Divorce Court - Rhonda vs. Mark: We Have Issues - Season 14 Episode 93

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  • čas přidán 29. 08. 2024
  • Rhonda and Mark have been exclusively dating for the past 3 years but they have a few issues that are keeping them from taking the relationship to the next step.
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  • @queenella1952
    @queenella1952 Před rokem +5045

    Who came here because hey saw a clip on instagram 😂

  • @victoriasanchez1272
    @victoriasanchez1272 Před rokem +772

    He looking at her like she’s a whole snack and meal😂

    • @chelseacco7567
      @chelseacco7567 Před rokem +10

      I read this and saw it exactly then 😭

    • @Flatlandproductionz
      @Flatlandproductionz Před rokem +21

      All due respect she is 🤷🏿‍♂️😂🤣😂🤣. Mark better quit playing & grow up though

    • @denniswoods8894
      @denniswoods8894 Před rokem +4

      And the plate 🤣

    • @thinadlamini4671
      @thinadlamini4671 Před rokem

      😂😂😂😂

    • @PRPG2024
      @PRPG2024 Před 2 měsíci

      And shes legit skimping, this leads me to believe women really confused

  • @chrissandford3780
    @chrissandford3780 Před rokem +58

    The look on his face was like...AND I'LL DO IT AGAIN!

  • @jakerider2641
    @jakerider2641 Před rokem +61

    Mark be staring thinking “imma lick some candy yams off that after this shit done”

  • @manuelstutts1851
    @manuelstutts1851 Před rokem +76

    Potato salad on the back TOOK ME THE F! OUT!😂😂😂😂😂

  • @GreatAkudo
    @GreatAkudo Před rokem +191

    They belong together. The love is REAL as real can get 😂

    • @JaxLittles
      @JaxLittles Před 3 měsíci +2

      Every time he mentions he respects her, he jumps to her being beautiful. It's not love, it's lust.

    • @heerosagayuy2143
      @heerosagayuy2143 Před měsícem +2

      @@JaxLittlesif you don’t lust over the one you love then that ain’t lasting long

  • @holayou2241
    @holayou2241 Před rokem +300

    She was looking for a husband, he was looking for a buffet and/or buffet table 😮

    • @daekwonrose3160
      @daekwonrose3160 Před rokem +9

      She’s probably not going to find one, nothing of what she said is in the Bible. Why would sex (God created) that’s so tempting for us be dependent on state recognition & a ring? 😭 God defined marriage clearly this false Roman Catholic doctrine is why so many are burning in passion.

    • @Eyezthrulies
      @Eyezthrulies Před rokem +1

      Nah, he was lookin for his other half. Notice that she’s in her 40s and still single. He just knew what he wanted.

    • @ahaaha1411
      @ahaaha1411 Před rokem +1

      @@daekwonrose3160 marriage is an institution between man and God bringing a woman under himself but its vows between your woman and To God its a holy thing the ring doesn’t matter but why not you know it is still a symbol i hope they’re married

    • @daekwonrose3160
      @daekwonrose3160 Před rokem

      @@ahaaha1411 It’s a man made symbol we need a ring to show we’re married and God does not “bring a woman under him” through marriage. He doesn’t need a man to marry a woman for that, he’s GOD.

    • @daekwonrose3160
      @daekwonrose3160 Před rokem +2

      @@ahaaha1411 Marriage is actually a display of God’s covenant and Love for his people. If you haven’t paid attention to scripture, Husbands play the role of the redeemer & wives the redeemed hence why husbands are to Love their wives and give their lives for her. Wives are to respect their husbands (assuming he’s a Godly man & not worldly) & obey as they do for the Lord ofc

  • @markharley237
    @markharley237 Před rokem +130

    Who else goes to the comments to see how good the episode is

  • @lakayetoney6291
    @lakayetoney6291 Před rokem +360

    I love how Ms. Rhonda acted like a beautiful lady she is. Very respectful, caring, and sticking to what she believes. I love it that you didn’t succumb or give into him. I like him as well but he really needs to mature before she decides to move on.

    • @shan5445
      @shan5445 Před rokem +8

      She doesn't give in she is sticking to her believes with Yam Yam being eaten of her body.

