I'm glad that I was born with a very aggressive personality. A lot of kids that are abused experience withdrawal and turn inwards. I don't advocate for lashing out, but it is healthier...especially if you can lash out at the correct people. I was able to protect others because of it. I don't despise people that don't fight back, I remember being frozen like a deer in the headlights the first time I was afraid of my own parents. I remember fighting very hard the urge to run or remain frozen. The irony is bullies tend to be cowards. Not online trolls, not schoolyard movie tropes...real bullies. The kind that hone their craft to ruin people for their own insecurities. They can be anyone you think you know. They hide it very well.
I’d say that bullies are not only cowards, they’re weak. They dish out hell but can’t take a feather tap. It is the most discombobulating thing to witness. It feels like a joke in the moment. When we were teens, for a period of time my sister (I’m female - so this is about 2 sisters who are 1.5 yrs apart in age) would punch me (hard) in the arm in annoyance. It might happen multiple times through out a day. I told her to stop on a number of occasions. I remember finally getting fed up and punching her arm (hard) after she did it again. She looked soooo shocked and flinched/winced from the pain and actually said, “Ouch, that hurt” in an accusing voice. She was seriously offended that I HIT her. It was bizarre. You’re offended I hit you once and totally disregard the multiple times you’ve done that to me. I had to explain that’s how it felt when she hit me. She stopped doing it. Many would say her confusion was a manifestation of a lack of empathy but I think it’s more than that. Bullies lack the ability to see from another perspective - like, it’s a spacial thing and not just an emotional thing. I’d liken it to being color blind……or maybe they’re just plain stupid. Moral of the story: you have to whip a bully’s ass before you can teach them anything.
If you don't fight back you don't respect yourself, and if you don't respect yourself how do you expect others to respect you? Don't get me wrong, I hated my bullies, but their bullying was a useful life lesson that only outward aggression and assertiveness stop bullying, and expecting help from others won't solve your problems in the long run.
It is very true. I will add in my experience that if there are too many bullies, yes it is possible, all in one room, and yes they come in all shapes and sizes and yes most want to come out on top, it ends badly for them. They want to be in charge and boss others around but are surrounded by others who want the exact same thing. What happens if there is only room for one boss and only 1 of the 100 will get it? They sadly realize after learning this, and yes math is usually never their strong suit, usually it is emotional manipulation, hence the being coward on the inside thing, that they have nothing to go off of and have nothing else to offer. Narcissism is a part of who they are and in the long run they end up burning too many bridges and end up alone. No group of people to boss around, no one wanting to be around them. They end up even more deprived than when they were young and had the world at their finger tips. At that age almost everyone thinks they are unstoppable, but some know how to get back up and change when necessary. Compared to the average non-bully person, most bullies realize this when it is too late and nobody trusts them or thinks highly of them anymore. Sure that 1 out of a 100 might be living the dream or they might not. Or they lose it all eventually as well, their end is a sad one. At least in my experience, I am 37, almost 38, that is what I observed happen to them in the end.
@@CSmith-tn8nv My lil' brother was a golden child. I protected him from the worst aspects of my parents. I chose to be a lightning rod. He got a lil' entitled one day, and tried to blackmail me with lies to my parents about hitting him. When I said, "but I didn't hit you", he smirked and said, "I know" So I replied, "Well, I can't let you be a liar, now can I?" He got so shocked with that ass whooping. I was the one that raised him, not them. He's grown a lot since then and turned out to be the sweetest human being. I didn't like that I had to grow up so much as a child, but I'm at peace with it. If for no other reason, I raised a really cool person.
It varies. I remember a story where the parents wanted 1 child, but got twins instead, so one of the twins just got absolutely shafted. I wouldn't hold out for reasonable answers, because they don't exist.
My mom got pregnant while she was cheating on my dad. My dad never asked for a paternity test. Instead, I just got neglected and given hand me downs, less food, no opportunities, and no attention, paying bills in high school, etc. My mom followed suite, CT embarrassment and shame are powerful emotions. Over the years I’ve been delighted by such moments as earning a full scholarship and my parents being surprised there was any possibility of that, being told I wasn’t in the will, being asked by them to pay my brothers bills, no birthday celebrations, and being told to pay rent or get out at 16, etc. I didn’t cut the cord completely until I was thirty, but barely saw them after leaving the house. It happens.
