for a mother choosing a man over their kids and basically abandoning them. I’m surprised JM wasn’t hard on her!

    • @MsTootie
      @MsTootie Před rokem

      *sue

    • @mbrown759
      @mbrown759 Před rokem

      You hit the nail on the head. I was baffled about JM ruling.

  • @malindajohnson4560
    @malindajohnson4560 Před rokem +8

    What the mother fails to realize is She treats her daughter like sh*t and disguises it as a good support system. Ma'am, if you treat your daughter poorly, a man will treat her poorly as well, and tbh your poor daughter can't tell the difference because she's being manipulated in both directions.

    • @BXPOSSETV
      @BXPOSSETV Před 6 měsíci

      The realest explanation thus far.

  • @jplaya2023
    @jplaya2023 Před rokem +17

    Judge Mathis was with the plantifg until she tried to get the gifts back from her grandkids. Doc switched up real quick

  • @treyparker3775
    @treyparker3775 Před rokem +16

    The Defendant is just not mature; she's not grown.... she's just old

  • @Tiffany-fo4zj
    @Tiffany-fo4zj Před rokem +12

    Her mom needs to give her tough love & allow her to be a Mother & Adult. She made bad decisions , so does everyone else but take accountability for yourself. I don’t know what 7 fingers had to do with anything 😐 but….. yeah the mom is enabling her from being her best

  • @lakishaburroughs7966
    @lakishaburroughs7966 Před rokem +20

    Both sides have valid points, Mom needs to slack back. I know she loves her gran babies but the daughter will never truly learn to parent correctly nor learn lessons if mom keep interfering. Daughter needs to mature up, stop searching for a man to love her, she is lacking love and acceptance. She’s searching in all the wrong places. She needs to prioritize being a mother, provide and utilize the support she has in a positive way. She needs to maybe go to school for something but her confidence needs to be built.

  • @wadilotus
    @wadilotus Před rokem +10

    The best thing a parent can do for their fast daughters is to put them on birth control. Speaking from experience, i REFUSED to allow my daughters to have kids before they were ready!!!

    • @gracemunich1476
      @gracemunich1476 Před rokem

      girls can go to doctor to get birth control, read, be a adult . it is so simple and easy…

    • @kakraamissah-tetteh974
      @kakraamissah-tetteh974 Před rokem

      How will the mother put this grown woman on "birth control"???

    • @isisdiamonique5481
      @isisdiamonique5481 Před rokem +3

      @@kakraamissah-tetteh974 the original commenter was referring to when the defendant was a teenager

    • @wadilotus
      @wadilotus Před rokem +1

      @@isisdiamonique5481 thank you for having a brain and being able to comprehend!

  • @TalkswithMellow
    @TalkswithMellow Před rokem +4

    Seemed like she wanted sympathy for her disability and rightfully so. Having to live with a deformity can cause feelings of low self esteem so that may contribute to her staying in relationships that aren’t really serving her.

  • @AuthorUmmJuwayriyah1
    @AuthorUmmJuwayriyah1 Před rokem +66

    That young lady made bad decisions as a teen and still is making bad decisions as an adult that her mother tried to guide her away from. But because like many young folk, she has issues with authority, discipline and guidance, she wants to blame her mother for being "strict", "tough", and not loving when the reality is that her mother was trying to guide, support, and help her live a better life because she loves her. She got a lot of never blaming her mom, when her mother is caring for her children emotionally, financially, and physically! No one is going to do all of that for you without loving you and wanting good for you deeply. Parents are people, too! Her mother is not obligated to like how she behaves and just take it! And she needs to save those crocodile tears for her children who are going to accuse her of a lot more in a few years- probably neglect as well because she still seems like she hasn't learned to listen or have any discipline in her life.

    • @latonyasmith4395
      @latonyasmith4395 Před rokem +1

      Well said.

    • @tjneverdefeated4394
      @tjneverdefeated4394 Před rokem +1

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 YES ALL OF THIS

    • @mahailiabrown3972
      @mahailiabrown3972 Před rokem +1

      Exactly this and many people forget us parents are people but if you want to have all these kids you should be able to raise them I don't mind helping but don't be living your best life and get mad when you get called out your name

    • @1980tiffani
      @1980tiffani Před rokem

      I agree with you 1000%!!! Parents are supposed to let kids grow up and make their own decisions, despite how it affects everyone, but also supposed to pick up the pieces and clean up the mess when stuff don’t work out.. and not ask questions, give input nor complain about it 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @ewcozylea
      @ewcozylea Před rokem +1

      lmao how is that the case when she said she wanted her to stay with her and live with her instead of moving out and starting a life on her own. parents are important but theres a time you need to learn to step back and let you children make their own decisions and mistakes because they’re people too. this mother doesn’t seem to grasp that so no her actions dont appear to be mothering they come off overbearing and manipulative . especially when you call your own child out her her name that is just absolutely disgusting and a shame all of you are just ignoring that fact.

