No, she cares. Don't delude yourself into thinking women don't care. I see men end up in this situation and they get very bitter about it. Just make women feel special and be romantic. Dennys is not romantic. You don't have to spend a ton of money, just don't take her Dennys for the love of God.
My first date with my wife was legit just a long walk downtown seeing sights and chilling. No crazy expectations or standards. Just fun and learning about each other.
Man, my wife and I were supposed to have our 1st date at Saltgrass, but the wait was too long, so we ended up at an arcade with a pizza buffet. We've been married for 11 years, and we still hit up arcades and recreate our 1st date.
That's different because the thought was still there. He intended to take you some place special and it didn't work out. if a guy starts out with Dennys then that's inherently unromantic. You've got men out there who think being generic is going to impress women and they get angry that it doesn't. Just be thoughtful and romantic. That's all women want. if you treat the first date like it's nothing special then that's what you're going to get in return.
My first date was to Applebees and then to the movies. When we got to the movies he asked could I buy the snacks bc he couldn’t afford them. He had paid for dinner and the tickets. Sure I can get the snacks ❤
That's a good dude right there.. 🫡It took some serious integrity, trust, and swallowing his pride to admit his funds were low during the date. The biggest blessing for him is that you took that in stride like a Champ and didn't tear him down at a vulnerable moment. Prayers that things are still going strong.. 🙏🏾🙏🏾 it's such a hot mess outside right now. 💯
I went to the movies earlier this year and my jaw dropped when they told me that popcorn was $10! I paid $12.75 for the ticket and if I wanted popcorn and a soda that would have been way more than the ticket!!!! Shit's crazy 😧
@diamond_cutter I UNDERSTAND I HAVE ONE OUT THE HOUSE AND ANOTHER WITH THREE MORE YEARS LEFT I'M MAKING DANG ON SURE THEY ARE WELL AWARE OF THIS FOOLERY THIS GENERATION IS PUTTING OUT
Only black women came out with this list and they are the ones with the most baby daddy's most student loan debt most evictions most STDs and the least wanted in the dating market but wants to be entitled gtfoh 😂
Literally 5 years ago damn near every woman I met wanted to go to Cheesecake Factory and in my mind I’d ask myself, “why?” Never been a fan of the place but women like it. Why don’t they like it now?
Baby, I’m bougie and my first date with my husband is number 3 on the list. Social media has ppl delusional. I understand family functions, fast food and long drives is a no for me. This has nothing to do with bougie, ppl are just doing the most.
If I can’t take you to any of these places on the *FIRST* date then I won’t be taking you anywhere 😐 Expensive dates are for the second or third go around
If you are demanding your date to take you to an expensive fancy restaurant then YOU should pay for dinner not your date. My husband of almost 17 years took me to chili’s on our date, then we went bowling and walked around for a while. It was the best 7 hour date of my life! Time and people have definitely changed a lot and not in a good way. It feels like I’m talking about different time period. I’m not even that old, I’m only 36 years old 😢
LOL BIG BIG FACTS. Women and Men will break they “preference rules” for somebody they really want. And u can tell the men’s list is trollin on purpose. Tho they got some on that list that is a no no lol.
The only things I can side with are no nightclubs or hookah bars, that may not be someone's scene. Also, going to church is not a date, it's to worship. Everything else, chick is cray cray.
@@SolidSnake240 no. I think Church is the perfect first date. It puts the relationship on the right path. Plus it takes power away from the woman. She can no longer judge you by superficial worldly standards.
I had no parts in that list. When did we congragate? Did i miss the memo lol i like some of those first dates just no red lobster im allergic to shellfish
As….a man …let me stand up for the ladies…..and a word to my young brothers……Listen…The ladies are not tripping like that…..this is all CAP! They are not trippin like that! They will go where ever you take them……
I have a boyfriend now, but before that, I once went on a very nice coffee date and I happen to love Olive Garden 😂 😋. Some women are doing too much, but trust me, there are still a lot of good women out there, don't be influenced by the Internet.