Abusers don't feel bad because they abused you. They feel bad that you survived in spite of them. And if you succeed, it only makes it worse because it shows that not only did their abuse not stop you, but that you thrived in their absence so you NEVER needed them
hate how OP's mom wasnt a good mom but expects him to be a good son people who never have a conscience on how they treat you somehow always make an appeal to your conscience, I find it incomprehensible
The "family" would not have given a second thought to assassinating OP's reputation on social media with lies, so he's getting kudos from me for making a preemptive strike with the truth. More kids need to see this story!
When the parents contacted OP out of the blue like that I expected that it was only for his money. But the whole thing about his sister being pregnant was a definite curve ball that I didn’t expect. And of course the parents had to show their blatant favoritism towards his sister by supporting her even though she really messed up.
"She thought I (op and her SON) wouldn't amount to anything and had doubted my career success". Imagine not loving your baby because you arbitrarily decided (with no indicators) that they are worthless, regardless of how many times they prove you wrong. I cannot fathom not loving someone solely because the might not make heaps of cash, how shallow. Why do his 'rents sound like investors, rather than family? They wanted something that would grant them status and prestige but because they were too incompetent to do so themselves they had kids instead to live vicariously through. IMO.
I don't want to perpetuate stereotypes but they sound like Asian parents to me. My good friend went through a similar, less extreme situation. His parents immigrated from China, he chose to focus on sport instead of going to University so they pretty much disowned him going on about the shame he brought them. It was disgusting.
I am lucky enough to have parents that didnt show favoritism. My sister and I are close, and one day we compared notes. We discovered that we both thought at some point that the other was the golden child (during the cringy teen years) and subsequently that we realized neither of us was favored. I liked bigger, more expensive gifts, while my sister preferred smaller less expensive ones. She had many gifts while i typically got one or two at most. It was ALWAYS fair. I got exactly what i wanted and she what she wanted. Our parents apologized (i think they overheard) and we laughed and said we didnt think they were unfair. We realized that years ago. It sucks to hear stories like this because it tears families apart.
@sirblack1619 ... Families are issues, that's what makes them family. They are the first challenge in life that we have to learn and overcome. If you've come out the other side and can still hold your head high and say you survived, you can overcome a lot. Don't give up and don't give in... You've got this.
@@crashybandicoot0136 Good question. I would like to think why some family reddit stories are tales of scorched earth or messy like an AI may have made it.
When he said that woman whined “be a good son” he should’ve yelled back “when was I ever your son? When was I ever part of your family?” Then leave before she could dig more of a deeper grave than they already were in. I sooooooooooo knew it was money they wanted, not “family” love.
It’s heartwarming to see Ops family notice their blatant favouritism and past actions, though it’ll be a constant reminder that they almost made Op go Nc because of it.
I like how some people were like "dont talk about family business, it can gbe dealt with privately". It was like that all of OPs life and that's what directly lead to a life of abuse and neglect. People with that mindset are enablers.
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You're a bigger man than most, OP. Most people wouldn't be able to find a way back from hearing "oh, we never thought you'd amount to anything, so that's why we never showed you any love or care for your entire life. Now give us all your money since you're so successful." like how narcissistic and greedy do you have to be to think that's any kind of excuse and will get your estranged child to give you money? Most people would cut them off entirely upon hearing that BS "excuse".
Its refreshing to hear a story like this one that ends with the family working together in a positive way to mend their relationship. It hurts to hear families get split up, so this is definitely a healing story
Are abused/neglected kids really so gullible? Because I've met my share and one thing they all have in common is that they all learned from an early age to detach.
@@wanderlust3292that's what I'm talking about. By the end of the story, he's just blindly believing everything they're sayingas if they never abused him in the first place. I'm all for second chances but his blind faith is very uncharacteristic of abused kids.