    • @cj_hayes_tha_artist8331
      @cj_hayes_tha_artist8331 Před rokem

      Yet she was having sex outside of marriage have a seat plz they both immature

    • @holayou2241
      @holayou2241 Před rokem +21

      @@shan5445 what are her beliefs exactly. Cause I’m confused. She is having sex outside marriage, but wouldn’t live with the guy because of her religious beliefs🤯

    • @benson8310
      @benson8310 Před rokem +12

      i met a woman once who i thought i would marry she had everything i wanted in a woman but her religious principles came first before our relationship, then one day she thought she caught me with another woman (on the phone) then she termed me as the sinner and was very angry with me and did not want to hear my explanation and gave me the cold shoulder for over six months after which she decided to forgive me but then it was too late, i had already moved on, the next girl was exactly like her with one exception our relationship came first even before her religious principles, and now this is our 10th year of marriage, people are different what makes a relationship work is when the two become one, change what can be changed adapt to those that can't, don't look for flaws in one another, trust each other completely and enjoy the ride of life together.

    • @mahailiabrown3972
      @mahailiabrown3972 Před rokem

      She knew what he was like not their first time having sex probably wanted a new person no one just acts like this out the blue if you wanted out you could leave she must love it and the way he looks at her you know he loves her just cuz he's weird to ya don't mean shit

  • @AnointedGiftedsingersofMemphis

    Everybody express they love in so many ways. Even though he is a very humorous person, which it's nothing wrong with that, you can tell he 100% attracted to her and love her. You can also tell the chemistry between them. I believe they are going to have a very fun marriage despite everybody's opinions.

  • @RecklessInspirer
    @RecklessInspirer Před rokem +272

    I’m so glad the judge called him weird at the end bc that’s exactly what he is lol

    • @Cowboys_by_20
      @Cowboys_by_20 Před rokem +19

      They both weird.

    • @kchatman80able
      @kchatman80able Před rokem +32

      Lol if she gave him the kitty he probably change they weirdness 😂

    • @DreamiMusho
      @DreamiMusho Před rokem +1

      ​@@kchatman80able nahh both weirdos

    • @TheTrueEmrys
      @TheTrueEmrys Před rokem +5

      Don't kink shame smh LOL

    • @p9782
      @p9782 Před rokem +1

      Which makes me think she's weird too or she's not that into him.

  • @ladonna9603
    @ladonna9603 Před rokem +450

    This man is funny 😂 he gonna throw your ph balance off but definitely funny

  • @mr.menace0083
    @mr.menace0083 Před rokem +25

    Judge had that look like she about to risk it all..LOL..LMAOOOO

  • @Rawan98n
    @Rawan98n Před rokem +621

    This show makes me feel better about my life

  • @RatchetBeatsReloaded
    @RatchetBeatsReloaded Před rokem +24

    The way the judge looked at em after she was talkin bout them yams 😅🤣

    • @DavidAcekeyz
      @DavidAcekeyz Před rokem +3

      I feel they gonn have better chemistry 😂

  • @mamahlolimasipa9901
    @mamahlolimasipa9901 Před rokem +48

    These two look like characters out of a Madea movie.

  • @bluemicks1
    @bluemicks1 Před rokem +75

    Not potatoe salad and yams full course sides 😭😭 that man HUNGRYY💀

  • @minae9935
    @minae9935 Před rokem +243

    Girly that man couldn’t even genuinely express why he likes/love you. RUN!! He takes you as a joke

    • @Confame
      @Confame Před rokem +16

      Really..there should not be a reason to love cos if it does exists then there is no love .cos when the reason vanishes ,there won't be love anymore

    • @firstname6584
      @firstname6584 Před rokem +10

      on the contrary, i laughed harder listening to her reasons. i didn't see an ounce of what she was saying in terms of compatibility throughout that video. he's dodging a bullet by leaving her be, she comes off super controlling. that's a red flag

    • @Rodayeboss
      @Rodayeboss Před rokem +2

      @@firstname6584 Facts

    • @greatpyrenees559
      @greatpyrenees559 Před rokem +5

      Or he has a hard time expressing emotions verbally… men are not the same as women

    • @minae9935
      @minae9935 Před rokem +3

      @@greatpyrenees559 boy bye

  • @lovegoddess29
    @lovegoddess29 Před rokem +48

    Now I'm satisfied after seeing this! I saw the mini clip on instagram n said that I needed to see this full episode! I think they'll make it. They just need to compromise. Personally I wouldn't mind a man like this as long as he is a safe and good man to me❤❤❤

  • @TB-fk4qm
    @TB-fk4qm Před rokem +197

    This woman said she is saving herself for marriage yet she is doing everything except the act of intimacy. You're still SATISFYING him and pleasuring him.
    #makeitmakesense

  • @eleanorsmith971
    @eleanorsmith971 Před rokem +262

    She shouldn’t be the bed with the man if she is supposed to be a moral women. He seems to be a little off to me. Marriage don’t seem to be a good idea.