  • @K_Cole0128
    @K_Cole0128 Před rokem +5

    “u shouldn’t choose a man over your children”

  • @garyyarbough6597
    @garyyarbough6597 Před rokem +5

    You are her enabler

    • @twill1007
      @twill1007 Před rokem

      AGREED !!!! Let her go and let her learn

  • @filmtressmu8552
    @filmtressmu8552 Před rokem +10

    That last conversation was painful to watch. We make mistakes and it's a heavenly mercy when mothers have an 'open-door' policy for the chance to 'reset, recover, and start again.' Thank goodness for second and third chances. But mothers should never call or label their daughters' demeaning titles or call them names. Those abusive words cut through to the soul. Shame.

  • @PrincessZaire100
    @PrincessZaire100 Před rokem +14

    Mom is giving NARCISSIST. She wants to control everything, even down to her grandkids. Once you don’t do what she wants, how she wants, she’ll cut you off until you “get with the program.”

    • @elizabethkiya.9226
      @elizabethkiya.9226 Před rokem

      Ok so tell the defendant get HER KIDS AND GET OUT HER HOUSE 😂😂😂

    • @PrincessZaire100
      @PrincessZaire100 Před rokem

      @@elizabethkiya.9226 she did get her kids, her mother is probably TAKING THEM. It’s called emotional blackmail. You obviously never dealt with narcissistic person. My grandma acts JUST like this lady. Always giving things, and then taking them back. Always parenting her grandchildren over her children because “I’m the matriarch, so my word is bond.”

  • @sjohnsonsj536
    @sjohnsonsj536 Před rokem +8

    Why do mothers call their daughters bitches and wonder why they end up with the type of men they do? Love comes home first

  • @Mo-yd8xc
    @Mo-yd8xc Před rokem +9

    He was wrapping boxes since 11.

  • @jasonallen3678
    @jasonallen3678 Před rokem +4

    Wishing both of them well, because I bet they are going to work all this out..

  • @latashaepps1060
    @latashaepps1060 Před rokem +5

    Her kids would be with her period. Grandma stop playing with her.

  • @gleee86
    @gleee86 Před rokem

    “He’s just no good for her”… as if her daughter was a prize lmao

  • @amma2x310
    @amma2x310 Před rokem +24

    700-1000 is what my daughter who does not live with me pays me to keep her kids. Granted, I have them a lot of the time, but she knows it's not ok to take advantage of her parents. She did have a loser #1 and has lived with me at times. But, she works very hard to take care of her responsibilities.

    • @roxyj3182
      @roxyj3182 Před rokem +9

      Not paying your parents for childcare is definitely not using them. Neither of my kid’s grandparents wouldn’t dare accept money for childcare. If they couldn’t afford to pay you would you still do it? They get spoiled though…we help each other ☺️

    • @ricachristine5337
      @ricachristine5337 Před rokem +10

      not paying is not taking advantage. It's called being a grandparent, part of a village, supporting each other, etc.

    • @fasttrack4245
      @fasttrack4245 Před rokem

      @@roxyj3182 exactly!!

    • @VANITYISFARE
      @VANITYISFARE Před rokem +7

      You’re actually taking advantage of your daughter

    • @SunnnySkies
      @SunnnySkies Před rokem +2

      You can’t love ur grandchildren if u charging ur daughter to keep them.

  • @sthomas1
    @sthomas1 Před rokem +1

    Girl save those tears, get your kids ma'am. Can't play victim when you choose a man over your kids and your mama raising em.

  • @micheleantionette_
    @micheleantionette_ Před rokem +5

    When I was living with my parents, I was a mother not being able to mother my child. Lived in a very controlling, do as I say household. I was treated more as the sister to my child than a mother. I definitely know how she feels.

