You the interviewer stop being judgemental please. There is a lady or gal out there who might land in the same scenario. Listen and respect your parents advise young girls muve kukunywa omwenge. Rest in God's presence you will have everlasting happiness.
The interviewer should accept feedback gracefully. She should use proper judgement while asking difficult questions. She is the one hosting and spreading the message, so she shouldn't judge someone else who is doing the same. Yes we know it's important to ask difficult questions but there is a better way to do it.
This lady is not a fake friend infact she did alot to save her friend from those wicked men and has done the right thing to save other girls. Be blessed
whats wrong with this interviewer? if you call her a fake friend why did you invite her fr the interview, this gal shes actually doing the right thing, shes saving lots of gals out their who are falling for very things on a daily. and she has all the right to talk about it because she was involved and tried to play her part to save her friend. mbu your a fake friend. u needed to question her everythg bfr the interview.
1 . That's why all public places must have cctv cameras. 2.Uganda police can't tell the public that from that bar up to Najeera apartment there's no camera it's impossible. 3.Ug police shld arrest the apartment owner plus the security gaurd, there shld be records book where they record pple who come there, what if someone is killed in those apartments. 4. Police shld task telecommunication network of that line to provide data details of that line. Sorry to the victim may God fight back for you to whoever did that to you. Lastly interviewer check yoself pliz.
Even if she wanted it private...the friend has not said the real names...this is good ...don't call her fake madam interviewer .she has created awareness kudos!
But who hurt this woman……? She speaks with too much spite! We have met friends that have actually mothered us, sistered us, protected us, and been our guide. Good people actually exist. Good and genuine friends exist! You need to heal, dear interviewer, and kindly be a little more professional. You should have known that her friend isn’t aware before you had her come for the interview. Your making her look bad
The interview needs to take it easy. You are the one who called her for the interview yet you are blaming her for speaking out. the interview is acting like deputy God
The interviewer is bogus.. this friend needs to share this story to save other people. Many people weren't aware of such things happening but her sharing this story is going to save so many other women from falling victim to such ga men.
Speaking as someone who was born with HIV and has been living with it for 32 years. My heart is broken. This is painful to listen to and watch. IMMY thanks for sharing however it wasnt in your place to share someone else's story and worse more disclosure their status publicly without their permission. This is how my females betrayed me going around telling people my status disguising it as care before I knew it, it was public information. Thats when i stopped trusting female friends regardless how long we've been together. It will take Melissa years to recover, she will try committing suicide several times (i did too). I was once in her shoes. Eventually, Melissa will cut her friends off, she will get very depressed, she will isolate herself and she will make you believe that she is okay BUT believe me she wont be okay. Thats what i did too. She will eventually hate people around her. So IMMY dont believe her when she says she is okay. Thats her way of saying "leave me alone, i will be fine". KEEP AN EYE ON HER. Sign her up for regular therapy sessions with a qualified psychologist. Family and friends cant play the role of a psychologist. Also, Interviewer, its inappropriate for you to host people on your show and then call them fake friends. It says alot about your skills.
The interviewer needs to be guided on how to do interviews she already took a side by criminalising the interviewee it's what if the Immy decided not control herself and end the whole conversation. If you can't manage your anger then stop being a host
Thanks friend for doing your part in Melissa's life, God used you the best way He could, but the devil is the master of the Night. The journey deep in Christ starts then for you all. Some mistakes in life are too fatal to relate to.
Naye ddala interviewer kyokola okimanyi obba wakigwamu bugwe??? D qns u wld ave asked her before telling d story atte kyosebyayo u wld ave asked obba she asked her to say d story obba no
Ok most of you guys you are blaming the interviewer,but for me i agree with her this friend should first ask for her permission before posting,this is not good
To the person being interviewed.....in hospital they recommend testing for HIV infection 3 months apart. Rapid test strips cant detect infection in a month say if the hospital used advanced testing that look for Viral Nucleic Acid. Also based on experience you said she could have been infected but dates of disease latency of infection dont add up
Lino ebina lya moderator lyononye interview yalyooo.... But anyways so sad... I was worse raped but by God's grace am negative and now abroad hustling uganda nagivako
Guys even though you are too emotional about the story, but the girl would have first talked to the victim. Because she hasn't recovered. The information will help those who haven't fallen into the trap but when we consider investigative journalism, the host is right.