    • @rhondacummings2765
      @rhondacummings2765 Před rokem +18

      This Is Best & Most Truthful Comment On Here, PERIODT!!! AMEN AMEN AMEN 🙏 🙌 👏 ❤️

    • @thebarbieinvestor5428
      @thebarbieinvestor5428 Před rokem +29

      Ok cause I’m tryna figure out exactly what they doin in bed that he bringing yams and potatoe salad!!!

    • @claudineroberts6537
      @claudineroberts6537 Před rokem +5

      Exactly. They are like 2 zerre zerre

    • @MsBizzyRae
      @MsBizzyRae Před rokem

      So, she's not sharing herself, but she gotta get cleaned up and shower?? So, clearly she is sharing something. Oral sex is still sex church people. Lol

    • @inajyaharrington9889
      @inajyaharrington9889 Před rokem +1

      @@thebarbieinvestor5428 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @italaydavis5997
    @italaydavis5997 Před rokem +134

    All I’m getting is that man is a real freak 🤣😂 but she can’t handle that

  • @jaysteph3167
    @jaysteph3167 Před rokem +255

    He’s the real reason judge toler left cause idk what he has going on 😂 I was uncomfortable watching this . Hopefully she run fast asf

    • @buddhafortune6166
      @buddhafortune6166 Před rokem +9

      Facts creep alert

    • @foreverlovegreen8843
      @foreverlovegreen8843 Před rokem +1

      He just loves to have fun.

    • @MiMi-gw9hj
      @MiMi-gw9hj Před rokem +6

      His looks says pervert. He is a stranger to the truth and all the little things he is saying in between. She might be looking to settle because she thinks time is running out but he is not the one. He is full of himself and seem highly sexually charged.

  • @iscriptedmyattitude
    @iscriptedmyattitude Před rokem +9

    The way he is looking at herrr😂😂 oh my goddd😂😂

  • @jobi-j
    @jobi-j Před rokem +404

    He's emotionally inept but sexually driven and covers it up by comedy. He knows he's punching above his weight hence why he was tracking her because he's afraid a more capable man would take her from him.

    • @coreypatrick7230
      @coreypatrick7230 Před rokem +33

      Now that’s a great synopsis

    • @BobbyWashingtonvlog
      @BobbyWashingtonvlog Před rokem +17

      Wow that’s deep but probable

    • @LROTV
      @LROTV Před rokem +19

      YOU NAILED IT‼️🎯
      This the 1st time I heard of the "Before Your Vows" version of Dovorce Court. This is proactive and preventative.
      I observed their responses to the question of why they want to marry the other. Mark's words derived from his root/sacral space. Harriet's, I mean Rhonda, (her voice remind me of the mother from Family Matters), words came from her heart space.
      Mark's insecurities, stalking and deflection then trying to come off as a nice guy, best thing since slide 🍞 are major 🚩🚩🚩

    • @benson8310
      @benson8310 Před rokem +1

      Love tends to do that to a person but i think she also tracks him, she mentions several times

    • @iceevc
      @iceevc Před rokem +5

      @Ben Son love does not do this. Insecure, abandonment issues, and unhealed trauma do this. This is not healthy behavior, it's toxic.

  • @DL-go7xj
    @DL-go7xj Před rokem +165

    Nah he gaslighted her this whole show. Run girl this man ain’t serious and he can’t acknowledge his faults. He was lying so much 😂

  • @mellymel6110
    @mellymel6110 Před rokem +61

    “I love him I love sharing “
    Rhonda dont mind getting that box ate.. talking bout not tell we married

  • @thebigtroll5584
    @thebigtroll5584 Před rokem +104

    Rest in peace to your husband Big E judge Toler my heart goes out to you💐 🕊️ 🤴🏾

  • @StrangePrettyThings
    @StrangePrettyThings Před rokem +21

    They are both over 50... three years of waiting...i think is too long...i thought she was much younger

  • @honeydove_4844
    @honeydove_4844 Před rokem +79

    I love the way she speaks and tells her stories

  • @Karileebaby
    @Karileebaby Před rokem +12

    “I thought you were funny, now I just think you’re weird”
    This man … no words 😂

  • @XTRABIG
    @XTRABIG Před rokem +80

    They are perfect for each other!! they are attracted to and care for each other.
    1. she has values. 2. he's a little kwirky ... 3. They both have a matching personality based on fun, keeping things light and exploration.
    they can work through their flaws because deep down she respects him and he would give his life to protect her.

