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Komentáře • 421

  • @daniellehedger3644
    @daniellehedger3644 Před 25 dny +944

    literally had a guy bring up sex many many times first date then i asked for money and he said he couldn't do that bc he was looking for something real 😂 these men are comedians

  • @caramelBAE7048
    @caramelBAE7048 Před 25 dny +881

    If a Man really wants you.....he will NOT come with a bunch of excuses......he will just go get his money up and give you the lifestyle you want to feel safe and secured.....period

    • @Yogawithadorah
      @Yogawithadorah Před 25 dny +14

      Simple ❤

    • @Mlopesfornow
      @Mlopesfornow Před 25 dny +45

      Exactly, if a man working minimum wage can work a sh*t ton of hours just to get a girl some gifts, then there really are no excuses, he just doesn't like the girl at all

    • @tarrylove6519
      @tarrylove6519 Před 25 dny +3

      That part

    • @NonProphet500
      @NonProphet500 Před 25 dny +3

      If a man really understands money, he knows that beauty fades and about diminishing returns.He's investing for a lifetime not in your lifestyle. You sound broke.

    • @Frances-zw2ug
      @Frances-zw2ug Před 22 dny +4

      @@NonProphet500 i wish that was true but if that makes sleep well at night then OH WELL!!

  • @Notyours9998
    @Notyours9998 Před 25 dny +1146

    Shera seven really helped me to Dump my 7years relationship Dusty Bf .I was once Barabara the builder 😂😂

  • @Sarah_Apgar
    @Sarah_Apgar Před 24 dny +310

    “Before you cook, ask him what he wants as his last meal” 😭

  • @2DivasCallMeMami
    @2DivasCallMeMami Před 5 dny +19

    “Women are taught to invest emotionally when they should have been taught to receive financially”… Words of Wisdom

  • @user-xj7wy6hf3u
    @user-xj7wy6hf3u Před 24 dny +216

    The French word for dust is...poussiere 🤣🤣🤣 poussies literally 🤣🤣🤣

  • @MadQueen772
    @MadQueen772 Před 25 dny +374

    Shera, you have a LOT of other content creators who are jealous of you, the message, and your success. Don’t let them get in your head. Continue to be nice, feminine, and maintain that girlfriend to girlfriend vibe.

    • @rebeccakandira2012
      @rebeccakandira2012 Před 25 dny +6

      ❤❤❤

    • @gabred5800
      @gabred5800 Před 25 dny +14

      Shera is so real ❤

    • @sphinxkitty4951
      @sphinxkitty4951 Před 23 dny +18

      I did notice she was a tad bit short during this live specifically. I hope she’s doing alright mentally I know social media can be a lot

    • @khosen12
      @khosen12 Před 22 dny +3

      Like who

  • @morjana679
    @morjana679 Před 25 dny +297

    At 36:45 that 65 years old man thinking a 22 yrs old girl will date him for anything else other than money🤣🤣🤣

    • @ambernicole.
      @ambernicole. Před 25 dny +44

      He probably thinks he’s hot

    • @Southern.Nappiness
      @Southern.Nappiness Před 25 dny +13

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @mameemunza1247
      @mameemunza1247 Před 25 dny +70

      I met one like that last year. He asked to see me ,I told him we could hangout at the mall and buy stuff. he said he isn't financially buouyant at the moment. I blocked him immediately. Why would I hangout with your teethless mouth and dry pockets

    • @mpendawake
      @mpendawake Před 24 dny

      ​@@mameemunza1247gurl😂🙌

    • @Eva-rk1li
      @Eva-rk1li Před 24 dny +2

      @@ambernicole. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @rymasiuuu6312
    @rymasiuuu6312 Před 19 dny +130

    Glad i found you at my 20's before choosing my future husband

  • @ConservativeBaddieTV
    @ConservativeBaddieTV Před 24 dny +155

    I’ve been subscribed to Sherah for 8 years & I tell all of my female friends to watch her. She saved my sanity when it comes to these men

  • @Rose56133
    @Rose56133 Před 20 dny +95

    Shera is helping us get out off this stupid games men play on us.

  • @therealquin6468
    @therealquin6468 Před 25 dny +195

    That fact the she would even ask about entertaining a friend’s fiancé says it all.

  • @leahbabybeauty5290
    @leahbabybeauty5290 Před 24 dny +121

    girl you kill me, you have the perfect solution to every problem 💕😂😂

  • @naureenwalji485
    @naureenwalji485 Před 24 dny +104

    Shera is so right I put on makeup and did my hair lost abit of weight now and honestly I have people serving me like never before! How strange!