    • @odog76543
      @odog76543 Před 11 měsíci

      That's not surprising when you are a grown adult living in your mammas house still. The solution is to 1) not have out of wedlock children and 2) be a self sustaining adult living on your own before you have children.
      If you're having babies before being capable of either of those things, and still relying on your parents, then it stands to reason they're not going to trust you or respect you enough to mother your own kids. One of the biggest problems in our community is kids raising kids. That includes pregnant teenagers and young adults who haven't demonstrated the capability to live completely on their own.

    • @micheleantionette_
      @micheleantionette_ Před 11 měsíci

      @odog76543 well you have grown people without kids living with their parents and still face certain types of parents.

    • @odog76543
      @odog76543 Před 11 měsíci

      @@micheleantionette_ and the advice to them is exactly the same if they have overbearing parents. The only difference is they don't have the added stigma of being grown ass adults who can't take care of themselves but still deciding to bring children into the world.

    • @micheleantionette_
      @micheleantionette_ Před 11 měsíci

      @@odog76543 whatever you say

    • @msslove97
      @msslove97 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@odog76543That's the typical do as I say not as I do response. If your kids make the same mistakes as you it's better to have more empathy and work with your kids than constantly display your disappointment and treat them like failures because the parent didn't do any better. They also need to do better at holding the fathers accountable because picking the wrong guy means there's no good father around to protect them from ending up with losers. Overbearing and controlling single mothers end up making their daughters their wives and the sons their husbands but you can't tell them that.

  • @M.thepoet
    @M.thepoet Před rokem +3

    The daughter needs to grow up but the mother is stunning her growth.
    The mother almost needs the daughter to be emotionally/mentally/financially handicapped because it keeps her in control of everything and everyone. The daughter is also searching for love, sometimes the black daughter is only given tough love.

  • @Cymplicity-yd2lo
    @Cymplicity-yd2lo Před rokem +14

    Girl please! Everyone got cussed out in my hood. We mostly all got degrees or a trade and our kids have superceded us. Excuses

    • @mrshappilymarried1
      @mrshappilymarried1 Před rokem +1

      😂😅😂I hollered!

    • @renepoyraz8812
      @renepoyraz8812 Před rokem

      I never got cussed out

    • @K_Cole0128
      @K_Cole0128 Před rokem +2

      And that’s why JM shut her down. I too was a teen mom. My daughter is graduating next year. If she wanted to get tutoring for her reading struggles she could have. She figured out how to take trips and be with the rapper with children by 4 different women. She did not push herself and maybe her environment was toxic. But she moved out without the children and still had time to start the process of getting a skilled trade/ training.
      Also if my mom was that toxic my children could not stay with her at all!!!

  • @getbusydrizzy5296
    @getbusydrizzy5296 Před rokem +1

    OLDER MOMMA YOU TRIPPING. THAT DAUGHTER WAS TRYING

  • @camw3382
    @camw3382 Před 25 dny

    Some parents really don’t acknowledge how they affect their children and the type of adult they grow into. Your children represent you!

  • @ciscadanielle
    @ciscadanielle Před rokem +3

    Mom is disappointed. The daughter is lost. She settles for no good men because she’s disabled 😢

  • @onejohnson7202
    @onejohnson7202 Před rokem +1

    If I’m living with my parents I’m doing whatever is needed.

  • @bridgetts4767
    @bridgetts4767 Před rokem +2

    The mom is something else. You shouldn’t call your daughter out of her name. Also I don’t believe she’s putting a man before her children, I believe the mother is so controlling she won’t allow the young lady to parents her children because she wants to control the daughter and control everything she does. The momma need some help!!!! The daughter needs to get her kids and do better and get th away from that control freak!

  • @ezell928
    @ezell928 Před rokem +3

    Not me pausing looking at her fingers 🤦🏽

  • @deeransom
    @deeransom Před rokem +5

    Why is she not raising her own children?

    • @SamuelsReview
      @SamuelsReview Před rokem +2

      Maybe the rapper doesn't want the kids around 😢

  • @thesugarcase7431
    @thesugarcase7431 Před rokem +3

    Doyle is so immature 😂😂😂

  • @jayjaynessa
    @jayjaynessa Před rokem +3

    Y’all will condone “corporal punishment” but calling an adult child out their name is where she crossed the line? Idk about that one too much 🥴

  • @lavidaloca2344
    @lavidaloca2344 Před rokem +2

    I never understand adult children who are still dependent and constantly still need their parents help but don't want their input 🤔

  • @generationalcursebreaker5397

    Her daughter has a mindset of a child because of her mother

  • @LeBrownGuy
    @LeBrownGuy Před rokem +6

    Nahhh. Idk what was up with JM today. But I could tell that mother was toxic since the beginning. And for the defendent... why you showbup to court without numbers already drawn up?