  • @catherinegilbert7057
    @catherinegilbert7057 Před rokem +136

    He's the type to try to break her will instead of dating a woman willing to live out his fantasy simple

  • @tiffany5626
    @tiffany5626 Před 3 měsíci +1

    She sounds like the Queen of Soul🥰… especially when she say “okay”…

  • @MarieAmicalola
    @MarieAmicalola Před rokem +3

    When I heard her say a yam on her leg in the opener I thought that was code for peen. I had no clue we were talking about actual root vegetables.

  • @CourtneeMoon
    @CourtneeMoon Před rokem +52

    This can’t be real😂 😂😂😂😂😂 Yams as an aphrodisiac?? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sharmielleux
    @sharmielleux Před rokem +230

    She want the cow. But she doesn't wanna do the milk 😂

  • @backbonedray7612
    @backbonedray7612 Před rokem +48

    They are both extremely incompatible but I feel that’s why they love each other, she could easily get a church man but she doesn’t because they may be boring to her, I think the stuff she complains about she actually likes but she’s conflicted because her religion is pulling her in a different direction, he could find another woman but he won’t because he holds her to a high standard because she respects herself and preserves herself so the challenge strokes his ego, they are polar opposites but are perfect for each other

  • @eliminatetheleader
    @eliminatetheleader Před rokem +12

    3:30 he's like "damn girl, I hadn't thought about all of that"

  • @nemavenus9156
    @nemavenus9156 Před rokem +43

    She should have found a man who share her same values regarding pre marital sex

  • @rubberducky301
    @rubberducky301 Před rokem +86

    He is quirky but you can tell he loves her and some men don't really know how to express their love with words and that's okay but I could tell that he really does love her and she really does love him They do need a little bit of counseling here and there but it is nothing beyond communication and his last little son was funny cuz why would you bring it to court but the role play part is not weird he has a food and roleplay fetish they can make it work I hope they do

    • @LakissaJ
      @LakissaJ Před rokem

      And he hanging in there with her

  • @libratude9595
    @libratude9595 Před rokem +21

    This lady's voice sounds like Steve Urkel aka Jaleel White, when he did the character Myrtle Urkel lol. Close your eyes and you can hear it minus the accent.

  • @niece585
    @niece585 Před rokem +169

    She should be dating someone from the church instead that would understand her more

    • @XTRABIG
      @XTRABIG Před rokem +19

      have you seen the ratios of men to women in church? the numbers don't favor the ladies

    • @MishasMama
      @MishasMama Před rokem +13

      @@XTRABIG yep and the men that are there tend to be older...

    • @johnmarrero5254
      @johnmarrero5254 Před 5 měsíci

      Yes fr

  • @sweetsweet81
    @sweetsweet81 Před rokem +29

    I couldn't be with a man who can't be serious. I'm all for humor; my sense of humor is A-1, but there's a time to be serious.
    I personally don't think they're compatible.

  • @sashapatnett6497
    @sashapatnett6497 Před rokem +16

    I'm confused as to what exactly she is saving for marriage? It sounds like they Re already intimate.

  • @msladydianna
    @msladydianna Před rokem +13

    He seems a little off and she does too for dealing with him.

  • @51Lois
    @51Lois Před rokem +50

    But you still laying up with him. It's what you call straddling the fence.

    • @Kneeyah
      @Kneeyah Před rokem +2

      Some people are okay with it and know the boundary but he’s clearly pointing out he can’t take her serious because “she’ll do this , which is close to that , but she won’t do that , but she’ll still do this”

    • @jezelltaylor9819
      @jezelltaylor9819 Před rokem +3

      She not going nowhere he got some money he taking care of her

    • @zxnaz_
      @zxnaz_ Před 2 měsíci

      @@Kneeyahis she unintentionally teasing him?

  • @annisaarthur-castro6227
    @annisaarthur-castro6227 Před rokem +201

    She shouldn't be doing anything sexual AT ALL if she want to play that morality card before marriage. She's tempting the man by opening the pack but not letting him have some of the treats. Just because you're not doing plug in socket business doesn't mean you're being celibate/not committing fornication.