  • @Columbia712
    @Columbia712 Před 25 dny +139

    In Shera we trust! Hollering..... Telling truths!

  • @rababbakhubera2651
    @rababbakhubera2651 Před 23 dny +62

    One of the best videos.Women are attracting not chasing .we shouldnt attach
    to them emotionaliy bc they dont ,the man is the provider we should stop caring ..if I knew all these advices before 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @LifeLessonsforWomen
    @LifeLessonsforWomen Před 22 dny +49

    Already reached a point of not caring a few years ago & it's very liberating!

  • @MissAnkh_ah
    @MissAnkh_ah Před 25 dny +210

    I wonder how many ladies are in dusty and hobosmexual and Barbara the builder relationships while also regularly listening to Shera 🤔

    • @HoneyBunches100
      @HoneyBunches100 Před 25 dny +134

      I’d say its probably the majority. Most of us women realize we’re in dead-end user type relationships, but we need Shera’s encouragement to have the confidence and knowledge to make the change. ✨✨✨ Sprinkle sprinkle!

    • @alyssawalisel4704
      @alyssawalisel4704 Před 25 dny +14

      @@HoneyBunches100facts. Same boat

    • @Njitagwo_Shiro
      @Njitagwo_Shiro Před 25 dny +14

      😂😂😂 many, rich men are few, minus gays of those rich men.

    • @bookbag6432
      @bookbag6432 Před 25 dny +17

      @@HoneyBunches100nah I think most women who watch Shera are single looking for a provider than in a dead end relationship.

    • @pharmakon551
      @pharmakon551 Před 24 dny +2

      Meee😂🎉

  • @sixfigureprincess1721
    @sixfigureprincess1721 Před 22 dny +50

    I AM SCREAMING @ "tell him to go on Temu"😂😂😂😂

  • @zlatnimjesec2706
    @zlatnimjesec2706 Před 18 dny +26

    I became so picky when men call me on first date and don't try to impress me with money that guy never see or hear me again. If men offer me money on first date but start talking about s3x on that first date he also never see me again

    • @hillsideonly
      @hillsideonly Před dnem

      Oh guys, what we do with our lives without aurora mooching off on us 😂😂

  • @Columbia712
    @Columbia712 Před 25 dny +96

    Those English novels on Pride and Prejudice........Those men were sought upon to be able to care for all the Women, in her family! Ijs

  • @datingdiaries1681
    @datingdiaries1681 Před 25 dny +66

    Facts. Just decide not to GAF.

  • @MaisaVahedi
    @MaisaVahedi Před 24 dny +45

    Thank you Shera, since I found your channel few years ago, I stopped being pickmeisha and my man stepped up and is providing everything and keeps chasing and is invested in me ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Belluser-we1uc5cb2l
    @Belluser-we1uc5cb2l Před 25 dny +117

    A loan? That's a dusty lol. Bye dust. I never got offered a loan.

  • @kyrab2950
    @kyrab2950 Před 22 dny +38

    "Yall on your break from the drive thru?" 😂😂

    • @arimababe40
      @arimababe40 Před 4 dny

      I'm so glad I was working from home cause I spit out my drink !!😅😅😅😅

  • @HisSunshine1983
    @HisSunshine1983 Před 25 dny +124

    Sprinkle sprinkle

  • @Itiswhatitis77785
    @Itiswhatitis77785 Před 8 dny +8

    Shera saved countless lives from sui^ide dealin with these men thinking women were the problem.

  • @TinotendaSamantha
    @TinotendaSamantha Před 13 dny +9

    Literally going through a heartbreak 💔 man who don't care...thanks Shera

  • @briannabou
    @briannabou Před 18 dny +42

    Dumped my dusty of 10 years thanks to you!❤

  • @LunaGatuna888
    @LunaGatuna888 Před 24 dny +62

    Thank YOU SO MUCH for your messages. We got to think more like men do and STOP caring too much. PERIOD.

  • @3Sisters.23
    @3Sisters.23 Před 25 dny +50

    I really needed this video. Thank you, Shera! This guy I went on 7 long dates with stopped asking me out and it has been a month since I saw him. No calls, no texts either. He came on strong. I still care and wonder why he disappeared. He just doesn't care, right? Will just care about myself and my money going forward.