Im just glad i dont worry about dating anymore..my 1st date? Took a bus to the city. Explored some ruins on the beach. Went to a museum. Tiok the bus home.
I don't see anything wrong with most of these places. Now, I'm not going to your house on a first date, and I'm not really into hookah, but the rest is fair.
I concur, that's fair!! 💯 Even toss out the nightclub.. It's too loud! The sad thing is that if you said this in a room with certain women, you'd get ostracized and hated on for simply being cooperative..
Unfortunately, the Internet has a bunch of folks living in a world of delusion... The dating scene is ridiculous these days. Just know the women that provided things on that list, don't represent all of us. SMH DELUSIONAL nonetheless. These would be the same women that would probably never take a man on a first date. Their focus is materialistic, not his character. So many folks are in unhealthy, unhappy trying to come up....
My first date was at lakewood church no cap..then out to eat chilled n talked for the rest of the day..still married 12 years..smh at who made this list
I love most of the things on this list. My husband and I went to the buffet at the casino and had a great time. I also won $ 3500 also. We have been married for 24 years and still go to most of those places on the list. Applebee's is our top go to after or before a movie.
My first date with my girl was a weekend of us hanging around in our underwear watching cartoons and movies. Been together for over six years now. But good luck to you lonely hoes out here. 😂
Places that I refuse to go to with ladies who possess a "list": Mexico Argentina Portugal Morocco Vietnam Columbia Germany Jamaica El Salvador China Puerto Rico Japan Sweden Thailand *Passport Vibes* Obrigado Gracias Arigatō Khob Khun *Cheers*
Cheesecake Factory- Cesar salad (chicken) Taco Bell - MARRY ME Olive Garden - potato gnocchi soup, glass of wine Hookah bar - Sweet Melon and tangerine - anything but mint or double apple Buffet- MARRY ME AGAIN Movies - just don’t try to feel up on me if your a stranger (stranger danger) Coffee - venti iced coffee light creme 3 pumps of sugar Church - not unless I’m on a date with Jesus Gym - why? DONT marry me please/thank you Dennys- grand slam IHOP- strawberry pancakes Bar - meh.. not a drinker Nightclub - I can’t even hear you? Chipotle- is it lunchtime though because I would - buy me avocado and chips though (please and thank you) Long drive - no, we all watch the news Your house- how long have I known you? Family functions- love holidays and bbqs! I want to meet your aunt! (You know the one, THAT ONE AUNT 😂😂🤌🏻)
Omg The first date was Dinner and a Movie to see Training Day. We have been married 25 years. Thru it all its a rich gift. Please make the right choices but I see there will be a great divide.
This list should be a great way to vet a woman. Have her look through it and if she says "No" to any of those places, you give thanks to the red flag she just gave off and move on.
Women who smokes, wears BAT Wings 🪽, women who always have phone in the hands, women who talks 👄 to much, nose rings, eye rings, tongue 👅 rings, 2 baby daddy's or more.
Perhaps someone already mentioned this, but I believe #20 specifically calls out American Black women because it was a Black American woman that initiated this whole mess with her refusal to enter Cheesecake Factory. Fact is a large percentage of jobs in the service industry, including waitress, cashier, hotel maids, fast food workers and customer service are held by Black American women. And these are some of the lowest paying jobs in America. And yet, these minimum wage workers got the nerve to demand where a man can't take them on a first date.
My 2023 lists for these haws , where not to take them ever list --Never take them to a high End Restaurants --Never take them to buy an Engagement Ring. --Never take them to their own Wedding. --Never take you to meet their Parents and your Parents. --Never take you to meet their Best Friends. --Never allows them into your Expensive Car. --Never take them to your House/Apartment. --Never take them on Trips or Vacations. --Never take them to any Fun Places. -Hahaha 😂😂🤣🤣💥💥😎😎
if she likes you, she doesnt care where you take out. if she rejects your offer, she dont like you like that
Real spill
Facts
Fr, cause bish, you gone go where ever I say we going, and you're gonna say "ok daddy"😂😂😂💯 this list is for simps, not me lmao
No, she cares. Don't delude yourself into thinking women don't care. I see men end up in this situation and they get very bitter about it. Just make women feel special and be romantic. Dennys is not romantic.