    • @claudianabura8693
      @claudianabura8693 Před 10 měsíci +2

      She's being courted your just uncultured

    • @prurose8939
      @prurose8939 Před 7 měsíci

      This is deep

    • @just_bee9482
      @just_bee9482 Před 7 měsíci +1

      I completely agree. The kiss on the lips is off limits if we want to keep it as holy as she pretended

  • @estherrodriguez3782
    @estherrodriguez3782 Před rokem +120

    My man has a food fetish, and loves role play. He needs to find someone who enjoys the same or at least open to exploring kink.

    • @darkpisces8125
      @darkpisces8125 Před rokem +40

      His first mistake was dating someone from church.

    • @XTRABIG
      @XTRABIG Před rokem +12

      @@darkpisces8125 actually... the church is the best place. it's just she needs the peace of mind of marriage before she lets her other side vibe out

    • @darkpisces8125
      @darkpisces8125 Před rokem

      @@XTRABIG churches are scams.

    • @XTRABIG
      @XTRABIG Před rokem +1

      @@darkpisces8125 perhaps. and i've experienced some things that go directly against the teachings. But for meeting women it is one of the best places a man could look.

    • @Cowboys_by_20
      @Cowboys_by_20 Před rokem +2

      Opposites attract , other women like him may not have the morals she does

  • @newhorizonslifecoachcheers

    The way they are before the judge is a glimpse of what their marriage will be like. No, he's not weird. He is strange! LOL Run girl run!

  • @reginaharrigan7454
    @reginaharrigan7454 Před rokem +24

    She using her religion all wrong why guy in your bed if you using religion sister

    • @rezaninorowzin1060
      @rezaninorowzin1060 Před rokem

      Because like most of the women she is a hypocriet she want hem to eat her box but she don’t let him hit

  • @TB-fk4qm
    @TB-fk4qm Před rokem +130

    Ladies YOU give the man an expiration date. Do NOT go into a relationship letting a man drag you on for years and dangle a wedding ring over your head. There is no way the plaintiff should have waited 3 years for this man to marry her. 1 year max to date
    2nd year engagement (WITH a wedding date set)
    3rd year - this is DEFINITELY the year you should have your Wedding.
    If nothing happened within 3 years ladies- MOVE ON. Trust me. You have to be strong enough and wise enough to NOT waste your time with a man. He knows within that first year if he want to be with you for life or drag you on the rest of your life.

    • @TeresaJeanna
      @TeresaJeanna Před rokem +11

      I would add a caveat that if marriage is delayed, there ought to be a legitimate reason. Some people don’t marry in 3 years due to religious differences (waiting on a conversion), job issues (waiting for overseas contracts to expire), relocation (waiting to secure a new home), etc.

    • @voltshocker09
      @voltshocker09 Před rokem +11

      @@TeresaJeanna Or simply she just hasn't shown she was wife material

    • @newhorizonslifecoachcheers
      @newhorizonslifecoachcheers Před rokem +7

      This is good advice and will only work if women don't give in to sex until they are married. Men may like for women to be easy but they sure don't respect them. Their behavior towards women change after sex. Hold out and he will love and cherish you! I'm speaking from experience. I had to learn this lesson to.

    • @Sandrinarhonda
      @Sandrinarhonda Před rokem +1

      @@newhorizonslifecoachcheers exactly

    • @catsmecool5176
      @catsmecool5176 Před rokem +12

      This is serious bad advice and a recipe for marrying the wrong person.

  • @climi681
    @climi681 Před rokem +52

    Lol. This guy is strangest person I've come across, my kids had more seriousness in life than him . He seems a little off in his head

  • @SewingFaith
    @SewingFaith Před rokem +130

    Umm judge must’ve missed the fact that she is still being sexual with him. If you are waiting wait for everything

    • @MsBizzyRae
      @MsBizzyRae Před rokem +33

      This is exactly what I'm saying. She's got to shower and clean up, but claims she is waiting for marriage? I'm confused as hell...you already doing stuff chuck sister. Smh it's funny how you pick and choose what is religiously acceptable and what isn't. 🙄

    • @vibingwithtj7799
      @vibingwithtj7799 Před rokem +11

      Honestly I think that was his whole thing fr. We doing it already y u holding back until marriage like im not already inside u. I didn’t get that but some people are like that🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @aestheticxcheese2886
      @aestheticxcheese2886 Před rokem

      @@MsBizzyRaethe bible says penetration before marriage is a sin I think she might just participate in foreplay.

    • @MsBizzyRae
      @MsBizzyRae Před rokem +7

      @@aestheticxcheese2886 🙄that's so weak. People pick and choose what is acceptable to fit their "beliefs." To each their own but, if you have intimate contact (in any form), it's sexual.🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @alexish8183
      @alexish8183 Před rokem +4

      What I took is she’s trying. She’s human and bound to fall short.