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 Před 25 dny +51

      Men date multiple women all the time, so you should do the same. Never stay just with only one if you are dating (you are not his wife). Dont worry, he will come back (they always do) but never take him back (if he comes back it is bc nobody wanted him.
      Date at other people with money, keep on looking for what you want, stay connected with your needs and wishes

    • @3Sisters.23
      @3Sisters.23 Před 25 dny +1

      @@iaf4454 Thank you for your advice. I have already been dating 3 other men and trying to meet more. I still got attached to the first guy because he seemed sincere and kept showing up 2-3 times a week for a month, unlike the other ones. I got too busy at work in the past month, and found myself wondering why he did not call or ask me out again after he celebrated my birthday with me during our last date in April. Time to move on. Online dating really is not the solution.🥲

    • @3Sisters.23
      @3Sisters.23 Před 25 dny

      @@iaf4454 Thank you for your advice. I have already been dating 3 other men besides this first guy, but still got attached since he seemed sincere and consistent for a month. The other dates fizzled out and my work got busy, so I could not go out meetig new guys this month. It made me fixate on this guy who disappeared. Once I finish my project at work, I will go out and date 5 more guys to move on. Thanks for your kind messages.

    • @daniellehedger3644
      @daniellehedger3644 Před 25 dny

      @@iaf4454period!

    • @haryel5058
      @haryel5058 Před 20 dny +5

      She had another video where she explained it well. You should not care. You shouldn’t even think about the reasons why. He must have found something else, so will you . Send you lots of courage 😊

  • @Columbia712
    @Columbia712 Před 25 dny +46

    I just got on here! Girl........Sprinkle Sprinkle!❤

  • @cherosweet5211
    @cherosweet5211 Před 24 dny +29

    "Brush your teeth, wash your face 😂😂😂

  • @sweetdreams62728
    @sweetdreams62728 Před 9 dny +4

    I am stopping from now on my Barabara the builder activities. Thank you so much!

  • @ashleydaniels519
    @ashleydaniels519 Před 19 dny +10

    Ty Shera you have helped me wise up. I’m 41 and I’m done with the dusties. Currently single and will be until a man comes correct. I’m too old to be building a grown man up.

  • @TheFinestGirl
    @TheFinestGirl Před 25 dny +21

    This whole part right here! Stop caring. I need this

  • @kvr.10
    @kvr.10 Před 21 dnem +17

    exactly ladies why do we care when he doesnt care/try anyways

  • @FantasticBooo
    @FantasticBooo Před 24 dny +33

    « Take me to coffee cause I am ugly and broke » app 😂😂😂😂😂 1:41:02

  • @nomessnostress
    @nomessnostress Před 25 dny +16

    Yesss do it in person! You weed out weirdos and know what you really need to improve! Theres no filters, angles, etc

  • @grumbeard
    @grumbeard Před 5 hodinami

    Thanks Shera! You have thought me everything I know about women. Me and friends watch you all the time.
    You are an indispensible resource to young man about female wants and nature.

  • @lunalauritzen8500
    @lunalauritzen8500 Před 25 dny +41

    Im joining your university sprinkle sprinkle

  • @zaz4jaz
    @zaz4jaz Před 20 dny +9

    Your videos give me SO much strength. Thank you SO much!!!

  • @Hardawayfits
    @Hardawayfits Před 23 dny +19

    I only care about my dad, siblings and my money. Idgaf about nothing else😂

  • @JP-fi1ny
    @JP-fi1ny Před 23 dny +31

    Lolll! Shera so quick with the comebacks! She said are y’all on break from the drive thru 😭😭 # DustFree 💫
    P.S if you’re a teenager early , mid , late stay off this page lol enjoy your teenage years it’s pretty much childhood years enjoy it! You’re never going to get it back. I’m 26! Trust. ❤

    • @onlinebuddy398
      @onlinebuddy398 Před 13 dny +1

      What about age 22?

    • @JeanRoss-js9ys
      @JeanRoss-js9ys Před 8 dny

      Same I’m 27

    • @JP-fi1ny
      @JP-fi1ny Před 6 dny

      @@onlinebuddy398eh idk I wasn’t dating older yet. I was still dating guys my age. I feel like your brain and ur actions will give you the ick once you don’t want date in your age range. I started dating older when I turned 24

  • @sharnjitkaur8794
    @sharnjitkaur8794 Před 19 dny +8

    I was with a dusty for 8 years. Shera really opened my eyes.