    • @TopherGrant
      @TopherGrant Před rokem +2

      How was the mother toxic? She not only has to still raise her 30 year old teenage daughter AND raise her own grandkids. 6ou would be "toxic" too

    • @Hotwingzlover84
      @Hotwingzlover84 Před rokem +2

      JM had to have felt like: if her Mother was so bad or "toxic". Why have your kids been with her their whole lives? I think that the Defendant was trying to gain sympathy and the Judge wasn't falling for it.

  • @Mo-yd8xc
    @Mo-yd8xc Před rokem +8

    Mathis went to college and law school and doesn't know what "bump heads" means?

    • @shaniya7558
      @shaniya7558 Před rokem

      😂😂😂😂

    • @TopherGrant
      @TopherGrant Před rokem +1

      What does law school and college have to do with it? Just because you go 5o college doesn't mean you know everything about everything. Only a lot of knowledge on 1 subject

    • @K_Cole0128
      @K_Cole0128 Před rokem +1

      He wanted her to give examples

    • @Mo-yd8xc
      @Mo-yd8xc Před rokem +1

      @@TopherGrant you learn critical thinking skills.

    • @autumnrose4000
      @autumnrose4000 Před rokem +2

      I think he thought it odd that she chose to say that as a child she "bumped heads" with her mother. I think the wording threw him off - a child bumping heads with their parent 🤨

  • @marc6471o
    @marc6471o Před rokem +1

    Arlove was a childhood friend. I’m praying that her and her daughter resolve these issues.

  • @highlander666
    @highlander666 Před rokem +2

    Sounds like the daughter is incapable of making responsible decisions, so I can see why the mother feels the need to micromanage

  • @tiffanyhamilton5208
    @tiffanyhamilton5208 Před rokem +1

    That grandmother is awful. She needs to take her kids and get her own place. Maybe move far enough away from her mother so that she is forced to grow up and be an adult.

  • @janethefriend-awakened33

    i'm a native atlantan and we are tired of all these "move in" folks. they are loud, rude and have brought their problematic behaviors with them. sorry, but not sorry.

  • @meka2988
    @meka2988 Před rokem +1

    Haven't live with my mom in yrs and I went thru this with my mom

  • @shani9165
    @shani9165 Před rokem +4

    I feel it’s more to that story. The daughter probably didn’t want to move but she can’t stand living with her mother due to her belittlement and controlling ways. Also the name calling ..

  • @yulnikita
    @yulnikita Před rokem +5

    It's wasn't right .. its not an excuse for her to stop raising her own kids though
    Grandma does seem petty and controlling to want to be reimbursed for the gifts

  • @AD-wi4fq
    @AD-wi4fq Před rokem +49

    I kind of believe the daughter/defendant. Mom sounds like a narcissist. Why is she giving money then taking it back like a weapon from the daughter? I agree with Mathis…she would take back a gift to “punish” the daughter. And her grandkids.

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 Před rokem

      Define your clinical definition of a narcissist, please.

  • @BigBecky25
    @BigBecky25 Před rokem +2

    The daughter is just blowing out hot air!!!

  • @generationalcursebreaker5397

    Her mom is a narcissist. The fact that she wants her money back from taking care of her grandkids. Smh. She has to move out and take care of her kids on her own. Her mother do hate her

  • @Neversettle38
    @Neversettle38 Před rokem +1

    She had both parents and additional male role model.. still mess with these type of men with multiple kids smh

  • @guynatumanya
    @guynatumanya Před rokem +11

    Then don't live in your mama's house

  • @tdacosta520
    @tdacosta520 Před rokem +1

    Raise your children, or you will be raising your grandchildren.

  • @mrs.pettway7506
    @mrs.pettway7506 Před rokem +1

    Homegirl needs healing and therapy to undo how she was raised. Then take those kids back.

  • @stevo9421
    @stevo9421 Před rokem +3

    I know someone just like the daughter. Wants her parents to raise her 2 kids while she parties etc. Then she wants to be the mother when it suits her.
    She thinks she is getting away with this crap now wait til her kids hate her for it and she will wish she listened

  • @roddypiper2810
    @roddypiper2810 Před rokem +5

    My daughter was born with 2 thumbs....an no joke she uses that whenever she doesn't want to do her chores

    • @sarahrean7174
      @sarahrean7174 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Don't push it girl had to do much in household than boy

  • @ninauchiha3106
    @ninauchiha3106 Před rokem +9

    I understand the daughter I feel her, but she needs to get it together. Sometimes you have to kiss it until you can kick it. If she watching them kids for free idc how her mouth is...Set yourself a time limit 3-6 months get stable and move up out of her house with your children.... Y'all trying to adult in the same household and it's hard for some parents to see their kids as adults, especially when the children continuously make mistakes. You wrong for leaving your kids behind the whole situation is sad, mom should definitely cut her a lil slack she's hurting.