Can be , my spouse still in his 50’s believe and wants a relationship with his mother . Neglect and abuse happened but the most blatant was the favoritism. So much it carried down into the next generation that one of our children thinks she hates him . But that need for some to have a parent no matter what just seems to bypass the truth. At some point with crappy patients we need to come to the knowledge that they will never be the parent we need , want, or deserve. I figured this out in my 30’s . I just hope my spouse figures it out soon .
A Biology major having good prospects? A PhD in Biology gets much less than a most people in the IT field. If you exclude teaching the unemployment rate is over 50% out here not sure where you are.
I am glad you stood up for yourself, it is just unfortunate you did not or could not do it sooner. It might have been a bit harsh, but that might have been the only way to get through to them. I am also.pleased that your sister has learned from this. Even if you never have a good relationship with your parents, perhaps you and your sister can forge strong family ties. Here's hoping for good things for the two.of you.
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In a sea of posts where people don't change for the better, it's refreshing to hear one where people actually redeem themselves and learn to be better humans. ❤ At first when the parents asked OP to practically be a baby daddy stand in I scoffed. It's not his fault his sister was hoeing it up. But at the same time it is also not his sister's fault that she focused more on studies than working as they pushed that imbalance on her all her life. The parents were opportunists which is why they thought sis was going to be the goose that laid the golden egg (technically she did but in a different way. Through giving them a grandchild. Not money.) People will never know their children's future no matter how they try to shape them. Some parents don't get the luxury of even seeing their child reach adulthood through unexpected death. Or a severe injury their child may get later in life causing them to be in a vegetative state where they were accomplished before said accident. Or, in OPs case, you ignore your childs needs thinking they will be a nobody and they grow to be SOME BODY! There are so many routes in our lives. Endless possibilities. And in a sea of people who refuse to change, I'm glad his sister and parents humbled themselves and woke up to their misdeeds. Not only that but actually worked to better themselves. I'm proud of OP for being so strong when he was knocked down so many times. And I'm glad his sister finally grew up and his parents got a grip! 🎉
Should have laughed at their stupid golden cow. Offer $50 payable to a detective to find the mystery man, and leave. Didn't think you'd amount to much? No Mom, you must mean your knocked up daughter.
This story maybe true or a fake. But this sort of crap do happen very often in real life. One of my best friend has been no contact with his family for years because of this. Growing up, me and our close friend group could clearly see the blatant favoritism his parents had towards his younger brother. They even forgot his 14th birthday, i remember this clearly coz, my dad took us all to a restaurant to celebrate his birthday. Now the golden child is a loser who still lives with his parents at 30 while my friend has his own business and living a great life.
Fuck that, I would've never taken my family back, if they'd treated me in such a manner all my life. After going away to college and then them, never even reaching out during that entire time, the minute they contacted me, I would've told 'em to kiss my ass because they know why I don't f*ck with them and blocked all of 'em.
Im feeling really bad for not spending time with my grandparents.... Hey atleast i still have 1 one of my grandparents. She is 63. Hopefully she does not dies soon.
I love this video, and good for you, your family life has gotten better and the parents were bad people in the beginning but the turn of events were surprising and a sweet but sad moment because you could have had this type of life from the beginning.
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Just noticed at the intro My birthdays are always delayed a month later just to celebrate my younger sisters birthday 😅 guess I didn't know that decades later😂
They not sorry for being terrible people, they are sorry for being outed as terrible people. OP is too forgiving for his own good and its gonna bite him in the butt if he is not careful
Congratulations on not being a door mat your parents should be ashamed children deserve to be treated equally your parents have poor empathy and absolutely shame your mother is disgusting she failed being a mother and your father just went along with the abuse
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Uhh.... his sister got knocked up by a guy and family goes to brother demanding him be the kids father/uncle after being abused all his life......Yeah what sane individual would say yes to that?...