  • @Ajneewhite
    @Ajneewhite Před 23 dny +22

    All this lady does is speak facts !! ❤❤

  • @vixenvalenzuela
    @vixenvalenzuela Před 25 dny +27

    You never fail me Shera

  • @etremagnetique
    @etremagnetique Před 16 dny +4

    Thank you Shera for being a beautiful light in this world and helping women know their worth and stand up for themselves. You are doing important work 💕

  • @rosequartz7939
    @rosequartz7939 Před 25 dny +37

    This one right here is easy I ain’t gave a shit since shit was given 🤣🤣 not going get me paid

  • @kryztil
    @kryztil Před 22 dny +38

    Shera should make decoy book covers so we can read her book at the bar and he'll never know 🤭🤫

  • @YasmeenMarie444
    @YasmeenMarie444 Před 25 dny +46

    Damn 10k views already

  • @movie_den
    @movie_den Před 2 dny +1

    "Never give a man a makeover because they would attract other girls to spend their money!" 😂😂😂😂😂❤

  • @animeuniversity4808
    @animeuniversity4808 Před 24 dny +9

    U don't call ur friends complaining how u werent able to use the bathroom when u was a kid.
    When u judge your self take care of your self: face mask, walk.
    Lazy? Make it fun

  • @michellefiery739
    @michellefiery739 Před 24 dny +7

    I hope that you and the family are safe from the stormy weather in Houston. ✨🌹❤️

  • @fouzanism
    @fouzanism Před 22 dny +19

    Dusties On their lunch break from their drive throughs 😂😂😂😂

  • @melissakirkland9998
    @melissakirkland9998 Před 9 dny +3

    You go girl give me some money or get out my face I'm laughing so hard I'm crying!!🤣🤣🤣🥰

  • @mavshorts1076
    @mavshorts1076 Před 21 dnem +7

    A man investing on his women with his money is FACTS 💯

  • @beatrix-ec1xf
    @beatrix-ec1xf Před 25 dny +30

    Manifesting Russell energy ✨

  • @d4sabina
    @d4sabina Před 25 dny +25

    the way u looked up then on yt camera at first😂💗

  • @medicalmommies
    @medicalmommies Před 25 dny +12

    Remind yourself who you are! 😍

  • @sylverleneugochukwu9578
    @sylverleneugochukwu9578 Před 13 dny +4

    I have this rich guy who l recently started getting along with, first date took me on an expensive date, second date made me a meal, played the guitar for me and haven’t given me any money yet. He’s stinking rich and l don’t know how to get money out of him stylishly without him knowing it. HELP with ideas SISTERS 😢

  • @patjenkins13
    @patjenkins13 Před 23 dny +8

    Just came on to see if you’re ok. Those storms passing through Houston yesterday looked pretty nasty.
    Hope all is well.
    💖💖

  • @thebookofelysha
    @thebookofelysha Před 15 dny +5

    Use the alcohol for what it's for 😅😂 I just hollered 😂😂😂

  • @FantasticBooo
    @FantasticBooo Před 24 dny +15

    1:41:03 coffee date 😂😂😂😂😂😂 ooooh no I wasnt expecting that Kind of savagerie ❤❤❤

  • @lindseysmalls3250
    @lindseysmalls3250 Před 25 dny +37

    dusty roommate pet

  • @BlessednFavored08
    @BlessednFavored08 Před 24 dny +11

    Can you do a live on how to set men up from the first conversation/interaction (beginning stages) to keep them coming back? Step by step.

    • @IVvOOvVI
      @IVvOOvVI Před 22 dny +10

      You have to be there dream girl

  • @TiffanyWestNyc
    @TiffanyWestNyc Před 25 dny +18

    The law of attraction thing is true 😂😂😂😂 Shera is funny it’s a lie

  • @myramercedesredick1618
    @myramercedesredick1618 Před 7 dny +3

    “Dusty’s can’t afford it because they’re on child support with one stream of income “ so true 😂

  • @PeturMag
    @PeturMag Před 24 dny +14

    Wow, this is some next level stuff you got going on here ladies.

  • @byv2497
    @byv2497 Před 25 dny +20

    Please make the video downloadable

  • @animeuniversity4808
    @animeuniversity4808 Před 22 dny +10

    Tell him ur standards:" i do not do coofee dates"

  • @olyaprokopets2752
    @olyaprokopets2752 Před 8 dny +1

    Thank you for a refresh on my favourite topic

  • @divineordergovernsmylife808

    My beautiful piscean sister 🥰

    • @mese4584
      @mese4584 Před 25 dny +7

      She is a Pisces ? Oh I am so happy to read this

    • @sadeanthony2760
      @sadeanthony2760 Před 25 dny

      ​@@mese4584000⁰000pj p

  • @animeuniversity4808
    @animeuniversity4808 Před 23 dny +7

    Say Yes if is only beneficial
    You are standard , because your embodying what u want > they 'll tryna reach you
    Have category for man: friend, due, freedinner, funny

  • @kidsChristianLibrary
    @kidsChristianLibrary Před 25 dny +32

    I KEEP MISSING THESE IM SO MAD

    • @missede96
      @missede96 Před 25 dny +10

      Turn on your notifications girl

    • @timeakovacs8519
      @timeakovacs8519 Před 21 dnem

      @@missede96😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 1:48:39 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @timeakovacs8519
      @timeakovacs8519 Před 21 dnem

      😅😅

  • @xhenihoxha7093
    @xhenihoxha7093 Před 15 dny +3

    Listening to u its one of my fave things to do❤

  • @Columbia712
    @Columbia712 Před 25 dny +7

    Yes it is!