You don't have to spend a ton of money, just don't take her Dennys for the love of God.
@@malikholmes5045 what men fail to realize is if russell Wilson ask a female for a coffee first date they not saying no to that
My first date with my wife was legit just a long walk downtown seeing sights and chilling. No crazy expectations or standards. Just fun and learning about each other.
A first date should be a place to talk and get to know each other
And that's why she got her a husband congrats to you cause this new generation men I feel bad for em
@@kenpachi465 Exactly
@@kingminos0073 LoL thanks
U both did good.
What’s crazy is she probably met him at a place on that list 😂😂😂😂😂
This is the ultimate in modern spoiled entitled women bs
cry
Man, my wife and I were supposed to have our 1st date at Saltgrass, but the wait was too long, so we ended up at an arcade with a pizza buffet. We've been married for 11 years, and we still hit up arcades and recreate our 1st date.
💯🔥🙌
Respect my G
That's different because the thought was still there. He intended to take you some place special and it didn't work out. if a guy starts out with Dennys then that's inherently unromantic.
You've got men out there who think being generic is going to impress women and they get angry that it doesn't. Just be thoughtful and romantic. That's all women want. if you treat the first date like it's nothing special then that's what you're going to get in return.
My first date was to Applebees and then to the movies. When we got to the movies he asked could I buy the snacks bc he couldn’t afford them. He had paid for dinner and the tickets. Sure I can get the snacks ❤
Applebees and a movie was one of the most popular dates of the 90s, it was a great time and now that's not enough haha. These feminists lost it.
That's a good dude right there.. 🫡It took some serious integrity, trust, and swallowing his pride to admit his funds were low during the date. The biggest blessing for him is that you took that in stride like a Champ and didn't tear him down at a vulnerable moment. Prayers that things are still going strong.. 🙏🏾🙏🏾 it's such a hot mess outside right now. 💯
@@bigmike7925 yup we got married! Our wedding video is up on my page💛💛
I went to the movies earlier this year and my jaw dropped when they told me that popcorn was $10! I paid $12.75 for the ticket and if I wanted popcorn and a soda that would have been way more than the ticket!!!! Shit's crazy 😧
Been with my woman for ten years now. Our first date was at IHOP.
been with mines 4 first date was at the neighborhood diner double cheeseburger and chocoate mint milkshakes
Been with mine for 8 years now and our first date was at my house
Now we're married and have a whole kid with each other, just bought a house and some cars
I got laid in an IHOP parking lot after a first date not long ago lol
Married for 20 years our first date was at Taco Bell and the $3 movie theater and she paid for it 😂
This is exactly why these bishes gone be alone!!! I promise you!!! My wife will go ANYWHERE with me, even to hell if i had a first class ticket 💯
Wtf not hell
@@insideroutside 😂😭😂 She coming WIT ME!!! LMAO
The men's list just came out and women are mad as hell 😂
😂🙌 she ride or die
Guess cause I'm older now. Ice cream dates are fun asf. And I bet she'll meet Pookie and Ray Ray there though😂.
Of course black women came up with this list and they will go with pookie or Ray Ray to a cookout on the first date 😂
PSA......I AM NOT APART OF THAT WOMAN GROUP😂😂😂😂😂
I'm glad you are not.
Thank you!
SO VERY WELCOME, IM NOT SURE WHERE THESE WOMEN CAME FROM BUT I WISH THEY'D JUST CRAWL BACK INTO WHEREVER
They need more than a hug nowadays.
I wish my kids luck out here with this mess.
@diamond_cutter I UNDERSTAND I HAVE ONE OUT THE HOUSE AND ANOTHER WITH THREE MORE YEARS LEFT I'M MAKING DANG ON SURE THEY ARE WELL AWARE OF THIS FOOLERY THIS GENERATION IS PUTTING OUT
If they don't like Cheesecake Factory or a wing joint there's no point in ever talking to them again ever ever ever.