  • @nyjaihraindrop19
    @nyjaihraindrop19 Před rokem +31

    Besides the arguing about him, you can see on her face she loves him 😂

  • @daewestside
    @daewestside Před rokem +1

    the judges face said "im trynna fuck around and find out"😝😂😭

  • @Manewutdahell
    @Manewutdahell Před rokem +12

    She said oh mark, I was with you til then 😂

  • @benson8310
    @benson8310 Před rokem +8

    These guys shouldn't devorce, their life is very alive and fun, just look at them, no anger, full laughter, this guy makes her happy and he looks like is in heaven when next to her..

  • @jodianhall279
    @jodianhall279 Před rokem +15

    This man remind me of Jim Carey in The Mask loooool

  • @martinwestfa4963
    @martinwestfa4963 Před 8 měsíci +5

    They need a show! Somebody has to contact TLC or MTV come on now!

  • @JazzyJeffRealTalk
    @JazzyJeffRealTalk Před rokem +20

    Dude is a freak, she needs a more conservative man.

  • @tj5087
    @tj5087 Před rokem +16

    He’s a stalker. I would be scared of him

  • @LifeOfAnjan
    @LifeOfAnjan Před rokem +14

    He definitely got a new girl after this🤣

  • @candicoleman6548
    @candicoleman6548 Před rokem +15

    I hope she don't married him. We may see him on the news one day

  • @sheeshhof
    @sheeshhof Před rokem +5

    She blessed freaky unc 😭😭😭 he never the same anymore

  • @jeckurkahn5317
    @jeckurkahn5317 Před rokem +7

    This hurts me cause women back then and now still shows how they will never enjoy life even in marriage he ain’t weird he’s adventurous and the judge was one sided

  • @Chael0007
    @Chael0007 Před rokem +5

    The judge loved him😂

  • @Heavenlyhadouken
    @Heavenlyhadouken Před rokem +6

    He nasty and weirds for her and she just needed to understand that ❤😂

  • @teddycarter396
    @teddycarter396 Před rokem +8

    Basically. He cheating. And neither of them give each other any reassurance.

  • @shamay4893
    @shamay4893 Před rokem +33

    Mark seem like he's crazy asf 😂

  • @gloriaculberson3568
    @gloriaculberson3568 Před rokem +50

    Mark is a borderline stalker, I think he have trust issues, I don't understand Rhonda, I respect her for being in the church and having morals, however why would she be in the bed with this man, granted it's possibility it wasn't sexual, yet there's temptation.

    • @Kneeyah
      @Kneeyah Před rokem

      From experience I have very strong boundaries and am very very clear however I got into a predicament where I ended up in a hotel with a guy I was dating and I made very clear before he booked it we still won’t be having sex we were to go to bed ended with kissing and then did he or did he try pull it out needless to say he had a bitch fit and we ended it hahaha I’m thankful I didn’t give him the cookies but bottom line although I have restraint I just wouldn’t put either in such situation unless cookies are been given and received !!

    • @gfox860instagram
      @gfox860instagram Před rokem

      No, he's just an actor/ comedian from Ohio. Look him up, Mark E. Ridley

    • @zxnaz_
      @zxnaz_ Před 2 měsíci

      @@Kneeyahwhy would you lay up with him and kiss him😭you’re performing foreplay atp , don’t do it half way. Bc if you say we’re not doing sex but start to do what is the beginning of something that leads to sex literally 9times out of 10 at a HOTEL why would he not get upset? By you going that far, it looks as if you changed your mind and was willing to come to the conclusion that it was okay to serve him when he was in heat..only for you to go halfway and then stop. Then, he’s the bad guy. You can change your mind at any point, yes. However, if when y’all are in the now and you start doing things that’s having you lean towards being okay with it only to snatch it back the final second…why would he not get upset.
      It’s like if your parent at first made it clear that they weren’t going to pay you for doing something they asked of you after you asked to get some money for it bc maybe it was a hefty job than any other job you’ve ever done. You sit there and understand why they’d say no, but then while you’re doing it, they begin to take money out, the amount of money you requested it and stood by the door with the money waiting for you to get finished. Only for you to go to them and when you go and grab the money and say thank you, they get upset that you got upset that after flaunting the money they said they wouldn’t give you, they ended up putting it back up the moment you went to reach for it. You’re not entitled to the money but the concept of holding it close to your face like that before putting it away is what’s upsetting . In both of these situations, it could be a coincidence to where doing this ≠ that but it’s also a situation to where the person doing it isn’t being aware of what their implications could mean and why. So instead of firmly not dancing around the topic, they intentionally or unintentionally tease the outcome of the person getting what they REALLY wanted.