@@BrownskinEvents-yf4kqpeople are saying you are not ethical in your questioning why call her a fake friend yet you called her to interview her. Anyway me let me listen
Younger people when ever you have gone to please use your phone , you can remove the flush right and take pic with out anyone knowing, send them to your friends, you can share them with your family too if you feel like your not safe, don't trust anyone with your life in uganda tulibatemu nyoooo 😢
Actually in postmortem the intention is to look for a solution for another person/patient. This lady is saving others including the interviewer. 2. This lady also got affected by what happened, venting out is helping her to heal as well.
And guys dont blame the interviewer,to some of us,she knows the gurl code ethics and the reason why u guys think shes being unprofessional is becuz she sees melisa's friend broke the Bestie gurl codes....for u who say this lady is spreading awarenes,fine,but shes not the victim and the fact that Lisa is still alive,she was the one to spread the awareness when she recovers! So bad that lisa is still in abad condition,u never asked her permission before exposing her! This alone will mek her expose herself cuz after all u exposed her! In this case if i was Lisa's frnd,i would die with her rape secret,not even tell her brother without his consent,not even tell our other friends because girls can spread rumour, i would find bestways for her to recover,and follow her up everyday to take her peps!!!! Not untill she would be okay to share her story publically out of her own will...And yeah,if u wanted to spread awareness,you wouldnt refer it to your friend directly without her consent even,you wud tell the same story but in aprotective way fr yr friend and u had to do this after she recovers so no one among your circles would eve think its her cuz this wud b asecret fr two of u. Aint judging u though,you did yr best love but melisa should revisit her circle and know her REAL GEMS!!!
Bambi thanks for sharing coz she won't blame you on anything because God used you to warn her to a point of pleading but she acted rude. you played your part but anyways thanks for standing till now and quick recovery to melissa.
We shall blame were she grew from, secondly herself never be alone as a gal , Thirdly her friend never live ur friend alone with people u both don't know, imagine if she was ur biological CCTA PARENTS always teach ur kids religion its the only thing dat will protect them.
Yes the issue of consent is very important.....Immy needed to seek her friends consent before sharing that sense story out there coz when she lands on it, she may feel betrayed. But again Immy has a good interest at heart for girls out there to be very careful with strangers or anybody you don't know what their intentions are. Drink what you can handle...meet new people but continue with the conversation the next day when sober.
Mukwano gwe ayinza okuba nga ye yamusettinga bambi kuba yena ayogeza vibe as if she is happy for what happened!! Yandibade akaaba but she is very happy!! Mukwano muuki omwo???!!!
i cant have such a friend who can't keep my privacy, it's like she wants to show how holy she is, and that's why i don't have female friends...u talk before being approved.
Don't blame this lady for saying it, she is saving some souls. You invited her and now calling her fake, its you who is fake. Aren't you the one asking the questions? The lady has done her part and you have no idea how many girls have learnt from this story. You don't need to wait for anyone to recover to save another. There are no real names mentioned here.
Worst moderator I have ever come across...so why r u making the guest look bad yet she did all her best to safe her friend n more so she's creating awareness to save other innocent souls from frm those wild beasts tking advantage of our daughters n sisters...not tym try being alito professional n stop yo emotions wen doing yo interviews with pipo more intelligent than you I don't think you have female friends from yo looks...sori to say n I wouldn't have finished de story if it wasn't for de guest...she's rili a gud n trusted friend one would love to have....stay blessed Emmie❤
This is a very heavy and painful story. I still feel like you didn't have the right to tell Melissa's story. But since it's already out here, young women LEARN😢
Laba ono gu interviewer. Guli fake. She wants us to listen to her talk. She just enjoys listening to her self talk. This girl is sharing her freinds story , to serve as an example to other women. Do you know how her story has personaly educated me ? 😢
I was judgemental be4 listening to the full interview but now I see sis isn't as bad as i thought and the interviewer togenda jali nga olina depression u can even end your self
Whoever gets equipments opens up a you tube channel. The story is very sensitive and the interviewer is taking it like a joke , you got an interview from her and you are calling her a fake friend which leaves us with question marks.
She's a logical interviewer. Her interview is not based on emotions but on logic and bitter reality
Which bitter reality she should at least not call her a fake friend
Sirika nokusirika
You the interviewer stop being judgemental please. There is a lady or gal out there who might land in the same scenario. Listen and respect your parents advise young girls muve kukunywa omwenge. Rest in God's presence you will have everlasting happiness.
She is not using good communication skills. The interviewer is lagging in her judgment.
The interviewer should accept feedback gracefully. She should use proper judgement while asking difficult questions. She is the one hosting and spreading the message, so she shouldn't judge someone else who is doing the same. Yes we know it's important to ask difficult questions but there is a better way to do it.