Only black women came out with this list and they are the ones with the most baby daddy's most student loan debt most evictions most STDs and the least wanted in the dating market but wants to be entitled gtfoh 😂
Crank’s right. If a chick really dig you and you ask her to come over to your place on the first date, she’ll risk it.
Literally 5 years ago damn near every woman I met wanted to go to Cheesecake Factory and in my mind I’d ask myself, “why?” Never been a fan of the place but women like it. Why don’t they like it now?
Facts💯💯...and I'm talking about the baddest chicks...they was loving the CF!
Because they're followers, all it took was a couple hundred chicks to dis the Factory for dates and now y'all all gon starve 😂.
@@alb7844 facts
But the thing is the Cheesecake Factory cost more than that whole outfit she got off fashion nova or shein…this bougie mess needs to stop!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Baby, I’m bougie and my first date with my husband is number 3 on the list. Social media has ppl delusional. I understand family functions, fast food and long drives is a no for me. This has nothing to do with bougie, ppl are just doing the most.
@DWFIT yes u do have a valid point but it's hilarious bc the whole getting to know the person is gone reminds me of the Sims video game
Fuk yeah!!!
Me and my wife went to Denny's on our first date and we're going 15 years strong
Man, I wish Kevin Samuels was still here.
You know this damn list wouldn't even exist if he was still alive
Bless his memory and serious works... He sparked a revolution that I'm directly benefiting from in terms of his work with men...
Wtf is wrong with Chili's or Olive Garden?
What was wrong wirh cheesecake factory that one lady started this non sense.
Nothing is wrong with any of these places except Church in the gym
My big problem with olive garden is there are at least three much better Italian restaurants between my house and olive garden.
@brn2579 you got a point there, OG use to be the go to place for Italian, now even Carabbas is better than them
I remember cheesecake factory used to be the grail lol
right, I'm like when did the cheesecake factory become a no no. That ain't cheap.
If I can’t take you to any of these places on the *FIRST* date then I won’t be taking you anywhere 😐 Expensive dates are for the second or third go around
If you are demanding your date to take you to an expensive fancy restaurant then YOU should pay for dinner not your date. My husband of almost 17 years took me to chili’s on our date, then we went bowling and walked around for a while. It was the best 7 hour date of my life! Time and people have definitely changed a lot and not in a good way. It feels like I’m talking about different time period. I’m not even that old, I’m only 36 years old 😢
Lists like these are why I'd rather be a bachelor than take dating seriously
LOL BIG BIG FACTS. Women and Men will break they “preference rules” for somebody they really want. And u can tell the men’s list is trollin on purpose. Tho they got some on that list that is a no no lol.
You forgot,, women who keep their faces buried in the phone or gotta go live!!
Look like she just trying “DO IT” in the CAR!🧐
They didn’t say Top Golf though.
That kinda falls in the same vein as bowling. That list was implying only high-end restaurants and things that would benefit them.
The only things I can side with are no nightclubs or hookah bars, that may not be someone's scene. Also, going to church is not a date, it's to worship.
Everything else, chick is cray cray.
Yea church is a weird one. I wouldn't even consider that one. 😂
@bsanchez3563 And 20 to an extent as well. Why get to know the family on just the first date?
@@SolidSnake240 no. I think Church is the perfect first date. It puts the relationship on the right path. Plus it takes power away from the woman. She can no longer judge you by superficial worldly standards.
I had no parts in that list. When did we congragate? Did i miss the memo lol i like some of those first dates just no red lobster im allergic to shellfish
😂😭💯❤️
Ok well the playground it is then.
😂
"Ms Ladyb!tch" 😂😂😂😂
They tryna have first dates at places married couples save for their anniversary dinners. Gtffoh.
My 1st date , he took me skating. I had fun. My, how the time has changed.