  • @silverkitty2503
    @silverkitty2503 Před 25 dny +7

    back to basics!

  • @tamikowhite9541
    @tamikowhite9541 Před 24 dny +14

    You know you are the NEW "IT GIRL" right😂🎉

    • @iamkeandra5932
      @iamkeandra5932 Před 9 dny +3

      She been the “it girl”. What are you talking about?

  • @TianaShanteWashington
    @TianaShanteWashington Před 25 dny +17

    She wild 😂😂😂

  • @ritzzbaby8544
    @ritzzbaby8544 Před 11 dny +1

    Shera is literally the goat

  • @Anjjj-101-
    @Anjjj-101- Před 12 dny +2

    I’ve noticed making them spend does make them stay in a way but it’s sad you’ll never find a friend a man fr

  • @DC-se3vr
    @DC-se3vr Před 25 dny +26

    He don’t care ???? 🤣 well they could just say that couldn’t they. Save me the trouble

    • @rosequartz7939
      @rosequartz7939 Před 25 dny +21

      Why you expecting a dusty to tell the truth?!

    • @calliem2024
      @calliem2024 Před 25 dny +13

      Never expect them to tell you the truth about anything. They are in survival mode. You have to be discerning.

    • @ninawestlake5005
      @ninawestlake5005 Před 22 dny +3

      The truth of a man, people for that matter, is in their actions. They should be asking you why you didn't catch the hint, dear😅

  • @theerealdiorr
    @theerealdiorr Před 16 dny +1

    My book will be arriving tomorrow 💕☺️

  • @MattiesVoice
    @MattiesVoice Před 20 dny +1

    It depends on what you have to care about.

  • @The.angel.diaries
    @The.angel.diaries Před 10 dny

    Bingeing on your videos❤ This is one of my favorites 😂😂😂❤ you're so funny. ❤ Thanks girl ❤

  • @jadeblackwell6227
    @jadeblackwell6227 Před 25 dny +20

    Did u know hrh collection watches your videos? 🤔😁

  • @nomessnostress
    @nomessnostress Před 25 dny +14

    This was my problem but I swear no more

  • @Theplaylist510
    @Theplaylist510 Před 13 dny +2

    CAUSE WHY ARE YOI PLAYING GAMES WITH OLD PEOPLE 👏🏽 that is the quote of the century 😂

  • @user-yk9sk7pg6v
    @user-yk9sk7pg6v Před 17 dny

    thank you shera

  • @NightShade671
    @NightShade671 Před 24 dny +10

    You're so cute in the thumbnail image and in the video itself.

  • @dinay8179
    @dinay8179 Před 25 dny +32

    Why do you age backwards Shera ?!

  • @melawieeinapfel8594
    @melawieeinapfel8594 Před 15 dny +1

    People try to see something eval when you state „look what you can get out of them“ but it just another way of seeing always the positive or the best in people

    • @hillsideonly
      @hillsideonly Před dnem

      Only women will see something like this in a positive glint.

  • @ayomideadamson61
    @ayomideadamson61 Před 22 dny +5

    You guys I have a question, I don’t want an old man touching me ,but I have this old man chasing me and asking me out, how do I use him and not let him touch me

  • @liafig1059
    @liafig1059 Před 24 dny +5

    You loooook phenomenal 👏

  • @eclipsedawn9
    @eclipsedawn9 Před 20 dny +1

    Yes mama ! I feel you are a Goddessette here on Earth. Like a Venus Aphrodite Kwan Yen type vibe. And you make me laugh too. 😅❤🎉

  • @nadanalia3000
    @nadanalia3000 Před 21 dnem +9

    These dusty dudes wanting to fly girls around with their air points can’t afford escorts

  • @caramignon3626
    @caramignon3626 Před 19 dny +1

    *reads title* Best thing I ever did!

  • @nixie1986
    @nixie1986 Před 24 dny +9

    34:40 This is what I did with my first husband and I’m with a well to do man. Haha. Get that money.

  • @tialynn1111
    @tialynn1111 Před 23 dny +4

    Shera are you ok because of the hurricane !??❤