This lady is not a fake friend infact she did alot to save her friend from those wicked men and has done the right thing to save other girls. Be blessed
Thank you
The interviewer said in part one that she doesn’t like people so guys don’t wonder 😏
whats wrong with this interviewer? if you call her a fake friend why did you invite her fr the interview, this gal shes actually doing the right thing, shes saving lots of gals out their who are falling for very things on a daily. and she has all the right to talk about it because she was involved and tried to play her part to save her friend. mbu your a fake friend. u needed to question her everythg bfr the interview.
That Ka woman is annoying
Interviewer is too dense
Interviewer mulalu
Oba bakajewa mukama katonda,kalinga owa police
interviewer your an professional
1 . That's why all public places must have cctv cameras.
2.Uganda police can't tell the public that from that bar up to Najeera apartment there's no camera it's impossible.
3.Ug police shld arrest the apartment owner plus the security gaurd, there shld be records book where they record pple who come there, what if someone is killed in those apartments.
4. Police shld task telecommunication network of that line to provide data details of that line.
Sorry to the victim may God fight back for you to whoever did that to you.
Lastly interviewer check yoself pliz.
The interviewer she's so biased
Even if she wanted it private...the friend has not said the real names...this is good ...don't call her fake madam interviewer .she has created awareness kudos!
Tell her this interviewer is not professional at all
Interviewer u need to go back and study journalism... U are being very fake yaself
I don’t think she is a journalist she must be someone that just decided to start a CZcams channel.
Qualities of a good interviewer she shoul not judge, dont judge ur interviwee gwe eyamuyise now ur judging her 🤨🤨🤨🤨
You people don't blame the lady,let her tell the story and save thousands,did your sisters and daughters know this story if it was not for this girl
The moderator is lacking proper communication skills
Well stated❤
Thanx for sharing
Wamma we have learnt
U have saved us
God passed through you to warn her. God doesn't come walking to tell you what to do but he passes through people. God is always fair
But who hurt this woman……? She speaks with too much spite! We have met friends that have actually mothered us, sistered us, protected us, and been our guide. Good people actually exist. Good and genuine friends exist! You need to heal, dear interviewer, and kindly be a little more professional. You should have known that her friend isn’t aware before you had her come for the interview. Your making her look bad
Kano ka host mukagobe😢😢😢
The interview needs to take it easy. You are the one who called her for the interview yet you are blaming her for speaking out. the interview is acting like deputy God
Wabula utube yatujila ,Natalina ka certificate yefula omunamawulire laba akakazi bweka pin pointinga fingers so negative, yefula omusawo kwegamba ne interview etama
Such a touchable and teachable story on a wrong channel koz of ka fake interviewer 😂
The interviewer is bogus.. this friend needs to share this story to save other people. Many people weren't aware of such things happening but her sharing this story is going to save so many other women from falling victim to such ga men.
Where do some Ugandans live,not coignasant of the fact that Kampala night life is a hub of all evil
This girl is a fake friend,u cannot expose your mate like that 😢
The interviewer oliba ekizibu cos anyiza
This interviewer shld Jst swallow a chill pill.this story is helping other people.
Interviewer oli ngaa B
Speaking as someone who was born with HIV and has been living with it for 32 years.
My heart is broken. This is painful to listen to and watch.
IMMY thanks for sharing however it wasnt in your place to share someone else's story and worse more disclosure their status publicly without their permission.
This is how my females betrayed me going around telling people my status disguising it as care before I knew it, it was public information.
Thats when i stopped trusting female friends regardless how long we've been together.
It will take Melissa years to recover, she will try committing suicide several times (i did too). I was once in her shoes.
Eventually, Melissa will cut her friends off, she will get very depressed, she will isolate herself and she will make you believe that she is okay BUT believe me she wont be okay. Thats what i did too. She will eventually hate people around her.
So IMMY dont believe her when she says she is okay. Thats her way of saying "leave me alone, i will be fine". KEEP AN EYE ON HER.
Sign her up for regular therapy sessions with a qualified psychologist. Family and friends cant play the role of a psychologist.
Also, Interviewer, its inappropriate for you to host people on your show and then call them fake friends. It says alot about your skills.
The interviewer needs to be guided on how to do interviews she already took a side by criminalising the interviewee it's what if the Immy decided not control herself and end the whole conversation. If you can't manage your anger then stop being a host
Thanks for uploading
Talking is part of healing and strength to recover,moderator nedda
so when a friedn talks then u whose in the situation heals
Thanks friend for doing your part in Melissa's life, God used you the best way He could, but the devil is the master of the Night. The journey deep in Christ starts then for you all. Some mistakes in life are too fatal to relate to.