As….a man …let me stand up for the ladies…..and a word to my young brothers……Listen…The ladies are not tripping like that…..this is all CAP! They are not trippin like that! They will go where ever you take them……
Adding ellipses.... Does not.... Make what you're saying.... Correct........ Hoes are... Trippin'.... Point blank.
Clearly not, some women are straight out gold diggers
But they'll let a stud take them 2 all these places. 😂😂🤣
😂 omg I'm dying
Good video as always.
McDonalds is under that "Any Fast Food Chain " part
I'll take them to a local hood carry out LoL
Lol, my husband and I first date was at Borders, Starbucks and the movies.
Great! These are places to take women so they can show you their true colors
Men's list was like 70% in real life tho 😂
My wife and I had our first date at Golden Corral (buffett). Been together since 2016.
I have a boyfriend now, but before that, I once went on a very nice coffee date and I happen to love Olive Garden 😂 😋. Some women are doing too much, but trust me, there are still a lot of good women out there, don't be influenced by the Internet.
Im just glad i dont worry about dating anymore..my 1st date? Took a bus to the city. Explored some ruins on the beach. Went to a museum. Tiok the bus home.
😂😂😂😂😂 MAN IM DONE I BE SINGLE 😂😂😂😂
The men's list is not too far off when it comes to seriously dating.
So basically no women in America?
I don't see anything wrong with most of these places. Now, I'm not going to your house on a first date, and I'm not really into hookah, but the rest is fair.
I concur, that's fair!! 💯 Even toss out the nightclub.. It's too loud! The sad thing is that if you said this in a room with certain women, you'd get ostracized and hated on for simply being cooperative..
The only people came out with this list is black women and the men came out with a list and women are mad 😂
Gotta take em to the 5th dimension parallel universe on a first date. Breaking space and time still wouldn't be impressive
There's no way a real person made this list. Most of the stuff on this list would actually be a fun date.
They wilding out yo
First date is a walk in a park. Second date is my place.
Preach Crank... Ladies need to be aware of how undatable they are making themselves with things like this...
"Thats the point Ms Lady Beesh" 😂😂😂😂omg
Guess I'm taking her to The Cracker Barrel !!
Notice her house isnt on the list...or gas station..
Guess were meeting up at the park😂🍻
Unfortunately, the Internet has a bunch of folks living in a world of delusion... The dating scene is ridiculous these days. Just know the women that provided things on that list, don't represent all of us. SMH DELUSIONAL nonetheless. These would be the same women that would probably never take a man on a first date. Their focus is materialistic, not his character. So many folks are in unhealthy, unhappy trying to come up....
My first date was at lakewood church no cap..then out to eat chilled n talked for the rest of the day..still married 12 years..smh at who made this list
Gotta love 2023
Nah I was laughing the whole time 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love most of the things on this list. My husband and I went to the buffet at the casino and had a great time. I also won $ 3500 also. We have been married for 24 years and still go to most of those places on the list. Applebee's is our top go to after or before a movie.
Crank Lucas in the 🏢
Cheesecake factory nice though!
One of my first dates with my now wife was to a funeral....
edited to add.... Going on 12 years of mawwage
@@bsanchez3563 We laugh about it now. She didn't find it funny at the time though.
MY WALLET MY CHOICE
What is wrong with these women??
This proves women care about the price they have for eachother rather the connection.
"break mah colloar bone" got me
Will i guess we can go on a first date to the gas station maybe the supermarket 👌😂 and then we can end the date a like a subways 💀
Take her ass to the park 😂😂
Real talk, if they expect me to put up for the check they going wherever they want and if they aint happy with it then they can walk home frfr
The Park a walk talk then a nice picnic
_'TO THE MOON, ALICE '🎤_
WOW!!!!!
I went on my first date to Applebee's and the movies me and my girl still together
8 years and counting
Being single never sounded so good!