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Of friend of mine was blamed by his dad for the dad’s unhappiness. Dad knocked up mom and blamed Dennis. His dad’s last words before he died were” I still hate you “ the dad blamed a child because dad couldn’t keep it in his pants. The dad was a failure and never took responsibility for his life
Tell you what, "dear family", do not expect or ask for ANY assistance from me and I will take down the posts - conditionally. Try to pull your shit again and it will go back up permanently. Capice?
Yep, psychology (and I use that term lightly since it's the american education complex) is one of the most popular certificates among girls, so there are huge flocks of female therapists.
You can't control your own emotions, or else the just stop being sad comments about depression would be legit. No we can only chose how we deal with our emotions.
"Hey, thanks for dropping your thoughts! Yeah, you've got a point - family stuff can get pretty messy, and it sounds like this situation was no exception. Totally see where you're coming from. Really appreciate you sharing your take and kicking off this convo. Cheers!"
You gotta suspend your disbelief and take these stories with a grain of salt sometimes. The more outrageous stories trying to convince you it's not fake after being repeatedly called out for being fake are the more obvious ones. With this one is grounded and could possibly be real as things like this happen. Though the ending did wrap up in a neat little bow so I lean towards might be fake but it's nice to think that someone actually got an apology from their shitty abusive family and is living a good life now so I'll let myself believe it's real lmao.
I don’t understand why the sister doesn’t consider an abortion in this situation. Neither her nor her parents were financially prepared, she doesn’t know how to reach the father as she doesn’t really know him and she’s still studying and without a job. I understand the hormones would make her want to keep it but it doesn’t make any logical sense. Very glad things ended well for everyone tho
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are you fucking serious right now? he was abused and had not support or love as a child and was neglected for years. He is not a ass hole he is a braze person standing up to his abusers
I'm glad that I was born with a very aggressive personality. A lot of kids that are abused experience withdrawal and turn inwards. I don't advocate for lashing out, but it is healthier...especially if you can lash out at the correct people. I was able to protect others because of it. I don't despise people that don't fight back, I remember being frozen like a deer in the headlights the first time I was afraid of my own parents. I remember fighting very hard the urge to run or remain frozen. The irony is bullies tend to be cowards. Not online trolls, not schoolyard movie tropes...real bullies. The kind that hone their craft to ruin people for their own insecurities. They can be anyone you think you know. They hide it very well.
I’d say that bullies are not only cowards, they’re weak. They dish out hell but can’t take a feather tap. It is the most discombobulating thing to witness. It feels like a joke in the moment. When we were teens, for a period of time my sister (I’m female - so this is about 2 sisters who are 1.5 yrs apart in age) would punch me (hard) in the arm in annoyance. It might happen multiple times through out a day. I told her to stop on a number of occasions. I remember finally getting fed up and punching her arm (hard) after she did it again. She looked soooo shocked and flinched/winced from the pain and actually said, “Ouch, that hurt” in an accusing voice. She was seriously offended that I HIT her. It was bizarre. You’re offended I hit you once and totally disregard the multiple times you’ve done that to me. I had to explain that’s how it felt when she hit me. She stopped doing it. Many would say her confusion was a manifestation of a lack of empathy but I think it’s more than that. Bullies lack the ability to see from another perspective - like, it’s a spacial thing and not just an emotional thing. I’d liken it to being color blind……or maybe they’re just plain stupid. Moral of the story: you have to whip a bully’s ass before you can teach them anything.
I agree with you brother, I hope you heal well🙏
If you don't fight back you don't respect yourself, and if you don't respect yourself how do you expect others to respect you? Don't get me wrong, I hated my bullies, but their bullying was a useful life lesson that only outward aggression and assertiveness stop bullying, and expecting help from others won't solve your problems in the long run.