Naye ddala interviewer kyokola okimanyi obba wakigwamu bugwe??? D qns u wld ave asked her before telling d story atte kyosebyayo u wld ave asked obba she asked her to say d story obba no
May Allah safeguard us all kuba this is so scary .
Am from tiktok to really get to know the whole story.
Ok most of you guys you are blaming the interviewer,but for me i agree with her this friend should first ask for her permission before posting,this is not good
To the person being interviewed.....in hospital they recommend testing for HIV infection 3 months apart. Rapid test strips cant detect infection in a month say if the hospital used advanced testing that look for Viral Nucleic Acid.
Also based on experience you said she could have been infected but dates of disease latency of infection dont add up
Lino ebina lya moderator lyononye interview yalyooo.... But anyways so sad... I was worse raped but by God's grace am negative and now abroad hustling uganda nagivako
May God reward your hustling and keep believing in yourself.
Sidamu kunywa walagi mu baala ne ba stragerz🙌.if not family members nop..
Guys even though you are too emotional about the story, but the girl would have first talked to the victim. Because she hasn't recovered.
The information will help those who haven't fallen into the trap but when we consider investigative journalism, the host is right.
Interviewer to wefuula ategela enyo this is an awareness to the rest who have gone through the same scenario
Had to run from tiktok comments to look for part 2 on you tube😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 god help our sisters
So touching
@@BrownskinEvents-yf4kqpeople are saying you are not ethical in your questioning why call her a fake friend yet you called her to interview her. Anyway me let me listen
This interviewer anyiza🤦♀️
The interviewer didnt know why the lady was here to tell the story, she isnt fake, shes trying to help other people not to fall victims.
I feel sorry for her bambi but kindly let them go to the bar and ask for footage it can help in the investigation of those hooligans
The security guard knew them 😭😭
And the Bnb host must kno them, their details or the right numbers they used to secure that apartment
Younger people when ever you have gone to please use your phone , you can remove the flush right and take pic with out anyone knowing, send them to your friends, you can share them with your family too if you feel like your not safe, don't trust anyone with your life in uganda tulibatemu nyoooo 😢
True
Actually in postmortem the intention is to look for a solution for another person/patient.
This lady is saving others including the interviewer.
2. This lady also got affected by what happened, venting out is helping her to heal as well.
So heart breaking😢bambi..
And she should know that she's not a lawyer in this case
The bar should provide cctv footage from that fateful night.
That’s why I buy my self drinks when I go out people are wicked 😢
That girl came out to save many gals out there,but interver learn how to interview.dont question and blame your guest wetereze
Bambi what happened to her can happen to any girl 😢
I have learnt a new thing move with your drinks because eeeh 😢😢😢😢
This interviewer oba yasomelawaa banange
And guys dont blame the interviewer,to some of us,she knows the gurl code ethics and the reason why u guys think shes being unprofessional is becuz she sees melisa's friend broke the Bestie gurl codes....for u who say this lady is spreading awarenes,fine,but shes not the victim and the fact that Lisa is still alive,she was the one to spread the awareness when she recovers! So bad that lisa is still in abad condition,u never asked her permission before exposing her! This alone will mek her expose herself cuz after all u exposed her! In this case if i was Lisa's frnd,i would die with her rape secret,not even tell her brother without his consent,not even tell our other friends because girls can spread rumour, i would find bestways for her to recover,and follow her up everyday to take her peps!!!! Not untill she would be okay to share her story publically out of her own will...And yeah,if u wanted to spread awareness,you wouldnt refer it to your friend directly without her consent even,you wud tell the same story but in aprotective way fr yr friend and u had to do this after she recovers so no one among your circles would eve think its her cuz this wud b asecret fr two of u. Aint judging u though,you did yr best love but melisa should revisit her circle and know her REAL GEMS!!!
Bambi thanks for sharing coz she won't blame you on anything because God used you to warn her to a point of pleading but she acted rude. you played your part but anyways thanks for standing till now and quick recovery to melissa.
GOD Protect my daughter and every girl 👧 child
We shall blame were she grew from, secondly herself never be alone as a gal , Thirdly her friend never live ur friend alone with people u both don't know, imagine if she was ur biological CCTA PARENTS always teach ur kids religion its the only thing dat will protect them.
The story is eye opening. however it was was not right for her to share without Melissa's consent
Hers is history
But there's that other lady,gal that has learnt from this
Yes the issue of consent is very important.....Immy needed to seek her friends consent before sharing that sense story out there coz when she lands on it, she may feel betrayed. But again Immy has a good interest at heart for girls out there to be very careful with strangers or anybody you don't know what their intentions are. Drink what you can handle...meet new people but continue with the conversation the next day when sober.