McDonald's or my backseat 😂😂...I'm surprise BBQ's not up there
29.) the titanic. 30.) a Jehovah witness revival. 31.) a police station. 32.) a marijuana dispensary. 33.) a crack house
😂😂😂
My first date with my girl was a weekend of us hanging around in our underwear watching cartoons and movies. Been together for over six years now. But good luck to you lonely hoes out here. 😂
I'd go to any of those places for a first date except the gym because I ain't looking to get all sweaty in front of someone I just met and church.
Shit….iam 😏💪🏾
Places that I refuse to go to with ladies who possess a "list":
Mexico
Argentina
Portugal
Morocco
Vietnam
Columbia
Germany
Jamaica
El Salvador
China
Puerto Rico
Japan
Sweden
Thailand
*Passport Vibes*
Obrigado
Gracias
Arigatō
Khob Khun
*Cheers*
Absolutely avoid the single mothers
Add to this list women that don’t go to the gym. Women that work at hooters or similar places. Stay strong men
We going where i say we going or she can slide joe frfr the audacity 😂🤦
People need to stop being so formal and just be human.
Cheesecake Factory- Cesar salad (chicken)
Taco Bell - MARRY ME
Olive Garden - potato gnocchi soup, glass of wine
Hookah bar - Sweet Melon and tangerine - anything but mint or double apple
Buffet- MARRY ME AGAIN
Movies - just don’t try to feel up on me if your a stranger (stranger danger)
Coffee - venti iced coffee light creme 3 pumps of sugar
Church - not unless I’m on a date with Jesus
Gym - why? DONT marry me please/thank you
Dennys- grand slam
IHOP- strawberry pancakes
Bar - meh.. not a drinker
Nightclub - I can’t even hear you?
Chipotle- is it lunchtime though because I would - buy me avocado and chips though (please and thank you)
Long drive - no, we all watch the news
Your house- how long have I known you?
Family functions- love holidays and bbqs! I want to meet your aunt! (You know the one, THAT ONE AUNT 😂😂🤌🏻)
Omg The first date was Dinner and a Movie to see Training Day. We have been married 25 years. Thru it all its a rich gift. Please make the right choices but I see there will be a great divide.
This list should be a great way to vet a woman. Have her look through it and if she says "No" to any of those places, you give thanks to the red flag she just gave off and move on.
One of my first dates was watching the black panther at the movies, and it was one of the best dates I've ever been on, are you kidding me?
Women who smokes, wears BAT Wings 🪽, women who always have phone in the hands, women who talks 👄 to much, nose rings, eye rings, tongue 👅 rings, 2 baby daddy's or more.
They want you to bring them to the strip clubs because they miss their friends so fast
Perhaps someone already mentioned this, but I believe #20 specifically calls out American Black women because it was a Black American woman that initiated this whole mess with her refusal to enter Cheesecake Factory. Fact is a large percentage of jobs in the service industry, including waitress, cashier, hotel maids, fast food workers and customer service are held by Black American women. And these are some of the lowest paying jobs in America. And yet, these minimum wage workers got the nerve to demand where a man can't take them on a first date.
I don’t know who wrote this list but the ONLY things I won’t go to is your home &meet your family cause I love to EAT, workout, movies &dancing
I am not saying this is right but b thankful u got a meal
First date with my husband dennys and movies i was 17years old it was great together 20 years
Is Hooters a wing place?
XD
My 1st date with my wife of 22 years was Dairy Queen and putt putt
Who takes someone to movies for date 🤦♀️
See I just assumed this list is a troll cause that’s literally a double edged sword on pen and paper😅
Halarious 😅😅😅
My 2023 lists for these haws , where not to take them ever list
--Never take them to a high End Restaurants
--Never take them to buy an Engagement Ring.
--Never take them to their own Wedding.
--Never take you to meet their Parents and your Parents.
--Never take you to meet their Best Friends.
--Never allows them into your Expensive Car.
--Never take them to your House/Apartment.
--Never take them on Trips or Vacations.
--Never take them to any Fun Places.
-Hahaha 😂😂🤣🤣💥💥😎😎
What about a museum? I once took a first date there...