    • @rottie615
      @rottie615 Před rokem +1

      Let me write that down… kiss it til you can kick it. I like that one

    • @ninauchiha3106
      @ninauchiha3106 Před rokem

      @@rottie615 My mom always told us that growing up 😂

  • @krystala17
    @krystala17 Před rokem +1

    If the mom/grandmother is so bad or name calling why would you leave your kids with her and why keep having them???? The math ain’t mathing!!

  • @nataliethomas3356
    @nataliethomas3356 Před rokem +1

    She’s sharing to much of her relationship issues with her mom, and she’s going to stay anyway!

  • @adrianknight1406
    @adrianknight1406 Před rokem +21

    Seems to me that the defendant wasn't ready to be a parent or give up her partying lifestyle. But many of these women out here today pick the wrong men which is why they end up in a bad way. The child expenses and car insurance shouldn't have been an issue here between mother and daughter. Sad

    • @tmston2
      @tmston2 Před rokem +2

      i mean, she was 17, she was jus a kid herself. what i see with alot of young people boys & girls tho is “its all fun and until 💩 get real”

    • @TopherGrant
      @TopherGrant Před rokem

      Theres no good men in the hood.

    • @jasonallen3678
      @jasonallen3678 Před rokem

      It happens all the time, but most of the daughters eventually learn and figure out love and or Men.

    • @jasonallen3678
      @jasonallen3678 Před rokem +1

      ​@@TopherGrantThat happens everywhere troll,even in your neck of the woods and I shouldn't have fed you, but oh well..

    • @higher_pwr8178
      @higher_pwr8178 Před rokem

      @@jasonallen3678 he's not a troll.

  • @angelicrealtor1
    @angelicrealtor1 Před rokem +1

    The Mother should have NEVER allowed the daughter to move back home once she got married and left UNLESS it was temporary 3-6 months. My mother and father told us we were all leaving home at 18 years old once we graduated from high school. We were either going to college, trade school, military or get a full-time job but we were getting out because they raised up and trained us to be independent. None of the 5 of us siblings EVER moved back home and we are ALL mid 50's to mid 60's years old. None of us EVER got in trouble with law enforcement either. Raise your children to be Independent and treat them as adults. Mutual respect is imperative between these two women. Best wishes to them both.

  • @sachelleb4930
    @sachelleb4930 Před rokem +3

    Seems like the judge and the mother are both forgetting that she is not married to the daughters father. What does that say about HER choices. Pot calling the kettle black. She sounds like she is controlling. Mother needs a hobby🤨

    • @nandramkissoon1039
      @nandramkissoon1039 Před rokem

      The difference is the daughter's father and step father were involved in her life. The daughter's children do not have their father and even when he was in the picture they were all living wit the mom. Relationships don't always work out, but a good man will still take care of his kids

  • @thessenceofconstance
    @thessenceofconstance Před rokem

    I would want my money back too as a grandparent 😂 if you took them out.

  • @sandrawi4938
    @sandrawi4938 Před rokem +1

    The daughter needs to be more responsible. We all have had to lean on mom but she can work go to school , and take care of her kids …

  • @debjoyful1
    @debjoyful1 Před rokem +2

    The mother/plaintiff is definitely overbearing and controlling, and is being messy towards her daughter, because her daughter is finally standing up for herself. I hope the daughter continues to gain self-esteem, and grow into the women and mother that she should be. For the mother, she needs a hobby or a puppy to control. 🤷🏽‍♀

  • @eniyyah
    @eniyyah Před rokem +1

    Choose a man horse or cow over anything. My DAUGHTER will NEVER LOSE ME. PERIOD! I would support her! She is not on DRUGS, COMMITTING CRIMES ETC. I would be there for my daughter with open arms LOVE & SUPPORT! I would NOT belittle her I would build her up enough so that she would know she is better than her situation!
    PERIOD!