It is very true. I will add in my experience that if there are too many bullies, yes it is possible, all in one room, and yes they come in all shapes and sizes and yes most want to come out on top, it ends badly for them. They want to be in charge and boss others around but are surrounded by others who want the exact same thing. What happens if there is only room for one boss and only 1 of the 100 will get it? They sadly realize after learning this, and yes math is usually never their strong suit, usually it is emotional manipulation, hence the being coward on the inside thing, that they have nothing to go off of and have nothing else to offer. Narcissism is a part of who they are and in the long run they end up burning too many bridges and end up alone. No group of people to boss around, no one wanting to be around them. They end up even more deprived than when they were young and had the world at their finger tips. At that age almost everyone thinks they are unstoppable, but some know how to get back up and change when necessary. Compared to the average non-bully person, most bullies realize this when it is too late and nobody trusts them or thinks highly of them anymore. Sure that 1 out of a 100 might be living the dream or they might not. Or they lose it all eventually as well, their end is a sad one. At least in my experience, I am 37, almost 38, that is what I observed happen to them in the end.
@@CSmith-tn8nv My lil' brother was a golden child. I protected him from the worst aspects of my parents. I chose to be a lightning rod. He got a lil' entitled one day, and tried to blackmail me with lies to my parents about hitting him. When I said, "but I didn't hit you", he smirked and said, "I know" So I replied, "Well, I can't let you be a liar, now can I?" He got so shocked with that ass whooping. I was the one that raised him, not them. He's grown a lot since then and turned out to be the sweetest human being. I didn't like that I had to grow up so much as a child, but I'm at peace with it. If for no other reason, I raised a really cool person.
I am very curious as to what makes parents just blindly favor one kid over another from birth. is it like how cute a baby is? or what? I don’t get it.
It makes no sense.
It varies. I remember a story where the parents wanted 1 child, but got twins instead, so one of the twins just got absolutely shafted.
I wouldn't hold out for reasonable answers, because they don't exist.
My mom got pregnant while she was cheating on my dad. My dad never asked for a paternity test. Instead, I just got neglected and given hand me downs, less food, no opportunities, and no attention, paying bills in high school, etc. My mom followed suite, CT embarrassment and shame are powerful emotions.
Over the years I’ve been delighted by such moments as earning a full scholarship and my parents being surprised there was any possibility of that, being told I wasn’t in the will, being asked by them to pay my brothers bills, no birthday celebrations, and being told to pay rent or get out at 16, etc. I didn’t cut the cord completely until I was thirty, but barely saw them after leaving the house. It happens.
@@Mantelar So sorry for what you had to go through, I hope you're doing better now!
Depending on the parent, they choose who will be the easiest to raise/who they secretly feel closer to, ask me how i know.
Abusers don't feel bad because they abused you. They feel bad that you survived in spite of them. And if you succeed, it only makes it worse because it shows that not only did their abuse not stop you, but that you thrived in their absence so you NEVER needed them
They also would possibly feel bad (more for themselves) when/because they got confronted
hate how OP's mom wasnt a good mom but expects him to be a good son
people who never have a conscience on how they treat you somehow always make an appeal to your conscience, I find it incomprehensible
The "family" would not have given a second thought to assassinating OP's reputation on social media with lies, so he's getting kudos from me for making a preemptive strike with the truth.
More kids need to see this story!
When the parents contacted OP out of the blue like that I expected that it was only for his money. But the whole thing about his sister being pregnant was a definite curve ball that I didn’t expect. And of course the parents had to show their blatant favoritism towards his sister by supporting her even though she really messed up.
I was just waiting for the" give us money" bit!!
"She thought I (op and her SON) wouldn't amount to anything and had doubted my career success". Imagine not loving your baby because you arbitrarily decided (with no indicators) that they are worthless, regardless of how many times they prove you wrong. I cannot fathom not loving someone solely because the might not make heaps of cash, how shallow.
Why do his 'rents sound like investors, rather than family? They wanted something that would grant them status and prestige but because they were too incompetent to do so themselves they had kids instead to live vicariously through. IMO.
I don't want to perpetuate stereotypes but they sound like Asian parents to me. My good friend went through a similar, less extreme situation. His parents immigrated from China, he chose to focus on sport instead of going to University so they pretty much disowned him going on about the shame he brought them. It was disgusting.
@@BlackMetalHeart99same here in india
@@BlackMetalHeart99anything other than medical and engineering fields is worthless apparently according to indian parents
I think there's some gender biased on the moms part, and the dad just went along with whatever she decided.
