Everything You Need to Know About Sex and Marriage | MY Story

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  • čas přidán 4. 03. 2024
  • NOTE: This episode discusses sensitive topics. Viewer discretion is advised.
    Over the past few months, I’ve shared some pretty intimate parts of my life, between sitting down with my wife and I for a marriage counseling session, to sharing my wife’s journey of healing from sexual abuse. I am so grateful for all of your support! Get ready to go even further into my story today.
    I’m excited to share with you a talk I gave at The Napa Institute conference about my own journey of healing, how I walked with my wife through her healing journey, and how I found my true self in the Lord’s healing love. I love you guys and can’t wait to share how the Lord has worked in my own life!
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Komentáře • 45

  • @RealLifeCatholic
    @RealLifeCatholic  Před 4 měsíci +9

    Hello Friends! All marriages need a boost, and we have a new program meant to do just that!! 💕 Join the waitlist: reallifecatholic.com/marriage/

    • @deanmarion5477
      @deanmarion5477 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I am on your email list for newsletters and subscriber also, also I meet you long ago.

  • @blanasky4385
    @blanasky4385 Před 4 měsíci +18

    Thank you Chris, married 37 years and a convert to Catholicism. I wish I would have been raised in the church, so much of my failures could have been avoided. But thanks be to God my wife stayed with me and we are very much in love.😊

  • @user-mh9ut7fc3y
    @user-mh9ut7fc3y Před 4 měsíci +9

    I am not married and do not know if I am called to marriage, but hearing this talk has inspired me so much! I want to pray for purity among young people and married couples. Your story is beautiful! Thank you for sharing!!

  • @pamelalabat9647
    @pamelalabat9647 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Thank you Lord. you are truly real and the Lord uses you to speak to me. Thank you again

  • @user-cm3fr1pe5y
    @user-cm3fr1pe5y Před 4 měsíci +8

    Thank you Chris!! SO inspiring- and vulnerable-- need more men like you in our society!! I would love to hear you speak to the topic of husbands creating trauma for their wives that they are now carrying from the husband's emotional abuse &psychological abuse& sexual abuse/ porn addiction/ and using the wife for self for decades.... God wouldn't want that for wives... and the person who was to help get them to heaven.... ending up creating the ptsd/chronic stress/ trauma for decades... there are millions of women suffering in this crisis... and how to see God's blessing in that when that is not what he would desire for us.....

  • @maryeleazer3169
    @maryeleazer3169 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Thank you Chris I wish you were around when my husband and I were younger . We are going on fifty years of marriage and so many things we never knew but by Gods grace he saved us ❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @paulboespflug2727
    @paulboespflug2727 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Chris, thank you for your openness and honesty about this topic. Very inspiring message for all men and women.

  • @carloscamara3911
    @carloscamara3911 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Thank you to you and Natalie for sharing your stories. Being vulnerable and being open is an amazing gift you both have. Look forward to this journey. Natalie (my wife) and I will be blessed on this new exciting journey.

  • @user-nb9ci6oy3l
    @user-nb9ci6oy3l Před 4 měsíci +6

    Thank you Chris !! It is good to hear the truth and to know I am not alone.

  • @ricomontoya4826
    @ricomontoya4826 Před 4 měsíci +7

    Powerful and inspiring. Your story and mine have much in common. Thank you for letting those who have similar experiences know they're not alone.
    Thank you Chris!

  • @Nonnie5-ik1ct
    @Nonnie5-ik1ct Před 4 měsíci +5

    Your honesty is so beautiful!! The others you help with this honestly is even more than beautiful!!! Thank you and God Bless always

  • @stephaniesites3228
    @stephaniesites3228 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Thank you for sharing your story! It is nice to know we are not alone in this world with our own struggles sometimes!

  • @pierscolieri993
    @pierscolieri993 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Sweet and emotional talk Chris. Thank you for your witness and helping us deal with the Real in our marriages.

  • @michelelewis5666
    @michelelewis5666 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Woo-woot! Amen! This was awesome and inspired. You said many common sense powerful truths. Thank you! God is good!

  • @julissaburgos2224
    @julissaburgos2224 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Awesome talk Chris. I enjoy your ministry so much. You always keep it real and for that we thank you.

  • @RelEdStCatherine
    @RelEdStCatherine Před 3 měsíci +1

    Thank you, Chris, for sharing your story. May God continue to bless you, your family and your ministry.

  • @user-lj4vf3dp5f
    @user-lj4vf3dp5f Před 4 měsíci +2

    As usual, truly amazing!! Thank you Chris! Wishing you, your wife and your family every blessing!! 😊
    My husband and I have been married for 49 years and we are still enjoying the ups and downs. Not easy, but definitely blessed by Jesus. If we weren’t practising Catholics it would have been much more challenging. God’s Sacramental Grace acts like superglue, it helps us to stick together like glue.😉👋🏽

  • @janewizmerski8693
    @janewizmerski8693 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Thanks for the truth Chris. Keep it coming so we can spread the joy.

  • @thezeppa1948
    @thezeppa1948 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Chris, I love to listen to you. You are great and make religious fun... Your story is really interesting and I have nothing but admiration for you and your wife. You are such a powerful speaker.

  • @lizzy1826
    @lizzy1826 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for everything you do Chris! May God bless you and your family for ever ❤️‍🔥

  • @SamanthaRossiMusic
    @SamanthaRossiMusic Před 3 měsíci +1

    There’s so much brokenness and sin out there…these stories of abuse and grooming are all too common. But the love of Christ is stronger than any of that evil.