  • @IdelayCryptoHills
    @IdelayCryptoHills Před rokem +5

    When she said he’s wierd he’s not he just a funny With a God heart character😂

  • @AndromedonThanks
    @AndromedonThanks Před rokem +4

    Uhn they are too cute to be real lol I need this sitcom. The way she says “Mark” is so cute.

  • @iamenoughporter1141
    @iamenoughporter1141 Před rokem +5

    Who else is here because of the small clip-on Tictoc?🤣😊😊

  • @_stlouisLady_
    @_stlouisLady_ Před rokem +87

    Modestly and morally speaking she shouldn't be showering and getting in the same bed with him anyway if she wants to live in a Godly way but that aside what is going on with these grown people??? 🤭🤣

    • @rosey23607
      @rosey23607 Před rokem +3

      🙄 that is not in the Bible at all … in fact Ruth was washing boaz feet in his chambers- which is equivalent walking in a man shower to assist him - sooo?
      David watched besheba bath…
      Sarah told her husband to sleep with the servant…
      Have you read the songs of Solomon… very risqué stuff
      Where is this modest /moral Bible you speak of? Cause I think Joseph still confused about Mary 😂

    • @_stlouisLady_
      @_stlouisLady_ Před rokem +4

      @@rosey23607 huh? Modesty and morality isn't in the Bible?? The Bible itself is a moral guidebook. And maybe dig a little deeper into the story of Ruth and Boaz. It's completely different from the situation these ppl have put themselves in.

    • @rosey23607
      @rosey23607 Před rokem +2

      @@_stlouisLady_ Ive read it and I speak within the scope of this- not the scope of the entire Bible as Gods guidance to His followers.
      My point which you eloquently missed is that even those held high in Gods eye did some questionable things. Therefore show me this moral and modest Bible you speak of! Cause the one I have shows perfection and the imperfection / forgiveness for the sin/ etc….
      Maybe you can study Jesus proverbs on throwing stones …. I find it humbles those that like to judge others- if not.. not my soul not my problem 🤪

    • @justshyra
      @justshyra Před rokem +2

      @@rosey23607this!! Thank you! There were imperfections! God still forgave them and loved them anyway. That’s the point!

    • @runwitvision47
      @runwitvision47 Před rokem +1

      You are 100% correct. Look they bringing up old testament to condone this women tempting this man and not expecting him to respond the way he is. She is outta order. People that compromise believe this is ok.

  • @seanfulton4466
    @seanfulton4466 Před rokem +2

    The gram real life bought me here

  • @hanishamarshall3341
    @hanishamarshall3341 Před rokem +45

    He's weird. She's beautiful. I don't think he gets it. And he wants more loving before marriage and she wants marriage before more loving. This is the issue today. People get together and then figure out their wants, priorities, standards and boundaries after the fact. (Me included) When it needs to be the other way around. Not compatible.

    • @DAVOY2
      @DAVOY2 Před rokem +1

      Yup you’re on point these are thing that need to happen before hand

    • @TrueHeroAriel
      @TrueHeroAriel Před rokem

      I wish I saw this sooner because it’s very true. Honestly would have saved me a lot of pain. I appreciate your ability to reflect on those experiences. Truly a masterpiece of wisdom right here!

  • @Samxsonite505
    @Samxsonite505 Před měsícem

    3:30 damn it this man's already plotting the next candied yam moment in his head 🤣

  • @TB-fk4qm
    @TB-fk4qm Před rokem +277

    This woman is an example of what NOT to do when pursuing marriage.

    • @ToxicAnusPunch
      @ToxicAnusPunch Před rokem +41

      I’m convinced you’re out of your mind. You have so many comments in this thread all with different opinions. She’s a problem, no he’s a problem, you should be married within 3 years. Bro you have to be single. I couldn’t imagine anyone who would put up with this level of judgemental and demanding behaviour. I think you need to see a therapist and I hope you get better. Best of luck

    • @UNCUTVIDZ
      @UNCUTVIDZ Před rokem

      @@ToxicAnusPunch you sound like a female kmsl like for real

    • @G.Martinez1985
      @G.Martinez1985 Před rokem +3

      She needs to stay Single.