I am lucky enough to have parents that didnt show favoritism. My sister and I are close, and one day we compared notes. We discovered that we both thought at some point that the other was the golden child (during the cringy teen years) and subsequently that we realized neither of us was favored. I liked bigger, more expensive gifts, while my sister preferred smaller less expensive ones. She had many gifts while i typically got one or two at most. It was ALWAYS fair. I got exactly what i wanted and she what she wanted.
Our parents apologized (i think they overheard) and we laughed and said we didnt think they were unfair. We realized that years ago.
It sucks to hear stories like this because it tears families apart.
same
I love these kinds of stories. It helps me with my issues with my so called family.
@sirblack1619 ... Families are issues, that's what makes them family. They are the first challenge in life that we have to learn and overcome. If you've come out the other side and can still hold your head high and say you survived, you can overcome a lot.
Don't give up and don't give in... You've got this.
Huh. At least this story has ended somewhat on good terms. Glad OP's family became humbled enough to work this out, ish. Take care, OP
Why aren't all family reddit stories like this?
@@crashybandicoot0136 Good question. I would like to think why some family reddit stories are tales of scorched earth or messy like an AI may have made it.
I feel somewhat sorry for the sister. The parents made her overly dependent, then pulled out the rug from beneath her.
They were literally trying to turn him into “Uncle-Daddy”. Unbelievable! SMH
When he said that woman whined “be a good son” he should’ve yelled back “when was I ever your son? When was I ever part of your family?” Then leave before she could dig more of a deeper grave than they already were in. I sooooooooooo knew it was money they wanted, not “family” love.
It’s heartwarming to see Ops family notice their blatant favouritism and past actions, though it’ll be a constant reminder that they almost made Op go Nc because of it.
You know…every story like this makes me appreciate my parents even more.
I like how some people were like "dont talk about family business, it can gbe dealt with privately". It was like that all of OPs life and that's what directly lead to a life of abuse and neglect. People with that mindset are enablers.
Usually the ones that says don't be selfish are the selfish ones.
And that's called hypocrisy
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Fake or not, these stories really pull me in.
To tell you the truth it's great to see the golden child out shown by the abused other child.
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I wisely invested 22 minutes and 40 seconds of my life by listening to this story. Thanks.
Demands you give her money?? Demand you find the man who knocked you up!!
You're a bigger man than most, OP. Most people wouldn't be able to find a way back from hearing "oh, we never thought you'd amount to anything, so that's why we never showed you any love or care for your entire life. Now give us all your money since you're so successful." like how narcissistic and greedy do you have to be to think that's any kind of excuse and will get your estranged child to give you money? Most people would cut them off entirely upon hearing that BS "excuse".
Its refreshing to hear a story like this one that ends with the family working together in a positive way to mend their relationship. It hurts to hear families get split up, so this is definitely a healing story
Are abused/neglected kids really so gullible? Because I've met my share and one thing they all have in common is that they all learned from an early age to detach.
Gullible? I don’t think so. Without detachment many wouldn’t have survived their childhoods
@@wanderlust3292that's what I'm talking about. By the end of the story, he's just blindly believing everything they're sayingas if they never abused him in the first place. I'm all for second chances but his blind faith is very uncharacteristic of abused kids.
Can be , my spouse still in his 50’s believe and wants a relationship with his mother . Neglect and abuse happened but the most blatant was the favoritism. So much it carried down into the next generation that one of our children thinks she hates him . But that need for some to have a parent no matter what just seems to bypass the truth. At some point with crappy patients we need to come to the knowledge that they will never be the parent we need , want, or deserve. I figured this out in my 30’s . I just hope my spouse figures it out soon .
Typical golden child and scapegoat…
And keep the peace 🙄
My mother is like this smh. She won’t talk to me unless she needs something like money
A Biology major having good prospects? A PhD in Biology gets much less than a most people in the IT field.
If you exclude teaching the unemployment rate is over 50% out here not sure where you are.
My regrets in getting a biology degree grows…
What makes other people think they are entitled to others money?