  • @fionacarolan8077
    @fionacarolan8077 Před 3 měsíci

    THANK YOU Chris, for your witness. So good to hear how God has worked in your journey. Your message is good for me to hear.

  • @yolandagutierrez7465
    @yolandagutierrez7465 Před 4 měsíci

    Hello Emma! Continue young lady - I will share with my young friends - so glad that I came across your dad's utube! 💜🙏🏻💜

  • @johncino3309
    @johncino3309 Před 4 měsíci

    Chris, that was powerful & fresh. Thanks for sharing.

  • @teresianbarbada
    @teresianbarbada Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thanks! Much needed 🙏🏽

  • @silvanarossi4352
    @silvanarossi4352 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Wow!! I thank God for all that He has allowed to happen in your life. His living water is being poured abundantly into you so that His Way, His Truth and His Life may be known and lived! So be it!!!!!

  • @gailschuldner2974
    @gailschuldner2974 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you so much for sharing! God bless you and your family!

  • @tarashepard-long9692
    @tarashepard-long9692 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for your wise words and insights. I hope to be bolder.

  • @AnneS29
    @AnneS29 Před 4 měsíci +1

    thank you so much for sharing and God bless you and your family

  • @kimkocuba8215
    @kimkocuba8215 Před 3 měsíci

    Chris, once again, you floor me. I face the same issues. Now that you mention it, they were for the same reasons. Wow! Most of my shame is linked to decisions I made as a young adult, related to sex. I never correlated them to the needs that you spoke of, but I 100% believe that now. I have struggled my whole life and you have made it make so much sense. Thank you so much for being so raw and sharing yourself with the world. You have made such a difference in my life, and I'm sure countless others. Please keep doing what you're doing. I believe this is how the devil gets people like us. He finds that 1 weakness, and he uses it exponentially to hurt us. Most of us fall into the trap every time. I hope that we can change future generations just by educating them. And having people like you come forward. God bless you, and God bless Natalie and your beautiful, fruitful marriage. I love what you said about marriage sacrament also.💛💛

    • @kimkocuba8215
      @kimkocuba8215 Před 3 měsíci

      And also thank you for being so REAL always. 🙌 love you brother!💛

  • @juliegramlich425
    @juliegramlich425 Před 4 měsíci

    What a wonderful gift of self you have given us. We just had Jason Evert here to talk about Male. Female. Other? The more we educate and inspire others to evangelize and share the truth of Jesus Christ the more we win this battle with Satan. Thank you for your ministry! You are a gift from God.
    Julie

  • @katkat2340
    @katkat2340 Před 4 měsíci

    Brave and clear
    God used you to help others .

  • @user-vs7kl3vu5t
    @user-vs7kl3vu5t Před 4 měsíci

    I am ready to come to action on the assaults that are happening on god’s beloved. Gender reassignment- how is this modifiable? Only when human plays God and that’s unacceptable. I’m so broken by this and carry a heavy heart for each and every one that has been impacted. No words
    Thank you for sharing! I continue to pray for your success and progress

  • @deanmarion5477
    @deanmarion5477 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Hey Chris, we know that marriage sacramentally between the union of male and female and sex is a good thing not the love like Eros taking to the next level. There is different kinds of love like, Eros, agape, storge. We want to live by agape love towards together.

  • @christiandpaul2022
    @christiandpaul2022 Před 4 měsíci

    Divorce is the battle over the FAMILY. IT NEVER GETS MENTIONED!. You went on and on about the craziness of the day in gender definitions AND NEVER mentioned Divorce!!! That is where the family is split and passed around on weekends. That is where children think that marriage is just another form of dating. That is where children are pushed out for adults' to find themselves... DIVORCE is the Devils aim!!! YOU NEVER MENTIONED IT!!! You waste your time on some fleeting craziness of gender definitions that will be gone soon. The CHILDREN of Divorce will be around a long time and will produce more of them. WHAT is the fear of mentioning it!! DIVORCE DIVORCE DIVORCE!!!!!

    • @RealLifeCatholic
      @RealLifeCatholic  Před 4 měsíci +5

      I will talk about that in a future episode. That’s its own can of worms. Deserves a whole show.

    • @CatholicBaseball8
      @CatholicBaseball8 Před 3 měsíci

      He did talk about abandoning children around the 30 minute mark

    • @andreanease4215
      @andreanease4215 Před 2 měsíci

      I think above divorce is men not providing for their families and women not staying home. That’s usually the first disordered thing I see in marriage. Women have a right to be provided for, and children have a right to their mothers.

  • @christiandpaul2022
    @christiandpaul2022 Před 4 měsíci

    You are all putting way too much thought into this new gender definition stuff. It is not widely practiced. It is just the craziness of the day and the next generation will regard it as we now regard 'groovy' something cool to say.. It will pass away soon. It will go the way of the hippie generation and beatniks.

    • @conniefloyd890
      @conniefloyd890 Před 4 měsíci

      People thought the Nazi ideals would wonder away on there own. No such luck. Nazi openly walk our college campuses and roam the cities with acceptance. I hope you can see the truth of God's morals and rules being destroyed and degraded by people like you, who hide in your world.

  • @glorialabella6361
    @glorialabella6361 Před 4 měsíci +4

    Calmly, sensitively, and rationally speak the Truth! Have courage to stand for Jesus and His teachings for the betterment of all society. 37:35 🎚💪🙏

  • @anthonyaubreyadolphus6753
    @anthonyaubreyadolphus6753 Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks ! Touched and moved on the road to recovering ❤️‍🩹