  • @justsobrandi1142
    @justsobrandi1142 Před rokem +1

    Sad and she still doesn't see that it's wrong to have her mother raising her kids. Choosing a man.

  • @neisci
    @neisci Před rokem +1

    No excuses, the daughter has some deadbeat ways. If she was bothered by her mother getting in the way of her parenting, she should have moved. With that said, why wouldn't her parents seek treatment for their daughter, physical and probably learning disability?!

  • @carltonwomble4790
    @carltonwomble4790 Před rokem +1

    The daughter should have been raising her own children! Whatever decisions that she decided to make in her own life should be her own responsibility. The mother brought this on herself by meddling in her daughter’s life.

  • @Issabookie23
    @Issabookie23 Před rokem +1

    THEY DO THIS!! Her mother is in the wrong

  • @jasondraper9640
    @jasondraper9640 Před rokem

    mama SUPERTHICK!!! LOL

  • @user-nm5tp4gs9w
    @user-nm5tp4gs9w Před 8 měsíci

    She still filing taxes while the mother has custody of her children!!!!! *The daughter is disgraceful!!!!*

  • @freereign911
    @freereign911 Před rokem +1

    Jigsaw granny is a baddie😻🔥

  • @lori929
    @lori929 Před 3 dny

    The daughter has a lot of excuses- if her mom is so bad and was so bad as a mom, then she shouldn't want her mom to raise them. I can't stand when someone complains about how horrible of parents they have, but yet allow their kids to live with them. You can't use your parents as a convenience. The daughter chose to have them, take care of them they are your responsibility , your mom didn't choose to have 3 extra kids, this is her time to do what she wants. She raised her kids.

  • @javalynbanner5185
    @javalynbanner5185 Před rokem +4

    I love Judge Mathis lord knows I do but college isn't for everybody. Some ppl are just lucky and thankful to graduate high school.

    • @jenniferboakye9941
      @jenniferboakye9941 Před rokem +1

      @javalynbanner5185 that's why he also mentioned trade school

  • @masternelson8383
    @masternelson8383 Před rokem

    Life throws you curve balls and you dodge them as best you could??? It’s baseball ma’am you’re supposed to adjust and swing as best you can.🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @tutuandromedon5985
    @tutuandromedon5985 Před rokem +7

    I can see why Judge Mathis was cancelled. He has become a very angry person who takes it out on his cases.

    • @danyellereney3277
      @danyellereney3277 Před rokem +1

      Doesn’t he have a new show that’ll be airing?

    • @isiahwarner3087
      @isiahwarner3087 Před rokem +2

      ​@@danyellereney3277Yes, Fall 2023. Byron Allen's production company is behind the new show. ⚖️

    • @ayannadaws8480
      @ayannadaws8480 Před rokem

      His anger has nothing to do with cancellation though 😂 judge judy would’ve been off air many years ago if that was the case

  • @generationalcursebreaker5397

    Those kids, her children...referring your grandbabies as that.....questionable...

  • @kentthomason6285
    @kentthomason6285 Před rokem +3

    Mama def. Controlling, and mad cause she took her children

    • @latashaepps1060
      @latashaepps1060 Před rokem +5

      Of course she is mad she is tired. Grandma shouldn't have to raise grandkids.

    • @TopherGrant
      @TopherGrant Před rokem

      The daughter is crap. Mama Is tired

    • @PrincessZaire100
      @PrincessZaire100 Před rokem +2

      @@latashaepps1060 no, she was trying CONTROL them. She wanted her grandchildren to be HER kids. She’s one of those mothers who think they can tell mom what to do because she gave birth to her.
      Like the haircut thing. She didn’t want her child’s hair cut, but granny wanted to what SHE wanted.

    • @renepoyraz8812
      @renepoyraz8812 Před rokem +3

      Did you watch the case the kids live back with the grandma

  • @lindalovehate4910
    @lindalovehate4910 Před rokem

    I'm All For The Grandma's side and all of the above. ..

  • @LeshaFBaby
    @LeshaFBaby Před rokem +1

    Being called Bs and h#@s from my mom since the age of 5 I understand the pain and lack of confidence it causes you in your teenage and adult life..but at the end of the day get your kids while you living the life with your man..trying to make it easy and satisfying for him while putting a burden on your mom and causing your kids emotional issues..no more excuses

  • @DavidWilliams-vc2ms
    @DavidWilliams-vc2ms Před rokem +2

    Mommy is too deep into her daughters business. She should have let her daughter learned something after the 1st or 2nd child. Cant baby a grown ass person.