I am glad you stood up for yourself, it is just unfortunate you did not or could not do it sooner. It might have been a bit harsh, but that might have been the only way to get through to them. I am also.pleased that your sister has learned from this. Even if you never have a good relationship with your parents, perhaps you and your sister can forge strong family ties. Here's hoping for good things for the two.of you.
Finally a story where the entitled people become less entitled
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He was right to reject to help them. Disgusting parents.
You know the saying goes the black sheep always have hidden potentials
In a sea of posts where people don't change for the better, it's refreshing to hear one where people actually redeem themselves and learn to be better humans. ❤
At first when the parents asked OP to practically be a baby daddy stand in I scoffed. It's not his fault his sister was hoeing it up. But at the same time it is also not his sister's fault that she focused more on studies than working as they pushed that imbalance on her all her life.
The parents were opportunists which is why they thought sis was going to be the goose that laid the golden egg (technically she did but in a different way. Through giving them a grandchild. Not money.) People will never know their children's future no matter how they try to shape them. Some parents don't get the luxury of even seeing their child reach adulthood through unexpected death. Or a severe injury their child may get later in life causing them to be in a vegetative state where they were accomplished before said accident. Or, in OPs case, you ignore your childs needs thinking they will be a nobody and they grow to be SOME BODY! There are so many routes in our lives. Endless possibilities.
And in a sea of people who refuse to change, I'm glad his sister and parents humbled themselves and woke up to their misdeeds. Not only that but actually worked to better themselves.
I'm proud of OP for being so strong when he was knocked down so many times. And I'm glad his sister finally grew up and his parents got a grip! 🎉
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Hmmm. Golden child sleeps with someone, doesn't get his name, and neither likely used birth control...yet she demands money to support her baby?
Should have laughed at their stupid golden cow. Offer $50 payable to a detective to find the mystery man, and leave.
Didn't think you'd amount to much? No Mom, you must mean your knocked up daughter.
Don't bother reconciling with your family ; they're not worth it.
This story maybe true or a fake. But this sort of crap do happen very often in real life. One of my best friend has been no contact with his family for years because of this. Growing up, me and our close friend group could clearly see the blatant favoritism his parents had towards his younger brother. They even forgot his 14th birthday, i remember this clearly coz, my dad took us all to a restaurant to celebrate his birthday. Now the golden child is a loser who still lives with his parents at 30 while my friend has his own business and living a great life.
I guess OP's sister took her biology class a little too literally. 😂
The greatest revenge is living how you want, other people be damned.
I also have a twin sister and she is also treated like yours but she is nice to me and loves me very much even though my parents treats me badly.
Fuck that, I would've never taken my family back, if they'd treated me in such a manner all my life.
After going away to college and then them, never even reaching out during that entire time, the minute they contacted me, I would've told 'em to kiss my ass because they know why I don't f*ck with them and blocked all of 'em.
Im feeling really bad for not spending time with my grandparents.... Hey atleast i still have 1 one of my grandparents. She is 63. Hopefully she does not dies soon.
I'm glad that there was a happy ending!
I love this video, and good for you, your family life has gotten better and the parents were bad people in the beginning but the turn of events were surprising and a sweet but sad moment because you could have had this type of life from the beginning.
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Just noticed at the intro
My birthdays are always delayed a month later just to celebrate my younger sisters birthday 😅 guess I didn't know that decades later😂
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I'm sure the story is interesting, but I'm just getting anxiety over what a missed jump would mean. Spam that quicksave!
They not sorry for being terrible people, they are sorry for being outed as terrible people.
OP is too forgiving for his own good and its gonna bite him in the butt if he is not careful
Really nice video . Thank for uploading
Personally op's mom gives off the vibes that she only wanted daughters
Congratulations on not being a door mat your parents should be ashamed children deserve to be treated equally your parents have poor empathy and absolutely shame your mother is disgusting she failed being a mother and your father just went along with the abuse
Happy for the op having a better family now
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Uhh.... his sister got knocked up by a guy and family goes to brother demanding him be the kids father/uncle after being abused all his life......Yeah what sane individual would say yes to that?...
good stories 😊
Update the grandma died
He is a better person than I am.