    • @calthegreat83
      @calthegreat83 Před rokem

      @ToxicityOverlord the dude is a bit nasty, but the woman has a stick up her butt. How they made it to city hall to get that marriage license and actually consider it is beyond me..
      This is so wild, I'm convinced of one thing, we all are getting hoodwinked. This is more show than reality.

    • @Kingpharaohvids93
      @Kingpharaohvids93 Před rokem +9

      Exactly he’s spicing up the relationship trying to make it fun for both parties she’s to serious a relationship isn’t a business it’s a team thing

  • @MizzSoFearless
    @MizzSoFearless Před rokem +28

    She’s loves his quirky self

  • @djcontrol9783
    @djcontrol9783 Před rokem +3

    8:28 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This will forever be in my mind 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @KB-py8sx
    @KB-py8sx Před rokem +5

    Lmfaooo he be stalking her 😂😂

  • @sheilataylor7497
    @sheilataylor7497 Před rokem +15

    She's trying to justifty reasonings for playing in the bed. Either you fornicating or you're not.

  • @katlegokelesitse7106
    @katlegokelesitse7106 Před rokem +1

    He looked at her like am going to do it again tonight 😂😂

  • @juniorgates5762
    @juniorgates5762 Před rokem +9

    He really could just ask if Rhonda was OK with that kinky stuff. You can't just do what you want and assume she'll automatically be into that. All he had to do was have a actual conversation. I see why she was very reluctant to marry him

    • @gfox860instagram
      @gfox860instagram Před rokem +1

      No, he's just an actor/ comedian from Ohio. Look him up, Mark E. Ridley

  • @sky7503
    @sky7503 Před rokem +2

    Saw this on Facebook had to look it up

  • @novembersfiinest2029
    @novembersfiinest2029 Před rokem +3

    Seems like he loves her too much

  • @catherinegilbert7057
    @catherinegilbert7057 Před rokem +17

    I hope she doesn't marry him

  • @sholondaflynn6483
    @sholondaflynn6483 Před rokem +7

    Weirdo...Run!🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️

  • @whatstemporary
    @whatstemporary Před rokem +2

    I bust out laughing when she said, “what in the world are you doing” 😂😂

  • @SouthernPeaches136
    @SouthernPeaches136 Před rokem +46

    This man actually made the effort, took time out of his day and showed up to court….to play the damn fool. Smdh
    Girl, you’re beautiful and your Boaz is still out there. Don’t settle for Mark.

    • @rhondacummings2765
      @rhondacummings2765 Před rokem +2

      Preach The TRUTH

    • @runwitvision47
      @runwitvision47 Před rokem +2

      Anyone we choose to marry rather they're poor or rich is a settling. Why do yall use that word as an insult. Marriage is settling down period.

  • @emmanuel7485
    @emmanuel7485 Před rokem +2

    Just came from ig

  • @jo-annbastings
    @jo-annbastings Před rokem +57

    I wouldn’t trust that guy as far as I could throw him. He seems controlling, demanding, immature and high maintenance. For me, he’s full of sh**! She on the other hand is a «tad» holier than thou. Leave me alone with religion PLEASE! I found her ‘Amens’ come very easily and it’s annoying. No, they are NOT compatible at all!

    • @firstname6584
      @firstname6584 Před rokem +2

      what video were you watching, she's the controlling one.

  • @holasoyd0ra136
    @holasoyd0ra136 Před 2 měsíci

    3:53 the way she looking him up and down 😭😭😭

  • @doowremaerd215
    @doowremaerd215 Před rokem +4

    4 play with candied yams?? ☠️☠️🤣🤣

  • @bulldogmack
    @bulldogmack Před měsícem

    I saw this on instagram and only typed "divorce court too freaky" and this was the first video to pop 😂😂😂😂

  • @bwoii_tae44
    @bwoii_tae44 Před rokem +7

    Instagram Sent me here 🤣

  • @yaniquelawrence7918
    @yaniquelawrence7918 Před rokem +2

    Instagram clip brought me here😂😂😂😂

  • @yasmeenzaid1671
    @yasmeenzaid1671 Před rokem +4

    Oh no he does NOT love her. Are you kidding?? He wants to marry her because she’s good enough to be a wife but also vulnerable enough to keep up with bullshit he’s planning to do in the future. He values stability but wants to play and she’s the only woman with just ENOUGH beauty to handle his crap

  • @dotmanmide
    @dotmanmide Před 9 měsíci +4

    This is what you need in a 10-30 year marriage. Hope they married.