Thank you for this insight
She didn’t use her real name
It is her story too because she was involved. And she is spreading awareness. It's important
Something was wrong with this interviewer😮
Interviewer also😢😢😢😢
Mukwano gwe ayinza okuba nga ye yamusettinga bambi kuba yena ayogeza vibe as if she is happy for what happened!! Yandibade akaaba but she is very happy!! Mukwano muuki omwo???!!!
Thats why the interviewer has 496 subscribers i cant subscribe to this account even if oba kasiru
😂😂😂😂
Am sorry also second the interviewer this gal why did she rush to break about what happened 🤷🤷
Interviewer naweee obadeki
Interviewer no wayyyy, she’s trying to force things and then ends up spoiling the interview
Mwana nange asobede,oba yasomelawa
i cant have such a friend who can't keep my privacy, it's like she wants to show how holy she is, and that's why i don't have female friends...u talk before being approved.
Interviewer is unprofessional🥱
Don't blame this lady for saying it, she is saving some souls. You invited her and now calling her fake, its you who is fake. Aren't you the one asking the questions? The lady has done her part and you have no idea how many girls have learnt from this story. You don't need to wait for anyone to recover to save another. There are no real names mentioned here.
This interviewer is biased.... you werent there even!! My dia.
Your so judgemental
You would have asked her before the interview or you would have considered not posting it since you so concerned!
Interview you’re very unprofessional wamma baby girl thank you for sharing me personally I have learnt something big
Who tells you, they use those lines to call people. Its specifically for that victim. This intervier olemwa
This interviewer olemwa. 😢😢
Ohh God
This lady is a bad interviewer, stop blaming someone who has taken her time to sensitive us
How could u tell someone's story without their consent, ur a hypocrite lady
Interviewer Olinga amatako
Worst moderator I have ever come across...so why r u making the guest look bad yet she did all her best to safe her friend n more so she's creating awareness to save other innocent souls from frm those wild beasts tking advantage of our daughters n sisters...not tym try being alito professional n stop yo emotions wen doing yo interviews with pipo more intelligent than you
I don't think you have female friends from yo looks...sori to say n I wouldn't have finished de story if it wasn't for de guest...she's rili a gud n trusted friend one would love to have....stay blessed Emmie❤
Namwe you should have told her parents. Do you know the power of a Mother's prayer ?
Guys u get another moderator because this one is so negative
And so uninformed especially on medical things yet keeps acting like she does
True
This is a very heavy and painful story. I still feel like you didn't have the right to tell Melissa's story. But since it's already out here, young women LEARN😢
Even interviewer is fake why are you calling her to tell us the story 😢
Interviewer nawe totutama. Ba fake friends nga they are creating awareness
So she shouldn‘t Share on tiktok, but it’s okay to talk about on your Show!
But this interviewer is also bogus tumbavu how can you criticise someone you are interviewing as if you are a police investigator stweeeee
Interviewer olemwa 😂😂😂
Laba ono gu interviewer. Guli fake. She wants us to listen to her talk. She just enjoys listening to her self talk. This girl is sharing her freinds story , to serve as an example to other women. Do you know how her story has personaly educated me ? 😢
I was judgemental be4 listening to the full interview but now I see sis isn't as bad as i thought and the interviewer togenda jali nga olina depression u can even end your self
Ehhh tv show 😮interviewer
Interviewer ojira akatwe kakulinga avocado 🥑😂🤣🤣🤣.
My heart is broken
But this is the worst interviewer ever.she doesnt let the lady speak she is always cutting her short.
Whoever gets equipments opens up a you tube channel. The story is very sensitive and the interviewer is taking it like a joke , you got an interview from her and you are calling her a fake friend which leaves us with question marks.
The interviewer so unprofessional, asking silly questions
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢God protect me as l fear that life
Amen
The police didnt investigate, if they did they would have gone to the bar & got cctv footage. We have street cameras. They would have got those men.
That’s the first thing I thought of.
Interviewer nooo u disrespected that lady yet u guys invited her noooo
Interviewer😏😏
Then why did u also agree to interview her if you think it wasn't necessary
But madam interviewer. lol
the interviewer also
She is not well trained after mbu ur fake friends you would have told her before recording a story of Melissa
Ela dala congolese gem... totegela
You would have consulted your friend b4 coming here and expose her bcoz who ever knows you both will definitely know she is the one
Interviewer should quit , she’s not knowledgeable enough u can’t start criminalising the person who’s being so honest with her story
Now days they can detect Aids in few days because u said it is now a month 😢