16:54 not that gap again bro that shit kinda scares me when someone says smth after some silence
Why do i feel like they just pretending tho
Wanting to find the father? If a rabbit runs through a briar patch, it don't know which briar scratchef her. .
Karma is so beautiful
Thanks a bunch!
The pragnesy filled the rift between the family
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What is the point of the parents helping the daughter get a degree and then not making her get a job in that field?.
Your sorry excuse for a mother is a real peirce of work
Is it a true story? If so can i have the source?
Of friend of mine was blamed by his dad for the dad’s unhappiness. Dad knocked up mom and blamed Dennis. His dad’s last words before he died were” I still hate you “ the dad blamed a child because dad couldn’t keep it in his pants. The dad was a failure and never took responsibility for his life
I'm the black sheep of my family and this story hurt
To _"parents"_ = **TOO LITTLE, TOO LATE !!!**
I'd just reply a middle finger emoji and ghost them😂😂
“ The ball is in their court “ naah homie, the ball is in your court. They cant play the game of a “ happy family “ when all the dirty laundry is out
I wish i could listen this without the distracting background and popup words
You can
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Tell you what, "dear family", do not expect or ask for ANY assistance from me and I will take down the posts - conditionally. Try to pull your shit again and it will go back up permanently. Capice?
You know you can use these post for your O'C Backstory
And then everyone clapped
i wanna know where this post is from
I saw this exact thing on another channel
*Happy ending anchieved*
I didn’t want to but I enjoyed it, sthu
A story where women are held accountable. What more can a guy want?
It’s like watching Lord of the rings. Awesome, but a fantasy.
This has nothing to do with women. Shut up.
Never forgive.
Nope. Sis is apologizing because she's fucked if she doesn't get help
Seems like everyone in these stories has a therapist, is it an American thing for them to be so common?
Yep, psychology (and I use that term lightly since it's the american education complex) is one of the most popular certificates among girls, so there are huge flocks of female therapists.
I imagine among the middle class. I see some tekiseigo like "speaking my truth" in the story. Nobody who actually grafts talks like that.
Alas too much so.
Delegate to someone else is easier than introspection.
Gynocentrism.
This one ended well.
You can't control your own emotions, or else the just stop being sad comments about depression would be legit. No we can only chose how we deal with our emotions.
"Hey, thanks for dropping your thoughts! Yeah, you've got a point - family stuff can get pretty messy, and it sounds like this situation was no exception. Totally see where you're coming from. Really appreciate you sharing your take and kicking off this convo. Cheers!"
i can take advice if i want to get a child from these stories
what your graphic desing bussiness and where is it am cirus
Curious*
how do we know these stories are real and not AI generated
Because there are actually people like this irl. My best friend's mom is exactly like this lmao
You gotta suspend your disbelief and take these stories with a grain of salt sometimes. The more outrageous stories trying to convince you it's not fake after being repeatedly called out for being fake are the more obvious ones. With this one is grounded and could possibly be real as things like this happen. Though the ending did wrap up in a neat little bow so I lean towards might be fake but it's nice to think that someone actually got an apology from their shitty abusive family and is living a good life now so I'll let myself believe it's real lmao.
I don’t understand why the sister doesn’t consider an abortion in this situation. Neither her nor her parents were financially prepared, she doesn’t know how to reach the father as she doesn’t really know him and she’s still studying and without a job. I understand the hormones would make her want to keep it but it doesn’t make any logical sense.
Very glad things ended well for everyone tho
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😂😂😂
Unless he is lit major. The story is fake
Prove it
Here come the people saying first
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25th
22nd
This fake af. Nobody turns around that fast. OP is still getting played.
NTAH
This sounds fake
We taking bets on ethnicity? My money is on Indian.
Family Always Chooses My Sister They Underestimating My Future. Not with that grammar. They're definitely not underestimating it.
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OP is an ah. He doesn't want to support his family
are you fucking serious right now? he was abused and had not support or love as a child and was neglected for years. He is not a ass hole he is a braze person standing up to his abusers
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